“Upombwe ndohwakasikwa here? Chokwadi, chokwadi. ”… (Fons Jansen, Musangano 'Vagadziri veMagetsi')
Kwenguva yakati rebei ndakatamba nepfungwa yekunyora nyaya nezvebonde muThailand. Inogara iri musoro wakakurumbira, zvakare pane ino blog. Hazvishamisi, nekuti hapana munhu asiri kunze kune expat. Asi kwete nyaya yePattaya, iyo yekuenda-mabhawa, ladyboys, tomboys, matunhu evaraidzo muBangkok, saunas dzengochani kana karaoke mabara kumaruwa. Aihwa. Nyaya yekufunga nezvebonde uye muchato munharaunda yeThai, uye shanduko mairi.
Panofanira kugara paine chikonzero chekuti ndinyure mune imwe nyaya. Muchiitiko ichi, chikonzero chikuru kushamisika kwangu pane zvandinoona nekunzwa munzvimbo yangu. Rega ndipe mienzaniso mishoma:
- muvakidzani wangu (akarambana) ane vanhu vatatu pabonde (rudo?) hukama uye vashoma vanongosanganawo navo. Idzo dzakasununguka dzekubatana muchivakwa changu chekondomu dzakonzera kupopotedzana kwakawanda uye kurambana kushoma. Varume vatatu ava vakaroora vose;
- Varume veThai vanotyisidzira mukadzi wavo kana gig nechisimba kana achida kumusiya iye "achibiridzira" mune yedu terminology;
- Vakadzi vechiThai vanogara vachitya murume wavo wekare uye vanotora nhamba itsva yefoni;
- wezvematongerwo enyika wepamusoro weThai uyo - senhengo yedare revanopa mazano - anotarisisa mapikicha evadzidzi vatsva vechikadzi payunivhesiti yakazvimiririra kuti aone kuti ndevapi vadzimai mudiki vaangada kuva nechitoyi chitsva chebonde, hongu panguva chaiyo. mutengo unokwezva nguva nenguva yekubhadhara nemota imwe chete yeumbozha;
- vasikana vane mukurumbira, vane sexy vechiThai (vakaroora uye vasina kuroora) vanopedza mari yakawandisa pazuva (nehusiku) 'vachitandara' nevarume kubva kune dzimwe nyika jet-set;
- varume vakapfuma vekuThai vari mubhawa vachipa mumwe mukadzi wechiThai mari dzebonde kusvika azokundwa nemari;
- zvepabonde uye hukama (mia-noi, gig) pakati pevadyidzani kubva kune shoma network yezvematongerwo enyika, mauto, bhizinesi renyika, kwete kunyanya nekuda kwekunakidzwa kwepabonde asi zvakanyanya pakugadzira hukama hwepedyo, hwepedyo uye hwepfungwa uye nekuchinjana ruzivo ( chimiro chakapfava cheusori). Mumakirasi epamusoro muThailand, kune vana vanogara nevabereki, mumwe wavo asiri mubereki wekubereka. Uye mumwe mubereki anoziva izvozvo. Uye mwana iyeye anozonzwawo gare gare: ndinoda kuvadaidza kuti magariro epamutemo bastards.
Nemaziso eThai
Ini ndinofunga iwe unogona kuwedzera nyore kune iyi runyorwa rwemienzaniso iwe pachako kubva kune yako Thai nharaunda kana kana iwe ukaverenga Thai pepanhau zuva nezuva. Uye izvo zvinobuda nekuti hazvisi pamutemo (bonde nevana vadiki, kutengesa vakadzi, kuzvibatanidza nekutengesa zvinodhaka kana huori) kana kana mumwe munhu akabuda sezvakaitika makore maviri apfuura aine 30-year-old murume bachelor Thai movie star. Mufananidzo wake wakabuda paFacebook negumbo remukadzi waakanga arara naye. Pekutanga akazviramba zvese asi mushure memazuva mashoma akauya paTV amai vake vachichema (chaizvo) ndokutaura kuti ichokwadi.
Akanga aita bonde uye akanga asina kuroora, saka akanga aita misikanzwa. Icho chokwadi chekuti sebhachura rakapfuma anogona kuita izvozvo vhiki nevhiki (zvichida kusiya izvozvo, ndinofunga), hazvina basa. Zvino yakanga yava pachena. Uye ichi chinongova chidimbu chechando. Ndiri kutonzwa iwe uchifunga: zvese zvinosemesa, zvakapetwa kaviri (aka munyengeri) uye decadent. Asi zvino iwe unotonga nekukurumidza uye zvakanyanya kubva pakuona kwekuMadokero.
Maonero anotanga kubva pakufunga kweThais anoti zvinotevera. Kana zviri zvebonde, hunhu hwechirume, hwakafanana nehwemurume hunokosha zvikuru, hunokosheswa, hunogamuchirwa kupfuura hunhu hwechikadzi. Chero bedzi mukomana wacho achichengeta zvakanaka mia-noi yake uye gigi yake, anowedzera kana kushoma kuregererwa pakuva navo. Ndinowana fungidziro muzviitiko zvandinoona pachangu kuti zvakaipira kumukadzi 'akanyengedzwa' kuti murume wake anopa mumwe mukadzi mari (uye iye haazivi chaizvo kuti imarii uye kuti anorovha yakawanda sei mwedzi wega wega) kupfuura iyo yaainayo. kurara naye. Varume vavhimi, shure kwezvose.
VarongoNdinoziva, izvi zviri kuchinja pasi pesimba reNyika dzekuMadokero, asiwo munyika dzekuMadokero murume akaroora ane musikana kana tenzikadzi haaswedererwi zvisina kunaka nguva dzose. Mienzaniso inosanganisira madzishe asina kutaurwa evatungamiri veFrance Mitterand, Chirac uye nguva pfupi yadarika Hollande. Chirac aitoda kugovera sutu muhotera yakasarudzika natenzikadzi wake, mutambi wemufirimu Claudia Cardinale, paakanga ari kushanyira nyika kuThailand, asi izvo zvaive zvichienda kure kuhurumende yeThai kana pamwe pasi rese protocol.
Asi zvakare hurefu hwehumambo (hwakapfuura uye hwazvino) hausi iwo chaiwo emienzaniso kana zvasvika pahukama hwewanano yemurume mumwe chete: Prince Bernhard, King Juan Carlos, Prince Albert (Monaco), King Albert (Belgium), Prince Charles, Lady Di. Chii chimwe chinoshanda kune vese vakakwirira vehumambo (Middle East, Asia, Africa) vari maMuslim nekuti semuMuslim vanogona / vangave vakaroora kune anopfuura 1 mudzimai.
Barika
Kukwanisa kuroora mukadzi anopfuura 1 kwaive kuchiri kushanda muThailand kusvika 1935, apo barika rakarambidzwa nemutemo. Izvi zvinoreva kuti vamwe vechiThai vakura (kubva kumakirasi epamusoro emagariro) vanogona vachiri kurangarira kuti baba vavo vaive neanopfuura mukadzi mumwe. Uye madzimambo eThai zvakare aive nevakadzi vakawanda kare uye nekudaro nhamba huru yevana. Somuenzaniso, Mambo Mongkut akaroora paaiva 1 uye pakupera kwehupenyu hwake (muna 47) aiva nemadzimai makumi matatu nemaviri nevana makumi masere nevaviri. Uye hatisi kutaura nezveMiddle Ages pano, asi nezvezana ramakore rechi 1868, anenge makore 32 apfuura.
Vana vaMambo MongkutNaizvozvo hazvishamisi kuti mumwe mumiriri wechiRungu muBangkok panguva iyoyo akachema-chema kuti 'mambo akanga asingakwanisi kutonga nokuti akanga aneta nevakadzi, kushushikana uye zvinodhaka'. Kugadzwa kwakaitwa namambo weThai wemutemo wairambidza barika kwakatora nhamburiko yakati. Nekune rimwe divi, mambo aifanira kugutsikana kuti barika rakanga riri hutsinye, harina hunhu uye kuratidza kusadzora zvishuwo zvebonde. Madzimambo akati kuti aifarira kutsoropodzwa uku nokuti vaida kutorwa senhando kuMadokero. Zvisinei, vepamusoro vakanga vasingadi izvi. Akatoona nhaurirano yebarika ichishoropodza zvaiitika mudare. Unogona kutaura chimiro che<em>lèse-majesté.
Matauriro akashata saka haana kubva kune veThai elite, asi kubva kune vekunze, kunyanya madiplomate ekuMadokero nemamishinari. Iyo yekuMadokero, yerudo yakanaka yerudo yakaita basa risiri risingakoshi. Thailand, vamiriri vekuMadokero vakati, yaisazoonekwa senyika yakabudirira kudzamara barika rarambidzwa. Chimiro chekumanikidza Western tsika nemaitiro paThais, handizvo here?
Uye chekupedzisira asi chisiri chidiki
Handina kunyora izvi kutumira kuti ndikukurudzire iwe (seexpat kana ramangwana expat) kuita izvo isu kuMadokero tauya kuzodaidza hupombwe. Iwe unongofanirwa kuita uye kuramba uchiita izvo zvaunonzwa zvakanyanya kugadzikana nazvo (pamwe kana pasina mudiwa kana vadyidzani). Zvakanaka, kukuratidza hukama hwehukama hwewanano yerudo (pakati pevaroorani vaviri nekusabatanidzwa pabonde nevamwe: iyo yazvino modhi yekuMadokero, iyo, zvisinei, inoratidza kutsemuka kukuru; ini handifanire kukuudza izvozvo). Izvi hazvina kunaka kana kuti zvakajairwa neruzhinji rwevagari vepasi uye, mukutendiswa kwangu kwakasimba, haizove imwe. Ingotarisa-tarisa munyika dzakaita seIndia, Japan, South Africa neThailand. Kune zvakawanda pasi pezuva uye muimba yekurara pane kurara nemunhu mumwe chete. Vamwe munyika ino vari kufunga nezvekuroora zviri pamutemo chidhori chavo chepabonde kana murume wavo wechirume kana mukadzi, ini nguva pfupi yadarika ndakaverenga. Saka usashamisika (zvenguva yemberi) nezve chero chinhu. Uye kana iwe uri mumwechete uye uchida kuramba: ziva kuti uri wevashoma pasi pano.
Kwakabva: Leslie Ann Jeffrey (2007): Bonde neMiganhu: murume kana mukadzi, kuzivikanwa kwenyika uye mutemo wechipfambi muThailand.
Quote:
"Matauriro akashata saka haana kubva kune veThai elite, asi kubva kune vekunze, kunyanya vamiriri vekuMadokero nemamishinari."
Dzimwe nuances.
Paivewo neakawanda anotsoropodza nezve barika kubva kudivi reThais mukupera kwe19th uye kutanga kwe20th century. Ndakataura kuti:
https://www.thailandblog.nl/geschiedenis/veelwijverij-was-thailand-gewoon-hof-en-bourgeoisie/
Zvaunotsanangura zvinonyanya kuitika mumatunhu 'epamusoro' uye zvishoma neruzhinji rwevanhu. Unogona kuverenga pano kuti kwagara kuine kupatsanurwa kukuru muThailand pakati pevakuru uye 'vanhuwo zvavo' mutsika nemagariro maererano nebonde newanano:
https://www.thailandblog.nl/geschiedenis/man-vrouw-verhoudingen-zuidoost-azie/
Zvakafanana neJapan. Ian Buruma anotsanangura mubhuku rake 'The Mirror of the Sun Goddess', 1984, tsika dzekuroorana dzeJapan. Wanano yaive yakavakirwa pachimiro, mari uye simba. Bonde rakanaka uye kushamwaridzana zvakatsvakwa kunze kwemukova. Asi ipapo p. 51 mutsara unoshamisa uyu:
'Izvi zvakanga zvakasiyana nevarimi, avo vakanga vari vazhinji. Vaiwanzoroorana nokuda kworudo.'
Dzimwe nguva ndinotya iwe, Chris, wakanyanya kumusoro. Varume veThai shasha dzepasi rose mukubiridzira, asi vashoma vanogona kutenga chaiyo 'gig', ndoda imwe ine mota inodhura.
Mukadzi wangu wekuThai anogara achiyananisa nemhuri. Uye kazhinji inoshanda kunze. Isu hatina tsika iyoyo muBelgium
Varume vane magigi vanogara muchivako changu chekondomu (yakanyanya kurendi pakamuri 4.500 Baht) ndeiyi: mupurisa, makanika wemota (2*), anozvishandira (anotengesa makomputa), mutyairi uye mutengesi wemusika. Zvakanaka, kwete chaizvo vepamusoro nzanga kirasi. Izvi zvine chekuita ne20 kusvika 40 zviuru zveBaht pamwedzi.
Gig naMia Noi havana kunyatsofanana (sezvo iwe pasina mubvunzo unoziva)
Iyo gigi inonyanya kutaura nezvebonde, izvo zvisingawanzo sanganisira mubhadharo. Kune vakadzi muThailand vane makore 30+ vasina kuroorwa, vane basa uye, kunze kwekushanda, vanogara vari voga mukamuri ravo, vasingambo famba chero chinhu. Kana murume anoyevedza akauya, achivabata zvakanaka, achivabudisa kunze kunodya, nezvimwewo, vanowanzozvitora pachena kuti murume ari kutaurwa akaroora nekuti vanoda kunakidzwa ivo pachavo.
NeMia Noi kune humwe hukama chaihwo umo murume zvakare (muchidimbu) anochengetedza Mia Noi. Condo rendi, etc. Kazhinji ava ndivo vakadzi vanonyatso tevera hukama hwemia noi, kwete zvekusangana pabonde. Vanozviona zviri nyore kuti murume achengete hupenyu hwavo uye kana achitambawo pamubhedha, zvinongove zvakanakira. Kana akasadaro, ivo vanowanzova negigi ivo pachavo.
Uyu murume wechidiki akachena, akanaka uye ane murume mumwe adzidza zvakawanda zvakare. Funga kuti vatadzi vazhinji havapindi 'muHumambo hweKudenga' asi kuti vanoendeswa kugehena. Mubvunzo unosara kwandiri kuti chii chinonzi 'gig'?
chinhu chakanaka kwazvo.
gwenga.
chidhori
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กิ๊ก [gik] – mudiwa wepabonde usina kujairika; fuck shamwari
Kunobva: http://thai-language.com/id/141986
Sekuona kwandakaita uye nekuziva, hapana zvachose imwe muchato kana rudo tsika muThailand kupfuura, semuenzaniso, muNetherlands. Wedu waaizivana naye aigara neshamwari, ane mwanasikana, vakaparadzana nokuti akanga ane mwana nomumwe mukadzi, uye akaramba achipa mari yeroora kumusikana wake wokutanga nemwana. Zvechokwadi, mamiriro ezvinhu akadaro anoitikawo muThailand, asi ipapo kusimbiswa kwaizova pamusoro pekufungidzirwa kusatendeseka, hupombwe uye unzenza. Imaging, ndozvazvinonzi.
Murume wemukadzi wangu waanozivana naye akazoti zvakaramba mushure memakore ekuroorana uye akambofunga kuti anofanira kuva nemusikana. Musikana uyu aive akaenzana nezera nezera nemukadzi wake zvekuti vazhinji havana kunzwisisa kuti aitsvagei paari. Asi izvi padivi: mwanasikana wake akawana kuti baba vakanga vachikoira pedyo nepoto, amai vake navamwene vababa vake vakaratidzira, uye vari vatatu vakanga vanyatsosuka nzeve dzababa. Uyu muenzaniso unobvawo kuNetherlands.
Kana iwe ukaunzwa nemazvo kuThai moeres, iwe uchaona kuti muThailand zvinhu zvinoitika pachena zvakanyanya, vavariro dzakajeka zvakanyanya, uye matambudziko ehukama haana kunyanya kuchengetwa mumba. Paunenge uchifunga kuti nyadzi dzinohwanda. Iyo Thai psyche inoumbwa zvakanyanya zvakasiyana, ichiita kuti iite sekunge jasi rerudo rinovhara zvakanyanya. Asi nei zvichiitika kuti zviitiko zvishoma (zvinouraya) zvinogadzira nhau muThailand dzakavakirwa pagodo?
Funga iwe: hunhu hunogara hunoratidza maonero kuburikidza nemazera, uye hazvigoneke kuyedza tsika dzekuMabvazuva dzichipesana nedzeMadokero. Kuzvikudza kunogara kuripo. Chekupedzisira, ndinotenda zvinotaurwa naTino Kuis: Ruzhinji rwevanhu veThai vanopinda muhukama hunoenderana nesarudzo dzerudo.
Idzo dzinozivikanwa dzeboka rebonde/misangano yemakirasi mazhinji epamusoro zvakare inovavarira kukwanisa kuita chitsotsi gare gare, kana zvichidikanwa. Unoti husori.
Kuti pacharo kuroorana kunopedzwa nekuda kwezvinzvimbo / makirasi, saka mari uye "chaiyo" hupenyu hwepabonde hunowana nzvimbo yahwo kunze, huri kunyanya kufanana kana iwe ukaitarisa pasi rose pane iyo isiri yechokwadi yerudo maonero ari kubuda pano. Nevarimi, zvichingodaro, chaive chinhu chakajairika chekutengesa: mukadzi aifanira kukwanisa kushanda zvakanaka, semombe kana nzombe.
Upombwe hahusi husiri hwomuzvarirwo, kwete nguva dzose hunogamuchirwa munzanga.
Iwewo hauudze shumba kuti hazvisi pamutemo kuti ine shumbakadzi dzakawanda muharare yayo.
Saka hazvinei nechekuita nemasikirwo kana asiri emusikirwo.
Kana hosha inouraya yaizobuda, ichibata varume chete, ichiuraya chikamu chikuru chevanhu, hukama nevakadzi vakawanda hunogona kuve "musikirwo" chiyero.
Hongu, unogona kutaura saizvozvo! Usabvuma. Shumba imhuka. Isu tiri vanhu uye tinogona kufunga zvine musoro. Uye chirwere chinouraya icho chinongobata varume chete hachisi kuuya.
Zvakanaka, isu vanhu, tinozvisiyanisa kubva kumhuka. Asi kubva kumhuka. Mamwe maitiro edu anogona kutsanangurwa "mhuka". Kunyange zvazvo kune vakawanda vanoedza kupembedza kuita kwavo unzenza neizvi.
Iyo nuance ye "zvinogona" kufunga zvine musoro ndeyechokwadi. “Tinokwanisa” asi vazhinji havadaro.
Mumwe munhu anotenga mota kazhinji anonyatsoziva kuti ndeipi mhando yakavimbika uye yakasimba. Asi "pfungwa" dzinowanzotenga imwe mhando, ine zvinodhura sarudzo, ine injini ine simba, nezvimwe.
Ngationei kuti munhu achiri kushanduka.
Munhu haasi kupfuura mhuka yakabudirira (inoyamwisa).
Kushaikwa kwemitemo kunoita kuti munhu ave mhuka isina hunhu, mutorwa.
Uye Leo? Shumba inorwira shumbakadzi kusvikira yafa uye, pashure pokukunda kwayo, inouraya vana vose veshumba. Shumba iyi inobva yabvuma kupihwa pamuviri nemumwe wayo. Zvisikwa here kana kuti kwete?
Ini ndaifanira kuseka mitsara yaChirac natenzikadzi wake, asi kuti izvi zvaive zvisiri maererano neprotocol. Ndakabva ndangofunga nezvemuThai aizivikanwa akabhururuka achienda kuJapan natenzikadzi wake asi kuti maJapan haana kuenda nazvo, ipapo pakanga paine chimwe chinhu pamusoro pekuvhara nzira yekumhan'ara mukuratidzira ...
Kana dziri hupombwe, muThai wandinotaura naye (kunyanya vanhukadzi, vanenge makumi matatu seni, vepakati) havazvibvumire. Saka zvakandiomera kuti ndifungidzire kuti nevanhuwo zvavo veThai vakabuda muchikamu chekuyedza sevechidiki (vechiri kuyaruka, makore ekutanga makumi maviri) uye vauya muukama hwakagadzikana, hupombwe hunoitwa muhuwandu hukuru nekuchengeta magigi, mia nois (mibatanidzwa. ) , samee nois (varume vechipiri) etc.
Kana mese mukawana mari yenyu yakakosha mupfungwa nemumuviri muhukama, pane chikonzero chidiki chekukoira kunze kwehari. Izvo zvine mibairo mishoma kana yabuda: hukama hunogona kuparara, iwe kana mumwe wako muchatiza uye haisiriyo chiitiko chinofadza…
Nekudaro, ini ndinogona kufungidzira kuti mumakirasi epamusoro kana pakati pevadiki Thai, izvi zvinowanzoitika nekuda kwezvikonzero zvaunotaura: pesvedzero, kuedza, kusakwanisa kuramba muedzo wemari hombe, nezvimwe.
Izvo vanhu vashoma vanotaura nezvacho uye vanoziva nezvazvo, uye zvakakosha, ndezvekuti munhu wese nemhuka ine musikirwo wepasi pano wekuberekana wega. Muvarume, izvi zvinotonyanya kuoneka mukuchembera nekuti uropi hwemunhu hunoziva kuti hunyanzvi hwahwo hwekugadzira huri kudzikira nekukura.
Naizvozvo, varume vanodikanwa, zvakajairika kuti kune kuwedzera kukuru kwechido muvakadzi vakati wandei kuitira kuti vaone kubereka kwepanyama. Ichi ndicho chikonzero zvakare kuti vazhinji vekunze vanouya kuzogara "pano" muThailand, nekuti kupihwa kwevakadzi kupindura kune zvakasikwa zviri nyore uye zvakachipa.
Ruzivo urwu runofanira kutsanangurirwa kuvakadzi veThai kubva vachiri vadiki, kuti zvinofanirwa kugamuchirwa munharaunda kuti murume dzimwe nguva anotsvedza zvisizvo. Paizova nechatanuro shomanene uye vashoma vakadzi vaduku vasina kuroorwa avo zvino vanotakura mutoro mukuru wezviito zvavo zvegodo.
Mu "nyika yakabudirira" hunhu hwakamanikidzwa patiri nevezvitendero nezve mararamiro atinofanira kuita ... izvi hazvisi zvechisikigo.
Ndinewo shoko kumadzimai.
Vakadzi vanodikanwa,
Varume venyu hapana mubvunzo kuti varume vakanaka kwazvo, asi vasina kunyatsokodzera kubereka. Mbeu yavo yasakara. Tsvaga vamwe varume vechidiki, vakasimba, vane simba, vakangwara, uye vakanaka kuti vabereke vana. Udza murume wako kuti izvi ndezvehupenyu uye nekushanduka-shanduka kwakarurama, asi kuti uchiri kumuda zvikuru. Rombo rakanaka!
Murume chaiye.
PS Unogonawo kutsvaga munhu anopa urume!