Call: Thai girlfriend seeks contact with other Thai women (Apeldoorn area)

@Johan: Go shopping in Thai stores. You will easily come across Thai women. Have some patience and wait until she starts an integration course, she is not the only Thai who recently came to live in A'doorn. Thai women quickly make contact and introduce each other. Many Thai women know several Thai women who have settled here and there throughout the country. A group of acquaintances soon emerges.

After that, the first misunderstandings also arise, due to: bragging about who one has been lucky and how well one has done it, about results achieved during the courses, also by persuading each other to go to a casino, by lending each other money, by being forced to money donations to a temple, etc. etc. Many people know cases of bullying. Please note: Thais cannot say no, are not assertive, are guided by the 'strongest'. She must come from a good background if she wants to put herself up for a fight. Thais are quite afraid of being left out of the group, and afraid of being alone. (That may already be the case with your girlfriend!)

My wife was very selective at the time: she wanted to establish her own place in NL, without TH interference. Of course she needed to see TH people with whom she could share her first experiences. She went to visit acquaintances who lived far away from us, and made clear agreements with them about mutual visits, and - very important - that money would not be discussed.
In our hometown she met many Thai women: with some of them close friendships were struck. Thai women who only surrendered to 'the pleasures of life' were banned. To this day, now that we live in TH, those friendships exist. Some of them now also live in TH, some (still) in NL, and they visit us during their holidays in TH.
In short: the moral of my argument - it is not all cake and egg in TH, and that is taken to NL. Be critical of who you meet, and what intentions they have. You don't have to be suspicious, but guileless is another matter. In addition: she came to NL for you, and not for TH.

Go to the Thai What in Waalwijk.
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Tips and warnings enough. Could also do a story but enough about that already.

The fact is that the lady in question feels alone and needs social contacts?
Can get in there, this is not abnormal at all; that's how it goes for most people.
There is generally a group spirit among Thais. They don't like to be alone and like to chat. Are they alone, they are constantly on the phone. Telecom typhoon Thaksin had seen good money in that.

Visiting the temple doesn't seem like a bad idea, if only to feed the Thainess. You might like it yourself.
Furthermore, you cannot expect a migrant to reveal his individuality and culture. On the other hand, he is expected to integrate.
The Dutch or Belgians in Thailand sometimes like a plate of prak and other typical things from their home country. Why are there Dutch and Belgian associations in Thailand, eateries and cafes.

Good luck in your relationship.