Kenduru mumvura
Pamusoro pedambudziko riri kukura renhumbu dzevachiri kuyaruka dzisingadiwe Tairendi.
Anofarira kuverenga uye ari kuita zvakanaka kusekondari. Manee, musikana wechikoro ane makore gumi nematanhatu anobva kutaundi riri mudunhu reChiang Rai, saka anofanirwa kuve nehupenyu hwekusava nehanya. Asi zvinosuruvarisa, handizvo. Manee ndiye anotarisira mwana wake ane mwedzi miviri, ana baba vanodzidza pachikoro chimwe chete chesekondari.
Mumwe muenzaniso unosuruvarisa wemigumisiro yebonde risina dziviriro ishamwari yaManee ine makore 15 okuberekwa, iyo yakafa gore rakapera pashure pokubatwa chibharo nababa vake vokurera vaiva neHIV.
Iyi ingori mienzaniso miviri yedambudziko rakakura uye riri kukura munharaunda yeThai.
Mimba dzevachiri kuyaruka dzisingadiwe
Maererano neongororo ichangobva kuitwa pakati pevana vanotambura munharaunda yekuchamhembe kweThailand, inopfuura 70% yemimba isingadiwi inoitika pakati pevasikana vane makore 15 kusvika ku19. Kusimbisa kukomba kwedambudziko iri, zvinofanirwa kucherechedzwa kuti gore rapfuura Thailand yaive yechipiri pasi rose mushure meSouth Africa ine nhamba yepamusoro yenhumbu dzepwere dzisingadiwe.
“Vanofanira kuenda kuchikoro kuti vawane dzidzo pane kubata pamuviri,” anodaro Sunan Samriamrum, wesangano rinobatsira vana vane dambudziko iri rinonzi Plan International. “Zvisinei, hazviite kuti vanasikana ivavo vadzokere kuchikoro kunyangwe vakarega kuyamwisa. Vanofanira kutsvaga basa kuti variritire mhuri yechidiki.”
Dzidziso dzepabonde
Kudzivirira nhumbu dzisingadiwe dzepwere, iyo Pad Foundation, sangano riri pasi peThai Health Promotion Foundation (THPF), yakatanga chirongwa chemamiriyoni mapfumbamwe ebhaht muna 2008. Chinangwa ndechekuwedzera ruzivo rwevadzidzi nezve dambudziko iri riri kukura.
Chirongwa chinodaidzwa kuti "Kusvika Kwandiri" chinotarisa kutanga dzidzo yepabonde inoshanda muzvikoro zvepuraimari nesekondari nenzira yehurukuro, mabhurocha uye firimu rekudzidzisa. Ruzivo kuburikidza nenhepfenyuro dzakasiyana-siyana zvakare chikamu chepurojekiti. MuBangkok nenzvimbo dzakatenderedza munhu anogona kutaura nezve imwe budiriro, asi iyo Pad Foundation ikozvino yaifanira kudzikamisa zviitiko zvayo nekuda kwekushaikwa kwebhajeti. Plan International parizvino yazivisa kuda kwayo kuenderera mberi nekutsigira chirongwa ichi uye ndiyo yava mutsigiri mukuru.
Kubvisa pamuviri kusiri pamutemo
Kunyange zvazvo vanaamai vaduku zvikuru vachifanira kutarisirwa, kunewo nhamba huru yevasikana vechikoro vakabvisa pamuviri pachivande. Boka iri rinodawo kutarisirwa. “Vasikana vanobvisa pamuviri zvisiri pamutemo vanogona kutambura nedambudziko remuviri nepfungwa. Vamwe vanogona kutorasikirwa nekukwanisa kwavo kuita vana uye kufarira kwavo hukama hunogona kuitika nevarume, "akadaro Benjaporn Juntapoon, mukoti kubva kuHealth Promotion department reMaechan Hospital mudunhu reChiang Rai.
Kubva pamakore ake echiitiko nebasa iri, anoti izvi hazvisi zve "Vasikana Vakashata". Ivo vadzidzi vakajairwa, kazhinji vane zvibodzwa zvakanaka zvedzidzo, vanowira murudo voita nhumbu.
Shame
Benjaporn anoti vasikana vacho vainyanya kuvimbwa nevabereki vavo. Pavakangopinda mudambudziko, vainyara kutaura nevabereki vavo nezvazvo. Panzvimbo pezvo, vanotendeukira kushamwari dzavo navanodzidza navo, avo kazhinji kazhinji vasingapfuuri zano rokubvisa pamuviri pakiriniki “isiri pamutemo”.
Kuwanda kwepamuviri kusingadiwi kunogona kunzi kune zvinhu zvakawanda. Hwaro ndeyokuti “kuyaruka kwomuviri” kunoitika kare zvikuru kupfuura kare. Dzimwe nguva vasikana vanenge vatobereka pazera remakore 8 kana 9. Kunyange vasati vava nenguva yavo yokutanga,” anodaro CJ Hinke, mumwe wevatangi ve“Freedom Against Censorship Thailand (FACT).
Chikonzero chechipiri ndechekuti "dzidziso yezvepabonde uye kudzivirira kubata pamuviri haisi chikamu chezvidzidzo zvemazuva ano, kunyangwe zvichifanira kuve zvinosungirwa," akadaro Sunan.
Basa revabereki
Chokwadika, vabereki vanoitawo basa rinokosha nemhaka yokuti, kana vakatongodaro, vanozengurira zvikuru kutaura kuvana vavo pamusoro peiyi nhau. “Ndinonzwisisa kuti chimwe chinhu chakadai hachisi nyore kuvabereki, asi hakusi kuchenjera kunyarara nezvazvo,” anodaro Hinke.
Hakusi chete kunyara uye kunyara kwevaThai, asi vabereki havatarise zvakakwana kuvana vavo zvakadaro. “Vabereki vanhasi vakabatikana zvikuru nebasa ravo noupenyu hwavo vamene. Matambudziko evana haaonekwe kana kufuratirwa,” akadaro Benjaporn weMaechan Hospital. “Dzimwe nguva vabereki ndivo vokupedzisira kuziva kuti vanasikana vavo vane pamuviri.”
Hinke akataura kuti zvisinei nenyadzi, nzanga yose inofanira kuva yakazaruka pakudzivirira kubata pamuviri uye kubvisa pamuviri. “Kubvisa pamuviri hakusi kuuraya. Vana vasingadiwe vanosangana neramangwana rakaoma,” vakadaro.
HIV kana Aids
Kuwedzera pakuwanda kwenhumbu dzevachiri kuyaruka dzisina kurongwa, imwe nhamba inotyisa yePlan International inoratidza kuti 85% yevanaamai vadiki havana hanya neHIV kana AIDS, izvo zviri kuita kuti boka iri riwedzere panjodzi.
Kuita chimwe chinhu pamusoro peizvi, Plan International inoda kudzidzisa vadzidzi mazana mashanu muzvikoro gumi kuchamhembe kweThailand gore rino. Vanofanira kubatsira kukurudzira bonde rakachengetedzeka pakati pevechidiki. Diki-mwero chokwadi, asi inenge nhanho munzira kwayo.
Urombo
Mashoko anobva kuChiang Rai Hospital anoratidza kuti mumwedzi mitanhatu, vasikana vanopfuura chiuru vari pasi pemakore makumi maviri vakasunungukira kuchipatara. Kunyangwe mutemo weThai uchibvumidza vasikana vakazvara kudzokera kuchikoro, izvi hazviwanzo kuitika. Chekutanga, hurombo ndihwo hunoita kuti vanasikana ava vashande kuti vadyise vana vavo. Chimwe chikonzero inzvimbo yakakosha yemagariro. “Vapedza kusununguka ndipo pavanoita makuhwa pakati pevanodzidza navo uye vanonyara kudzokera kuchikoro. Vanofungirwawo pamusha, kunyanya kana paine musikana wedzinza diki.”
Mhando dzese dzeruzivo nerubatsiro rwunopihwa nechirongwa che “Kumusoro Kwandiri” zvine chinangwa chekunyengerera vasikana vadiki kuti muyedzo wekuita bonde vasina dziviriro nevakomana vavo chiito chekukasika uye chisingatarisirwi. Zvakafanana nekubatidza kenduru mu mvura. Usati wadziya, inotota uye inobuda.
Chinyorwa chazvino kubva kuBangkok Post chakashandurirwa kuita yakapfupikiswa fomu naGringo.
Nyaya yakanaka, yandingati "Chitendero chinoparadza kupfuura iwe unoda". Nekuda kwechitendero uye nekudaro pesvedzero dzetsika, kunyangwe kuita sarudzo yekubvisa pamuviri hazvigoneke.
Pamusoro pezvo, chitendero netsika zvinokonzeresa mafungiro ekuti “Kusvika kwauri” uye “Mai pen rai” uye “Kana iri nguva yangu saka inguva yangu saka handifanire kuzvidzivirira”.
Kurwisana nekuparara kwedzidzo yakaipa nechitendero, ndinoshuvira munhu wese simba. Asi kunyange kana paine munhu mumwe chete ane upenyu huri nani, zvakakodzera.
Chang Noi
Zvakanaka, chitendero…'Chitendero chine ngozi nekuti chinobvumira vanhu vasina mhinduro dzese kufunga kuti vanazvo. Vanhu vazhinji vangafunga kuti zvinofadza kana mumwe munhu achiti, “Ndinoda, Ishe! Ndichaita chero zvamunoda kuti ndiite!” Kunze kwekuti sezvo pasina vamwari vari kutaura nesu, kushaya ikoko kunozadzwa nevanhu vane huwori hwavo nemiganhu uye zvirongwa. Uye chero munhu anokuudza kuti anoziva, anongoziva zvinoitika kana ukafa, ndinokuvimbisa, havazivi. Ndingava sei nechokwadi kudaro? Nokuti handizivi, uye havana masimba epfungwa andisina. Mafungiro akakodzera ekuti munhu ave nawo pamusoro pemibvunzo mikuru haisi iyo yekuzvitutumadza chitupa chinova chiratidzo chechitendero, asi kupokana. Kusava nechokwadi kuzvininipisa, uye ndizvo zvinofanira kuva munhu, tichifunga kuti nhoroondo yevanhu inongova uwandu hwekuita zvakaipa. Kudai wanga uri webato rezvematongerwo enyika kana kirabhu inoshamwaridzana yakabatana nerusaruro, kuvenga vakadzi nevarume, kuvenga ngochani, mhirizhonga, uye kusaziva sechitendero, waibva wabuda mukuratidzira. Kuita zvakasiyana ndiko kuva mugonesi, mudzimai wemafia.' – Bill Maher, Zvechitendero
Zvinhu zviviri zvakandibata mumeseji iyi:
1: Kune rimwe divi rinoti: “Vanofanira kuenda kuchikoro pane kubata pamuviri.” ukuwo kune rumwe rutivi kuchinzi: “Vadzidzi venguva dzose vanopinda murudo ndokuva nepamuviri.”
Parizvino hapasati pave kubvumirana pamusoro peboka riri panjodzi.
2: "Nheyo (yehuwandu hwepamuviri) inyaya yekuti "kuyaruka kwemuviri" kunoitika kare kupfuura kare. Dzimwe nguva vasikana vanenge vatobereka pazera remakore 8 kana 9.”
Izvi zvinopa pfungwa yekuti zvagara zvichiitwa kuti vanasikana vemakore masere kana 8 vaite bonde, asi zvave kungoonekwa sedambudziko nekuti zvinoita kuti vabate pamuviri.
Zvakanaka, chii chaunofanira kuita pamusoro pazvo?
Kuparadzanisa zvikoro zvevakomana nevasikana uyewo kuchengeta vana vakaparadzana kunze kwemaawa echikoro? Hazvisi kuzoitika.
Isa mari mupurojekiti apo vana vane makore manomwe vanopiwa ruzivo uye vanofanira kunetseka nezveHIV/AIDS?
Hazvina kunyanya kuitika kana.
Wobva wabvumira kubvisa pamuviri zviri pamutemo, zvisinei nekuti zvinogumbura sei, ndinofunga.
Chinhu chechitatu chete:
3: “Nzira dzese dzeruzivo nerubatsiro rwechirongwa che“Up to Me” dzakanangana nekuita kuti VASIKANA vechidiki vabvume kuti muedzo wekurara nevakomana vavo vasina kuzvidzivirira chiitiko chekukasika uye hachina basa.
Zvinogona kuve zvakanaka kutarisa 50% yeruzivo pakunyengetedza (vadiki) VAKOMANA kuti hazvina basa kurara nemusikana wavo vasina dziviriro. Kana musikana akadzidza kuThai nemukomana wechiThai asingazive chinhu nezvekufuridza kana kufuridza vakapedzisira vava pamubhedha, hazvigoneke kuti kondomu rishandiswe. Uyezve, hazvisisiri zvemazuva ano kuisa mutoro uye hunhu hwekumanikidza hwekuita rudo pamusikana chete.
@fransamsterdam: Ndakadudzira nyaya kubva kuThe Bangkok Post uye ndinobvuma kuti mamwe mitsara yakavhurika kududziro mbiri dzakasiyana.
1. Ndinofunga kuti unofanira kuverenga mutsara wekutanga wawatora seizvi: musikana anoita pamuviri haachaendi kuchikoro. Saka zvakanaka kuti asaite pamuviri aenderere mberi nechikoro.
2. Chokwadi chokuti kuyaruka kwenyama kuri kuoneka kare uye kare chinhu chatinozivawo muNetherlands. Ini handisi nyanzvi, asi kana ndikataura nezvangu, chokwadi ndati kurei, hazvina kumbobvira zvaitika kwandiri mumakore angu ekuyaruka kurara nemusikana. Bonde rangu rekutanga? Ndinofanira kunge ndaiva nemakore 18 kana 19 uye zvasiyana mazuva ano, handizvo here?
3. Ndinokahadzika kuti vana vane makore 8 ne9 vagara vatosangana pabonde here, asi ruzivo rwezvimwe zvinhu harugoni kukanganisa boka iroro. Mwanakomana wangu ane makore 11 okukura achangoyaruka uye ari kutanga kubvunza mibvunzo nezvenyaya iyi nguva nenguva.
4. Mukuona kwangu, hapana chikonzero chekukurukurirana kuti panofanira kuva nemutemo wakanaka uye unotarisirwa (wepamutemo) wekubvisa pamuviri zviri pamutemo. Zvechokwadi zvinodikanwa, kana zvisingadiwi!
5. Nyaya iri pamusoro penhumbu dzisingadikanwi nokudaro zvine musoro kuti vasikana vaunzwe nedanidziro iyi. Kana vakanyatsoziviswa uye vane chokwadi nezvematambudziko anogona kuitika, unotarisira kuti vacharamba vachiti "Kwete" kuvakomana uye ipapo zvakawanda zvichave zvawanikwa.
6. Kana “chiito chokukasika uye chokusatarisira” chikaitwa nemukomana nemusikana, musikana anosara aine migumisiro yacho. Ndosaka chirongwa ichi chakanangana nevanasikana.
7. Chokwadi ndinobvumirana nemi chose kuti vakomana vezera rimwe chete vanofanirawo kuudzwa zvakafanira.
Frans, ndakashandura nyaya yacho ndokuiisa pabhurogu, nokuti ndinoona kufambirana neatinongodaidza kuti “mubhawa”. Ava kazhinji vasikana vakambova mumamiriro ezvinhu akafanana, vanobata pamuviri uye baba vanonzvenga mutoro. Anogara nemwana uye anogona kugadzirisa dambudziko. Pamwe, zvirinani ndinovimba, iyi nyaya ichabatsira zvishoma pakunzwisisa kwakawanda.
Hongu, ini kazhinji uye ndinowedzera kutsamwiswa nenzira inozvidza iyo "vasikana vebhawa" inotaurwa pamusoro payo, shure kwezvose, havasi vose vari - sezvinotaurawo nyaya - "vasikana vakaipa".
Ini pachangu, ndinofunga nzira iyo nzanga yeThai inobata vechidiki ingangoita rezinesi rekuti vechidiki varara. Uye paunotanga, unogona kukanganwa nezve kondomu. Kunwa mapiritsi kunoratidzika kunge kwakaomerawo vasikana vechidiki vakawanda. Ndosaka mwanasikana weshamwari yedu yepamwoyo paakatanga kuyaruka uye akatanga kuteerera vakomana, ndakakurudzira kubaya mwanasikana wacho jekiseni. MuNetherlands anganzi achiri mudiki pane izvozvo, ndinofunga. Mwanasikana iye zvino ane hukama hwakagadzikana uye haana vana. Sezvineiwo, mukomana wake anofungawo kuti ivo vachiri vadiki kwazvo kuti vadaro. Nekuti havasi vese vana vanozvarwa netsaona, kunewo vasikana vechidiki vazhinji "vanowana mucheche akadaro akanaka" uye vanosarudza kubata pamuviri pasina ruzivo rwemukomana wavo. Zvine musoro kuti mukomana wako anobva ati "Bye".
Chang Noi
@Chang Noi: kutaura kwako kwekutanga kunogona kunge kuri kwechokwadi. Ndosaka zvakare mushandirapamwe "Kusvika kwandiri" wakatangwa kushandura izvi. Chinjo mundangariro naizvozvo inoshuviwa munharaunda iyoyo uye inzvimbo ipi iri nani yokutanga kupfuura nepwere.
Pachine basa rakawanda rinofanira kuitwa munzvimbo iyi, kusanganisira muThailand
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Chimwe chinhu chakaitika zvakare svondo rino muIsaan, vazukuru vemukadzi wangu 2 vanogara chinhambwe chinhambwe kubva kwatiri muimba nyowani (amai vanoshanda kuPattaya).
Imba yacho iri pedyo nepamba pehanzvadzi yaamai (tete vavo), kuti varambe vakatarira
kuchengeta ziso kune 2 vasikana vechidiki (9 uye 13 makore)
Zvino zvauya: Tete ava vane munin'ina wemurume wavo (6 years) kubva kumasvondo matanhatu apfuura
akaunzwa nokuti mudzimai wake akafa neAIDS mavhiki mashoma apfuura
mhuri inoona kuungana kunofadza kwehama nehanzvadzi huru
Nezuro mukadzi wangu akaenda kunobvunzurudza mwana wehanzvadzi yake kuti kugarisana kunomboita sei uye kuti pane zvimwe here kupfuura izvozvo. Mushure mekusimbirira kubva kumudzimai wangu, muzukuru akabvuma
kuti akarara nemurume uyu ka3. manje dambudziko hombe mwana wehanzvadzi yava imwe chete
svondo rakapera, uye mukoma (26 years) vakauya kuzogara kumusha kwedu nekuti vaiva kwavo
kumusha kwake kwakatariswa asance nekuti ane HIV.
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