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We read a story on another website about an elderly person who regularly goes to Thailand and receives comments from his family. This is the modified story:
The 69-year-old Willem from Scharendijke in Zeeland has been enjoying his retirement for some time. However, he is also single. To compensate for this, he visits Thailand three times a year. His family is not happy with his travels, because they know very well what he is doing there.
Willem tells that he went to Thailand for the first time shortly after he buried his wife. They had a loving marriage, but eight years ago she fell ill. They were together for a total of 45 years. After her death, Willem felt very alone and looked for distraction.
Thailand
Willem decided to go on vacation to clear his mind. He visited a travel agency and they recommended Thailand to him. The photos looked great and he was ready for something new, something different from Europe.
The journey
Willem booked a two week trip to Pattaya. “The journey took quite a long time, but eventually I got there. It was extremely hot, something I was not used to in the Netherlands.” He had no specific plans, but enjoyed the beach and the delicious food in the evening.
Bar
One evening Willem was bored in his hotel room and decided to explore the busy boulevard. He went to a beach bar with high chairs. Soon a girl came up to him. She asked him questions and seemed genuinely interested. Willem understood that she was after money, but he saw it as a win-win situation, since he was single and could make her happy.
Continued vacation
During the two weeks, Willem met the girl, who turned out to be only 19 years old, every day. She told him more and more about her situation and this touched Willem deeply. Although he realized that a 19-year-old couldn't fall in love with a 69-year-old, he couldn't get her out of his mind. He has now returned to Thailand three times.
Family
Willem has spoken openly with his family about his situation. Although they disagree, he insists that he is not doing anything illegal. “As long as she doesn't reject me, I will continue to struggle with my feelings. I want to help her have a better life, but I'm also madly in love with her. It's a tricky situation.”
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Disgusting,
But yeah. Nothing can be done from our Dutch morality.
And unfortunately sir is not the only one. And he is right that he is legally doing nothing wrong.
If, like me, that makes you a little sick, don't go to Pattaya or certain parts of Bangkok.
How do Turks and Moroccans behave differently? There, as a 13-year-old, you are married off to a 50+ person. Here people still have a choice about what they do and they are adults. They also pour it in with the young spoon at home that you have to milk older Western men.
Eh, what I find 'gaddamme' is that there are people who believe that their morality should also be the morality of the rest of the world.
And you're not alone in that. Everywhere in the world there are people who see their 'morals and values' as superior to those of others.
To each his life, it is the well-known story. Thailand is a beautiful country. Just don't fall for the traps. Enjoy William
Moderator: Too many generalizations.
The situation has long been known about how things are going there.. young girls who are sent to Pattaya by their own families to earn money for their families. Everything revolves around money and it is a big play. If he just wants to enjoy himself and so, a girl benefits from his money .. then it's pure business there ... and the Netherlands is ready again with the finger raised
I am often in Cambodia because I have a small-scale project there since 2008 to give very poor children a school education. And yes, I often see western men there who abuse young girls, because that's what I call it, in exchange for money. That will never get used to it's just disgusting!
Moderator: someone aged 19 is an adult, so comparing this to child abuse is factually incorrect.
Understandable but think of it as a good friendship rather than a potential partner. It is normal that some money is also involved here, but in the end I think that man is not doing anything wrong, perhaps his family will regret that they will have to miss this money later. Of course you must determine in advance how far you wish to go and set limits, because the moment you are in Thailand without money, no one is willing to help you, reality that you should always keep in mind Willem!
I think those girls chose themselves to work in pattaya. Being a cleaner for a pittance isn't everything either.
And although they find younger guys more handsome, they also cause more problems. An older person generally has more money and time.
And since the corona, you can also notice here that they are looking more for a stable income than a quick seesaw.
I also see a lot of happy girls here who proudly crawl on the back of older gentlemen's scooters.
Most people in the Netherlands will not be able to understand this.
That is why it is better to keep life in the Netherlands and Thailand separate.
They themselves do not tell what they are up to during their holiday.
Very simple and understandable and so what? I myself met Thailand in 2003, with a nice lady who did not work in a bar, but in a company that traded in gemstones. The women there, like ALL other women on this planet, are looking for security and security. You realize that everywhere in this world with MONEY... right? It is indeed a win-win situation. Someone gives something and gets something in return. By the way, the women in Asia and many other places that I have visited in my life (I am 63 years old) are much more female than the often bossy women in the West. I myself came to Hong Kong in 2013 after a 10 year long distance relationship in the Philippines. My wife is 2 months older than me, but still looks surprisingly young. With this I wish every man...the best.
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Self has been in Thailand for almost half a year now and what I can tell you is that it is indeed one's own choice to enter prostitution. I should also add that there is a lot of pressure from the family, because a Thai girl is supposed to take care of her family and not just herself.
A Thai girl can have a 'normal' job and settle for less, but it is really the pressure of the family that can lead her to this kind of thing. Although I'm not entirely sure, this may be something that comes from Buddhism.
And of course there is also a class of girls who spend too much time on Instagram and also want to live a luxurious life.
When my grandmother died a long time ago in a retirement home, my grandfather was left alone at the age of 90. After several months, my aunt discovered that every morning he went to a lady on the same floor to read her the newspaper, because she was almost blind.
My aunt called my mother to tell her and added that she was afraid he gave her part of his money every day. My mother replied: whatever you think about it, it's his money and he can do what he wants with it.
Completely agree with your mother. We should not patronize the elderly. They are not small children!
Well, everyone does what they want. But I suppose the Thai government sees this as a "quality tourists". And me too by the way.
We forget that an old body contains a young soul. None of us choose that aging exterior.
Exactly, Stephen!
Too often people think that when you get older you automatically have to like fishing and bingo. What nonsense! Of course you change as you get older and so do your interests sometimes, but in general you always stay young at heart. It's just such a shame that your body thinks otherwise!
Completely agree with Stefan and Willem you are absolutely right, enjoy your life.
I agree with Willem. You only live once. What's the family got to do with it. The family should be happy that he has a happy old age. Keep it up Willem!
Quite right. You only live once. What does his family have to do with it, they should be happy for him that he has some happy days in his old age.
The family has no business with this at all.
Perhaps they are already preying on the inheritance .
The fact that Willem, as a 69-year-old widower after a loving marriage of 45 years, has traveled to Thailand 3 times to put a 19-year-old girl in a position of dependence is very worrying. He says, “I want to help her have a better life, but I'm also madly in love with her. It's a tricky situation.” He makes this mistake 3 times. Helping her get a better life means longer involvement. He deprives her of decent growing up together and in the midst of peers.
Lovesick? Just question that. It is, after all, a response to grief. At the age of 69, he needs to realize that he is denying/sublimating feelings of being alone and loneliness (loss, depression) so soon after the death and burial of his wife. He puts the attention of a 19-year-old instead.
A tricky situation? How so? That he thinks a little longer (reflection is called these days) about what he is doing, and stops making further contact in a mature and responsible manner. If necessary, send some more money when that promise is made, but stay out of the life of a young person on the other side of the globe. Go to the Costa del Sol or Gran Canaria and surround yourself with peers. Then it is also possible to have a good conversation with people in recognizable living conditions. If it is to get his way then he is doing it all wrong because then he turns a 19-year-old girl into a private prostitute and justifies his behavior from seemingly insurmountable feelings of infatuation. The mind of a teenager!
Finally, a few personal comments from my side: these types of men who seek refuge with young girls in Thailand perpetuate stereotypes and prejudices. Young people, often sent by their families, seek to improve their living conditions out of poverty. Hence their willingness to literally and figuratively “give” themselves to those who offer financial solace. Making use of that fact says a lot about those men, but just as much about Thailand itself, which does not get any further than that its women have to combat their poverty and that of family and relatives in this way.
The age difference is of course very large and the risks that he is used to get money are great. But who are we to judge!
Whoever is without sin, cast the first stone Soi 😉
Many 19 year olds here in Thailand are more mature than 30 year old Dutch women, who still have to find themselves.
In large parts of Thailand you can forget about becoming a “decent adult”. That girl was already doomed not to experience this for lack of the right circumstances.
My wife had her first child at the age of 16 and had to work from the age of XNUMX. Who robbed her of the chance to grow up properly? That was not a man like Willem, but his own parents.
I personally think a 19 year old girl is way too young for me. But if she and Willem can live with that, there is nothing wrong with it. You can't expect him to have eternal life. So there is a very good chance that she will still be a young woman when Willem is no longer alive. And if he could leave something behind for her, both of them will have gained something from those years.
That man is free and can do whatever he wants and make him happy.
As long as he keeps reality in mind and uses his reason, he is not doing anything wrong. The girl is indeed much too young to build a lasting relationship with, but as long as both think it is a win-win situation and respect each other's lives, that is fine. As far as the situation of the girl is concerned, I can assure that there are many people in Thailand who certainly see such a situation stuck. How long everything lasts is another matter, but at that age you have the damn right to live from day to day and enjoy life in your own way. Who can blame the man when he and they get along so well, each in their own way and each for their reasons?
Is honor also a distinction when a "rich" old Western man spoils a 20-year-old young lady from Madrid, Berlin or Stockholm in his own way and how do we view this?
I personally think the age difference is incredible, but to each his own.
But the fact that the writer above condemns it, in my opinion, goes a long way. Anyway, as long as the 19-year-old works in a bar in Pattaya, the reason why shouldn't matter is self-explanatory. Out of need or poverty, whatever reasons you enter into a relationship with a 19 year old as a 69 year old should simply be their own business. and that he describes his feeling as "being in love", I can also think of something.
But all joking aside, let that man enjoy, and hope the girl doesn't fall short of it.
Hopefully he doesn't fare like so many others here before him.
Back home completely penniless and not a word from the family (and from the sweetheart)
Unfortunately he has the ideal profile to be completely stripped .
Regards,
Ron
Fortunately they found each other. His late wife must be willing for him, otherwise it won't happen. Enjoy your life. Life is so short.
Greetings,
Pie Nah
After reading the story about Willem, I asked my partner what she thought of this story.
I was looked at in surprise and received an answer that I could expect but will keep to myself, let me say that she thinks he is a pathetic old man.
It is a pity for Willem that he has become a widower and is looking for distraction, but the age difference is too big, in my opinion.
I myself am in my seventies and have been living in Thailand for years, my partner is also younger than me, 25 years old, she is financially independent, but friends in both the Netherlands and the other countries where I have lived (was ) I labeled as an old snack (555).
Our daughter is 19 years old and I can't bear the thought of entering into a relationship with a 19 year old, it's a teenager with teenage behavior and interests, heavenly provoking behavior, but it's just adolescent behavior.
Don't come to me that she will be "in love" with a man who can be her grandfather and what does Willem have to offer besides his money, I don't know but there won't be a good conversation, the nightlife is in my opinion , given Willem's age and life experience, not exactly an option that will take place.
The girl is 19 years old and has to deal with peers, get to know life through trial and error as teenagers among themselves.
If I were Willem I would try to enter into a relationship with a woman around 50 years old, there are enough of them, ok it's not a "spring chicken" but also not an oldie like him.
The moral of this story of Willem is that he does “social” work by probably supporting her financially, a damn pathetic excuse.
I can understand the family of Willen, it has nothing to do with a possible inheritance, if there will be an inheritance at all, no, it is a position from a moral point of view.
In my teens I did things that will now be unacceptable because the Dutch thoughts on what is or is not morally acceptable is becoming scary, you are not allowed much anymore, but an old man with a 19-year-old girl is, in my opinion, a pathetic relationship.
I sincerely hope that the girl will do well financially and that the relationship will be short so that she can enter into a relationship with a peer, Thai or Farang, it doesn't matter.
Here in CM sometimes I see these old men with young girls who could be a daughter, accept big mouths from these children, because they are still children, but these men feel like that monkey with………..
The reactions of several, probably holidaymakers, are the well-known sayings, take what you can because it's vacation, but this has nothing to do with the reality of the world of Thailand.
You can also have this behavior in Spain with a holiday sweetheart there, usually it is the English (my experience), but leave the locals alone, maybe it looks good on your CV that you sleep with one (or more) Thai have shared women, but you will probably enter into a permanent relationship in the Netherlands, cottage boompje, animal (your partner may not have a wild sex life like you have been allowed to have) and you will have strong stories to your friends about the Thai women, you have a pathetic life then, great!!!!
Me Yak
Man oh man what a narrow view. Norms and values are simply not the same everywhere in the world. This is because the opportunities are also not equal everywhere in the world. Easy to judge by you from the Netherlands. I like that Willem has a goal for his love (and his money of course). Hopefully they are both happy.
The norms and values in Thailand are certainly no less than in the Netherlands.
You will hardly ever see a Thai from the better environment interacting with a foreigner.
Almost every Thai who walks with a Farang is seen as a prostitute.
Thai society is made up of people who have possessions and a large group of people, mainly from Isaan, who have nothing.
The last group also wants to belong to the group who have their own house, a car and give children perspective.
Without a good education, the Isan women will not succeed and other ways are sought to achieve the goal.
Some deliberately look for an older farang who can improve their future, often through bars and places where foreigners stay.
Who are you responding to because I can't find out, I understand that you live in the Netherlands and "know" the Thai culture, but in my opinion and experience you have opportunities anywhere in the world if you are open to it and make the effort.
I assume you are not responding to me because I have been living in Thailand for years, happily with my Thai partner (as I wrote she is 25 years younger and financially independent) and after years of living in Thailand I know a bit, please note well I say a bit, the thinking of many Thai, (mind you, culture and thinking are different).
I have turned my back on the Netherlands for quite a long time, 25 years to be exact, not especially for Thailand but years earlier to have lived in other countries for years, I believe it is called globetrotting.
Everywhere I have had my chances and enjoyed life to the fullest, but never had a "pedophile" relationship like this Willem.
I have never paid even 1 dollar for love, you get it for free if you approach people honestly and openly.
So a narrow-minded opinion, no Ruud, I don't think it applies to me because narrow-minded is not in my dictionary, BROAD-THINKING is written in capital letters.
Me Yak
Many have no problem with it when a 19 year old has to work 6 days a week in a dirty factory for pittance wages.
Cutting sugar cane on the field.
I see the girls of around 20 standing at the petrol pumps in Thailand in the burning sun, in the filthy petrol air, 6 days a week 8 10 hours a day for starvation wages.
But when sex comes into play, which can clearly build a better life for her, for the whole family, for the children, then the commentary breaks loose.
Don't we have double standards here?
Tip the girls at the pump 500 baht every time you fill up, tip the girl who makes up your room 500 baht every day. They didn't choose to live like this either.
The older man is happy and in a few years all his money will have moved to Thailand.
The family has had a nice house built, they have a car, the children go to school.
The family in the Netherlands is ashamed of it.
If only he had stayed in the elderly home, we could have said hello to him every 3 weeks.
We could have used his legacy better.
When you think: there we have another older man with a young Thai.
we are both 70 years old, we have been married for 40 years and have never been to pattaya in all those years.
A lot of money was spent on the family in Thailand, fortunately not everything.
It's a pity that there are condemnations in the comments.
Willem has fallen in love, that is an emotion that no one else can ever judge.
And yes it concerns a much younger, adult girl he met in Pattaya.
As long as Willem treats the girl with respect and is good to her, I don't see a problem.
The girl sees Willem (most likely) as a regular friend who maintains her when he is in Thailand and may also transfer money in between. I don't see a problem with that.
The girl is in prostitution to earn her money. Is someone who works in prostitution worse or more pathetic than someone in another profession? If someone chooses to earn the money that way, that's fine. It's a lucrative business.
Let everyone in his / her worth.
Greetings,
Ingrid
You assume that these girls would like to work in prostitution, are so much better off than working in a shop or anywhere else, you think/think so.
Many of these girls who are in prostitution get max. THB 200, mind you I say MAX. the rest goes to the pimp or bar owner, so what are you talking about, better off, it's a pittance but you have to sell your body to any "free thinking" vacationer.
This holidaymaker who therefore thinks that he is doing social work, does not make me laugh.
In the Netherlands I lived among the whores when I was a small child, I visited them every day, but if you think that these women went into prostitution of their own accord and lived a happy life, then I must tell you that you look at prostitution with the wrong glasses.
It's always easy to talk as long as it's not about your own daughter and you don't live in the misery she came from.
Let everyone in his / her worth, nice talk in my opinion as long as it is far from your own bed show.
Me Yak
It is also questionable whether sex or prostitution is involved.
The girl will prefer to take care of him and get paid for it.
Perhaps the man is looking for companionship, attention and care. like so many lonely elderly people
Perhaps we should see it as the elderly in the Netherlands who receive home care from a 21-year-old employee.
They also put the elderly naked in the shower.
William, you are absolutely right! Rather go to Thailand 3 times a year and be super happy there than playing bingo every day in an old people's home or dealing with a "radio deprimo" entourage.
You love her, she loves you... that's great! Is there money involved?, probably, but does this not apply very often? Just look at those top football players, few are adonises but all have a beautiful wife one by one, isn't it strange.
Totally, but totally unconcerned with negative comments from bystanders, friends (?) and/or family! You only live once so Carpe Diem! I wish you many happy years with that lady.
I don't easily have prejudices, but when I read Willem's story I think of the story of an older part-timer who came to lend a helping hand at work.
During the break he said that he was 75 years old and lived with his 25-year-old Thai girlfriend. The group of men laughed at that, and one said scornfully, "Do you really believe that she will always stay with you??" Then this kind old boss said the wise words, “no, I don't believe she will stay forever, but I enjoy every day that she is there!” Then it was quiet in the group!
I am the last to judge, but someone of 69 with someone of 19… that is not acceptable to me, that child could be your granddaughter!
However, you can't force a feeling (love/infatuation) either...
You can be there for her to give her a better life through some "sponsorship", as happens so often there and I think that will make you feel much better than what is going on right now!
There are also some older, beautiful women there who can still make you happy.
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Getting into a relationship with a 19-year-old is asking for trouble. We all know it's about the money. If you do get the creeps (which is quite natural) go to a prostitute. You do your thing, pay her with no strings attached... Done!
You can also go there to enjoy your AOW carefree. There is a big difference between living with a state pension in the Netherlands or there in Thailand. With a state pension in the Netherlands you end up behind the geranium and what kind of life do you have? Your income goes to the bills and you can be happy that you can still buy food at Aldi. When you are in Thailand or elsewhere and you live normally, don't go to the whores and don't go drinking, you have a life that you say to. Tasty and cheap food, nice weather, a beautiful country, nice people and lots of affordable activities. I would say…enjoy your old age.
I'm going to Cebu myself in 3 years with my state pension and won't come back.
Is it okay if the woman is about the same age as the man?
I think there are tons of Thai women who have married their husbands not for love but for money. I can find countless of them in any gacvel and some of them have no problem with their husbands looking at other women as long as they only get their money monthly. (and the occasional new car)
Well, 69 and 19 is an extreme age difference in my opinion, and then being in love is a bit naive, although it may be possible.
Until now I had a vision about how a Thai win-win situation could develop.
In Belgium, the rest home currently costs close to €3000 per month.
I thought so, should I later live in Thailand when I am elderly and take in a qualified nurse who is only present for half a day and who receives a wage of € 1500 and possibly board and lodging. Is she much better off than working full time. Both then have a much better life. And I know that Thai ladies do have much more respect for the elderly than ladies from our region. The quality of care will be accordingly.
This is separate from a feigned crush, although it can arise and then be REAL.
It is very common for young bar girls or masseuses to have 1, but usually several old men, as sponsors. They usually have a relationship with a young Tai, who they maintain with the money from those sponsors. Of course, as an older, lonely man, it is a good thing for his image to experience things in bed with such a young girl that his peers in Europe can only envy. But in our final years of life, everyone should do what they feel comfortable with.
Willem you are right, why should you be left alone after the death of your wife. Your wife has wanted you to have a good life together, but has not been able to due to illness. You've lived your whole life for a good life after retirement. Now you have a 19 year old girlfriend with a bad future because of her income and she is happy with you. Your family in the Netherlands is not happy with that girl because they want the money. Keep in mind your air travel is longer than the girl. And you have to do with your money what you have.
Why don't you stay with that girl in Thailand, then you won't have any problems with family in the Netherlands.
Just worry that the girl can't take your money, that's your concern and there are plenty of options in Thailand to protect your money, so never give her your card, do everything yourself. If you give money she can only take that money. And org for good contract when she leaves everything is yours. This is a difficult attitude but you are sure of your future,
In response, Soi says that men like Willem perpetuate prejudices. He apparently does not understand that it is his own prejudice that he maintains. Furthermore, it strikes me that people who think that Willem, who probably lets a Thai family enjoy his money, is wrong that those people rarely feel the need to share money with a Thai family. So the question is who are they better off with? Don't worry about that girl. Thai ladies have an excellent eye for their own interests.
Denial is one of the most persistent defense mechanisms that people use to avoid realizing reality, dear Bram, and you can read that in most responses: denial of reality, also called denial. The fact remains that Willem helps maintain a social abuse tolerated by the government - an abuse that many in reactions call 'enjoyment'. In Thailand you can 'enjoy' a 19-year-old girl: driven by poverty, perhaps guided by her parents, but insurmountably incapable of alternatives. In my response I say that Thailand itself also bears a lot of responsibility. Read this recent research as an e-book via Google: Sex Trafficking and Human Rights: The Status of Women and State Responses ISBN: 1647122627, 9781647122621 Authors: Heather Smith-Cannoy, among others; Publisher: Georgetown University Press 2022
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As I read the negative reactions here, I have to say that I find them narrow-minded in their reactions and do not judge sincerely at all.
People assume their own norms and values and above all ignorance in this.
I will therefore not go into this in detail.
For (they) are not worth it to me.
This man is not doing anything wrong, they are not talking about minors. Then one would have a right to speak.
As I read this post I see a man seeking the affection and attention. And this girl an income or support.
I'm more concerned about the man not being fooled.
To the doom thinkers and those who are disgusted. First, delve into why and how. And don't assume right away.
To this man's family I say, Shame on yourselves. And let life live.
Again, this is and remains a cliché
Greetings Thaiaddict
Willem's feelings are certainly sincere and I also think that he is quite realistic as far as possible. I hope he realizes that this girl still has about three Willems. For her part (and that of her family), it is ultimately about survival and therefore about money.
I didn't know you knew that girl. So you already know she has three more backers? Where was that then?
I'm not saying this can't be right, because it wouldn't be the first time, but should it be assumed right away? That is also a prejudice.
Try to understand me before I tell my story. I am 45 years old and I never have a girlfriend in the Netherlands. Not because I am “ugly” – because I still look fine and I am always estimated to be younger – but because of the mentality of Dutch (Western) women. Women here are 'tough', have too many demands for a man to meet and gentleness is seen as a 'weakness' here. I must also admit that I am not really attracted to Dutch women in terms of appearance.
I have now been in Thailand for almost half a year. Here it is different. Here I do get 'girlfriends', here I feel appreciated and gentleness is seen as a strength here. Not that Thailand is the 'Promised Land', but in terms of people and mentality I find it a lot more pleasant than that 'hard', 'cold' Netherlands. And I'm not alone in that. I have spoken to several other men from different Western countries and they all share my feelings.
I'm here to look for work and a girlfriend, but also just to enjoy sex with young girls, although age never really matters to me. I've had girls between the ages of 19 and 35, but the most important thing for me is that there is a click and that the other is sincere and has a nice personality. But the fact that I'm also here as a “sex tourist” doesn't bother me at all. In the Netherlands I'm ridiculed as a bachelor who never has sex, so everyone just fuck off. I treat these girls with respect and I am kind to them. No, I'm not retarded and I also know full well that I've been financially exploited a number of times and my goodness has been taken advantage of, but at least I got some great sex in return. So, yes, a win-win situation.
No, I'm not pathetic, although some people will think I am. But why exactly? I wake up here in paradise every day, eat for next to nothing, can get the most beautiful girls, and do things sexually that a lot of men can only dream of. I enjoy it to the fullest. Honestly, I think people are pathetic who have a boring office job, a whining wife and annoying, noisy children. 🙂
Okay, maybe that was a bit mean, but I do get tired of people judging me and others just because we don't fit the mainstream society picture. Do you think it was my dream to be here and do this? No. But what else should I do? Sit behind the geraniums and wait until I'm dead, never having tasted anything of 'love'? People can also always talk and point that finger so easily without even knowing anything about my life story and struggles. Bah. But people also need to realize that I don't live for them, but for MYSELF. I need to make myself happy, and as long as I don't hurt anyone I don't care what others think.
So, long story, but this had to get out. 🙂
And remember, while you're here disgustedly typing your message to express your disapproval, I'm probably hooking up with a hot 19-year-old girl again, so I'll read your comment again later, okay? 😛
Peter, I totally agree with you. Enjoy it!!
Life goes on . Enjoy your life.
Let them talk . Don't let yourself get carried away.
But be careful and on your guard.
Not my problem. Hopefully that older man still has a sex or love life and last years of fun. Happened all over the world not just Thailand.
Right Willem, seize the day, !!
It is and remains prostitution! A young woman sells herself for money and provides services in return. Point!
What does William's family think? Afraid that their legacy will be taken by surprise.?? Willem is happy now, be happy for him.!!
Willem, enjoy it boy. Don't mind those vinegar pissers here!
No, you shouldn't do it.
You have to sit at the window and look out all day long.
You are right William
I grant Willem his relationship, but either way there is exploitation. Willem exploits the poor situation with his money and the girl exploits Willem's feelings.
And no, I don't know the girl, but it is obvious that she has several Willems, so that more money is generated.
It is also funny that you are immediately dismissed as narrow-minded and pedantic if you call this “relationship” as it is and on which it is based.
And yes, women from this part of the world don't piss, but don't confuse that with softness. I bet that Willem will be dumped hard as soon as he comes more than 3 times a year and as a result fewer Willems can be served.