Reader question: Can I bring my Thai wife's cousin to Belgium?

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November 3 2014

Dear readers,

My Thai wife and I live in Belgium, my wife has a model F card valid for 5 years. Her niece, daughter of her eldest sister, is 18 years old. However, her mother does not take care of her, does not want to pay school fees, hardly provides food, in short, there is no future for her.

Now we would like her to live with us, let her continue her education here, offer her the opportunity to build a pleasant life.

Does anyone have experience with this matter? Is it even possible to get someone to come here?

Regards,

Bernard

11 responses to “Reader question: Can I bring my Thai wife's niece to Belgium?”

  1. Pratana says up

    Hello dear, I once tried to bring my wife's cousin here and I never succeeded. Speak of 2005 but try through Home Affairs, and embassy they can give you the right advice. She is already of age, for school applications, perhaps take steps to strengthen information for your file and never tell them for a better future than in Thailand because that is really not a priority, I experienced it with my wife's cousin. Good luck with your charity for her.

  2. Daniel says up

    I once tried to give a doctor from India the opportunity to receive further training in tropical medicine in Antwerp. Taking the lessons was possible after she first wanted to learn Dutch for a year. Lessons could only be given in our language, not in English. Then problem with accommodation. Would only be allowed to stay for 3 months and then only if I held myself responsible. This meant that I bore all costs and ensured that she returned, including costs for illness or accidents and stupidities. I had to take full responsibility for her. The university had to arrange for any extensions after evaluation. The lady kindly thanked her.

  3. Martin says up

    I don't know the rules in Belgium, here in NL completely impossible.

    Had the same situation myself, she was a bit younger. A lot of time and energy invested, if she is a minor and orphan, there are possibilities, as long as she still has parent(s), or other family in Th, the road is closed here.

    If you want to help her, send the money that way, but yes, money that way…………………………

  4. ron says up

    I would immediately inquire with those who dealt with the matter of foreigners. I personally don't like the man who is responsible for that now. Just send a story to Magie De Block. Whether it ends up in her hands, however, is open to question, but those who do nothing will continue to trample in place.
    [email protected]

    Succes

  5. Rory says up

    It is always possible to bring someone here to study. Must have already followed a havo vwo level education in the home country.
    Can enroll at a university of applied sciences in the Netherlands and/or Belgium. In that case, you must first transfer school fees and accommodation fees (for housing). (This is a requirement of the Dutch government). However, the money for housing is paid back very quickly by the university.

    Another way is to adopt, but 18 years old is already an adult in the Netherlands and makes it difficult.

    All other roads as mentioned before are almost impossible.

    The term wholly dependent in the term uttered by Daniel is also partly true/. If she is a housemate and is registered as such, she is covered by a WA insurance. Otherwise just insure. With a residence permit, health insurance is also possible. According to me even obliged.

  6. Peter says up

    Bernard,

    In principle, the schools are open to students from any country. The difficulty lies in the fact that sufficient knowledge of Dutch must be demonstrated upon enrolment.
    It is indeed possible with a little creativity AND provided she finished high school.
    Do you have children? Bring her to Belgium as an au pair (arriving in August). She thus receives a residence permit for 1 year.
    Before she leaves, have her diploma legalized at the embassy in Bangkok. She must bring her original diploma and legalized copy.
    Then you let her study Dutch for speakers of other languages ​​at UCT, 5 courses of 1 month (level NTA5), courses start in September.
    You then select a profession from the list of shortage professions and register it at school.
    With the proof of registration from the school, you go to the municipality and have her status changed from employee to student.
    Then you can also register her in the health insurance fund (small contribution).
    Of course you also have to sign a bill of lading.
    If you don't have children, you can in principle also have her registered as a student of the Preparatory Year Dutch at bvb. University of Ghent or Antwerp. Then apply for a student visa on the basis of the registration certificate.
    You can find more detailed information on the websites of Ghent University, Antwerp, the Belgian Embassy and Foreign Affairs.
    I can also personally provide you with more information. I think that the editors can forward any e-mail to my personal e-mail address.

    Success!

    Peter

    • rori says up

      Sufficient knowledge of English. On an international education in higher vocational education, lessons are taught in English. Fontys, Avans, Hanze Hogeschool, Hogeschool van Holland and also in Leuven, Antwerp, Ghent and Hasselt

  7. erik says up

    I don't know the Belgian rules, but I read that a departure to B is not possible.

    OK, then she must stay in Thailand and receive guidance, education and support there. The family in Thailand can't do that because they don't feel like it, if I read correctly. Who pays for that? You, Bernard, but she also costs you money if you bring her into your home.

    So looking for other steps and that could be…

    own responsibility of the cousin, she is of age, a bank account, a school, and own money management, possibly with the help of a reliable countryman of yours. But then the influence of the family… how do you get rid of that.

    responsibility of the educational body, an NGO such as a Christian church, that manages its money and is accountable.

    a foundation, foundation, with reliable compatriots of yours who manage it and furnish it. I am (with other Dutch people) in a project to guide a half orphan of a deceased Dutch person in Thailand to the end of Matthayom and, if I may be so bold, we will succeed.

    wouldn't it be better to leave her in Thailand? She has never been to B, doesn't know the languages, etc. What do you do to that girl when you leave? Leave her here and get a solid foundation. Hey, it's possible.

    • rori says up

      Years ago I helped a Vietnamese family to bring an icht from Hanoi to the Netherlands. Has become a disaster. Girl when 18 was dead and dead unhappy here. But there are also other examples where it does end well. Even perfect. Also depends on the person.

  8. French Nico says up

    Dear Bernard,

    Find (via an advertisement or dating site) a future partner for her with sufficient income/means to guarantee her. Have him invite your cousin for three months' holiday. If it clicks, he can apply for a residence permit.

  9. Stan says up

    Answer from Belgium: Only option in my opinion: apply for a tourist visa to visit her cousin (= your wife) in Belgium. Start with one month (three will be refused the first time anyway). Mention that she is responsible for the care of her mother in Thailand (so that she will definitely have to return…) and give her employer a telephone number!!!!!!! (= a girlfriend?)
    You yourself have to sign a deposit, prove your income, present a return ticket, insurance? If she travels back to Thailand in time, a second time will be easier.
    Maybe you will get to know a cool guy in Belgium in the meantime? Who knows? Use those months to learn Dutch!!!!
    Nothing is impossible!
    Good luck with your "good cause"!!!!


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