Chirevo chevhiki: Kubhadhara bonde inzira yemhirizhonga
Quote: 'Kana tichitaura nezvemhirizhonga kuvanhukadzi, kashoma nezvechipfambi. Pasinei nemishumo yakawanda yepfambi dziri kutengeswa, kuitwa varanda, kubatwa chibharo kana kurohwa, varume vanoshandisa kutengeserana kwepabonde vanosunungurwa.
Zvichida maitiro avo anonzi akashata kana kuti haana kururama, asi vatengi havarangarirwi sevekubatanidzwa mukushandiswa kwevakadzi. Zvinobatsira isu, senzanga, kuona kutenga zvepabonde sechinhu chakaipa kwete chisimba. Tsvina uye yakati renje? Ehe. Chimiro chekushungurudza? Kwete saizvozvo.'
Mune imwe nyaya Bangkok Post Mary Honeyball, MP weLondon uye mutauriri weLabour kuvakadzi muEurope, anoti mhombwe dzine mhosva yemhirizhonga. “Kune mhirizhonga yakanangana nekutenga zvinhu kune mumwe munhu asingadi kuchitengesa,” anonyora kudaro. Honeyball inonongedza kutsvagurudzo yakaitwa nemutori wenhau uye anorwira kodzero dzevakadzi Joan Smith, izvo zvinoratidza kuti pfambi mapfumbamwe kubva mugumi aizosiya kutengeserana kana akapihwa mukana. 11 muzana bedzi inoshanda nokuzvidira, nepo 89 muzana isingadaro, uye kuti 11 muzana ndiyo inogamuchira ngwariro huru muzvinobudisa nhau. Sezviri pachena isu tinoda iyo pfungwa ye 'inofara hooker'.
Honeyball inoita kuteterera kune yeSweden modhi. Mutengi anga achirangwa ipapo kubva 1999. Izvi zvaderedza chipfambi chemumigwagwa nepakati, zvaderedza kutengeswa kwevanhu uye zvakabudirirawo kuita chiseko chepabonde. Varume veSweden vava nekatatu mukana wekupikisa kubhadhara bonde. Honeyball inotarisira kuti zvichave zvichiita kunyengetedza Paramende yeEurope kuti isarudze iyo yeSweden modhi mu2014. Yave kutoshandiswa muIceland neNorway - mutemo uri kutonyorwa muFrance, Ireland neNorthern Ireland, saka tarisiro iri kuchinja.
Chipfambi chinorambidzwa muThailand
MuThailand, chipfambi chinorambidzwa - zvinenge zvinonyadzisa kunyora pasi uchifunga nezvematunhu matsvuku sePatpong, Soi Cowboy, Nana (Bangkok), Walking Street (Pattaya) uye mune chero guta kwete. Dzimwe nguva tende rakavharwa, dzimwe nguva vasikana vaduku vanosunungurwa, dzimwe nguva vakadzi vekune dzimwe nyika vanoshanda pasi pekumanikidzwa vanosunungurwa (uye pakarepo vanodzingwa), asi kazhinji izvozvo hazviitiki.
Unogona kuti: iyo Honeywell nyaya haishande kuThailand. Hure zhinji dzinoshanda pano nokuzvidira. Zvimwe iwe unoti: zano rakanaka, Thailand inofanirawo kupa mhosva mutengi (uye kumutorera matanho). Kana kuti utopia?
Saka chirevo chesvondo: Kubhadhara bonde inzira yemhirizhonga. Tiudze kana uchibvuma uye nei. Kana kusabvumirana uye nei.
Muenzaniso weSweden (iyo yavakudawo kusuma muFrance kana kuti pane musiyano pakati pavo?) inoratidzika sechinhu chisina musoro kwandiri: kana vanhu vakuru vaviri vane kunzwisisa kwakakwana uye kubvumirana vachiuya kuchibvumirano chechokwadi, sepabonde kuitira kubhadhara, saka hapana munhu. zvimwe zvakanganisa, ndoda kuzvirambidza. Iyo zvakare inotsvedza inotsvedza: kana iwe usingabvumirwe kubhadhara mumari, asi iwe unogona kubhadhara mumhando (basa rekudzoka, chigadzirwa, nezvimwewo) zvinova zvakaoma kuratidza. Kunyanya kana kubhadhara kunoitika gare gare kana mberi ... Ingoratidza kuti, semuenzaniso, iyo pendant kana mabhokisi ekutenda kwakasimba aiva mubhadharo wakananga wepabonde uye kwete chipo kubva kuvanhu vaviri vanongoita zvepabonde pamwe chete nokuzvidira.
Chihure chakashata here? Mubvunzo wakaoma. kana iri nyaya yevanhu vanosarudza kupa masevhisi iwayo nekuti vanoshandura chitandadzo chavo kuita basa ravo kana kungofunga kuti zvakakodzera kushanda nesimba (mutoro), ipapo ndingati kwete. Kana iwe ukatendeukira kuchipfambi nekuda kwekupererwa, inova nzvimbo yakaoma kwazvo, iwe uchabva wawedzera kana kushoma pakuda kwako kuita chimwe chinhu chinosiya mavanga akadzama epfungwa. Kana wamanikidzwa saka zvakaipa zvakadaro. Ndiko kutengeswa kwevanhu, huranda, kushandiswa uye zvisiri izvo!! Sekuziva kwangu, munhu wese anobatanidzwa (mutengi uye pimp kana vamwe) anorangwa.
Sehure hausi kuti wakakanganisa/kubatwa.
Semutengi hauna mhosva, kunyanya kana zviri pachena kuti hure (m/f) rinofarirawo basa kana kuti rinoriita nekugutsikana kwakati. Pano zvakare imvi nzvimbo yausingambove nechokwadi chekuti hure ririkuzviita nekusada (kutsva) kana kumanikidzirwa.Kana hure rikaburitsa pachena kuti ibasa rekumanikidzirwa nekutaura izvi kana nemaitiro (kuchema, ...) zvino iwe semutengi wakanganisa zvechokwadi.
Muchidimbu, zvinoenderana zvachose nemamiriro ezvinhu, zvose maererano nemutengi uye pfambi. Munyika yakanaka inongova chibvumirano pakati pevanhu vaviri vanosarudza izvi nokuziva uye vanogutsikana nazvo. Mukuita, iwe unofanirwawo kutora pimps munhoroondo, zvakananga kana zvisina kunanga kumanikidza, vatengi vakaipa vasingachengete zvipikirwa zvavo (kubhadhara zvishoma kana kusabhadhara, kubata hure zvisirizvo, nezvimwewo). Izvi zvinofanira kudzivirirwa.
Kubhadhara bonde inzira yemhirizhonga?Handifungi kudaro.
Zvinoshanda chete kana munhu aripa AKANYANZVIDZIRWA kuita kudaro.Uye ndinofunga mapurisa anofanira kutora matanho akasimba achipokana nazvo, chokwadi.Dai vangozviita kakawanda.
Zvikasadaro chingori chibvumirano chebhizinesi pakati pemupi nemutengi, izvo vanorodza nyika ino vasina chekuita nazvo.
Zvino vava kuda kubata makasitoma emadzimai aya ane mhosva yekushungurudzwa kwechipfambi.
Nekuti zvino zvinoita sekunge ruzhinji rwevakadzi vanoshanda pasi pekumanikidzwa, izvo ini ndinokahadzika zvakanyanya.
Uye sekunge izvo hazvibatsiri dambudziko rekushandisa uye kushungurudzwa kunowedzera pasi pevhu, nekuti munhu (mutengi) asingawani zvaanoda achaedza, kuruboshwe kana kurudyi, edza nenzira yakasiyana, i.e. zvisiri pamutemo. Zvino ndipo pasisina hure nani.
Ndeupi mutengi wemukadzi ane hunhu angatanga abvunza kana ari kushandiswa?Kwete, nekuti handizvo zvinouya vanhu.
Ini handisi pano kuzopembedza chipfambi uye kushungurudzwa kurimo, asi handifarire kunetsana kwevezvematongerwo enyika vanosarudzira mumwe munhu kuti hupenyu hwavo hunofanira kunge hwakaita sei. Izvi zvinoitika zvakanyanya mukufunga kwangu. Uye Thai haireve chimwe chinhu Kuti zano rekupenga rakadaro rinogona kuunzwa muFrance, iro riri pamusoro pebhiza, zvakanaka, asi ndinovimba kuti Thailand ichave yakachenjera.
Basa rekare pasi rose, uye vanhu vasina njere vachifunga kuti vanogona kuribvisa.
Ini basa rangu handirifaririwo. Pane mhirizhonga here (ini ndinobhadharwa nayo!)?
PS Ini handisi gigolo kana chimwe chinhu, kuti iwe uzive.
Haisi mhirizhonga, zviuru nezviuru zvevasikana zvashanda mumabhawa angu kwemakore makumi maviri nemapfumbamwe, VESE nokuzvidira, vasikana ivavo havawani basa, hakuna basa, zvakadaro vanofanirwa kuve nemari yekuchengeta mhuri, vanoitei Kana ivo Dai ndisina kushanda mubhawa, handaizoziva kuti vangani vakwegura nevana (vazhinji vavo vane mwana) vaizoguma vapinda mugwara. Ndinogamuchirwa kwese kwese nevasikana vaindishandira uye nevabereki vavo, basa iroro ibasa rinogara riripo pano, basa rinobhadharwa nevakawanda.
Hauna kumbobvira wanzwa here, nevamwe vasikana, kuti vanokodzera zvirinani (chii chakakodzera zvirinani, pamwe vanofunga kuti uhu ndihwo hupenyu)?
Sekuona kwangu, ruzhinji rungadai rwakada kudzidza kwakajairika nebasa rakabatana (kufunga kweWestern).
Izvi zvinosetsa chaizvo ... pamwe vanhu vari kuita zvakawandisa zvechinhu chikuru kubva muchinhu ichi chose (uye zvepabonde mune zvese).
Kana mumwe munhu akazvipira kushanda muchipfambi, zvakanaka.
Asi ndinoona vose vaya, kazhinji vaduku, vasikana vanotanga kuita basa iroro nokuti dai zvisina kudaro paizova pasina chingwa patafura, zvinosuruvarisa chaizvo! Kuti "vanofanira" kuita basa iroro nokuti hapana mari ichauya neimwe nzira. Handifungi kuti zvingava zvakadaro pano zvakare. Vamwe vakashungurudzika kweupenyu hwose.
Iperesentei yevasikana ivavo yaisatomboda kuita rimwe basa haitaurwi pano! Kana vane rusununguko rwokuzviita vose vari mutengi nepfambi, chii chakaipa nazvo? Kunyange vanhu vanopa pekugara votora mugove wavo vangori vatengesi kwandiri uye chero bedzi pasina kumanikidzwa uye chibvumirano chichitevedzwa, ivo havasi kutyora.
Panofanira kuva nedzimba munzvimbo idzi dzine mukurumbira wakashata, kuitira kuti pave nenzvimbo yokushuma muchiitiko chokushungurudzwa!
Ini zvakare handibvumi kuti sarudzo nezve mararamiro uye muviri zvinofanirwa kuitwa kubva kumusoro!
Kana kuita bonde iko zvino kwavawo mhosva (panewo muripo unobatanidzwa), zvinhu zvauya kure. Ndopapi pamunoti vanhu vanganyanya kuhura here kana vachigara vese, panoiswa muhoro wakanaka patafura kana pasina chekudya???
Semutariri, ndaifanirawo kuita zvaidiwa nemutengi kwemakore makumi matatu. Kuitira vanhu tsitsi zvinova zvakandisvota nechemumoyo. Uye mubasa rangu rekare kune zviuru zvinosangana nechinhu chimwe chete. Inofanira kurambidzwa here ipapo?
Kana iwe uchida kuita chimwe chinhu nezve chipfambi muno muThailand, haufanirwe kurambidza, unofanirwa kuve nechokwadi chekuti mamiriro evashandi anovandudza. Kana, semukadzi wechidiki asina chaakadzidza, iwe unofanirwa kushanda maawa angangoita gumi nematanhatu mufekitori nemari shoma ye16 baht pazuva uye iwe unogona kuwana zvakafanana kana kupfuura muawa mubha uye uchinakidzwa, sarudzo iri nyore.
Ndaizoita zvimwe chetezvo.
Dai rairamba rakarambidzwa pano, raitowedzera kuipa: raizonyatsoita zvisiri pamutemo uye vakadzi vanozoshanda sepfambi vaizokwanisa kuiswa pasi pekumanikidzwa kwakanyanya nemafia anozvitonga zvese.
Kwete, mihoro yevashandi inofanira kuwedzera uye mamiriro ekushanda anofanira kuvandudzwa, kuitira kuti vakadzi vane tsika pamuganhu vagone kuita sarudzo yekushanda kune imwe nzvimbo "yakanaka".
Asi….
Izvi zvinoreva kuti hupenyu muThailand hwaizowedzera kudhura. Ipapo isu sevanobuda kunze tinogona kuve nematambudziko ekugara pano zvakanaka semunyika yedu. Uye vazhinji vaizoodzwa mwoyo, nekuti chikamu chikuru chevaraidzo yehusiku chaizorasika.
Chero bedzi pasina vana vanobatanidzwa kana mhirizhonga inoitika, munhu wose anofanira kukwanisa kuzvisarudzira zvaanoda.
Mukuwedzera, munyika dzokuMadokero, chipfambi chinowanzoperekedzwa nokukundikana munzanga nokushandisa zvinodhaka. Munhu ane mikana yakawanda yokuwana dzidzo yakanaka uye kuwana basa rinodhura. Iyo nzanga yakasiyana isingakwanise kuenzaniswa neThailand kana nharaunda dzayo.
Europe haisi Thailand. Chero bedzi usingatsanangure 'chipfambi' uye 'kubhadhara', chirevo hachigone kuongororwa. Rega ndipe mienzaniso mishoma yemamiriro ezvinhu anoitika muThailand kuratidza kuti tsananguro dzinogona kunge dzisina kufanana nenyika dzeEurope:
Chii chinonzi chipfambi uye kubhadhara kunosanganisirei:
- mukadzi anoyevedza wekuThai wemakore makumi maviri nemashanu anosiya basa remaawa makumi mashanu (nemuhoro we25 baht) kuti ave tenzikadzi wemurume akapfuma weThai kwe50 baht pamwedzi anoda mafaro ake kamwe pasvondo;
- Vakadzi vechiThai vanoenda kubhawa pakupera kwevhiki kunosangana nemurume wekune imwe nyika (vachitarisira kumuroora) uye mushure mekudanana kaviri, vanokumbira mari (kwete kaviri ekutanga);
- Vakadzi vechiThai vanoshanda mubhawa vanoda kuuya newe nemari; bhawa zvakare rinofanira kubhadharwa;
-gwara rekufamba reThai rinokuratidza Thailand muvhiki 1 uye zvakare anogovana mubhedha newe mushure mezuva kana maviri. Mushure mevhiki, anotambira mari yaakabvumirana yebasa rake uye mhete yegoridhe, yaanochinjanisa nemari nekuda kwekushaya mari.
Tsanangudzo dzemazwi okuti chipfambi uye kubhadhara (kunyangwe tsananguro yebonde. Clinton haana kumbobvira arara naMonica Lewinsky nekuti mutemo weAmerica hautore kugutsikana nemuromo sebonde!!) nde- mushoko rakaoma - mune mamiriro. Zvinoenderana nemamiriro ezvinhu uye tsika nemaitiro, zvingave kana kusatsanangurwa zviri pamutemo.
Chihure muThailand...ndinofunga kuti zvakaoma kumunhu wekunze kuti awedzere-kutonga izvozvo. Uyewo Mary Honeyball
kwete. Kune maExpats mazhinji pano muThailand akaroora aimbove pfambi.
Kana kushanyira pfambi kukaitwa kwakaoma, zvinogona kukonzera kubatwa chibharo kwakawanda.
Mhinduro yangu kune chirevo "Kubhadhara zvepabonde inzira yechisimba". Ini ndinoti kwete.
Kana musikana/mukomana akamanikidzwa nepimp uyo waanofanirawo kubhadhara chikamu chikuru chemari yake kana kumanikidzwa nechisimba kwaari kana mhuri, chipfambi chinogara chakaipa!
Asi kana musikana/mukomana akasarudza kuwana mari nenzira iyi, ini handioni chakaipa pazviri. Vasikana/vakomana vakasununguka kutaura hongu/kwete kumutengi kana, kana mutengi ari mushoma, kubvunza mutengo wepamusoro. Mamiriro ekushanda uye goho zvinowanzova nani kupfuura mufekitari kana muminda yemupunga.
Ini pachangu, ndinofunga kune kumanikidza kwakanyanya uye kushandiswa mune mamwe mabasa mazhinji, asi nekuti "kutengesa kwemuviri" hakubatanidzwe, iwo maprofessionals anoonekwa seakajairika. Kungotaura zvishoma:
– Vacheri vemigodhi vakawanda vanofanira kushanda mumigodhi pasi rose pasi pemamiriro asina kunaka, kushandiswa uye kubhadhara izvi nehutano hwavo kana rufu munjodzi dzinogara dzichiitika.
- Vashandi "vakachipa" vanotengeswa kubva kunyika dzakavakidzana dzenyika "dzakapfuma" kuita tsvina, tsvina uye / kana basa rinorema. Kazhinji maawa ekushanda akareba, dzimba dzisina kunaka uye mari isingabhadharwi. Izvi zvinoitika kunyange muNetherlands.
Bonde rinoonekwa sechinhu chitsvene, asi pamwe tinofanira kubvisa chiseko ichocho. Bonde rakangonaka uye unogona kugovana nevanhu vakati wandei, ukuwo rudo rwuri padyo. Uye nei usingashandisi chimwe chinhu chinonaka kuti ubatsirwe nemari? Asi chokwadi chinoramba chiripo chekuti inofanirwa kuve sarudzo yemahara yemunhu anopinda basa.
Chokwadi Ingrid, chirevo chega ndechekuti hapana kumanikidza kana kubiridzira kana uchiita basa. Kuchine zvakawanda zvingawanwa munzvimbo dzakadai sekodzero dzebasa (muhoro, maawa ekushanda, mamiriro okushanda, nezvimwewo), izvo zvinoratidzika kwandiri kuva chinhu chinokosha zvikuru. Bhonasi yakanaka ndeyekuti iwe unopa vakadzi nevarume dzimwe nzira dzekuti vawane muhoro wakaringana pasi pemamiriro ekushanda anonzwisisika kuitira kuti vararame hupenyu hwakati tsvikiti (pekugara, chikafu/chinwiwa, "umbozha" seTV). Uyezve funga dzidzo iri nani, zvese maererano nekuwanikwa uye yekupedzisira level.
Izvo zvingavawo zvakanaka ndezvimwe zvehupenyu; Kwatova nemasangano akasiyana-siyana ekuzvipira anoshanda muchikamu chechipfambi anopa vanhu nzira yekubuda nayo kana vachida. Fine. Kana pane zvimwe zvingasarudzwa, zvakadai sezviteshi zvekubatsira zvepamutemo (zviri nyore kuenda kune zviremera), ndinofunga zvingava zvakanaka kana vanhu vanozopedzisira vapinda mumamiriro ezvinhu asina chokwadi vanogona kuwana rubatsiro kubva kune vanozvipira uye zviremera.
Izvi zvese zviri pamutemo uye zveruzhinji kuitira kuti urege kunyatso kudzingirira hunyanzvi mumashure maalleys (mafia maitiro, nezvimwewo). Chihure kushandiswa here? Zvirokwazvo kwete netsanangudzo uye hongu iwe unoedza kupa nzira yekubuda mune ega ega nyaya apo izvi ndizvo zvazviri. Ipapo vatengi vakanaka uye vanopa havafanirwe kunzwa vaine mhosva.
@Rob V: muchikumbiro chako chekuti urege chipfambi, unofungidzira zvizere kuti kana chiitiko ichi chikaitwa semamwe mativi mazhinji, zvese zvichanaka nekuwedzeredza kunowanzofumura chikamu ichi muchiedza chakasviba. . Iwe unoregeredza chokwadi chekuti kunyangwe wakazvitarisa sei, chikamu chechipfambi chinoperekedzwa nemaitiro ekuzvideredza kuvakadzi vari muchikamu ichocho, uye kazhinji nekushungurudzwa kwemamiriro emunhu uye kunyadziswa. Dzimwe nguva nemhedzisiro inouraya: ona https://www.thailandblog.nl/achtergrond/bangkok-girl-video/
Regularization haishande kune iyo Thai mamiriro. Kuwedzera kushambadzira. Ndinobvumirana nezvakataurwa naMary Honeywell kwokutanga kwenyaya yacho kuti “Zvinotibatsira, senzanga, kuona kutenga zvepabonde sechinhu chakaipa pane kuita chisimba. "Izvo zvinoita sezviri pachena kushanya kune akawanda mikana munzvimbo dzakawanda muTH. Izvo zvinotadza ipapo zvakaburitswa kakawanda paThailandblog.
Chipfambi hachisi chokwadi, uye hachigoni kutsauswa kubva pane zvakaitika uye kunakidzwa kwepabonde pakati pevakuru vanosarudza vakasununguka kuita zvavanoita, kunyange kana iri yekubhadhara.
Humbowo hwehuwandu? Wadii kutora maitiro ako akasununguka kune hure rechiDutch uye uudze musikana wako weTH kuti mapato maviri ega ega anongopedza bhizimusi rekutengeserana?
Wataura zvakanaka Soi! Izwi rekuti 'kuzvipira' rinoshandiswa zviri nyore pano.
Handidi kutaura kana paine hunhu hwekuzvidzikisira kune vakadzi nevarume vechiThai vari muchikamu chechipfambi. Ndinofunga kuti iyo ichava mari yakawanda yekuona nokuti hapana tsvakurudzo yakawanda (kuongorora pakati pevatengi nevapepi, kutarisa vachishandisa makamera kana mapoka ekucherechedza, nezvimwewo) yakaitwa. Mudzidzisi weBritish kubva kuvhidhiyo yemusikana weBKK, semuenzaniso, zviri pachena kuti munhu anosemesa anoona mabhawa sezvinhu (kana kuti anozvibata nenzira iyoyo nehunhu hwake hunonyadzisa hwaunoona pakamera). Mabhawa ese iwayo, masaja parlors, mahotera enguva pfupi, etc. azere nemhando idzo dzemavara here?? Handizive. Ndakangoenda kumigwagwa yakadai kakati wandei ndiri mumwechete - uye kamwe pakukumbirwa kwemusikana wangu zvakare pamwe chete nekuti aida kuziva nezvechikamu ichi chenzanga - uye handina kumbonzwa pfungwa yekuti kwaive nevakawanda vakarasikirwa. Asi izvozvo hazvisiwo chinangwa: chete maonero angu ari madiki-pamwero, subjective, etc. Zvichida ini zvakaitika kuti ndigare mu "kurudyi" bar, handina kuona zvinhu, etc. Zvisinei zvakanzi, sezvo ini pakarepo. akati mumhinduro yangu yekutanga ndakanyora pasi pechinyorwa ichi: hapana munhu akajairwa ane chero chinhu chakanaka chekutaura nezve scum isina tariro inobata vakadzi / varume vanoshanda ipapo sezvinhu.
Pandinoverenga mhinduro dzako, unoita mutsauko pakati pevakadzi nevarume vanopa masevhisi avo mune imwe nzvimbo (bhawa, hotera, massage parlor, kumwewo) sepfambi uye mutsauko pakati pemamwe marudzi ebonde apo basa rekudzoka (mumari, mutsa. kana imwe nzira) zvinopesana. Mutsetse iwowo unoratidzika kunge wakaoma kudhirowa. Mukadzi "akasununguka" mukadzi / munyoro anosvika kune mumwe munhu mumugwagwa kana padisco zvakaoma kusiyanisa kubva kune mumwe munhu anoshanda se (yepamutemo kana asina basa) mushandi mubhawa. Kushandiswa kunoramba kuchishandiswa, kumanikidza kunoramba kuri kumanikidza. Saka mutsauko pakati pepfambi kana kuti "bonde remubhadharo" hauite kunge mutema nemuchena kwandiri. Kana kuti 'zvisina kunaka' (mhirizhonga). Sezvandakanyora mutsamba yangu yekutanga, kune nzvimbo yakakura yegrey. Mumwe munhu anosarudza basa 100% nokuzvidira uye nekugutsikana zviri nyore kunyora sechinhu chisina kukanganisa. Zvakare semunhu anonyatso kumanikidzwa kana kubva mukupererwa anoita basa iri achipesana nekuda kwake. Pakati pako une nzvimbo yakakura apo "mari iri nyore" inoyerera ichipinda mu "zviri nyore pane kuburikidza nerimwe basa", "mari inofanira kupinda" kana "Handina sarudzo kana handisi kuzowana kana cent," tisingatauri nezvazvo. mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu akadai semhuri (anoda mari here? anoitarisira here? Inofanira kuva imwe mari uye kana zvakadaro inogona kuwanikwa kuburikidza ne'basa' remazuva ose? nezvimwewo). Pazasi, zvinoenderana nemunhu ari kupa sevhisi, munhu ari kuishandisa uye pamwe kusvika pamwero wakati munhu wese akavapoteredza. Kana avo vaviri vatambi vakuru vakagutsikana zvakanaka, kana vasina saka unogona kuzviona semhirizhonga / kumanikidza / kushungurudza.
Chekupedzisira: Unoreva here kureva kubiridzira (kusavimbika) mundima yako yekupedzisira? Ndiyo nyaya yakasiyana zvachose. Kana munhu akaenda kumahure (kana musowe muhofisi, kuvavakidzani, etc.) iye ane shamwari yake inofungidzira kuti iwe uri murume mumwe chete, iwe unenge uchiita zvisizvo. Zvichida chirevo chenguva inotevera: "a mia noi netsanangudzo haina kutendeka kune wawakaroorana naye".
Moderator: Hurukuro inofanira kunge iri pamusoro peThailand. Hapana mienzaniso yechiDutch ndapota.
Kana mukadzi achiita chifeve achizvida, hapana chakaipa. Murume anobvisa matombo uye mukadzi ane mari. Iwe unogona zvakare kutaura kuti chikamu chikuru chepfambi chinobira varume, ingotarisa Patthaya.
Nzira chete yekuziva kuti kubhadhara bonde inzira yemhirizhonga ndeiyi: bvunza hure racho pacharo. Zvimwe zvese zvinenge zviri zvekufungidzira. Saka verenga nyaya dzepfambi ivo pachavo, kubva kuXaviera kuenda kuBua Boonmee nevamwe vazhinji. Ndivo chete vanogona kupindura mubvunzo iwoyo. Zvandaverenga kusvika kure kubva kupfambi dzeThai ndeichi: hongu, kazhinji, kazhinji, rudzi rwemhirizhonga.
Tino.Kuis. Saka kazhinji imhando yemhirizhonga. Zvino ndinopomerwa mhosva yekushandisa mhirizhonga, nekuti ndakaroorwa neaimbove pfambi.
Wadiwa Jogchum,
Kazhinji, kazhinji, saka kwete nguva dzose. Ndinokuziva semurume ane mutsa, ane hushamwari asingadi kukuvadza nhunzi uye ndinoshinga kutaura kuti hauna kumboshandisa 'chisimba', mune zvemutemo kana neimwewo pfungwa. Unogona kunge wakanyanya kunaka dai zvaibvira. Ndinokutendai.
Ndine urombo nekutaura asi izvi zvinoda kutaurwa.
Tino Kuis.
Ndatenda nekurumbidza. Asi kune zviuru zvevamwe vatorwa muno muThailand
kuroorwa neaimbova pfambi. Kune mativi maviri kuchinhu chose, chakanaka nechakaipa. Vanhu vanoverenga
Zvirinani mashoko akashata pane akanaka.
Hurumende dzinoedza kuisa zvese mumabhokisi. Zvisinei, chipfambi hachina kunyatsopindirana. Kune zvakawanda zvakasiyana-siyana, kubva pachipfambi chemumugwagwa chine chekuita nezvinodhaka kune rimwe divi kusvika pakuroora kune rimwe. Chero bedzi ruzivo rwepabonde uye kudiwa kwaro kusina kufanana muvarume nevakadzi, pane nguva dzose pachava nemutengo mukudzoka. Sei uchibhadhara mukadzi anochenesa imba yako kana masseuse nebasa rawakapihwa, asi kana sevhisi iyi inosanganisira bonde saka inofanira kunge iri yemahara. Nechiyero ichi iwe unofanirwa kurambidza kuroora nekukurumidza, nekuti ndiko kunowanzo kunoitwa nzira inodhura yebonde.
MuThailand, kubhadharira bonde zvirokwazvo haisi mhirizhonga, kana kwete netsanangudzo. Kutaura zvazviri, ndinofunga kuti kusabhadhara bonde kunongonzi imhando yemhirizhonga. Kana mutengi akasabhadhara, mapurisa anogona kutodanwa kuti agadzirise kusarongeka uku.
Kana vezvematongerwo enyika vakabudirira mukugadzira nyika yakanaka, umo munhu wese anogona kuona zviroto zvake uye asingambofaniri kuita basa vasingadi, dambudziko rinozvigadzirisa pacharo. Ndinoti vatange kushanda nazvo. Iwe wobva warwisa chikonzero uye kwete, sezvazvino, mhedzisiro.
Uyezve nezvemhirizhonga. Haisi iyo hurumende muThailand neNetherlands uye kumwe kwese uko inoshandisa masoja kurwira mubhadharo? Tichiri kukwanisa kudzidza zvakawanda kubva kumabonobos anodzivirira mhirizhonga nekushandisa bonde sechombo.
Haisati yasvika here nguva yokunyoreswa zviri pamutemo kwechipfambi nokudaro ndokubvumira basa rekaresa pasi rose kudzorwa nokukosheswa seimwe indasitiri ipi neipi?
Mushure mezvose, takaona muNetherlands chii chinoitika kana iwe uchirambidza zvinodhaka zvinodhaka: zvinokurumidza kuchinja kune pasi pevhu kusazivikanwa.
kwaenda ndiko kutonga pamusoro pezera uye kunaka uye kupatsanurwa pakati pemishonga yakaoma nemishonga yakapfava.
vamwe vanhu vangasada kuzviona zvichiitika, kunyangwe zviripo uye ndinoshinga kutora manhamba echiSwedish maererano nechipfambi netsanga yemunyu: mushure mezvose, unoongorora sei chimwe chinhu chisingabvumirwi (Chechi yeKaturike yakakwanisawo kuchengetedza vazhinji. zvinhu zvakavanzika kwemakore). bata) "nhamba dzeSweden" dzakanaka kune vamwe vezvematongerwo enyika vane hurongwa chaihwo, asi ini ndinoona kuti chinangwa chacho chinopokana.
Ini handina monopoly pahuchenjeri, asi kana vatengi vachiona mucherechedzo wemhando uye nekuziva rudzi rwenyama yavakachengetera, vanoona, semuenzaniso, kuti kune sangano riri shure kwayo rinoongorora zvakaipa zvakaita sechipfambi chekumanikidza, sezvatava kuita musupermarket.kugonawo kusarudza pakati penyama yenyama nenyama isiriyo.Ini ndiri kuita maune maenzaniso makukutu nekunetsana pano nekuti hatifanire kuita kuti inake kupfuura yairi uye zviri nani kuti tisaviga misoro yedu. mujecha uye kwete kuedza kurambidza zvinhu zvose.Zvinhu izvi zvakagara zvichiitika uye zvicharamba zviripo.Kunyanya tinogona kuedza kutungamira zvinhu mugwara rakanaka pane kurwisana nazvo.
Pashure pezvose, hondo yezvinodhaka yakakuvadza zvikuru kupfuura kunaka, kunyange zvazvo Hollywood ingada kuti tidavire neimwe nzira.
Modern Western Ethics vs. chipfambi nechisimba hazviiti basa muSE Asia (kwenguva refu).
Kutozosvikira kuma50, zvaiitika munharaunda duku dziri dzoga kuti kana mufambi aitsvaka pokugara, mwanasikana mukuru aipiwa kwaari somufambidzani akarara, kuti awane ropa ‘ritsva’ mukati menzanga nokudaro kudzivisa kuberekesana.
Sekuziva kwangu, zvichiri zvakajairika pakati pevarimi vemuIsaan kuti kana murume akarara nemukadzi/mwanasikana mumwe chete obva aratidza kuti hapana chimwe chaanoda naye, anofanira kubhadhara, nekuti haadi. kumuda zvimwe kana kuchengetedza.
Kana akasabhadhara, zvinoonekwa serudzi rwechibharo. Pamwe pacho murume anosara voita mwana. Vamwe varume vanopa tsigiro shomanene kana kuti havaitiri tsigiro kuvadzimai vavo navana, ndokuzoenda gare gare.
Mukadzi uyu ave mumiriri wevatorwa, nekuti varume vazhinji veThai havadi mukadzi ane mwana.
Vamwe vangafunga kuti uku kutaura kwakashinga, asi kazhinji mukadzi anoredza uye anobata flounder. Muchidimbu, muripo wekusada kana kusakwanisa kuchengetedza uye wozobhadhara kamwe chete, izvo zvatingadaidza kuti chipfambi, zvakadzika mutsika yezvimwe zvikamu zvevanhu muNE Thailand.
Urombo nedzidzo yakashata ndizvo zvinonyanya kuita izvi.
A cliché: yagara iripo, uye haugone kuimisa.
Maitiro akanyanya kuomarara haazvimise, asi anofamba. Vakadzi vanofanirwa kuchengetedzwa, nekuti hazvibvumidzwe nekusaziva.
Pfambi dzinowanzova nemamwe mabasa, asi ibasa rakaoma uye rine mari shoma. Pfambi dzinowanzosarudza "nyore" uye nokukurumidza kuwana mari. Kungofanana nevarume vanosarudza basa rinobhadhara zviri nani.
Kana mukadzi akasarudza chipfambi, asi zvinopesana zvachose nekuda kwake, saka zviri nani arege.
Kungofanana nemurume. Kana basa rako rakakuomera, ita chimwe chinhu. Nekudaro, chokwadi ndechekuti basa riri nani hariwanzo kuwanikwa…
Pfambi zhinji dzinopinda basa iri nekuti dzinongoda kuita izvi kwenguva yakati rebei. Vachimirira kuti zvikwereti zvavo zvibhadharwe uye kuti vawane rimwe basa.
Asi kunewo avo vanoita chipfambi kwenguva yakareba sezvinobvira, nokuti vanoedza kuwana mufaro uye pfungwa dzakanaka mubasa ravo.
Sezvinongoita varume nevakadzi vanoedza “kunakidzwa” nebasa ravo zvakanyanya sezvinobvira.
Mushandi womumugwagwa anogona kuwana mufaro mubasa rake.
Munyori webhangi anogona kuwana mufaro mubasa rake.
Hure rinogona kuwana mufaro mubasa raro.
Hupenyu inonetsa.
Hmm (hypothetical kana kwete? Ndine mubvunzo kwauri).
Mumwe muenzaniso. Izvi zvinomanikidzwa here kana kuti kwete?
Muvakidzani wangu wechiDutch (mumwe munhu anogara pasi pemugwagwa kubva kwandiri) anozvirumbidza pane waanoziva uye kuti vane motokari huru.
Vadaidze Anton, Piet naHenk
Henk is real estate magnate uye akaroora aine vana uye chinonakidza chake vakadzi vakanaka nemota.
Piet ndimuzvinabhizimusi wepasirese akaroorawo aine vana uye ane vakadzi vakanaka sechido chekutandara.
Anton haana kuroorwa uye ane mari yekare uye anoita chimwe chinhu chinoshamisa nemiti (munhu wose anozviziva) uye zvechokwadi vakadzi vakanaka sechido.
Saka muvakidzani anogara aine varume uye/kana kubuda kunze kwevhiki kuenda kuNice, Monaco, Milan, Paris, Singapore, Hong Kong, Thailand, etc. Oh uye zvechokwadi nendege yepachivande ye1 yevatatu.
Handisati ndamboona munhu ane pfuti yekumumanikidza kuti auye. Kwete, anorongedza sutukesi yake nemufaro uye sezviri pachena anopinda muMercedes, Bentley kana Rolls Royce.
Inyaya yekumanikidzirwa chihure here semunyaya yekutanga kana kuti angori mia noi pavazhinji??
Hongu, uye hakuna munhu munharaunda anomuzvidza. Kwete saizvozvo.
Moderator: kubva zvino ndapota namatira kuThailand. Kuenzanisa neNetherlands hakuna basa.
Chii chinondirova pamusoro peThailandblog paunotaura nezvechipfambi muThailand ndechekuti tsananguro inokurumidza kuderedzwa kuita pfungwa dzinogoneka. Izvi zvinogona kuverengwa, semuenzaniso, mumhinduro kubva @Chris pamusoro. Chihure sechinhu chinomutsa mubvunzo chinorondedzerwa sechiito chisina mhosva chekurara nemukadzi anoda kuwana mari, pasina kubvumirana uye kugutsikana. Iwe uri kutaura nezve pfungwa dzisina mhosva apo mukadzi ari kutaurwa anomira paari. Asi handizvo zvechipfambi zvachose. Zviya zvekungovatana zvisina basa hazvinei nechipfambi. Kana musikana wako aziva chete ndipo mubvunzo unozobvunzwa kuti wanga uripi. Uye zvino zvinozoitika kuti hazvisi zvisina mhosva uye zvekuzvidira sezvakataurwa.
Mutsanangudzo inogamuchirwa inogamuchirwa yechipfambi, nzira dzose idzi dzakataurwa, uye kunyanya mienzaniso yose mune inenge mhinduro dzose dziri pamusoro, inowira pasi pemusoro unoti: basa repabonde rinobhadharwa. Munhu anoita zvechipfambi haasati ave hure, uye kuita bonde kuti mubhadharwe hazvirambidzwe mumutemo chero upi zvawo wenyika ipi zvayo, kana zvisiri pamutemo, zvinorangwa kana kuparwa mhosva. Kwete kunyange muEU. Zvinhu zvinoshanduka kana basa repabonde richishandiswa, semuenzaniso kuburikidza nedzimba dzepfambi, dzimba dzemasaji, mabhawa egogo, nezvimwewo, pane zvekutengesa; mushure mezvo kuita zvepabonde kunotsanangurwa zvakare sechipfambi. Chipfambi chinova mhosva kana chinosanganisira kushandisa zvisiri pamutemo, kubhinya, kutengesa zvinodhaka, kuparwa kwemhosva kana mhirizhonga.
Nemhaka yokuti chipfambi chiri kuonekwa zvishoma nezvishoma sechisimba chinoitirwa vakadzi muEU, zvikurukuru neSweden, Great Britain uye nguva pfupi yapfuura France (nzvimbo yezvose zviri zviviri UN neCouncil of Europe), “upfambi” huri kudzorwawo zvakasimba. . Netherlands neBelgium, nyika mbiri dzinozivikanwa nematunhu matsvuku, dzichatevera munguva pfupi.
Chihure chinova chitsotsi kana paine kutengeswa kwevanhu, vana vadiki, chipfambi chevana, kushandiswa, kutsakatika, kushaya rusununguko, huranda, kumanikidzwa. Mukufambirana negwaro iri, zvinonzi zvikamu gumi nechimwe kubva muzana zvepfambi zvinoratidza kuti vanozvipira kuita basa ravo. MuThailand, chipfambi chinhu chinowanzoitika. Pfambi dzinofungidzirwa kuti miriyoni 11 dzinopinzwa basa, avo 2,8 miriyoni vanhukadzi, kana kuti 2% yehuwandu hwevanhukadzi vanoshanda. Zvinorambidzwawo. Ndokusaka ichivanda kuseri kwefacade yemagadheni edoro, go-go uye karaoke mabara, masaja parlors. Nokudaro yakawana chitarisiko chevaraidzo.
Kune vanenge vakadzi vose ava, urombo chikonzero chekushanda muchipfambi, kunze kwekushayikwa kwemikana yezvidzidzo uye tarisiro yeramangwana. Vakadzi vakawanda vanobva kumarudzi amakomo uye vanotumwa kuti vawane mari yokuchengeta mhuri. Kutengeswa kwevanhu nechipfambi chevana zvimwe zvinhu zvinotsanangura kuwanda kwepfambi. Muna 2007 vanofungidzirwa kuti vasikana 60.000 XNUMX
Thailand haichave nechikamu chechipfambi kwenguva yakareba, asi indasitiri yepabonde yakazara.
Mubvunzo uri muchinyorwa: kubhadhara bonde imhando yemhirizhonga, inofanirwa kupindurwa nehongu inonzwika kana iwe ukawana bonde riri mubvunzo muindasitiri yebonde reThai.
Saka ini,
Ah, ndizvo zvandaiva ndakamirira! 2.8 miriyoni pfambi muThailand? Nhamba kubva kune mumwe purofesa paChulalongkorn University. Mamirioni maviri emadzimai, huyai.
Kune mamirioni makumi matatu evakadzi muThailand, avo 30 miriyoni vari muzera rakakodzera remakore gumi nemasere kusvika makumi matatu nemashanu. Ipapo chikamu chimwe muzvitatu chezera iroro chaizova muupfambi! Nonsense, asi inokodzera zvinoshamisa nezvandakanzwa kubva kune vazhinji vekunze: 'mukadzi wese weThai ari kutengeswa'.
Kufungidzira kuri nani kuri muna Pasuk Phongpaichit et all., Pfuti, Vasikana, Kubhejera, Ganja, Silkworm Books, 1998: pfambi mazana maviri, zvichida 200.000 muzana yevakadzi vanoshanda.
Uye mahure chete ndiwo anogona kutaura kuti kubhadhara bonde iri rudzi rwemhirizhonga.
mudiwa tina,
Mutsara wako wekupedzisira unonzwika kunzwira tsitsi, asi ndinofungidzira kuti munyori wechirevo - akapihwa sumo yake - zvinoreva ne 'chisimba' mhirizhonga iyo hurumende ingangofanira kupomera nekuranga. Uye zvino tsananguro inodiwa kune kodhi yemhosva umo mhirizhonga inotsanangurwa kuitira kuti mutongi atonge kana kubhadhara pabonde kunowira pasi peiyo tsanangudzo. Kana kuti chinyorwa chinongoverengerwa mumutemo wetsotsi unotaura kuti kubhadhara bonde mhirizhonga saka zvinorangwa. Muchiitiko chekupedzisira hurukuro yakavharwa. Hazvinei kuti iwe - sehure, sehure, semusikana wekuenda - unobvumirana nazvo here kana kuti kwete.
Kubvumirana zvachose naChris.
Zvakawanda zvinoitika muThailand kunze kwebhawa, zvakaoma kutaura kuti chii chinoumba chipfambi kana kuti kwete.
Somuenzaniso, ndinoziva mumwe musikana pano anobva kuyunivhesiti. Kana iwe ukamuudza kuti abhadhare kwemaawa mashomanana ekunakidzwa kwekurara, achasvetuka zvachose kubva paganda rake. Ukati enda kuBKK kuswera, kuswera kuhotera kunosanganisira kutandara kwemubedroom (havatauri nezvazvo, but she knows what the intention is...) wongodonha paStopping mall then hazvinetse. . Kuzvidyira pakudya, zvinhu zvishoma kubva kunzvimbo yekutenga uye nekumira neiyo pfupi-nguva motel haisi dambudziko. Izvo zvese zvinoenderana nekuti waisa twist ipi pairi.
Hazvingave zviri nani here kubata nemapimps uye / kana vatengesi vevanhu? Zvinenge zvakanakira munhu wese.
Uyezve, kune chokwadi akawanda mabasa anorema emuviri anowanzoitwa nevarume uye zvakare imhando yemhirizhonga kumuviri. MuThailand, basa rakawanda rinoitwa nemaoko, unogona kugara uchiverenga pano nezvevashandi vekuvaka muThailand vanoshanda pasi pemamiriro ezvinhu anotyisa uye vasingabhadharwe (zvakare inzira yekumanikidza).
Chii chiri nani pane kurwadzisa muviri wako kana kuwana mumaawa mashoma izvo mumwe munhu anofanira kushandira mwedzi?
Mhirizhonga muchipfambi ichokwadi inogara isiri nyaya, asi ndinovengawo vane tsika.
Iko kune chokwadi nguva dzose kunze, izvo ndinoreva kunyanyisa pabonde nevakadzi vanobhadharwa nokuda kwayo ... kana avo vanoronga zvinhu zvakafanana kuseri kwekaunda kune varume vanoda chimwe chinhu chinopfuura pabonde, izvo zvandisingabvumirani nazvo. Asi ndinotya Kana mutengi achibatanidzwa mukuita uku, vanhu vazhinji - vakadzi nemhuri dzavo - vanova vanyajambwa nekuti raramo yavo inotadziswa kana kutorwa.Munhu anofanira kuziva kuti nzanga yeThai uye chimiro hazvisi izvo zvavanotarisira. isu zvoreva kuti chipfambi ndimo munobva mari chete, verengai madhiri nezvinodiwa...kazhinji vasikana ava ndivo vanoita zvishoma ndivo vanowana basa racho.Kunyangwe ichi chinhu chinonyadzisa, chipfambi chinofanira kuramba chiripo. .. kana huwandu hwemhosva huri kuwedzera kwete kusimuka, iyo inyaya inopupurirwa.
Ndinoshamisika kuti avo vanokudza izvi vanganzwa sei kana mwanakomana wavo kana mwanasikana wavo akazviitira chipfambi nokuda kwe iPhone itsva kana rwendo ... Iwe unonyatsofunga here kuti vasikana vechidiki vanofarira kupinda mumubhedha nemagetsi ekare? Nekuda kwehurombo kana dzvinyiriro yemhuri... Bvisa kutengeserana ikoko.
Zvinonyatsofungwa kuti chipfambi chinosanganisira mhirizhonga muzviitiko zvakawanda. Ini ndinongoda kuwedzera chimwe chinhu kubva pane zvakaitika kwandiri semutorwa mumusha wangu une hurombo kuchamhembe kweThailand.
Vamwe vakadzi vakaenda kuJapan neKorea. Kana tichigona kutaura zvemhirizhonga, imhirizhonga yakaonekwa. Hapana anonyatsotenda kuti zvimiro zvekushanda ipapo zvakapedzwa vasingadi.
Chikamu chakakosha chepwere dzechirume mumusha mangu vakapinda kana kusarudza indasitiri yezvepabonde yakawanda muChiangmai, mune dzimwe nguva muBangkok nemataundi emahombekombe. Vanozviona sevakomana vane hunyanzvi, vanoshandisa mikana inomuka, vanozviona sevatambi kana sevanoshuvira vatambi. Ini ndinovaona senge bisexual kana pansexual, asi kunyanya sevechidiki vasina kukwanisa kutevera nzira yehumambo yedzidzo uye kugadzirira kwehunyanzvi. Mushure memakore akati wandei vanobatana zvisina musono mumusha, sevarume, vanababa uye vatambi venhabvu veSvondo. Nyaya dzavo ndinodziziva kuburikidza nekamuri resnooker kumba kwedu, kwavanotaura vakasununguka, kunyangwe zvisiri zvebonde - kunze kwekuti vese vanonzwa poechai tem toea, kureva kuti, varume chaivo, kwete sisi.
Vaya vanotsanangura chisimba sekushandiswa kwesimba uye mamiriro ezvinhu vanogona kuona zviri pamusoro apa sechikonzero chekuona vechidiki sevanoshungurudzwa.
Asi ivo zvirokwazvo havazvioni vamene nenzira iyoyo.
Ndinobvuma zvizere kuti huhure hune huwandu hwakawanda hwemigumisiro yakaipa kune avo vanobatanidzwa, kunyange ini ndisingavazivi zvakanyanya.
Asi nhaurirano yaive yekuti chipfambi chinokwanisa here kutorwa seMHIRIZHONGA. Uye izvo hazvisati zvaonekwa kubva kune mhinduro kusvika parizvino.
Ndinofunga mushure mekunge kusanzwisisana kwemitauro kunogona kunge kwakapinda.
Pashure pezvose, Chirungu kutyora, kutyora, etc. mupfungwa yakafara zvinoreva kutyorwa, kutyora, uye kuti haafaniri kuva muviri.
Kushandiswa kweDutch 'chisimba', kune rumwe rutivi, kwakakodzera chete kana kune chekuita nechisimba chemuviri kana kutyisidzira kwacho.
Enzanisa: anotyora kuvimbika kwake uye: anomutyora, izvo zvinogona kushandurwa sekuti kutyora resp. kurova/
kubata chibharo.
Tinobhadhara here bonde kuti tigutse zvishuwo zvedu? Kwete! MuThailand, chipfambi inzira yerudo. Charity? Ehe saizvozvo. Tarisa, zvifunge seizvi: tiri kufamba pane imwe nzvimbo uye toona vamwe vasikana vakagara patafura. Tinofunga: Urombo! Yabatidza! Pathetic! Kubatsira! Tichaisa zvinyorwa patafura, ndapota. Musikana wacho anofara nazvo zvokuti angada kudzosera chimwe chinhu uye zvechokwadi hatigoni uye hatifaniri kuramba. Saka isu hatifanirwe kubvisa iyi fomu yechipfambi, sorry rudo, pane zvinopesana, inofanira kusimudzirwa uye ipapo urombo muIsaan huchakurumidza kupera zvachose, zvachose nekuda kwerupo rwedu!
Hungu, “kunowanzova rudzi rwechisimba” (Tino).
Ndinogara nemufaro muThailand nemukadzi akanaka uye anotapira wechiThai.
Iye ane makore 48 ini ndine 69.
Mamiriro ake ekugara achinja kubva muhurombo kuenda kune akapfuma zvakanyanya: ane imba yake, mota yake uye mukurumbira mumusha mukuru.
Ane rupo kumusha kwake (uyewo musha wangu).
Asi kazhinji ndinoshamisika kana kuri kuzvidira. (I had no choice)
Kupfuura mukana wakadaro uye nekudaro kusaita bhizinesi neni kunenge kutengesa mhuri yako.
Dzimwe nguva ndinobvunza, asi handiwane mhinduro chaiyo.
Uye musha wose unofunga kuti ndiri falang huru, hongu, ndinopedza zvishoma, dzimwe nguva ndinopa chimwe chinhu kuvana: zvinhu zviduku, asi pano zvakawanda.
Ndinofungidzira kuti handifi ndakaziva, kuti dai ndisina mari uye mari, ndaigona kuva naye. Ndizvo zvazvinoita.
Kuda, kungoda chete, ini handione zvakawanda muno muThailand.
Ndinoona zvakakosha, zvakandinakirawo.
Unondichengeta…..Ndinokuchengeta, zvinogonekawo.
Asi ichiri kutengesa muviri wako mudiki kune murume wekare akapfuma.
Uye usafunge kuti havazvizive pano, vanozviziva.
Ndinonzwisisa kusava nechokwadi pamusoro perusununguko rwekusarudza mudzimai wako angave kana asina. Neraki, hauna dambudziko kubvuma kuti zvishoma 'kusava nechokwadi' uye hauzviregi kudzora hupenyu hwako.
Kana iwe uchifunga izvi se'kutengesa muviri', unofanirwa kuziva kuti hazvisi zvega. Kubatsira kwezvinhu kunowanzoita basa, zvakare munyika yedu yekuMadokero. Somuenzaniso, muenzaniso iwoyo wakaisvonaka ungadai wakafarirawo zvino yava murume wake here kudai akanga achiri muvezi panzvimbo pomutambi wenhabvu anotambira mari yakawanda? Ndinoziva mhinduro …………………………
Ini handina dambudziko nazvo zvachose chero vasina kumanikidzwa kana kushungurudzwa.
Sekuona kwangu vanongozviitira kuti vawane mari yevana uye pamwe pacho
vabereki vane mari shoma kana kuti vasina.
Vezvematongerwo enyika vanofanira kuona kuti kana muThai ane vana akasiya mudzimai wake, vanofanira kubhadhara
kumukadzi nevana.
Mukuona kwangu izvi hazvisizvo muThailand.
Uye sungai mapimp nevatengesi, vakadzi ivavo ngavachengete zvavanowana
vanochida chaizvo otherwise vangadai vasiri kuita basa iroro.
Manzwiro anomhanya senguva dzose panyaya iyi. Vanhu vazhinji vanozviona zvakaderera kana varume vachishandisa (kushungurudza?) mikana muThailand. '
Vaitoda kuona vasikana vanozvipira kuRangsit vachishanda maawa gumi nemaviri pazuva mufekitari vachiunganidza marambi eToyota Vios, ivo voda kutyaira zvakare.
Chinhu chakaipa ndechekuti vasikana vakawanda havasarudze izvozvo. Zvichida vanofanira kumanikidzwa kuita izvozvo?
Pfambi muThailand haigoni kungoenzaniswa nepfambi kune imwe nzvimbo. Kune akawanda akasiyana marudzi emabrothels muThailand ane mapoka akasiyana anotangwa. Pamusoro pezvo, pane musiyano mukuru pakati pechipfambi chakanangana neThais nechipfambi chakanangana nefarang. Mamiriro ayo Mary Honeyball haazofungidzire. Akafanorongwa nemazano ake panyaya iyi.
Nhamba huru yevashandi vomubhawa vanoona basa ravo senzira yakanaka yokuonana nevatorwa vokuMadokero ndokuwana anoroora akakodzera ikoko. Izvi zvinowanzoshanda uye madzimai anofara kuti vakamboita sarudzo yebhawa.
Zvinosuruvarisa, chipfambi chinokwezva utsotsi nevanhu vakaipa. Kune chikamu chemabhawa vanobvuma kunwa, zvinodhaka uye STDs.
Kurambidza: kwete, gadzirisa uye kutonga: hongu.
Ndaigona kunyora bhuku pamusoro peizvi, nekuda kwaizvozvo ndakaona muchato wangu uchiparara uye zvino ndinogara nemhuri kubva kwaIsaan.
Rubatsiro rwevakadzi vekuAfrica vakamanikidzwa kuita basa iri muNetherlands rwakaguma nemhondi nhatu.
Madzimai akanga ataura zvakaipa pamusoro pemitemo uye vakanga vachiri kudzingwa munyika.
Pasina misoro, ivava vakavigwa vachangodzoka.
MuThailand inzira yakasiyana, chaizvoizvowo chisimba chinoparirwa nababa vevana.
Haatore mutoro weizvi.
KuNetherlands unofanira kubhadhara izvi, apa baba vanobuda mazviri.
Mae anotora vana pasi pebapiro rake uye anotanga kubata mhuka kuti awane chekudya.
Amai havaoni nzira yokubuda nayo uye vanoedza kutengesa muviri wavo nengozi yokuzoguma vava chidhakwa.
Akwegura fahrang anozvirumbidza nekuwana mukadzi ane makore makumi mana mudiki pamubhedha wake, izvo zvinopa amai imwe pfumo yepfungwa, saka imwe inwa mangwanani kuti igone kutarisira vana vavo, nokuti ndiani achazotevera.
Ndiani anogona kumupa HIV?
Haazivi, anonyemwerera asi akasuruvara.
Fahrang, funga nezvazvo kutanga usati wadzokera kuHolland nengano dzako refu, kwausingachakwanise kuwana mukadzi ane makore makumi masere.
Ratidza ruremekedzo kumukadzi akadaro uye muendese kune chimwe chinhu chaaizoda kuita.
Mupei mari yekuitira mhuri yake kumusha hapana chimwe chaanoita.
After 1 day anokumbira kuti akuone futi.
Zviite !
Iwe uchaona kuti anovimba newe, achakupa rudo rwake kwauri sekutenda mushure memazuva 1 kana maviri.
Haakukumbire mari, wobva waziva kuti anoreva.
Next time haufanirwe kutsvaga mukana wekusangana nemukadzi ane l'l mubhurugwa rake remukati.
Iwe uchaona kuremekedzwa kukuru kwauchawana kubva kumunhu wese, hauzombozvidembi.
Wakaponesa mhuri kubva muurombo.
Achagara achikutendai.
Izvo zvinopa kunzwa kuri nani pane kungosvetuka uye wapedza.
Wapedza mhirizhonga yakaitwa nababa.
Uchava neshamwari dzeupenyu hwose dzinoshuva kukuona zvakare.
Mumazuva ekutanga pandakashanyira Thailand, handina kutarisa kure kupfuura mhino dzangu uye ndakava nemafungiro ekuti Pattaya, semuenzaniso, yaive purani yeThailand.
Mugwagwa chete wandaiziva waiva pakati peBangkok airport nePattaya Beach Road.
Saka, mushanyi chaiye, usafunga nezvazvo, zvinhu zvose zvakarongwa.
Uye saka ndakapedza mavhiki ndiri pamhenderekedzo yegungwa, ndichinwa doro rakawanda, uye ndozozviitazve manheru, ndichirembera kumabhawa akawanda, ndichidya maziso angu pakunaka kwevakadzi.
Kunyangwe mufundisi akagadziridzwa angaomerwa nekusadonha pakutenda kwake, ndine chokwadi :)
Ndakatora mukadzi kubva kubhawa kuenda kukamuri yehotera kakawanda, ndakanakidzwa zvakanyanya, uye kutaura chokwadi, handina kumbobvira ndave nepfungwa yekuti pane kumanikidza kana kubiridzira kumashure kwayo.
Kunyangwe maThais ari shasha pakuvanza manzwiro avo echokwadi, ichokwadi.
Asi avo vaigara vachibata vakadzi noruremekedzo nguva dzose vaiwanazve.
Asi izvozvo zvakanga zviri kare.
Mudzimai wangu wazvino (muThai), wandaroorana naye kwemakore 15, haana dambudziko chero ripi zvaro pakuti ndiri munhu anohura nekuda kweizvi, anototi angadai akazviona zvichishamisa chaizvo dai ndisina kuzviita!
Pattaya, bye-bye-hell, anodaro.
Vanhu vokuNetherlands avo dzimwe nguva vanotaura zvisina kufanira kwandiri pamusoro petsika dzisina kuchena muThailand, ndinodawo kuvaudza nezvemazuva asingagumi ari munzvimbo dzokuurayira huku, mudzimba dzokusona dzine rima, kana kupedza maawa akawanda muzuva rinopisa mumunda wemupunga uchizvishandira iwe pachako. kune mabhati mashoma anosiririsa. , nekuti izvo zvinofanirwa kubvumidzwa? Uye isu hatitonge Netherlands nemaitiro eDe Wallen muAmsterdam, isu?
Senge ndiri kupembedza kushungurudzwa, ndozvinoita vanhu.Asi ndeupi wevanhu ava anobvunza kuti masokisi ake ezvemitambo anodhura pasherufu paWibra kana Zeeman anogadzirwa sei, uye ndiani? kanguva, o, kupenga.
Vazhinji vevakadzi ava vari kuedza kuchengeta misoro yavo pamusoro pemari mune zvemari mushure, semuenzaniso, kurambana, nevana vakamira nasekuru nasekuru kwenguva yakareba, uye voedza kukwenya pamwe chete mabhati mashoma sezvavanogona.
Izvo hazvigadzirise zvese zvakanaka, asi zvinoita kuti zvinzwisise, mumaonero angu.
Uye chero kuine madzimai ari kuita mabasa aya, pachange painewo varume vanoashandisa.Chero zvinenge zvabuda nevamwe vezvematongerwo enyika kuti vapedzisire chinhu ichi, zvinotoparara.
Usamboudza munhu wechiThai kuti ipfambi (hure). Kunyange zvazvo chiri chokwadi panheyo, havazvioni saizvozvo. Zvimwe zvakatsveyama, asi ndinoziva akati wandei evabhawa vekuThai vanoendesa vatengi kuhotera yavo manheru. Pane imwe nguva pandakavaudza kuti vaive "mahure" vakatosvotwa neni. Vakaona “machira” (Madokero) vakadzi vakagara seri kwefafitera.
Vakanga vasiri (!)
Muverengi anodiwa
Mhirizhonga uye kushandiswa hazvibvumirwi, asi zvichienzaniswa neNetherlands zviri nani zvishoma pano.
Nezvekudzidziswa, kana iwe, semubhawa, uchichengetedza mari pano, enda kuSoi 25 vhiki yega yega kuti uedze kutora chiGerman, Chirungu, computer science kana massage course.
tenga imwe nzvimbo kana kudyara munda wako nemiti yerabha mumakore mashoma, netarisiro neshamwari yakanaka.
Kutanga pane imwe nguva, saka usabheje, ipa zvese kumhuri yako, ini mafoni nezvimwe zvisina maturo.
Nguva inofadza muThailand
Peter Yai
Bvisa indasitiri yezvepabonde kure neThailand uye makumi ezviuru emhuri achawana zvishoma pane zvaanazvo izvozvi.
Nekuti ndizvo zvaizoitika kana vatengi vakabhadhariswa faindi.
Inogonawo kuonekwa sebasa revanhu. Kunze kweizvozvo kana vasikana vakasagara kure
nharaunda yekushongedza uye yevaraidzo inongomisa izvi mune ramangwana rinoonekwa, zvirinani muchimiro sezvataizviziva kwemakore. Iye zvino zvese zvakasununguka uye zvakavhurika, asi ko kana?
Bart.
Mushure memakore ese muThailand, ndakaona uye ndikataura nevasikana vechiThai vanoshanda mumabhawa e "farangs" vanoshanda ipapo pamubhadharo uri pakati pe4.0000 ne6.000 yekugezera uye vanofanirwa kuwana imwe yakasara pakati pemashiti ... Uye mutengi achiri kufanira kubhadhara bar.faindi yeanenge 600 yekugeza kuti akwanise kutora musikana ... Ndivanaani chaivo vari vabati vechisimba chaivo pano ... Hongu, vashandi vemabhawa ... Vanoita pfuma pa nhamo yevasikana vaya... Mapipi chaiwo....