Ndakaroora mukadzi wechiThai muNetherlands kunze kwenharaunda yenzvimbo. Handina kuroorwa kuThailand. Kana ndikafa achawana mugove wemwana. Yakanyorwa pane notary.
Ini nemudzimai wangu wekuThai takavakirwa imba mudunhu reSurin makore manomwe apfuura. Nzvimbo yatakavaka imba yaive yemudzimai wangu. Toti mudzimai wangu akafa uye hatina kundirongera imba yekurojesa? Chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuti ini ndichafanira kutama. Ndine mimwe mibvunzo pamusoro pemamiriro ezvinhu akamuka.
Imwe shamwari yangu yechiDutch yakashaya gore rino muBangkok. Akagara nemudiwa vhiza muThailand kweanopfuura makore gumi. Zviri pamutemo muNetherlands kwemakore ekupedzisira e10 nekuda kwekudiwa kweDutch kurapwa muAnthonie van Leeuwenhoek Hospital. Mwedzi mitatu yapfuura kuThailand paakanga asiri kurapwa.
Pane chero munhu anoziva mucherechedzi muNetherlands anozivawo kana ane ruzivo nemutemo weThai maererano nenhaka?
Muverengi Mubvunzo: Rufu uye Thai Nhaka Mutemo/
Pane munhu anoziva nezvemutemo weThai? Shamwari yakafa nekuda kwetsaona mushure memazuva masere emuchato wakanyoreswa weThai (wakajairika). Chii chinoitika nemidziyo nemabhangi, inishuwarenzi yetsaona uye mutemo wenhaka? Ane hanzvadzi 8 dzinoda kutora zvese. Hongu, chokwadi ndezvemari. Hanzvadzi neshamwari dzake (shamwari yepamoyo) vakatobvisa muakaundi yekubhangi kuGermany yandinoziva uye ndine umboo. Asi ikozvino ivo vanodawo kubatsirwa kubva kuinishuwarenzi yake yetsaona (akanga ane inishuwarenzi neADAC Germany).
Tine imba muPhuket. Kana ndikafa, vana vangu vechiDutch vachagara nhaka imba yangu here kana kuti ndinofanira kuita wiri muThailand negweta kana gweta?
Mubvunzo wemuverengi: Gweta renhaka rinodiwa muBangkok
Ndine makore 75 ekuberekwa uye ndiri kutsvaga gweta rakanaka kana femu yezvemutemo kuti ndiwane mazano uye pamutemo wewiri. Ndinoda kuziva kana iwe uchigona kurumbidza mumwe munhu ari padyo neSilom, Sathorn kana Thonburi (Bangkok) anoshanda mumutemo wenhaka.
Ndiri kutsvaga mumwe munhu (gweta? ndoda muDutch) anonzwisisa mutemo wenhaka yeThai. Pane mumwe munhu angandibatsira here neizvi?
Ndingaisa zvinhu zvedu zvese muThailand muhomwe?
Ndinoshamisika kana kune chinhu chakadai sehomwe muThailand, mukupindura kune zvinotevera. Ini pachangu ndiri 67, musikana wangu weThai 56 uye ane mwanakomana we 21. Paanofa achagara nhaka yezvinhu zvose, iyi imba (makore masere) uye mamiriyoni matanhatu baht. Zvisinei, sezvo ari “nyati” inoshandiswa nyore nyore (ndinotenda kuti munhu wose anoziva zvazvinoreva), ndakarayira musikana wangu kuti aise zvinhu zvedu zvose muhomwe.
Kana mudzimai wangu wekuThai akafa, ini (kana vana) ndinekodzero yemidziyo yake here?
Ndakaroora mumwe mukadzi aibva kuThailand kuNetherlands muna 1990. Tine vana vaviri uye zvino tinoda kuchata muThailand. mubvunzo wangu ndewekuti: kana mudzimai wangu akafa, ini (kana vana) ndine kodzero yekuwana midziyo yemudzimai wangu, iyo yaakagamuchira kubva kuvabereki vake?
Mazano pamusoro pemutemo wenhaka muThailand parufu?
Takatenga condo muzita remurume wangu neni uye ichapedzwa mumwedzi mishoma. Ndine mubvunzo kuti zvine hungwaru here isu tese tichiri fit, toendesawo kondomu kuzita remwana wedu pakusununguka kudzivirira mwana wedu matambudziko kana afa? Anobva angove muridzi wenyaya iyoyo maererano nemutemo weThai kana kuti isu tinofanirwa kuronga zvimwe?
Ini ndiri mugari wechiDutch ane vhiza yegore uye ndinogara muThailand. MuNetherlands, maererano nemutemo, haugone kupa vana vako nhaka, kungoderedza mugove wavo wepamutemo kusvika pahafu. Mubvunzo wangu: Ndinogona here kubvisa vana vangu vechiDutch nechido cheThai?
Mubvunzo wevaverengi: Chii chinotsanangurwa mumutemo wenhaka yeThai kana pasina chido?
Mubvunzo wangu une chekuita ne "kodzero" dzemwanasikana weThai (mukadzi wangu) parufu rwevabereki vake veThai. Sezvo vari varimi varombo vomuSurin, mwanasikana wavo mumwe bedzi, mudzimai wangu, anobetsera nomugove womwedzi nomwedzi womuhoro wake.
Vamwene vangu vari panjodzi yekuwirwa nechikwereti chemba kana vabereki vavo vakangoerekana vafa. Makore mashoma apfuura shamwari yangu yakakwanisa kukwereta imba yasekuru nasekuru vake, asi zvinosuruvarisa kuti munin'ina wake wekurera akakwanisa kuvanyengedza kuti vadzoke uye 'kumukweretesa' mari yacho.
Ndakaroorwa muThailand (kwete pamutemo) uye ndakaroorwa zviri pamutemo muNetherlands. Mwanakomana wedu akaberekwa mwedzi miviri yapfuura muNL. Mukadzi wangu ane chizvarwa cheThai.
Mubvunzo wemuverengi: Mwanakomana wangu anogona kutora nzvimbo yeaimbova murume wangu wekuThai?
Ndakaroorwa nemurume wechiThai pakati pa2000 na2014. Takachata muNetherlands uye mushure mekunge adzokera kuThailand muna 2013 (pasina kubvunzana) ndakamuramba unilaterally muna 2014 pasi pemutemo weDutch. Tose takava nemwanakomana mu2001 akaberekwa uye akakurira muNetherlands.
Mukomana wangu akashaya kuThailand muna Ndira. Akanga agara ikoko kwemakore gumi uye akanga asisina nzvimbo yekugara muBelgium. Kuti aronge nhaka yake muBelgium, mwanakomana wake anoda chitupa chekutsiva maererano nemutemo weThai.