Dear readers,

A few months ago I booked a ticket for Thailand with my boyfriend at the time. That relationship has now ended and I cannot claim my ticket on my cancellation insurance because we did not live together permanently.

Now I'm considering going alone because I can't find anyone who wants to go with me either.

I wonder if I can safely travel through Thailand on my own, I am a 28 year old woman with long blonde hair, so I stand out quite a bit 😉

I don't want to be bothered or approached by men all the time as you will understand.

Greetings,

Eveline

40 Responses to “Reader Question: Can a Woman Travel Safely in Thailand Alone?”

  1. Henk says up

    We had a Dutch woman, also with long blond hair, slightly older, around 50 years old, stay with us for a few days. She has traveled all over Thailand without any problems. By bus, train and plane. She has had no problems. Disturbed people are walking around everywhere, in Thailand, in my opinion, I don't have the idea. Tourists are generally treated very friendly. And certainly women.

  2. you thai says up

    yes Thailand is a safe country just use your common sense
    just be careful in traffic Greetings E Thai

  3. Nelly says up

    Dear Eveline,

    Last summer I cycled alone through Thailand for two weeks. From Changmai to Bangkok.
    I had a route description and always found accommodation for the night in the various towns. I have not been harassed in any way and have only encountered friendly and helpful people. I am also tall and blond, I am 66 years old. It was a special experience that I would not have wanted to miss.

    Have fun on your trip through Thailand.

    Regards,
    Nelly

  4. Geert says up

    Do, many young single women have already preceded you without any worries.
    Follow tips Thailand on Facebook and you will quickly make contacts.
    Have fun traveling.

  5. Thailand John says up

    Hello Eveline,

    If you don't dress provocatively and just behave .friendly but a bit distant. Then you can travel peacefully through Thailand. And yes, you may be approached by Thai or Western men. But if you make it clear to them right away that you don't want contact in a nice way, then you can do that calmly. However, you should be careful not to go alone in very quiet places. If you come to Pattaya, you are very welcome and we can show you some details. And if you are looking for a neat place to stay, I can recommend the eagle guest house of Rens Koekenbakker, a Dutchman. Is located in the center of Jomtien in the same street as the immigration office in Pattaya. I am 71 years old and have a Thai wife and have lived in Thailand for a very long time. You can always email me at my email address: [email protected]. But it's entirely up to you whether you like it or not.

    • Tino Kuis says up

      "If you don't dress provocatively……."

      That means you think Thailand is dangerous for women. 'Challenging' is not in the clothing of the woman but in the look of the man. You actually say that if something happens, it's because of the 'challenging clothing'.

  6. Peter says up

    I think that can be done very well in Thailand, you will be more 'bothered' by the foreigners, although they are there for the Thai type

  7. Rick says up

    Hello Eveline,

    It may only become a problem if you go via Spain, and then Tunisia, past Morocco, and then straight through Turkey towards Thailand. No, all joking aside….. You are most likely appreciated by your blonde hair, but that the locals will make you feel extremely uncomfortable or bother you, that is by no means the case in Thailand….. At least I got it never experienced, in Thailand! I would say "Have a very good holiday".......!

    Gr. Rick.

  8. Pat says up

    Dear Eveline, I can't imagine anyone contradicting me here when I say with great conviction that if there is one country in the world (there may still be some, but I don't know them) where as a woman you can even be half naked can travel around, that it is definitely Thailand!!!

    Let that be one of the remarkable differences with, for example, South America or Africa, where as a young woman (with or without blond hair) you can forget to enjoy your holiday in peace and relaxation.

    If you will experience annoying male behavior in Thailand, it will come from your compatriots.

    Read my lips!

    • Gerrit says up

      half naked??? here in Thailand??

      Then the police will really arrest you. Thailand is more prude than prude.
      If you visit a temple and we have some from here in Thailand, you must be properly dressed.

      But if you dress decently, just like every Thai, nothing will happen.
      Have a nice holiday and if you have any problems or questions (we live in Bangkok) just email me. [email protected]

      Greetings Gerrit

      • Pat says up

        Well, I thought this response was coming, and you're absolutely right.

        I just wanted to point out to Eveline that even if you SHOULD travel half naked in Thailand, it will not give rise to pawing.

        I used a witticism to make the difference with so many other countries and continents.

        You rightly confirmed that.

  9. henry says up

    Safer than in Europe. Well a golden advice, keep yourself far from Western men and Indians.

  10. Aart says up

    Hi,
    It really isn't a problem as long as you use your common sense. Don't walk the streets late at night in cities, for example. When are you going anyway? We (older couple) are going from Jan 20 to March 8, 2018. If you happen to be in Bangkok around the 20th, we can arrange something if you want?

  11. Daniel M. says up

    Dear Eveline,

    due to the fact that you are young and have long blonde hair and are traveling alone, you will probably notice that you will get (a lot of) attention from the Thai men there. But I don't think they usually bother you. Some may have a hard time hiding their interests in you. Just stay polite, calm and collected and gently brush them off with a smile. Stay distant. You can trick them into thinking you're engaged and your boyfriend couldn't travel because of his job. A white lie is a normal thing in Thailand 😉 You don't have to be anxious, but try to be confident 🙂

    Safe journey!

  12. January says up

    Dear Eveline, this woman has good tips for you.
    10 tips https://www.youtube.com/user/ckaaloa/videos

    Avoid Pickpockets with the Clever Travel
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L-nX6pnNRYo

    THAI HOSPITAL BILLS & TRAVEL COSTS IN THAILAND | I GOT SICK (Day #2)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gd-Bb-4Oe_Q

    BANGKOK TAXI SCAMS & TIPS
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u5waDld3Gg0

  13. Marjan says up

    Our daughter, who was 25 at the time, traveled alone for several weeks, tall, slim, blond, pretty
    Only met nice people and never had any problems.
    Just like in the Netherlands you don't just visit certain places, for example late at night, you shouldn't do that in Thailand either.
    Use common sense and above all enjoy yourself, especially when you are alone you meet other travelers faster with whom you can occasionally hang out if you wish.
    Have fun!

  14. Renee Martin says up

    I have a daughter your age and she was often in Thailand but luckily never had any problems. Be careful with the motorized taxis, especially in the evening/night. Good luck and have fun…

  15. Karel says up

    Indeed during the day in common places no problem.

    But indeed not at night in remote streets.
    Three examples: In Jomtien, deep in the night at 02:XNUMX, two Russian women sit on the beach and are murdered.
    http://www.pravdareport.com/hotspots/crimes/02-03-2007/87910-thai_woman_jealous-0/

    And also at night in a remote street, two Russian women were dragged into a car and raped.
    http://pattayadailynews.com/two-russian-ladies-robbed-and-raped-in-pattaya/

    And let's not forget: the rape and murder on Koh Tao.
    https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2014/nov/23/briton-thailand-murder-hannah-witheridge-david-miller-mystery-mafia-fear

    • l.low size says up

      With all due respect and therefore no less sad, but it is old news from a few years ago.

  16. Tino Kuis says up

    Thailand is not called 'The Land of Smiles' for nothing. Thailand is one of the safest countries in the world. Few murders, road fatalities and rapes. Koh Tao and the Deep South are the safest.

    Do take Prime Minister Prayet's advice to heart: 'If you don't want to be assaulted as a young beautiful woman, don't walk around in a bikini.' OK, he then apologized for that comment.

    All joking aside: my daughter has also traveled through Thailand as a backpacker for months: bus and train. She has always felt safe and has never been treated unfriendly or annoying….

    • Khan Yan says up

      Hello?! Several foreigners have already been killed on Koh Toa… In the deep south it has been discouraged for years because Muslims shoot foreigners there (me and my colleagues were strongly advised not to teach there because many a pastor had already been killed)…I would but watch out, girl… And as others have already mentioned: don't take a taxi in the evening or at night and keep “distance”. Thailand is, contrary to what is told here, with special attention to your appearance (young, blond and handsome) certainly not safe…

      • Tino Kuis says up

        Ever heard of irony?

  17. Bea says up

    You can travel alone in Thailand, it is really safe. Thai men will definitely not bother you.
    It could only be done by other tourists, but it can also be done at home.

  18. Nicky says up

    I therefore also think that it is better to leave the taxis, and just take public transport. even Thai young girls often have problems with taxi drivers. But if you continue to act normally and you are a bit distant yourself, don't let yourself be taken in with nice talk by TUKTUK drivers and stuff, in my opinion there is no problem at all

  19. Nico B says up

    If you're in the pub in the evening and then half or very drunk and then have to travel a considerable distance on your own to your hotel, decline any offer for transport, whether free or not.
    To go along with it is certainly a danger and to some extent an invitation to trouble and trouble.
    Regular carriers with a motorbike are possible if they are located directly at the establishment you are leaving.
    Of course, being alone and getting drunk gives you a very high risk anywhere in the world, avoid that and you'll be safe in Thailand.
    Happy Holidays.
    Nico B

  20. George Hendricks says up

    If you have traveled alone in Europe or elsewhere, Thailand is a piece of cake. As Bea writes, if you cross your own boundaries you are more likely to be bothered by non-Asian men than by Thais. When I traveled alone in South America I always told that I had an appointment with friends at a later time that day. Occasionally a convenient excuse to leave a scene that wasn't mine….drug users. I hadn't anticipated the invitation after an hour-long conversation in a park. Incidentally, I am a husband and father of a daughter who, if the situation does not change greatly, I would let travel alone in Thailand with confidence.

  21. nick says up

    I have never heard negative stories from women traveling alone in Thailand. Thai men are a lot more relaxed in this than Filipino machos and certainly Indian men.
    In my travels in India, I received several requests from women traveling alone to travel with me for a while, because they are so often harassed by Indian men and even then they sometimes still harass my travel companion, so we can only find a restaurant had to flee to avoid further difficulties.

  22. Mr. Bojangles says up

    You are safe during the day, yes, but not at night. I would go back to the hotel on time in the evening unless you are out with other tourists who can take you back to your hotel.
    And we forgot the 'evil man from Krabi'? : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fc3jsOqHAQI
    Oh yes, and relatively many young people die on islands, so I would skip those too.

  23. Thomas says up

    Watch out for tourists…

  24. Fransamsterdam says up

    Relatively little happens in Pattaya, and when something has happened, the news item on television about it starts in nine out of ten cases with 'In the early hours of….'.
    It's not wise to wander around late at night on your own, and even then the chance is greatest that something will happen to you because you trip over your own legs. But until closing time of most entertainment venues, there is no substantially increased risk.
    Dress modestly, don't go into a 7-eleven or shopping mall drinking half a liter of beer in a bikini, then you run the risk of being mistaken for a Russian.
    In short, no one can guarantee 100% security, but it is absolutely not an issue here.

  25. john sweet says up

    take a wedding ring and put it on.
    there will be men who think you are already married and leave you alone,
    I live in Isaan and my wife and I have never experienced anything negative in this way
    go on vacation and enjoy the most beautiful country in the world

  26. jacky says up

    no problem I think feel free to move around but you always have to be careful, definitely watch all your stuff because of the poverty, have a good trip and big kiss

  27. rentier says up

    I have 2 good looking white mixed race daughters in Thailand. They are usually addressed as 'farang' (foreigner) but more with respect than as a challenge. They are not really blonde but have brown and no straight hair. They are also somewhat larger than most Thai. With their 'normal behavior' (using your mind) they have never experienced any problems or inconvenience. But as in any country and be it Thai men or foreigners, stay away from alcohol drinking men. They often have a little more courage to challenge you than 'down-to-earth men'. Your clothes are important. If you dress provocatively, you increase the risk, you may also be disadvantaged by jealous Thai women.
    Just come and enjoy yourself in Thailand and behave and dress 'normally'.

  28. Frank Kramer says up

    Eveline, congratulations on a great trip!

    Look stupid people who do very thoughtless things can get into trouble anywhere. That will undoubtedly not apply to you. You are rarely if ever harassed here by pushy men who want something sexual from you. Conversely, if I were you, I'd avoid certain types of late-night entertainment venues, unless you're into drunk dudes who've "lost their way home." Being harassed by testosterone bombs like in Mediterranean, Central and South American countries, that really doesn't happen here. Preferably choose places to stay where you don't have to look for a late Tuktuk driver at midnight to take you far to a suburb. Those guys sometimes want to ask emphatically if you are not too lonely…

    What usually goes wrong when traveling in Thailand is traffic accidents. Take the time to get used to it. when crossing, traffic comes from the wrong side. Old scooters sometimes trip over their own stand. footrests that stay out sometimes take the skin off your calves. I have been coming here for 18 years now and continue to take everything in traffic extremely seriously. Before anything else, take a week to taste for yourself what it is like here before you start doing adventurous things. you soon feel what life is like here. And, you can always ask a nice lady behind a bar, in a massage parlor or on a terrace to show you around. The girls in my favorite bar here in Chiang Mai regularly take young women traveling alone to a disco or night bar. Just girls together. and also in the guesthouses or hostels where you will sleep you can ask other women for some advice on the spot.

    Personally, I would avoid the places most popular with tourists. E.g. no Bangkok, Pukhet, Pattaya or Koh Samui. been there and personally haven't seen the real Thailand. For example, the islands of Koh Chang and Koh Mak are already very different (check blogs on the Internet). In my experience, both the Thai were the nicest and the offer and landscape the most varied in and around Ching Mai. And from CM you have 1.000 possibilities to never get bored. Yesterday I drove my scooter all day through the beautiful mountains. The roads are now top notch. The villages all have something to eat and drink for you. And when I got home I did a wonderful massage (had saddle pain after 7 hours) and had a romantic snack by the river (with live music).

    Enjoy it.

    Frank

  29. Jasper says up

    Fine to do in my opinion, just exercise normal caution and don't be naive, especially with non-Thai men!
    Furthermore, there is a very good chance that you will meet nice travel companions in no time, especially if you stay in regular guesthouses. and/or undertake an activity from rafting to jungle trekking.

  30. chris says up

    Of course you don't have to frighten anyone who wants to travel to this beautiful country unnecessarily, but it is also stupid to close your eyes to reality. And that reality, based on statistics of crimes and offenses, is that Thailand is a relatively violent and dangerous country: number of road deaths, murders, fights, robberies, alcohol abuse, domestic violence, theft, corruption. And for several reasons, the number and thus the insecurity is increasing. Thailand is also not unique in the world in this.
    It is not so much about men or women or about Thai citizens or tourists. They are equally at risk.
    When you travel you have to do three things: 1. prepare for the country you are going to (know what is and what is not allowed, what the penalties are for offenses and crimes, what is absolutely different from your own country) and 2. adapt to local norms and values. In the latter case, it is not about what is or is not allowed by law, but what is decent and appropriate, in short what is and is not appropriate in Thailand (one of which is not to wear provocative clothing on the street: you don't do that and not because it is dangerous). may be but because it shouldn't). Point 3: just always keep using your mind.

  31. Karel says up

    What is striking is the large number of reactions with “Thailand is safe”, which are based purely on the lack of bad personal experiences, instead of taking a look at the statistics and forgetting that there have also been terrorist attacks (BKK, Hua Hin + in South Thailand 6500 dead (including 157 teachers) and 12.000 injured between 2004 and 2015 – in 2017 2 more bomb attacks in Mueang Pattani District) with 57 injured. Well, no sensible person goes there.

    Despite everything, I feel safe in Thailand, but I avoid remote places during the night hours. This is partly because I know of 3 cases of foreigners who were robbed in a dark street on their way home.

    • Karel says up

      I would like to add that I think that traveling around Thailand is roughly as safe as in an average European country, but that you are more likely to be the victim of a traffic accident or petty crime such as a money changer who says he is only 5 received notes of 50 euros from you instead of 6. Or a 7-11 employee who says that you gave 500 baht instead of 1000.

      On the other hand, you are more likely to fall victim to a pickpocket in Amsterdam than in BKK

    • Pat says up

      If you have any reservations about the phrase “Thailand is safe”, then you need to read it!

      OF COURSE crime and violence ALSO occur in Thailand, but the reality is that things that are considered very normal in Western cities, because they occur daily, occur to a much lesser extent in Thailand.

      It strikes me that some people always want to keep an entire theory straight with a few (impressive, but existing) examples.

      For example, you can never make a general statement about a people, a community, or a country.

      Of course you can also become a victim of street violence in Thailand (I would say, because Muslims also live there), but it is much less common than in Flanders or the Netherlands.

      You know 3 cases, and I don't know a single one. That makes 1,5 cases.

      In Antwerp, just about everyone I know has been harassed and some have actually been robbed.
      Everyone knows someone who has experienced violence.

      Here you can read people's experiences about Thailand!

      In Thailand, on the other hand, there is much more corruption than in our countries, and you can go on…

      So I would recommend seeing everything in its proportion.

  32. Tino Kuis says up

    Dear Eveline,

    'Dress decently, normally, and not provocatively…', many responders say…..

    That doesn't mean anything other than that they actually think it's dangerous for a woman in Thailand. Because what is decent, normal and unchallenging depends not on your judgment but on the judgment of the man who is looking at you, and you have no influence on that.


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