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Home » News from Thailand » Alarming numbers of Thai women are being abused, cheated and raped
Alarming numbers of Thai women are being abused, cheated and raped
Research by the Women and Men Progressive Movement Foundation (WMP) among 1.608 Thai women and men aged 17 to 40 shows that many women are abused, cheated and raped.
Violence against women in Thailand often takes place under the influence of alcohol or drugs. But women are also abused for infidelity and jealousy.
WMP spokeswoman Sitthisak explains the violence mainly from the dominant male society in Thailand.
About love, 76,8 percent of the respondents said that women should be in a monogamous relationship. Nearly 48 percent say the man is the head of the household. More than 43 percent believed that wives and girlfriends should be obedient and pay attention to their partner. Even 40 percent of men consider women their "property."
Domestic violence is a major social problem in Thailand. In many cases, the police refuse to record a report, because it is regarded as a family matter that should not be resolved by the police, but by the family itself.
Source: Bangkok Post
Sad and sad…unfortunately…but true. And now it's becoming clearer why Thai men don't like farangs at all…because most of us are the opposite of them.
Domestic violence is a major social problem in Thailand. In many cases, the police refuse to record a report, because it is regarded as a family matter that should not be resolved by the police, but by the family itself.
This fact proves that Thailand, a country that I very often speak positively about and that I defend very often here on the forum, is still very far from the label 'civilized country'.
A country that does not criminally prosecute domestic violence is seriously lagging behind!!
In the West there is also a lot of family violence, but there the signal is given that this is very reprehensible and also punishable.
Thailand would also better act quickly on this, just like some other questionable phenomena…
My ex got into a relationship with another man who abused her almost daily with one hospitalization. She filed a report with the police. The first three times she agreed to a 'deliberation' where the victim, the perpetrator and family members meet at the police station, tell their story and promise to get better.
The fourth time she continued the report and the man disappeared behind bars for 2 years. After his release she had nightmares but nothing happened.
This is common practice. If the woman persists, the case always goes to the public prosecutor and the court, but often a reconciliation is tried first.
In my opinion, our society is largely kept tidy by legislation and the resulting protection from the environment.
Our law allows women (and sometimes men) who are abused to make the choice to take the step to leave the relationship. There are shelter options, the partner must provide financial assistance to his ex and children, the environment does not consider violence within a relationship normal. All things that contribute to a piece of protection for the victim.
When there is more protection for women in Thailand and more (financial) consequences for men, the situation in Thailand will also slowly improve.
But that's where the rub is. Women in Thailand are not protected, and men are shielded from the consequences of their behaviour. That starts in education. Boys in Thailand are released: not in freedom, only in non-commitment. On the other hand, girls in Thailand are told that there are obligations for them. Among other things, that they are of service. Girls get urgent directions from father, grandpa, brother, uncle, cousin, etc. Later on from boyfriends. This also explains the high number of teenage mothers. That also explains why later women look for a farang. The explanation of the WMP spokeswoman in the article that Thai society is based on male dominance is telling, not the result of research, but an observation through the ages. Thailand is a country that is not ready to change in any way. There are no signs that society wants to democratize, nor that the population wants to emancipate. Those few who do try are immediately gagged. The ruling class wants it that way, the wealthier middle class benefits, the lower class complies. And the blows fall on the weak. Poor Thailand.
The original article states that 1608 are 'female respondents'.
It is also a pity that the figures are not compared to similar studies in other countries.
Without wanting to claim that all farang are equally sweet, it is certain that the Thai man does not have the best reputation worldwide and there must be some truth to that.
The impression that the Thai government is blind to this is not correct, in 2007 the 'Domestic Violence Law' was enacted, which not only aims to punish perpetrators, but also to 're-educate' them, in the positive sense of the words. A fairly modern take on the matter.
Organizations such as the WMP keep a finger on the pulse and that is a good thing.
You can sometimes question the figures from the study (for example, 20% report that their hubby sometimes has sex without anything being done about contraception, while 40% report that they have been forced to have an abortion, which does not seem to completely compatible with each other), but simply drawing attention to this problem still seems necessary for the time being.
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http://www.siam-legal.com/thailand-law/domestic-violence-law-in-thailand/
In the above article from Thailandblog it is quoted that the Thai WMP reports that: many women are abused, cheated and raped. WMP reports this after talking to 1608 women. Even if it had been 16080, the results would probably have been the same or worse. The article says nothing about domestic violence, but makes a connection with a completely different social problem, namely the dominant attitude of men towards women in Thailand. Such an attitude is not only foreign to Thailand. It occurs in many other countries and in many different societies. There are many examples of religion-based societies in which men hold very prominent positions, even leading to the complete disappearance of women from the streets. This is not the case in Thailand. Thailand is a 'religion' based country. Makha Bucha is one example, and the upcoming inauguration of the new 20th Supreme Patriarch today, another. What the WMP report is about is that it is very surprising that in a country like Thailand, steeped in Buddhism, there is so much violence between men and women alone, let alone in families and other households, not yet talked about traffic violence, and remained silent about all deadly violence after losing face. Recently a 17 year old lost his life because of this. Ah, TIT! However?
Violence against women and children is a regular occurrence in many Thai soap operas and TV series.
This will undoubtedly contribute to the idea that such practices are seen as 'normal'.
Incidentally, domestic violence is also a common crime among all walks of life in European countries, so Thai men are not so different from other men in this regard, and not only in Europe.
The question of whether Thai men are more violent than non-Thai men is not reflected in the figures and was not the subject of research.
As long as those figures do not exist, it is premature to conclude that 'farang' would deal better with (Thai) women than Thai men, as some assume according to their reactions.