Izvo varume veFarang vasinganzwisise nezvevakadzi vechiThai
Pa Stickman's blog, webhurogi yeChirungu yevanobva kunze uye vashanyi nezve Bangkok, Tino Kuis akawana nyaya inotevera kubva kuThai nezvehukama hweThai-farang. Akarishandura uye anopa se muromo: verenga wakanyarara kana mumwe wako asipo kwekanguva. Nekuti iyi Thai hairovi musango.
“VaStickman. Ndakaverenga makoramu ako zvino uye ipapo kwemakore akati wandei, asi handina kumbobvira ndanzwa kukosha kwekunyora chimwe chinhu ini. Ndinofanira kutaura kuti ndawana zvakawanda zvekutamba mumakoramu ako zvinosekesa, zvisinei nenzira isina kunaka. Zviitiko zvevarume vazhinji veFarang vane vakadzi vechiThai zvinosiririsa uye zvinosuwisa uye ndinovanzwira tsitsi. Asi mune zvese, makoramu ako anopenda isingafadzi uye ine kusavimbika mufananidzo wevakadzi veThai kazhinji.
Izvo izvo varume veFarang vasingambobvume ndezvekuti ivo vanongoita kunge vanotora kubva kune imwechete yakasvibiswa sosi uye nekudaro vanounza huwandu husina kuenzana hwemavara asina kunaka. Kutaura pachena, pane musiyano mukuru pakati pe'mukadziwo zvake wekuThailand' 'nemukadzi anotandara nefarang'. Zvinogona kurwadza kunzwa, asi ndosaka mafaranga mazhinji achiwana magumo echimuti nevakadzi vechiThai.
Chimwe chinhu pamusoro pangu. Ini ndiri muThai, ndakaberekerwa kuUS, ndakakurira muUS uye mu Tairendi. Thai wangu anotsetsenura, asi ini ndinoda Chirungu sezvandinochitora semutauro wangu wekuzvarwa. Ini zvino ndinogara zvachose muThailand. Ndine vazhinji vandinoshanda navo uye shamwari, shamwari dzangu zhinji muno uye muUS mafarangs uye ini handinganyadzise farangs zvisina musoro. Asi nditende ini pandinotaura kuti Thais anondiudza zvinhu zvavasingazombogovana nefarang, kunyangwe vakaroora farang.
Mafarang mazhinji muThailand haazvinzwisise
Uye ini ndinotaura izvi: mazhinji mafarang muThailand haazviwane. Ivo havaone chokwadi, maonerwo avanoitwa neavhareji Thai, nei Thais achiwanzo 'kunyemwerera' zvichingodaro. Chavanongoziva chete ndizvo zvavakaudzwa nemudzimai wavo, mumwe wavo kana shamwari dzavo, izvo zvinova zvakarerekera divi rimwe chete uye kukanganiswa.
Dzimwe nguva ndinoverenga chimwe chinhu kubva kune imwe nzvimbo, yandinoti kwandiri: iwe unoiwana. Muchikamu chevakadzi veIsaan (Chikunguru 17, 2005) panoti: 'Murume wepakati wekuMadokero ane chimwe chinhu nevakadzi vechiIsaan kusiyana nevakadzi vekune dzimwe nzvimbo dzeThailand. Vanoti vanokoshesa vakadzi vapfupi, vane ganda dema uye vane makore matanhatu echikoro zvakanyanya, asi chokwadi chingave chekuti vakadzi ava ndivo vanozvimanikidza panzira yekutanga.'
Ndichatora danho rinowedzera nekudzokorora mazwi emuAmerican prankster akataura chimwe chinhu chakadai: "Kutaura chokwadi, varume vakawanda vanowana mukadzi akanakisisa wavanogona kuwana nezvinhu zviripo." Zvimwe pane izvi gare gare.
Thai funga: mafarang ese akapfuma uye Thai anotenda: ese mafarang mahure anomhanya
Nei zvichiita senge mafarangs achiwanzowana zvakanyanya kubva muThailand kana zvasvika kune vakadzi? MaFarang ane imwe mukurumbira muThailand, dzimwe nguva yakanaka, dzimwe nguva isina kunaka. Ndichangotaura zvinhu zviviri zvine basa. 1. Thais anofunga kuti mafarang ese akapfuma. 2. Thais vanotenda kuti mafarang mahure anomhanya uye vanonyanya kutandara nevakadzi vakaberekwa vakaderera.
Izvo zvinodikanwa kuti farangs vanzwisise kirasi kuziva kweThais kuitira kuti vanyatso nzwisisa kukosha kwepoinzi 2. Uye usati watanga kurova Thais nekuda kwekunyepa kwekutenda munhamba 2, rega ndive pachena kuti vese Thais vanonyatsoziva zvinoitika muPattaya, Phuket uye nedzimwe nzvimbo dzakaparara dzeBangkok. Vanoziva uye vanoona kuti mafarang anoda kunyepedzera kuti mahure avo ishamwari dzavo.
Thais vanotenda: Vakadzi vechiThai vanotandara nefarang (ex) mabharanzi
Hongu, munhu wese anoziva zvakadaro! Hazvimboregi kundishamisa kuti maFarang anogumbuka kana Thais achifunga kuti madzimai avo nevasikana mahure, asi usabwaire kana vaona mafarang nemahure ivo pachavo. Thais anotenda kuti vakadzi vechiThai vanotandara nefarangs (ex) mabharanzi, nekuti ndizvo zvinowanzoitika.
Back to the topic. Vakadzi vechiThai vanotenda kuti farangs vakapfuma. Izvi zvinokwezva vakadzi vakaita sei? Zvakanaka, vakadzi vari kutsvaga mari. Ndinofunga kuti vakadzi vakawanda vanofunga kuti izvi zvakakosha, asi vashomanana vanofunga kuti ndicho chinhu chinonyanya kukosha. Avo vane izvi pamusoro pechishuvo chavo chechokwadi vanoenda kune varume vakapfuma.
Asizve pane pfungwa yechipiri, mufananidzo wefarang sehure. Vakadzi vazhinji veThai vanochengeta nehunhu uye havadi kuonekwa se'rudzi urwu rwemukadzi'. Izvozvo zvinobvisa "vakadzi vakarinda." Uye vakadzi vakadzidza uye vakapfuma havadiwo chiseko ichi. Ndoreva kuti sei ungada kunyengedzwa mukadzi ane nzara yembereko asi iwe une mari yako? Chiri kusara vanhu varombo, vakapererwa nezano vasingachaitiri hanya mukurumbira wavo nemhaka yokuti vane zvimwe, zvinetso zvinotambudza zvikuru.
Vanoti: Varume veThai vese vakadhakwa uye vanogezesa, blah, blah, blah
Chandinoda kutaura ndeichi. MaFarang akarasika zvakanyanya pamusoro peavhareji mukadzi wechiThai, asi vangangove vakarurama pamusoro pevakadzi vavanoshamwaridzana navo. Mafaranga mazhinji haazodi kutenda izvi. Vanotenda zvavakaudzwa nevakadzi vavo, kuti chishuwo chemukadzi wese weThai kuti ave nefarang semudiwa wake nekuti varume veThai vese zvidhakwa uye mabhachi, blah, blah, blah.
Asi zvakakomba, chiizve icho vakadzi ivavo vanofanira kutaura? Kuti vanosarudza Thai, asi vanongobata nefarang yemari? Mhinduro iyoyo hainyatso kufadza kune farang. Chokwadi ndechekuti vazhinji vevakadzi ava vane zviitiko zvakashata nevarume veThai. Zvakadaro, vanoda murume wekuThai, asi haasvikiki. Uye nguva iri kuvamirira ivo nemhuri dzavo.
MaFarang anongoshamwaridzana nevakadzi vakashata vechiThai
Kune chakavanzika chakachengetedzwa muThailand. Wese Thai anoziva chakavanzika ichi, asi hapana kana farang mumwe anoziva nezvazvo (kana asingazvinzwisise). Zvinondishungurudza nekuti kazhinji haugone kuwana matatu Thais kuti abvumirane pane chero chinhu, asi munhu wese anobvumirana pane izvi, vese varume nevakadzi: farangs inongoshamwaridzana nevakadzi vakashata vechiThai. Zvino uyu ndiwo musiyano mukuru pakati pechiratidzo cheThai neFarang.
Icho chinhu chaIsaan zvakare. Rega nditsanangure kuti avhareji yefarang inzwisise. Thais anonzwa nenzira imwechete pamusoro pevakadzi vane ganda rakasviba sevanhu vekuAmerica vanonzwa nezvevakadzi vakafuta vakachena. Varume vazhinji veAmerica havazvioni vachimuka padivi pemukadzi akadaro, kunyangwe asiri munhu wese anoita. Avo vanoenda kuvakadzi vakafuta vane yavo yekusarudza. Ndizvo zvakaitawo vakadzi vaIsaan. Varume vane hunhu hweThai havafarire vakadzi ava uye vakadzi ivavo vanozviziva.
Vakadzi veIsaan ndivo chete vakadzi varipo kumafarang
Kana musinganditendi, tarisai ese ads angachenesa ganda. Tarisai madzimai emuma sipo chaiwo, kwete type chaiyo yamunoona inobata mafaranga. Ini kutaura chokwadi handitendi farangs inowira vakadzi veIsaan, kunyangwe vazhinji vachiita sevanogutsikana nechimwe chinhu chakaonda uye chechidiki zvisinei kuti chii chimwe chavanotaridzika. Asi ava ndivo chete vakadzi vanowanikwa kwavari.
Zvinondirovesa nehana kuti hazvina basa kune imwe farang kana vakataridzika zvakanaka nekuti vanobata hove mudziva rimwe chete neiyo mafuta, ine mvere, inonhuwa 55 yemakore ekuGerman inogara kune imwe mugumo webhawa. Iwe haugone kuwana rumwe rudzi rwevakadzi. Ndinodaro, uye ndinozvitaura sezvine urombo. MuUS unotarisira murume anoyevedza kutandara nemukadzi akanaka. Asi pano unoona a handsome farang ari mucompany ye the same kind of Isaan woman that all other farangs anofambawo naye.
Pakambani yangu pane farang ine classic 'gentleman' chimiro. Murume uyu angave shasha chaiyo muUS. Murume akanaka futi. Asi musikana wake mukadzi chaiye weIsaan. Mumwe, pamusoro peavhareji akanaka uye ane mari yakawanda (mudzimai wake ane vana vaviri), zvakanaka, ngatirege kubvisa mhou dzakasakara mugomba. Hapana chakaipa kana vachifara. Zvinongondibata.
Thais haafarire kukuvadza manzwiro emumwe munhu
Izvo zvinondidzosa kune 'chakavanzika'. Haisi iyo chinangwa cheThais kunyengedza farang pano kana kuvanyima chokwadi. Thais haafarire kukuvadza manzwiro emunhu chero upi zvake, angave ari kure kana kwete. Asi hapana nzira yaungatsanangure iyi 'chakavanzika' kune afarang uye pachena, nei isu tichifanira? Kana iwe ukawana mukadzi anokwezva (uye iyewo munhu akanaka), zvine basa kuti vamwe vanofungei? (Wakamboona bhaisikopo reAmerica Shallow Hal?).
Zvinowanzoitika kuti shamwari dzangu neshamwari dzinondiratidza mufananidzo wemusikana wavo mutsva pavanenge vachitaura nezverudo rwavo rutsva. Vanotarisira kuti ndirumbidze runako rwavo kwenguva refu. Vimba neni, ivo vaive vakanyangara nguva dzose, asi ini kazhinji ndinogutsurira ndichibvumirana. Chii chandinofanira kutaura?
Potera kana mukadzi wechiThai achikudzingirira
Zano rangu kune varume veFarang vari kutsvaga rudo ndeichi: kana mukadzi wechiThai achikudzingirira, mhanya kunohwanda. Sezvandakataura, vakadzi vechiThai vanochengetedza nezvisikwa. Nenzira inotevera, "mukadzi akanaka wechiThai" anoenda kumurume waanofarira. Izvozvo zvakaitika kwandiri kasingaverengeki. Shamwari yake kana kuti waanozivana naye anouya kwandiri otaura kuti pane ari kundifarira uye kana ndiripo. Ndinobvunza mibvunzo mishoma, asi munhu iyeye haambofa akaburitsa kuti ndiani mukadzi kusvika chiedza chasvibira. Pakupedzisira ndinoti ndatova nemusikana (chinova chokwadi) uye handimbozivi kuti mukadzi uyu aiva ani.
Asi paanotaura neni zvakananga, anozviita noungwaru zvokuti zvinoita sokuti haatombofariri. Kana iwe usinganzwisise mazano kana usingadi kuatevera, haazokushungurudzii kwenguva refu. Nyaya iripo ndeyokuti mukadzi haadi kudare uye murume ndiye anofanira kuattacker. Kana mukadzi achizvimanikidza, ini handichamudi. Feminists vachavenga maitiro aya, asi ndizvo zvakaita zvinhu muThailand.
Hauna kukosha; chero farang yakanaka zvakakwana
Chimwe chinhu: kana mukadzi weThai akati anoda varume veFarang uye achivatsvaga, usatiza asi MHANYA. Zvaari kutaura ndezvekuti arikuda murume farang uye chero farang inokwana. Hauna wakakosha, mukana unongozvipa wega. Uye nei achida farang? Zano: hazvinei nerunako uye hunhu hwako (ona pfungwa 1 pamusoro).
Wadii kutandara nemukadzi anofarira chero mafarang? Iye pasina mubvunzo achasarudza Thai. Kana iwe ukakwanisa kukunda pamusoro peiyo mukadzi asina hanya, saka iwe une chimwe chinhu. Asi zvinobatsira chaizvo kana iwe ukatora nguva yekudzidza Thai. Ini ndinofungira mukadzi asina kudzidza wechiThai uyo anotaura Chirungu zvakanyanya, asi imwe nyaya. "
Comment Tino Kuis
Ndakanzwa kusagadzikana mushure mekuverenga uye kushandura chinyorwa ichi. Ndaiva nemanzwiro akavhengana zvikuru pamusoro pazvo. Kune rimwe divi, ndine chokwadi chekuti vazhinji veThais vanofunga saizvozvo, kune rimwe divi, ndinofunga murume uyu ane rusaruro rwakati wandei. Iniwo ndinofunga kuti anomiririra chokwadi kune rimwe divi. Kuno kuMaodzanyemba ndinogara ndichiona mafaranga aine mukadzi akanaka asiri weIsaan Thai. Ini pachangu ndinoda kutarisa mukadzi waIsaan, vazhinji vakanaka. Anofunga zvakasiyana. Kunyange zvakadaro, anotaura zvimwe zvinhu zvakakodzera kutaurwa. Zvitonge iwe pachako.
Stickman pachake akawedzera izvi pasi pechinyorwa: 'Ziso reBull! Nyaya inoda kuverengerwa kumafarang anodyidzana nevakadzi vechiThai.'
- Yakatumirwa meseji -
Panenge pakati pekuverenga chinyorwa, ndakashamisika kuti sei Tino achida / anogona / achibvumidzwa kutumira izvi. Stickman inonakidza kuverenga, asi isingapfuure bhandi uye nhanho ye "boystalk". Iyo saiti zviri pachena ine chinangwa chayo.
Ini handina manzwiro akavhengana zvachose kana ndichiverenga izvi: zvakajairika platitudes, stigmas, kuvhiringidzika uye rusaruro zvinorimwa nerupo pano. Hazvina mubvunzo kuti zvinobata kumeso vateereri vaStickman.
Ini ndinoona nzira iyo munyori anoratidza nayo "murume weThai" semudziviriri we "mukadzi wechiThai genteel" uye panguva imwechete nenec plus isingasvikike isingasvikike murume weThai akakodzera zvakanyanya kune imwe mhando yekuziva kweThai kwehukuru. Chiitiko chinonyatsozivikanwa chekuti farrangs vanogona kupupurira / chiitiko ... Inowanzoparadzirwa zvisiri izvo senyika.
Neraki, vanhu veThai vanhuwo uye vazhinji vavo vanozvibata saizvozvo. Kunze kunoratidza mutemo 🙂 uye kana iwe usingachatendi izvozvo, zviri nani ufambe 🙁
Murume uyu anongonyora chokwadi chausingade kunzwa.
Ini handina hukama nemukadzi wechiThai ini uye handina kumbobvira ndaita, asi ndinongofunga kuti pane nzira yakawandisa uye yakawandisa kufunga nezvazvo. Chinyorwa ichi chizere ne generalizations. Chokwadi chinyorwa ichi chinobata chokwadi, asi ngativei chokwadi… Kana murume achifara nemukadzi uye mukadzi achifara nemurume, zvikonzero zvine basa here? Ndinogona kunge ndisina ruzivo nehukama neThai, asi ndinoziva vanhu vazhinji vanofara muhukama hwakadaro (kusanganisira ex-bargirls).
Uye ini ndinoona chikamu chechimiro chinonyangadza. Sekuti kunaka kwemukadzi kwakafanana kune wese. Ndakamboitawo marelationship nevakadzi vandaiziva kuti havasi ma supermodels, but ndaifunga kuti she was beautiful. Icho chokwadi chekuti vakadzi veIsaan vanoonekwa se "vakashata" muThailand idambudziko remagariro pane kuti rine chekuita nechitarisiko.
Munyika dzekuMadokero uchawanawo 'vanochera goridhe' zvakare. Uye ini kazhinji ndinoona kuti ndiyo yakanyanya kunaka pakuenzanisa. Asi pano zvakare ndinofunga kuti kana izvi zvichifadza mapato ese, ingoita. Munyika dzekuMadokero kunewo vakadzi vanoronga (zvinosuruvarisa kuti vane ruzivo). Ichi hachisi chinhu chakasarudzika kuThailand.
Ichi chinyorwa chese chinongoshanda kunyika dzekuMadokero kwatinogara munenge munzvimbo dzese sezvazviri kuThailand. Ndiri kuneta zvishoma nevanhu vari kuenderera mberi nerudzi urwu rwe 'chokwadi' sekunge zvinongoitika muThailand.
Kana zviri izvo, ndiri kunyatsopesana nemuThai; Handipe zvinofungwa nevamwe pamusoro pangu. Ndinoita zvinondifadza uye kana vanhu vane dambudziko nazvo, zvinogona kuita ngura mbongoro yangu hombe.
Ichi chinyorwa chese chinongoshanda kunyika dzekuMadokero kwatinogara munenge munzvimbo dzese sezvazviri kuThailand. Ndiri kuneta zvishoma nevanhu vari kuenderera mberi nerudzi urwu rwe 'chokwadi' sekunge zvinongoitika muThailand.
Kubvumirana zvachose newe Sacri.
Munyori anofanira kunge ari stereotype.
Ndakaroorawo mukadzi wechiThai pashure pokushamwaridzana kwakawanda kusina maturo muNetherlands. izvo zvandakavaka neThai muNetherlands uye muThailand zvakashaikwa kubva kune zvimwe. Kana vanga vari bharanzi kana chii, ndinomuremekedza zvikuru. I wouldn't generalize as if vanhu vane pfungwa dzakavhurika.
Usabvisa muchidimbu kuti chokwadi chakanyorwa asi chinowedzeredzwa.
Zvinonyepedzera kuti vakadzi vakakwana vanogara kune imwe nzvimbo munyika kana munhu achinyatsoziva chokwadi isu tese tinotaura zvakasiyana.
Petervz, Dirk, uye sacri naNico vanotenda nekutora chikamu munyaya iyi mutauro wakajeka.
Chidimbu chakanaka. Tarisa mugirazi wapedza kuiverenga.
Ini ndinofunga nyaya yeiyi American Thai yakanaka kwazvo uye inoshamisa munzira dzakawanda. Ndinofungidzira izvozvo
inenge 80% yefarangs yatora mukadzi kubva kubhawa kana kubva kunzvimbo yemassage. Ndazviwana
ndakaonekwa kakawanda mumakore uye takaenda kumabhawa akawanda. Vazhinji zvechokwadi vanobva kuIsarn, asi kwete
Ini pachangu handidi mukadzi anobva kuIsarn, ivo vane dzidzo yakaderera uye chii
ndoenda nazvo here. Ndakasangana nemudzimai wangu wekuThai muhotera yeOriental muBangkok, kwaaive ari pa
mabiko uye kudya kwemanheru. Akadzidza chaizvo uye dhigirii reyunivhesiti, rakafanana neNijenrode. Kubva-
akataura naye uye kakawanda nehanzvadzi yake, asi kwete oga. Zvine zvishoma
makumbo muvhu ndisati ndasumwa kuna mai vake. Pakupedzisira takaroorana
pamberi pemutemo uye ndave ndichifara naye zvakanyanya kwemakore anopfuura gumi. Akaroora kaviri pamberi peDutch
yenyika uye aive nehukama hwakasiyana, zvakare nevechiDutch. Ndinovimba nemukadzi wangu 100% uye ndinogona
Handikwanise kutaura nezvehukama hwangu hwekare. Apa ndinoreva kutaura kuti zvinogonawo kuitwa zvakasiyana. Itawo zvakare
Ndakamboita zvemabhawa kare, asi handidi kufunga zvekudanana navo.
Zvakanaka Mr Vermi,
Iwe uri rombo rakanaka iwe!
Aiwa handina kuzivana nekamwana kangu kaChaatje pane imwe party kuOriental.
Iyewo haana kuita "Nijenrode", saka haazombofi akakwanisa kushamisika kune avo vanhu veThai vanoedza kushanda nenzira yavo kumusoro kune buffet uko, kushanda-gokora.
Ndakasangana naye makore gumi nemaviri apfuura pachiteshi chebhazi muUbon Ratchathani, kwandakamisa bhasikoro rangu kuti ndishanyire nemuIsaan, Laos neCambodia. Akandibatsira kutsvaga hotera ndikamukumbira kuti tidye.
Aiwa tanga wabvunza amai. Chokwadi uye chokwadi.
kudhonzwa pamwe chete kwemazuva maviri; akaenda kwaamai manheru ini ndikasara muhotera mangu.
Papera 2 months ndichingofonerana naye nemamessage, ndakamubvunza kuti aida kumboenda neni kuholiday kwevhiki here?
Hongu, ndapota, asi bvunza amai vako kutanga! Chokwadi uye chokwadi.
Ndizvo zvakafamba nesu.
Ndakafamba nepasirese, saka ndinonyatsoziva mupendero neheti, asi isu tinogara zvinoshamisa muUbon Ratchathani, hongu "the" Isaan!
Vezera rangu
Munyori akashata zvikuru pamusoro pevakadzi veIsan, avo maererano naye vose vasina kudzidza, vane ganda rakasviba uye naizvozvo vakashatawo. Sezvineiwo, ichi chiratidzo icho vanhu kunyanya vanogovana muBangkok. Bangkok iSriwilai (yakabudirira) uye Isan ndiBan Nohk (asina budiriro).
Kwete vanhu vese vekwaIsaan vane ganda rakasviba. Izvi zvinonyanya kuitika kumapurovhinzi ekumaodzanyemba, akadai seBuriram neSisaket, asi kuenda kuchamhembe ndiko kuchena. Vakadzi veLaotian, kune rumwe rutivi, vanoonekwa sevakanaka kwazvo.
Sezvineiwo, varume vakuru veThai vakapfuma vanochengeta (kuroora) hukama nevakadzi vadiki veThai (zvakare kubva kuIsan), kazhinji nekuda kwezvikonzero zvakafanana.
Ane poindi isinganzwisisike maFarang mazhinji eThailand neThais. Izvi zvinogoneka chete kana uine murairo wakatsetseka wemutauro weThai, uye saka nzwisisa zvese zviri kutaurwa zvakakukomberedza.
Uyu murume weThai, pamwe nekusaziva, anotsanangura nemazvo makuriro anoita Thais kusarura pakati pavo. Musiyano mukirasi unotsanangurwa zvakajeka uye kurambana kweThai kune vekwake vasina rombo rakanaka kunoiswa zvakare pachena.
Chii chaungaite nezvazvo, kana iwe ukapa DNA ruvara rweganda rebrown, chii chaungaite nezvazvo kana wakaberekerwa muIsaan uine mamwe mamirioni makumi maviri. Chii chaungaita kana iwe uchifanirwa kuwana chokurarama nacho munharaunda yekirasi senge yeThai. Zvino hunova hupenyu kana kupona.
Neraki, ndinoziva varume vashoma veFarang vanofara nemukadzi wavo wechiThai kubva kuIsaan.
Ndinozivawo vakadzi veIsaan, vasingazvinzwisise uye vanoparadza zita ravo, zvinoshandawo kuna Farang. Inowanikwa kwese kwese.
Kukurudzira dzidzo iri nani, mikana yakaenzana uye kodzero dzakaenzana, ndiwo anofanirwa kunge ari mafungiro emurume weThai, asi zvinosuruvarisa ...
Handina kuwana zvakawanda zvinoshamisa munyaya yacho.
Ichokwadi zvakare kuti vanhu vepakati peThailand vane mumwe mufananidzo weIsaan, uye izvo hazvina kunaka. Sei?
Vanhu vanobva kunyika dzakavakidzana vanowanzobatwawo sevakaderera. Kusarurana kuri kwese kwese.
Munhu wese anotenderwa kuita zvaanofunga..!!
Chinondirova pachangu pese pandinenge ndiri muThailand ndechekuti handiwani varume vekuFarang kunyanya vakakodzera kumukadzi wechiThai ari kutaurwa.
Wepakati farang murume haataridzike anoyevedza kutaura…!!!
Zvitongere wega paunofamba mumigwagwa chero muThailand.
Chinowanzova chakavanzika chizere kwandiri kuti sei mukadzi weThai achigona kudanana nemurume akadai .. !!! Unogona kufungidzira here..!! Asi ini ndinokahadzika kana paine hukama hwechokwadi.
Ndiri mukadzi ane makore 62, ndinonzwisisa izvozvo. Iwe unondichengeta, ini ndinokuchengeta iwe, chii chakaipa neicho, kana kuita vakaremara uye varume vakuru vese vanofanirwa kumirira kuseri kwegeraniums muNetherlands kana Belgium vhiki rese kuti vaone kana paine ane nguva kana kuda kuuya. ?? vatowanda vakamirira ipapo.
Kudaviro kwakakura sei.
Ndinovimba iwe unoisa vanhu vazhinji (varume) pasi pebhanhire neizvi.
Ini ndiri mumamiriro akafanana / hukama.
Anondichengeta uye ndinomuchengeta.
Vese vachifara.
Uye isu tese tinoziva kuti harusi rudo, i win win situation.
Hapana chakaipa ipapo?
Mubvunzo ndewekuti izvi zvese chokwadi chiri kutaurwa pano, asi kuti mukadzi wechiThai (Isan) ari kutsvaga farang haaendi kunaka kwefarang igonhi rakavhurika. Pane humbowo hwakawanda hwakadaro pano munaIsaan. Kuti mukadzi haagari akakodzera runako rweThai ichokwadi zvakare, asi mu "West" isu tinowanzo kufunga zvakasiyana kana ganda jena rakanyanya kunaka kupfuura ganda rakatsvuka. Hazvina chokwadi kuti varume vese vekuThai vanonwa zvakanyanyisa, vachibhejera uye vaine musikana, asi ini ndinoona stereotypes yakati wandei yakandikomberedza… Asi ichiri nyaya yakanaka kuverenga, kunyanya kana uchikwanisa kuiyera nemienzaniso yako! Semuyenzaniso, ndinoziva mafaranga akakwana asina "Pattaya yapfuura" - ini ndiri mumwe pachangu !!!
Ndinonzwa nyaya dzakawanda dzeWANGU KWAKANGA KUSANGANA BARDAME…..HAPANA WANGU WAIVA MASEUZE, kana nedzidzo yekuyunivhesiti…. asi manheru mamwe chetewo akauya kwandiri…..hahahahah usandisekesesa, kwete mudyandigere, akaremara uye anoshandawo zvake falang ane mhandara yekuThai……. asi chii chakaipa nemubhawa, masseuse kana musikana kubva ku7 11…. kana ane dzidzo yekuyunivhesiti kubva kwaanobvawo zvake (Akabhadhara sei dzidzo yake) chero uchifara nazvo.... usazvitutumadze nefungidziro...nekuti vasikana vakawanda vachangotanga kushanda. hahahahah kunze uko.
Mufananidzo wacho wakasimba chaizvo, asi chokwadi chiri kuchinja chaizvo. Vakadzi vakawanda vechiThai (kunyanya avo vanopfuura makore makumi matatu nemashanu uye vakadzi vakuru vane vana) vari kugara nemudiwa wekune imwe nyika. Uye zvinongodaro nekuti chikamu ichi chevakadzi hachina kufarirwa nevarume veThai (inodhura zvakanyanya, yakazvimiririra, yatove 'yakashandiswa', vana vemumwe murume), varume veThai havafarirwe neboka iri uye varume vekunze vanogamuchira 'zvakare. ' yemukadzi akadaro nekuti vane zvakapfuura zvavo.
Pandinosangana nemukadzi akanaka wekuThai ane makore 35-45 (zvinowanzoitika) asina kumbobvira aroora kana kudanana ndinogara ndichinetseka kuti chii chaizvo chakashata paari.
Izvo varume veThai vasinganzwisise nezve Farang
Kana tichida white fart seshamwari, hatifanirwe kutarisa kureba pano. Tiri kutsvaga tawny mudiwa (chikonzero nei vakadzi veFarang vachipisa zuva) uye varume veFarang vanotoenda kuSoutheast Asia nekuda kweizvi.
Vakadzi vechiThai vanozvigeza ne'Dash' uye vanopedza mari yakawanda kuti vachene, havasi kukurumidza boka redu. Uye zvechokwadi kwete kana ivo vachiri neakawanda manotsi pamazwi avo. Iyo yekupedzisira ndeyemunhu uye vakadzi havafarire kuiverenga, ndipe mukadzi anoziva nzvimbo yake 🙂
Kuzvideredza kweThai ndicho chinhu chinonyangadza kwazvo patsika yeThai, zvinosuruvarisa kuti tinofanira kudzidza kubata nazvo.
Kwandiri hakuna vanhu vakanyangara chete mashoko anopokana.
Kwaziwai
KS
Saka, zvirinani Van Kampen zvino anoziva kuti akadzidziswawo. Ichokwadi kuti mukadzi wake haanwe doro kana kuputa fodya uye haafariri mabhawa, asi anobva kwaIsa. Kupopotedzana kwacho kunobva pakuti isu mafaranga tinoita nhoko dzezvironda. Munyori anotadza kutaura munharo yake inovaka kuti mukadzi akanaka wechiIsan achiri kugona kushanda samia noi wekirasi yepamusoro-soro kwaanozvifungawo kwaari. Barika richiri kuwanda kana kushoma muThailand. Kupesana nemufananidzo wakakodzera wemukadzi wechiThai, kwaasingasanganisire vakadzi veIsaan (nokudaro kupikiswa kwezvematongerwo enyika kuchamhembe kwakadziva kumabvazuva?), Barika remurume ane hunhu weThai. Vanowanzondiyeuchidza nezvevaAfrica. Kudzingirira vakadzi vachiratidza nekukanda mari.
Tsanangudzo pfupi pachinyorwa chakashandurwa (pfupi nekuti haina kukosha zvakanyanya). Inyaya yemunhu asingaoni zvakanaka, anofamba-famba, ane rusaruraganda, anozvidukupisa uye anozvikudza anodavira zvisiri izvo kuti ndiye oga pauchenjeri.
Handigoni kuramba kuti kune chokwadi chakakwana mune yakawanda yenyaya yake. Asi pakupera kwezuva ndiyo nyaya inoita kuti vashanyi vekufarang vafare. Zvakanaka kazhinji anongori ari nyore varimi Isaan musikana. Hapana chakaipa neizvozvo, asi ndizvo izvo Thai asinganzwisise nezve isu vekuMadokero. Kune vazhinji vekuMadokero, hazvisi zvemukurumbira chete uye zvekuonekwa padivi pemukadzi akanaka kwazvo. Chokwadi kune vakawanda 50+ gentlemen, kana vaine mukadzi anotapira, ane hanya, zvakakosha zvakanyanya kwavari pane kushamisika kubva mudunhu reBangkok. Uye kuti vakadzi vazhinji veThai vanongoda farang yemari chete, iyo nyaya yave ichizivikanwa kubvira mafaranga ekutanga asvika muThailand…
Ini ndinoona chokwadi chekuti iri meseji yakadzokororwa kubva kuStickman yakakosha zvakanyanya mupfungwa yekuti "Unobvunza uye tinouyisa", saka ndinofungidzira kuti pakanga paine chikonzero cheizvi….
Mushure mekusvika muna 2008, webhusaiti yeStickman yaive yangu imwe yemawebhusaiti mashoma ane "ruzivo rwepfungwa" nezveThailand, saiti yaive nenyaya dzinopfuura zviuru mazana manomwe panguva iyoyo, mazhinji acho achisiya nzira yekuodzwa mwoyo, kazhinji yekupedzisira yaivewo iyo. chikonzero chekuenda kuThailand. Ndinofanira kubvuma kuti dzimwe nguva kwaivapowo vakwikwidzi ve“Pullitzer Prize”. Pane imwe nguva pakava neshanduko uye kutarisa kwakabhadharwawo kune tourism. Nguva yandakaona "Stickman vakakuvara" munzvimbo yangu yepedyo, ndakafunga kuti ndakanga ndawana zvakakwana ndokumira. Nguva nenguva ini ndichiri kutarisa uye ndakasvika pakugumisa kuti zvose zvave "zvishoma zvakaoma". Ndokumbira utarise kuti iyi iwebhusaiti yeChirungu, Stickman pachayo anobva kuNew Zealand. Ngozi iyo, mukuona kwangu, iri muwebhusaiti senge Stickman yaimbove iyo yakawandisa yenyaya dzisina kunaka yainayo. Munguva yakapfuura vanhu vakagadzira mhepo isingafadzi, asi ndinogona kunge ndisina kururama.
Imwe nguva yapfuura ndakataura nezveThailandblog kune "Stickman nyaya" yeumwe Simon, mudzidzisi, akatadza kuwana zvaaitsvaga muThailand uye izvo zvaaigona kugovera hupenyu hwake hwese, uyezve, Mushure memakore matanhatu. Ndakaenda kuSouth Korea (Japan yaiva nhamba 6, ndinofunga ndinoyeuka). Ndofunga nyaya yaJayson yanga yakwana nhasi saka ndombosiya nzvimbo yenyaya yaSimon).
Munyaya yake chaiyo yaive, kazhinji, "kuda kuziva kwenjere", kana kusavapo kwayo kusvika pamwero waaida. Vanhu vazhinji vanoshora hunhu uhu nemashoko akadai sekunzwa kwepamusoro (deja vu???) nezvimwewo, asi sezvinoratidzwa nechinyorwa chaTino, zvikonzero zvekusarudza mukadzi zvakatosiyana, mupfumi weThai haadi mukadzi mutema uye American haidi mukadzi akafuta, saka mutengo kupfura kune mamwe mapoka. Simon anoda kukwanisa kutaura nezve chero chinhu uye zvese neimwe hafu yake, haazvione muThailand, obva aenda.
Zvisinei, ndinofanira kuratidza kuti Simon angave asina kutsvaga kwenguva yakakwana, sepanguva yangu yegore nehafu yakareba "Chirungu ..." muUdon Thani, ndakasangana nemadzimai maviri eThai akasangana zvizere nezvaSimoni aifunga. Mushure menguva yambotaurwa, mumwe (Khon Kaen University) akaenda kuNetherlands uye mumwe kuChina. Saka Simon akarasa tariro kare mukuona kwangu.
Kutongwa kwevabhargirls kune rakasiyana label pane imwe nguva yekutanga, dzimwe nguva ine inogara kwenguva refu-mugumisiro, iyo yandinofunga inofambisa shanduko kune mabargirls maitiro kune "vamwe".
VaJayson vaifanira kunge vakadzima tunnel vision mode. Ona chinyorwa chinotevera chinyorwa: http://ro.ecu.edu.au/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1399&context=theses uye hechino chidimbu chazvo - chine chekuita ne thesis kubva muna 2011, asi ndichiri kuziva zvimwe zvinhu nhasi (sekuziva kwemunhu wese, kukurira munzvimbo dzine dambudziko kunogona kuve nemhedzisiro inogara kwenguva refu):
Kutaura muchiThai, kurota muIsan: Yakakurumbira terevhizheni yeThai uye mazita ari kubuda evadiki veLao Isan vanogara kuchamhembe kwakadziva kumabvazuva kweThailand.
Kuvakwa kwekuzivikanwa hakuyerere munzira imwe chete uye hurukuro yekuzivikanwa muIsan inodyiswa kwete chete nemafungiro evamwe vanogara kunze kwedunhu, asi nemabatiro anoita vanhu veIsan kune zvinofungwa nevanhu vari pakati peThailand, kunyanya kuna Khon Krungthep.
(vaBangkok).
Inotevera nhaurirano pakati pevadzidzi pavakabvunzwa:
Catherine: Unofunga kuti ndeapi maitiro evanhu muKrungthep [Bangkok], Khon Krungthep, kudunhu reIsan nevanhu veIsan?
Mudzidzi: Vanofunga kuti isu takaderera kupfuura ivo.
S: Dzimwe nguva zvinoita sekunge vanotituka.
S: Vanofunga kuti tiri simbe, hapana kugamuchira vaeni. Pavanotiziva, vanoziva kuti vakarasika. Pavanotiratidza paTV vanotiona nenzira inosetsa, isinganzwisisike. Uye vanotiratidza mumadhirama kunyangwe ivo…
S: Havatizive zvachose.
S: Hongu
S: Vanofunga kuti tiri mapenzi, mapenzi.
Iyi pfungwa yekuti vekunze, kunyanya avo vanobva kumetropolis, vanowanzovaona sei mu
nzira inozvidza kana kuti isingafadzi yakaita kuti vechiduku vanoverengeka vareurure kunyara
pakuva Isan ndiri muBangkok kana mamwe matunhu eThailand, asi pakanga painewo zvakajairika
ambivalence uye kuvhiringika pamusoro pezita rezita.
Kuve nemukadzi kana musikana kubva pane zvakakurukurwa naJayson nemakirasi akasiyana ari pamusoro payo, hapana chaaigona kupa kuna Simon mune zvese izvi uye ndipo panouya makirasi ese pamwechete zvine demokrasi.
Kana vanhu vari kutaurwa vakadanana, vanopona uye vakashinga nharaunda. Kungofanana nevabereki vari mu "kumusha" kwefarangs nguva dzose / kazhinji vanoda kuti vana vavo vaende mberi kupfuura zvavanoita, musanganiswa weFarang / Thai pakati pe "vanhu vakabatanidzwa" vanogonawo kutungamirira kune zvichida kusingadiwi kushanduka kwevanhu pano munguva refu.
Dirk
Uyu USA Thai anofunga kuti ane hungwaru hwese uye ruzivo maererano nechidzidzo uye anogeza muhupfumi hwekusagadzikana. Varume veFarang vanogona kunzwisisa vakadzi vechiThai zvakanyanya uye kutora mukana weizvozvo.
Chirevo: "Ziso reBull! Nyaya inodiwa kuti iverengerwe mafarang anofambidzana nevakadzi vechiThai ”yakanyorwa naStickman. Dai asina kutumira chirevo, iyo USA Thai ingadai yakaiisa, inosungirwa kuverenga kuti farang ..., zvakawanda zvekunyepedzera munyori uyu.
Munyori angada kutevedzera: izvo murume weThai asinganzwisise nezve varume veFarang.
NicoB
Musikana wangu haabvi kwaIsaan asi anobva kuBangkok, haana kunaka asi akadzidza zvakanyanya (Phd) uye ane chinzvimbo chakanaka kuyunivhesiti. Vanosvika makumi manomwe muzana muzana vevakadzi vaanoshanda navo, vanoshandawo kune mamwe mayunivhesiti, vane farang semukomana kana murume. Izvo zvandinongoda kutaura kuti izvo zvataurwa pamusoro apa "vakadzi vasina tariro chete kubva kuIsaan vanoda farang" hazvishande.
Iyo nyaya inotaura zvakawanda nezve pesvedzero yenhoroondo paThailand pane nezvehupenzi hwefarang.
Iyo Isan yakave chikamu cheThai Empire chete kunonoka, uye pakutanga nzvimbo yacho yainyanya kusiiwa kune yayo yega. Chete panguva yekuvandudzwa kweChulalongkorn iyo nzvimbo yainyanya kutarisisa kuLaos neCambodia yakava chikamu chakakodzera cheThailand, asi zvirokwazvo kwete yakazara-yakazara. Kutyisidzira kuti maFrench aizopinda nechisimba anogona kunge aitawo basa.
Saka iwe unogona kutaura kuti huwandu hwevanhu muIsan hwaionekwa sechinyakare boka revakatorwa kunze kwenyika, uye izvo zvatiri kuona zvino mhedzisiro yeizvi.
Icho chokwadi chekuti tsime guru rekuwana mari shoma kurimwa kwemupunga kuri kurwara hakubatsire mukukura nekukurumidza kana kubatanidzwa kwakakosheswa, zvichiita kuti 'sarudzo' yekushanda mubhawa uye/kana kutanga kuvhima farang sarudzo iri pachena. .
Handingashamisike kana Thai 'chaiye' akahaiwa basa remuhofisi muBangkok nekukurumidza kupfuura benzi rerima reIsaantje.
Kutaura zvino kuti farang, zvakanyanya kana zvishoma, hove 'mutsime rakasvibiswa, rine mavara asina kunaka' zvinonyadzisa.
Pazasi apa ndakaverenga nezvevakadzi vechiThai vari kubiridzirwa, kushungurudzwa nezvimwe zvakawanda. Zvinoita kuti ufunge. Ndakamboverenga mhando idzi dzemipiro kubva kuvarume veThai. Izvi zvimwe imhaka yekuti vanonyara nemukurumbira wakaipa wenyika wechipfambi. Iyi imhando yekudzivirira. Pamusoro peiyo hombe brothel Thailand, kune zvakare ine hunhu Thailand, asi iyo inyika yakasarudzika inongochengeterwa Thais. Kwete kunyange veLaos nekuti ivo pasipoti Thais. MuSouth East Asia munhu wese anovenga maThai. (The Bangkok clique ipapo). VaLaotians havadi veThai. Chokwadi kwete maCambodian. VaBurmese havadi veThai, uye Malaysia haina kuwirirana zvakare.
Runako ihama, izvo mumwe munhu anoona zvakanaka hazvireve hazvo kushanda kune mumwe. Iyo nyaya inosimbisa maonero akajairwa (kune izvo zvakakosha) kuti (pakati pezvimwe zvinhu) varume vechiDutch, vanowanzotadza kuvaka kana kuchengetedza hukama munyika yavo, uye dzimwe nguva zvakare vachinzi 'vakasunungura' nemhuri, vashandi pamwe navo. uye vanozivana, vanowana 'mufaro' muThailand. Asi avo vanodana mumwe munhu 'musununguri' vanogona kuva negodo muchivande nezve 'munhu ane rombo rakanaka' akatora danho rekuita bhizinesi nemuThai. Sezvinobvumwa, dzinenge nguva dzose hapana mubvunzo weukama hwakaenzana pakutanga. Mudiwa weThai anopinda muhukama nekuda kwezvikonzero zvehungwaru uye ari kunyanya kutsvaga kuchengetedzwa kwemari, nepo farang achiwanzo pinda kubva pamoyo wake, achidyiswa nemahomoni ake. Asi uko mumwe ari kunanga kufiasco yakakwana ine kazhinji kazhinji miuyo yemari, mumwe anowana mufaro wake mumakore okuva pamwe chete mutsinhirano yakanaka. Ichokwadi kuti maFarang haanzwisise zvese nezvevakadzi vechiThai, izvo zvinokonzereswa nemamiriro akasiyana zvachose uye marererwo pamwe nekudzivisa mutauro. Senguva zhinji, ndinogona kubvumirana nezvakataurwa naTino Kruis. Saka zvitongerei pachenyu, shandisai ruzivo rwavamwe asi musanyengerwa uye muchengete pfungwa dzenyu.
Maonero angu akazvininipisa pamusoro pesarudzo yemudiwa wemukadzi weIsan kana mukadzi wechiThai kazhinji: vakadzi vazhinji vane chikumbaridzo chakaderera uye vanopotsa vaenda kumurume wesarudzo anovavimbisa denga pasi. Vanowanzo zvipira kune zvavanoda uye vanoita zvese zvavanogona kuti muchato / hukama hufambe zvakanaka sezvinobvira.
Havazivi kuti “kuda” kana kuti “kuva murudo” sezviri munyika dzokuMadokero.
Ndiri kufara zvikuru uye kufara nemudzimai wangu. Asi pandakasangana naye ndaingovawo tariro yeramangwana rakanaka. Ndinotozvishingisa ndichiti ane dambudziko nazvo kudarika ini. Aindida, asi akanga ajairana nomurume wokuThailand kwoupenyu hwake hwose. Uye zvino nemutorwa akadai, kumutorwa wake mukuru.
Iye zvino, pashure pemakore mashanu, tatotarira shure panguva yakanakisisa youpenyu hwedu. Tinorarama zvine mwero, asi zvakanaka pamwe chete. Tinozivana neutera hwedu hwose uye nekusimba kwedu. Uye kuti anobva kuIsaan kana kuTimbuktu…hazvina basa. Isu tiri vanhu vakanyanya kukosha..
Heino mamwe mashoko kune vanofarira (Bangkokpost-Learning-2015), iyo inoratidza kuti kuchinja kuri kuitikawo munzvimbo ino muThailand uye chidimbu kubva ku "Purofesa", anotsanangura "imwe nyika yeThai".
Vakadzi vechidiki vepakati-kirasi Thai vanoroora vatorwa: Nei?
http://www.bangkokpost.com/learning/work/657196/young-middle-class-thai-women-marrying-foreigners-why
https://www.stickmanbangkok.com/readers-submissions/2011/08/the-mysterious-second-world-of-thailand/
Dirk
Izvo hazvisi zvakanyanya pamusoro pekunzwisisa, asi iwe unofanirwa kuziva nezve zvinotevera zvinhu:
1. Wanano yeThai ichiri mubatanidzwa pakati pemhuri nedzinza (zvichienderana nekubatsirikana) pane mubatanidzwa pakati pemurume nemukadzi. Mafungiro erudo erudo anobuda zvishoma nezvishoma. Vakadzi vechiThai vanodzidziswa kuchengeta ziso pane (zvenguva refu) zvido zvemhuri pakubata nemutorwa.
2. Bonde harina kuitirwa hukama. Kuita zvepabonde kunze kwewanano hakuna musiyano. Izvi zvinogamuchirwa zvishoma kuvakadzi pane varume. Vakadzi vanokoshesa izvozvo.
3. Pane kupatsanurwa pakati penyika yemurume nemukadzi. Akaroora kana kuti kwete, mukadzi anowanzoenda kumapoka evakadzi nevasikana (kutenga, kutemberi, zviitiko zvechikoro zvevana, karaoke). Varume vanozvifarira mumapoka zvikurukuru nokuona TV, kutaura nokunwa.
Chokwadi izvi zviri kuchinja zvishoma nezvishoma. Asi 50% yevadzidzi vangu vekukoreji vanoona dambudziko rakakura kana mukomana kana musikana asingafarirwe nevabereki. Chete 15% vanozviona zvichinetsa kana mudiwa akanwa zvakanyanyisa ozotyaira mota zvakadaro.
Haisi pasina iyo inoti: "yakatsiviwa chidimbu". Mamiriro ezvinhu aripo achinja zvakanyanya kubva pakabuda social media, uye kumwe kusunungurwa/westernization kuri kuitikawo pakati pevakadzi vechidiki vechiThai. Iko zvino kwakazara nevadzidzi vakadzidza vepayunivhesiti vanozvipira kuperekedzwa mabasa kuburikidza nefacebook nezvimwe. Uye ivo havabvi kuIsaan, asi vanongoona bonde sechinhu chehupfumi chekuwedzera bhezari yavo nenzira iri nyore. Sezvineiwo, ruzhinji (85%) rwe "mahure mumhanyi" ndiThai, asi izvozvo parutivi.
Izvo zvekuti kune OP isan vakadzi vakafanana nevakadzi vakafuta kuAmerica hazvireve chinhu kwandiri. Ndinoona vakadzi vechiThai kazhinji vasina kunaka kupfuura hanzvadzi dzavo dzeIsan, Malaysian, Burmese neCambodian. Ini handifarire zviso zvezvidhori, uye izvo hazvina chekuita nedzidzo.
1. Ndaida kuziva kubva kuAmerican Thai uyu kuti vese vana Isan vanoiswa kuhama mushure mekunge mukuru Thaiman asiya mukadzi wake wechigumi asina anochengeta munyika nevana vaakabereka.
2. Musikana wangu, kubvira makore 2, anodada kuva Bangkokian chaiye pasinei nedambudziko rake neganda rake rakasviba, anoramba achindivhundutsa nematauriro aanoita uye anotarisira pasi murume weIsan pano muBangkok. Ndinomuwana ane hasha uye asingashiviriri vamwe vanhuwo zvavo, anokweva nenhevedzano yezvisingakoshi, maererano nekufunga kwangu kwekuMadokero.
Murume uyu zviri pachena kuti ndewevakuru. Zvandinoreva iyo "iri nani" hafu yeThai iyo vanhu veIsarn vanofanirwa kuita basa rakasviba uye kuchengetedza kuti vanhu ava vanodzvinyirira uye kubhadhara mari shoma. Nekuda kweizvozvo, vasikana vanobva kuIsarn vanowanzomanikidzwa nemhuri kurera farang nemari.
Ini handitombotsigiri kusviba kwemurume. Sei farang ichienda kuThailand kune mukadzi "chena"? Unogona kuzviwana kwese kwese muEurope.
Uye kana paine imwe yenyika Thai hobby, ndeyekugumbura uye makuhwa imwe, Thai pamwe neFarang!
Ndinofanira kubvuma kuti nguva refu yandinogara pano ndiko kuderera kwandinoita maThai. Asi munyori wenyaya iyi haanyatsoinzwisisa zvachose. Kwete kubva kure uye kwete kubva kumukadzi wechiThai…
ChiThai??
Ini handina chokwadi kana ndichifanira kupindura, icho chisingaperi chinhu nezvehukama / vakadzi. Iwo anozivikanwa stereotypes: farang akura, mukadzi anobva kuIsaan, blah blah. Kana vaviri vakabuda muhukama zvavanotarisira kana kugutsikana nazvo, isu tiri vanaani kuti titonge? Kungotaura nekukurumidza ipapo:
Ini ndinofunga zviri kupfupika kwemunyori kuratidza Isaan semapenzi evarimi vanoona. Ivo zvakare vane zvikoro ikoko uye vabereki vakawanda vanogona kutumira mwana wavo kuti atore bachelor's kana master's degree. Iyo diploma inogona kuve yakakosha pane yekuMadokero, asi inogona kubatsira vakomana nevasikana kuwana basa rakanaka maererano neThai zviyero. Ini pachangu, ndinosarudza mukadzi akangwara, bepa rechikoro haritauri zvese, asi kana iwe uri padanho rakafanana maererano nehungwaru, zvinoita kuti hukama huve nyore. Ndinoda mukadzi anoda kuziva uye anonakidzwa nekukurukura. Iwe haudi kunzwa 'iwe unotaura / funga zvakanyanya'. Kana, seni, iwe unoda tsika, nhoroondo, zvivakwa, zvisikwa, nezvimwewo, asi mumwe wako anongoona rwendo rweguta semukana wekushanyira nzvimbo yekutengesa kune imwe nzvimbo. Izvozvo zvaizondikanganisa. Ipapo mwero wekufunga uye chokwadi chinosiyana zvakanyanya.
Uye kana iwe uchiuya kuIsaan kune zvakare zvese kubva kuchiedza kusvika kune rima, uye kumaodzanyemba vanhu vanowanzo sviba nekumwe kutaridzika kweMalaysian / Indo. Kudzinga boka rose kana dunhu richinzi rakashata kana kuti benzi hunongova hupenzi pahunogona napo. Uye munhu wese ane kuravira kwake, handiti? Rudo rwangu rwakanga rune chitarisiko cheLaotian, chokwadi chisina kusviba uye muNetherlands vanhu vazhinji vakakanganisa neChinese. Iye pachezvake dzimwe nguva aizviona zvichitsamwisa apo vashandi vekuchekwa kwechitoro cheChinese/Asia vaitaura naye muchiChinese (Mandarin?). Ndaiita jee kana ndabva 'mudiwa usakanganwa bepanhau remahara' (kubva kuChina).
Ehezve, semushanyi kana kugara-refu-mudyandigere iwe uchanyanya kusangana nevashandi vebasa: vashandi vekugamuchira, vashandi vekubika, vashandi vekumassage uye zvichingodaro. Aya anowanzo hunyanzvi hwausingade kudzidza, saka vashanyi vanowanzo tamba nevashandiwo zvavo. Asi kuti ipapo ipapo vashongedze muti wose nekuchema kuti 'mapenzi chete, akashata maIzaner anotsvaga farang uye ivo neiyo farang havagone kuwana chero chinhu chiri nani' hazvina musoro uye zvinoshoreka.
Chandinofanira kubvumirana nemurume uyu ndechekuti mabhero anofanira kurira kana mumwe munhu akati “Thai (kana chero nyika) hazvina kunaka' kana kuti 'ndinongoda farang' chete. Vazhinji vevarume nevakadzi vanhuwo zvavo vanhu vane hukama hwakanaka kune vane pfungwa dzakafanana. Nyika yekuzvarwa ine zvishoma kana kuti haina basa
Hongu, iniwo ndine kushaya simba kana zvandinoda kune vamwe vakadzi (Southeast Asia, tsvarakadenga dema bvudzi, mutete, ane ruoko, kuseka pamwe chete, kutaura, kushambadzira, kufamba, kuda kuziva, ...) asi dai ndaizoti 'Ndinongoda Thai, Vakadzi vechiDutch havana kunaka' saka ndinovimba kuti flirt yangu ichaputika nekuseka ndokutiza! 555
Ndinongoda kukuzivisai kuti ndakapindura ichi chinyorwa makore mashanu apfuura uye kuti ndichiri kugara nomudzimai wangu Isan uye ndinofara nayewo.
Kusarura kwakajairika kweAmerica.
Kashoma kuverenga chidimbu chinoshoropodza uye rusarura chakadaro kupfuura chidimbu ichi.
Pfff kubva kuUSA, ingangoita nyika inochengetedza uye ine pfungwa dzakatetepa pasi pano.
Zvinonetsa kunyora nezve vanhu vanobva ku isan vakadaro
So petty.
Ndapota gara muUSA
ndine mukadzi wechithai anobva kuShalao area xhang rai
Asi kunyangwe iye haatauri achizvidzikisira pamusoro pehama dzake dzemuIsan.
Iye munyori zviri pachena ndewevakuru vepamusoro vepakati peThailand. Vanochengeta Isaan pasi pechigunwe chavo nekuda kwezvido zvavo. Wese munhu anoziva nezve caste system muThailand, kunyangwe isinganyatso kunzi izvozvo pano. Neraki, mafarang muThailand haana rusaruraganda maererano neruvara! Chii chingave chiri nani pane musikana mudiki mudiki ane vhudzi refu dema! Ndiye mumwe wevakanyanya kusarura mumaziso angu. Ko bargirl yakaipa kupfuura vevakuru? Pamwe neimwe nzira.
Murume uyu asarawo makore 2000. Jesu aifambidzana nezvifeve, semuenzaniso, Maria Magadharini.
Wadiwa JJ,
Hapana pandinoverenga kuti anobva kune vepamusoro-soro, asi kuti akaberekerwa kuUSA.
Ichokwadi zvakare kuti amai vake vanobva kuIsaan uye vakaroora muAmerica ikoko.
Uye iye zvino ane maitiro ekuzvidukupisa eanoziva-zvose asingadi kuyeuchidzwa nezvekwaakabva.
Iwe unofanirwa kuve nemakore mangani semunhu, sehafu yekunze, kuve kana kuwana nzwisiso uye ruzivo mune yako wega Thai kwakabva.
Ipfupi kwazvo uye nyaya inotaura zvakawanda nezvake.
Imwezve nyaya nezve "farang" uye "mukadzi wechiThai". Chokwadi zviri nyore kufunga maererano stereotypes uye rusaruro. Asi edza kuona kuti farang yese uye mukadzi wese weThai akasiyana, maererano nekufunga, mararamiro, zviitiko, nezvimwe. Kuisa zvese pamwe chete, zvakanaka, uye wogara uchizvisimbisa mune izvo, ndizvo zvinokufadza, ndizvo zvinokupa chimwe chinhu. kudzidza nezvako, uchigara munyika ino?
Ndave ndakaroora mudzimai wangu Isaan/Thai kwemakore makumi maviri nemashanu.
Anorarama kusvika kune ese clichés: mupfupi uye ane ganda rakasviba. Uye hongu: tinoziva mumwe nemumwe kubva kubhawa.
Tose takarera vana 4 vaaive vabva kumuchato. Kwandiri ndinonzwa kunge vana vangu chaivo uye kuvana ndinongova baba vavo.
Zvinofungwa nevamwe vanhu nezvazvo hazvina basa kwandiri.
Kunyangwe nharaunda yangu yeThai ichandiona senge isinganzwisisike chena fart, ini ndinogona hangu zvishoma kuvabvisa kubva kwavari.
Kwete kuti ndinoda kuzvibhabhadzira kumusana, asi kuratidza kuti handina kuwira kumashure kwemusoro wangu senge chena, ndaida kuve nechokwadi chekuti kutaura nekunzwisisa mutauro weThai kunocheka zvirinani kupfuura vazhinji pa nguva iri munharaunda yangu nemutauro weChirungu.
Nyika yako inova yakakura zvakanyanya, kana iwe uchiziva zvavari kutaura nezvazvo, uye unogona zvakare kutaura chimwe chinhu kumashure.
Kuvimba bedzi pane izvo mudzimai wako anodiwa nemhuri yake vanoda kukuudza mukuonana kwavo kwezuva nezuva, kunozvidza farang ane hunhu uyo anotogutsikana zvikuru nouyu zivo shomanene yezivo.
Ndakasangana nemukadzi wangu pamusika wemuriwo muChiang Rai, asi dai izvi zvainge zvaitika ndanga ndiri mubhawa, nezvese zvandinoziva nezvake izvozvi, iyi ingadai isiri nyaya hombe.
Kuvanza bhara remukadzi kare, kana uchiitira kudzivirira, zvakaoma zvakadaro kana iwe uchida kuzviita nguva dzose.
Kana akashanda muhupenyu hwehusiku kwenguva yakareba, achakurumidza kana gare gare, nekuti anozopota achishandisa mutauro wake wakadzidza wehusiku, anowira nebhasiketi.
Iwe haugone zvakare kuita generalize munhu anoshanda mubhawa nevamwe vaunoshanda navo, asi zvinowanzoitika muboka iri kuti ivo vanoda chaizvo kuvanza zvakawanda.
Isu tinogara kuGermany kwechikamu chikuru chezhizha, uye kana tikambosangana neThai/farang vaviri vaasingatauri izwi rechiThai, mudzimai wangu dzimwe nguva aibvunzwa nehasha, sei akandidzidzisa Thai zvose?
Wobva waziva, nekuti izvi zvakare hazvifadzwi nevamwe vakadzi muhupenyu hwehusiku, kuti mukadzi uyu anokwenya sei, uye kwaanobva.
Muenzi anotaura zvakawanda zvechiThai, mumaziso avo, anonzi "Roemaak" (zvichida kushandurwa kuti anoziva zvakawanda) wavanoda kuzadzisa kubva mubhawa nekuseka zvine hushamwari.
Zvakanakisa ndezvisina ruzivo mushandisi mukuru, anonzwa kuti asvika mune imwe mhando yefantasyland, kwaanofunga kuti hunhu hwake chete hunoyemurwa nevakadzi vese.
Vazhinji vevapedzisira kutaurwa vanoudzwa kuti mukadzi waari kutarisa achangobva kushanda munzvimbo yehusiku kwemavhiki maviri.
Saka mavhiki maviri kwaari tikiti kubva kurotari, isati yaparara sezvainodanwa (555) uye zvichida zvakare isina kukuvara.
Izvo chete zvaunogona kunzwa mese mubhawa rakadaro, ruzivo rushoma rwemutauro weThai uye kuita kunge hapana chaunonzwisisa zvinokupa manheru anoshamisa.