Zano reiyo expat clique: iva shamwari neThai
Kukurukurirana neThai, njodzi yakakwana? Ndiwo maonero atinoita isu, Farang. Ndiri kuvaona vachinetsekana, makumi mashanu, makumi matanhatu, makumi manomwe, uye hongu, ndakatoona chikamu ichocho, makumi masere nevakadzi vavo vechiThai mumakore avo ekupedzisira. Iwe unogona kuwana chibvumirano chakanaka nemaoko nemakumbo, asi kuonana kwechokwadi nemurume weThai kana mukadzi kunoramba kuchigumbura, vanoti vanopokana uye vatsoropodzi vehukama hwakadaro kubva padivi.
Pandakasvika muChiang Mai, mushure mechinguva ndakava chikamu chechiitiko chekunze. Mapato ane vanhu vazhinji vekuMadokero kubva kumativi ese enyika, neapo neapo anorasika Thai. Munhu imombe yemombe saka kana kunze kwenyika vanhu vanotsvagana. Nekuda kwekuda munharaunda, kutya kwekuzviparadzanisa nevamwe kure kure kuAsia, kana kunze kwekunzwana uye kuda kuziva. Asi kunyanya nekuti munogona kutaurirana zviri nyore mumutauro mumwechete uye muchiRungu zvakadaro.
Mushure mechinguva ndakaneta neboka iro uye ndakanzwa kudiwa kwakasimba kwekubatana neThai. Kuonana kwangu naTick (ndakambonyora nezvake) kwakava kuvhurwa kwenyika yangu itsva, asi ndakatangawo kutsvaga nzvimbo kwakauya Thais chete. Disco ine mhenyu Thai Music chete, mini karaoke nharaunda bhaa isina njodzi yekubirwa uye café annex mini resitorendi, inofambiswa nemakumi matatu ane chinhu, Kuzvarwa, baba vevanasikana vatatu. Ini naBirth takava pedyo, tisinganyatso nyatsogona kutaura Chirungu. Nokuti kana tisina kukwanisa kuzvinzwisisa zvachose, akadhonza shati yaVan Persie kubva muheti uye mhino dzedu dzakabva dzangove papeji imwe chete zvakare.
© Ton LankreijerApo vasikana vanorarama pabhawa rekaraoke vakakanda ndiro dzavo dzemupunga nemakaro uye, pamusoro pezvose, nemheremhere, wakasiyana wakadini nechipfeko chavo chinokwezva, Birth neni takateerera mimhanzi kwemaawa. Takapanana nziyo nemaartist zvakanaka kusvika mangwanani uye Birth yakave raibhurari yemimhanzi inofamba. Kubva kuThe Eagles kuenda kuBach, kubva kuEric Clapton kuenda kuBeethoven. Pese paainzwa nziyo dzichibuda muiPod yangu, aisimuka akatsunga onyora pasi zvose. Nguva yakatevera yaaiziva nemusoro chaizvo zvandaitamba. Kuberekwa pachake akashandisa kapu yepurasitiki yeIkea yekicheni yaakaisa iyo smartphone yake kuti iwedzere inzwi rake. Zvingave zvechinyakare, asi pamusoro pezvose, zvakanyanya kunaka?
Zvishoma nezvishoma kurukurirano dzedu dzakadzama, pasinei zvapo nemhinganidzo yomutauro. Mumwe mwanasikana ane makore gumi nematatu aigara naye, vamwe vaviri vakachengetwa nemhuri kunze kweChiang Mai. Kubva pane rimwe zuva kuenda kune rinotevera, mudzimai waBirth akanga aenda, sezvinowanzoitwa nevarume kuThailand, uye pasina kukwenya maziso akasiya kurera vasikana vake vatatu kusvika kuBirth. Inenge ibasa risingabviri, tichifunga kuti anopa chikafu kusvika pakati pehusiku kune vaenzi nevashandikadzi, asiwo kune vamwe vashandi vekaraoke bar, iyo iri pakatarisana nekugadzwa kwake.
Manheru ega ega ndaiswera naBirth, shamwari nemhuri yake vaiuya. Vamwe vanga vatove nebhodhoro reThai Hong Thong whiskey navo, iro rakatengeswa pamwe chete. Mubhodhoro pawakanga usina chinhu, pakabva patorwa rimwe. Ndakaendawo ku7-11 supermarket kakawanda kuti nditore bhodhoro idzva. 300 baht chete, pittance uye chero ani anofunga kuti ibhizimusi achaodzwa mwoyo. Ini ndiri nyanzvi yeakanakisa Malt whiskeys, saka haufanirwe kuenzanisa chinwiwa cheThai neicho, asi Hong Thong zvakadaro haina hangover. Shamwari yangu yechiDutch inoenda nhanho imwe mberi uye inoona makwinya ake achinyangarika neHong Thong. Chinwiwa chemuno sekuti facelift elixir?
© Ton LankreijerPandakaratidza ndichidada maBirth photos eCitroën DS yangu ya1974, akanyangarika kuseri kwechinguva ndokuzodzoka aine arubhamu yemapikicha emota yakaisvonaka, iyo yaisanganisirawo kutenga kwangu. Kuberekwa kwakakwanisa kutsanangura zvakadzama chakavanzika che "Snoek", iyo hydraulic system inovimbisa kumira kwakakwana.
Kutaurirana neThai injodzi yakakwana here? Kwete, muruzivo rwangu, kwete neimwe nzira. Kana iwe ukatsunga kuzama zvakadzama mumunhu uyo, akapihwa magariro ako, anoita seari kure newe, mutsika, mupfungwa uye mumuviri, hupenyu hwako huchapfumiswa kure nekumba.
Kusarura kuThai kunoda kubviswa uye iwe unogona kuve wekutanga kutora danho. Pamwe zano re expat clique, vasinganetse uye saka vasina nzira yekuzviita vajairane nenyika inotambira.
Mangwanani akanaka,
Mwanakomana wangu anogara muKorat (NR) uye haanyanyi kubatikana nedzimwe “expats”.
Chete neThai; mhedzisiro ndeyekuti mushure memakore 2 1/2 anotaura mutauro zvakanaka (kunyora ndiko
ari kushanda, anotora nguva). Semhuri takagara munyika dzakasiyana kwemakore
uye akapedza nguva yakawanda nemamwe maexpats. Pamwe ndosaka achinzwa
zvino tsauka pairi. Anogara achiti: vanongogunun'una uye kuungudza.Hazviwedzeri chinhu.
Kwaziwai, Inge
Ndinogona kuzvidaidza kuti ndiri expat, ndashanda muThailand kwemakore makumi maviri nevashandi veThai, ndinogara pano nemhuri yangu yeThai uye ndinogona kukuudza kuti zvinogona kunetsa kutaurirana nemaThais, kunyangwe maThais vane matambudziko ekunzwisisa mumwe nemumwe. zvimwe..
Nekuti unogarisana zvakanaka neshamwari yako yeThai hazvireve kuti unogona kugarisana zvakanaka nevese Thais, saka mukuona kwangu chirevo chako chakareruka,
Kwaziwai, Expat.
Ton, chokwadi sei !!!
Chokwadi, hupenyu chero kupi zvako munyika hunongove hune zvahunoreva kana uchikwanisa (uye uchida) kusanganisa nehuwandu hwenzvimbo. Izvi zvinoda kushanda nesimba nekuti havasi vese veThai vakavhurika kuonana zvakanyanya neFarang. Kuzvarwa kwako munhu akakosha, rombo rakanaka kune vazhinji, asi urombo ndinofunga ivo vari vashoma. Izvo zvese zvinotanga nekukura kwakakura uye ruzivo, zvinosuruvarisa kuti izvi zvinowanzoshaikwa paFarang nedivi reThai, saka vanhu vanoramba vakanamatira munharaunda inozivikanwa, iri nyore kushandisa. Cheers nekubuda mumaitiro ako uye kuva nechiitiko chakakosha kupfuura chero bhichi rakanaka.
Kwaziwai, Paul Schiphol
Ton, uri pachokwadi. Unknown zvinoreva kusadiwa, handiti?
Ini nemurume wangu tave nemusikana wechiThai kwemakore 17, kunyanya wehanzvadzi. Akatidzidzisa chiThai uye isu takamudzidzisa chiDutch. Avewo kwatiri kaviri muNetherlands. Anotaura Chirungu chakanaka, saka zvinoita mutsauko.
Pamusoro pekutidzidzisa mutauro, akatorawo dambudziko kutitsanangurira tsika dzeThai kwatiri uye kutidzidzisa tsika, izvo zvagara zvichikonzera kukoshesa kwakawanda kubva kuThais uye pamwe nekudaro zvakare kunoderedza chikumbaridzo chekusangana. Tichiri kumutenda zvikuru nokuda kwaizvozvo.
Nekufamba kwenguva takatanga kutaura musanganiswa wechiThai, chiDutch nechiRungu, izvo zvinofanirwa kuratidzika kunge zvinoshamisa kune wekunze. Isu tinobatanidza zvakadzikama mazwi echiRungu, echiDutch uye echiThai, akadai sekuti: tarisa nokhouse (dendere reshiri), yaive sanuk, iri patafura, nezvimwe.
Kana iwe wakavhurika kusangana nevanhu veThai, zviri nyore muchiitiko chedu. Tese tine hunhu humwe chete hwakafanana, hunoti HUMOR. Uye izvo zvinokutora iwe kure!
Hongu, nemwarikadzi akanaka kudaro unogona kuputira chero munhu pamunwe wako ...
Uye zvakare, ndinorumbidza nemoyo wese danho rekutyora maitiro akadzikwa emapoka ekunze anorembera zuva rese muStübchen kwavanongonwira zvavo zvinwiwa!
Chiitiko changu ndechekunyemwerera uye kukwazisa Thais nenzira ine hushamwari. Iva nomwero uye dzivisa kushamwaridzana kwose.
Ipapo iwe unogona kugara kwenguva refu pano; Kana mukanyanya kushamwaridzana munopinda mudambudziko.
Handina kumboona chero dambudziko nekuda kwekubata kwangu nevanhu veThai.
Zvinoita sezvinosuruvarisa kwandiri kugara munyika yaunotya kuonana nevanhu.
Pakati pe'drink' ne'of' paifanira kunge paine 'kupaza'.
Warovera chipikiri mumusoro, Ton!
Izvo zvakare zvinokurudzirwa kudzidza mutauro zvishoma, hongu zvakakosha kugadzirisa zvakanyanya sezvinobvira uye kuzvibata semuenzi akanaka.
Ndine dambudziko nemafungiro aWillem, kana uine ruzivo rushoma rwevanhu zvese zvichanaka, asi hey, ndave nemakore angangoita makumi maviri nemaviri ndichiendako.
Kuona zvishoma, ndinofunga.
Chokwadi ndiThais (nevamwe vanhu vekuAsia) vanondiona ndakamira pano (kwete chete maexpats, kunyanya - Mwari zvirinani - boka rese ravo vanosangana neni). Vashomanana chete vevamwe vomunyika yedu vanondifarira, vose vanozivikanwa zvikuru kubva kare (vaichimbova vadzidzi vangu uye dzimwe nguva vabereki vavo). Handisati ndave nevanonetsa kana vanoziva-zvose, ndodawo macommanda kubva pandakasvika pano. Zvakanaka, mapato anofarira. Zvakanaka, uye ipapo iyo "pike". Ndiyo chete mota chaiyo yakambovapo.
zvakanaka, ndanga ndichigara pano kweanenge makore 5 ikozvino, ndine "shamwari" dzakawanda dzeThai, uye ndinotaura chimwe chiThai, ndakatora zvidzidzo kuKUL kuBelgium, pane hukama hwakanaka, handina kana kumboonana nevamwe. expats
Ndaive (ndine) shamwari yekuAmerica pano yanga iri pano kwemakore 9 uye inoramba kutaura Thai nekuti akambomuseka nemataurirwo asiriwo.
Zvakanaka, isu vanhu veFlemish hatinetseki nazvo
handina kunzwisisa, ndapota edza zvakare
uye shamwari dzangu dzeThai varume vakanaka uye zvechokwadi havasi vanoita purofiti
Moderator: Mafoni akadai anofanirwa kuenda kuburikidza nevashandi vekudhirowa.
Ndave nemakore maviri ndichigara muThailand, asi pano handina shamwari chaidzo. Vakawanda vanozivana uye vavakidzani vakanaka. Mumugwagwa medu mune dzimba mbiri nebharaki imwe hombe. Vavakidzani vangu vekuThai, murume nemukadzi vechidiki vane kambani yekuvaka, vanogara mune imwe imba uye imwe ndiyo yatinogara. Pakati pemabharaki panogara vashandi vevavakidzani vangu.
Kune vashoma vatorwa vanogara munzvimbo iyi: vashoma maGerman, Chirungu, Finn, maAmerican, maCanada, Swiss. Vatinosangana navo vanogumira kumusangano wemukana pamusika, Tesco kana 7/11.
Ndakatogamuchira kukoka kwakawanda uye ndakashanyirawo mumwe munhu, asi isu tinozeza.
Vanhu vandinoshamwaridzana navo, vasinganyatsova shamwari dzemumwe nemumwe, vane nguva shoma yekuita chero chinhu kunze kwekugara pamwe chete mazuva ese kana manheru. Vanoshanda zvikuru mumitambo uye mumwe nomumwe ane nzira yake yekuzadza nguva yavo. Pandinodzida, kana dzichida ini, tichawanana. Pano neapo munhu anorasika achichovha bhasikoro pano ozogara kweawa...
Musikana wangu anoziva maThai akawanda... anongofanira kusangana nemunhu kamwe chete uye anomuziva munhu iyeye kwese kwese. Ndine dambudziko guru nazvo. Ndinenge ndisina kumboziva mumwe munhu kunze kwekunge akakosha. Asi haasi kushamwaridzana nemunhu chero upi zvake. Ivo vanhu vanozivana, hapana chimwe.
Ndinozvirangarira kubva kare, ndichiri kushanda kuLufthansa...kunyanya muno muAsia, vamwe vashandi vakazongondiona zvakare patakanga tava nepick-up yendege yaitevera. Dzimwe nguva ndakaita chimwe chinhu nemumwe wandaishanda naye panguva yekuzorora, asi kazhinji ndaifarira kufamba ndega.
Handinyari ushamwari... kana hwakura hunowirirana uye panoda company yeumwe. Asi chero bedzi chido ichi chisipo, ndinogona kuita pasina. Zvirinani kusava ne "shamwari" pane kuva neakaipa .. ingave iri Farang kana Thai.
Ndanga ndichigara pano kwemakore gumi nemashanu uye ndinoonana zvishoma nevanobva kunze kwenyika.
Handisati ndambonzwisisa kuti nei maDutch akabatanidzwa zvakanyanya nekirabhu yavo. Vane mubatanidzwa munzvimbo dzese dzepasi, kusanganisira muThailand.
Ndagara ndichiti kana ndichida kuona vanhu vechiDutch, ndichaenda kuNetherlands.
Hupenyu hwedu pano hunosanganisira zvachose kuonana neThais. Kune ushamwari hwakasimba uye hwepamusoro. Nekudaro, icho ndicho chaicho chinhu chakanaka. Unogona kuva neshamwari dzakawanda asi haukwanisi kudzichengeta.
Kuvhura kuti ubatane ndiko kwakakosha. Zvinogona kutora nguva shoma, asi mufunge, hapana chinhu chakanaka kupfuura ushamwari mune dzimwe tsika.
Iniwo handisi mumapato eexpat uye embassy. Chero zvazvingava, ndinoona zvichityisa kuva muboka revanhu vakawanda vane hurongwa hwakafanana (nyika, kirabhu yebhola, nezvimwewo). Ini handifarire kuumbwa kwechikwata. Mupfungwa iyoyo ndinoona zvakawanda munyaya yacho. Hushamwari hwako neThai zvakare hwakanaka.
Zvisinei, ndinodawo kuratidza rimwe divi. Ini zvakare ndinopindirana zvakanyanya neThais, ndinotaura zvine musoro Thai, kazhinji ndinoenda kunzvimbo uko kusiri kure nekuonekwa, uye ndichiri kuona kune zvakawanda zvinorambidzwa. Chokutanga pane zvose, kunongova nemwero wedzidzo. Thailand inyika ichiri kusimukira mune zvakawanda, kunyanya zvedzidzo. Mhedzisiro ndeyekududzirwa kwakasiyana zvachose kwekuita nehupenyu nezvinetso zvahwo. Pakutanga kazhinji kunonakidza, kutsva, kunozorodza. Mushure mechinguva hupenzi - nekuti ndizvo zvazvinowanzoitika, kunyangwe usingakwanise kuvapa mhosva - zvinovashungurudza. Muenzaniso? Ndinoziva Thais - handingati shamwari - vanopinda mumotokari vakadhakwa. 'Mai pen rai'. Mumwe wavo akatouraya shamwari (akanga ari mumongi kwevhiki pashure, saka karma yake iri kupenya zvakare). Ndine dambudziko nemafungiro iwayo.
Pamusoro pezvo, ndinotarisirawo kuzova 'chiratidzo farang', uye izvo zvinowanzoitika usingazvizivi, kunyanya kana usati wagara pano kwenguva yakareba kudaro; iwe unogona kuratidza chero kupi zvako semhando yekukwezva, uchipa chimiro kune bato raunosuma. Mabiko emuchato weThai haana kukwana pasina 'token farang'.
Chinondinetesawo ndechekuti zvese - ZVINHU ZVOSE - ndezvechimiro nemari. Koka vamwe vechiThai vasingazivane kumabiko; maminetsi mashanu ekutanga vanotaura zvishoma kuti vatarise chinzvimbo uye vobva vazvimisa kune yavo 'yakafanana'. Clique kugadzirwa pazvakanakisa. Muchiitiko chakanakisa, vanhu vanotanga kukwikwidza kune mumwe nemumwe, izvi zvinonyanya kuoneka ne (ex?)
Kana iwe uchiziva zvipingamupinyi - kana kana zviri pamusoro zvikasakunetsa - unogona kuonana zvakanaka neThais uye kubatanidza zvine musoro. Zvakadaro, ini ndinofunga kuti kana iwe uchingobata chete neThais (kana chete neakanyanya expats) unozvitemesera zvakanyanya pauri.
Ndinofanira kubvuma kuti handizivi zvose zviri munyaya iyi. Nekudaro, pane kusada kuumba mapoka, uye ini handisi weimwe kana imwe kirabhu yenhabvu.
Handitaure Thai. Iyo isarudzo yekuziva. Kutanga, ndakapusa zvikuru kuti ndidzidze mutauro. Chirungu changu kuchikoro chakanga chisina tariro (uye nerombo rakanaka ndakanga ndisina benzi mune zvimwe zvidzidzo). Zvakadaro, munyika yanhasi - mukati nekunze kweThailand - Chirungu chakakosha zvekuti ndingave nani kushandisa simba rangu nenguva mukutaura Chirungu zviri nani pane kutaura chimwe chinhu chinoita sechakanyanya kuoma kwandiri kupfuura Chirungu.
Chechipiri, Thais anotaura Chirungu (uye vakagumisa zvakakodzera kuti izvi zvakakosha) zvakare vane budiriro iri nani pane zvese uye, pamusoro pezvose, fungidziro iri nani yekuzvisimudzira ivo kupfuura vatauri vemitauro. Ndakaona mumwe munhu achikura muChirungu, uye iye zvino anogona zvakare kutumira email zvakanaka (uye tinozviita nekushingaira pamwe chete). Vanhu vakaita seni vakapusa mune chero mutauro usiri mutauro wavo wekuzvarwa uye panguva imwechete vanogona kunyatsofunga zvine musoro (uye varatidze) hazviwanzo.
Ini ndinogona kuzvirumbidza nehunyanzvi hwekuita izvo zvisina kana application mune yangu pano uye ikozvino. Uye zvakasiyana: zvandisingakwanise kuita pano uye izvozvi (handigone kuita zvakawanda kunze kwekusataura Thai) zvinondipa mikana yandisina izvozvi.
Hazvisi nyore kutaura kuti sei kana kuti sei, nezvandiri uye zvandiri, ndinobuda ndiri nani pano kupfuura muNetherlands, asi ichokwadi. Nenzira, muNetherlands ndaigarisana zvakanaka nevese vadzidzi vangu vachiri kuyaruka, kwete nevakuru vaitarisira (ivo neni) kumativi ose. Kana - nemukana wakachena - iwe wakaita rombo rakanaka nekusagadzikana kwako, wakagadziridzwa zvakanyanya.
Ndakambonzwa mumwe muimbi achiti: Handikwanise kuimba zvakanaka, handikwanise kuridza gitare zvakanaka. Zvinoita sei kuti ndinokwezva dzimba dzizere nemusanganiswa wangu wekuimba nekuridza gitare? Nokuti ndiri nyanzvi! Oo, dai munhu wese aive muimbi wehupenyu!