Candle in the rain

By Gringo
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November 28 2011

About the growing problem of unwanted teenage pregnancies in Thailand.

She loves to read and performs well in a high school. Manee, a 16-year-old schoolgirl from a town in Chiang Rai province, should therefore have a carefree life. But alas, that is not the case. Manee takes care of her two-month-old baby whose father attends the same high school.

Another sad example of the consequences of unprotected sex is Manee's 15-year-old school friend, who died last year after being raped by her HIV-infected stepfather.

These are just two examples of a huge and growing problem in Thai society.

unwanted teenage pregnancies

According to a recent survey of socially disadvantaged children in northern Thailand, more than 70% of unwanted pregnancies occur in girls between the ages of 15 and 19. To underline the seriousness of this problem, it should be noted that last year Thailand - after South Africa - ranked second worldwide with the highest number of unwanted teenage pregnancies.

“They should go to school and get an education instead of getting pregnant,” says Sunan Samriamrum, of Plan International, an organization that works for these problem children. However, it is impossible for those girls to return to school, even if they stop breastfeeding. They have to find a job to support the young family”.

Sexual education

To prevent unwanted teenage pregnancies, the Pad Foundation, an organization under the Thai Health Promotion Foundation (THPF), started a 2008 million baht project in XNUMX. With the aim of raising the awareness of students about this growing problem.

The project called “Up to Me” focuses on initiating effective sex education in primary and secondary schools in the form of lectures, brochures and an educational film. Information through various media is also part of the project. In Bangkok and the surrounding area, people could speak of a certain success, but the Pad Foundation has now had to limit its activities due to a lack of budget. Plan International has since agreed to further support the project and is now the main sponsor.

Illegal abortion

While the mostly very young mothers certainly deserve attention, there are also a large number of schoolgirls who have secretly had an abortion. This group also needs care. “Girls who undergo an illegal abortion can suffer from physical and psychological problems. Some may even lose their ability to have children and their interest in possible relationships with men,” said Benjaporn Juntapoon, a nurse at the Health Promotion Department of Maechan Hospital in Chiang Rai province.

Based on her years of experience with this work, she says that this is not about “Bad Girls”. They are normal students, often with good study results, who fall in love and become pregnant.

Shame

Benjaporn also notes that the girls were generally completely trusted by their parents. As soon as they got into trouble, they were ashamed to talk to their parents about it. Instead, they turn to their friends and classmates, who usually get no further than advice to have an abortion in an "illegal" clinic.

The high number of unwanted pregnancies can be attributed to a number of factors. The basis is that the "physical puberty" occurs much earlier than before. Sometimes girls are fertile as early as 8 or 9 years old. Even before they get their period for the first time,” says CJ Hinke, one of the founders of “Freedom Against Censorship Thailand (FACT).

A second reason is that “sex education and contraception are not part of current curricula, although they should be mandatory,” Sunan said.

Role of parents

Parents also play an important role, of course, because, if at all, they are very reluctant to discuss this subject with their children. “I understand that something like this is not easy for parents, but it is very unwise to keep silent about it,” says Hinke.

It is not only the shyness and embarrassment of the Thai, but parents do not pay enough attention to their children anyway. “Today's parents are just too busy with their work and their own lives. Children's problems go unnoticed or ignored,” said Maechan Hospital's Benjaporn. "Sometimes the parents are the last to know that their daughters are pregnant."

Hinke pointed out that regardless of the embarrassment, society as a whole needs to be more open to contraception and abortion. “Abortion is not murder. They are unwanted children who otherwise face a difficult future,” he said.

HIV or AIDS

In addition to the large number of unplanned teenage pregnancies, another alarming statistic from Plan International shows that 85% of young mothers are not concerned about HIV or AIDS, making this group even more vulnerable.

To do something about this, Plan International wants to train 500 students in 10 schools in the north of Thailand this year. They must help promote safe sex among young people. Although small-scale, it is at least a step in the right direction.

Poverty

Data from Chiang Rai Hospital shows that in six months, more than 1000 girls under the age of 20 gave birth in the hospital. Although Thai law allows girls who have given birth to return to school, this rarely happens. Firstly, it is the poverty that almost forces these girls to work in order to feed their children. The other reason is a critical social environment. “After giving birth, they are the center of gossip among their classmates and they are ashamed to go back to school. They are also looked at with a skewed eye in the home environment, especially if it concerns a girl from an ethnic minority.”

All forms of information and assistance provided by the “Up to Me” project are aimed at convincing young girls that the temptation to have unprotected sex with their boyfriends is an impulsive and irresponsible act. Similar to lighting a candle in the stir. Before it warms you, it is wet and extinguishes.

A recent article from the Bangkok Post translated in summary form by Gringo.

10 Responses to “Candle in the Rain”

  1. Chang Noi says up

    Good subject, on which I would say "Religion destroys more than you love". As a result of religion and thus cultural influence, even addressing the option of abortion is virtually impossible.

    In addition, religion and cultural impact also has an attitude as a result of “Up to you” and “Mai pen rai” and “When it's my time then it's my time so I don't have to protect myself”.

    Fighting against the ruins of bad education and religion, I wish everyone strength. But even if there is only 1 whose life gets better then it is worth it.

    Chang Noi

    • Robert says up

      Well, religion…'Religion is dangerous because it allows human beings who don't have all the answers to think that they do. Most people would think it's wonderful when someone says, “I'm willing, Lord! I'll do whatever you want me to do!” Except that since there are no gods actually talking to us, that void is filled in by people with their own corruptions and limitations and agendas. And anyone who tells you they know, they just know what happens when you die, I promise you, they don't. How can I be so sure? Because I don't know, and they do not possess mental powers that I do not. The only appropriate attitude for man to have about the big questions is not the arrogant certitude that is the hallmark of religion, but doubt. Doubt is humble, and that's what man needs to be, considering that human history is just a litany of getting shit dead wrong. If you belonged to a political party or a social club that was tied to as much bigotry, misogyny, homophobia, violence, and sheer ignorance as religion is, you'd resign in protest. To do otherwise is to be an enabler, a mafia wife.' —Bill Maher, Religious

  2. francamsterdam says up

    Two things stand out to me in this post:

    1: On the one hand, it is stated: “They should go to school instead of getting pregnant.” while on the other hand it is stated: “It is normal students who fall in love and get pregnant.”

    There is apparently no consensus yet about the vulnerable group.

    2: “The basis (for the high number of pregnancies) is the fact that “physical puberty” occurs much earlier than before. Sometimes girls are fertile as early as 8 or 9 years old.”

    At the very least, this gives the impression that it has always been the case that girls of 8 or 9 had sexual intercourse, but that it is only now perceived as a problem because it causes them to become pregnant.

    Well, what should you do about that?
    Separate boys' and girls' schools and also keep the children separate outside school hours? It's not going to be.
    Putting money into a project where 7-year-olds are educated and have to worry about HIV/Aids?
    Not very realistic either.

    Then legalize abortion, no matter how annoying, it seems to me.

  3. francamsterdam says up

    A third point, though:

    3: “ALL forms of education and support of the “Up to Me” project are aimed at convincing young GIRLS that the temptation to have unprotected sex with their boyfriends is an impulsive and irresponsible act.”

    Perhaps it is advisable to focus 50% of the information on convincing (young) BOYS that it is irresponsible to have unprotected sex with their girlfriends. If a Thai girl who has been educated and a Thai boy who knows nothing about it ends up in bed, it is unlikely that a condom will be used. Moreover, it is no longer of this time to place the responsibility and the impulsive nature of a love affair with the girl alone.

    • Gringo says up

      @fransamsterdam: I translated the story from The Bangkok Post and I admit that some phrases are open to interpretation.

      1. I think you should read the first sentence you quoted as follows: a girl who becomes pregnant no longer goes to school. It is therefore ideal that she does not become pregnant and continues to go to school.
      2. That physical puberty is becoming visible earlier and earlier is something that we in the Netherlands are also familiar with. I'm no expert, but if I'm talking about myself, I'm indeed a bit older, it didn't occur to me to get into bed with a girl in my puberty. My first sex? I must have been 18 or 19 years old and that is different nowadays, isn't it?
      3. Whether 8 and 9 year olds are already having sex I doubt, but information about certain matters can do no harm for that group either. My 11 year old son is in pre-pubescent age and occasionally starts asking questions on this subject.
      4. That there should be a good and responsible (statutory) rule for legal abortion needs no discussion as far as I'm concerned. Absolutely desirable, if not necessary!
      5. The story is about unwanted pregnancies and it is therefore logical that girls are approached in the first place with this action. If they are well informed and convinced of the potential problems, they will, you hope, continue to say “No” to the boys and then a lot has already been won.
      6. If an “impulsive and irresponsible act” is committed by a boy and a girl, the girl will suffer the consequences. That's why the action is especially aimed at girls.
      7. Of course I completely agree with you that boys in the same age groups should also be well informed.

      Frans, I translated the story and put it on the blog, because I see a parallel with what we simply call a "bar girl". These are also often girls, who have been in a similar situation, become pregnant and the father withdraws from responsibility. She sits with the child and may solve the problem. Maybe, at least I hope so, this story will contribute a little to a little more understanding.
      Yes, I am often and increasingly annoyed by the disparaging way in which the “bar girls” are talked about, after all, as the story also states, they are not all “bad girls”.

      • Chang Noi says up

        Personally, I think that the way Thai society treats young people is almost a license for young people to have sex. And when it starts, you can indeed forget about the condom. Taking the pill also seems too difficult for many young girls. That's why when a daughter of a good friend of ours started puberty and started to get attention for boys, I recommended giving that daughter an injection pill. In NL she would be considered too young for that, I think. Daughter now has a stable relationship and no kids. Fortunately, her boyfriend also thinks they are much too young for that. Because not all kids are born accidentally, there are also many young girls who “find such a baby so cute” and decide to get pregnant without the knowledge of their boyfriend. Logical that friend then says “Bye”.

        Chang Noi

        • Gringo says up

          @Chang Noi: Your first comment may well be true. It is also for this reason that the “Up to me” campaign has been started to make some changes. A change of mentality is therefore desirable in that area and where better to start than with young people.

  4. Toos says up

    There is still a lot of work to be done in this area, including in Thailand

  5. gerryQ8 says up

    HH editorial

    Do you have an e-mail address where I can say something, which is indirectly related to this case, but which might lead to a new story? Please respond to my e-mail address.

    m fr gr

  6. william says up

    This week something happened again in the Isaan, the 2 nieces of my wife live about a kilometer away from us in a new house (mother works in pattaya).
    The house is close to the house of the mother's sister (their aunt).
    keep an eye on the 2 young girls (9 and 13 years old)
    here it comes: The aunt has had her husband's brother (6 years old) since about 26 weeks ago
    brought home because his wife died of aids., since a few weeks
    the family notices the attention of the cozy gathering of brother and eldest sister
    Yesterday my wife went to put her niece to the test about what it is about being together and whether there is more than that. After some insistence from my wife, the niece relented
    that she had sex with this man 3 times. now the big problem the niece is now one
    week overdue, and the brother of ( 26 years old ) came to live alone in our village because he was in his
    own village was looked at obliquely because he is HIV positive.
    let's see how this tragedy ends.....


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