Sinsot, bhadhara kuroora rudo rwako rukuru
Fungidzira iwe uchidanana nemukadzi akanaka wechiThai. Murungano urwu tinomudana kuti Lek. Mushure mekudanana zvishoma mazororo uye wasangana naambuya vako vemangwana munaIsaan, iwe tora chinhambwe womubvunza muchato. Zvakanaka iwe uchafunga, asi ipapo kutinhira kunotanga. Iwe unofanirwa kutaurirana nevabereki vake nezveSinsot. A chii…? Sinsot, chii futi? Ehhh imbozvifunga kuti vabereki vake vakamutapa and you have to buy her freedom, something like that. Unonzwisisa here?
Kana iwe uchida kuswedera pairi zvishoma zverudo, unogona kudana kuti roora. Kana uchifunga kuti uri kutenderera zvakanaka nengamera, mbudzi nhatu, hwai mbiri nehuku nhanhatu, unenge usina rombo rakanaka. Hazvibviri kuita kuti vaunenge uchichenesa vafare neizvi. Kwete, vanoda kuona mari yakaoma. Madhora, euro kana goridhe zvakanaka. Thai baht anogona zvakare.
Sei zvese izvi? Zviri nyore itsika yeThai. Uye sezvo tsika zhinji dzichida mari, asi tsika iyi inounza mari, maThai anoda kuichengeta.
Tenga munhukadzi?
Iwe zvino wabvunza Lek wako akanaka uye mudiki kana pasina imwe nzira, nekuti 'kutenga' mukadzi wako wemunguva kubva kuvabereki vake haisi nyaya yakanaka yaunogona kusvika nayo kushamwari dzako muZierikzee. Asi kunyangwe mudiwa Lek anomira zvake, kana iwe uchida kumusimudza pamusoro pechikumbaridzo, iwe unofanirwa kutanga 'wasimudzwa' iwe pachako. Neraki, Lek inonaka inoti kwauri, pane zvinotaurirana uye kana ukazviita zvakangwara unogona kutaura mamwe maBahtjes. Aha, izvo zvinokufadza nekuti wabvisa zviri nyore 500 euros kubva paFord Fiesta iyoyo pamwe nesevhisi diki yemahara uye seti yemeti yepasi.
Kunetswa kwakadini!
Zvakadaro, iwe hauna kunyatsogutsikana uye unobvunza Lek kuti akutsanangurire iwe zvakadzama. Nekuti une mibvunzo yakawanda. Kufanana zvakadini nedhipoziti uye waranti? Tomboti Lek haazvifarire kana mushure memakore mashoma atoita seambuya vako vemangwana, uchawana chero chinhu kubva kuSinsot iyo?
Iyo yenyama Lek inokwevera padyo newe zvakare uye inotanga kutsanangura muThai Chirungu, "ndinokuda kwenguva refu" zvinorehwa nechinhu cheSinsot.
Chimiro chinogona kudhura chimwe chinhu
Kubhadhara Sinsot, Lek anoti, itsika yekare yeThai umo murume anopa mari kuvabereki vemwenga. Panguva yemhemberero, mari yacho inotaridzwa zvakanaka kuitira kuti mhuri, shamwari, vavakidzani nevamwe vemumusha vaone kuti une mari yokuchengeta mudzimai wako zvakanaka. Ndizvo zvakanaka pachimiro chemukadzi wako mutsva uye nechimiro chevatezvara vako. Uye nekuti chimiro chakakosha mu Tairendi Lek haadi kuti iwe uuye neZeeland frugality yako.
"Asi ndobhadhara marii ipapa?" unoedza kusaratidza kupererwa uye unongobvunza kana paine zvakare Thai DSB bhangi padyo. Wanga uchitova neFord Fiesta pachikamu, saka Lek anogona kuishandisa, unozvifunga. Zvichakadaro, Lek anoenderera mberi achifara kuti: “Inyaya yekuda kukumbira. Mhuri inoita bhidhi yekuvhura uye murume anoita counteroffer zvichingodaro. Uye handizvo zvoga, kwainoenda mari mushure memuchato unodawo kutaurirana
Denga rinopenya sezvo Lek anokuudzawo kuti kazhinji mazhinji eSinsot anodzoserwa mushure memhemberero. Saka imhaka huru yaunofunga iwe, muThailand unogona kutarisira chero chinhu.
Kufamba ATM muchina
Nehurombo iwe, Lek zvakare anokonzeresa makore akasviba paanoti hapana mitemo yekuti chii chaizvo uye kuti ingani inodzoserwa. Kana iwe usina rombo rakanaka uye vatezvara vako vanodawo kuona kuti zvakaita sei kuva nehukama ne "Walking ATM muchina", iwe unongowana hushamwari Wai mukudzoka. Baba vanogona kuzova nehombe huru zvakare Mekhong uye Lao Khao, mukoma mudiki anotenga moped nyowani, Ma anotenga yakanaka "yellow" necklace uye anoshandisa asara mapeni eSinsot kutamba makadhi neshamwari.
Kusvika parizvino nyaya yerudo farang naLek.
Tsika yeSinsot zvakare ine rimwe divi. Zvinoratidza kuti murume anokwanisa kutaurirana uye kutarisira mudzimai wake. Kukurukurirana kunobudirira kunorevawo kuti murume anogona kushanda nemhuri yake itsva. Zvinoonekwa sekutanga kunokosha kumuchato wakareba uye unofadza. Kutadza kutaurirana kweSinsot kunogona kutungamirira mukurasikirwa kwechiso uye kusuruvara uye kuchava nemigumisiro yakaipa paukama nevatezvara.
Varume veThai vanofanirawo kubhadhara Sinsot here?
Nepo varume vazhinji vekumadokero vachifunga kuti Sinsot ingori nzira yekuburitsa mari muhomwe yefarang, izvo hazvina kunaka.
Tsika yakatenderedza Sinsot iri kupera zvishoma nezvishoma, varume vakawanda veThai havabhadhare Sinsot.
Zvakangodaro, kune zvakare varume vakakwana veThai vanobhadhara mari yakati wandei kuti varoore mukadzi. Vanotochengetedza kwemakore kana kukwereta mari yekubhadhara Sinsot. Pano zvakare, iyo mitemo, senguva zhinji muThailand, haina kujeka. Vamwe varume veThai vanobhadhara uye vamwe havabhadhare.
Kureba kweSinsot
Iwe wakazvifungidzira, hapana mitemo yakajeka nezve kureba kweSinsot kana. Ingori nyaya yekutaurirana. Mabviro, mamiriro uye mamiriro emukadzi anoita basa rakakosha mune izvi. Mukadzi wechidiki akadzidza, akanaka kubva kumhuri yakapfuma anogona kuhwina mubairo. Sinsot yemamiriyoni maviri baht ndizvo zvimwe chete.
Mari yakawanda dzimwe nguva inokumbirwawo kuvakadzi vepasi, kunyanya kana vakanaka uye vachiri mhandara. Zvinotoitika kuti vakadzi veThai ivo pachavo vanochengetera Sinsot. Izvi ndezvekuti asakwanise kuroora rudo rwake rukuru nekuti ane mari shoma.
Kana iwe waizotaura nezveavhareji, saka huwandu hunosvika 100.000 baht ndiyo yakajairwa. Inenge hafu yeizvi inodzokera kumurume mushure memhemberero.
Zvinhu zvinoratidza kukosha kwemukadzi ndezvi:
- kudzidziswa
- carrière
- dzinza
- umhandara
- chitarisiko
- vakarambana kana kuti kwete
- vana kana kwete
Hazvizoitike kuti murume weThai abhadhare Sinsot kune bargirl. A bargirl arasikirwa nehunhu neruremekedzo. Asi Thai zvakare ane "bhota mumisoro yavo" uye kana akawana mari yakawanda kana kubata farang, anogona kuwanazve ruremekedzo.
Varume vekuMadokero vanofanirwa kubhadhara Sinsot?
Iwe unogona kuti, nei murume achifanira kujairana netsika yeThai uye sei asiri mukadzi kutsika yekuMadokero?
Chinhu chakanakisisa ndechekutsvaga kubvumirana kunogamuchirwa kune vose mapato. Mukuita, farang inoda kujairana netsika yeThai pane imwe nzira yakatenderedza. Kana iwe uchida kubhadhara Sinsot, kutaurirana kuchava nebasa rakakosha. Kuodzwa mwoyo uye kurasikirwa kwechiso hakusi iko kutanga kwakanaka kwewanano yako.
Nekudaro, iwe unofanirwa kuve wechokwadi uye unoshinga kutora danho. Kana wako achakurumidza-kuva ane kumashure muindasitiri yebonde, yakakwira Sinsot inoseka zvachose. Iwe unobva waita njodzi yekurasikirwa neruremekedzo rwese nevanhu veThai vakakukomberedza uye kusekwa kumashure kwako. Zvinosuruvarisa kuti ndicho chokwadi chakaoma.
Mafambiro anoita nhaurirano nezveSinsot anokupawo nzwisiso yakanaka muzvinangwa zvemhuri yako "itsva". Zvinonzwisisika zvinodikanwa, waiving a Sinsot kana kudzorera mazhinji acho chiratidzo chakanaka. Vatezvara vako havaite bofu mushure memari yako uye mufaro wemwanasikana uri pakati.
Kunyangwe iri mhuri ine tsika yechivanhu inoda kutaurirana neSinsot, izvi hazvireve kuti magora netsanangudzo. Kunyanya, ndezvekuti nhaurirano dzinofamba sei zvakanaka uye kuti vanoisa zvinonzwisisika zvinodiwa. Saka unogona kufunga kuti vanhu vakabudirira.
Kune rimwe divi, iwe unofanirwa kungwarira chaizvo kana vachida mari isingaite uye vasingade kutaurirana. Pavanoda kuwedzera huremu panhaurirano nekuuya nemakakatanwa ekuti vamwe varume vanoda kubhadhara uye iwe unofanirwa kuzvitarisa zvakasiyana, ipapo hazvina kunaka. Kunenge ndiko kutanga kudanana nemukuwasha anokara anoedza kukusvisvina seremoni.
Unobva watarisana nedambudziko radhiabhori. Basa remhuri rinogona kukanganisa zvakakomba mufaro wenyu weroorano. Usatarisira kuti anotora divi newe. Zvisungo zvemhuri uye kuvimbika kuvabereki vake zvakakura zvekuti haupindire. Vatezvara vanopokana zvinogara zvichireva kuparara kwewanano zhinji dzakasanganiswa muThailand.
Kana iwe uchifunga kuti mhuri yemurume wako inongoda mari yako chete, zvingava nani kusabatanidzwa uye kutarisa kumwe kuti uwane mufaro wako.
Zvakanaka, nyaya yakazara. Ndakabhadhara 25 baht se sinsod makore makumi maviri nemashanu apfuura. Zvino nezve zvinoreva sinsod, nemazwi mashoma echiThai, sorry moderator
Ndaimbofunga kuti สิ้นโสด. Sin soot. Chivi nezwi rinodonha (kuguma) uye chin'ai (chimwechete) chine inzwi rakaderera, zvinoreva 'kuguma kwehujaya'. Vadivelu Comedy Funny.
Asi i สินสอด, sin soht, chivi nenzwi rinokwira (mari, pfuma) uye soht, zvakare nezwi rakaderera uye refu -oh- ruzha semuna 'mwari'. Uye izvo zvinoreva 'kuisa mukati', pamwechete 'kuisa mari mukati'. Uye ndizvo zvinoitika.
Iyi haisi nyaya yechinyakare here, imwe yengano idzo dzinowanzogara - uye nemufaro mukuru - inoenderera mberi mumakwikwi?
Izvi hazvina kumbobvira zvakurukurwa neni, kana nevamwe vakawanda vakaroorana 'vakasanganiswa' vari muboka rangu revanozivana.
Kwete Cornelis, iyi haisi ngano yaungade.
Uye kutaura kwako kuti sinsot HAKUNA KUMBOkurukurwa nevamwe vakawanda vakasangana vakaroorana, ndine urombo asi ini handizvitendi izvozvo. Ndine chiitiko chakasiyana zvachose, shamwari dzangu dzese dzeFarang dzaigara dzichibvunzwa sinsot. Vamwe vavo havana kubhadhara, vamwe vakabhadhara (ndakadarowo).
Nenguva isipi hama yangu yekuThai icharoora musikana wake wekuThai. Ari kuchengetedza zvakakwana kuti akwanise kupawo kune vatezvara vake vemangwana. Zvese izvi kugutsa inonzi 'ngano'.
Zvirokwazvo hadzisi ngano, Kornelis.
Tsika ye sinsot zvirokwazvo iripo, asi haishandure chokwadi chekuti zviyero zvakakwirira zvinopihwa kuvakadzi vasingakodzeri izvi.
Inotangira kubva kumazana ezviuru zveBaht kusvika zero.
Vazhinji vekune dzimwe nyika vanopinda muukama nemunhu akashandiswa nenhumbi.
Vakatoroora uye vane vana kubva paukama ihwohwo. Ndine urombo nekurasikirwa nechiso, kuunza iyo kuruma mushure, kusanganisira goridhe.
Uye saka iwe unogona kufungidzira kukosha kweiyo Sinsot huwandu.
Kana iwe uchida kuramba uine hushamwari, vazhinji vekunze vanogona kupfuura nemakumi mashoma ezviuru zvebhaht uyezve ivo vanonzwisisa uye iyo Mhuri. muhomwe yavo.
Nevabereki 'vamazuva ano' ndeyemahara uye iwe unobva wangodiwa naamai.
Izvozvo hazvishande kumudzimai wechidiki, anoratidzika semhandara ane madhipuroma ane chitsama.
Amai vake vakandipa medallion yeThai pavakaona mapepa emuchato echiDutch omumongi aibva kuNakhon Pathom aine hurukuro yekuti ndaigona kurarama kusvika zana.
Ndakavaona ka20 mumakore makumi maviri.
Ndanzwa kuti tarisiro ine vakuwasha vamangwana kuna Sinsod idzo zvakare kudzosera mari yekudzidzira iyo yavakaisa kumwanasikana wavo.
Tinozviona sebasa ratinopa vana vedu, avo vatakazounza munyika isu isu pachedu, kuti tinovapawo zvese zvinogoneka kuti vadzidze.
Mushure mekudzidziswa uku, tinovimba kuti vane ramangwana rakanaka uye pamusoro pezvese rakazvimirira, kwavanogona kungobhadhara hupenyu hwavo.
MuThailand, uko vabereki vazhinji vasina iyo yakafara kudaro, uye kazhinji vachifanira kukotama kuti vape mwanasikana wavo dzidzo yakanaka zvachose, tarisiro yekuti ivo vachabatsirwawo nekudyara uku gare gare zvimwe zvakasiyana zvachose.
Muroora weramangwana anogona kubatsirwa kubva kuSinsod pasina muripo, iko zvino mari yavo, mukunyarara ivo pachavo, yasanganisira.
Mutsika yedu apo kubudirira kwedu kwakasiyana zvachose, hapana munhu anowanzo kuvimba nerubatsiro rwemari kubva kumwanasikana wavo gare gare, ndicho chikonzero ndinofunga kuti pfungwa yeSinsod ichava nechokuita neizvi, asi zvichida mumwe munhu ane tsanangudzo yakasiyana yeizvi. . NDINOTEVERA!!!!
Mapisarema. Ndakaita rombo rakanaka uye ndaifanira kungopa Sinsod pamberi pevaienda kumabiko, ndikazviwana zvese gare gare. (Zvino ini ndinongopinda kana ndaona kuti zvakakosha, asi nerombo rakanaka hapana anokumbira kana kubvunza.
Kuti vabereki vemwanasikana vanofanira kuwana muripo wemari yekudzidzira kana muripo wekurerwa nenzira ye sǐnsò:t ichokwadi nharo dzemanyepo. Nekuti nei izvi zvisingashande kumwanakomana? Vanakomana vanozvidzidzisa uye vanozvidzidzisa here?
Tsika iyi yakabva panguva dzemafeudal apo vakadzi vaive vanyanya kana kushoma. Kune rimwe divi: Ndakaona kuti Thailand ichine tsoka imwe chete mune feudalism.
Kunyangwe ndakanga ndisina chinangwa chekuita izvi, iniwo ndakanyengetedzwa makore 9 apfuura kuti ndibhadhare sǐnsò:t ye ฿ 50k - izwi rekuti pay chete - kune aimbova musikana wangu ane makore makumi mana nemwanakomana ane gumi nemaviri pamuchato usiri wepamutemo (' kuroora pamberi paBuddha'). Handina kuzomboona sataang remari iyoyo futi.
Ini handichazviita zvakare, nekuti ndiri wekuenzana kwemurume nemukadzi uye roora/sǐnsò:t saka hazvienderane nazvo.
Kana vakasimbirira pakubhadhara sǐnsò:t, vangangokatyamadzwa, nekuti ndine chokwadi chekuti dzidzo yangu nemakuriro zvinodhura kupfuura izvo zvevaThais vazhinji. Saka muroora wangu aitofanira kuripa vabereki vangu.
Uye 'THE' Thai tsika / tsika haipo.
Makore apfuura ndakatenga bhuku Thailand Fever (https://thailandfever.com/) Panewo zvakawanda zvakanyorwa nezve sinsod. Inotaurawo, pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, kuti mutengo unoenderana nezera remwanasikana, kana akaroora kana kuti kwete (uye akatobhadhara sinsod) uye kana ane vana. Iyo yakawanda mwanasikana "inopedzwa", iyo yakaderera iyo sinsod.
Asi kune mhuri dzeThai dzinofarira kutora mukana wekusaziva kwemurume wekune dzimwe nyika uye kuda sinsod yakakwirira kunyangwe pamuchato wechina wemwanasikana wavo.
Ndakapa 20.000 baht panguva iyoyo. Zvichida zvishoma, asi mudzimai wangu akawira muchikwata: vakarambana, vana vaviri uye haasisiri gotwe, izvi zvakakwana nekugamuchirwa kwemudzimai wangu. Baba vacho pavakatanga kuda 200.000 XNUMX baht, vakanga vava negore vasina kutaura navo!
Ndafara kuverenga pano kuti handisini ndega ndakaripa chivindi panguva iyoyo. Kana ndichizotenda vamwe vanhu ndinofanira kunyara kunyengerwa nemhuri yangu yeThai.
Sinsod ichiri tsika yakajairika uye iri kure nekutsakatika. Ndinokoshesa tsika yeThai. Ini ndinoremekedza zviyero uye hunhu hwevanhu veThai. Ndosaka mudzimai wangu achindiremekedzawo. Kana iwe ukaramba wakafuratira pane zvese zvine chekuita netsika yeThai, saka haufanirwe kuuya kuzogara muThailand kana kuroora mukadzi wechiThai.
Ndirikusanganawo nemukadzi kuChiang Mai.
Anoshandira kambani inotengesa zvikamu zvemidhudhudhu masikati asi asingazive zvaanoita husiku. Ane vana 3, ane vabereki, anotapira uye, zvakakosha, haakumbire mari. Iye zvino ndinoda kudzokera kwaari gore rinotevera kuti ndimuzive zviri nani, handichashandi saka zvinogona kuva kwenguva yakareba uye/kana kakawanda pagore.
Asi kudii? Dai vabereki vakakanganwa.
Karl
Mumakore ese anopfuura 25 andakaziva Thailand uye kubata nevanhu veThai, ndakakura kure nemamiriro emari. Nokuti chii chakaitika? Mimwe mienzaniso: mugore rekutanga, chikumbiro chakauya kuburikidza nemukadzi wangu kubva kuhanzvadzi yekukwereta 100K baht kuti nditange bhizinesi. Mari iya yakaenda kune zvimwe zvinhu ndokubva ndadaira ndokutambira mari iyoyo. Munguva yezororo gore rakatevera, mhuri yese yakaenda kuRayong mumavan kwekupera kwevhiki uye ini ndaifanira kuuya, nekuti zvakava pachena kwandiri: bhiri raizoperera mundiro yangu. I thought that was rather underhanded and handina kuendawo. Patakasarudza kuti aizova mudzimai wangu aizouya kuNetherlands zvachose, mhuri yacho yaida kuti tiroorane uye paifanira kuva nechivi. Ndakaramba. Zvisinei, ndakapa vabereki mari ndega nekuti akanga ava nemakore achiita izvi mwedzi nomwedzi kubva pamuhoro wake. Takazotumira mari shoma kaviri pagore. Ndakarambawo chimwe chikumbiro chakabva kune imwe hanzvadzi chokuti ndibatsire kubhadhara dangwe ravo pachikoro chenyika dzakawanda. Zvishoma nezvishoma zvakava pachena kumhuri yacho kuti ndaisagona kushandiswa kugovera zvishuvo zvisina kuzadzikwa, uye ukama navo hwakangovandudzika. Ini handina kumboita basa nekushoropodzwa kwavari kwakavharwa uye ndaigaroudza mudzimai wangu kuti ndaisada hukama maererano nezviri muchikwama changu. Isu tave kugara muChiangmai, imba yakanaka ine zvishongedzo, mudzimai wangu akazvishandira nesimba muNetherlands, munhu wese anogamuchirwa, asi isu tinosarudza kuti vanhu vanorarama sei, nekuti isu tagara tichitsigira iyo musimboti: rarama uye rega urarame nehushoma hunogoneka. kukanganiswa nevamwe. Pakupedzisira, mwanasikana wangu akaroorwa nemukomana akapfuma. Handina kumbobvira ndafunga kuti iye kana vabereki vake vaizondiisira mari muaccount mangu.
Handisati ndambobhadhara sinsod kana kumbotaurwa nezvayo. Mukadzi wangu akarambwa zviri pamutemo nemurume wekuThailand. Muchato iwoyo, pakusimbirira kwakasimba kwevabereki vake, hauna kubudirira.
Hazvishamisi munyaya yedu kuti sinsod haina kumbokurukurwa. Takanogara pamwe chete mufurati rangu uye makore mashoma gare gare takaroorana zviri pamutemo asi muchivande. Kwete kutenderedza sinsod asi nekuda kwezvimwe zvikonzero.
Asi ndeipi mari yakajairika kubhadhara seSinsod?
Zviri muchinyorwa, zviverenge.
Hapana. Farang watova mubairo mukuru. Takachata muNetherlands. Mukadzi wangu anofungawo kuti zvakwana. Ne farang zvinhu zvakasiyana. Ndanga ndave pachena pamusoro peizvi kubva pakutanga. Asi tinobatsira apo neapo nekuti tine mari yacho.
Kubhadhara sinsod haisiwo nzira yerubatsiro here?
Ndakabhadhara sinsod yangu kamwe chete, mari yacho yakataurirana zvakanaka. Chibvumirano chakajeka chaive chekuti hatizopa rumwe rubatsiro rwemari. Izvi zvakagamuchirwa pasina kugunun'una. Mushure memakore akawanda tichine hukama hwakakwana.
Chokwadi unogona kubatsira. Zvakawanda uye kwenguva yakareba sezvaunoda. Takaita chinguva, uye tichiri kutsigira vamwe vanhu veThai nemari, uye kwete tezvara. sungirira pfungwa iyoyo yakaipa pamusimboti, uye jekesa kune vamwene kuti haudi kumanikidza chibvumirano. Ndine pfungwa yakasimba yekuti varume vazhinji veFarang havashinga kutaura 'kwete' uye kururamisa kubhadharwa kwe sinsod. Somuenzaniso, nokutaura kuti inzira yokubatsira.
Ndakabhadharira sinsod yakanaka uye handizvidembi. Kana ukaroora mukadzi wechiThai iwe unoziva kuti unoremekedza tsika nemagariro avo zvakanyanya.
Huwandu hweThai hune tsika dzakawanda kupfuura sinsod chete. Kana iwe ukaramba uchipikisa izvo, saka uku kusaremekedza tsika dzavo dzetsika.
Sinsod, nenzira, haina chekuita neFarang. Ichi zvakare chichiri chiitiko chakajairika pakati pewanano dzisina kusanganiswa muThailand. Uye kana iwe ukatarisa zvishoma kumberi kupfuura Thailand chete, roora netsika dzine hukama dzichiri kuitika mune dzimwe nyika zhinji.
Dzimwe nguva ndinombozvibvunza kuti kana vamwe Farang pakati pedu vangasave nani kugara kure neThailand. Zvinenge zvese zvinobvunzwa, zvakatonyanya, vamwe vanotarisa pasi paThai kazhinji. Uye kana mari yauya vanonyima zvekusashandisa kana peni. Asi kuti varatidze mukadzi wechidiki akanaka varipo vari pamberi.
Maonero angu ndeekuti haisi (zvakare) tsika yakajairika muThailand. Uye nei uchifanira kuwirirana nechinhu chipi nechipi chaunofunga—kana kuti unotungamirirwa kuti utende—itsika? Hapana here chinhu chakadai sechitupa chako chaunogona kutarisira kuti Thai anoremekedzawo?
Saka mhinduro ndeyekufuratira kuti mumwe wako ndiani. Isu tinogara munharaunda ine udyire, ndine tsika dzangu uye mukadzi wangu wekuThai ane wake.
Kana iwe uchida kudzika nemugwagwa uyu saka ini handipe mukana wekubudirira kwewanano yako kubudirira. Kuomesa musoro kunamatira paunhu hwako hakuna kunaka. Ndinogara ndichiona mafungiro aya muFarang vakawanda (vazhinji vanonzwa vakakwirira nekuti vane mari zvakanaka). Vanobva vashamisika kuti mukadzi wavo anofamba achishungurudzika nemigumisiro inozivikanwa.
Unotora mhedziso inosekesa kubva mumashoko angu. Verenga zvakare, ndingakupa zano.
Hapana chimwe chazvo chine chekuita nazvo. Kuzivikanwa pachako hakumire kana kudonha nechivi. Ndozvinoita vamwe varume vekufararira. Handina kumbobvira ndabhadhara chivi, tine muchato unofadza zvikuru, vatezvara uye tinoremekedzana. Vanoziva kuti havagoni kuva netarisiro ipi neipi yemari kwandiri. Asi kana kariro iyoyo ikazadzikwa kubva pakutanga, usashamiswa kana mudzimai wako akakumbanira ndokukurukura nemhuri. Kana abvunzwa kana sinsod ichiri "inoshanda", anopindura ne "hongu" inonzwika.
Sekunyora kunoitawo Cornelis, sinsod ndeyekare uye haishande kana kungosarudza mutorwa. Ini ndoziva vazhinji veThais nevazhinji vakaroora veThai uye ini ndinofanira chaizvo kutsvaga avo vakaroora zviri pamutemo, chete kana chinzvimbo chehurumende kana basa rakanaka mubhizinesi richibatanidzwa ipapo munhu anoroora zviri pamutemo uye sinsod inopinda. Kumurume kwete kuti murume weThai anopinda muhukama, achitya kuti angabhadhara mwana wemumwe munhu (vana).
Sinsod ndizvo zvinonyengetedzwa mutorwa. Uye wanano yepamutemo iri kuramba ichinyanya kushomeka muThailand, vanhu vanongogara pamwechete pasina zvimiro senge sinsod. Nyura munharaunda yeThai uye iwe uchaona izvi zvakanyanya uye zvakanyanya, kunyanya mumaguta makuru.
Nhaurirano iri pamusoro pekubhadhara sinsod kana uchida kuroora mudiwa wako.
Izvo zvekuti nhamba yemichato yepamutemo iri kuderera haina basa pano. Aya haasi maitiro eThailand chete asiwo munyika yedu.
Ndakangobvunza mukadzi wangu wechiThai. Anotaura kuti sinsod ichiri kunyatsosimbiswa.
Nenzira, uri kuzvipikisa. Kune rimwe divi, ngatiti sinsod haichashandi. Papera chinguva woti vakaroorana vakawanda havachada kuchata zviri pamutemo pasina mhemberero sechisina.
saka zvinoshamisa kuti murume weThai anopinda muhukama, achitya kuti angabhadhara mwana wemumwe munhu (ren)" (quote)
Ava vazhinji varume vane vana vane mukadzi wavakaroorana naye vasingavabhadharire. (nekuti vakanga vasina kuroorana zviri pamutemo). Asi ndivo varume vamwechete (kubva mukutaura kwenyu) vanotakura grocery, vanofamba kuseri kwepram vachisuka ndiro???? Unozvitenda here iwe pachako?
Nyura munzanga yeThai.
Ikozvino wava kusanganisa zvinhu, chinyorwa changu chepakutanga, chakatorwa kubva kwauri, chiri maererano nekutora chikamu kwevarume muhupenyu hwemhuri.Apa ndezvekupinda muhukama uye sinsod. Usavhiringa vaverengi.
Asi pindura mubvunzo wangu: varume vakafanana here kana kuti kwete?
Responsible/mazuvano panyaya yebasa remumba nekuchengeta vana asi kusaita basa/chinyakare nekusachengeta vana mukadzi wako anotova nawo?
Haubvumidzwe kutaura, mudiwa Chris. Pamwe uri kutaura nezverimwe boka revarume, rinova boka 1 vanotora chikamu nokutendeka uye nehanya mumhuri. Uye rimwe boka rinovavarira kuzvimirira uye zvechizvino-zvino uye haridi chekuita ne sinsod; zvichidawo chikonzero chokuti vanoshingaira kubatsira uye kuita mupiro wavo wezvemari munguva yeroorano uye ipapo havadi kubhadhara mari yokuwedzera nokuda kwechimwe chinhu, hungu nokuda kwechii chaizvoizvo. Uye unoona zvekupedzisira mune dzimwe mhinduro nekuti sei mukadzi asingabhadhare sinso nekuti kazhinji murume ndiye anounza mari yakawanda kumhuri. Kubhadhara mari yekuwedzera kumudzimai zvakare, zvakanaka vanhu vazhinji ndinokutendai nazvo. Mukuwedzera, vechidiki vakawanda, zvichida kusvika pazera remakore makumi matatu - 30, havana mari zvachose kana kuti zvishoma uye havanzwi vachida kutora chikwereti cheizvi uye vangada kupa mari yemotokari, semuenzaniso. Chikonzero chemari chekusabhadhara sinsod.
Ndinogona chete kutaura nezvekwangu nharaunda (sakon Nakhon) uye pano sinsot ndicho chinhu chakajairika munyika. Kuti izvi zvatove zvechinyakare izvo zvinonzi nevamwe pano hazvisi zvechokwadi. Zvingave kuti mune mamwe matunhu izvi zvakaderedzwa, asi zvichiripo. Ipapo zvinonzwika sekuzvitutumadza kwandiri pachangu kutaura kuti vamwe vaverengi vanofanirwa kuzvinyudza munzanga yeThai.
Ehe, mudikani Raymond, budiriro yemagariro evanhu inotanga mumaguta makuru uye gare gare ndipo nzvimbo dzenyika dzinowana zvadzo. Kutozosvikira makore 50 apfuura, yakanga iri tsika muNetherlands kuti mukadzi atore trousseau uye fenicha yemba pachake mumakore ake euduku, ayo aida paakaroorwa. Zvakanaka, zvese, muchato uye kudzingwa, hazvichakoshe uye iwe unogona kuona kuti maitiro ari kuchinja, zvakare muThailand. Vangani vakaroora vasina kuroora vane vana vandinosangana navo pano muThailand, pamwe nemamwe marudzi ehukama, ini pachangu ndiri muenzaniso wakanaka weizvi.
Wese munhu anonzwisisa kuti zvinhu zvinoshanduka nekufamba kwenguva, asi iwe (Ger-Korat) wakataura mukutaura kwako kuti sinsot ibhizinesi rekare rinongoshandiswa kudzura mutorwa uye harichashandi kune vamwe vese. Ndiwo mashoko ako. Kune izvi ndinongotaura kuti sinsot ichiri kuwanda munharaunda yangu uye nemhuri yakapararira muThailand. Uye zvakare, iwe zvakare unotaura kuti vamwe vanofanirwa kudzidza zvakawanda nezve Thai nzanga, iyo inouya seyakanyanya pedantic. Zvichida zano rako pachako?
Ndizvozvo Ger,
paitove nesaving project yematowel nezvimwe zvakadaro.
Handigoni kufunga nezvezita panguva ino, asi ndinoziva kuti vakadzi vaduku vakawanda vakapinda mune izvi.
Ndinofara kuti handisi ndega ndine maonero aya.
Ini ndinofungidzira kuti Ger-Korat, achiona kushanda kwaanoita pablog yedu, aifanira kunge akazvizivisa zvishoma nezvenyaya iyi asati ataura zvakadaro. Hazvirevi nekuti iwe haudi kana kubhadhara Sinsod iwe pachako kuti uyu ndiwo mutemo mukuru.
Maitiro akadai 'haangonyangarike'. Uye Farang uyo anokosora nechisimba muSinsod nekusaziva, ini handitendi mazviri zvachose.
Zvakanaka Jacques, kune mumwe nemumwe hupenyu hwake uye hupenyu hwangu hunotenderera neThai uye ini handitauri kune vekune dzimwe nyika vanogara muThailand asi Thai chete. Sezvinoratidzwa mumhinduro yangu yekutanga, ini ndinotoziva akati wandei Thais uye ndine makore makumi matatu eruzivo rweThailand uye handibvunze mukadzi mumwe weThai nekuti ini handina, asi ndine mamwe akawanda Thais, uye zuva nezuva. kunze. Ndosaka magirazi angu ari muThai zvishoma uye ndinofunga ndinoziva zvishoma nezve mashandiro anoita zuva nezuva.
Ini hapana chandakabvunzwa uye mukadzi wangu akapedza zvidzidzo zvepamusoro, haana mwana, chokwadi haana kushata uye anotambira zvakawanda kana ndisina mhedzisiro.
Pamakore gumi hapana kana mumwe wemumhuri anga abatsira uye ndakatoona michato yakawanda uye kashoma kuitika nechivi kana imhaka yekuti handisi kugara kuNorth uye hakusi kuti mhuri yangu yakapfuma, vaishandisa. kuva varimi vemupunga
Iyo itsika yekare ichiri kurarama muThailand.
Kunze kwetsika iyi, kutaridza mari nezvinhu zvine mukurumbira wakanyanya kufarirwa zvakadaro.
Zuva rega rega paThai TV inoshumwa zvakanyanya kuti imarii iyo mumwe munhu ane kana akashandisa.
Kana sinsod yaizova muripo kuvabereki, nei ichifanira kushumwa zvakafara kuvashanyi.
Mari yacho inonyatso kuratidzwa patafura, kuitira kuti munhu wose ashamiswe nemari yakawanda.
MuIndia, mudzimai anoripa sinsod kumhuri yomurume.
Pashure pezvose, murume achava nechokwadi chokuti mudzimai nevana vachava noupenyu hwakanaka.
Panewo chimwe chinhu chinofanira kutaurwa nokuda kwaizvozvo.
Kunze kwekujairana netsika dzeThai, iwe unogona zvakare kuti: mukadzi anoroora murume wekuEurope, saka regai iye nemhuri vatevedze tsika dzeEurope.
Munhu wese ane sarudzo yekuti oita sei neizvi.
Thailand inyika huru uye tsika dzakawanda kubva kuchamhembe kusvika kumaodzanyemba.
Kubva pane zvechimanjemanje pane 'kumba' kuenda kune zvechinyakare.
Mune mamwe mazwi, inogona kuva pakati peguta nemusha.
Ini pachangu ndakaroora muNetherlands nomudzimai wangu wechiThai uyo akanga atobviswa pandandanda yeSinsod.
Chirikadzi navana uye vakanga vatopfuura makumi mana mumazuva iwayo.
Haaizoda kundiroora here, asi kugara tese zvakanaka kwaingove kwechimanjemanje kwaari.
Kunze kwezvikarakadzo, zvikurukuru pakuvamba, kuti mupiro muduku waidikanwa kune imwe nzvimbo mumhuri, kudikanwa kwemari hakuna kumbomanikidzirwa pandiri.
Ukuwo vana vaiva nemafungiro iwayo, kunyange zvazvo mugove weshumba wakanga watokwanisa kuuwana ivo pachavo.
Ivowo vanonzwisisa zviri nani nezveguta pane zvemusha wepano.
Be reasonable I think, kuroora apa kureva kuvhura chikwama chako chemuchato.
Kutsanangura kuti mudzimai wako [wemunguva yemberi] achava noupenyu huri nani kupfuura nomuThai kunogona kuva nepesvedzero inozorodza kana kuti nhungamiro yake pana ikoku inogona kubetsera.
Zvinosuruvarisa, vatorwa vakawanda dzimwe nguva vanokanganwa kuti zvakachipa kugara pano, asi kwete zvemahara kana.
A good photocopier anoita zvishamiso uye unopa goridhe zuva rinotevera.
Kuti tezvara vako vatsva vanokoka vanhu kuThailand iwe wavasati wamboona uye usingazomboona zvakare, oh ane hanya [5555]
Dai vatorwa ivavo vakachenjera zvakakwana kuti vasaroora kana kupinda muukama hwechigarire, hupenyu pano hungadai husina kusununguka zvachose, asi huchiri hunodhura.
Asi hongu, sezviri pachena zvakapihwa kune vashoma kuti varambe kudana uku kuti vagadzikane. Chero ani anobudirira mukuita izvi anorerutsirwa matambudziko mazhinji aungasangana nawo muno uye munyika ino anonyanya kufarira mabhenefiti asi kwete mitoro.
Kutsvakurudza kwakaitwa munyika dzakawanda kunoratidza kuti vanhu vari muukama hwenguva refu vane utano hwakanaka, vanofara, havanzwe kusurukirwa uye vanogara kwenguva refu.
Uye vanhu vanorambana vanofarawo zvikuru pashure pokunge varambana.
Ndizvo chete zvaunosarudza. Zvichida zvakakodzera kuedza.
Uye nei usingafaniri kufarikanya mifarwa uye kwete mitoro apo wakaroorana kana kuti muukama?
Ndiri kutozviita uye ndinoona Thailand inodhura zvakanyanya.
Ini nomudzimai wangu takaroorana muNetherlands kupfuura makore 7 apfuura. Hatina kuroorana muThailand nekuti tinogara kuNetherlands uye hatina hurongwa hwekutamira kuThailand. Kuroora muThailand saka hakuna kukosha kwakawedzerwa, chingave chitadzo kuna bhune uye hazvina mutsauko kuhukama. Ini nomudzimai wangu tinobvumirana zvachose pane izvozvo. Apo mudzimai wangu panguva iyoyo (patakanga tiri kuThailand) patakanga tichichata, vamwene vangu panguva iyoyo vakatanga kuita sevanoda uye ini handitauri Thai asi ndakanzwa zvakajeka shoko rokuti "Sinsot". Akanga asina kunzwisisa kuti taizoroorana muNetherlands uye kwete muThailand, mudzimai wangu akazvisiya zvakadaro. Pachivanhu chedu tinenge tichiita zvakasiyana kana mwanasikana akakuudza kuti ucharoorwa, asi apa mari yacho ndiSinsot. Izvozvo hazvina kumboitika kwenguva yakati, zvimwe pamusana pekuita ikoko. Uyezve, munhu wese anofanira kuziva ega maitiro ekuita nazvo, usanzwe chero zano kana kurambwa kubva kwandiri.
Ichiripo uye inoenderana nemamiriro akati wandei ataurwa muchinyorwa.
Handione ichikurumidza kunyangarika nevapfumi, vanoda kushamisira.
Mari yacho inogara ichidzoswa nekukasira, isu tichishaya tsamba ye1000. Ndizvo zvaunobatwa zvakare,
Mwana wedu, chikomba akaramba achitsvaga zvandainge ndanyora nhamba. Ndakaramba.
Zvisinei, mupurisa aivapo akanga achida kutora hafu yeizvi.
Sezvineiwo, hatina kuzomboona vanatezvara ava zvakare.
Nyora pasi nhamba dzeSin Soht banknotes zvisati zvaitika, vanhu vanoda kutsvakwa ... nekuti 1000 Baht haipo uye vanonzwa vabatwa.
Panofanira kunge pakanakidza. Ambience yakavimbiswa.
Murume, murume, murume…. Unoverenga zvishoma nezveTB.
Chokwadi Ronny, dzimwe nguva ndinoshamiswa nezvaunoverenga pano.
Ndinofunga kuti chinhu chakaipisisa ndechekuti avo vanopesana zvachose netsika ye sinsod vanoda kuitumidza sechokwadi CHAVO. Vanosimbirira kuti tsika ye sinsod inenge yatsakatika uye inongoitirwa kutora mari kubva kumafarang.
Ndinofanira here kunzwa tsitsi kune vese vekwedu vakatevera tsika yeThai nekubhadhara yakakumbirwa Sinsod? Ndinofunga kuti vekupedzisira vanogona kunge vari muhuwandu.
Zvakadaro, chandakadzidza pano apa ndechekuti, kana iri nyaya yemari, vamwe vanoenda kure kure kuti vawane kodzero yavo. Zviri pachena kuti mari inoramba iri nyaya yakaoma.
Kudaidza misimboti yako zvakare ndiyo nzira iri nyore yekudzivisa chimwe chinhu uye haufanirwe kuita zvikonzero. "Izvozvo zvinopesana nemitemo yangu" uye wapedza.
Kana zvasvika pamichato yakasanganiswa yeThai, ini kazhinji ndinoverenga akati wandei "Ini" nzvimbo.
Ndakasarudza, mitemo yangu, sezvandinoona, mitemo yangu, mari yangu saka mitemo yangu ....
Uye ndaifunga kuti paunoroora iwe uri 2.
Mumwe munhu akanyora kuti, “No Sin Soht. Farang ndiwo watova mubairo mukuru.”
Ndinombozvibvunza kuti ndizvo here….
Iye zvino vanodaro. Zvinotondisiya ndichitonhora kuti chii chinonzi "misimboti" yemumwe munhu. Handifanire kugara nayo.
Sin Soht kutsakatika? Chokwadi kwete muno muKanchanaburi.
Mwedzi mishoma yapfuura, mukomana wepa next door akaroora. 90 baht Sin Soht.
Muchato wekutanga kune vese uye pasina vana (zvakadaro). Vose vari pakati pemakore ekuma 30. Anodzidzisa, ari muchiuto.
Kazhinji vanenge vaine ramangwana rakajeka.
Mari yaSin Soht yadzoserwa kumadzitezvara.
Sezvandakaita muna 2004 pandakaroora. First marriage yemukadzi wangu and also yangu. Hapana vana.
Uye zvechokwadi mhemberero yemuchato chiratidzo chinoitwa. Chii chakaipa ipapo?
Ndakatoita 2. Yakadzokororwa muThailand neBelgium. Saka manje?
Kupa muenzaniso.
Muna 2004 mari yeEuro yakanga yangounzwa kwemakore maviri uye saka zvese zvitsva. Izvi zvakapa hanzvadzi dzake pfungwa yekuwaridza Sin Soht mumaEuro patireyi yeraundi yegoridhe. Nemhando dzakasiyana 2, 500, 200 nezvimwe…. nekuti zvaitaridzika zviri nani.
Ndakaita here. Ndine basa rei kana zvichivafadza.
Zvese zvakadzoserwa zvakanaka mushure memhemberero. Vanga vasina kana kuunyana...
Ndakadaro handina kutarisa nhamba dzemanotes nekuti ndakakanganwa kunyora pasi 😉
Wadiwa Ronny,
Mashoko akanaka uye akarurama!
Hazvina basa kwandiri kuti "misimboti" yemumwe munhu chii. Handifanire kugara nayo.
Chinorwadza ndechekuti madzimai anofanirwa kugara nawo.
Handishamiswe kuti vazhinji vavo vanodemba muchato wavo naFarang wavo mushure mechinguva.
Sezvandambotaura mumhinduro yapfuura:
"Mumwe akanyora "No Sin Soht. Farang ndiwo watova mubairo mukuru.”
Dzimwe nguva ndinomboshamisika kana zviri izvo… "
Ini ndinoona zvichinakidza kuti vamwe vaverengi pakati pedu vanopesana netsika yeSinsod, nepo kune rumwe rutivi vaizoshandisa makumi ezviuru zvemaeuro munyika yavo pamuchato uine zvese zvinoshamisira uye mamiriro.
Ndakachata (zvakare) muThailand uye muchato wedu waive wakachipa wetsvina uchienzaniswa nepati yekumusha kwangu. Kunyangwe nekukumbirwa kwaSinsod kwaisanganisira, ini ndaingobhadhara chikamu chemari yaizoitwa muchato wekuEurope. Uye musazvidya moyo, vaenzi vakadya zvakanaka uye vakatandara.
kupa mukadzi wako ramangwana rakanaka uye kubhadhara sinot hakuna nzira
Zvimwe uchava neramangwana rakanaka. Kuchengetwa zvakanaka pakuchembera kwako nemukadzi mudiki anerudo.
Kana kuti ungada kuti vakuvige mumusha unochengeterwa vakwegura uzere nevezera rako vanochema? Ndinoziva zvandinoda (uye ndinofara kubhadhara sinsot nokuda kwayo).
Chokwadi Koen, muzviitiko zvakawanda tinopa watakaroorana naye hupenyu huri nani, asi iwe unowana zvakawanda mukudzoka.
Kuroorana hakusi kungotora chete. Mhinduro yaAlfons pamusoro apa inotaura zvakawanda. Hameno kuti anoshinga here kutaura mashoko ake akasimba kumukadzi wake.
Kana iwe uchida kuzviisa pachena zvakare uye zvakare nekutaura kuti iwe uri nani mune zvemari uye unoramba uchitarisira pasi mudzimai wako, ipapo pakupedzisira hakuzovi nekwakawanda kusara kwerudo rwechokwadi uye rudo.
Tinogona kukwesha maoko edu kuti mbereko yedu yaive munyika yakabudirira. Ini zvakare ndinodada kuti mukadzi wangu weThai ane hupenyu huri nani ndinokutendai, asi hapana zvinodikanwa mukudzoka.
Kana iwe usingakwanisi kumira kuti mumwe wako 'anobatsirikana' kubva pa'hupfumi hwako, saka zviri nani kugara wega. Pave nezviitiko zvakawanda apo farang anogara achipenga uye mukadzi wake anosara achishaya kana afa.
6 makore apfuura ndakatanga kuroora mukadzi wangu weThai muNetherlands. Mwedzi 1,5 gare gare takava nemuchato wechiBuddha muTH. Sinsot yaive 300.000 yekugeza, mhuri yese nevanoziva vakafadzwa. Zuva rakanaka nemabhero nemiridzo. Manheru pakaitwa pato rakasiyana muhotera yeumbozha yevaenzi vakakokwa. (Netsananguro yekuti chipo chekuwedzera hachidiwe) Zvese mune zvese zuva rakanaka. Nenzira, ndakawana sinsot yakazara shure.
Kune vese vanodaidzira vedu vasingafarire tsika yechivi, ndingawana imwe pfungwa.
Rega iyo sinsot itsamire pane 'mamiriro' eFarang. Vakuru uye vakashata ndivo vanogona kubhadhara kuti varoore mukadzi mudiki akanaka.
Ndakaverenga pano kuti mukadzi akanyanya 'kudyiwa', ivo vanoda kubhadhara zvishoma. Zvichiri zvirevo zvakasimba. Pamwe tarisa tarisa kuti Farang mumwe mukadzi anomboroorwa naani. Vazhinji vakarambana kakawanda uye vane vana, asi havadi mukadzi akarambwa. Zvinondipa kutonhora kuverenga chinhu chakadaro.
Cornelis, ndasuwa kubvunda kwako kwemakore. Uye haungove nekudedera ikoko; Sezvineiwo, kunewo varume vanotarisira zvakawanda kubva kuhupenyu pane akanaka, kumeso kwechidiki uye akanaka pamubhedha.
Asi MUNHU akadaro, uye kwete zvakadzika mumwoyo make sechishuwo chisina kuzadzikiswa. Ndiwo majini edu uye inhoroondo yenyika yebaba, inotsigira. Uye boka rinofara zvikuru kuratidza izvozvo.
'Rudyi rwavo bedzi ndiro singi yekicheni' ndizvo zvakaitika kwemazana emakore; hongu, uye kutakura dumbu guru. Ndizvo zvichiri kuitika kuvarume vakawanda, kusanganisira varume vechiThai. Uye vakadzi vechiThai, avo muzviitiko zvakawanda vane chikwama chisingaperi chisina chinhu, vanotanga kuivhima. Uye ita kuti varume ivavo vafare ‘nemurume akanaka’ pasinei nokuti akaita sei. Unovapomera here?
Groupie, gomba pussy, 'vakadzi vanoshamisa' mumwe munhu akadaro mune ino blog. Izvozvo zvinoratidza kuremekedza here? Aiwa, chinhu choga chinotaura nezvazvo itsumo inotemerwa nevarume ivavo inoti: 'Anotambanudza makumbo ake anotambanudza mararamire'.
Zvakanaka, vozonyunyuta kana hukama hwavo hwapera uye mari nemba zvaenda .... Mhosva yako, bundu guru!
Smart comment Cornelis!
Ndinombozvibvunzawo ndega kuti "sei muzita raMwari kuti farang akawana mukadzi wake sei". Zvechokwadi havasi pamwe chete nokuda kwemaziso ake ebhuruu. Asi ndiani anoziva, aive bofu ku sinsot yake 😉
Handina kubhadhara Sinsod. Ndaiva nemakore 52, iye aiva nemakore 46. Haana kubvunza nezvazvo, asi pandakataura nezvazvo akada. Aive asina kudiwa maererano nemari. Mushure memavhiki maviri ekusimbirira, akataura nezve 200.000 Bath. Ndakakatyamadzwa nemari iyi, asi akati "zviri kwauri". Akatiwo vabereki vake vanogona kuzoidzosera zuva rimwe chetero.
Ndakamuudza kuti ndainzwisisa chivanhu uye ndakamuudza kuti izvi zvakaitika kwandiri/tiri sekutenga mukadzi wako.
“Handidi kukutenga, ndinoda kukuroora. Iwe hausi chinhu. "
Ndakamuudza kuti ndaida kuti andiroore nekuda kwerudo kwete mari.
Zvakatitorera vhiki dzinoverengeka kuti tibvumirane: ndaisazobhadhara Sinsod. Takaroorana muna 2017.
Ndinofanira kubvuma kuti ndingadai ndakabhadhara Sinsod kana ichi chaiva chigumbuso.
Mushure memhemberero dzeZuva reKisimusi, ndakasiya mheremhere kwechinguva uye, nekuda kwekutama kwedu, ndaipota ndichiverenga Thailand blog mukugadzirira. Ndaverenga nyaya yese yeSinsod, ndinogona kungobvumirana nezvinotaurwa naTambon munaGunyana 30, 2022 na04:28 AM: “Chokwadi unogona kubatsira. Zvakawanda uye kwenguva yakareba sezvaunoda. (…..) Ndinotenda zvakasimba kuti varume vakawanda vechiFarang havatyi kutaura kuti 'kwete' uye kururamisa kubhadhara sinsod. Somuenzaniso, nokutaura kuti inzira yekubatsira.”
Pamwe nguva yasvika yekuti vese vanopokana ne sinsot vatange kufamba kwavo, '#OnlyMe', kuwedzera ku'#MeToo'.
Vanhu vamwechete ivava ndivo vanotanga kutsoropodza vatorwa vari munyika mavo nekuti vanokanganisa kuzivikanwa kwedu. Asi zvimiro uye hunhu hweThai hazvina kukosha.
Uye isu tichaisa zvese izvi pasi pemusoro wekuti munhu wese anotenderwa kuve nemafungiro ake.
Kunyanya kuipa.
Bob, uri kuita generalizing zvino. Uye iwe unopindura sokunge iwe pachako unoziva vanhu vanopindura kune izvi.
Kufanana nezvose, Sinsot ine akawanda mativi. Tsika kunyanya, uye muripo we 'investment' mumwana wako, asi kune zvakare yemazuva ano yeThai side iyo isina hanya ne sinsot pachayo asi inongoda kudzivirira kurasikirwa kumeso munharaunda. Hafu yekutanga murombo uye yechipiri yakapfuma here? Dzimwe nguva zvinoita sekunge zvakadaro.
Ini ndinofunga iwe unofanirwa kufunga izvi pamwe chete nemudiwa wako wenguva yemberi uye iye / mhuri yake. Kudzorera ivhu, dana izvozvo. Uye wobva wanyatsofunga zvauchaita kana mhuri INODA sinsot uye isiri kuzoidzorera. Ipapo iwe unowana sarudzo yakaoma pakati pemanzwiro ako kwaari / iye uye chikwama chako. Uye ipapo ndinoda kuona izvo vanhu vanosarudza ...
Anoti "kune avo vese"... arikutaurira kupi?
Ndinonzwisisa maonero ake kusvika pamwero wakati. Vazhinji (kusanganisira vazhinji kwete ...) havana hanya netsika dzeThai, vanongozvifunga ivo uye havafungi nezve avo vakaroorana. Iwe unogona kuverenga zvakajeka izvozvo muhuwandu hwemhinduro.
Ini ini ini, iwe unozviziva, handiti?
Ndaida kuona vese vane chivimbo vachifara kuti mukadzi wavo arikufara zvakadii, ndoda dai vachiri vese.
Kutaura ikoko nezve #Onlyme hakuna musoro zvachose uye kunouraya nhaurirano. Avo vasingadi kuripa chivi vane nharo dzavo. Avo vanobhadhara vanoita kudaro vachiziva kuti vachagamuchira (muchidimbu) mari yakabhadharwa. Vaya vanodana tsika dzechivi havapwisi. Tsika dzinoshanduka. Tsika yakaipa kwazvo ndeyokuti vabereki vanodzinga vanasikana vavo, kunyange zvazvo zvichibva muurombo. Hunhu husina mhosva. Iwe unoverenga chaizvo kugumbuka kwavanogona kuita kana zvoratidza kuti murume weFarang haana ATM naye. Zvinoshamisa zvakare kupokana kuti vabereki vanofanirwa kudzoserwa mari yavo mudzidzo. Handifungi kudaro, nokuti vakadzi vazhinji veIsan vane dzidzo shoma kana kuti havana. Ini ndinorambira pane zvakambotaurwa na @Tambon: murume haashivirire kudiwa kwemari obva auya nemhando dzese (dzakaoma) zvikonzero zvekururamisa maitiro ake. Inonzi rationalization mu psychology. Nzira yekudzivirira.
Izvo chaizvo zvinopesana nekuda kwangu kupindura izvi, asi zvine simba kupfuura ini.
Ndihwo hupenzi hukuru hunofungirwa nevanhu kuti mushure mekubhadhara sinsot vaizoidzosera. Kana ukataura izvi, saka hapana chaunoziva nezveThailand, tsika dzavo uye tsika. Sinsot inotaurirana, nemukadzi wako wauchazoita semurevereri. Kana chibvumirano chaitwa, mari yacho inopihwa vabereki zvizere. Kwete uye kwete zvishoma. Iyi ndiyo NORMAL mamiriro ezvinhu.
Iwe hauzondinzwa ndichikuudza kuti sinsot haidzoserwe shure, asi izvi zvinoitwa muchinyararire kuti usarase chiso. Asi izvi ndizvo zvakasarudzika pane mutemo.
Chandinoona chakanyanya kushamisa ndechekuti munoramba muchingotaura kuti vanhu vakabhadhara zvakafanira zvitadzo zvavo uye vari kudzivirira izvi pano, itai izvi kupembedza maitiro avo. Ini ndinofunga vazhinji vemablogi pano vari kukwenya misoro yavo izvozvi, ini ndakasanganisira.
Zvadaro shandura pfungwa dzako. Boka re-anti-sinsot riri kupengawo pano kuratidza kodzero YAVO. Ini ndakasununguka kune pfungwa dzemunhu wese, asi ndine muono wangu, asi handizogara ndichidzokorora ndichitaura kuti vamwe vakanganisa. Munhu wese anobvumirwa kuva nemafungiro here kana kuti kwete?
Uye tsika, kwete, haugone kungodzishandura. Chimwe chinhu chave chiripo kwemakore akawanda uye chichiri kunyatsosimbiswa hachigoni kukukurwa.
Kana uine chivimbo chakadaro pachinzvimbo chako, ndapota ndiratidze zvimwe chokwadi. Maonero ane kukosha kushoma, ma hard numbers anondifarira zvakanyanya.
Unorevei, iwe unofanirwa kuwana huwandu hweSinsod kubva kuvabereki vako? Ndokutanga kunzwa izvi.
Ndichazotaura nemudzimai wangu. Usazvitenda izvozvo.
Theo, kwete, usazvidzosera. Asi zvinogarobvumiranwa kuti sinsot inoratidzwa kune vaenzi vomuchato uye yodzokera kuchikomba. 'Mupiro' ndeyemhuri chete. Haina kupihwa uye kudzoserwa, asi inongokweretwa kunze kwekuratidzira.
Mukadzi wangu ane vanakomana vaviri. Mudiki wacho akaroora uye mukuru ava nemakore makumi matatu nemaviri uye akanga asangana nemunhu weThai gore kana maviri apfuura, akadonhedza izwi rokuti Sinsod pamusangano wekutanga nesu. Aiziva kuti murume wamai vake aive Farang, saka aitoona masign emadhora mudenga. Ini ndinotenda yaive 32 baht uye kana taizongokosora.
Saka ndipo pakapedzisira kutaurwa nemukadzi wangu naye kwenguva yakareba. Mwanakomana akambomirawo kutaura naamai kwekanguva. Asi zvose zvapera zvino. "Rudo" rwapera uye haana kuroora zvakare. Saka hapana Sinsod.
Iye zvino anoshanda muKorea. Mukadzi wangu akatya svondo rino paakatanga kutaura nezveshamwari uye nezveSinsod…. asi aitoseka zvake…. mukadzi wangu akavhunduka. Kwete zvakare!!!
Chero zvazvingava, mudzimai wangu akatozvijekesa: isu hatibhadhari Sinsod chero munhu. Anofanira kuzvironga iye pachake. Uye aizova benzi kana akadaro.
Sinsot inobhadharirwa 'mhandara'. Saka kwete kune munhu akatoroora kana kuti ane vana. Wobva wangoitira show wozoitora gare gare.
Varombo vanobhadhara vanenge 50.000 150.000. Asi kazhinji 400.000 baht. Mumatunhu akakwirira, anenge XNUMX kusvika kumamiriyoni.
Takaroorana chete muNetherlands, saka handina kumbobhadhara sinsot, asi ndakanga ndatovatengera moped uye tarakita yemaoko, saka zvichida vaiva nechivimbo chakakwana mandiri.
Nekuti ndizvo zvazvinoita, michato inowanzo parara apa mukadzi haasiyirwe homwe dzisina chinhu. Namira kuseri kwegonhi.
Asi kana vanatezvara vari varombo zvechokwadi, vangadawo kuita kuti vapfumi vabhadhare. Kunyanya kana iri yekupfugama. Nekuti vanhu vazhinji muno muThailand varombo chaizvo. Uye handigoni kuvapa mhosva.
Vashoma uye vashoma vanhu varombo muThailand. Kusiyana neBE / NL apo vanhu vakawanda uye vakawanda vari kusvika kana kuwira pasi pehurombo. Sekureva kweWorld Bank, Thailand yakasvetuka zvikuru kumberi. Zvisingarevi kuti kune vanhu vari (tsvina) varombo. Asi muThailand, kutaridzika kunogona kunyengera. Vanhu vakawanda “varombo” vane minda mikuru. Chinyorwa chichangobva kubuda paThailandblog nezve vanhu vanoshanda muBangkok uye vachizvidira vanogara muzvitangwena ivo vachibudirira zvakanyanya kumba. https://www.adb.org/where-we-work/thailand/poverty#:~:text=Poverty%20Data%3A%20Thailand&text=In%20Thailand%2C%206.3%25%20of%20the,died%20before%20their%205th%20birthday.
Zvichiwedzera?
Muna 2015, maererano neCentral Planning Bureau (CPB), 6,3% yevanhu vaigara muurombo. Muna 2023, nhamba iyi inenge yadzika kusvika pa4,8%. Zvinotarisirwa kuti zvicharamba zvakafanana muna 2024 '
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