Column: Kunetswa pabonde kusingadiwe kana kuda?
Pave nemhere-mhere pasi rose nguva pfupi yadarika pamusoro pekushungurudzwa kwevanhukadzi. Ne #metoo, vakadzi vakawanda vechiDutch vari kujekesa kuti vakashungurudzwa mune zvepabonde munguva yakapfuura.
Kunyangwe ndinoda kusimbisa kuti ndinoziva dambudziko iri uye handidi kurerutsa, imwe nzvimbo inoramba isina kuratidzwa uye ndiko kushungurudzwa kwepabonde kwevarume vakuru vekuMadokero muThailand.
Kuti izvi zvijeke, ndicharondedzera zvakaitika kwandiri munguva pfupi yapfuura. NeChishanu manheru ndakapinda mumugwagwa webhawa paKoh Samui kwandakasvika panguva yerwendo rwekufamba. Ndisingatarisiri, ndakangoerekana ndasvikirwa nemukadzi wechiThai wandaisaziva, aivewo mudiki kwandiri. Handina kupa chikonzero chekudaro uye ndaida kuenderera mberi nerwendo rwangu. Zvisinei, akandivharira nzira ndokundibata zvakasimba ruoko. Panguva iyoyo ndakada kuramba asi handina kukwanisa kungozvisunungura.
Nesimba rakati bhoo ndakadhonzerwa mubhawa ndokugadzikwa pachituru chebhawa, mamwe madzimai aiva mubhawa akatarisa ndokuseka zvake. Vataridzi vechikadzi vechiThai havana chavakandibatsira vakangonditarisa. Ndakanzwa kutya neforce majeure iyi. Ndakashaya kuti ndoita sei. Mukadzi uya akandidhonzera mubhawa akandida kuti ndinwe doro uye kuti nyaya yacho isazowedzera, ndakabvuma. Kwakange kusina kupera kwaro nekuti akabva angondigamha mugoko. Zvakare, mamwe madzimai haana kupindira uye airatidza kubvumirana nemaitiro emushungurudza.
Pakupedzisira, pashure pokupa zvinwiwa zvakawanda, ndinokwanisa kutiza mubhawa. Murwi wangu akanga zvino akadhakwa zvokuti ndakakwanisa kutiza pasina kuchengetedzwa (zvechokwadi ndakabhadhara mari yekutanga).
Ndakabva ndaedza kumhan'arira kushungurudzwa uye kushungurudzwa pabonde, asi mapurisa eThai akangoseka ndokuramba achishevedzera kuti 'Farang ting tong', izvo zvandaisaziva.
Iwe unonzwisisa kuti ndinotaura nyaya iyi nekunyara, asi ndinotenda kuti kushungurudzwa pabonde kwevarume vakuru vekuMadokero muThailand kunoramba kusiri pachena uye saka ndinodana kune vamwe vakabatwa kuti vataurewo nezve zvavakasangana nazvo uye kutsvaga rutsigiro kubva kune mumwe nemumwe.
Ndinodawo kusimbisa kuti ini handina kuumba nyaya iyi uye ndinoda kuyambirawo vamwe varume kuti vangwarire uye vanzvenga mamwe matunhu. Usape chero zvikonzero, dzivisa kutarisana nemeso zvakanyanya sezvinobvira, usanyemwerera zvakare uye usatore mari newe.
Mushure memabhodhoro mazhinji eChang, ndave kuita zvirinani uye ndaona kuti ndaita rombo rakanaka. Zvaigona kutowedzera nekuti mupari wemhosva aitodawo kuti ndiende naye kuhotera kwangu. Uye ndiani anoziva zvaizodai zvakaitika panguva iyoyo?
Ndinoziva nyaya iyi. Kurumidza dzidza mazwi; plohj sjan=gara kure neni. jaa maa joeng=ndisiye zvangu ndopedzisira kana asisade kuteerera pai hai phon=siyana nazvo. Taura mazwi nenzwi riri pamusoro zvishoma. Kupera kwedambudziko.
Kana kuti varume vekare vekuMadokero vanozvishongedza mu burqa.
Chokwadi. Vamwe vakadzi vakura, vakadzikama kuMadokero vari kuita zvinotonhorera paMETOO hashtag (nekuti fungidzira, kana usati wambonetswa iwe ungangove wakashata) asi isu, maGedheni ekuMadokero, tichiri mukutanga kwehupenyu hwedu, usaswedere pedyo. kuti.kupa. Chokwadi chinhu chimwe chete chakaitika kwandiri, uye zvakatoipisisa kupfuura izvozvo. Yakabirwa, yakaputsika zvivimbiso, kunyange kamwe chete 2 vakadzi panguva imwe chete vakada kundikwevera pamubhedha ... The list is endless.
Pane hastag WETOO apo iwe semurume unogona kupupura kutambura kwawakaita (usingazivi) kuvakadzi, sekutamba navo muchivande mudisco (kunotova nenziyo pamusoro pazvo).
Iko hakuna hanya kwatiri, ndinosimbisa zvakare. Saka ini ndinopa hashtag inonzi MENTOO kukwevera pfungwa kune izvi. Kana, kunyangwe zvirinani: ALLOFUS, nekuti hatifanirwe kukanganwa nharaunda yeLBTHGI!
Ndiri kuona uchiri kugumbuka:
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Asi zvichida wakazvipa chikonzero chokudaro, uchifamba mumugwagwa nehembe pfupi yakadaro. Ipapo unodenha zvishoma, handiti?
Hameno kuti chii chakanyanya kuipa, kubatwa-batwa pamakumbo nemukadzi.Kana kuverenga zano rakapihwa raunogona kushandisa mumutauro weThai.Uye wozonyorwa nerunyoro rweRomance, rwunowanzoita senge chibharo chemutauro.
Asi ichokwadi kuti kana uine murairo wemutauro weThai, iwe uchakurumidza kubvisa "cross tatters" - uku ndiko kubata chibharo muchiDutch.
Chokwadika, zvingadarowo kuti vamwe varume vanoonga rudzi urwu rwengwariro.
Chokwadi zvakaipa chaizvo zvakaitika kuna Khun Peter, nevamwe vakawanda. Izvo pasina mubvunzo zvinokonzeresa hope dzinotyisa, kushushikana uye kuvhunduka pakuona kwevakadzi. Ndinobva ndakurudzira kubvunza nyanzvi yepfungwa kana chiremba wepfungwa.
Vamwe pane dzimwe nguva vanokakavara kuti hakuna musiyano mukuru pakati petsika dzokuMabvazuva nedzokuMadokero. Asi mumhando idzi dzemamiriro ezvinhu tinoona misiyano mikuru kwazvo. Nepo kuMadokero varume vakura, vakapfuma uye vane simba vanonetsa vakadzi vaduku, varombo uye vasina dziviriro, muMabvazuva, vakadzi vaduku navarombo vanotyisidzira varume vakura navapfumi.
Mune iyo yakanaka tsika yeThai, vakadzi vanofanirwa kuzviisa pasi uye vane mwero uye kubata vakuru vavo neruremekedzo. Zvakaitika kuna Khun Peter hazvina ruremekedzo uye zvinoratidza kukanganisa kwetsika dzekuMadokero kuEast nyoro. Yave nguva yekuti zviremera zveThai zvitore matanho akasimba pane izvi.
Ndinofanira kukumbira ruregerero. Pamusoro ndakanyora pamusoro pevakadzi vanoshungurudza vakwegura, kazhinji Western, varume, izvo zvinogona kukonzera kwenguva refu uye yakakomba kusagadzikana kwepfungwa kune varume ivavo. Iwe unoona izvo zvinoitika mazuva ese muThailand. Zvinonzwisisika kuti varume ava vari kuvhiringidzika.
Asi zvinogona kuipa! Ndakanzwa kubva kune mumwe murume wechidiki, uyo anoda kuramba asingazivikanwe, kuti paakanga aine gumi nematanhatu pakati pehusiku aifamba munzvimbo muBangkok yaaidana kuti Nanna, Nana kana chimwe chinhu chakadaro uye kwaakabatwa ruoko rwake rwepamusoro nepamusoro. mukadzi mukuru ndokukumbira kunwa tese. Akati 'mai pen rai, mai pen rai' asi akaramba akasimbirira. Akazokwanisa kumuzunza. Anogona kuseka nezvazvo iye zvino, asi panguva iyoyo zvakasiya kuvhiringidzika!
Mukadzi mukuru kushungurudza jaya, kamwana kadiki! Ridiculous!
Ini ndangoona izvi zvichiitika nevakura Lady Boy's vanomirira nguva chaiyo uye munhu akakodzera vanowanzo dzokera kumba kana hotera, zviri nani kupfurwa zvakanaka, vanoita sevasina njodzi uye vanobatirira uye havabvumi kurambwa. Kwavari hazvisi zvekunetswa pabonde asi zvehumbavha.
Ndinofunga ladyboys zvakanyanya kuipa kupfuura vakadzi. Uyezve, ivo vanowanzova varume pachavo uye vakakura kupfuura avhareji yevakadzi vechiThai uye vane ruzivo rwechirume uye vane simba remurume. Zvikurukuru kana vachida mari zvikuru kana kuti vakaora mwoyo zvikuru, vanogona kuva nengozi zvikuru.
Handisati ndambozviona pandakaenda kunotsvaka vanhu mumikoto inerima ndikanzwa maziso akawanda achiboora, asi ndinoziva kuti ndinopenya kuti zviri nani vandisiye ndiri ndoga (kana ndichinyatsoda kusara ndega) uye ndizvo zvandiri kuita. . Ndinowanzoona vanhu vasina ruzivo rwokuzviwanira vachifamba nemaitiro 'asina kujeka' andinofunga kuti ari kutokumbira uye anogona kunge asiri kuzviziva.
Dzidzira chimiro chako nechitarisiko chechiso pamberi pegirazi uye edza kufungidzira kuti chii chinogona kumutsa kana kuendesa kune mumwe munhu.
Uye Khun Peter, mukadzi wako akamedza nyaya iyi? Mushure mekunge agamuchira vhidhiyo iyi kubva ku "shamwari" yawakaonekwa neavo mabhagirls 🙂
Hongu, dzimwe nguva vanogona kuramba vachinyengetedza kuti vawane mabhati.
KuPats, ndichifamba muBeach Road kwasviba, ndakambosvikirwa nemamita akawanda nemumwe mukadzi wechidiki aimubatsira. Nemhaka yokuti handina kuratidza kufarira, akabudisa zvinhu zvake zvose. Hurukuro yake yekushambadzira yaive yakanaka. Nharo yake yekupedzisira yaive yekuti: “Munofanira kuenda neni changamire. Ndinokupa nguva yakanaka uye yakachipa. Munofanira kunakirwa manje changamire. Hapana chaunokwanisa kuita kune hupenyu hunotevera. " Kuwedzera: "... kunze kwemvura iri mubeche."
Zviripachena freelaner ane huchenjeri hweBuddha uye akachena emoyo nemweya. Kubata kwandakanga ndisingatarisire kwakakwenya mupfungwa dzangu kwechinguva ... asi mudzimai wangu wechiThai aive kumashure zvishoma haana kuzvifarira 🙂
Neraki, kuguma kwakanaka kuchienzaniswa nevarume vazhinji vekuMadokero vakatambura nekushungurudzika kana PTSD kubva kuhotera sequel.
Akadaro Tino. Kunyanya ndima yekupedzisira. Asi ini handitendi kuti Khun Peter haazive zvinorehwa naFarang Ting Tong. Kana iwe uchiziva zvishoma ipapo uye uchitaura mutauro wacho, saka iwe unoziva kuti Ting Tong zvinoreva kupenga kana goofy. Asi iwe unogona kutarisana nezvinoshamisa, zvisingafanoonekwi zvachose, ndiko kukwezva uye kupenga kweThailand. Ichiri nyika yeTing Tong.
Chokwadi anozviziva. Akatonyora nyaya nezvazvo muna 2013 https://www.thailandblog.nl/column/khun-peter-column/farang-ting-tong-mak-mak/
Zvakanaka, iwe uri paKoh Samui uye unopedzisira wapinda mubhawa mugwagwa, unomiswa chaizvo uye nenzira yekufananidzira nemukadzi wechiThai uye unodhonzwa mubhawa, ipapo iwe unofanirwawo kuvapa chinwiwa, zvinoita kunge pane akati wandei. uye ipapo chete vanogona kutiza. Zvakanaka izvo zvinoita senge nyaya yekufungidzira MUMWE mukadzi waaisagona kudzora.
Ini ndinofunga vamwe vaverengi havaoni kunyomba kwemunyori
Anoshora? Zvishoma, pamwe. Asi zvinonyanya kushamisa, ndinofunga.
Wadiwa Adam, rombo rakanaka munhu anonzwisisa. Asi kune dzimwe tsananguro shoma:
Kunyomba inzira yekuseka chimwe chinhu kana munhu akahwanda, akapfava, semuenzaniso nekutaura zvinopesana nezvinoreva mumwe, kana nekuwedzeredza zvakanyanya.
Ini handinzwisise, izvo hazvina kumboitika kwandiri muPattaya.
Vanofanira kunyatso kutaridzika senge fart yekare kana vakasandiedza ...
Unofanira kuenda kuKoh Samui uye kusagara muPattaya? Maererano naKuhn Peter, zvinoitika ikoko.
hahahahahahaha zvakangoitika parwendo rwekufamba mumugwagwa unofamba,
Mapurisa eThai aifanirwa kunge akakusunga achikufungira kuti adenha musheki.
Ehe, kuita zvepabonde kune mukuru muchena mutorwa idambudziko rekare muThailand, kunyanya muPattaya. Iwe haugone kana kufamba padhiki usina kutariswa kana kusheedzera kana kubatwa. Hei, murume akanaka! Falang loa! Unoda massage? Nepo iro riri zano rekukwezva mumwe munhu muchivako umo munhu ari kutaurwa anobva arohwa! Kukururwa mbatya dzake, kubatwa nemaoko, uye kubatwa zvisina kufanira muvatano (nokuti ndiko kumanikidzirwa kuita zvepabonde, handiti, kubatwa zvisina kufanira?) Uye pashure pacho aifanira kubhadhara yakawanda zvikuru kupfuura yakaziviswa pamahwindo, naizvozvo akabvarurwawo!
Mapurisa, hongu, vachiri kukuseka! Kana kuti pakarepo funga kuti zvakanga zvabvumirana. Zvechokwadi, mapurisa anotamba pamwe chete uye anowana chimwe chinhu kubva mairi. Saka hongu mabhawa nemasalon anovapa mari shoma pakupera kwezuva, hongu. Ndihwo hunonzi huori. Iko kubatana kukuru kunyadzisa uye kubira vasina dziviriro, vasingazive, vakura, vanowanzofutisa vashanyi kana expat.
Ndinofunga kutaura kuti vanozvidenha ivo pachavo nekuti havana kupfeka zvishoma inyaya isina simba. Hungu, ikoko kungadaro sei neimwe nzira, vazhinji vavo vanobva kunyika inotonhora nokudaro vanofunga kuti ndokwomuzvarirwo mumugariro wokunze unodziya kupfeka zvakapfava. Vanhu ivavo havazivi kuti izvi zvinogumbura pano!
Uye pakudzoka…kunyara, kunyadziswa. Chokwadi usaite hako kumuudza wasvika kumba. Iwe unoona kuti vanhu vazhinji vanokwira ndege vakaora mwoyo kwazvo mushure mezororo rePattaya (kana Phuket, BKK, nezvimwewo). Saka zvinonzwisisika. Kunyadziswa, kushungurudzwa, kubvisirwa mari yako, izororo rinosiririsa. Onawo akawanda balcony jumpers.
Zvakanaka kuti kutariswa kuri kubhadharwa kune izvi, asi ini ndinoisa tariro yangu muMutungamiriri anoda kuita Pattaya mhuri yekuenda. Nenzira iyi ndinogona kubata mukadzi wangu wechiThai, vana vake 4 vakuru, vabereki vake, vanasekuru uye dzimwe nhengo zhinji dzemhuri nezororo.
😉 Adam
Wadiwa Adam,
Wakasangana naEva asiri iye munharaunda isiriyo!
Tsvaga imwe nharaunda muPattaya hombe ine zvakawanda zvinoonekwa!
Ndaiwanzodzokera kuNetherlands ndakaora mwoyowo!
Kutonhora zvakare, mhute nemvura.
Handina kukwanisa kumirira kudzokera kuThailand uye zvino ndiri kugara ikoko zvachose.
Zvakanyanya kuipa ndeyemamiriro ezvinhu munzvimbo dzemasaji apo vakadzi vanobvisa tauro rako nekusaziva rinovanza nhengo dzako dzakavanzika kubva kune ziso rinoona zvese. Vanobatawo zvikamu izvozvo nemafuta pasina kubvunzwa, izvo zvinoguma nechiitiko chinonyadzisa zvikuru nemukadzi asingazivikanwi. Icho chokwadi chekuti mafaro asingadiwe anoitika, dzimwe nguva nemuiti asingafadze weiyo Thai yechinyakare nzira yekubatsira, yakatonyanya kuipa.
Zvese mune zvese scam chaiyo, iyo masaja inodhura inokwana mazana matatu ekugezesa, asi kune izvo zvisingadiwe zvepedyo unobva wabhadhara zvakapetwa katatu.
Nhamo inongotanga kana wauya kumba kune runako rwako rweThai, zvibvunze kubva kumusoro kusvika kutsoka zvawanga uchikwira uye woona kuti kwakawanda masaja kwakaitwa kupfuura kubvumidzwa.
Kurambana kwakawanda kwamuka nenzira iyi.
Ehe, zviyero zvakasiyana muindasitiri yebonde pane kunze kwayo, kune vese vakadzi nevarume. Pandinopinda mubhawa mudunhu re'chiedza dzvuku', chinenge chiri chikamu chetsika yekukwazisana kurova mbama yakanaka pabutt (Ndinopenga, saka, izvo zvinoshanda zvakanaka). Asi dzimwe nguva ndaizviita nekukanganisa muLow Countries uyezve maturnips akaitwa, kunyanya kubva Harvey Weinstein. Uye handina kuita zvivindi zvekupa vana zvihwitsi mupaki ndichitya kunzi ndiri mbavha. Zvichida zvingava nani kudzokera kumashure kwegeranium kana kuenda kuNyika Dzakadzika.
MuchiThai, chiPhilippine, nezvimwewo. Hupenyu hwehusiku unogona kutaura nezvehumwe kuenzana maererano nekupa kwesevhisi (zvepabonde kana zvemari): "unondichengeta, ndinokuchengeta" kana "hapana mari hapana huchi".
Kaneko kadiki kakanaka kuenzanisira: Ndakatarisa ndichiyemura mutambi anoyevedza wekuenda mubhawa ndokumukoka kuti amire pedyo neni (kwete, kwete kugara) mushure mekutamba. Pashure penguva yakati nenzwi rokuseka asi rine nyadzi asi richiri kutamba: “Wave wakabata ruoko rwako pamagaro angu kwemaminetsi gumi nemashanu zvino (thoot), asi hausati wandipa chinwiwa chemukadzi.” Akazogamuchira akati wandei kubva kwandiri. 'Do ut Des', inova chiLatin kune chimwe chinhu chakaita sevhisi mukudzoka.
Ini ndinodzokorora: "Mushure memabhodhoro mazhinji eChang, ndiri kuita zvirinani iye zvino uye ndinoona kuti ndakaita rombo rakanaka. Zvaigona kutowedzera nekuti mupari wemhosva aitodawo kuti ndiende naye kuhotera kwangu. Uye ndiani anoziva zvaizodai zvakaitika panguva iyoyo? “.
Mushure memabhodhoro mazhinji eChang zvinhu zviri nani, ndaizobvisa mamwe mabhodhoro mashoma uye zvadaro zvese zvapera.
Zvakaipa kwazvo, chiitiko mubhawa asi kwete chiitiko muhotera, murume ane simba akasimuka. Mufaro
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Nguva yavakakubikirwa nemabhawa yapera, kunze kwekunge zvainge zviri zvebhodhoro rakadhakwa pakati pehusiku. Kwese kwandinofamba, vanonyanya kubatikana nemafoni avo. Vanochema havachatarisi kuti ndiani kana kuti chii chinopfuura. Ini handichada uye pamwe mari inokwana.Paunopinda pane imwe nzvimbo,ndinoita senge vanhu vari kuvavhiringa mumabasa avo akabatikana.
Ndakamboziva nguva dzakasiyana… .. mhepo yaenda zvachose.
Vaya vanopota vachipopotera mupfuuri vakomana vechikadzi.
Pamusoro peiyo smartphone, zvakare chikafu: USANDINENGE !!!
Hapana chakasara che "Sin City!" 5555
Hahaha Isu zvirokwazvo hatitore izvi zvakanyanya!
nondeju….. kuda kutonyorova bhurugwa rangu…. hahaha…. nyaya yakanaka!
Isa chichemo kumapurisa chekuba vanhu, kunyimwa rusununguko zvisiri pamutemo, kupambwa uye kurova.
Sezvo bhawa iri chikamu chemhosva idzi, unogona kumhan'ara bhawa nekuda kwehutsotsi hwakarongeka uye sesangano rematsotsi.
Zvinonyadzisa nemutauro kuti unoona chimwe chinhu, uye kutaura kuti hakuna kugadzirwa kunorambwa neshoko rekuti hauzive kuti 'Farang Ting Tong' zvingarevei.
Ndaizotora mamwe mabhodhoro mashoma eChang emhando ye'free range' kana 'free range'.
MuThailand, idzi mhando dzekutyisidzira 'kubira' hadziwanzo. Kune vanofarira, ndinoda kukurudzira Phnom Penh, uko kazhinji isiri imwe inopesana neimwe.
MuAmsterdam ndakambokanda mapfumo pasi muhondo yemunhu mumwe chete uye ndakatsvaga hutiziro nemukadzi uyu mune imwe imba yehotera yakakurudzirwa, kwaakasvikomira pamusoro pangu, mushure mezvo vanhu vanoverengeka vakapinda mumba kuti vatore zvinhu zvangu. .kuchinja.
Mapurisa e'Dutch' akaseka chaizvo paaiedza kumhan'ara mhosva.
Zvichatora nguva yakareba sei bhawa rekutanga rakanzi #metoo risati ravhurwa muPattaya?
Zvakadini neU2? Vanoerekana vaonekwa mune imwe nzvimbo yakasiyana zvachose!
Dear Khun Peter haunyare zvakazoitika kwandiri ndabva kuLotus ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, Vakadzi 3,, vakadzi vakandikumbira Lift, vakandichengeta, vakachengeta maprivate vakandichengeta maprivate, vakachengeta nhengo dzangu. , apo madzimai akanga ari kwandaienda, ndakapotsa chikwama changu, zvakaitika kwandiri kanopfuura ka2 pavhiki imwe chete.