Reader Submission: Kugara nemukadzi wechiThai uye kuyedza kubatanidza munzira yavo yekufunga
Vadiwa vaverengi,
Ndinoda kunyora chimwe chinhu pamusoro pezvandakasangana nazvo ipapo uye zvandaida kugoverana nevanhu vanoda kuuya kuzogara pano, Thailand zvachose kana kuti chikamu chikuru. Zviri pamusoro pekugara nemukadzi wechiThai uye iwe unoedza kuzvibatanidza iwe nenzira yavo yekufunga uye ivo chikamu vanogamuchira nzira yako yekufunga nekudonha kwakawanda, kunyanya kuwanda, uye pakupedzisira kusimuka ... netariro zvichabatsira mumwe munhu. , handisi munyori akanakisa, asi ndinoita nepandinogona napo.
Ndanga ndichigara muPattaya kwemakore matatu, kunze kwenzvimbo yebhawa, mune soi off 3rd mugwagwa, uko pasina kana bar kana resitorendi, chete Thai, mazhinji ayo ane mabviro muIsaan ...
Nyaya yezvandakadzidza nezveThailand nhasi. Kunobva kunyika yangu. Ini ndinogara pakati peyakajairika Thai, yakaderera kirasi, kwete yekumusoro kirasi, asi yakajairika Thai. Ngatimbosiya rusarura padivi kwekanguva...
Ini ndinogara mukamuri iri nyore, nechisarudzo, pasina hupfumi, asi ini ndinodawo kurongeka pano. Nguva nenguva shamwari dzemusikana wangu dzinouya pano, dziri kufara, dzose pasi mudenderedzwa, dzakazadzwa nezvokudya uye zvinwiwa, uye kungokurukura, pasina ini ndiri chikamu chazvo. Asi ndinobhadhara hafu yechikafu ichocho. Vanouya nezvakasara ivo pachavo uyewo hafu yezvinwiwa. Ndakanga ndisisafungi kuti izvozvo zvingaita zvakare... Ndaida kuona firimu murunyararo, uye ipapo vakanga vava zvakare... Vainakidzwa zvisingadaviriki, vakawanda vachazviziva, uye chaizvoizvo vakagara pano kuseri kwangu chaiko. ndigere paPC. Ndakadaidza musikana wangu ndokuzevezera munzeve make : inzwa mudiwa handichada izvozvo asi kamwe chete pamwedzi handina dambudziko nazvo vobva vauya vese nguva yasara ndoda isu chete. .
NdiIsaanse, uye pachinzvimbo chekupfura mu“koleire” akanditarisa ndokunditsvoda ndokuti: ok mudiwa, ndinokuvimbisa, thx nekuchengeta… Ndakafunga kuti ndiwo maitirwo angaitwa, ndozvinoita zvangu “ Isaanse” anodurura” imwezve mvura kuwaini yake uye isu tiri nhanho imwe mberi.
Vanhu vanogara muIsaan vanondinzwisisa, zvinotora nguva yakareba kuti vagadzirise, asi kana wanyatsovajekesera kuti newewo une zvaunoda uye uvasiye vave nekuzviremekedza kwavo, vanofara kuita zvibvumirano uye. kuda kwako pachako kunogamuchirwa uye kunotendwa.
Uye saka iwe unovaka hukama hwako chidimbu nechidimbu.
Iyi ndiyo chaiyo Thailand, muchokwadi, mune yangu, chidimbu cheIsaan muPattaya icho vazhinji vanongoziva seyakashata bar uye bonde rekushanya guta. Asi Pattaya yakanyanya kupfuura izvozvo.
Ini handisi mutauri wenyaya akanaka, asi ichi ndicho chiitiko changu, parizvino muThailand, ndinovimba zvinobatsira vamwe vanhu, ndaida kunyora izvi pasi, ndikarohwa nemaitiro asingatarisirwe zvachose emusikana wangu.
Zvinhu zvose zvadzikama zvakare zvino, ndakabvumirana zvakare nemusikana wangu kuti izvi zvinogona kuitika kamwe chete pamwedzi, anofara, uye ini ndinofara. Nenzira iyi ndakawana kuti "Isaanse wangu" ari padyo nenzvimbo yekugara ye "Farang yake" uye anodzidza kuita zvibvumirano.
Kwaziso kubva kuPattaya kubva kumurume anofara.
Rudy
Ingomirira mwedzi kutanga.
Pane mukana wakanaka wekuzoti zvakanaka mudiwa uye zvinongoenderera seizvi 🙂
Colin…
Ndinoziva kuti imhata, asi ndingangonongedza here kuti svondo rinouya tinenge tave nemakore matatu tiri tese, siku nesikati?
Saka kwete mwedzi sezvaunotaura, ndaingoda kukuudza kuti zvinotora nguva yakareba sei kuti uwane mukadzi weIsan kuti aite izvozvo, uye izvo zvinotora kushivirira kukuru!
Asi iwe unowana zvakawanda mukudzoka, anondipuruzira semwana mucheche, uye haafanire kuzviita nekuda kwemari, nekuti ini handina!
Kusiyana neizvi, ndiye anoisa mabhureki pandinotyisidzira kupfuudza bhajeti yangu yemwedzi nemwedzi, mimwe mwedzi ndine rombo rakanaka kuti anopindira!
Uye zvakare kuti ndive pachena, ndine makore makumi mashanu nematatu, uye musikana wangu ane makumi mana nemashanu.
Kwaziwai.
Rudy.
Hameno ndoda kuona kuti zvinoita here nekuti Thais haana basa nesu uye anorarama hupenyu hwake.Izvi ndizvo zvandakasangana nazvo mushure memakore gumi nemanomwe neshamwari dzangu uye vandinozivana navo, vese vandinonzwa vachinyunyuta pano. Iwe haumbouye pakati pavo, uye ivo vanogara vachisarudza mhuri yavo neshamwari. Ihwo hupenyu hwakasununguka husina mitemo, maitiro uye maitiro. Mapati nemhuka zvakakosha kuvakadzi veThai pane hupenyu hwakarongeka hune Farang. Ndiri kutonzwa zvakare mashoko emudzimai wangu, zvasiyana. Hongu, chero uripo, asi kamwe mutekisi kana mundege, ivo vatodzokera mubhawa kana muWalking Street kunokora. Iwe hauzombosvika pakuziva Thai, uye ivo kazhinji vanewo shamwari yeThai kana kuti pimp. Ndine vakawanda vandinozivana navo vakandirwa neizvi, asi pasina nguva vese vakawana mukana wavo. Mushure memakore 17, 19 uye muzivikanwi akanaka mushure memakore makumi maviri nemana, ndakauya kofi neakaundi yebhangi isina chinhu uye ndakarasikirwa neimba yake pakusvika. Ini zvino ndaigona kuzadza encyclopedia neizvi mushure memakore gumi nemanomwe muThailand. Vhiki rega rega ndainyora nezvazvo uye ndakayambira munhu wese wekumusha kuti atenge imba mukambani chete, asi mazhinji acho aive akazara mushure mekutaridzika kwakanaka uye nguva inofadza. Haa vakanaka changamire. Thailand inyika yakanaka yekugara kana iwe ukachengeta imba yako iri padyo neshedhi uye usingazvibvumire kuvhurwa kana kurongedzerwa mune zvemari, nekuti kana chimwe chinhu chikatadza, uye panenge paine nguva dzose, iwe unosara uchiseka. Kuona vapfumi nevarombo vakawanda vachiuya uchiona vazhinji vachidzokera kumusha semagamba.Usatambe mukomana mukuru pano nekuti kazhinji kacho zvinokutyora nekuti ukangovharwa nemhino, wobva washaya pekudzokera .
Wadiwa Colin,
Ini ndinofunga kuti vazhinji vevatorwa vanouya kuThailand chete kumabiko nemapati. Icho chiitiko changu kuti kazhinji havana hanya nezve Thais. Ini handiwanzo kuona chero tsitsi kubva kune vekune dzimwe nyika nehupenyu hunowanzo kuoma hweThais. Vazhinji vekune dzimwe nyika vanogara vachitsoropodza maThais vasingaite nhamburiko yekuziva kana kuvanzwisisa. Ndinoona vatorwa vashomanene vachidzidza mutauro, vachidzidza nezvenhoroondo yeThai, tsika netsika, kana kuedza kudzidza zvakawanda nezvechiBuddha. Vazhinji vekune dzimwe nyika vanonamatira kubhokisi ravo uye vanodyidzana zvakanyanya nevamwe vatorwa.
"Haumbofi wakanyatsoziva Thai," unonyora kudaro. Iwe unofunga kuti munhu wechiDutch anozombosvika pakuziva mumwe munhu wechiDutch here? Uyewo muNetherlands unowanzonzwa kugomera 'Ndaifunga kuti ndaimuziva zvakanaka asi ...'
Uye iwe unogona kusazvitenda, Colin, asi kana iwe uchitamba mukomana mukuru muNetherlands, iyo nyika yakanaka, yakasiyana kwazvo neThailand, iwe uchakurumidza kuva nechivharo pamhino dzako.
Zvandiri kutaura ndezvizvi, Colin. Iwe unogara uchiita senge iwe unoziva zvakanyanya nezveThailand. handizvitendi. Nyaya dzako dzizere nerusarura, stereotypes uye generalizations. Iwe unotaura nezve Thais semhando ine njodzi, ine chepfu iyo iwe yaunofanirwa kugara wakarinda.
MaThai kazhinji vanhu vanobatsira, vanoseka, vanonzwisisa uye vane mutsa. Zvisinei, hapana chinhu chomunhu chisingazivikanwi kwavari.
Thailand inopfuura Pattaya, Colin.
Colin, unongonzwa zviitiko zvisina kunaka, itsika yakasiyana pano, rega mumwe wako ararame hupenyu hwake sezvaajaira uye agadzirise zvishoma uye uchaona kuti imwe hafu yako ichaita zvimwe chete, rarama uye rega ndirarame uye ini. achauya pano makore makumi matatu chete, mukadzi wechi30 weThai, akaroorwa kwemakore gumi nemashanu atove uye ndinoswera ndichipusa nemusikana wangu weThai, iniwo ndinowana nguva yangu nguva dzose, ndinogara ndichienda kuna amai vake, kupi kwandakambonzwa, haha Ndakashanda nevanhu veThai. hazvisi nyore, asi funga nezve tsika yavo uye zvino zvichabuda zvakanaka, saka zvinogona kufamba zvakanaka.
Kwaziwai Hans
Uye ndizvo chaizvo zvazviri ... ndicho chikonzero ndinongwarira zvikuru nezvipikirwa ... kana ukasazviita nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare iwe uchava mudambudziko. Kuzvidzivirira kunokosha zvikuru.
Ivo, unoziva zvandinoreva nazvo, nekukurumidza kukukanganwa iwe kana waenda, neimwe EXCEPTION. Asi nyika inoshamisa yekugara kwemwedzi kana maviri.
Wadiwa Colin, zvinoita sekunge kuburikidza nekupinda kwako muzviitiko "zvakaoma" wakasangana nekusavimbika kwakawanda uye saka wakarerekera zvakanyanya.
Sezvaunotsanangura muThai mumhinduro iyi, ini handizive muThai wandinoziva uye sewe, ndinoziva muThai, ndagara neThai kwemakore gumi nemanomwe, saka ... unotambura neacidification?
Ini handizive zvaunozvimisira pazviri, zvekuti panenge paine nguva zhinji, pamwe pane, zvakare, mhosva dzisina kunaka dzawakasangana nadzo uye kusarura kwakavakirwa pazviri.
Yambiro dzako dzekungotenga imba mukambani dzinogona kunge dzakarurama sedziviriro kana paine matambudziko ehukama, asi hazvienderane nemutemo muThailand.
Zviitiko zvako zvinovimbika zvingava nani dai wanga uine acidic zvishoma uye wakaderera.
Kwaziwai.
NicoB
Maonero edivi rimwe chete eThai uye hukama neThai. Kana usati wasiya denderedzwa rakasimba mushure memakore gumi nemanomwe muThailand, uri kuita chimwe chinhu chakaipa.
mufananidzo waunopenda kazhinji wakarurama. Zvakanaka, hazvisati zvaitika kwandiri mushure memakore 17 tiri pamwe chete. Handifungi kuti zvichaitika zvakare. Mudzimai wangu haanwe doro, haaputi, haatombozivi mitemo yemutambo wemakadhi.
Chinoisa pressure pahukama idambudziko remari ravana tezvara. Zvinhu zvinofamba zvakanaka kwechinguva, asi chimwe chinhu chinoitika zvakare uye mari inofanira kuenda zvakare. Mudzimai wangu: Ndizvo zvandinoshandira, handiti? Me:Ehe hee ndinoshandawo ndiyo mari yekubatana. Uyezve, unoramba kubhadhara rendi uye mari yakatarwa. Izvi zvinoreva kuti unogona kugara uchitumira mari ikoko, handiti?
Mari yacho kazhinji haina kunyanyokurisa, asi anopfuura makore gumi nemanomwe tingadai takatenga mota yakanaka yekufamba-famba. Ini ndinofunga kuti ndizvo zvekuzvarwa nazvo kuve nemudiwa kubva kunyika dzine urombo. Inzwa nyaya dzakafanana kubva kuvanhu vane shamwari dzekuSurinamese kana dzemuAfrica.
Ari kuzotsamwisa. Kana zvinhu zvose zvikafamba zvakanaka kune rimwe gore, iwe uchanetseka zvakare. Zvinhu zvichakanganisika rinhi zvakare? Uye hongu! Imwe drama. Panyaya iyoyo: Ndine muchato wakanaka, asi mumwe munhu paakandibvunza nguva pfupi yapfuura kana ndaizomupa zano rokuva nemba yakafanana, ndakamutsiura. Handina kuzviona ini panguva iyoyo, asi ndinoyambira vamwe. Matambudziko atezvara vako anova akowo. Ndine mari yakawanda mubhangi muno muNetherlands uye icharamba iripo. Kubva pandakaudza mudzimai wangu kuti handingakwanise kukurumidza kuenda kubasa ndisina mari iyoyo, saka taizoenda tese kuThailand, hapasisina nyaya yemari.
@ Slagerij, iwe wakangoipa saDe Jong. Ndave ndiri pano kwemakore 40 zvino, 30 acho aine mukadzi mumwe chete wechiThai, uye vanatezvara vangu vokuThailand havana kumbondikumbira mari. Kutaura idi, nguva dzose vanounza zvipo, zvakadai seshangu dzokumhanya dzinodhura neshati, uye dzimwe nguva vanotobetsera nemari apo zvinetso zvinomuka. Aiwa, haisi mhuri yakapfuma, mhuri yebasa. Kana iwe ukaramba uchikumbirwa mari, inguva yekurongedza mabhegi ako. Tinogoverana mufaro nenhamo pamwe chete.
Ndatenda nezano renyu, asi ndorongedzerei mabhegi angu? Izvozvo zvaizoreva kuti ndaizodzinga mudzimai wangu kuno kuNetherlands, nepo agara ari mudzimai womuenzaniso. Sezvakataurwa: haabhejeri, haanwi, anogara ari kumba kana asiri kushanda. Handina kumbobvira ndamusarudza kubva mubhubhu sezvainofanirwa kuitwa nevamwe vanhu vechiDutch pano dzimwe nguva. Aivawo nedzidzo yakanaka muThailand. Ndinofanira kupawo kuna baba vake. Kana ariye dambudziko ndaigona kubatsirwa nemazano enyu.
Asi zvino: Ndinofanira kungoti kwaari: Buda! Ndinofunga wakanyanya kunaka kumhuri yako! Tarira, vanhu vose vari pano vanoti hapana chavanobhadhara: Kana vabereki vomudzimai wako vakashayiwa, chimwe chinhu chinotarisirwa kwauriwo.
Wadiwa Colin,
Nekuti iwe unogara muPattaya, ndinogona kufungidzira kuti iwe unofanirwa kubata naFarang vanongonyunyuta, vane maonero asina kunaka eThais yavanodyidzana navo, uye muzviitiko zvakawanda vanobviswa zvachose vakashama nemudiwa weThai nemhuri yake. / shamwari.
Asi handizvo here nekuti - sezvinoratidzwa naTino - mafarang haaongorore tsika dzeThai, nhoroondo nemutauro uye anoramba akatenderedza muboka rimwe remamwe mafarang?
Ndava nemakore anoda kusvika 37 ndichigara pano. Ndinotaura mutauro weThai zvakanaka uye ndinonyura mutsika yeThai. Shamwari dzangu zhinji ndedzeThai uye dzinobva kunzvimbo dzakafanana nedzangu. Ini handisi mupfumi pakati peshamwari dzangu dzeThai, kutaura zvazviri, vane zvakawanda zvekushandisa kupfuura ini. Uye Thais munharaunda iyoyo haafarire mari yefarang. Ndinowanzochengetedzwa ndakasununguka patinoenda kunodya kana kuti tinoenda kunonzi "Dutch", uye munhu wose anoisa chimwe chinhu muhari.
Ndinoenda kumichato yevana vavo uye ivo vanoenda kune wangu, uye kana ndichida rubatsiro pane chero chinhu, hakuna shamwari dziri nani kupfuura dzeThai. Asi zvakakosha kuti utaure navo muchiThai, uye ukwanise kutevera majee eThai uye uzviudze iwe pachako. Wese munhu achange ari mumasoti kana iwe uchikwanisa kuita izvozvo sefarang.
Vazhinji vanofamba munzvimbo dzakaita sePattaya vanopedzisira vapinda mune diki tsotsi nharaunda yeThai kuburikidza nehukama (pasina pekutanga kuzviziva), wobva wapinda mumvura ine njodzi.
Ndanga ndichifunga nezvazvo, Petervz, uye ndichiedza kuzviisa mushangu dzemukadzi wechiThai muPattaya.
Ndine mwana, baba vakatiza, vakashaika. Ndinofanirawo kuchengeta vabereki vangu nemunin’ina wangu ari kudzidza kuyunivhesiti. Mari iyoyo ndinoiwana nekufadza varume vakuru vekune dzimwe nyika. Handina mari yakawanda yasara.
Ndingangotora mukana upi noupi kuti ndinyengedze mutorwa nemari. Ndine shamwari dzakawanda dzisingade kuita izvozvo uye ndinoonga izvozvo. Zvakanaka kwavari. Asi ini pachangu…kana ndikawana mukana ndinogona kuzviita……
Hi Rudhi,
Ndizvo zvazviri uye hapana imwe nzira.
Makaita zvakanaka kwazvo, uye vadarowo.
Muenzaniso kune vakawanda.
Wako akatendeka.
Ichiri imwe nyaya isinganzwisisike. Vakadzi vazhinji vanobva kuIsaan vachiuya kuPattaya vaine tarisiro yekuwana farrang anogona kuvapa hupenyu huri 'nani' pane hwavaive nahwo muIsaan. Iwe unosarudza kugara nemusikana wako weIsan pakati peakajairika Thais, uyo iwe pachako unoti 'kirasi yakaderera'. Zvakanaka, isarudzo yemahara uye handina dambudziko nazvo. Chinhu chakanaka kuvakadzi vazhinji veThai ndechekuti vanogona kutaura nedzimwe shamwari ivo vachidya chimwe chinhu. Zviri pachena kuti musikana wako anonakidzwa nazvo zvakanyanya. Uye nokuda kwaizvozvo unomufonera kuti azvidavirire uye muudze kuti kubva zvino zvichienda mberi vachakuitira izvozvo zuva 1 pamwedzi, nekuti zvinokunetsa iwe uchiona TV kana kugara pamberi pePC yako. Ndinofunga unogona kuvimba nazvo kuti haatsvage imwe farrang.
Ndinogona kufungidzira zvishoma zvekutsamwisa kwaRudy:
- Zvido zvake hazvimbotarisirwi (hongu, muThai anongofunga nezveThais uye muThais. Saka, kana ukaenda kunodya ne8 Thais, mari yacho ndeye farang, uye manheru ese hapana. kana zviripo, ndangochinjana shoko newe chete.
- iyo bhiri ndeye GARA yefarang. Hapana chinombopihwa sekudzorera.
Hukama nehushamwari nekuremekedzana zvinobva kumativi ese. Mune imwe-nzira traffic, mumwe munhu anoshungurudza mumwe. Izvi zvinoreva kuti iwe pachako unoratidza kufarira mumwe munhu (muThai) uye ivo mauri. Hazvishamisi kwandiri kuti munhu anayo zvakanyanya kupa mupiro wakakura. Kana munhu wacho nguva dzose achibvumirwa kubhadhara mari yacho, chimwe chinhu chakaipa zvikuru. Vanhu vane hunhu havaite izvozvo, zvisinei nenyika. Mushure mezvose, hupenyu kupa uye kutora. Pese pandaiuya kuThailand, shamwari dzemudzimai wangu nemhuri vaisimbirira kubhadhara bhiri racho zvizere pakushanya kwokutanga (mushure mezvose, ini/wii vakanga vari vaenzi vavo) uye pakubuda kwakatevera munhu wose aibhadhara mugove wakaenzana.
Chinhu chakanaka kuti chiThai chizhinji chinotaurwa, asi iwe zvakare unoona iyi gomba rakawanda pakati pevanhu vechiDutch kana mamwe marudzi. Kutaura nemutauro wako kuri nyore uye dzimwe nguva kunongoerekana kwauya. Vamwe vevaThai vandinoziva vanotaura zvishoma kana Chirungu, saka hazvishamise kuti hurukuro inokurumidza kuipa. Ehe, semutorwa iwe unofanirwawo kuita nhamburiko yekutaura neChirungu, uye kana uchigara muThailand zvingave zvakanaka kuti uedze kudzidza chiThai chakakosha. Ipapo unenge usisamhanyire bhekoni nebhinzi. Mudzimai wangu pane dzimwe nguva akakuwana kwakaoma mukati menguva yake yokutanga muNetherlands kuti kwakanga kune kurukurirano yakawanda muchiDutch, iyo yakakurumidza kupinda mumusoro make. Zvino hazvigoneke kujoinha, nepo izvo zvakanyanya kukosha kana iwe uchida kupfuura mwero wehurukuro ine hupenyu. Mapato maviri ane mugove wavo mune izvi.
Kana zvese, ingave nhaurirano kana kubhadhara bhiri kana chero, zvichibva kune rumwe rutivi, saka chimwe chinhu chakashata zvakanyanya. Ipapo ndiyo nguva yokuzvibvunza kuti ndiwe here une mhaka kana kuti vanhu vakakupoteredza vanokuremekedza here. Dai zvisina kudaro, ndaitsvaga vanhu vanokuona semunhu. Sekuona kwangu, hazvinei nerudzi kana tsika uye zvese zvine chekuita netsika dzepasirese uye hunhu hwakadai sekufarirana uye kuremekedzana.
Ndinoda kutaura chimwe chinhu pamusoro pebhiri refarang.
Asi ini pane imwe nguva (kare kare) ndine tsananguro kubva kuThai uyo aive nemoyo wakanaka.
Ini handisi kuzotaura kuti inoshanda nenzira iyi kwese kwese muThailand, nekuti ini handizive zvechokwadi.
Asi nyaya yake yaive iyi:
Kana boka reThais rikaenda kunodya, uye mumwe weThai ari muchimiro chakanaka, bhiri rinowanzo kubhadharwa neThai iyeye.
Chikonzero chacho chiri nyore.
Mutengo wechikafu wakakwira zvakanyanya kupfuura zvavangave vasina mupfumi weThai.
Iko kune mupfumi weThai - semuenzaniso - anounza bhodhoro dzvuku label kana chimwe chinhu chakafanana netafura, pasina mupfumi Thai boka raizonwa zvakachipa mupunga whiskey.
Izvo zvakafanana zvinoshanda kune chikafu.
Mutengo wechisvusvuro ichocho waizobva wakwira zvakanyanya kune varombo veThai.
Vapfumi veThai vanowanzokwanisa kutenga mari iyoyo.
Saka anobhadhara mari yacho. (kana kuti zvimwe achadya ega nguva inotevera)
Izvi ndizvozvo. Kunyange zvazvo, pasinei nokunyunyuta kwangu pamusoro pevatezvara vangu, ndinofanira kubvuma kuti zvinowanzoitika kuti mumwe wavo anobhadhara. (1, havambofambi vachiunganidza mari, havagovani zvikwereti, zvisingamboiti pachena) Asi sezvakaita Ruud anotaura pamusoro apa: Ndakapedzawo mazuva ndiri pamwe chete neThai yakabudirira. Nguva imwe neimwe aibhadhara boka guru revanhu. Kana ndaida kubhadhara (pakupedzisira iwe uchanyara kana iwe uchigara uchidya kune mumwe munhu mari, vaThai havanyadziswi nenzira) ndaizomhanyira kune weta. Izvo hazvidiwi, zvese zvakatobhadharwa, changamire. inzira yekuti vane mari vaonekwe hunhu hwavo. Iwe zvakare unoona chimwe chinhu chenzvimbo. Mubhadhari haatombotsinhani izwi nevashoma vakapfuma, vanobvumidzwawo kudya, hongu.
Zvese zvakanyanya kuoma kupfuura zvatinofunga.
Kana kuti izvi: Apo ndakanga ndiri muBangkok nomuramu wangu, mudzimai wangu akanga atoenda kumba, pane imwe nguva takaenda kunodya neboka guru. Iwe haufanirwe kunetseka nebhiri, akandiudza. Mr. ……… aripo uye anogara achisimbirira pakubhadhara zvese. Ane mari yakawanda. Zvinogara zvakanaka kuva nemunhu akadaro pedyo, akawedzera. Uye usatange kutaura nezvekugovana bhiri. Kuzvidzwa ndekwako. Mukuwasha anowanzo bhadharawo. Ndakambokurukura naye muresitorendi. Taive tiri vaviri. Asi patsanura bhiri, kwete. Ini kana iwe. Akabva abhadhara. Me next time
Wadiwa Ruud, chikonzero ndechekutsigira. Munhu akapfuma anobhadhara uye anogona kuzovimba nerubatsiro zvakare.
Mupfumi weThai haaise chipepa chitsvuku patafura. Black label kazhinji uye dzimwe nguva inodhura goridhe, yebhuruu kana yegirini.
Ichokwadiwo, pakusanganazve kwekirasi yemudzimai wangu (vanhu 15 kusvika ku20) anogara ari murume mumwe chete anobhadhara mari yeresitorendi. Dzimwe nguva anotombomira-mira kuti abhadhare.
Achangobva kukoka vaaichimbova vaaidzidza navo kuti vagare pakupera kwevhiki pahotera yeMarina Bey muSingapore. Akabhadhara kugara kwese kwevanhu makumi maviri.
Munhu weThai anofara kukwanisa kuita izvozvo, chimwe chinhu chisinganzwisiswi nevekuMadokero.
Kazhinji farang inobhadhara zvakanyanya. Zvakanaka, vanobhadharawo dzimwe nguva, asi vanhu vanogona kufara nechiyero che80/20, saka iwe unobhadhara 80% yezvikwereti uye ivo vanobhadhara 20%. vanobvumirwa kazhinji kudhonzawo chikwama. Uye chero munhu asingatauri chiThai zvakanaka (kazhinji haana kana kukwana, iwe unogona zvakare kudzidza Lao) uye vangani pano vanogona kunyatsoita izvozvo? unoramba uri mutorwa panguva yekudya. Chirungu semutauro mukuru hazvishande. MaThai kazhinji haana murairo uri nani weThai kupfuura isu. Mhedziso: vazhinji vedu paforamu ino tinofinhwa kusvika pakufa nemhando idzi dzekubuda kwemhuri. Kana kuti panofanira kuva neimwe farang. Chinhu chakanakisa chaunogona kuita kunwa. Ipapo iwe une zvakaringana zvako uye fungidziro dzako uye unogona kugadzirisa zvirinani kukanganiswa kwebhiri. Tarisa usati wasvetuka. Ndinofunga kuti vanhu vakawanda pakutanga vachine nyengedzo yokugona mutauro pashure pemakore mashomanene. (uye handirevi tekisi yeThai, asi kungokwanisa kutevera zvese paThai TV) Kana vaona kuti izvo hazvishande, vari pakati pazvo uye kubuda kwechimbichimbi kwakaoma kusvika.
@Harrybr, imwe ngano. Bhiri reFarang. Mhuri yedu yechiThai painotiendesa kunodya, vanobhadhara uye havadi kunzwa nezvekuti mudzimai wangu aburitsa chikwama chake. Kutaura zvazviri, ndiye anotarisira mari uye anobhadhara zvikwereti zvose uye kutenga nemari yeimba. Ane ATM card muhomwe uye handina kana mari pandiri. 30 makore pamwe chete uye zvese zviri muzita rake.
Ndizvo chaizvo, ndosaka ndichiramba kana vekwangu vachiti ndiende kunodya. Bhiri...ini, kwete, kwete izvozvo.nemhuri...6 vanhu. Uye ipapo kamwe kamwe ndinonwa coke, rum ... Whisky kana doro rinodhura zvakanyanya ... ndobva ndati mhoro ...
Wadiwa Rudy, Thais vanhu chete. 555 Unogona kuita zvibvumirano zvakanaka nemunhu mumwe chete, asi kwete kana zvishoma kune mumwe. Uye muhukama pane kupa uye kutora. Kunyange vakaroorana vanofara zvikuru havawanzove vari papeji imwe chete. Saka zvinoda kutaurirana.
Ikozvino handizivi mamiriro ako ezvinhu. Unonyora kuti wava ne3years uchigara ikoko, asi hauzivi kuti iwe kana mukadzi wako muchine basa here kana kuti muri kufara nepenjeni yenyu. Kana iwe kana mudiwa wako uchine zvisungo zvezuva nezuva, ndinogona kufungidzira kuti hapana chinokunda zuva rekuita chinhu, rugare uye kunyarara kumba. Asi pane mamwe mazuva iwe kana mudzimai wako muchadawo kufara uye kuita chimwe chinhu. Unogona kunge uine rombo rakanaka rekukwanisa kuita chero chaunoda mazuva ese. Iva nechokwadi chekutora mukana weizvi, asi funga nezvemumwe wako. Mhemberero yezuva nezuva inoita seyakanyanya kwandiri, kunyanya kana mumwe munhu achifanira kuibhadhara. Iwe unogovera mufaro wako nemitoro, zvakare nemari.
Zvinoita senge zvakajairika kwandiri kuti mudiwa wako anogona kuva neshamwari kakawanda pamwedzi uye hongu iwewo. Iva nekunakidzwa, sanook. Pane mamwe mazuva, varaidzo iyi inogona kunyatsoitika kunze. Inyaya yesvikiro rinofara. Muukama hwakanaka kuenzana kwakadaro kunofanira kuva nyore kuwana. Ingongwarira kuti mumwe wako asamanikidzira kuda kwake zvakanyanya. Izvi zvinozopedzisira zvaunza dambudziko. Iwe pachako, kungova neshamwari dzako kamwe chete pamwedzi kunoratidzika kunge kudiki kwandiri, kunyangwe hupenyu hwako hwezuva nezuva hwakanga huchiri hwakazara nezvisungo (basa). Asi pakupedzisira iwe uchawana chakarurama, chiyero chakanaka pamwe chete. Kukurukurirana nerudo/rukudzo ndiwo mazwi akakosha muhukama hwakanaka. Rombo rakanaka!
Nyaya yakanaka. Musikana wangu anobvawo kwaIsaan uye anoita sezvakanyorwa pamusoro. Ndinofunga kuti zvakanaka uye zvinochengeta hukama hwedu padanho rakanaka. Anoda mafaro, shamwari, chikafu nekuseka. Zvakandinakira, asi sezvo kurenda kuThailand kwakachipa, ndakazvirojera imwe kamuri. Saka ndine 2 TV, 2 PC, 2 midhudhudhu, zvese zvakapetwa kuti ndivewo nerusununguko rwangu uye zvinhu zvanga zvichifamba zvakanaka kwemakore matatu izvozvi. Inyaya yekupa nekutora.
Ehe, hapana chinouya pachivimbiso ichocho - unoziva here kuti uri kuganhurira sei rusununguko rwake? Iwe kuseri kwePC yako uye iye chete aripo kwauri - kunze kweiyo zuva rimwe chete pamwedzi? Zvinosiririsa zvakadii pa'hukama'……….
Ndakagara nekushanda muThailand kwemakore 17 uye ndine mukomana. Ndakaswedera pedyo nayo zvishoma. Ndaigara muimba yetaundi uye ndakaigadzira muchimiro cheEurope chose. Ndakaisawo tafura hombe yakafara kunze kwefenzi, kwakagamuchirwa shamwari dzeshamwari yangu. Ndaiwanzovapo ini pachangu, zvinofadza zvikuru. Dai ndaguta kana kusanzwa kuda kugara ipapo ndaipinda mumba saka hatina kumbonetsana nazvo. Asi zvinhu zvakachinja pandakadzokera kuNetherlands nekuti zvakabva zvave nyonganyonga mukati, hongu, ndakaona danho rinotevera richitsamwisa, asi ndakazobvisa imba uye regai mukomana wangu azvigadzirire pachake, chidzidzo chakaoma kune. iye, asi zvakanga zvakakodzera.
Ndinovimba nekuda kwako, Rudy, kuti musikana wako anowirirana kwenguva refu. zvibvumirano.
Kana izvo zvikaitika, iwe uri mumaoko akanaka, kana zvisiri uye chibvumirano chichatyorwa, ndinotya, sekuratidzwa kwemaitiro asina kunaka ari pamusoro apa.
Ndinokushuvirai rombo rakanaka.
NicoB
Wavimbisa musikana wako kuti uchashandisa komputa kamwe chete pamwedzi?
Zvinoita sezvine musoro kwandiri, kana achifanira kuwanikwa kwauri kubvisa zuva rimwe chete pamwedzi wese.
Kana kuti hauna dambudziko here kana mapato iwayo achiitirwa kumwewo?
Generalizing iri nyore kwazvo kubva kuseri kwePC yako pabasa rako rakachengetedzwa uye nguva yaunopinda muhupenyu hweThai unonzwa nyaya dzese uye mubhawa wedunhu wobva wafunga kuti iyi iThailand.
Mudunhu rebhawa muThailand yese, madzimai anotsvaga wekugara naye (zera harina basa) anogona kuona kuti mukadzi wacho uye 99% ane mwana mumwe chete kana kupfuura vanozvimiririra mune zvemari, uye kana zvese zvikafamba zvakanaka, zvakare vabereki vemwana. zuva rakanaka rekare rinogona kusangana pasina nzara uye kunetseka zvine chekuita nemari
dzidza kutaura mutauro weThai uye uchasvika pakuziva vanodada veThai vanhu,
iyo 90% inowanzopindura pano inogona kuenzaniswa nevashandi vevashanyi kubva kuma70 uye avo vasati vataura chiDutch, asi vanotaura maonero pamusoro pezvinhu zvose pakati pavo maererano nenzanga yedu nemitemo kana rusarura, nezvimwewo.
Huwandu hweThai vanhu vakanyanya kunaka, vanogarisana zvakanyanya kumhuri nevakura
huwandu hweThai hunofarira kubatsira vamwe, kazhinji mahara kana kuvimba nehunyanzvi hwako mune ramangwana
ita izvozvo kana zvakakodzera
Vanhu veThai, kunyangwe vausingazive, vanogona kufonerwa kana kufonerwa 24/7 kana rubatsiro ruchidikanwa uye vanokurongera zvese nekukurumidza pasina mhinduro, vese vasingatarisire mari kana muripo, asi semumwe munhu anoda mumwe munhu. zvimwe kubatsira
Uku ndiko kazhinji kunyemwerera kwaunoona muvanhu, kana uchinge uchifara kana kupenya mufaro, ivo vanofara
Somuenzaniso, kunyemwerera kana kuti kugutsurira musoro kwoushamwari hakuna zvakunobatsira asi kunopa vakawanda kunzwa kwoushamwari uye kunofadza mukati
dzidza kutaura mutauro uye nyika inoshamisa yakanaka ichakuvhurira iwe uye uchanakidzwa nayo zvakanyanya
inogona kunakidzwa iyi yakanaka Thailand nevanhu vayo vane hushamwari, vanobatsira uye vane hutano
carpe diem kubata zuva
Ndanga ndichigara muIsaan nemukadzi wangu wechiThai nemhuri yake kwemakore gumi, asiwo shamwari zhinji nemhuri muPattaya, Bangkok, Phuket, Chonburi, Chiangmai naThabo Sangkom Nongkhai neKhonka uye nekudaro nzvimbo dzakasiyana siyana nevanhu.
Kubva pane zvakaitika kwandiri ini ndakadzidza zvakawanda nezve tsika yeThai. Mumazuva angu ekutanga ndaigara 99% pakati pevaMadokero (munzvimbo yekugara yekuMadokero), 50% yavo yaive nemudiwa wekuThai, imwe 50% yaive nemumwe wekuMadokero. Zvino mushure memakore manomwe zvakawanda zvachinja, kunze kwemhuri imwe chete hapasisina 7% mhuri dzekumadokero! Iwo mabasa akadzoserwa kumashure! Ikozvino kune 1% mhuri dzeThai uye 100% mhuri dzakasanganiswa. Vakachena vekumadokero vaenda. Pamwe nekuti vaisakwanisa kujaira Thailand chaiyo. Kunze kwevanhu vashomanana, ini pachangu handisisina kuonana nevamwe vokuMadokero, nokuti ndakanga ndaneta nokugara ndichiteerera nyaya dzisina kunaka. Uye nekuti vazhinji vekuMadokero havanzwisise kuti ini ndinowanzo buda neThais. Sezvatotaurwa pano mune dzimwe mhinduro, chinja, edza kunzwisisa uye kutaura zvishoma Thai, ipapo nyika yakasiyana zvachose ichavhurika. Thais vanhu vanobatsira chaizvo! E.g. Shamwari yangu ine dambudziko nemudhudhudhu wake pane imwe nzvimbo mumunda, mota yechitatu inouya inomira yobvunza kuti angabatsira here? Zvechokwadi pane dambudziko remutauro, shamwari yangu inondidana uye nokuti ndinotaura chiThai zvishoma ndinogona kutsanangura kwandinogara. Mushure meinopfuura hafu yeawa anounzwa kumba nemudhudhudhu munzvimbo yekurodha. Murume uya akanga atyaira 50 km kuti auye naye kumba. Muripo waaisada, takangoisa 50 bht pachigaro chake achibva aenda. Pasina kana miniti imwe chete gare gare, mugari anogara pagedhi remunharaunda anouya kuzodzorera 40 bht iyo murume akanga ataura kuti shamwari yangu yakarasikirwa nemotokari yake. Ndinogona kupa mienzaniso yakawanda. Pano ini ndinongoda kuti ADJUST zvishoma uye iwe uchagara muparadhiso diki. Haufanire kukanganwa kuti iwe unogara mutsika yakasiyana zvachose neayo + uye - mapoinzi, senge kwese kwese pasirese. Ini pachangu ndakarova nhongonya nekuti ndakavhurirwa zvakasiyana ndosaka ndiri pano, dai ndisina kudaro ndingadai ndakagara munyika yangu.
Wadiwa Rudy,
Zvakanaka kuti wadzidza chimwe chinhu chitsva "nhasi". Ndava nemakore 68, ndichiri kudzidza mazuva ose. Zvino ngatimbosiya rusaruro parutivi kwekanguva..., unonyora. Ndakambogara pane imwe terrace kuBelgium nevamwe vanhu, tichinwa doro rinonaka. Patafura iri pedyo, vashoma veBelgium vaifarirawo kunwa kweBelgian, apo mumwe wavo - akanzwa kubva kwatiri kuti taibva kuNetherlands - akatibvunza kuti majee mangani eBelgian aripo. Isu takasara tisina mhinduro, iye akati: Vaviri ..., zvimwe zvose ichokwadi.
Ngatisambokanganwa nezverusaruro kwekanguva. Zviripachena kuti handigone kutaura ndichimiririra vamwe. Iwe unonyora kuti: "iye muIsaanse uye pane kupfura mu"koleire" akanditarisa ndokunditsvoda ndokuti: "ok mudiwa, ndinokuvimbisa, tnx nekuchengeta ..." Iwe waifunga, ndozvazvingaite. zvaitwa . Hongu, haasi mukadzi wese, Thai kana chero nyika, anoita zvakafanana zvichienderana nekwaanogara uye zvidzidzo zvehupenyu.
Ndave ndichiziva mudzimai wangu (iyewo anobva kwaIsaan) kwemakore mapfumbamwe ikozvino. Tave nemakore matanhatu tichigara pasi pedenga rimwe chete. Nekuda kwake ndinorangarira tsananguro yechiDutch: "East Indian matsi". Kuve matsi muEast Indian zvinoreva 'kunyepedzera kusanzwa mumwe munhu achikubvunza chimwe chinhu kana kutaura chimwe chinhu kwauri'. Hazvina kunyatsojeka kuti chirevo chacho chinobva kupi. Large Expressions Dictionary raVan Dale (2006) rinonyora nezveizvi: “Mashoko acho anotangira muzana remakore rechi19. PJ Harrebomée akafungidzira kuti 'tsika iyi yekusada kuteerera yambiro kana chikumbiro inonyanya kushanda kune vekuEast Indians, sezvo ivo vanononoka nekuda kwemhepo inopisa.' Zvisinei, tinofanira kufunga nezvemachinda echiIndia aiwanzogara akaderera nemaune pakubata nevatongi vokuMadokero.”
Ndichiri kusangana netsika iyi nguva dzose nemudzimai wangu uye yave kundipinza mukupenga kakawanda. Mhinduro yeshamwari yako inondifungisa izvozvo. Handifungi kuti achachengeta chivimbiso. Asi ndinogona kunge ndisina kururama. Zvisinei, kunze kunoratidza mutemo.
Uye uhhh, kuita zvibvumirano kunze kwekungozvifarira kune vanhu vazhinji.
Chimwe chezvinhu izvo varume vekuMadokero vanokanganwa ndechekuti chirevo chehukama muThailand chakati siyanei pane muNetherlands. Mutorwa anodei? Mudzimai ane hanya anomuona sechinhu chinonyanya kukosha muupenyu hwake (rudo rwerudo kunze kwevamwe), anogona kubika zvakanaka, ari pamba zvakanyanya kana kuti acharamba ari pamba kubva zvino zvichienda mberi (kunyanya paanenge asingachashandi), anoita. kwete kutaura uye makuhwa zvakanyanya nevamwe vakadzi, haazvirumbidzi pamusoro pekuti akaroora mutorwa (ingoita zvakajairika, izvo zvinopenga zvakakwana), haanwi uye zvirokwazvo haabheje uye zvechokwadi yakawanda yemhando yepamusoro. sex.
Mukadzi arikudei? Murume anogona kumuriritira uye, kana zvichidikanwa, kune vanhu vari munetwork yake (kudanana kunonakidza mune sipo dzeThai; kekutanga angave akaroora nekuti aive nepamuviri kana nekuti vabereki vake vaizvida nenzira iyoyo), wake wechiThai. anogona kuenderera mberi nehupenyu (uye kutaura nevakadzi vane hupenyu hwavo pachavo kunze kwehupenyu hwevarume) nekunetseka kushoma, kukunda vamwe vakadzi zvishoma kuti ane mutorwa, anonwa uye anoputa fodya nguva nenguva uye anotamba muhurumende. rotari uye - mukudzorera murume - anoita zvakanakisisa pamubhedha (asi munguva yakapfuura aikwanisa kuita zvepabonde nevamwe varume).
Wese murume wekuMadokero, asiwo mukadzi wese weThai, anofanirwa kufamba pakati pezviviri izvi, zvakati wedzeredzei, magumo ehukama hwehukama.
Iwe unosvika pakuziva mukadzi usati watamira kuThailand. Zvikasadaro eh…. pane chakaipa here kana kuti ndiri kukanganisa.Ndinofunga kuti vazhinji veFarang vanoita semuEurope, vanomuka uye vanogadzirisa. Kusaenzanisa kana kunyunyuta hazvikodzeri mutsika iyi, rombo rakanaka varume nevakadzi.. Waziwai Rene
Ndakanga ndichitsvaga kwakabva East Indian matsi, asi ndakasangana nerwiyo urwu rwakanaka kubva muna 1784. Pamwe zvinotenderwa, pane ino doggerel manheru.
Pakusvika kweEast Indian Ships uye Kuzununguka kweVafambisi vechikepe
Mufaro wakakura sei wakamirira isu,
Kana mumwe achiona kumativi ose,
Sezvo munhu wese anouya kuzonzwa,
Nechekare nekunyora muCourant:
Kuti pane mari yekuhwina ikoko zvakare,
Kune vasikana vemuno,
Iye zvino vanaScheepjes vari kuuya,
Uyai nevafambisi vakawanda.
Zvino ngatimupfekedzei zvakare,
Ne hoop siketi pa:
Uye maBorsjes ake akanaka neuta,
Kuuya kuMunhu,
vachadzungaira vachitsvaka chimedu chechingwa.
Vanoda mafaro,
Jan akavenga Lantje nhema:
Vasikana Vakachena vanogona kuwanikwa pano.
Ndaida kuenda nechikepe kuEast Indies:
Asi Holland yakanaka kwazvo,
Dai pasina vakadzi veMutema ipapo,
Vasikana vachena vanotora keke;
Tinogona kuvavaraidza zvakare,
NeChitsje kana Porcelain:
Vafambisi vezvikepe zvisikwa zvinoshamisa,
Vanowana vasikana nedozen.
Iye zvino murimi haana zvaanotaura zvakare
Iye zvino veScheepjes vanosvika
Zvinoita sezvakanaka kuzvipa kuvafambisi vengarava zvino
Mumwe munhu anofanira zvino kumira kumashure,
Gerrit akapotsa apenga nemashoko;
Ini ndinoda kuenda kumusikana wangu:
Asi ikozvino handisi kumukunda,
Handisi kuona mufaro mairi.
Ndinomboti haambonditiza,
Akanditora semurume wake.
Ndaivatengesa nepondo;
Asi handifungi kuti pane anoda izvozvo
Nguva pfupi yadarika ndakagara mubhawa,
Ndakazvipa kune mumwe nemumwe,
Ndakanzwa senge ndine chekuita nenyaya iyi,
Aizivikanwa neruzhinji rwevanhu.
Iye zvino vanaScheepjes vari kuuya,
Zvakanaka, ndatopihwa nembavha,
Munhu wese ngaade rudo rwake:
Zvikasadaro vangatokunetsa,
Ipapo vanotanga kuzununguka nevafambisi vezvikepe:
Vari kutouya kumahombekombe.
Vanosiya mhuka dzake nhema,
Vasikana vachena pano vanokuwanai mese,
Ndiani asingadi kuita mbiri zvino?
Iye zvino veScheepjes vari kuuya kumba:
Vanhu vanotaura zvakawanda pamusoro pezvikonzero zvakarasika,
Nokuti guta rinouya rizere noruzha;
Zvino kune avo Boating Shamwari:
Ibva kuNyika nhema,
Vanhu vanofarira kunzwa chimwe chinhu chitsva
Kwakanaka shamwari kumativi ose.
MaHospes ave kuonekwa achibudirira,
Tsunga moyo ipapo,
Vafambisi vezvikepe vanorarama zvakafanana nevarume:
Kana usina mari, zvidye zvakanaka,
Ungada kufara here,
Kana mari ikozvino yapedzwa;
Ngativaitireiwo saizvozvo;
Gomba rehuro rinofanira kuvharwa.
Uri kuratidza vafambisi vese vari pano here?
Zvino zvawadzoka kumahombekombe:
Haisi kuzununguka zvakanyanya pamusoro pezvese,
Fungidzira dutu ndokuwira pamusoro pako,
Kana iwe uchizoparadza mari yako,
Vachakubatsira zvakare here,
Saka unosiya mhuka dzeVenus,
Uye kudzokera kuBlack Land.
Ndicharangarira rwiyo,
Nekuti ndingadai ndisina kumbozvitaura:
Pandakauya kuzoona Nyika nhema
Zvandakasangana nazvo
Ndinodenha Vasikana vachena:
Ndakanga ndadzokera kuBaba,
Handina kumbobvira ndaita rwendo rweEast Indies,
Ndoda kufamba nechikepe ndichitevedza Strant.