Vadiwa vaverengi,
Mushure memamiriro ese nevakadzi veThai (vanodzoka nguva dzese), ndichine mubvunzo wakapusa. Chii chingave musiyano wezera pakati pehukama uye pakupedzisira rudo rwechokwadi,
10, 15, 20, 25 makore kana kupfuura makore makumi matatu? Munhu wese anogona kuzadza izvi mazviri.
Izvo zvine chokwadi muhukama hukuru mutsauko wezera, anowedzera matambudziko. Ngatizvichengete pamakore gumi nemashanu. Mukadzi ane makore 15 murume ane makore 40 okuberekwa. Zvechokwadi tinotaura nezvezera re phalang. Atova nevana vanozvichengeta. Kazhinji haashamisi mushure memwedzi mishomanana kana kupfuura kuti kuchine vana kubva muukama hwekare. Kazhinji munyika yekusangana nemukadzi wechiThai, inyika isingasanganisire musikana wepapurazi. Muzviitiko zvakawanda uyu zvakare mwana weFalang.
Ingomira ipapo uye uve murudo, kunyanya kana musiyano uri 25 kana kupfuura makore makumi matatu. Nyaya zhinji dziri pablog kubva kushamwari dzekunze dzinotaura nyaya dzinotyisa dzaunza izvi pavari. Ini zvakare ndinoziva mienzaniso munharaunda yangu uko izvi zvese zvinoshanda nemazvo. Ikoko hakuna vakawanda kudaro.
Saka mubvunzo wangu ndewekuti, ndechipi chimwe chiri musiyano wezera?
Cor van Kampen.
PS: Kungokuzivisa iwe. Mudzimai wangu mudiki kwandiri nemakore gumi nemasere.
Cor, musiyano wezera unofambirana nekukora kwechikwama chako. Pane akamboda kundisimbisa kuti moyo wako wakanaka. Icho ichokwadi, nokuti nemoyo wakanaka mune rupo.
Joseph, ane chokwadi chaizvo, asi hapana anoteerera kune izvozvo. kusiyana kwezera re35 zvichikwira, saka kubatana nemumwe munhu angave ari muzukuru wako zvinongoruramiswa sechinhu chakajairika. Ndazviona zvakanyanya. Saka ini ndinofunga kuti ukobvu hwechikwama uye ndiro yemusoro inoita basa guru 🙂
Mhoroi Marcus! Unorevei, ndiro yemusoro wako? Tarisa uone zviri kuitwa naMick Jagger ane makore makumi manomwe! Ane mari, zvirokwazvo kwete ndiro yemusoro wake, akanyanya kungwara nekuda kweizvozvo, haagone kurarama kwenguva yakareba, uye kana uchikwanisa kuzvitenga ... sei kwete Ferrari uye musikana makore 70 muduku? Kunyanya kana uchiri pabonde. ;O) Ndakafunga kuti tsinhiro yaJoseph yakanga yakanaka kwazvo (uye yakakodzera), kwaziso Klaus
thanks joseph
Ini ndiri mukuru kune musikana wangu nemakore 8, saka zvinoreva kuti ndinofanira kuwana ka8? (zvechokwadi izvi ndizvo zvakaitika pakutanga kwehukama hwedu) margin inosvika makore manomwe - wink.
Ngatisanganei kubva zvino; 10 makore 10.000 / mwedzi; etc. saka makore 30 30.000/mwedzi 😉
Okay zvinosiya mwana weThai mmm kana wako, hazvina basa here??
Hugh H wePlayboy anohwina 😉
Rudo nemari zvinonetsa kusiyanisa 🙁
Mudiwa wangu ane 42 uye 55, pamwe chete kwemakore gumi nerimwe, unogona kuvimba nazvo; kubva kuRia Valk kwakaimba rudo rwese rwemurume runopinda nemudumbu uye ndinoimba rudo rwemukadzi wako; nemusika wemasheya zvakanyanya.
Kwaziso kubva kune akaroora murume asina kuroora 🙂
Uku kutaura kusina musoro kwakadini! Ini nemumwe wangu tine zera rakasiyana kwemakore makumi matatu nemashanu, uye tave murudo uye hukama hwakasimba kwemakore manomwe. Pasina matambudziko, pasina kudzingirira mari! Saka zvinogoneka!
Chero bedzi iwe ukashandisa njere dzako, chenjera waunodyidzana naye, uye sarudza mudiwa akakodzera, sezvaungaita kuNetherlands ...
Ndinobvumirana naAlex zvachose, zera rangu rakasiyana imakore makumi matatu nematanhatu uye tave nemakore anoda kusvika gumi. Handina kunyatsoteerera muNetherlands uye ndakaora mwoyo ikoko. Not here so oh hameno pamwe ichokwadi after all age is just a number?
Takasiyana nemakore makumi matatu pazera uye tichange tave nemakore makumi maviri tiri tese mwedzi unouya. Isu tinorarama nemari yangu yepakati uye haisi mari yakawanda.
Mutsauko wedu wezera i38 years.
Ehezve munyika dzekuMadokero makore mazhinji, muThailand anoverengera zvishoma.
Uye pachava nevanotaura kuti imhaka yehurombo huripo.
Tarisa, takatoita hurukuro iyoyo, nezvimwe, nezvimwe.
Asi iwe zvakare unayo iyo muNetherlands (uye kwete nekuda kwemari chete).
Asi ndinofunga kuti kana muchidanana uye pane hukama
Izvi zvinoreva kuti hapana chinovadzivisa kugara pamwe chete, semuenzaniso muNetherlands
kana kumwewo.
Kudzidza nezvetsika dzemumwe nemumwe chinhu chinoda kukosha.
Ini ndangoonawo kuti tine musiyano wemakore makumi maviri nemapfumbamwe, ndakanga ndisati ndamboona izvi 🙂
Isu tiri kuitawo zvakanaka kwazvo, hatina kumbova nedambudziko neizvi muno muThailand, asi ndinofunga kuti izvi hazvigamuchirwi mutsika dzekuMadokero.
Usambokanganwa kuti munhu weThai ndewepasi pemuchindwe kwete pasi pemuti weKisimusi.
Chaizvo Alex, warovera chipikiri mumusoro! Ungaitewo izvi muNetherlands?
Makadii henyu ndichangouya kuno makore 17 apfuura ndakagara ndiri mubhawa kumwe.Ndakaona mumwe musikana aisakodzera zvachose kushanda ikoko,ndakangobata madrinks kuti ndipfuure apo neapo misodzi yaibuda mumaziso ake. ,kusuwa chaiko.Ndakazviisa mumoyo ndikati regai ndigare paside pangu,asi haana kana kumbozvishingisa uye haana kana kutaura chirungu.Mushure mezvinwiwa zvedoro.Ndakabvunza mhamha kuti dai vagara pedyo neni. akabva auya.Zvakanaka, unonzwisisa kuti kurukurirano yaisagona kuitika.Asi ndakaenda naye tichitaura maoko netsoka.Aiva nemakore 19 uye ini ndine makumi mashanu.Izvozvo chaizvoizvo hazviitike maererano netsika dzechiDutch.Ndinogara ndichitora hotera. kamuri ine 50 mibhedha uye izvo zvakabuda zvakanaka. Takazonorara apa ainge amirira something akabva angosvinura ndichibva ndamuti arare handina kana kumbomubata.Apa mashoko ainge angoshanda ikoko kwe2 weeks chete asina kana farang yet.Zvakangozvidzokorora sepakutanga.Aida kuenda kumba kunozivisa vabereki vake kwandiri,ndakambova neshungu,asi ndakaenda hangu.Izvi zvakagadzira bond between us,ndakamutora out for dinner,in short, we were. "couple", Zvakatora nguva refu tisati tarara pamubhedha wevanhu vaviri.Kuti tiite nyaya refu, ndichiri naye, ndinotaura chirungu chakanaka, ndakavaka imba panzvimbo yevabereki uye tichigara tese Condo muPattya.Ndinoona kuti musiyano wezera (zvakare) wakakura kumaitiro echiDutch, asi isu tose tine hupenyu hwakanaka, ndizvo zvaunozviitira.
Pane musiyano wemakore gumi nematanhatu pakati pedu. Uye zviri kufamba zvakanaka. Ini pachangu ndinofunga kuti ndiwo magumo ... kunyangwe ini ndichida kuona shizha diki, handingade chero chinhu nemukadzi wechidiki achiri nehupenyu hwake hwese pamberi pake. Kungoti handichada vana uye ndinozvifarira kana mukadzi wacho aine ruzivo rwehupenyu. Asi kunyangwe vazhinji veThais vanofunga kuti musiyano mukuru.
Hapana mutemo unotsanangura kuti musiyano ungave wakakura sei. Unowanzovaona, varume vanopfuura makumi matanhatu nevakadzi vari pasi pemakumi matatu. Ini handizvifarire uye handitendi kuti kune chero mhando yekuenzanisa.
Kune rumwe rutivi, mukadzi wechiThai uyo atova nemakore makumi maviri nemashanu haazozvioni semukadzi wechidiki. Uye mudiwa wangu ane makore 25 okuberekwa atofunga kuti ava kuchembera. Chokwadi haasiriye kwandiri.
Uye ini ndinofunga kuti nyaya dzinotyisa dzawakanzwa nekuverenga dzinowanzobata vanhu vane zvikwereti zvakanyanya kukusaziva kwavo (kana kupusa).
Kuno muThailand kunogamuchirwa kuti dzimwe nguva unobhadhara zvinhu, asi kana, sevamwe vanhu, ukatanga kukanda mari uye kuedza kuita semurume mukuru, vanhu vachakurumidza kurasikirwa nekuremekedzwa kwavo. Mumwe munhu asingazive kubata mari anoonekwa seanorasika mumaziso evaThai. Tarisa, kana iwe wakapfuma uye uchigona kupfuma hupenyu hwako hwese, saka hapana chekunetsekana nacho. Asi vangani kune vakaratidza mwoyo wavo "wakanaka" uye vakabhadhara, vakabhadharwa kuti vaone bhuruu. TV yevatezvara, imba itsva, moped yehama uye zvichingodaro. Uye pamusoro payo paiva neimba hombe yemwanasikana wavo muduku… Mari payakapera, vakamudonhedza sedombo. Akange anyimwa paanga asisauye nemari...
Kuno muThailand zvinongori zvese nezve mari. Zera rinouya rechipiri.
Kana ukaibata zvakanaka, unogona kunakidzwa nayo. Kana ukaivheyesa, uchabata nhunzi dzakawanda... kwete nyaya hombe.
Ndave ndiri muukama kwemakore anopfuura 10, ayo makore 7 1/2 akaroorwa muNetherlands. Akabvumidzwawo kugara muNetherlands kwemwedzi mitanhatu. Haana kumbova nechido ichocho, asi nekuda kwehurwere zvakafanira kuti awane kurapwa kuri nani uko Thailand isingagoni kupa. Takasiyana nemakore makumi matatu nerimwe - kunze kwemwedzi mumwe - uye ndine mari shoma nekuti ndinobhadhara rubatsiro rwese rwandinopa varombo pachangu. Zvino tave kutaura nezverudo here? Ndinofunga kuti unofanira “kuzvinzwira iwe pachako” ingava mari kana rudo. Iwe uchacherechedza musiyano iwoyo nokukurumidza zvakakwana kana iwe ukanyatsoteerera maziso ako nenzeve.
Musiyano wemakore makumi matatu kusvika makumi mana!
Musiyano wemakore makumi mashanu unofanirawo kuitika. Havazvioni zvichishamisa pano zvachose. Mushure mezvose, iyi ndiyo "Nyika Yekunyemwerera".
Nyarara bvuma Alex kwandiri zera rakasiyana imakore makumi matatu nerimwe.Vagara vese kwenguva yakareba uye anondichengeta chaizvo.Anondibatsira pane zvese uye haambonyunyuti nemari.Anoshanda nesimba. Asi isu hatina kuita chinodikanwa cheusiku zvakare. Wagara uri 31% wakatendeseka uye wakavhurika kusvika zvino. Hatireverane nhema.
Saka zvinogoneka, asi iwe unofanirwa kunyatsotarisa uye kushandisa njere dzako. Izvo chaizvo zvakafanana muThailand semuNetherlands. Shandisa pfungwa dzako uye usakurumidza kuita, asi zvitore zvishoma nezvishoma uye tarisa mamiriro acho kusvika kumagumo. I have 100% confidence in my partner and i still have no regrets, but ndichiri kufara kuti ndamuwana.Tsumo iyi inogona kushanda kune vasina izvozvo (sezvinoita muridzi weimba yevaeni anovimba nevaenzi vake. Zvakare mu Netherlands unogona iwe hauna rombo rakanaka sezvakaita muThailand. Vanhu vakanaka uye vakavimbika vanogarawo muThailand, iwe unongofanirwa kuvawana.
Ndiri kuona mutsauko wemakore makumi mashanu - makumi matanhatu ezera pano muPattaya, asi ndinokahadzika zvakanyanya kuti irwo rudo chairwo!
Dzimwe nguva murume ane makore 73 uye 195 cm akakwirira anouya kuThe MALL muKorat, ane mudzimai wechiPhilippines ane makore 21 uye ane 150 cm yakakwirira, pamwe chete vane mwanasikana wemwedzi gumi nemashanu,
HAVASI sekuru vake!
Unogona kuzviita kupenga sezvaunoda uye unokwanisa kutenga muTH. Asi zvine hutano here?
Musiyano pakati pangu newangu waive makore makumi maviri nemanomwe, takazivana kwemakore mana, hapana dambudziko zvachose, rudo rwakanga rwakanaka, asi pane imwe nguva mari yaive yakakosha, rudo rwaive rwekuziva vakadzi vechiThai rudo rumwe chete, zera harina kukosha, asi imari.
Mari shoma rudo hapana mari hapana rudo.
Joop
Wadiwa Joop, tinofanira kuedza kuramba tichitenda murudo.
Kwazisai,
(zvimwe) Joop
Ndine makore 67, mukadzi wangu 32.
Vakaroora kwemakore 8 uye 2 vana vanodiwa 7 ne5.
Isu tiri shamwari dzakanaka uye tinokurukura zvese pamwe chete.
Vatezvara vangu havana kushaya mari saka mari haitomboiti
yanga iri nyaya.
Isu tinogara muThailand.
Munoona, zvinogoneka
Kwaziwai, Dontejo.
Hallo,
Ndane 3 years ndaroorwa ndine 70 and my wife 44 everything goes according to plan nguva nenguva ndofanira kumbodzora mukadzi wangu nemari anoshanda kwaMaspala but we are happily married and tave tichigara tese muIsaan kwemakore 1 1/2 zvino. .
uye vanofara chose, ane vana vaviri vaakamboroorwa naye, 1 ari kuuniversity mumwe ari kuchikoro uye ari kudzidza kuita zvemagetsi, achiri kumba.
Zvose zvaunofarira uye hapana matambudziko, handizvidembi, tine imba huru yakanaka uye tinofara zvikuru, ndinofara kuti ndiri kubva kuNetherlands, tine hupenyu hwakanaka.
g William
Zvinoenderana nekuti une mari yakawanda sei….
HANDIsati ndamboona hukama huchifamba zvakanaka kuThailand uko kwaive nemusiyano weanopfuura makore makumi maviri. Kureva kuti: zvinhu zvakafamba zvakanaka chero bedzi ane rupo zvikuru “mari yemba” pamwe chete neimba nemotokari yakanaka zvakabhadharwa.
Zvinenge zvisingadzivisiki, kana Farang aneta nekutamba Sinterklaas, kana kuti anorwara zvakanyanya, anofanira kudzokera kuEurope kunorapwa uye ozoona zvishoma nezvishoma kuti ane mumwe kana vakawanda pamutsara panguva ino.
Mudzimai wangu (14 makore musiyano, akaroora 7 years) akanga akatendeseka uye akati: Rudo runouya zvishoma nezvishoma. Iye zvino tine mwanakomana pamwe chete uye pakupedzisira tinofara zvikuru. Asi kune yega nyaya yekubudirira kune kanenge 5 apo zvinhu zvinoshata, kunyanya pakati pevarume vakuru chaivo.
Mudzimai wangu (kwete Thai) ane makore gumi nemanomwe mudiki uye isu tinozviona sezvakakwana.
I would set the maximum limit at 20 years of age difference, nekuti unotofanira kugonera panyama kunze kwekunge usina hanya nekuonekwa sasekuru.
Chandisingabvumirani zvachose nezvakanyorwa nemunyori ndechekuti "kukura kwekusiyana kwezera, matambudziko makuru".
Nei izvozvo zvingava chokwadi?
Iwe unogona kutaura kuti kubva kune imwe zera musiyano, asi chero bedzi ichiramba yakaenzana, chirevo ichocho hachina kururama.
Ndinobvumiranawo naAlex. Musikana wangu takasiyana nemakore gumi nematatu. (13-37) uye vave pamwe chete kwemakore gumi nerimwe. Inoratidzawo zviri kuitwa nemusikana wako muThailand. Musikana wangu ava kuita basa rekutengesa. Kwete yakakora, asi anogona kurarama nayo. Asati achenesa makamuri ehotera. Ipapo mihoro yakanga yakaipa kwazvo. Asi kashoma kuti abvunze kana ndaigona kutumira mari. Kudai akanga asina mari yekubhadhara imba yake. Isu tinewo zvatinofarira zvakafanana uye zvinoita mutsauko. Asi shamwari yangu yakava nezviitiko zvakaipa. Akanga ane makore 50 uye musikana wake aiva nemakore makumi maviri nemana uye aishanda mubhawa. Akarega kuita izvozvo ndokubva shamwari yangu yave ATM yake. Uye akaisa mari yakawanda maari. Sezvineiwo, zvavaida zvakange zvave kure zvakanyanya nekuda kwekusiyana kwezera, izvo zvakaita kuti vagare vachipopotedzana zvokonzera kuti mukadzi uyu atore mumwe mudiwa. Hukama ihwohwo hwakapera nekukasika uye aive ave nemuzukuru wechikuru wemusikana wangu. Iye zvino ane makore 11 uye musikana wake wazvino ane makore 51. Uye zviri kufamba zvakanaka.
Nenzira, ndinofunga kuti muganhu ndeye 15 makore emafuta peel. Haafanire kunge ari mwanasikana wako.
Mubvunzo unosekesa, unorevei "zvingadaro" uye kubva kunaani "anga"? Hapana mitemo yekusiyana kwezera, ingave ine chekuita ne "rudo chairwo" kana "kugara kwehusiku humwe".Pane mitemo yezera iro rinobvumidzwa kuita "bonde". Uye izvozvo zvinoenderana nekuti wakaroora here kana kuti kwete. Mune dzimwe nyika, zera rinobvumirwa roorano (zvichida zvichienderana nemvumo yevabereki) rakaderera pane zera raunogona kurara naro somunhu asina kuroora.
Rudo ndechimwe chezvinhu zvishoma muupenyu zvisingasungirwi nemitemo. Chinhu chakanaka, zvakare. Saka musiyano wezera rako unogona kunge wakakura kana diki sezvaunoda.
Ichokwadi imwe nyaya kana musiyano mukuru wezera unoshanda, asi rudo harudi izvozvo, kusiyana kwezera "kusina kunaka" pakutanga kwehupenyu hwako uye pakuguma kwehupenyu hwako.
Chii chinonzi rudo? Ndiani anoziva tsanangudzo yerudo? MuTH zvinotevera zvinoshanda: une hanya neni, ndine hanya newe. Mukufamba kwenguva, rudo, kufarirana, kunamatira uye kuvimba kunokura. Asi iyo nguva yakareba inotarwa ne: hapana mari, hapana uchi. Ndakaona hukama hwakawanda hwezera huchikundikana nekuti chivimbiso chechikwama chakazadzwa zvakanaka chakave chisina kugadzikana munguva refu. Makakatanwa anozomuka akaita kuti vanhu vazhinji vaone kuti hukama hwerudo muTH hune kuwirirana sehwaro, asi kuti hwaro uhwu hwaive husipo nekuda kwekusiyana kwezera. Zvese zvakanaka chero zvisina kuedzwa. Munhu wese anongotaura nyaya yake yekubudirira. Vanhu vanonyarara pamusoro pekushungurudzwa kwavo.
Kusiyana kwezera hakugadzirisi mufaro.
Vanhu vanoramba vachitaura pamusoro pemari yakawanda, rudo rukuru.
Zvinosiririsa kuti izvi zvinogara zvichikunda, senge izwi rekuti farang/farang.
Idi rekuti izvi zvinoshandiswa kuratidza kuti uri mutorwa uye saka unogumisa kuti uri kutenga hukama zvinoshoresa chikamu chikuru chevanhu.
Mushure mezvose, havasi vese vakadzi veThai vane nzara yemari.
Ukama hunogona zvamazvirokwazvo kubatanidzwa noruremekedzo nechidakadaka.
Hukama hune chekuita nemari hwatova kutanga kwakaipa.
Chokwadi zvinoita sezvakanaka. Kana ukandichengeta ndinokuda. Aya ndiwo zvirevo zvakajairwa kubva kumabhawa vakadzi uye ichi chirevo chefancy hachishande muThailand chete.
Rudo kuremekedzana uye kuvimbana.
Munhu wese ane zera rakasiyana.
Takasiyana nemakore gumi uye mari haisi yekukurudzira kuti tidanane.
Zvaizondinetsa kana vanhu vakuru vaviri vese vari mupfungwa dzavo vakagutsikana uye vachifara. Kusiyana kwezera hakuna basa.
Nemisiano mikuru zvikuru yezera, pachava nekurukurirano huru yokubvumikisana panzvimbo porudo rwechokwadi here? Zvakanaka, asi chii chakaipa nazvo kana vese vari vaviri vachifara nazvo? Ngaive hukama hweThai-Thai, Thai-Farang, Farang-Africa chero musanganiswa wevakadzi. Murume ane makore 70 ane mukadzi ane makore 20 kana kuti jenda? Mukadzi ane makore 60 ane mukomana ane makore 20? Zvakanaka kana vari vaviri vachifara nazvo.
Hazvingave sarudzo yangu kuva nezera rakanyanyisa kusiyana kwe15+, ndinogutsikana nemumwe wangu ane makore 2-3-4 mukuru kana muduku (mudzimai wangu ane zvishoma kudarika ini), asi nerufaro isu tose takasiyana.
Pane maidi kunze uko anopenga zvachose nezveshizha regirini uye nepo imwe hafu inongoitira "kutarisira" uye kwete yerudo? Zvakanakawo, uye kana mumwe akabira mumwe zvinodhaka, izvo hazvina kunaka, zvisinei nezera, murume kana nyika yevaviri. Uye zvakanaka, varume vashoma vane zvidhinha zveIQ uye vanongodzingirira dhidhi ravo vari kuzviitawo zvakashata ivo pachavo uye vangadai vakabviswa hembe nemukadzi kubva chero nyika.
Mudzimai wangu ane makore mana chete mudiki kwandiri - uye zvese zviri kufamba zvakanaka,
Hukama hwedu hwakavakirwa parudo kwete mari!
Moderator: Maonero asina mavara ekutanga uye nguva pakupera kwemutsara hazvitumirwe.
Ndine shamwari dzakawanda dzine musiyano wezera uri pakati pe15 ne30. Vakawanda vakaisa miganhu pachine nguva uye vakawanda vari kuita zvakanaka uye vari kufara. Asi ukasaisa miganhu, kune madzimai anoda kuwanda. Uye vakadzi vanopfuura makore makumi matatu nemashanu vanonyatsoziva kuti farang inogona kuvapa ramangwana uye vanogara nemurume uye vachifara. Vazhinji vakaroorawo.Tarisa kuBelgian Braschaat kunogara vakadzi vadiki kwazvo nevarume vakuru. Vanhu havambotauri nezvazvo. PaThailandblog vanoedza kukanganisa zvese. Kazhinji nevanhu vane godo zvakanyanya kana vasingakwanisi kusvetuka.
Neraki, havasi vamwe vakadzi vechiThai chete vane izvi
iyo yakasarudzika kodzero yekushandisa chikwama sechiratidzo cherudo. Kunyangwe iye zvino unoona vakadzi vadiki vanobva kuEastern Bloc vachitsvaga rudo rwavo rwechikuru mudunhu medu.
Ini nemumwe wangu tinoichengeta pa40/55.
Chinhu chega chandakamupa mari chaizvo makosi echiRungu, uye zvino chiDutch.
Inyaya yekunzwisisana zvakanaka.
Saka zviri pachena kuti ndiri wevashoma vanofara, avo vane tariro yokuti vakaroorana vakawanda vanonakidzwa nokuva pamwe chete nomufaro, mukunyarara.
Varume vanodikanwa,
Ndichakubudisai mose mukurota.
Mukadzi wangu ane makore 40 ini ndine 47, saka pane musiyano we7 years, tave ne14 years taroorana uye tine vana vaviri.
Asi mutsauko wezera hauna kukosha, kana uine akaundi yebhangi yakazadzwa uye uchida kuigovera yese nemukadzi wako weThai, achakupa yakanaka show !!
Saka kune nzira imwe chete yekuita rombo rakanaka muThailand.
Uye ndiko kuti: ibva mumba usati wadya mangwanani, uye usambotora mukadzi mumwechete newe kaviri.
Kwaziwai kubva kudhongi rakaroorwa...
Dear Toad,
Zvinonyorwa nemunyori hazvina kukosha. Anongobvunza mubvunzo wemuverengi uye munhu wese anonyora nyaya yake.
Ndiri kushamiswa nemhinduro dzakawanda munguva pfupi,
Cor van Kampen.
We are almost 19 years apart and i can live with that, ndine 60 musikana wangu ane 42. Ndakambodanana nemusikana ane 24 and ini ndaive ne 55 years.. Zvido zvacho zvinosiyana zvakanyanya nekuti aive ndichiri pwere uye zvimwe zvinhu muhupenyu zvinoda kuwana zvakawanda kupfuura zvandinoita.Chakaitawo pandiri izera revana vangu 3 kubva kumudzimai wangu mushakabvu ari kuNetherlands.Ndaive ndisina chido chekuenda kuholiday kuNetherlands ndine mukadzi mudiki chaizvo uye kunetsana naye nevana vangu vaive vakuru kwavari.Asi rombo rakanaka munhu wese akasununguka kutanga hukama panosiyana zera.Ini ndine dambudziko rakakwana kufambirana nemukadzi wangu pabhasikoro.Uri kuwana mukuru Pake, ndinoreva Sekuru.
Nyaya inofadza. Dzimwe nguva mhedziso dzisina kukodzera. Ini nemudzimai wangu tave nemakore mashanu tichizivana. Takagara tose muBelgium kweanoda kusvika makore mana. Tave nemwedzi mitanhatu tichigara muThailand. Mudzimai wangu akadzidzira kuva mutarisiri wevakwegura muchiDutch muBelgium. Zvidzidzo zveDutch zvakatangira izvi. Takasiyana nemakore anenge 5 muzera uye tose tine pfungwa yokuti tawana akakodzera. Kana zvakatinakira, ndiani achafanira kunetseka nekusiyana kwezera redu? Pandakasangana nemukadzi wangu ndakademba kuti aive asiri mukuru…. Mitemo uye kutya kuonekwa neziso rakatsveyama nenzanga. Tiri murume nomudzimai vanofara vanozadzisana munzira dzakawanda. Ndinovimba ndine makore akawanda ekufara tiri pamwe chete kusvikira rufu rwatiparadzanisa.
Saka mudikani Kor, enda nemudiwa wako wakasvinura meso ako.
Jan
Musiyano wezera pakati pangu nemukadzi wangu weThai hausi pasi pemakore gumi.
Takaroorana tichifara (makore 15 iye zvino), uye murume wangu haasi mushure memari yangu yandakawana zvakaoma yandakaunganidza kuburikidza nekushanda nesimba muHolland.
Isuwo dzimwe nguva tinonzwa mashoko makukutu, asi anenge asingamborevi mari.
Ndosaka ndichifara kuti ndawana mukadzi akadai.
Kusatya zuva kana mvura.
Kushanda pamwe chete seboka zuva nezuva mubindu uye kumativi emba.
Uye dzimwe nguva ndinoshatirwa chaizvo kana ndaita chimwe chinhu chinopesana nemararamiro echiThai.
Kana zvakatonyanya kuipa kana ndikatenga chimwe chinhu chinodhura zvakanyanya mumaonero angu.
Kunyange kana dzimwe nguva ichisanganisira mabhati mashoma.
Jan Beute.
Mumwe nomumwe ane nheyo dzake.
Ndiri kuda kusvitsa makore 62 uye mwanasikana wangu mukuru ane makore 40, uye musimboti wangu ndewekuti handifi ndakatora murume mudiki pane mwana wangu.
Ndakaroora musikana wekuThailand ane makore 16 gore rakapera.
Ini ndasiya basa pachangu uye ndinogashira iyo yakanyanya kubvumidzwa yemudiwa yeAOW mabhenefiti.
Iyo yakakura musiyano wezera, iyo yakakura kubvumidzwa kwevadyidzani.
Wamuwana here? Kare.
Pandinofa achawana penjeni yemunhu asara yakanaka kusvika ava nemakore 65,66,67?? iri kuva.
Matambudziko anotoita madiki kana waroora mukadzi wechidiki.
Nehurombo, chirongwa ichi chichachinja gore rinouya kune vanodya penjeni vakazvarwa mushure me1950.
Ivo havachakodzeri kupihwa mari yevadyidzani.
Age musiyano pakati pangu nemukadzi wangu makore makumi maviri. Tave nemuchato kwenguva refu uye haisi dambudziko zvachose. Munofanira kuremekedzana. Usafunge (nekuti wakura) kuti unoziva zvese zviri nani kupfuura mumwe wako. Ndine vana 3 vekare, mukadzi wangu ane mwana 1 waakambodanana naye. HAPANA dambudziko zvachose, chaizvo zvakanaka pamwe chete. Kutaura kutaura kune mumwe nemumwe, kangani izvo zvinokanganisa?
Ndinoshamiswa zvakare uye ndinotsamwiswa nevanhu vose avo vanotaura maonero avo asina kunaka panyaya iyi ... Nepo ivo pachavo vasina ukama nemumwe munhu muduku, asi vanopa maonero anotyisa pamusoro payo ... "Rarama uye rega urarame! "...
Sezvandakambonyora pano: zvakanyanya kwauri! Ramba wakasvinura maziso, shandisa pfungwa dzako, uye uvake hukama hwako zvishoma nezvishoma, sezvaungaita muNetherlands!
Uye pane mutsauko kana iwe uchizvisungirira kubharaki ane ruzivo, kana kuti ukasangana nemunhu ane basa rakanaka, kwete kubva ku "dunhu", anotaura Chirungu chakanaka, saka iwe unogona kutaurirana! Saka iwe unogona kutaura nezve manzwiro ako, ese mabviro, uye nehana kuvaka hupenyu hutsva pamwechete. Kune mienzaniso yakawanda yakanaka ye…!
Uye avo vasina hukama neThai vanofanirwa kungovhara miromo yavo uye kwete kutaura zvese izvo zvakaipa. Vanongowana kubva “kuona kana kunzwa vachiti”… Uye zvinonditsamwisa!
Havana kana kodzero yekuita mhedziso nguva isati yakwana!
Moderator: ndapota musataure.
Mudzimai wangu (Filipino) ane makore 24 mudiki, muchato wakakwana. Asi Alex haana kupusa. Iwe unotaura zvinonyomba uye zvachose pasina ruremekedzo! Pane mienzaniso yakapihwa pano yevamwe mablogger vane vakadzi vavo vanobva mudunhu sezvamunodaidza uye vanofara pamwe chete !!! Saka kana usingazivi nezvazvo, ndiwe ani kuti uzvinyore kudaro?
Musiyano wezera wakawanda sei muThailand unoenderana nezvinhu zviviri, yekutanga iri saizi yeakaundi yako yekubhangi uye, nenzira ine mwero, rudo chairwo. Kana uine account hombe yekubhanga, panogona kunge paine musiyano wemakore anopfuura 2 murudo rwechokwadi, asi mukana iwoyo 1%, asi kana mukadzi achiti anokuda chaizvo kunyangwe iwe usina kana cent. kuita, ipapo Sezvakangoita muNetherlands, pane kazhinji hapana anopfuura 40-gore musiyano
Kamwe chirevo chekare. Ndine makore 31 uye mudzimai wangu wekuThai ane 43. Ndinomuda zvakanyanya mazuva ese. Uye haasati ambokumbira euro. Isu tinoonana sevanhu vakaenzana uye ndizvo zvazvinofanira kuita kana ukandibvunza.
Makadii Chris
Ona maitiro akawanda kubva kuvarume vakuru vane musiyano mukuru muzera; Mukuona kwangu iyi haisi nzira yakajairika yezviitiko.
Zvechokwadi ndezvekugadzikana kwemari kwevakadzi; zvakajairika mumaziso angu, asi zvionere wega chokwadi ichi. Ndatenda!!
Munharaunda yeThai, musiyano mukuru wezera wakajairika, chero murume akapfuma zvakakwana,
tarisa zvakakupoteredza uye vangani vasikana vadiki (kusvika kumakore makumi maviri nematatu) waunoona aine murume wekare weThai ??
Kwete zvakawanda uye rombo rakanaka, vazhinji vane mwana achiri mudiki uye bye bye, ingotsvaga mumwe munhu (farang nemari)
Handisi kuti iwe unogona tara zvese nebhurashi rimwe chete, asi mutsauko wezera wakakura kupfuura zvakapetwa kaviri?
Nyaya imwe chete yaOppapappa pamusoro pe55 unotangira kupi? kazhinji mukadzi akaerekana ane pamuviri yep farang inishuwarenzi?
Ini pachangu handitarisire kuti vazhinji vachabvumirana neni, ndoda muchengeti wekare nekuti vanofara chaizvo nemukadzi wechidiki ane makore +/_ 25-40
Ini ndakava baba ini pazera re45 uye ndinofunga izvo zvatove pamucheto !!!
Ndinofunga kuti munhu wese anogona kuita chero zvaanoda, asi rudo rwakakwana?
Sei vanhu vasingaverenge macomments uye kunamatira kune chokwadi
kuti imari. Kune akawanda macomments akanaka,
zvichiratidza kuti kunyange nemusiyano mukuru wezera, muchato
inogona kubudirira.
Inyaya yekuva mudiki pamoyo uye kusafunga kuti wanyanya kuchembera
kuva.
Kwaziwai, Dontejo
PS Mukadzi wechidiki, hupenyu hurefu!
Zvose zvinoenderana. Iwe une vanhu vakura vachiri vadiki pamwoyo uye vane hutano hwakanaka uye zvakapesana ndezvechokwadi zvakare. Muhukama hwangu pane musiyano wezera weasingasviki makore makumi matatu nemanomwe, asi ndinonzwa mudiki: Ini ndinotamba tenisi mazuva ese uye ndinogona kutamba husiku hwese mudisco pasina matambudziko. Saka ndinonzwa zvakanaka ndine mumwe musikana. Panyaya yewallet yangu, ndinonzwa ndakachengeteka kana ndine musikana ane makore 37 okuberekwa pane kuva nemukadzi ane makore 25 ane ruzivo rwakanyanya uye ane marudzi ese ehungwaru hwekubira mari yako. Ini ndinotaura kubva pane zvakaitika nekuti ndakasangana nenhamba huru yevakadzi kuburikidza newebhusaiti yekufambidzana uye ndakavawo nehukama hwenguva pfupi. Mushure mekurukurirano pfupi ndinogona kukurumidza kuona kana mukadzi ari kutsvaga rudo, rudo uye nzvimbo yakachengeteka (haafanire kuita mari yakawanda) kana mari chete uye mararamiro akawandisa.
Kune zvakare maitiro akati wandei epamusoro-soro, ini ndine 41 ini, mukadzi wangu ane makumi matatu nemasere.
Fungidzira dai ndakadanana nemumwe munhu ane makore 30 ari mudiki.
Ndaibva ndaoneka panhau nebhara dema mumaziso angu.
Ndinofunga izvi zvinoreva zvakakwana.
Kune varume vane makore 40-50-60 “vakachengetedza” zvakanaka panyama nemupfungwa uye kune varume vane makore 40-50-60 vatova nemakore 60-70-80. tora mhedziso yako. Nenzira, izvi zvinoshandawo kune vakadzi.
musiyano wezera 60 makore, uye uchiita zvakanaka.
Chaizvoizvo, hazvina kukosha zvachose kuti musiyano wezera wakakura sei.
Chero vari vaviri vachifara nazvo.
Uyezve, harisi basa remunhu.
Kana uchifambidzana muThailand:
Nezera rimwe chete: Chete kana falang aine mari yakawanda kupfuura mukomana weThai.
Uye iyo yakakura musiyano wezera: zvinoenderana nechikwama chako. Iko kukora kwacho, mutsauko unowedzera vakadzi vanogamuchira.
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Iye zvino pane zvakanyanya serious note.
Kune hukama pasi rose apo musiyano wezera wakakura. Asi muThailand, mu98% yemakesi, chikamu chemari chingori simba rekutyaira. Mukuwedzera, nekufamba kwenguva, kana iwe une mutsa uye une rupo, rudo runogona kubuda, asi nzira yekutanga ndeyemari chete.
Famba muavhareji Thai disco. Ini handisati ndamboona chero vakadzi vachidzingirira varume veThai vane makore makumi matatu kusvika makumi mana. Wobva wapinda mudisco sefarang, hautaure mutauro wacho, unofunga kuti vanouya kwauri vese nerudo?
Varume veThai vane mukadzi mudiki kazhinji, iwe waifungidzira, mupfumi weThai. Zvinhu hazvina kumbosiyana pakati peThais. Mumwe mukadzi anotanga atarisa muchikwama chewaanoda kufambidzana naye asati afunga nezverudo.
Uye mukadzi uyo anobva abatana nemupfumi wekare wekuThai kazhinji ane mukomana mudiki naye, nekuda kwekunakidzwa pabonde. Hazvisizvo hazvo kuti vanongotamba matinji aya paFalang, zvakangonaka pakati pevaThais pachavo. Mhinduro dzinoverengeka dzinotaura nezvevakadzi vanobva ku'dunhu', asi ini ndoziva kuti avo vari kunze kwedunhu vanogona kuitawo saizvozvo, kana zvisiri zvakanyanya.
Michato yekureruka yaive (uye ichiripo) yakagumiswa muNetherlands.
Mwenga nechikomba vanosarudzwa nevabereki vavo.
Hapana chekuita nerudo, asi kazhinji hapana chakashata kupfuura michato nerudo.
Tarisa bhaisikopo "The Fiddler on the Roof".
Izvozvo zvichiri kuitika.
Ndinoda kutaura zvibodzwa zvishoma zvisati zvagadziriswa:
1. Avhareji yemakore ekurarama kweThais imakore mashanu kusvika gumi mapfupi pane ayo eDutch neBelgians. Musiyano wezera we5 kusvika kumakore gumi nemashanu pakati pemurume expat nemukadzi weThai waizoratidza mamiriro ari munyika yavo;
2. MuThailand, michato yakawanda ichiri kurongwa (michato mubatanidzwa pakati pemhuri uye kushoma kwemubatanidzwa pakati pevanhu vaviri) uye/kana maonero ababa naamai pamusoro pechikomba anoita basa rakakosha kupfuura rudo (chero kana kwete. pakuona kwekutanga). Ndichiri kunzwa izvozvo kubva kuvadzidzi vangu vangangoita makore 20-23. Roorano dzakarongwa hadzina kunyanya kuwanda muNetherlands, asi iwe unogona kuzviwana munzvimbo dzevatorwa uye kumaruwa.
3. Michato mumaonero okuMadokero mubatanidzwa wevanhu vaviri vanenge vakaenzana vachiita vakasununguka. Izvi zvine chekuitawo nezera. Kuroora munhu mukuru zvikuru kana kuti muduku zvikuru hakusi kwomuzvarirwo. Dzimwe nguva hongu, kana paine zvikonzero zvine musoro zveizvi. Mushure meHondo Yenyika Yechipiri, vakadzi vazhinji vechikuru muEngland, Germany neUSA vakaroora varume vechidiki nekuti chikamu chikuru chevarume vezera rakafanana vakafira muhondo. MuThailand, vakadzi vazhinji vakarambana vane makore makumi maviri nemashanu kusvika makumi mana havachakwanisa kuwana wekufambidzana naye wekuThai nekuti murume weThai haavade, kunyanya kana aine vana. Sarudzo ndeyekuramba usina kuroora, kutsvaga wekubuda kunze (kune vakawanda vakasiya basa kupfuura vezera rekushanda, kunyanya kumaruwa Thailand) kana kuve gigi remupfumi weThai uyo akatoroora kana kuti angasada kuroora.
Maonero angu ndeekuti mamiriro aya anoita kuti vakadzi vakawanda veThai vave nemurume wekune imwe nyika, uyo netsanangudzo 'akapfuma' pane avhareji murume weThai. Ini pachangu, ndinofunga kuti musiyano wezera umo mukadzi weThai anogona kunge ari mwanasikana wako kana muzukuru wako hausi wakajairika kubva pakuona kwehukama hwerudo. Mukuona kwangu, hatigone kutaura nezvekuenzana mupfungwa yekusimudzira, chikamu chehupenyu, huchenjeri hwehupenyu uye nzvimbo dzekufarira. Izvozvo hazvirevi kuti ukama hwakadaro hahugoni kuva hunofadza uye hunogutsa, asi hunovakirwa zvakanyanya pamakakatanwa epfungwa (kuchengetedzwa kwemari mune ramangwana, kuchengetedzwa kwekutarisira mune ramangwana, kugutsikana kwepabonde) kupfuura pahwaro hwerudo. Unogona kutaura nezvewanano yakarongwa apo vaviri vacho vanoziva uye vachibvuma kuti ichi chibvumirano chebhizimisi. Ndinovimba mapato ese ane rusununguko rwakakwana rwekuti hongu kana kwete. Mumasangano epasi rose ane chekuita nekurwisa chipfambi, musiyano mukuru wezera, apo mukadzi ariwo 'murombo', chiratidzo chechipfambi chakavanzika. Nemamwe mashoko: mukadzi chaiye haana sarudzo chaiyo: kuramba ari murombo uye asina kana kuroora murume akura zvakanyanya uye kuita zvaanotaura kuti adzivise kurambana. Vakadzi vadiki kwazvo vekuThai vanoshungurudza mamiriro akatsanangurwa (nenzira dzakasiyana, munguva pfupi kana yakareba) vanotevedzera rudo rwerudo apo rwakanga rusipo kubva pakutanga.
Wadiwa Chris, zvinonzwisa urombo kuti pakupera kwekutaura kwako unongopa chimiro chekusahadzika padivi pevakadzi vadiki vechiThai. Kunyange zvakangofanana kuti varume vakuru vechikuru vanoshandisa vakadzi vechiThai chaizvo nekuda kwemamiriro ehurombo anotsanangurwa, nekuda kwekushaiwa kwavo dzimwe nzira.
Pane musiyano mukuru wenguva yekuwana vhiza yewanano here? Ndaifunga kuti aya aiva makore makumi maviri. Nemamwe mashoko, kusiyana kwenguva kunokanganisa kuvimbika kwehukama.
Mukuona kwangu, varume vane vakadzi vaduku, vane kusiyana kwezera kwemakore anopfuura makumi matatu, havasisina rudo rwechokwadi rwepanyama zvachose. Kumurume iyeye humbowo humbowo hwekuti anogona kungokochekera mukadzi wechidiki uye kumukadzi iyeye ingori Countdown kusvika afa, ko 30 years kumukadzi wechidiki ane 10 here, kana achiziva kuti achangogara nhaka yemazana mashoma. kana mamwe mabhati. Uye shure kwake achawana mumwe uye saka anogona kurarama hupenyu hwake zvakanaka uye akapfuma. Anopfuura makore gumi nemashanu emusiyano anofanirwa kudzorwa, asi hongu, iwo ekare farts anofunga ivo ...