Dear readers,

Hello, I wanted to ask you where I could meet a sweet and nice Thai girl for a relationship here somewhere in Belgium or the Netherlands or in Thailand?

Yours faithfully,

Sven

19 Responses to “Reader Question: Where can I get to know a sweet and nice Thai girl for a relationship?”

  1. Pieter says up

    Hello Sven,

    I have good experiences with the people of Thai Family: take a look http://www.thai-family.nl

    Succes

    Pieter

  2. Bompa Noise says up

    With the information you give about yourself you will certainly get first choice.
    Purchasing a Thai (or another lady) is not part of the showcase of most Thailand enthusiasts.
    There too (I mean Thailand) we speak with the necessary respect about relationships and people.
    Good luck with your hunt.
    Bompa Noise

    • According to says up

      Strange response this. Sven's message says nothing at all about whether or not respect for women.

      By the way, “should” should be spelled with a t, but that aside.

      You could try it on a dating site Sven. Thaicupid.com for example, or Thaifriendly.com. The latter is a free site.

      Good luck with you…. quest.

      • pattie says up

        Sven's question also seems a bit ambiguous and/or strange to me.
        If Sven is Belgian, he can go to Bredene the last weekend of August, there is the largest Thai market in Belgium and the most beautiful, the Netherlands and Germany are also present there.
        As for a free dating site, I have my reservations, only the sun is free.
        I hope I haven't written too many mistakes, if it turns out please excuse my modesty.
        With kind regards

  3. Marcel says up

    Ever thought of visiting a Thai restaurant in B or NLD as a 'fish pond'?
    In Thailand itself you will of course come across 'sweet' Thai candidates everywhere and especially 🙂
    Good luck!

  4. Eric Vantilborgh says up

    With all due respect Sven, but I hate these kinds of calls now. You clearly have no understanding or experience with the Thai world at all. It is by the “Pattaya-goers” and a lot of the media that Thailand is regarded as a “supplier of women”. I have to agree with Bompa Nolaai 100% here: Thai women are not in the display window.
    If you really want to immerse yourself in the Thai world then I do indeed advise you to become a regular visitor to a Thai restaurant or cafe in B or NL. If you are sympathetic yourself then the contacts will come naturally after a while .
    And if the contacts come from minute 1, then it is usually not the right contact.
    I wish you the best of luck in your “possible future relationship with a Thai”, but you may already be able to start changing your approach.
    Regards ,
    Erik

  5. Pat says up

    Dear Sven, if I were a girl and I found out that you were asking how to find a girl via a forum/blog, I would no longer be interested in you at all.

    What do you now expect from the readers?
    That we list a number of places where you can stand or sit, waiting for one to come towards you?

    Show self-respect, respect the girls you would like to get to know, and be honest in your dealings…

    I also don't quite understand why it has to be a Thai girl?

    Or those girls attract you, which is possible and allowed, but then you should know where you can meet them.
    Either you think you will find easy/benevolent prey in a Thai girl or you have been disrespectfully led to believe that they will come to you like a magnet.

    The latter can happen, but then you have to have something more to offer than an unmanly appeal via a readers' column.

  6. Piet says up

    Sven go to walking street nice and faithful until your money is gone

  7. Koetjeboo says up

    Here in Cha-am, you can do it in 5 minutes.
    Just go to the entertainment street, there you will find dozens of ladies, very sweet, who will join you in no time.
    The second choice are the massages, wonderfully sweet ladies, who have already had quite a few Farangs.
    I know several foreigners here who got married or started dating in such a way.
    Quick and easy.
    Succes

  8. Marcel says up

    I met a good woman in Samui through Badoo, badoo is known worldwide and free, worth a try I would say.

  9. Rob says up

    Hi Sven
    I don't understand why some here are so negative about this.
    Because if you don't know how to get in touch with a certain type of woman.
    I think you can ask someone or here.
    I really don't know where the disrespect comes from.
    I used to be interested in Asian ladies.
    But I also didn't know where to contact them.
    And I didn't dare to go to Thailand alone either, it was quite a step.
    I have had a relationship twice with a Thai lady, with no success.
    Don't want it anymore, for the well-known reason, money and the rest.
    Now I was also looking for an Asian lady.
    And I started looking for a Filipino on philipincupido.
    I went to the Philippines.
    Met a perfect lady for me never had any problems with money.
    While she knows real poverty.
    But you do need to know where to look.
    And be lucky, and I was.
    Sven I would say just try on the internet, see if the photos are real.
    Normal photos in normal environment not just where they are professionally done.
    Steven good luck

  10. Timo says up

    Hi Swen, if I had some more information from you I might know something.
    How old are you? What do you do for a living? What is your education? Why do you want to get to know a Thai girl? What are your plans, intentions.
    Regards Timo

  11. Evans says up

    Dear Sven,

    You must have missed the announcement of the Thai Embassy Netherlands…
    July 11-12 there is a Thai … kind of Ind Pasar Malam … in The Hague .. entrance is free … you meet enough Thai ladies !!!!

    Greetings,
    evans.

  12. Andre Deschuyten says up

    Dear Sven,

    Go to http://www.trulythai.comI met my wife this way. You shouldn't have to wait too long to get there. Some women are after sex, others are not (like my wife thought sex was unimportant, but looking back I had the best period of my life. I had never had such a physical experience or I never dared to dream Furthermore, many women are looking for a farang with a little money in the account, although my wife thinks money is unimportant We have been together for 1 year now and will get married next year.

  13. Leo Th. says up

    Sven has probably heard many stories about how fantastic Thai “girls” are. If you were just asking how you can get in touch with Thai ladies, I would understand that. However, the ladies must also be sweet and fun and Sven, that is something that you can only find out once you have gotten to know each other better. Sweet and fun is extremely flexible and is mutually determined. Do you see yourself as sweet and fun? But maybe you are not that at all in other people's eyes and then you can hardly expect someone else to be kind and nice to you. The way your question comes across to me now, it does indeed seem as if you think that you can open a drawer somewhere with the caption “SWEET AND NICE THAI LADIES”. But Sven, maybe this call is just some kind of joke on your part because, whether or not it concerns Thai ladies, no one can tell you where you can find only sweet and nice girls. By the way, I wonder how old you are, I wouldn't be surprised if you turned out to be quite young.

  14. rene says up

    Only for sex or something else go to a decent dating site if you can speak English of course and try to find out as much as possible. If you are not 100 percent open to it then LEAVE it, good luck

  15. Chiang Mai says up

    Dear Sven, Of course you get a lot of reactions when you ask such a question. Reactions that are useful to you and reactions that you can't do anything with. I think it's a normal question from someone who wants a relationship with a Thai. And why not, many have the same interests as you when it comes to Thai women. I was already an avid Thailand-goer I usually went 1 to 2 times a year not to look for a woman but to visit the country I was devoted to after having made an organized tour for the 1st time.
    Of course the Thai women are very seductive know how to find a man to their finger they are lord and master at it. I met my wife not in Thailand but through ThaiLovelinks.com. This is a dating site where Thai women and foreign men can make contacts. I found the sweetest Thai woman there and she has been living with me in the Netherlands for a few years now. Good luck

  16. patrick says up

    dear Sven, if you ask me it's all a matter of a little patience and attentiveness. If you are dreading going to Thailand (after all, it is quite pricey and the chances are that you will only get in touch with bar girls), then you really have to spend a few hours behind the computer. Especially in the coming months there will be organizations spread across Belgium and the Netherlands that focus on Thailand. A regular visit to a Thai restaurant or take-out Thai can also help. In any case, I wouldn't go to Bredene the last weekend of August, because then you're missing out. After all, the market (followed by a Thai party with at least hundreds of Thai girls or women) will take place on Saturday, August 15. Take it easy all day long and feast your eyes. Perhaps your gaze meets a Thai gaze and there is a certain attraction. And then it's up to you to pull off your best seduction tricks, because a Thai who immediately captures your gaze is usually not the right lady. Regular visits to a Thai supermarket can also help. But then it is of course again a matter of patience. In the meantime, you can learn some Thai cuisine and see if you can handle it 😉 . Good luck !

  17. lung addie says up

    Dear Sven,
    You don't ask a question like this in this way because then you run the risk of getting a lot of negative reactions. If you ask such a question, unless you ask this question just to appear on the blog, then it is advisable to describe the problem more clearly: do you live in Belgium, do you live in the Netherlands, do you live in Thailand. Do you want to come here to meet someone or do you want it in your home country? How old are you and in what age range do you want to find someone. What do you do in daily life? You now only ensure that the reader, even if he wants to help you, should only answer you on his own suggestions. You put it a bit like: in which store or on which market can I buy a nice, sweet woman, when are they on promotion? It doesn't work that way here, whatever the "Thailand connoisseurs" may have told you. You don't just turn in a decent lady here!
    Some dating sites have been indicated in the comments… try there first and then check it out. The reader cannot tell you more now. You can then set your own preference and make your own selection. However, be sensible and don't just rely on a nice photo and stated age, reality is often taken for granted. And first of all, immerse yourself in the culture and way of thinking of the Thai. It will save you a lot of trouble and disappointment.
    Also read a previous article by Lung addie: living in Thailand as a single farang man - social contact in the countryside.

    LS Lung addie


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