Kushanya kwepabonde
Tairendi inyika ine mutsa. Mamirioni evashanyi anoshanyira parera iri muSoutheast Asia gore negore. Vazhinji vevashanyi vanouya kune vanhu vane hushamwari, tsika dzakapfuma, zvinonaka zveThai cuisine uye mahombekombe anopisa.
Nekudaro, Thailand zvakare ine kukwezva kukuru kune rimwe boka revashanyi. Varume (asi vakadziwo) vanobva kumapoka emazera ose vanouya kuzoita zvepabonde zvakachipa. Mushure mezvose, kupihwa muThailand kwakakura uye kwakasiyana. Nenzira iyi iwe unogona kunyange 'kuhaya' mukadzi anokutungamira panguva yako mazororo semusikana wako. Pfungwa iyi inodaidzwa kuti GFE, kana kuti 'Musikana Shamwari':(www.thailandblog.nl/thailand/thaise-vrouw-huren-during-holiday/).
Pfambi muThailand
Mafungiro eThai kune bonde rakabhadharwa ane ambivalent. Zviri pamutemo, chipfambi chakarambidzwa muThailand kubva kuma60 uye naizvozvo hazvisi pamutemo. Zvisinei, indasitiri yezvepabonde iri kubudirira. Zvivako zvinopa masevhisi ezvepabonde zvinoita semabhawa, maresitorendi, Hotels, mabhawa ekaraoke kana masaja parlors. Vakuru venzvimbo iyi vanopihwa chiokomuhomwe vofuratira ziso.
Kunyangwe chipfambi chinooneka muBangkok, Pattaya nePhuket chakanyanya kuwanda, havasi vashanyi vepabonde asi ivo veThai pachavo vane zvakapetwa kaviri. Thai anofunga zvakanyanya nezve (kubhadharwa) bonde. Pane zvirambidzo zvishoma zvekuenda kupfambi pane kumadokero. Barika raive rakajairika kunyangwe mudare reSiamese. Vanokudzwa, vanamuzvinabhizinesi nevakuru vakuru vakaratidzira pachena huwandu hwemadzishe (Mia Noi). Varume veThai vane chinzvimbo chidiki vaifanira kugutsikana nemabasa epfambi.
Tsika dzekare hadzingoperi. Vazhinji vezvematongerwo enyika vane mukurumbira nemabhizinesi muThailand vachine vahosi. Ruzhinji rwevarume vanoita zvepabonde vanogara vachishanyira dzimba dzepfambi. Varume veThai vanowanzova nekutanga kusangana pabonde nepfambi.
Kuwanda kwekushanya kwepabonde
Vanhu vekuMadokero vanowanzopomerwa mhosva yeindasitiri huru yebonde muThailand. Ikoko kusanzwisisa kunopfuurira. Kungofanana nepfungwa (uye vazhinji veThai vanofarira kutaura) kuti chipfambi chakatanga panguva yeHondo yeVietnam kufadza mauto eAmerica. Pfambi yakanangana nevashanyi vekuMadokero vanoita zvepabonde kunyange idiki (kazhinji 5%). Imwe 95% yeindasitiri yebonde muThailand inotarisa kune veAsia neThai varume.
Ongororo yakaitwa naDr. Nitet Tinnakul weChulalongkorn University muBangkok muna 2003 (Source: The Nation 2004) yakawana kuti Thailand yaive neavhareji ye1999 miriyoni vanoita zvepabonde pakati pe2002 ne2,8 (kubva muhuwandu hwe64,3 miriyoni, iyo 4,4%) . Zvichienderana nehuwandu hwe60.000 mikana yepabonde, Tinnakul anofungidzira kuti kune dzimwe pfambi dzakawanda, pamwe nekuti dzimba dzemassage dzakakura nemabhawa ekaraoke anowanzo shandisa vakadzi vanopfuura zana.
Shadow side
Kudzokera kune chirevo pamusoro pevatashanyi vepabonde, unogona kugumisa, kana ichingofunga nezve 5% yehukuru hwakazara, saka chii chiri kunetseka? Asi zvakadaro kune divi rakasviba kurudzi urwu rwekushanya. Mienzaniso yeizvi ndeye kuwandisa kunosanganisira kushanya kwepabonde, senge:
- kukwezvwa nematsotsi;
- kushandisa zvinodhaka;
- kuwedzera kwehumbavha, kurohwa nechisimba chepabonde, pakati pezvimwe zvinhu;
- kushandiswa kwevanoita zvepabonde;
- matambudziko eutano akadai seHIV nezvimwe zvirwere zvepabonde;
Dambudziko remufananidzo
Rimwe dambudziko nderechifananidzo cheThailand, icho chinowanzorambwa nevekunze serudzi rwe'Sodhoma neGomora'. Kazhinji vashanyi veThailand uye expats vanowanzosangana nekusarura kunoramba kuripo pamusoro peThailand uye zvinotsamwisa. Iri zvakare idambudziko rakaoma reTAT. Vanoda kuona vashanyi vari nani uye vakapfuma vachiuya. Mushure mezvose, vanounza mari yakawanda.
Ndeapi maonero ako?
Vazhinji vanotenda kuti Thailand inofanirwa kudzora zvirinani indasitiri yepabonde yakanangana nevashanyi. Chinhu chinenge chisingaite munyika umo uwori hwava unyanzvi.
Kunyange zvakadaro, nzvimbo dzechipfambi dzaigona kutamisirwa kumucheto kweguta. Mvumo inofanira kukanzurwa kana kushungurudzwa kukaitika. Imwe nzira ndeyekupa vanotengesa miviri mikana iri nani kuburikidza nekudzidziswa uye mihoro yakakwira yebasa rakajairwa.
Tinoda kunzwa kubva kuvaverengi vedu vane ruzivo nezve 'dambudziko' rekushanya kwepabonde muThailand. Unogona kusabvumirana nemashoko uye uchitenda kuti hazvina kunyanya kuipa. Kana iwe uchibvumirana nechirevo ichi, isu tinoda kuziva nezve pfungwa dzako dzekuti hurumende yeThai inofanira kugadzirisa sei 'dambudziko' iri.
Ipa maonero ako pane chirevo: 'Thailand inofanira kutarisa zvepabonde tourism!' Kubvumirana kana kusabvumirana?
Sezvo maKristu akati kuita zvepabonde kune tsvina, zvinozorodza kuti vanhu muThailand vanoona kuita zvepabonde sechinhu chakasikwa.
Icho chokwadi chekuti farlang ichabhadhara iyo ibhonasi yakanaka uye ndinoshuva Thais iyo diki yekuwedzera, saka chengetedza iyo indasitiri yepabonde!
Pane yakanaka (SHONA) bhaisikopo nezve chinhu ichi:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xWT19QPZ6KE
Toedelu.
Ini ndinobvumirana newe, nei munhu wese achifanira kutevedzera maitiro edu nemaitiro, isu tichakuudza iwe, vanozvikudza veEurope. kwandiri ivo vakakwana hostesses, vanoda kuwana mari sezvakangoita muNetherlands
Moderator: Mashoko aya haana kutumirwa nekuti haataure chirevo.
Zvose izvi ndezvekusaona kwenguva pfupi. Ndekupi kushanya kwepabonde kusingatomboitike muNetherlands uye kwakanyanyisa. Vanhu vari kutaura nezveThailand, ko nezvenyika dzakaita seBrazil, West Africa, uko vakadzi vechiDutch vari kutsvagawo varume, nezvimwe.
Chinangwa changu chekufamba kuenda kuThailand chaive chisiri chebonde asi chine chekuita nerunako netsika yenyika.
Idi rekuti madzimai anorishandisa rinobatsira vakawanda vandakataura navo, vamwe zvichida zvishoma. Asi tinogona kutaura nezveramangwana rakanaka nhasi. Ini pachangu ndakaroora Thai uye ndakanga ndisina kubuda asi zvakaitika uye pasina kuzvidemba. munhu wese ane pluses uye minuses. Zvino vana vaviri vakanaka uye mudzimai anofambira mberi uye anonzwisisa.
Vanhu vanofanirwa kumira kuratidza Thailand zvisina kunaka kana pazvinokodzera ivo kutaura nezvazvo
Handifungi kuti chipfambi muThailand idambudziko. Une izvozvo kwese munyika. Nekudaro, Thailand inonyanya kutsamira pairi. Iwe unongofanirwa kufungidzira kana mabhawa ese, magogo, nezvimwe zvaifanira kuvhara. Ndiro richava gomba reThailand, chokwadi.
Kufanana nenyika ipi neipi pasi pano, chipfambi imari yevakadzi uye/kana varume. Ini ndinofunga kuti hazvigoneke kudzora muThailand, yakakura uye yakawandisa. Kana vaizoedza kuirambidza, yaizoenda pasi pevhu, nemigumisiro yayo yose. Ndiri kutaura pano nezvechipfambi chakajairika, kwete tsvina isiri pamutemo inomboitika ipapo, uye sezvataurwa, kuwandisa.
Chirevo chacho chakarurama, chikamu chidiki chete chinoonekwa ndechevashanyi. Chimwe chikamu chikuru kwazvo ndechevaThai pachavo. Saka unogona kutarisa.
Vanhu vasingauye kuThailand vanogara vachitaura nezve chipfambi, zvinhu zvakanaka, chikafu, mahombekombe, zvitsuwa, temberi, nezvimwe, asi kashoma kupfuura. Saka neniwo ndinopokana nazvo. Zvinhu zvakawanda zviri nani kupfuura, semuenzaniso, muNetherlands.
Kwaziwai Peter *Sapparot*
Pfambi muThailand harisi dambudziko nekuti rinoitika pasirese? Ipapo hurombo, kuparwa kwemhosva uye kupusa hazvifanirwe kuve dambudziko, zvinoitikawo kwese kwese pasirese. Uye kana hutachiwana hwechipfambi hwaizomisa basa racho rose, mari yacho yaizongoshandiswa pane zvimwe zvinhu uye madzimai aizofanira kushanda mumafekitari. Kwete kwakadzika.
Moderator: mhinduro haina kutumirwa nekuti haisi mhinduro kune chirevo.
Nzira chete yekuita kuti chipfambi chinyangarika (kusvika pamwero mukuru) ndeyekupa dzimwe nzira. Izvi zvinoreva kudyara nekugadzirisa dzidzo nedemocracy, uye kubvisa kushamwaridzana nehuwori. Asi izvozvo zvinotora nguva yakareba.
Unoda kurwisa chipfambi here? Ndinofunga kudaro, kunyangwe zvisingandinetse ini pachangu - asi handinetseki sevanhu vazhinji vanofarira kuvhurika uye pekutanga kuona 'hushamwari' chimiro cheindasitiri yebonde muThailand. Ini handina chandinopokana nacho kana vamwe vanhu vachiziva kuti ive basa ravo, zvinosuruvarisa kuti ndizvo zviri kuitika muSE Asia kuti vazhinji vanomanikidzwa mune zvehupfumi nekuda kwekushaikwa kwedzimwe nzira.
Pamusoro pezvo, nekuda kweiyo (yakawana) chitambi chebonde rakachipa rinowanikwa kwese kwese, rinokwezva marudzi ese dzimwe nguva matsotsi mabhii asingabatsire chero munhu.
Chirevo ichi ndechekuwedzera kweichi chirevo: "Thailand ingagadzirisa hurombo hwakapararira hwekumaruwa. Dai hurumende yaitanga zvine musoro neizvi - kwete nekupa zvemahara, asi nekugadzirisa zvigadziriso nekuvandudza - ipapo nekufamba kwenguva vakadzi vashoma vanozopedzisira vave chipfambi.
Zvepabonde nekushanya kwepabonde chikamu cheThailand uye vanhu vazhinji vanoita mari yavo kubva pazviri. Handibvumirani nemashoko aCor. Vakadzi vashoma vanoita zvechipfambi. Ramba uchifunga, uye ichi ndicho chinzvimbo changu, kuti hurumende inofanira kuramba yakatarisa pakushanya kwepabonde. Nyora mimwe mitemo yeizvi uye ona kuti inotevedzwa. Kuedza kuona vakadzi vasingazvipire vanoita basa iri uye nekupa imwe nzira. Kwete kurambidza ingori chikamu chenyika ino uye zvakare chikamu cheThailand.
Ukaenda kuzororo nemukadzi wako vanhu vese vomutevera nekuti hapasisina bonde zvinonaka. Kuti vakadzi havachakwanisi kufamba vega mumugwagwa uye vanorohwa. Kwete, zvisiye zvakadaro, asi sezvakataurwa zvishoma "kutarisira"
Ruud
Zvakare avo 2.8 miriyoni vanoita zvepabonde vaDr. Nitet, iyo iyo Internet yose yakasvibiswa.. Bata bhokisi recigar uye uite masvomhu. Kune mamirioni makumi matatu evakadzi muThailand. Zvino mukadzi mumwe chete pagumi angave anoita zvechipfambi zvakadaro.Ruzhinji rwevanoita zvechipfambi vachange vari muboka rezera remakore gumi nemasere kusvika makumi matatu, kureva 30 miriyoni yevakadzi. Ipapo mumwe muvana veboka iroro rezera aizova mupfambi? Nonsense chokwadi. Handinzwisise kuti sei munhu achitenda nhamba dzemhando idzi. Izvi zvinofanirwa kunge zvirizvo nekuti patova nerusaruro iyo Thailandblog inongosimbisa nekutaura nhamba idzi. Shandisa pfungwa dzako.
Pasuk Phongpaichit , Pfuti, Vasikana, Kubhejera, Ganja, Silkworm Books, 1998 pamapeji 197-200 inopa fungidziro yevanoita zvechipfambi 200.000 2.8, chikamu chimwe mugumi chavo vachiri vaduku. Bvisa zero pa XNUMX miriyoni.
Ndakaitawo kacalculation kadiki zvichienderana nemari yavanotambira.Dai paive ne2.8 miriyoni vanoita zvechipfambi, varume vese vari pakati pemakore 0-80 ekuberekwa vaifanira kushanyira pfambi kamwe chete pasvondo kuti avape mari ye1 baht pamwedzi. . Zvakare zvisina musoro.
@ chaliow. Zvinoshamisa kudzikamisa tsananguro yenhamba. Chokwadi, nhamba ye200.000 inoratidzika kuva yechokwadi zvikuru.
Zvimwe nekuda kwe "rusaruro" (kuzviwana kwangu pachedu kwemakore makumi maviri muThailand, kunyanya Isaan) ndeyekuti inogamuchirwa, kunyanya kune varombo, asi kazhinji zvakare mumarudzi ose, kuti "bonde" inzira yekubhadhara uye kuchinjana. Hapana chitsva.
Kuti mhuri zhinji hadzina chinetso zvachose nemwanasikana kwenguva pfupi kana chikamu-nguva achiita mamwe "mabasa asinganzwisisike" munharaunda iyi kuchengetedza mari yemhuri kusvika pachiyero, (inowanzotarisirwa) kana kuti vanhu vanogona pachena uye nekuzvikudza kwakakodzera. pabirthday chii mwanasikana ane hupenyu hwakanaka semia noi.
Saka pamwe 200.000 "chaiwo" vanoita zvepabonde, asi pamwe akawanda mu "grey" dunhu.
Kana zvikaitwa nokuzvidira, handina dambudziko nazvo zvachose. Mafungiro akasiyana, asi kazhinji ndiyo nzira chete yekupona uye / kana kunakidzwa nehupenyu. Sezvineiwo, ndakaona kazhinji kazhinji dzvinyiriro yenzanga inoiswa nemhoteredzo yomunhu amene.
Wataura chokwadi uye hatigone kuzvidzokorora kakawanda zvakakwana: vazhinji vanoita zvepabonde havaendi nekuzvidira, kune dzvinyiriro huru munharaunda. Izvi ndizvo zvandakanzwa:
"Amai, ini handichaendi kuPattaya, pakaipa ikoko!" "Asi Lek, ndinonzwisisa izvozvo, asi wakavimbisa, kwasara makore maviri chete uye Noi anenge apedza yunivhesiti. Zviitire mai vako naNoi, hauna katanjoe here (gratitude). Iwe hausi kuda kuwisira Noi neni muurombo here?
Chinondisvotawo ndevaya vashanyi vezvepabonde vanorumbidza upenyu hwevanoita zvepabonde: “Vasikana vanofara, vane mafaro akawanda, vanoseka nekutamba uye vanowanawo mari yakanaka. "Imi mapenzi, sorry.
Maonero edu pa "chipfambi" anoshanduka kuva akasiyana nemaonero ekuAsia.
Uye haina kugumira kuThailand chete…. sezvakataurwa 95% ndeyevatengi veAsia.
Kana iwe uchida kugadzirisa chipfambi nemazvo, ipa yakakomba chengetedzo mambure, uye mihoro chaiyo. Kuitira kuti vakadzi havachafanira kujoina nekuda kwezvikonzero zveupfumi, asi nekuzvidira.
Chigumisiro chichava kuderedzwa kwe "Thai" kupa, kuwedzera kwemitengo uye naizvozvo vashoma vatengi. Kune rumwe rutivi, ichawedzera "imports" kubva kunyika dzakavakidzana, kutengeswa kwevakadzi ... (cf. Western Europe uye kunze kwenyika kubva kuEastern Europe) uye kunyanya kubva pakuona purofiti yemhosva. (sorry nekuzvitaura)
Kana iwe uchida kutarisana nehupombwe, huchashanda chete kana ASEAN ikatora chiito ... Mumunda wepedophilia, izvi zvinoratidzika kubudirira nokuti vana vanokosha zvikuru muchiratidzo chepasi rose chenzanga yavo, kune rumwe rutivi uri kuenda. pamusoro pechiratidzo chekuMadokero vanoda kuisa chipfambi pachiratidzo cheAsia? Uye semushanyi “wakajairika” muThailand haufanirwe kuita nhamburiko kuti usasangana nekushanya kwepabonde. Kune rimwe divi, ini ndinoona kuti vashanyi vazhinji vanofuratira urombo chaihwo...
Neraki, kune zvirongwa kubva kuFarang izvo zvinodonhedza madonhwe mashoma pane inopisa ndiro panzvimbo yenzvimbo. (cf. Hua Hin)
Ndiyo nzira yakajairika yechiDutch… kugadzira mambure ekuchengetedza magariro. Ini ndinongoomerera kudzidzo nekugadzira mabasa ini. Kunyangwe iwe uchifarira kana kwete iyo mambure ekuchengetedza, icharamba ichibhadharwa nevashandi. Chero zvazvingava, kugadzira mikana nemabasa kunoratidzika kuva kunovaka kupfuura kukumbira mambure ekuchengetedzwa kwevanhu.
Kugadzirisa magariro zvakare… ndeipi mihoro chaiyo? Iwe unogona kukwidza mibairo mishoma, asi makambani anofanirwa kuve anoshanda. Iwe unogona chete kuwedzera mubairo kana ukawedzera kukosha. Saka mari mudzidzo!
Mumucheto, ndiri muBelgian, ane rusununguko rwemagariro evanhu kwemakore makumi matatu nemashanu, uye pamusoro pevanhu vose.
Mugari wese anekodzero, zvisinei nekuti anoshanda here kana kuti kwete, yekuwana rubatsiro rwezveutano kuvanhu vose zvakaenzana. Muchiitiko chehurwere, mari yekutsiva, muchiitiko chekushaikwa, mari yekutsiva inomumanikidza kushandira nzanga.
Mushandirwi anofanira kunge aine mutoro weinishuwarenzi iyi yekutanga. Kupfuura izvozvo, mitemo yemusika inogona kushanda, nemirairo yemutemo wevashandi pakati pevashandirwi nemasangano evashandi.Kusanganisira kudzidziswa, mushonga webasa, nezvimwe.
Kana izvi zvikasangana, vakadzi vanofarira, varume, ladyboys kana LGBs vanozozvisarudzira ivo vakazvipira kupinda basa.
Chihure chii!!! Handione mutambi wenhabvu ane mukadzi akashata, haisi nyaya yemari, zvese rudo. tarisa mugirazi. uye funga!
Warovera chipikiri mumusoro!! Enda unotarisa kune vanonzi vakatsvinda, vakapfuma, hauwanzoona mukadzi akashata (kana munhuwo zvake) achifamba pedyo navo. Handisi kutaura nezvekusiyana kwezera. Saka ngazvive muThailand, usapindira.
Mumutemo, hapana dambudziko nepfambi, kunyanya kana zvinhu zvakasununguka senge muThailand. Ndiani ane matambudziko chaiwo ane inokwanisika GF yezororo chiitiko. Hapana chakaipa.
Kuchengeteka uye nyaya dzehutano, hongu, zvinoramba zviri dambudziko.
Kwandiri, basa rehurumende rinonyanya kuve mukuona nzvimbo yekushanda yakachengeteka uye ine hutano, hutano hunowanikwa kune wese munhu, kurwisa kuparwa kwemhosva uye kuona kuti isarudzo yekuzvidira. Saka social services, yakanaka shoma mari uye basa.
Sezvineiwo, ndinofunga kuti "iye" mushanyi ari kunyanya kunetseka nemakambani asingavimbike ekurojesa zvikepe, vatyairi vetekisi vane hukasha, huori uye matsotsi madiki pane nevakadzi vekunakidzwa.
Varume nevakadzi vazhinji vanouya kuThailand kune zvakachipa zvepabonde, ndiwo maonero e
munyori wechinyorwa chino. Nekudaro, ini ndinotaura kuti vanhu vanouya kuThailand pabonde
kwete zvakachipa zvachose. Tikiti rendege, hotera, chikafu, chinwiwa, ita rwendo rwepabonde kuenda
Thailand inodhura kupfuura semuenzaniso muAmsterdam. Ndiyo inonzi "soft sex" inotariswa nevanhu
Thailand inodhirowa. Chii chingave chinonakidza kutaura uye kunwa nerunako rweThai?
Uyezve, vakawanda vakawana wokuroorana naye nenzira iyi.
Hongu, Thailand inofanirwa kubata zvekushanya kwepabonde. Ipapo chipfambi chinofanira kutanga chanyoreswa zviri pamutemo, hongu. Usarambidza, asi bhadharisa mutero we "sex tourism tax" we50%, uise muhomwe inonzi "sex fund" iyo inopihwa mari yezvirongwa zvekupa vasikana dzidzo yakanaka uye basa rakanaka. Chimwe chinhu chakafanana neCO2 emission tax inobvumira miti kudyarwa.
Haisi bonde chete, asi kunyanya kutsvaga rudo uye mukadzi wechidiki anongoerekana aita uyo varume vangada kugara vese. Kunzwa kunoshamisa uku kunonzi rudo, kwavasina kuwana kwenguva yakareba kubva kumukadzi wavo anotonga kuEurope kana kuAmerica. Kunzwa kuti uchiri nani uye unokosheswa ndicho chinhu chinonyanya kukosha kuti vanhu vakawanda vaende kuThailand, sezvazvakazoitika mushure mekudzidza kwandakaita makore apfuura. hunhu hwekusasununguka, nezvimwe zvese asi ndaifanira kuzvishivirira.Kune vazhinji kwaive kurerukirwa kukuru kwavakanga vaita pakurambana kwavo (kazhinji kacho kunonoka).
Vadiwa vaverengi, munofanirwa kupindura kune chirevo uye kwete kutsanangura kuti sei kune chipfambi muThailand. Off-topic comments hazvichatumirwe!
Chinhu chakanaka isu hatitaurire izvo "Thailand inofanira kuita". Kana iwe ukatarisa iyo yese spectrum yemikana uye zvinogoneka, muThai anoita sarudzo dzake. Ndinoda kuona kuti vangani vasiri Thai vanogona kuita sarudzo yakasiyana pasi pemamiriro akafanana. Ungada kuenda kufekitari here kana kuti kufinhwa kurufu kumusha kwako nemurume akadhakwa, anotuka?
Sei pasina munhu ane hanya nezve vakomana vanoenda kuhondo, kwete muThailand chete, panjodzi yekupfurwa kana kupfura vamwe. Izvozvo zvinondirwadza kudarika kubhadharwa pabonde.
Chero zvazvingava, maonero ekuita zvepabonde akabhadharwa (hapana mari hapana uchi) akadzika midzi mumutauro weThai uye inzira yemakumi emakore, kana kwete mazana emakore, kuchinja izvozvo. Zvakangodaro, vaThai havaratidzike kwandiri sevanhu vasingafari.
Ndinofunga Thailand inofanira kugadzirisa yayo "dambudziko repabonde".
Kusvika kune veThai, kazhinji, vatoona dambudziko.
Chii gehena chatiri kupindira, HASI bhizinesi redu.
Kukanganisa kwedu izvo zvinonzi "zvakajairika" muThailand zvinongomutsa kuramba kubva kune vanoshanda nevashandi zvakafanana.
Zvinongoreva kuti mitemo iri kugadzirwa yekuti hapana anoteera uye inogona kungogadzira mimwe mikana yekubhejera.
Rega Thailand nevanhu veThai nehurumende vazvisarudzire kuti dambudziko ravo nderei uye kana vachida kuita chimwe chinhu nezvazvo, zvichaitika, pasina kana nekubatanidzwa kwedu.
Mufunge, handisi kufarira zvinoitika kazhinji, asi handikwanise kuzvimisa kana kuzvishandura.
Uye vanhu vaigona kuita chimwe chinhu pamusoro pazvo vanowana mhepo kubva kumunhu wese nemasangano ese ane, kana anogona kuva nechekuita nazvo.
Ini handibvumirani nemashoko aya, regai VAKURU vazvisarudzire zvavanoda kana kusada. Munyika yose kune hurumende / vatendi vanosarudza nechisimba izvo vagari venyika vangaite kana kusaita kana, pane kudaro, vanoisa mimwe mitemo yehupenyu. Siya munhu wese akasununguka kuzvisarudzira. Zvisinei, kunyanyisa kunofanira kurwisa zvakasimba, zvakadai sokumanikidzirwa uye upfambi hwevana.
Thailand, izvo hurumende inofanira kuita nezvazvo (semuenzaniso nezve kushanya kwepabonde) ini handina kana chandingataure nezvazvo, ndisina rimwe bepa riri muruoko kunze kwevisa yangu. Vashanyi vazhinji vanoifarira sezvakaita Thailand (kusanganisira mumunda wepabonde). Zvakare, kana bonde revanhu muAmsterdam raive zvino remuenzaniso…. Asi aiwa, uko vakadzi vanowanzova vanobatwa nekutengesa kwevakadzi kunoratidzika kunge kwatekeshera (uye sekuziva kwangu handizvo muThailand). Zvinofanira kuti falang avhare muromo wake uye kuti abve pamusimboti nokuchenjera nokuchenjera kukudza. VaThais vanonyatsoziva ivo pachavo kana vachifanira kubata akasiyana siyana ekushanya kwepabonde (hetero, imba, pedo) uye kana zvakadaro, sei. Munyika dzakawanda dzakasiyana mune mitemo yakasiyana uye maonero akasiyana uye mamiriro akasiyana. Uyezve: chii chinonzi "kubata"? Kubvisa zvisingagoneki? Chinhu chega chandinogona kutaura zvakanyanya, zvakanyanya pamusoro pazvo: izvo zvakavanzwa zvishoma uye zvakanyanya kugamuchirwa, zvishoma nyaya iyi inzvimbo yekuberekera marudzi ese ehutsotsi (kubira, kubiridzira, kuba, uye zvakatotaurwa: kutengeswa kwevakadzi, nezvimwe. .).
Ndiro basa rekaresa pasi rose.
Ndinofunga kuti panofanira kuva nekutonga
pachipfambi chevana nekuti vamwe vadiki.
Ndinofunga kuti kutaura kwakashinga kwevhiki rino chete.
Svondo rapfuura Lady Gaga akanyora paFacebook kuti aizotenga fake Rolex muBangkok, izvo zvakakonzera nyonganyonga. Kutanga gurukota, hongu chaizvo, akaramba kuti maRolexes emanyepo ari kutengeswa muThailand. Uye nhasi muBangkok Post kuti Mai Pachima, kubva kuIntellectual Property Department, vachanyora tsamba kumumiriri weUS. Chikonzero chetsamba ndechekuti Lady Gaga angadai akaratidza kusaremekedza vanhu veThai nekutaura uku.
Zvino chirevo chesvondo rino. Tinogona sei kutonga chimwe chinhu chiripo icho Thai anoramba? Kana, ndikati kana, kwaiva nechipfambi kune imwe nzvimbo muThailand, isu tiri vanaani kuti tide kuchinja izvozvo. Uye iva akatendeseka, tinoda izvozvo?
Ngwarira, iwe uchakurumidza kugamuchira tsamba yekutsamwa kubva kuna Prime Minister nekuda kwekusaremekedza mukadzi wechiThai.
Usabvumirane nemashoko.
Ini pachangu ndakaenda kuThailand kekutanga semushanyi wepabonde uye ndakaroora mukadzi anoshamisa wechiThai kwemakore mashanu izvozvi.
Sekuona kwangu, kutarisisa kwakanyanya kunobhadharwa kune ichi chikamu kana vanhu vachitaura nezveThailand.
Semuenzaniso, kana tikataura nezveGermany, ndiri kungotaura nezvenyika, saka hatitauri nezveReperbahn zvakare. France, dunhu dzvuku rechiedza kana kuidaidza kuti mugwagwa weparutivi!
Thailand yakawanda, zvakanyanya kudarika chikamu chidiki icho chinokwezva vamwe vanhu.
Vashanyi vazhinji vanouya kune izvo Thailand inopa uye izvo zvakapetwa kakawanda kupfuura kungoita indasitiri yebonde!
Nezvematongerwo enyika ndinoti munhu wese anozvitonga uye nekudaro munhu wese anofanira kuzviziva ega kuti anoda kushanda muchipfambi, nemamwe mazwi kuti munhu wese ane njere anofanira kunge aine kuzvisarudzira pamusoro pemuviri nepfungwa, saka ataura izvozvo. chipfambi hachina kunyanya kurambidzwa chinofanira kugadziriswa, asi kazhinji zvikonzero zvine musoro zvinofanirwa kugadziriswa kuti ushande muchipfambi, sehurombo uye kuriritira mhuri.
Ini zvakare ndinoona kushanya kwepabonde / mushanyi wepabonde kunge ari pamutemo zvachose, nekuti zvakare, kuzvitonga kunouya mukutamba nekuti kungosangana pabonde hakungoitirwe kuberekana - hongu, ndinoziva izvo zvinonzwika chaizvo mune zvematongerwo enyika - asiwo zvekunakidzwa nekunakidzwa. have.
Zvinoenda pasina kutaura kuti kuwandisa kwakadai sekumanikidza, kushungurudzwa, kushandiswa, kusaremekedza, (mwana) kushungurudzwa, zvichingodaro kunofanira kurwisa mundima mbiri dziri pamusoro!
Nekudaro, ngatisakanganwa kuti ruzhinji rwevakadzi vechiThai havambodi kusarudza kuwana mupunga wavo nenzira 'nyore'.
Ndiani anofanira kusemeswa nepfungwa yekufamba ruoko-ne-ruoko nemurume waasingazive 'akanaka' uye obva atora mubhedha muhotera, asi angaite chero chinhu kunze kweizvozvo uye saka anoshanda muhoro yefekitori yakapfava kana BigC. .
Izvo zvisina musoro kutaura, chipfambi hachisi pamutemo zvachose muThailand saka hachipo. Uye vakadzi vese ivavo (uye kusvika pamwero mudiki zvakare varume) varipo kumabhawa ese masikati vanongori vahosi (uye vaenzi) vanovimbisa kuti iwe unowana chinwiwa chako nekukurumidza. Iwe haufanirwe kutsvaga chimwe chinhu shure kwayo.
Upenyu hunogona kuva nyore sei.
Uye kwete nyore, Peter, asiwo akanaka apo vamwe nehurumende vanorega vanhu vachizvisarudzira zvavanoda kuita nekusaita. Chinhu chimwe chete chavanofanira kunetsekana nacho mamiriro anosanganisira (pamuviri) kumanikidza uye kuchengetedzwa kwevadiki.
Sezvo Turkey iri yevakadzi, Thailand ndeyevarume. Uye ini handina kumbobvira ndaverenga imwe nyaya iyo inonyangadza kuti vakadzi vanoenda kuTurkey pabonde. Nditendei "kune bonde rakabhadharwa rakangobhadharwa pakati peAntalya naAlanya sezvakaita Pattaya. Panyaya yehuwandu hwevakadzi vari muindasitiri yezvepabonde muPattaya chete kune mabhawa zviuru gumi nezvishanu uye mubhawa rega rega mune avhareji yevakadzi gumi uye chetatu ndiThay uye vamwe vese vanobva kuLaos neVietnam-Russia nezvimwewo. ndine chikonzero chekuita basa iri uye ndichavabvumira kana zvikasandinetsa.
'Vadiwa vaverengi, munofanira kupindura kune chirevo uye kwete kutsanangura kuti sei kune chipfambi muThailand. '
Handikwanisi kuparadzanisa mumwe kubva kune mumwe kuti ndigadzire maonero.
Maonero ese akatumirwa pamusoro haana chero humbowo (sezvandinogona kuverenga) nezvekuti vakadzi vanoona sei izvi, kana iwe uchigona kuziva zvachose. Zvinoda kuferefetwa kwakadzama, chimwe chinhu chausingakwanise kutarisira kubva kuThais.
Ini ndaiisa vadzidzi vetsika anthropology pairi. Ndinofunga kuti chinhu chakanaka kuti takanyatso tarisisa kushanya kwedu kwepabonde (vakadzi vekuUkraine/vaPhilippine vakanyengerwa pano pasi pekunyepedzera kwemanyepo), chero uine hungwaru hwemagariro (kukwanisa kuzviisa mune shangu dzevamwe).
Kune chipfambi pasi rose, kwete muThailand chete. Kuita zvepabonde chinhu chinokosha uye kana varume nevakadzi vachizvidira, asi kubhadhara, kuenda kunorara pamwe chete, hapana chakaipa. Mutsika yeThai, bonde rakabhadharwa rinoonekwa nepfungwa dzakavhurika uye vazhinji vevarume veThai vanogara vachienda kunzvimbo yepfambi. Kuvakomana vechidiki chinhu chose kuti chihure chitore umhandara hwako.Nyika yave nemazana emakore iine tsika yakasimba yebonde rinobhadharwa. Nei hupfambi husingafaniri kushandiswa kukwezva vashanyi vekunze (nemari yavo) kuThailand?
Sekuona kwangu, chipfambi hachipokanidziki, uye kushanya kune zvepabonde hakuna. Ini chaizvo ndinofunga zvine musoro kuti bonde rinonakidza (rakabhadharwa) rinogona kuva chikonzero chekuenda kuzororo kune imwe nyika. Kana iwe uchifarira mapiramidhi, unoenda kuEgypt, kana uchida kuona mhuka dzesango, zvino unoenda kuEast Africa uye kana iwe uchida zvepabonde uye uchida kubhadhara, Thailand ndiyo yakanakisisa sarudzo. Nyore saizvozvi.
Sekuziva kwangu, hurumende yeThai haifanire kubata kushanya kwepabonde. Nekudaro, kutarisisa kwakawanda kunogona kukweverwa kune zvimwe zvinokwezva zvenyika. Tsika nemasikirwo, mahombekombe akanaka, vanhu vane ushamwari, mamiriro ekunze.
Ndakaenda kuThailand katatu ini. Nguva yekutanga yekushanya kwakanaka, kechipiri yezororo remahombekombe paPhuket. PaPhuket ndakaunzwa kuindasitiri yebonde reThai uye ndakatora musikana kuhotera yangu kakati wandei. Iro raingova danho diki, nekuti muNetherlands iniwo ndinogara ndichienda kumakirabhu epabonde uye ndinoshanyira vasikana kuseri kwehwindo.
Yakanga isati yasvika zororo rangu rechitatu muThailand kuti kuita zvepabonde ndiko kwainyanya kukurudzira. Uye kutaura chokwadi, rakanga riri zororo rakanaka.
Ini pachangu, ndinofunga kuti hatifanirwe kunge tichinetsana nekushanya kwepabonde. Izvo zvakawandisa zvinofanirwa kurwiswa, asi izvo zvinofanirwa zvakare kumisa kupindira kwehurumende yeThai. Rwisa chipfambi chinomanikidzirwa uye kuita zvepabonde nevana vasati vabva zera uye kurwisa nesimba. Asi regai vakadzi nevatengi vavo, avo vese vasina dambudziko nekubhadhara rudo, vatore nzira yavo. Izvo zviri nani zvakanyanya kune hupfumi hweThai zvakare.
Ndakaenda kuThailnad kakawanda, kunyanya kune chikafu chakanaka, hushamwari hukuru uye ini nguva pfupi yadarika ndine musikana wekuThai uyo asingabvi kubva "kunharaunda" iyi. Ndakambovabvunza kuti vanofungei nenyaya iyi and vision yavo ndeyekuti iyi itsika yavo, chero vasikana vacho havaite zvekumanikidzirwa, handina dambudziko nazvo, asi kune rusaruro rwakawanda kubva kuvanhu vasina kumbobvira vaita. Huya kuno vane ... Uye ndakaona zvakawanda zvakaipira kubva muhuori .. MuBelgium mune vanhu vanoita madhiri nehurumende maererano nezvemari uye ae vanogonawo kutenga mhosva yavo, saka ndinofunga iyi inzira yepamutemo. Huwori .. Huori huwori hwanyanya nemupurisawo zvake ane homwe yakawedzerwa homwe yechikafu nembatya panzvimbo yemamiriyoni anoyerera achienda kuhurumende yedu ine huwori zvekuti munhuwo zvake haambooni kana sendi.