Ndiani anodya chingwa, ane shoko rinotaurwa

Ndakabva ndangofunga tsumo yechiDutch iyi pandakaronga kunyora nyaya yekutsigira. MuchiDutch zvinoreva kuti: munhu anobata kumeso uye anokudza avo vanovimba navo kana kuti vanogona kutarisira kubatsirwa. Ruzivo rwangu rweThai haruna kukwana kuti ndizive kana paine chirevo chakafanana muThai asi handingashamisike. Muchinyorwa chino ndichaedza kutsanangura kuti kune hurongwa hwekutsigira muThailand uye kuti izvi zvinoreva zvinopfuura kungobata kumeso uye kukudza vanhu vanotsamira pavari.

Muenzaniso 1 (chokwadi)

Mumwe akapfuma muridzi weThai wemafekitari akati wandei mumaindasitiri akasiyana (zvekurima, fashoni, zvigadzirwa zverunako) anotyaira mhando yake itsva Mercedes-Benz panzvimbo yefekitori rimwe zuva kuti apinde musangano wepamwedzi weboka remaneja. Panguva imwecheteyo, maneja (wekune imwe nyika) wefekitari anopakawo Toyota yake.

Anobuda, anoona Benz itsva (rezinesi dzvuku) ndokuti kumuridzi: mota itsva yakanaka. Unonyatsoda here, anobvunza muridzi. Hongu, akanaka chaizvo, maneja anopindura. Muridzi weThai anotambidza makiyi eMercedes nyowani ndokuti: yave yako kubva zvino zvichienda mberi. Ndichatenga imwe masikati ano.

Muenzaniso 2 (chokwadi)

Wandaimboshanda naye (Thai) akashanda kweanopfuura makore makumi matatu kumuridzi mumwechete weThai (wemahotera, chipatara uye akati wandei makambani ebasa sekuchengetedza), munzvimbo dzakasiyana siyana: mubatsiri wekushambadzira, mukuru weHuman Resources uye general maneja. Nekudaro, wandaimboshanda naye aida chaizvo kudzidzisa (nguva yakazara) kuyunivhesiti.

Mukana uyu pawakauya, akateterera muridzi weThailand akapfuma kuti amuregedze (zvisinei nemuhoro wake we150.000 baht pamwedzi). Nokuzengurira, muridzi wacho akamurega achienda nechigadziro chokuti aigona nguva dzose kumushanyira kana aimuda munhau dzevashandi, unyanzvi hwake.

Izvi zvisati zvaitika, muThai akagadza aimboshanda neni kubhodhi revatariri vemakambani ake uye akaenderera mberi nekubhadhara kwake kwemwedzi (ikozvino kwete muhoro asi semuripo wekuwanikwa) pasina chikumbiro chemumwe wangu. Pose paifona muridzi webasa, mumwe wangu aimhanyira kumotokari yake uyezve kwaaishanda. Haana kukwanisa kuti kwete.

Muenzaniso 3 (chokwadi)

Munin'ina weaimbova musikana wangu mumwe wevarume vaya vekuThai avo - mushure mekupedza kudzidza kubva kuyunivhesiti - vakave muzvinabhizimisi akabudirira. Achibva kumhuri yakajairika kumaodzanyemba kweThailand, akashanda nzira yake uye iye zvino ane kambani ine vashandi makumi matatu uye anowana mari yakawanda.

Apo aichimbova musikana wangu (asati andiziva) akanga ane ziso rake paimba itsva, akakumbira mukoma wake kuti auye nokuda kwokuona uye kurukurirano nomwene. Yaive imba yakanaka and my ex akabva atoda imba yacho. Nekudaro, mutengo (ungangoita mamirioni maviri baht) waive pamusoro pebhajeti rake. Munin'ina wake paakamubvunza kuti aida imba yacho zvechokwadi here achibva apindura kuti hongu, akabudisa cheki yake mumotokari, akanyora cheki ndokupa ex yangu. Akaverenga mari inosvika miriyoni imwe baht. Iwe unofanirwa kubhadhara yasara iwe pachako, akadaro.

Gare gare, pandakazomuziva, ndakaziva kuti akanga ava nemusikana kwemakore anoverengeka (kunze kwomudzimai wake) uye kuti aipedza kupera kwevhiki kwakawanda naye (aiudza mudzimai wake kuti akanga ari parwendo rwebhizimisi). Ndakataura nyaya iyi naex wangu ndikamupawo maonero angu. Ndakamuudza kuti handifungi kuti izvozvo zvakanga zvisina kunaka kuna mukoma wake.

Ainge azivawo nezverwendo rwake nemumwe mukadzi kwemakore uye 'chokwadi' hapana chaakamboudza muramu wake. Zvisinei haana kuda kunzwa kutsoropodzwa kwehanzvadzi yake. Akanga ari murume akanaka (akanga amupa, kwete mudzimai wake, Toyota Corolla ane makore mashanu okukura paakatenga motokari itsva) uye mudzimai wake akanga asingamutarisi zvakanaka, aigara akatsamwa uye aigara achingorwa. Ndosaka aive nemumwe mukadzi.

Chinokosha chekutsigira isimba repfungwa pane mumwe munhu

Ndakasarudza iyi mienzaniso nekuti ndeyechokwadi kuhupenyu, inoitika chaizvo muhupenyu hwezuva nezuva muThailand uye nekuti ivo - mumaonero angu - vanonyatso tora kukosha kwechii chekutsigira. Kwandiri, chinhu chinonyanya kukosha hakusi kuremekedza munhu ane simba munzanga, asi pesvedzero yepfungwa iyo mumwe munhu ane simba rakawanda nemari anogona kuita kune mumwe munhu: muridzi pavashandi vake, maneja pamudonzvo wake, hama yakapfuma dzimwe nhengo dzemhuri, (sekuru) vabereki kuvana.

Izvi zvinoitwa nekubhadhara zvimiro (semuenzaniso pamwedzi) kana mibairo pano neapo kune 'vari pasi' iyo isingaenderane nekuita kunopihwa kana neakapihwa mubairo. Imwe inoita kuti ari pasi atsamire kwete zvakanyanya mune zvemari asi mupfungwa. Ini handingati huori uhu, asi kuti 'hutapwa hwepfungwa'. Anogamuchira mubairo haachanzwi akasununguka zvachose kupindura kune anopa 'pasina mutoro kana kubvunzana'.

• Maneja ane Mercedes itsva yemahara haadi kushora muridzi kana akauya nemazano matsva (pamwe asingagoneki).
• Wandaishanda naye akabva angosiya basa rake apo murume waaishanda makore makumi matatu apfuura akafona kuti huya ZVINO.
• Aimbova wangu haana kumboudza mukoma wake kuti haaizobvumira hupombwe kubva kwandiri uye naizvozvo kubva kwaari.

20 muzana yemhuri dzeThai dzine 70 muzana yemidziyo yese

Imwe yemamiriro ekunze anofarira kushanda kweiyi patronage system inyaya yekuti simba NE mari munharaunda yeThai yakanyudzwa muhuwandu hushoma hwemhuri, kana kuti ma network (ona chinyorwa changu chakapfuura). Ndiko, ndinofunga, zvishoma munzanga dzekuMadokero. MuThailand, 20 muzana yemhuri dzine 70 muzana yepfuma yose munyika ino (mari, ivhu, zvivakwa, makambani, migove).

Uye: nekuda kwekukura (hupfumi) kubudirira mumakumi matatu emakore apfuura, kusaenzana uku hakuna kuderera, asi kwakawedzera. Verenga zvinyorwa nezve kusaenzana kwemari muThailand uye tarisa huwandu hwepa internet. Vapfumi muThailand vari kuwedzera kupfuma, varombo vari kuwedzera zvishoma, asi mukaha pakati pevaviri uri kuwedzera. Kukwidza muhoro wepasi hakuna zvakunobatsira.