Ndakaverenga kuti munguva yakapfuura vakarega basa munyika dzinopisa vakachinja kunwa nemhaka yokufinhwa uye kusuwa kumusha. Zvichiri zvakadaro here?
Pamwe mubvunzo usinganzwisisike, uye wakanyanya wega, asi ndine chokwadi chekuti handisi ndega ndinonetsekana neizvi. Ndiri kufunga kutamira kuHua Hin. Ndine vana vaviri muBelgium (makore 19 ne21). Wakatora danho iroro sei uchitya kushaya vana vako nevazukuru zvakanyanya? Ndinoziva, mhinduro dzinoita senge dzakasiyana kune wese munhu, asi ndichiri kuda kunzwa zviitiko zvakanaka uye zvisina kunaka. Kudemba kana kusazvidemba.
Mubvunzo wevaverengi: Mukadzi wangu wekuThai asuwa kumba, ndichazoona vana vangu zvakare?
Ndiri panguva yakaoma. Ndave ndakaroora kwemakore matatu uye ndave tichigara pamwe chete muNetherlands kweanenge makore mashanu. Tine vana vaviri. Mukomana weanenge makore 5 uye musikana wemakore matatu, vose vakazvarwa muNetherlands. Mukuwedzera kune chizvarwa cheDutch, musikana anewo Thai nyika. Mukomana chete maDutch. Mudzimai wangu haachafari muNetherlands uye anoda kudzokera kuThailand. Anoda kutora vana.
Izvo zvakaderera zvekutamira kuThailand
Kana iwe ukataura kune farang anogara muThailand, iyo yakajairika runyorwa runouya senge misiyano yetsika, zvemari, matambudziko ehukama, pekugara, matambudziko evisa, nezvimwe.
Kusuwa kumusha
Mamwe mazuva mashoma uye ipapo Thailand ichave yapera kwechinguva. Ndakatiza nguva yechando muNetherlands uye zvinoshamisa kuti iko zvino chitubu chasvika ndiri kufunga kumusha. Kunyange zvazvo ndichigara ndichifarira kudzoka kumba, handisati ndambova nemanzwiro aya.
Chirevo chevhiki: Kutaura nezvekusuwa kumusha kweNetherlands kana Belgium kune taboo pakati pevanobva kunze.
Chikonzero chakakosha chekudzokera kunyika yako mushure mekutama kusuwa kumusha. Asi handiwanzonzwa munhu abva kunze kwenyika kana kuti pamudyandigere achibvuma kuti ari kusuwa kumba. Kunyara here? Saka chirevo: Kutaura nezvekusuwa kumusha kweNetherlands chinhu chinonetsa pakati pevanobva kunze.
Gringo akabatsira kuchidzidzo cheTilburg University, uko boka reprojekiti riri kuita chidzidzo chenguva refu mukusuwa uye kuzvidemba kwevanhu veDutch kunze kwenyika.
Expats uye vanoenda kune dzimwe nyika havawanzove nyaya yekutsvagisa kwesainzi. Dhipatimendi rePsychology reTilburg University rinoda kuchinja izvi. Iye achaita tsvakiridzo mukugara zvakanaka kwevanhu vechiDutch kunze kwenyika.