Vakadzi vechiThai vanofanira kutenda here?
Pane nyaya dzakawanda pane ino blog nezve zvinoshamisa uye dzimwe nguva zvisina musoro maitiro Vakadzi vechiThai. Asi nderipi rimwe divi remari, varume vekuMadokero vanogara vachinzwisisa uye vakanaka kumukadzi wavo weThai kana musikana?
Chinondirova pamusoro pevarume vekuMadokero ndechokuti vanowanzotenda kuti vakadzi vavo vekuThai vanofanira kunyanya kuonga. Uyu mutsara wekufunga unowanzo tungamira kune makakatanwa uye matambudziko ehukama.
Havasi vese varume vekuMadokero vanoita nenzira iyi, hongu, asi kana paine matambudziko ehukama, izvi zvinowanzouya pamusoro. Vanotenda kuti haafaniri kunyunyuta uye kufara ne'hupenyu hutsva' hwake. Vanofungawo kuti kana akanyunyuta pamusoro pechimwe chinhu, anobva atotadza kuonga.
Kutenda ndihwo hwaro hwehukama?
Varume ava pavanokurukura nezve kusangana kwazvino nemudiwa wekuThai, unowanzonzwa chirevo chinotevera. “Atokanganwa kwaakabva. Pandakasangana naye aigara muchitangwena achirara pasi.” Izvi zvinoreva here kuti anofanira kubvuma zvose uye kuzviisa pasi? Ihwo hwaro hwakanaka hwehukama here?
Kana usinganzwisise zvaanofunga kana kuti zvaanoda, ungatarisira sei kuti agare achifara nokuti ava kurara pamubhedha wakanaka?
Chokwadi, anofanira kuva anoonga. Varume vazhinji vekuMadokero mukati Tairendi vakaita kuzvipira kukuru (kwemari) kuti vabatsire mudzimai wavo weThai. Kumwe kuonga kwakakodzera, asi kwete kusvika kumwero wokuti kunovhiringidza basa romukadzi muukama. Iyewo anogovera kuukama nenzira yake amene, chimwe chinhu icho murume anofanirawo kuonga nacho. Muukama hwakaenzana uye hune hutano, kutenda nerukudzo zvinofanirwa kuenda nenzira mbiri.
Naive mazano pamusoro pevakadzi vechiThai
Varume vazhinji vanouya kuThailand vaine chinangwa chekuwana mukadzi wezviroto zvavo. Ini ndinofunga vanhu vazhinji vanoita chikanganiso chekusanyatsodzidza tsika yeThai zvisati zvaitika. Ivo vanonyanya vane pfungwa dzisina musoro nezvevakadzi vechiThai. Vanofunga kuti 'vachaponesa' musikana weThai kubva muupenyu hwake husina kunaka. Mukudzoka, vanoda rudzi rwekutenda kusingaperi uye vanotarisira kuti mukadzi agare achiratidza izvi kwaari.
Zvakanaka, nhau dzakaipa ndedzekuti vakadzi vazhinji veThai havanzwi sevanoda 'kununurwa'. Vanoda nyika yavo nemhuri yavo. Ivo kazhinji vane shamwari dzakawanda uye vane hupenyu hwakanaka hwemagariro muThailand. Hongu, vakadzi vazhinji veThai varombo, asi hazvireve kuti havasi kufara. Havadi kushandura hupenyu hwazvino. Vanongoda mari yakawanda kuti vawedzere kunakidzwa.
Kuchengetedzwa kwemari
Vakadzi vazhinji veThai vakavhurika kuhukama nemurume wekuMadokero. Thailand ine imwe yemasangano akavhurika uye anoshivirira muAsia. Hukama neFarang isarudzo yakanaka kune mukadzi wechiThai.
Imwe yemabhenefiti anoonekwa nevakadzi veThai muhukama nevarume vekuMadokero ndeyekuti vanogona kupa chengetedzo yemari yakawanda kupfuura varume vazhinji veThai. Zvisinei, vari kutsvagawo zvimwe zvinotarisirwa nevakadzi kubva muukama hwakanaka, zvakadai serudo neruremekedzo.
Full partner
Havadi kuti murume agare achimutarisira kuti amuonge. Ndiani anoda hukama hwakadaro? Ndiani anoda kuonekwa seakaderera nguva dzese nekuti haana mari? Uye ndicho chikonzero nei asingabvumirwi kutora chikamu muzvisarudzo zvemari? Anofanira kugara achiyeuchidzwa kwaanobva here?
Wanano inyaya yekupa nekutora. Mapato ese ari maviri anofanirwa kukwanisa kubvumirana uye kupindura kune zvinodiwa nevadikani vavo. Chokwadi ichokwadi kuti vamwe vakadzi veThai havana kunaka nemari. Pakadaro zviri nani kuti murume agadzirise nyaya dzemari. Asi izvi hazvireve kuti mukadzi wako kana musikana wekuThai haafanire kukanganisa kwainoenda mari, kana kuti anofanira kubvuma zvese.
Hupenyu hwekare
Chikonzero chikuru nei vakadzi veThai vasingaongi sezvavanoda vadiwa vavo vekuMadokero ndechekuti havana hanya nekudzokera kuhupenyu hwavo hwekare. Havana dambudziko kurara pasi. Mvura inopisa inotonhorera, asi mbiya yemvura inotonhora ichaitawo kuti ugare wakachena. Ndihwo hupenyu hwavanoziva. Havatyi kutanga hupenyu ihwohwo zvakare. Havagari vachionga zvinhu zvose zvoumbozha nokuti handicho chinhu chinonyanya kukosha kwavari.
Mhuri noruremekedzo, zvinhu zviviri zvinokosha
Pane zvinhu zviviri izvo vakadzi vazhinji veThai vanoda muhupenyu hwavanotungamira. Chekutanga, vakadzi veThai vanoona zvakakosha kutsigira mhuri nemari. Dzimwe nguva mupiro muduku, asi kunewo avo vasina kumbokwana.
Chechipiri chakajeka. Ndizvo zvinodiwa nemunhu wese muhukama, kudiwa nekuremekedzwa. Kunzwa kuenzana uye kwakakosha. Umbozha hwese huri munyika hahukwanisi kutsiva kubatwa semeti yemusuwo. Zvakafanana kwavari sezvazviri kwatiri. Manzwiro ekuti uriwe zvake zvachose.
Murume weSweden
Nguva yadarika ndakatamba zvinonyadzisa zvemuturikiri wemurume wekuSweden aironga kudanana nemusikana wechiThai. Mukadzi uyu ndaimuziva, aiva muvakidzani uye ainyatsoziva mudzimai wangu. Mukomana wechiSweden akanga asingagoni kutaura Chirungu, aiva neshamwari yake yaishandura chiSwedish muchiRungu. Mukadzi wechiThai aisataura kana shoko rechirungu, saka ndakamushandurira muchiThai.
Mukomana weSweden akanga amuka mazororo kwemavhiki maviri uye aitsvaga mukadzi wechiThai. Akafara chaizvo kusangana nemumwe mukadzi wechiThai akanga asiri mubhawa. Akadzokorora kakawanda kuti aifunga kuti akanga akachenjera zvikuru kuti aroore musikana weku Thai. Ndicho chikonzero chaakasarudza, mukadzi akanaka wechiThai. Akamuona pane imwe restaurant achibva amukumbira kuti abude. Vakambobuda panze kakati wandei asi vaitadza kutaurirana. Mukadzi wechidiki akanaka chaizvo. Chaaisagona kuziva ndechekuti aiva ngochani.
Takaenda tese kurestaurant. Uye aida kuti mumwe munhu amubatsire kushandura zvose zvaaida kutaura.
"Ndinoda kumuroora."
Shamwari yedu ngochani yakashamiswa nechikumbiro ichi chakaerekana. Kunze kwenyaya yekuti ingochani, akange angodanana naye kakati wandei. Nekudaro, sezvakawanda Thais, haana kunyara kubva pamakadhi ake. Akasarudza kurega murume weSweden apedzisa nyaya yake.
"Ari kuenda neni kuSweden."
Ndiyo imwe yezvikanganiso zvechinyakare izvo varume vazhinji vekumadokero vanoita. Vane chokwadi chokuti vari kupa chipo kune mumwe munhu wokuThailand nokutaura kuti anogona kutamira kune imwe nyika kwenguva yakati. Zvakanaka, hachisi chakavanzika kuti Thais anoda kugara muThailand. Chikonzero chega chekuti Thais aende kunze kwenyika kuita mari. Havaendi kunze kwenyika kuti vawane humbozha. Vanoda mararamiro ari nani, asi muThailand. Vanoenda kunze kwenyika kuti vawane mari yakawanda. Pakupedzisira, vanodzokera kuThailand nemari yavakachengeta.
"Achadzidza kutaura chiSwedish."
Dzidza mutauro mutsva - chikumbiro chidiki chete. Shamwari yedu yakagutsikana kuti uku kwaingova kufunga kwaakaita.
"Achagara mumba mangu."
Kuratidza rupo, kuti mudzimai wako anogona kugara mumba mako.
“Anofanira kubika, kuchengeta imba yakachena uye kuwacha.
Hongu, murume uyu anonyatsoziva zvaanoda. Mukadzi akanaka wechiThai sahosi. Ndakanetseka kuti sei akanga asina kuwana mukadzi wechiSweden. Haana kukumbira zvakawanda kudaro.
"Kana achida kutumira mari kumhuri yake, anofanira kuwana basa owana mari yacho."
Zvechokwadi akanga atoverenga chimwe chinhu pamusoro pevakadzi vechiThai. Aiziva kuti vakadzi vechiThai vanotumira mari kuti vatsigire mhuri. Naizvozvo akafunga kuti zvakanga zvine musoro kuti akanga asiri kuzobhadhara nokuda kwokushandiswa kunoshatirisa uku. Pashure pezvose, aizoramba aine nguva yakakwana yebasa mukuwedzera kubasa repamba nemitoro yake yeroorano.
Cherechedza kushaikwa kwemavara emibvunzo munhaurirano iyi. Hazvina kumbouya kwaari kuti mukadzi wechiThai aizoti 'kwete' kune zvaakakumbira. Aihwa! Anofanira kumuonga!
Shamwari yedu yakatora nguva ichifunga nezvechikumbiro ichi. Akanakidzwa nechisvusvuro ndokubva ataura zvakasimba kuti aisazoenda naye kuSweden. Murume weSweden airatidza kushamisika uye kuvhunduka. Haana kubvuma kuti musikana uyu aisada ‘kuponeswa’ naye. Ko aigoita sei benzi rekuti 'aiwa' pamukana wakadaro, akadaro nehasha ndokuenda.
Kumununura kubva pakurarama kwake kwehurombo?
Ini ndinongoudza nyaya iyi kuti ipe nzwisiso mune zvisinganzwisisike pfungwa dzinombove nevarume vekuMadokero nezvevakadzi vechiThai. Ivo havadi chaizvo kuti mumwe munhu angamununura kubva muhurombo hwake. Nekuda kwekutenda achabva apedza hupenyu hwake hwese achikambaira pamberi pemuponesi wake ari pabhiza jena. Uye kunyange dai zvakadaro, haisi hwaro hwehukama hwemazuva ose.
Hukama nemukadzi wechiThai hunofanirwawo kuve hwakavakirwa pakuenzana uye kupa uye kutora mativi ese.
Kune mamwe akashamisika emumusha mapenzi anofamba achitenderedza Farang Kee Nok muThailand
Vanowanzova nedambudziko rakafanana munyika yavo yekugara, maitiro ekoloni / chiremera chezvizvarwa zvishoma zvakapfuura zvichiri kunyanya kudzika mumajeni, kunyange ndaifunga kuti veSweden vakanga vasingazive izvozvo.
Matauriro asina kufunga anowanzo kunzwika, kunyanya pakutanga kwehukama.
Kutaura nezvematauriro, ungazvirega sei uchiiswa pamberi pengoro yakadai, iwe unoverenga sezvizvi, mugari wemuThailand ane ruzivo achabuda kunze kwemuturikiri mumatatu, asi nhasi une zvakawanda zvekusarudza panguva inonzwisisika. dudziro panharembozha yako.
Zvinoshamisawo kuti mukadzi uyu kana kuti iwe hautaure kuti panguva ino angada kudzidzira imwe yevamwe gumi neshanu, ndakafunga, dzimwe misiyano ye "rudo rwehupenyu hwangu" hupombwe hunopihwa nenharaunda yeThai.
Mukomana anosvetukira muGungwa reBaltic paanouya kumba uye chidhori chake chinofefetera chiripo.
Nyaya yakajeka kune vamwe vose, imba imwe neimwe ine muchinjikwa wayo, sokunge zvakadaro, uye usati waruramisa izvozvo, vakawanda vangave vakagumburwa kanenge kamwe kana kaviri.
Ndatenda nekunzwisisa kwako muhukama hwakasanganiswa.
Mudikani tsvina yeshiri,
Ndinogona kubvumirana newe pamwero mukuru. Asi zvakadaro mubvunzo mudiki. Sei usina kubva wajekesa kumurume uya wekuSweden kuti uyu aive mukadzi wengochani (musikana?)? Ndinonzwa kunzwa kuti wamugadza nemaune kuratidza pfungwa yako.
Wadiwa Tina,
Unofanira kuvapa chokurarama nacho!
Vese avo maThais, asiwo mamwe marudzi, vanonyepedzera kunge vari murudo nemutorwa asi vari ngochani, vasina bonde kana kuti vane imwe mutsauko wepabonde, vanopisa zvikepe zvavo nekuda kwekuchengetedzeka kwavo kwemari. Uye nekune dzimwe nyika kuenda kune imwe nyika.
Ndizvo zvazviri, nyika ino ine kucheka kwakawanda uye vanhu vanofunga zvakasiyana, inopiwa, mugadziri weshangu anonamatira kune yako yekupedzisira, inouya nguva, mazano achauya.
Ramba uchinakidzwa neThailand, inyika inonakidza, uye tanga waisa wacha yako yakasviba mumuchina wekuwachisa usati waiturika kunze.
Kuti ndipindure kumubvunzo, ndinofunga kuti vazhinji vavo vanogona kutenda kuti varume, vakadzi uye zvese zviri pakati vanogona kuvaka hukama hwerudo nemutorwa. VaThais vakapfuma vanosarudza vamiriri kubva kumapoka avo nekuda kwenyaya dzemari uye pasi pemagariro emari inoitawo basa guru nekuti rudo harutengi mupunga.
Mia noi, pua noi nedzimba dzekukwesha dzose dzine chinangwa chekutiza chifananidzo chinodiwa chenyika yakanaka uye kana zvinhu zvichifamba zvakanaka mune zvemari, vanhu vanofuratirawo nekuti pane chokwadi chekurasika.
Kunyange zvakadaro, zvinotonyanya kunakidza kuchembera nemumwe wako kana wakagadzirira kukunda matambudziko etsika mbiri, apo mumwe anofunga murudo uye mumwe akachengeteka.
Quote: Varume vazhinji vekuMadokero muThailand vakaita kuzvipira kukuru (kwemari) kuti vabatsire vakadzi vavo vekuThai. Kumwe kuonga kwakakodzera, asi kwete kusvika kumwero wokuti kunovhiringidza basa romukadzi muukama.
Zvinoratidzika kwandiri kuti zvibayiro izvi kazhinji hazviitirwe mukadzi, asi kuti azadzise zvaanoda.
Mukadzi wechidiki akanaka kune mukomana akashata, semuenzaniso.
Kana vakadzi veThai vachifanira kutenda kuti vakakochekera farang, zvakanaka dzimwe nguva zvichave zvakanaka.
Ndinoti dzimwe nguva, nekuti pandinotarisa zvakandikomberedza, ndinotenda kuti kazhinji ndiyo imwe nzira muhukama hwakawanda hweThai/farang.
Ini nemukadzi wangu wekuThai taigara kuGermany nguva yese yezhizha denda risati rasvika, uye taiwanzonakidzwa nemwedzi yechando kumba kwake kuThailand.
Ndinoti imba yake, nokuti kunyange zvazvo ndakabhadhara zvakanyanya nokuda kwayo, ndinofunga zvakasiyana nevamwe vakawanda vanorwara, uye ndinongobvuma kuti zviri muzita rake chete.
Zvirokwazvo ndingadai ndakaronga izvi zvakasiyana mukunyora, asi kana asingachandibvumiri kupinda mumba make, zvakafanana zvinoshanda kwaari mumba mangu muGermany.
Mushure memakore ese aya andaizivana nemukadzi wangu, hatiite nyaya yekuti munhu ane chii.
Ndinovimba naye zvekuti tine akaundi yekubhanga pamwe chete, kwatinozofungawo pamwe chete nezvekutenga nemari.
Nekuti ini ndinogona kungotonga michato yeThai/farang munharaunda yangu, zvinondirwadza kuti vakadzi vazhinji veFarang vanogara vachiratidza, kunyangwe mukambani, kuti ivo vanovimba nepfuma yake uye hunhu hwakanaka.
Mudzimai wangu anouyawo nekuti, mukukurukurirana zvakavanzika nevakadzi ava, anombonzwa zvinhu kubva kwavari izvo zvandinotenda kuti hakuna mukadzi wechiFarang angasangana nazvo.
Dzimwe nguva hapana kuvimba kumurume kune mukadzi wechiThai, izvo zvinotoita kuti ushamise kuti sei vachiri pamwe chete.
Dzimwe nguva ndinosangana nevarume ava nokuti mudzimai wangu anoda kuonana nevaroorani ava kuti ataure neshamwari dzake, uye ndinotomanikidzwa kuteerera Paseka ndichiganza neimwe hafu yavo.
Zvino mudzimai wangu, pashure pokugara muGermany kwemakore anoverengeka, anotaura chiGerman zvikuru pachake uye anogonawo kunzwisisa varume ava, anoziva chaizvo zvandainge ndave ndichimuudza kwemakore.
Kunyangwe shamwari dzake zhinji, mukuona kwangu, dzingadai dzakawana chimwe chinhu zvachose, ivo sezviri pachena vachiri kutenderedza nemhando idzi dzevarume kunze kwerudzi rwekutsvaga kuchengetedzwa kwevanhu.
Varume, kunze kwevashoma, havanzwisisi vakadzi vavo kana mafungiro avo, kunyange zvazvo vachiri kufunga zvakapesana.
Kana ndikapota ndichitevera zvakataurwa paThalland blog.nl, zvirokwazvo kune mimwe michato yakawanda iyo inoshanda zvakanyanya zvirinani, asi munzvimbo yangu diki kuGermany ichi ishoma.
Zvinoita sekuti kune varume vakawanda vanofunga kuti vakadzi vavo vekuThai vanofanira kutenda.
Dzimwe nguva havasi ivo vakangwara zvakanyanya.
Zvisinei, menduru ichine mativi maviri.
Ini zvakare ndinoziva varume vazhinji vanotevera mukadzi wavo wechiThai semukadzi anopenga, anonyatso sarudza nezve zvese.
Akatenga imba yaidhura zvakanyanya, mota yaidhura zvakanyanya, ingangoita BMW kana Mercedes, uye akatora zvikwereti kuti achengetedze mararamiro muNetherlands.
Chese chinoita kuti mukadzi afare.
Vamwe vanotengesa imba yavo, vachiti zvakanaka kumhuri yavo yeDutch nevana kubva kumuchato wekutanga, uye vanotevera vakavimbika vavo kune imwe nyika yavasingatauri mutauro uye vanenge vasina kodzero.
Kudada kuti munhu anogona kuwana imwezve gore rekugara, chero bedzi mari yacho yakakwana.
Tsanangudzo yakanaka,
asi kana pasina mari inobatanidzwa, uye ndizvo zvazviriwo muVietnam, hapana zvakawanda zvinogona kuitwa.
usatenda ngano,
hugo
Ndinokutendai zvikuru nemashoko enyu. Pane zvakawanda zvakakosha mariri.
hukama hunofanira kugara hwapinzwa pahwaro hwekuenzana. Uye izvozvo zvine zvishoma kana kuti hazvina chokuita nemari kana zvinhu. Kana ukasarudza mukadzi asingakwanisi kupa zvakafanana, mune zvemari kana mupfungwa, saka iwe unofanirwa kufunga nezvazvo mberi, kana zvisina kudaro matambudziko ari pedyo nekona.
Nehurombo, ini ndaifanira kupedzisa kakawanda kuti maFarang gentlemen vanozviti ivo humwari uye 99% yacho yakavakirwa padivi rezvemari.
Iwe haugone kufunga nezvekutonga mukadzi, Madokero kana Mabvazuva, zvichibva paukuru hwako hwemari hwekuzvifungira.
Asi kune rumwe rutivi, zvinoratidzika sezvine musoro kwandiri kuti kune kupatsanurwa kwemabasa, maererano neimba, muNetherlands iwe wakasukawo ndiro, wakashandisa vacuum cleaner kana kuita weshing??
Ndakaona zvakare nyaya dzinoverengeka apo varume vanowedzeredza mamiriro avo emari uye vakadzi saka vanonzwa vachibiridzirwa.
Muudze mamiriro acho ezvinhu, kana akaenda chete nekuda kwemari haazokuteerere ... kana kuti achabvisa zvose uye oramba achirarama achifara.
Chengetedza zvigunwe zvako kusvika wanzwisisa mukadzi kana munyoro ari mubvunzo uye zvinangwa zvake. Nditendei, chinhu che'rudo chairwo' hachinyanyi kuitika pane zvatingada kufunga.
Kure kazhinji ingori kuverenga ... hapana chimwe ... Sorry, asi ndozvazvinoita...
Ndinogona kudana ichi chinyorwa chakanaka. Zvino isu tinofanirwa kumirira toona kuti maitiro achave akaita sei...
Muchokwadi, isu tinogona kubvunza uyu mubvunzo mumashure: 'Varume veFarang vanofanira kutenda here kune vavanonamata navo vekuThai?
Mune maonero angu ekuzvininipisa, kusimbiswa kunowanzoiswa pane zvemari. Sokunge izvi ndizvo zvese zvine basa kuvakadzi veThai. Inoita basa uye nei kwete, asi ndepapi zvisiri izvo. Uri kuita sarudzo yekutora nhanho 5 kumashure pane imwe yekumberi?
Uye mukupindura kumubvunzo uyu: ona 19-mapoinzi chirongwa chemupi Piet nguva pfupi yadarika. Hameno kuti kutenda kunofanira kubva kupi? Musikana akasununguka webasa rose, achifanira kubhadhara mari yake yekurarama uye ipapo, paanopfuura, achimusiya asina chinhu ... Kuonga kunofanira kubva kupi pano?
Sezvineiwo, kune zvakare vanhu vanonzwisisa uye vanhu munyika.
Chinyorwa chakanaka kwazvo
Ndinofunga kuti anofanira kutenda ndihwo upenzi hukuru hwakati hwambonyorwa. Ndakanzwa vanhu vachiti kakati wandei: anorarama nemari yako uye kana akasaita parry unofanirwa kutyisidzira kudzima jongwe remari.
Ndicho chinhu chekupedzisira chandaizoita. Iwe unogara nemunhu uye kugovana pamwe chete. Kungoti ndine mari yakawanda hazvireve kuti ndichamanikidza mumwe wangu. Ndinoramba ndakatarisa kuti mari yangu inoenda kupi.
Ndinogona kuonga nguva zhinji dzaakandibatsira, somuenzaniso nokuti ndakanga ndisingazivi mutauro wacho. Pasina iye tingadai tisina imba yedu. Uye ndine chikwereti nezvimwe zvinhu zvakawanda kumudzimai wangu.
Sezvineiwo, iyewo munhu ane mari uye ndinogona kubvunzawo naye.
Isu tinobatsirana uye izvo ngazvive zvakajairika.
Damn, kana uine mukadzi ane mari, saka wahwina mubairo mukuru.
Zvishoma, kutaura zvishoma, asi Thais wandinoziva, uye ndagara pano kwemakore mana izvozvi, havana hupfumi zvachose.
Zvinofanira zvakare kuve pachena kuti kuda kutora mumwe munhu nguva dzose kunopera mukukonana uye kazhinji kunogadziriswa nehondo (kupopotedzana). Izvi tinozviona mumhando dzakawanda dzekutenda uye nemhando dzesimba. Ikoku kunoshandawo kumichato miduku, naizvozvo kubvumirana rusununguko noruremekedzo hwaro hwenzanga inofara.
Mukadzi wangu haafanire kunditenda nezvandakamuitira, vana vake, vazukuru, vakoma, hanzvadzi nevabereki.
Kwaiva kuzvisarudzira kwangu.
Iniwo handitendi mumashoko pamusoro peiyo inonzi neo-collonial mafungiro ayo vamwe vanhu vechiDutch vangave nawo.
Matambudziko anowanzomuka apo mukadzi, anosarudza kutamba makadhi neshamwari kana kuenda kunze neshamwari, haadi kuonana nevechiDutch vaaizivana navo. Mari inotanga kukwereta.
Ipapo murume anoti: unofanira kutenda zvose zvandakakuitira.
Makore mazhinji apfuura, masirogani 'iye anobhadhara, anosarudza' aive akakurumbira pamablog uye maforamu.
MuchiDutch chakajeka, asiwo mune mimwe mitauro yakawanda, zvinoreva kuti kana ndisingazvifariri, hazvizoitiki.
Kazhinji chikonzero chikuru chekumanikidza 'kutenda', hongu kumanikidza kusaiwana.
Idzo zvakare kazhinji hukama apo mumwe wake haafanire kushanda, zvirinani kunze kwemba, uko mhando dzemibvunzo dzinomuka,
Izvo zvinokonzeresa Khun Moo zvawatsanangura zviripo zvakare muhukama nekudzika kwakadzika, asi ipapo 'iwe' kazhinji hauchafanire kushamisika kuti mumwe wako anoona sei zvinhu kana iri iyo tambo yakajairika.
Kunyangwe ini ndichigona kufungidzira kuti kukwereta mari yezvinhu zvinobatsira uye kugara uchisangana nevatorwa, shamwari neshamwari dzinonakidza hazvidiwe kune wese munhu.
VaThais pachavo vanotambura zvakanyanya kubva kune izvi nekuti Wai yakawandisa.
I never talk about what I brought in the marriage assets as against her share.
Zvinonzwisisika, kunofanirawo kuva kunonyadzisa zvikuru kwaari kuti anzwe izvi kakawanda.
Zvinhu zvangu ndezvakewo, uye zvave zvichifamba zvakanaka kwemakore anopfuura makumi maviri nemaviri.
Pamusoro pekutenda, hongu tinofara kuti takawanana.
Kushuva kuonga kworutivi rumwe nguva iri yose hakuna kunaka pakupedzisira muroorano ipi neipi, zvikurukuru sezvo kuchinyadzisa zvikuru.
Ichokwadi chose kuti vakadzi veThai vanoenda kunze kwenyika kuti vawane mari yekuriritira mhuri dzavo.
Ini nemurume wangu takagadzira zvese chinyararire mumakore apfuura kuti tikwanise kutamira kuThailand, saka mhuri yangu yakanzwisisa kuti taisakwanisa kutumira tani yemari kuThailand.
hongu varombo asi vanofara, takagara tichivabatsira nezvaidiwa.
Pamusoro pazvo, ndizvo zvinotaura murume wangu, anoti ndakaroorwa nemuThai nekudaro mhuri yake yepedyo imhuri yakewo.
Ndine murume akanaka dzimwe nguva zvakaoma asi akatendeseka uye akatendeka.
Muchato wedu wakavakirwa panheyo yakanaka
Rudo uye kunzwisisa zvinokosha zvikuru
Usaite generalize Boonya!
Mudzimai wangu akagara nokushanda muBelgium kwemakore akawanda. HAAMBOTUMI 1 cent kumhuri yake. Hapana kana aiziva kuti aishandapo.
Uye shamwari dzakanaka dzinoroorana zvakafanana. Mukadzi anoshandawo muBelgium, anotungamira hupenyu hwake uye haatsigire mhuri yake. Haatomborongi kudzokera kunyika yake. Anoti ari kuita zvakanaka kuBelgium. Thailand haichamudi.
Wadiwa Boonya, Sezvakatonyorwa pano, kuita ruzhinji hakuna kururama.
Mudzimai wangu anogara neni kuGermany uye haasati amboshanda kunze kweimba yedu duku, yataimhanya tose zvikuru.
Mari yatinopa sisi namukoma vanoiwana vachitendeseka navo.
Anochenesa imba yedu isu tisipo muThailand, uye hanzvadzi yake inotichengetera bindu.
Sei uchigara uchipa, chero bedzi munhu ane hutano, vanogonawo kuita chimwe chinhu.
Hapana chandaikwanisa kusimudzawo ruoko rwangu, uye ndaifanira kuchishandira nguva dzose.
Mutsara wekuvhura chete unondishungurudza zvakanyanya: Vakadzi veThai vanofanirwa kutenda. Hukama hunofanira kuvakirwa pakuenzana. Kana mutsara uyu uri mupfungwa dzako, hapana kuenzana newe uye semukadzi, Rhais kana chero nyika, ndinokurumidza kutiza.
Ndakaona, kunzwa uye neruzivo rwakati wandei muhupenyu hwangu, asi hapana kana mukadzi mumwe chete anotenda.
Zvinhu zvinoshamisa zvinongoerekana zvaitika.
Kana switch yadzima. Kana kunyange dzimwe nguva pane chirongwa.
Ndinogona kuchiva vakaroorana vane hukama hwakareba. Handina kubudirira muhupenyu hwangu.
Chero zvandaifunga kuti ndiri kuita zvakanaka, zvakabuda zvakanaka. Saka ndinofanira kunge ndiri ini chete?
Huya kumhedziso kwandiri zvakare kuti kuwana iyo yechokwadi inogona kunge iri utopia.
Inogona kungova yakaoma, kunyange kuva.
Hameno kurojera izvi kuvakadzi vechiThai, pamwe kubva pane zvakaitika kune OP uye chitima chepfungwa.
Zvisinei, kubva pane zvakaitika kwandiri, hazvina basa kuti mukadzi wacho anobva kupi.
Saka "kutenda" pakati pevakadzi vechiThai, zvinoenderana nevakadzi vechiThai uye kwete veThai chete.
Funga kuti "kutenda" ishoko re bs muhukama.
Zvakakosha kukurudzirana uye kutsigirana zvakanaka, kuburikidza neshoko remutsa, kutsvoda, kana kurova mumusoro.
Asi hongu, dzimwe nguva izvo zvinoshanduka kunge zvisina kukwana. Zvinoshamisa, hukama.
Nekudaro, ini ndinogona kusimbisa kuti weSweden ane akajairwa mazano ehukama.
Zvisinei, zvinogona zvakare kubva pane zvakaitika kwaari. Hazvina kutaurwa uye imwe mhedziso inobuda mberi: "kutenda".