Maonero akaitwa naNoi, mukadzi wechiThai

By Lodewijk Lagemaat
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11 October 2019

Kwete, mudiwa wangu, vakadzi vechiThai havangofariri mari chete. Semuenzaniso, iniwo ndinofarira chokoreti uye Champagne. Vakadzi vese vanofarira kutsvaga murume anogona kuvatsigira ivo nevana vavo (uye mhuri muThailand).

Sei chero mukadzi angada kuroorwa nemurume asina mari? Unoda izvozvo here? Hakuna vakaroorana vakawanda munyika vaungati Romeo naJuliet, asi kune zviuru zvewanano yakanaka, iyo iripo kuitira kubatsirana kwevose vari vaviri. Handisi kuti 'romance' yakafa, asi muchato unobva pane zvisingatarisirwi zvinotungamirirawo kumarara.

Kana mukadzi muchifarana, nemari yamuinayo kana kuti hamuna, ingonakidzwai nehupenyu kwete kuterera zvinotaurwa nevamwe mumabhawa.

11 mhinduro ku "Maonero naNoi, mukadzi wechiThai"

  1. Han anoti kumusoro

    Mupfupi asi kutapira

  2. Rob V. anoti kumusoro

    Hongu sei mukadzi achiroora murume asina mari/basa? Sei murume achiroora mukadzi asina mari/basa? Neniwo handingade kuitawo munhu wekufambidzana naye asingagone kana kuzviriritira. Izvo zvinogadzira mamiriro anotsamira. Wondipawo murume akasimba, ane chido, anonaka anoziva tambo uye anounganidza mari yakanaka mwedzi wega wega. Asi zvese izvi zvinongoshanda kwandiri kana paine rudo, kune vakadzi vakawanda vakanaka vanowanikwa, asi pasina spark kana shungu handione hukama huchigarisa.

    Kwete kuti ndine fungidziro yekuti kana mhuri ikasangana nematambudziko emari hukama hunogona kurarama parudo chete, kwete, saka hukama hwakawanda hunopera pamatombo. Denga pamusoro pemusoro, mupunga / chingwa patafura uye kuremekedzana chinhu chinodiwa kwatiri tose. Rudo haruzove rwakanyanya kutaurwa nemunhu wese, uye harufanire kuva mumaonero angu chero vaviri vachigutsikana nehukama hwavo. Saka zvirokwazvo, chero bedzi iwe nomudzimai wako (mudiwa) muchigutsikana mumwe nomumwe.

  3. Joop anoti kumusoro

    Zvinoita kwandiri ipfungwa ine hutano kumukadzi wechiThai kuti murume wake/mukomana wake anogona kumuchengeta (uye angangove vana vake). Izvo zvakasiyana zvakanyanya nesu muNetherlands?
    Mumazuva ekare (apo zvinhu zvose zvakanga zviri nani kana kuti kwete) murume aifanira kukumbira baba vomudiwa wake ruoko rwomwanasikana wake mukuroora. Mubvunzo wekutanga wakabvunzwa natezvara vamangwana waive wekuti mujaya uyu aikwanisa here kuchengeta mwanasikana wake nenzira yaaive ajaira.
    Muchidimbu, hapana chitsva pasi pezuva; Mabvazuva neMadokero hazvina kusiyana zvakanyanya kubva kune mumwe nemumwe pachinhu ichi.

    • marcello anoti kumusoro

      Kwete chokwadi zvachose, zvirokwazvo kwete muNetherlands uko vakadzi vanodzidza vobva vaenda kubasa. Saka vanonyanya kutsamira pamurume. Havadiwo kutsamira pamurume. Izvi zvakasiyana chaizvo muThailand.

      • Rob V. anoti kumusoro

        Ini ndinokahadzika kuti mukadzi weThai aisazoda kuzvimiririra mune zvemari, aine basa rakanaka uye nekudaro asiri panjodzi yekusiiwa asina chinhu kana hukama hwaputsika.

        • Rob V. anoti kumusoro

          Pawebsite yeThai MFA zvakanyorwa kuti 38% yevatungamiri (vatungamiri) vakadzi, zvichienzaniswa nehuwandu hwepasi rose hwe 24. Izvi zvinoisa Thailand pamusoro pe10. Uyezve, vanonyora:

          “Vakadzi veThai vakaita nhanho huru munguva shoma yapfuura
          makumi emakore. Yakasimbiswa neSEP's egalitarian methodology
          uye kutarisa kwayo pakusimudzira kuzviriritira, huwandu hwe
          zvirongwa zvekusimudzira zvakabatsira vakadzi kumativi ese
          humambo kusimudzira raramo inoenderera, kuwanda
          kuzvimiririra, uye kutora mabasa ehutungamiriri. ”

          - http://www.mfa.go.th/sep4sdgs/en/articles/70260-SEP-Approach-towards-SDGs.html
          - http://www.mfa.go.th/sep4sdgs/contents/filemanager/images/sep/5.pdf

          Ko vakadzi veThai vanotora nhanho kumashure pavanouya kuNetherlands?
          Ona thesis yekutama kwevakadzi vechiThai kuenda kuNetherlands sechinyorwa chakanaka chekuverenga. Kubva papeji 95 pane chitsauko chinoti “Financial planning within the house”. Izvi zvinotanga nesumo yekukamukana kwemari muThailand, semuenzaniso vakaroora vepakati-kati vakatama kubva kumaruwa kuenda kuguta vanokamura mari yavo kuita poto yemba uye poto yevabereki kumativi ese, kazhinji inotungamirirwa nemukadzi. . Pamusoro pevakadzi vechiThai muNetherlands zvinonzi mushure mekubva kune imwe nyika mukadzi anotarisira mupiro wemari kubva kumurume ("... anotarisirwa kugamuchira mari yemwedzi kubva kuvarume vavo vechiDutch"). Zvisineyi, izvi hazvinyanyi kukanganiswa nemamiriro ezvinhu/kuparadzirwa kumashure muThailand ("Tarisiro iyi haina kukanganiswa zvakanyanya nemaitiro emari anoonekwa mumhuri munharaunda yeThai").

          Zvinoenderana neThesis, ruzhinji rwevarume vechiDutch havana kubvumidza account yebhangi yakabatana kubva kwaibhadharwa mari yezuva nezuva. Asi izvi zvakanga zvakaoma kugaya kumadzimai eThai, avo vaisakwanisa kuita chero chinhu chipi zvacho kuti vavandudze nzvimbo yavo yekutaurirana vachitarisana nevarume vavo. ("Kune vakadzi vekuThai vanotama, zvaive zvakaoma kugamuchira izvi"). Mashoko anobva kune mumwe mukadzi: “Ndakanga ndashanda somukuru mukuru wehurumende uye ndakawana muhoro wangu pandaiva muThailand. Ndaigona kushandisa mari yangu pane zvandaida. Apa handikwanise kuzviita ndakasununguka nekuti handina
          mari. Ndaifanira kujairana zvakanyanya. “.

          The thesis inobva yaenderera mberi pamusoro pekuti vakadzi vanowanzotsvaga sei basa kuti vawane mari yavo uye kusimbisa nzvimbo yavo yekutaurirana mukati memhuri. Uye zvakare kuti madzimai ainyatsoziva rusununguko rwavo rwemari muThailand ("Kuziva rusununguko rwavo rwehupfumi muThailand") zvinopa chishuwo chekutsvakawo basa muNetherlands.

          - https://openaccess.leidenuniv.nl/handle/1887/13833
          - https://openaccess.leidenuniv.nl/bitstream/handle/1887/13833/Full%20text.pdf?sequence=9

      • Jasper anoti kumusoro

        Kudzidza uyezve kushanda vakadzi vechiDutch vanonyanya kusarudza kushanda-nguva, kana kumira kana vaine vana. Kwete nokuti murume anoda, asi nechisarudzo - vakadzi vasina varume vanowanzoshanda nguva-nguva.
        Mhedzisiro ichiri kutsamira pamari kumurume uye kudiwa kwearimony muchiitiko chekurambana.
        Saka hapana musiyano wakawanda kudaro. MuThailand, ruzhinji rwevakadzi vanoshanda, kazhinji nguva yakazara, kunyangwe vaine vana. Vanongowana mari shoma pazviri.

  4. Jacques anoti kumusoro

    Mari haisiriyo simba rinokurudzira hukama hwakanaka. Rudo, kutarisira, kuzvipira, kutarisisa uye kuda kuenda kumusoro uye kupfuura ndizvo zvinosarudza zvekubudirira kana kukundikana kwehukama. Dai zvanga zvakadaro, vazhinji havaizombokwanisa kupinda muhukama. Kunyanya muThailand uko kune hurombo hwakawanda. Vechidiki vari kutanga uye vachiri nezvakawanda zvekuvaka zvakasikwa havana zvikamu zvemari kuti izvi zviitike. Ndizvo chaizvo zvakapesana zvinoita kuti hukama husimbe chero bedzi zvimwe zvinhu zviripo. Zano rangu pamusoro pekupedzisira nderekuti usateerere zvinotaurwa nevamwe vanhu mumabhawa, gara kure neko, nekuti izvo hazvina kumbobatsira chero munhu.

  5. Maurice anoti kumusoro

    Chokoreti inodhura mari (inenge yakanaka).
    Iwewo hautore champagne pasina. Kwete kana champagne yakaipa.
    Kuchengeta mhuri kunoda matani emari….
    Mhuri muThailand inoda
    hongu zvakare dzimwe nguva kuwedzera. Hapana mari yechokoreti, ndapota.
    Saka zvese zvinoda mari.
    Tiri kutaura nezvei?

  6. Murata anoti kumusoro

    Ah imbomira zvishoma, ndakasangana netsvarakadenga yechiThai uye zvese zvaaitaura nezve kumuchengeta zvine mukurumbira nemari yangu. Ndakanga ndiine rugare naamai nababa chete, asi mukoma, hanzvadzi, sekuru, tete, nezvimwewo. Ndakashanyira Buriram uye munhu wose aifunga kuti vakanga vakapfuma nokunditsanangurira zvavaida vose. Mudhudhudhu, aoto yekumba nyika mvumo yepamwedzi. Uye nokuda kwemuchato chete 500 zviuru zvebhati. Ini handina chandakataura kunze kwekunyemwerera kwechiThai uye pandakadzokera kuHua Hin ndakarambana naye ndokuenda kuPattaya.

    • Han anoti kumusoro

      Mwanasikana wangu aitova neimba “chaiyo” ine munda mukuru. Mhuri yake yose inozvitarisira imene, kunyange zvazvo ndichifanira kutaura nenzira yokutendeseka kuti baba vake, mushandi wokuvaka, vari kuchembera uye havachagoni kushanda zuva riri rose. Pano neapo ndaibatsira imwe mhuri nokuikweretesa mari, yandaidzoserwa nguva dzose, saka hapana chandinofanira kuita. Semuyenzaniso, hanzvadzi yake yakanga isina mari yechikuta chitsva uye inoda kuti iende kufekitari, saka akaikwereta ndokudzorera 1000 baht pamwedzi pasina mubereko. Kwete pasina uye izvo hazvibvi kwandiri asi kubva kwaari.
      Patakaonana ndakamubudira pachena kuti handidi kuti aswere ari kubasa ndikamumirira zuva rose. Saka paakawana imwe mari kubudikidza neni, akaita makosi. Mazuva ano anogadzira makeke nemakuki ekuodha, ane mamwe mapeji eFacebook kudzivirira zvinhu zvakasiyana uye anowana avhareji mari yeThai kubva kumba. Anovenga kana achivimba neni zvachose.
      Aizorasa humbozha hwaanokwanisa kuwana neni kana akaona sokuti ari kutsamira pandiri uye ini ndaizotora mukana iwoyo.

      Unogona kunge wakaita rombo rakaipa, asi haufanirwe kuita zvakazara.


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