Alfabra 01 - Izvo zvakadzika rusaruro pamusoro pevakadzi veThai
Svondo rapfuura, mushure mechidzidzo changu chekupedzisira cheSalsa, ndakasvika pakutaura naCarmen, mudzimai wezera repakati anosunungura vanhu kubva kumadhimoni avo mumisangano nematombo anoshamisa nezvizoro zvemashiripiti. Aive nenyemwerero yetsitsi inotapira zvekuti inovanza kuzvidza vamwe.
Ndikati ndakurumidza kuenda kuAsia akabva ati "Thailand zvirokwazvo ..."
Imhinduro yakadini! Kupindura kwakadaro kwakafanana 'Zvirokwazvo kuenda kuRed Light District' kanda - kana ukaudzwa kuti uri kuenda kuEurope. Hapana munhu munyika anopindura chinhu chakadaro, kunze kwepano nesu! Iye pachake akanga asati ambosvikako.
Sei vakadzi uye 'vakadzi vevakadzi' muNetherlands neBelgium - uye nevarume vazhinji vanobva kuno - vachifunga kuti Thailand idunhu rimwe remwenje dzvuku?
Hapana mhinduro ine musoro. Inoratidza kushaikwa kwese kwese kwese kweruzivo rwechokwadi chezvemagariro, kunyanya: mune chokwadi chemunhu! Vakadzi veThailand zvakare uye pamusoro pezvose uye vekutanga uye vekutanga vanhu, munoziva! Uropi hwakamonyaniswa chete ndihwo hunogona kupa pfungwa dzakadaro.
Unogona here kutora zvirevo zvakadaro, uye vanhu vari shure kwavo, zvakakomba?
Mhinduro dzakasindimara uye dzakavhurika hadzina zvadzinobatsira. Vakadzi vekuMadokero vanosimudza mitongo yavo (pre) semhosva ye'chipfambi'. Uye vanogara vachibatanidza kushungurudzwa uye upfambi hwevana kwairi. Izvozvo zvinogara zvichipfuura. Vanowanepi kusarura kwavo? Vakazviona here? Makore mashoma apfuura, mapepanhau maviri eBelgian akaburitsa chinyorwa chenguva imwe chete uye chenguva pfupi padandemutande pamusoro pemauto evasikana vasati vabva zera vekuNigeria vanoshanda muEuropean quarter yeBrussels vakasungwa… Mushure memishumo miviri iyi, zvese zvakanyangarika pasi pe radar. Kunyarara kukuru kwevezvenhau.
MuNl & Be zvinofungidzirwa kuti 0,25% yevagari vemo vanopinzwa basa rekutengesa pabonde. Izvo zvinoenderana ne25 - 000 zvikamu. Zvinoenderana nezvidzidzo zveNational Bank uye KU Leuven (Gunyana 40), izvi zvinoburitsa mari inofungidzirwa ye000 miriyoni euros muBelgium, muchena. Iwo masangano mamwe chete anofungidzira mari chaiyo yepabonde yakabhadharwa pabhiriyoni imwe chete, saka yakawanda muvatema. Wakaverenga zvakanaka here: bhiriyoni imwe! (Cf. tsime Het Nieuwsblad, link pazasi)
Mazhinji manyuko eThailand (yose yeThailand uye kwete Bangkok chete) anotaura nezvevashandi vangangoita 180 kusvika 000. Izvo zvakare avhareji ye220 - 000% pahuwandu hwe0,25 mamirioni.
Zvidzidzo paGermany kubva muna 1992 na2005 zvinoratidza 200 vanoita zvepabonde. Saka izvi zvakaenzana pamamiriyoni makumi masere evagari vemo.
Saka ndinodzokorora mubvunzo wangu: 'Nei vanhu vakawanda kwazvo vanobva kuno vachingoona vakadzi vokuThai chete sevanoita zvepabonde?' Handikwanise kubvisa izwi rekuti 'mahure' mumuromo mangu.
Nepo macubic litres akawanda embeu pano nesu, ingopfachukira pasi pemaziso edu.
Munoona, rusaruro nguva dzose rune mhosva mbiri dzisingagamuchirwi dzinoraswa: 1 Vanhu vane rusaruro vanogara vachinzwa kuti vari vanhu vari nani kupfuura vamwe; 2 Kusarura vanhu nerusaruro - kwete zvishoma.
Kupfuura zvose, vanofungidzira kana vachida kuita kuti nyika ive nani zvikuru nemafungiro avo.
Ini ndagara ndichiziva kuburikidza neruzivo rwakareruka kuti vanhu vanokuudza kuti uite nyika nzvimbo iri nani havana kuvimbika uye vanotevera zvakavanzika zvirongwa. Kana vanga vatove nemapofu.
Bouncer. Sei pasina munhu akambotaura nezveRussia neMoscow se 'guta guru rehure pasirese', uko vasikana vangangoita 150 000, kunyanya vanobva munzvimbo dzine urombo dzeAsia, asi kunyanya Eastern Europe (yaimbova, yakazvimirira, matunhu eSoviet, anotora Moldova muenzaniso) kuenda ikoko kunotora mari? Vasikana vaduku vanobva kunyika idzodzo havadi kuratidza pasipoti kana vachida kupinda muRussian Federation. Ndicho chimwe chezvikomborero izvo Putin anodurura pamisoro yevagari veRussia vakanaka, ivo varume.
Sources:
- https://www.nieuwsblad.be/cnt/dmf20191027_04688186
- https://documentation.lastradainternational.org/lsidocs/259%20Prostitution%20in%20Moscow.pdf
- https://socialsecurity.belgium.be/sites/default/files/content/docs/fr/elaboration-politique-sociale/nota_wgsic-tf-sekswerkers_als_kwetsbare_groep-5-06-2020_002_0.pdf
Chikamu chikuru, ndinobvumirana zvachose. Zvinoshamisa zvakare kuti nguva dzose vanhu vanoita zvepabonde ndivo vanobatwa zvisina kunaka, uye kwete varume 'vanovashandisa'. Madzimai aya anofanirwa kuonekwa zvakanyanya sevakabatwa, izvo zvinoita kuti pave nekururamisa chimiro chavo.
Alphonse
Ndakambotaura nemukuru weAIDS weThailand muNetherlands pamusangano weThai.
Akandiudza kuti Thailand ine 10-15% yakawanda pfambi kupfuura Netherlands.
Kwete chaizvo musiyano mukuru.
Nhepfenyuro ndiyo inonyanya kukonzera mufananidzo.
Ivo vanoda kuona manhamba uye mishumo yepamusoro-soro yakakodzera izvozvo.
Uyezve, chipfambi muThailand chinooneka uye chinoitika zvishoma kuseri kwemasuo akavharwa.
Kana uri muNetherlands unoona mumwe murume ari mumakore ake okuma50 achifamba nemusikana muduku zvikuru, munhu wose achafungidzira kuti mwanasikana wake.
MuThailand, fungidziro iyi haina kubata.
Mukuwedzera, pachavawo negodo kubva kuvakadzi vekuMadokero vanoona hama yavo ichifamba nemusikana akanaka zvikuru uye anogona kuridza muridzo pamusoro pekurega kwake.
Kurudyi, Khun Moo, ndinofunga iwe uripo padyo.
Nesu, kuita zvepabonde kunenge kuseri kwemasuo akavharwa.
Ipapo hapana ...
Yedu mbiri mwero, eh.
Alphonse, kwete, izvo hazvisi zvakapetwa kaviri! Iyoyo itsika inodzivirira kuti tive nechokwadi chekupona kwedu!
Iwewo unoziva chimiro chemuviri wedu unosiririsa uye unoziva kuti ramangwana redu rinobatsirikana kubva kune tembiricha yakaderera zvishoma pane tembiricha yemuviri. Ndosaka ramangwana redu rakarembera masendimita mashoma pazasi pemiviri yedu, rakaputirwa zvakasununguka mujira rakaunyana rine tambo yemhasuru inokweva chinhu ichi kurwisa muviri mukutonhora kwakanyanya! Zvakanaka, ndakatamba polo yemvura mumvura yepamusoro yegumi nematatu uye mushure mezvo ndaifanira kutsvaga hurume hwangu nechiedza uye kunyanya nemaoko anodziya….
Ndosaka, uye ndosaka, tine mafaro edu kuseri kwekupenya kaviri! Nemaketeni akakora eflannel akadhonzwa zvakasimba uye CV pagumi, kunyangwe mutungamiriri wedu achida neimwe nzira. Isu tinozviita' mukudziya kunodziya kwemba yedu apo vanhu vanopisa, kusanganisira veThai, vachiumburuka mukudziya panguva yezviitwa zvinofadza. Ndokusaka, uye nekuda kweizvozvo chete, mukadzi wechiThai ane mukurumbira wakashata. Kungoti munhu anonaka anoita zvatinongoita pasi pemagumbeze akakora eflannel.
Saka usazvinetse nezve avo vese vasina-kwete vanoramba vachipopota nezvevakadzi vechiThai. Tinoziva zviri nani, handiti?
Ini ndinobvumirana nechidimbu asi nekutaura kwako kuti imhaka yetembiricha.
Iye zvino ndiri kuona vakadzi nevarume vakawanda pano, dzimwe nguva vasingaonane kwemwedzi yakawanda. Ini zvakare ndinofunga kuti hupenyu hwepabonde pakati pevanhu veThai hwakaderera. Kunyanya kwatiri.
Vanhu havanawo kumbundirana kana kutsvodana sezvatiri. Ivowo vanonyanya kupenga, kazhinji apo musikana anogeza ari ega uye kunyange zvazvo kazhinji kazhinji vachigona kuita semhuka iri pamubhedha nomunhu wokuMadokero. Asi kazhinji vanopfeka tauro. Saka izvo zvine chekuita nemagumbeze ako emolton.
Funga kuti tinorara takashama kupfuura avhareji yeThai,
Ndinobvuma, asi hapana chikonzero chekunetseka nezvazvo. Rarama hupenyu hwako uye kana izvo zvikaguma nekurasikirwa nemhuri, shamwari kana vaunoziva, saka ngazvive zvakadaro. Pakupedzisira unosara neboka rakasarudzwa rinoremekedzana.
Izvo zvakafanana neNetherlands munhu wese anopfeka machira uye anogara mumhepo
Kune vamwe vanhu panguva yandaigara ndichiti ndakaenda kuzororo kuCambodia…..kuti hapana akambotaura zvakafanana nezveThailand sezvayakasvika kuThailand, zvinoratidza kuti zvakaoma sei kuchinja mutongo wekare.
Nyaya iyi inoramba ichidzoka. Kazhinji vanhu vane pfungwa dzakarasika dzokuva pamusoro netsika dzakavakirwa pazviri vanonyandura.
Chero zvazvingava, hapana muganhu wakajeka wepfungwa yehupfambi. Vangani varume vane hukama kana muchato usingavabhadharise chinhu uye kana vasina chavanorasikirwa nemari, saka pamwe zvakanyanya mune dzimwe nzvimbo.
Chinhu chimwe chete chakakosha uye chinoshanda kumuchato, kune imwe-usiku humwechete (iyo inowanzobatanidza kuisa mari mune kanenge pati yekudya kwemanheru) uye kune dzimwe nzira dzakabhadharwa dzakabhadharwa dzekusangana pabonde, kubvumirwa kwevose vari vaviri. Ndinoona michato inongova chipfambi chepamutemo uye chinodhura. Kune madzimai anofarira kushanda mubhawa uye kune vamwe vanozviita vasingadi. Kuzengurira uku kunowanzobva muhunhu, nekuti basa rinotarisirwa pasi uye kwete kubva pakusemwa kune zviitiko zvacho. Bonde rinouya nenzira dzakawanda uye mahara akasiyana haamiririrwe mukuona kwangu. Bonde kana kurega kubva kwairi kunogara kuchishandiswa (kushungurudzwa) muhukama kugadzirisa. Wese munhu anogona kuwana mari yake muThailand nebasa rakajairwa. Zvakadaro vazhinji vanosarudza indasitiri yezvepabonde iyo mari yaro yakawandisa.
Varume vanoenda kuThailand vanogona kunge vari kutora mukana wekusaenzana nehurombo. Mhuri dzinouya pano kuzororo rakachipa nemhando dzese dzemasevhisi akachipa dzinoita zvakafanana. Iyo massage ine uye isina magumo anofadza akafanana. Musiyano chete uri mukutonga kwetsika pamusoro pezviito zvakaitwa.
Hongu kuchine vanhu vanofunga kuti kuita zvepabonde kunofanira kunge kwakanangana nekubereka, asi vamwe vese vane mitongo pamusoro pezvinoitwa nevamwe vavo munzvimbo iyi vanonyengera. Kana iri yemahara zvakanaka, zvikasadaro zviri pachena kuti hazvirambidzwe. Ndiwo maitiro echiDutch. MuThailand havachina mari ikoko uchi. A zvishoma pragmatic maitiro.
Tinokutendai nekutizivisa zvakawanda nezvehuwandu hwevanoita zvepabonde muThailand, Alphonse. Ini ndinofungidzira zvakare nezve vanoita zvepabonde vevarume veThai.
Ini handisi kuzokurudzira nezvebasa repabonde mune zvese, asi ndine mibvunzo mishoma yaungazive mhinduro kwayo.
1 imarii kuita zvepabonde kunomanikidzwa zvakanyanya kana kushoma? Ndinosanganisirawo vabereki vanokumbira vanasikana vavo nevanakomana kuti vape mupiro wemhuri kana kuti vanokwezvwa nezvipikirwa zvisina maturo.
2 vangani vevanotengesa muviri vari vadiki, vari pasi pemakore gumi nemasere?
3 vangani vanoita zvechipfambi mhedzisiro yekutengeswa kwevanhu kubva kuLaos, Cambodia kana Burma uye vari pasi perusaruro rwakawedzerwa?
4 imarii inobhadharwa nevatengi inoguma yave muhomwe dzevaridzi vemabhawa nemapurisa?
5 Zvakadini nekuchengetedza magariro uye hutano hwevanoita zvepabonde?
Ini handina chandinopesana nebasa repabonde kana richiitwa nemazvo.
hi tino
Ini ndinogona kuedza kupindura mibvunzo yechikamu chakakura kwazvo chevasina nguva uye vanoita zvebonde zvisina kujairika:
1. hapana chinomanikidzirwa kunze kwechido chekuva nemari yakawanda uye / kana kuwana murume kuti akutsigire nemari (uye zvichida zvimwe). Vazhinji vevakadzi ava vane mari (idiki);
2. Zvishoma. Kazhinji inobata vakadzi vakarambwa. Mamwe mawebhusaiti ekufambidzana ane cheki yezera.
3. Hapana
4. Madzimai anombotora macustomer mubhawa asi hapana chaanobhadhara. Kune madzimai anoshanda kuburikidza nemasaiti ekupfimbana, hapana muridzi webhawa anobatanidzwa, kana nemapurisa.
5. Vakadzi ava ndeve 'nordinary Thais' vanogona kana kusave neinishuwarenzi sezvakaita maThai ese. Shamwari zhinji nevazivikanwi havaziviwo kuti mukadzi uyu ibasa renguva pfupi (kunze kwekunge vaita basa pamwe chete).
Ndinovimba handifanire kutsanangura kuti iyi nzira yebasa repabonde ine zvakawanda 'zvinokwezva' zvichienzaniswa nebasa remubhawa. Saka hazvishamise kuti huwandu hwedzimba dzepabonde hwadzikira zvakanyanya, uye kuti kunyangwe venguva yakazara vanoita zvepabonde vava kushanda kuburikidza neinternet. (dzimwe nguva nemapeji eChetefans aunofanirwa kubhadhara semuoni).
Basa rekare, rekuita zvepabonde kuburikidza nemabhawa nedzimba dzepabonde rave nezuva raro, ndinofunga. Indasitiri inyanzvi uye inotsvaga misika niches.
Wataura chokwadi, Chris, pane maitiro akanaka. Panguva imwecheteyo, kune mishumo yenguva dzose mumapepanhau ekuti mapurisa akarwisa nzvimbo dzemasaji nemabhawa ekaraoke uko vakawana vasikana vasati vabva zera. Ndinofunga zvakakosha kuti rudzi urwu rwekuwedzeredza rwuzivikanwe uye kurwiswa.
Wataura chokwadi, asi mapurisa anofarirawo Thais ane Peji yevateveri chete uye vanoita bonde kuseri kwedecoder. Gore rakapera, mumwe murume nomudzimai vechiduku vokuThailand vakasungwa nokuda kweizvi.
https://www.bangkokpost.com/thailand/special-reports/2188779/onlyfans-stars-arrest-renews-debate-on-sex-work
Ehe, kubata vanhu ava, kana uchida, zvinotora nguva yakawanda nesimba pane kupamba bhawa. Hunhu hwepabonde hwakazara munyika muno hwakachinja kare, asi hurumende haina basa nazvo.
Wadiwa Alphonse,
Wakambobvunza mukadzi uyu kuti sei achifunga kuti uri kuenda kuThailand? Anogona kunge akambonzwa kuti wanga waenda kuThailand. Kana kuti anofunga kuti inzvimbo yakanakira mari shoma nemhaka yetembiricha uye zvokudya zvakanaka.
Mhedziso yako inogona zvakare kuve yechokwadi, asi haifanirwe kudaro.
Arnold
Tino,
Mamiriro ezvinhu asina hunhu anosuwisa.
Asi zvakare zvine chekuita nemufananidzo.
Iwe unogona zvakare kutungamira mibvunzo yako kuIndia, uko kumwe kuita zvepabonde kwekumanikidzwa hakuna kunaka.
Ndikati ndiri kuenda kuholiday kuIndia, hapana kana mashoko echipfambi.
India, tsika yekare yakanaka ine budiriro yekare.
Khun moo, kune huwandu hwese hwekuita zvepabonde kwese uye nguva dzese. Kubva kuvakadzi vanoshanda vakazvimiririra vanogona kuzvisarudzira vega, havafanirwe kutarisana nemamiriro ezvinhu akaipa kana ane njodzi uye kuwana zvine musoro kune zvakanaka. Uye zvakare kune vasikana veLao vane makore gumi nemana vakavharirwa, vanofanirwa kushanda panguva yekutevera uye kudzokera kumba mushure memakore vasina kana satang. Kwese kwandakataura, asi muThailand zvakanyanyisa. Iyo nyaya inodawo kutaurwa. Izvo hazvina chekuita ne 'mukadzi wechiThai' asi nemamiriro ezvematongerwo enyika uye nemagariro munyika.
Pandakauya kuzogara muThailand muna 1999 ndaiwanzonzwa kuti 'chero uchibhadhara unogona kuwana chero mukadzi wechiThai'. Uye ndakanzwa kuti 'vose vanoita zvepabonde muThailand vanoshanda nokuzvidira, vanonakidzwa nazvo uye vanotambira zvakanaka'. Chiratidzo cherudo chekuMabvazuva. Ndinoda kuona chokwadi chine zita, mativi akanaka neakaipa. Ndakataura nevanoita zvechipfambi vakati 'vakabatwa chibharo', ndakaona mavanga pamaoko avo, uye ndikanzwawo nyaya dzakanaka, kunyanya nezvemihoro.
Mhinduro kumubvunzo: 'Sei vakadzi uye' vakadzi vevakadzi 'muNetherlands neBelgium - uyewo varume vakawanda vanobva kuno - vachifunga kuti Thailand inzvimbo imwe yechiedza chitsvuku?' iri nyore kwazvo.
Vazhinji 'vashanyi' vakauya kuThailand uye nzvimbo chete yavakaenda yaive Pattaya. Zvino vakaunza 'nyaya' dzavo kumba, kazhinji nemifananidzo inodiwa. Vaibva vadziparadzira nyaya idzi nerupo chaizvo pabhawa, pamwe nechidimbu chedhiri chekuwedzeredza.
Uye hongu, vanhu vakanga vasati vambosvikako vakaudzwa izvi zvakare uye ndiwo mawaniro aunowana aya marudzi emifananidzo yeimwe nyika, iyo inongobva pane imwe dunhu asi yakajairika.
Ndakamboudza mumwe weavo 'vane mukurumbira wakashata wePattaya' kuti anofanirwa kuchengeta nyaya dzakadai kwaari nekuti, kune muenzi chaiye weThailand, izvi zvakangopa mufananidzo wake.
Mushure memakore gumi nematanhatu ekutarisa-tarisa munyika ino. paruzhinji, painternet uye munzvimbo yangu (mubangkok neUdonthani) ndinoshinga kutaura kuti kune zvakawanda, hapana ZVAKAWANDA ZVAKAWANDA zvenguva pfupi uye dzimwe nguva vanoita zvepabonde kupfuura avo 'vepamutemo' vanoita zvepabonde vanopinzwa mumabhawa. uye dzimba dzepabonde dzinoshanda.
Ndinoreva: magigs, vakadzi vane basa rakajairwa asi (kazhinji pakupera kwevhiki) vane husiku humwe chete kuburikidza nebhawa kana mawebhusaiti akadai seTinder; uye vadzidzi vanowana mari yakawedzerwa uye vanobhadhara zvidzidzo zvavo nemasitendi ehusiku humwe chete; vakadzi vanoda kuita 'madhiraivha' kune vashanyi vasina murume kwevhiki imwe kana 1.
Kune vanhu vechiDutch vanoenda kuAsia, Thailand neIndonesia ndiyo inonyanya kufarirwa nzvimbo, saka chii chinoshamisa pakufungira mukadzi uyu? Pane mukana wakanaka wekuti wanga uine imwe yenyika mbiri idzi sekwauchaenda. Ndine fungidziro yekuti iwe pachako wapa rumwe ruzivo nezvekuti sei uye nei mukadzi uyu angafunge nezveThailand nehafu yehuwandu hwevanhu ikoko. Chokwadi ungadai wakapindura mubvunzo wacho nomubvunzo wokuti: “Hongu, ndizvozvo, asi wakasvika sei pazviri? Unofungei nezvenyika iyoyo?"
Ndaigona kuona chidimbu ichi sechisaruro icho murume wechiDutch ane pamusoro (pfungwa dze) vakadzi vechiDutch. Izvo zvinonyadzisa, izvo zvine chimwe chinhu ...
Ndakaedza kuisa link asi zveshuwa zvairambidzwa
Chaive chiitiko chakareruka cheGoogle neinjini yekutsvaga, chipfambi chepasirese nenyika
1) Thailand, 2 Cambodia uye 3 Netherlands
Tiri maKatorike kupfuura Pope zvakare
Ndinofungidzira kuti ruzivo rwevanhu rwunobva pane izvozvo uye saka haruna kurongeka???
Tichatofanira kudzidza kurarama nazvo.
Kubvumirana zvachose nemazita angu. Asi zvichida munyori akanzwa inzwi ratakanga tisina kunzwa, uye rinotaura chimwe chinhu pamusoro pokuti mukadzi ari kutaurwa anoona sei munyori wacho. Kana zviri zvekusarura, maonero angu semushanyi. Chihure chinhu chinoshorwa munyika medu. Zvebonde zvakadaro.Ndichiri nemafungiro ekuti Thais haaite nazvo zvekupenga. Zvakakodzera kuongororwa. Zvakanaka (ini ndichatumira nyaya yangu) Ndinoona zuva nezuva kuti Joe, maneja weLong Beach, anoita sei majee ane tsvina, uye vese murume uye (Thai) mukadzi akapetwa kaviri nekuseka. Paanotaura nezvebonde y madzimai anobva abatwa nekuseka kubva kumukadzi wake. (Vese maMuslim!). Uyezve, Koh Chang (yegungwa rekumadokero) inoita kunge inofamba nevakadzi mushure me8am, asi ini handisati ndazviona. Uye tora ma ladyboys, vane izwi rekuti, muNL zviri nani kuti iwe utendeuke.