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Home » Reader question » Reader question: Interested in a girlfriend experience
Reader question: Interested in a girlfriend experience
Dear readers,
I went to Thailand for the first time 3 years ago with a single trip. Fantastic experience! Now I may have plans to go that way again in December, but more for a girlfriend experience. I have been single for years and may have become interested in a girlfriend from Thailand.
Do you have any tips-advice on what to do, and especially not to do?
Thank you in advance!
Regards,
Dennis
Hi Dennis,
Just one tip………take enough cash with you and you should be fine.
Best regards.
Fred. (a man with experience).
Dennis,
Bring plenty of cash, but don't throw it into Thailand's nightlife. You then attract the wrong ladies, even though it may seem that they are very interested in you and are after your money in 99 percent of the cases. Try to meet someone outside of work. So during the day and deal with this for a few days. You will always have to pay clockwise or counterclockwise. Never forget this, they just need money to live. Make clear agreements about this before you start your adventure. And when they say up to you, ask for an amount anyway. Prevents a lot of trouble later on. Please do not go directly for the one who has the appearance of a supermodel, but try to find a lady that you just click with and can talk to normally.
Good luck with your search!
Dear Guy, As stated………bring enough money and you will have a great holiday that you will never forget. And don't listen to those serious stories, because you are not resistant to love and super charming females……….
Good Luck and Wisdom
John
A tip,
Don't look for your future girlfriend in a bar or under the palm trees on the coast.
Read the article below:
https://tastythailand.com/where-and-how-to-meet-a-thai-good-girl/
It might be a good idea to cherish the "maybe" in your story a bit and see what the pros and cons would be for you. You are in the unique situation of being forced to stay apart due to the coronavirus, a free reflection time that many before you have not had as emotions or hormones forced you to rush back to Thailand (terud). Use that time to think about it very rationally, that could potentially save you a lot of trouble in the future. As our Belgian neighbors say: a man who has been warned is worth two.
My personal experience is that things can go well and badly, just like with a Dutch partner, but that it is much more difficult due to cultural differences. You even have that with someone from the area, such as Germany or Belgium or France, but Asia is really different and the Thai language is not that easy either.
https://www.thaifriendly.com/ have a look here
Thaicupid? can you take a look around from your lazy chair at home behind the computer s6
dateinasia completely free and what Eric says nice in your easy chair at home
It depends on what exactly you are looking for, you say a "girlfriend" experience and if it is only for the holiday, you don't have to make a big deal about it, it will therefore become more of an almost "business" agreement. It is a completely different story when you are looking for a Thai girlfriend. Then I would advise you to first look around on Thai dating sites, such as “ThaiCupid”. You may end up with a (good?) girlfriend who might be worth a visit.
I agree with you, but I'll make it a bit clearer:
Dennis mentions “a girlfriend experience” and “a girlfriend from Thailand”.
Those are 2 completely different things.
The first is a girlfriend that you hire for your vacation and stay with you for the entire vacation.
That is a business agreement, you have to pay for it.
You can rent this lady complete with a car so that you can also easily get to places that are off the beaten tourist track.
The 2nd is a friend who stays with you because she likes to enter into a relationship with you for a longer period of time where money plays a role but should not be in the 1st place.
How old are you and are you attractive? And how old do you want your girlfriend to be? What is your monthly income, etc. Without answers to those questions, there is nothing useful to advise. There are different types of experience and girlfriends. For example, introductions into a family or into a bar are of a completely different order. Do you want one and the same companion for a certain period of time, chat occasionally, etc. that is the easiest. Thaigirlfriendly.com
An advice is difficult to give, are you a cool frog? or are you full of fire and passion?
Do you like to tell fairy tales or are you the person who likes to believe in them yourself?
Every journey starts with a first step so take the step and experience, discover and you will come to a conclusion!
If you search Thai cupit or Thai love lings you will find one who wants to stay in Thailand
And if you look for a woman who works for the state, you will end up much cheaper later on
A girlfriend experience… At least it sounds friendlier than a sex tourist.
Like several reactions, money is useful to satisfy the ladies who want to be used as an experiment
It's just an experiment so just go hardcore to the pink bars, karaoke places and the bigger massage parlors (ape-ob-nuat) and maybe someone will be of service for a while.
If you are going to play it through other channels such as a dating site or social media, then you are playing with feelings, so it may be wiser that you also mention that you want to experience everything first.
If you want to get in the mood, check out Ladybar 1
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8FXbhsXkuGc
I met my wife through ThaiCupids, she is a teacher and has never actually asked me for a Euro. Check carefully what profession she has. What the family situation is, in divorce, debts, etc. So money has no interest in the true one.
For a quick fuck you have to be in the bars or massage parlours.