Wakamboona Martijn Goorts (24) muThailand?
Mharidzo inobuda mupepanhau reDutch uye paFacebook kuti murume ane makore makumi maviri nemana anobva kuUden, Martijn Goorts, anga asipo kubva Muvhuro wapfuura. Mukomana uyu akanyanya kuoma musoro akabva pamba neMuvhuro wapfuura kuti "anotora mukadzi" uye anonzi ave kuBangkok mushure mekudzungaira muPoland neUkraine.
Martijn pakutanga akabva Uden kuenda kuRussia. Aida musikana uye vakadzi vaivapo vaiva “vakatsvinda.” Zvisinei, akasungwa pamuganhu weBelarusian (dambudziko revhiza?) ndokudzorerwa kuWarsaw. Mapurisa ePoland akamurega achienda zvakare, nekuti hapana mhosva yaaigona kupomerwa.
Zvino anonzi ari muBangkok, asi kusvika pari zvino hapana kuteedzera. Kana ari muThailand chaizvo, izvi zvinofanirwa kuve zvichigoneka kuona kuburikidza neImigration uye nemumiriri weDutch. Vekunze vanoti mumiriri muBangkok anoziva nezvechiitiko ichi, asi anogona kuita zvishoma. Mushure mezvose, Martijn murume mukuru uye ane rusununguko rwokuenda chero kwaanoda.
“Pamutemo, pakadai hatitombobvumidzwe kuzivisa mhuri kuti pane munhu ari kupi. Nekudaro, kana Martijn awanikwa, anogona kukumbirwa kubata amai vake vane hanya, "anodaro mutauriri weBuZa.
Chero bedzi Martijn asingaiti chero chinhu chemhosva, hapana munhu anogona kupinda munzira yake kubva pazera. “Asi anogona kuita hasha kana mumwe munhu akasvika kwaari nenzira isiri iyo. Uyezve, haana chinhu naye, hapana magirazi uye bhajeti shoma. Kana akauya munzvimbo isiriyo, mamiriro ezvinhu akakomba anogona kumuka,” anodaro amai Angeline Ten Have.
Hazvizivikanwe kuti meseji yekuti Martijn ari kuThailand inobva kupi, asi inoramba iri chinhu chinoshamisa. Amai vake vanoti ane mari shoma, asi kubhururuka kubva kuWarsaw kuenda kuBangkok kunofanira kunge kwakadhura.
Kana ukasangana naye kumwe kunhu, yeuka kuti haunawo kodzero yekuzivisa kwaari. Chaunogona kuita kumukumbira nemutsa kuti abate amai vake kuti avaudze kuti zvese zvakanaka!
Ndinoshamiswa kuti, kune rumwe rutivi, rudzi rwe 'chiziviso chekuongorora' chinogona kubudiswa uye kuparadzirwa naamai nevepepanhau, zvichiratidza kuti munhu ane hanya anga ari kupi uye nechinangwa chei, mamiriro ake emari anotsanangurwa, uye data yezvokurapa. zvinopihwa, nepo pasina chikonzero chekufungidzira kuti mhosva yaitika, uye hazvigoneke kuti munhu ari kubatwa nemhosva, asi nerumwe rutivi, iwe kana ini kana tikaona murume uyu pane imwe nzvimbo achifamba. kumativi, hatifaniri kubvumirwa kutaura kupi.
Ndinoda kuziva kuti ndeupi mutemo wavanofunga kuti vanogona kutaura neni. Uyezve: Kana mumwe munhu akamuona achifamba-famba muThailand uye kuti mumwe munhu anozivisa kuThailand uko murume uyu ariko, mitemo yeThai inoshanda, kana murume uyu akaonekwa munyika Y uye mumwe munhu ari munyika Y akazivisa kwaanobva, ipapo maitiro aya. inofanirwa kuyedzwa zvichipesana nemitemo yenyika Y.
Kana paine munhu akamuona, ndapota fonera embassy yeNL pa: +66 230 95 200, bvunza VaPieter J. Weber, mutariri wenyaya.
Iko hakuna chipingamupinyi chepamutemo chekutaurirana kwaMartijn.
Ndatenda Arjen!
Ah zvakanaka, ingo 'tora mukadzi', sekunge munyika dzakataurwa, kusanganisira Thailand, iwe unongofanirwa kubvuta zvigunwe zvako kuitira kuti vakadzi varipo vangowira pasi nemabvi avo kwauri.
Kumwe kukwezva uye kunyengerera mukadzi hazvidiwi zvachose, uchiti unobva kunyika yakapfuma yakapfuma zvinotokwana.
Ko, rusaruro rwunobva kupi rwekuti varume vane mukadzi/musikana wechiThai vanowanzoonekwa sevarume vasingaonekwe nevakadzi vavanonamata navo, vakarasika vasingakwanise kana kushongedza bhasikoro re'vakadzi', saka pamagumo avo kungoita 'mukadzi' achawana'…?
Kana ndikasangana naye muThailand, zvirokwazvo ndicharamba ndine hushamwari, asi ndichamuzivisa nekuchimbidza kuti vakadzi veThai havasi vekutengesa pachitoro chesupamaketi icho chinozoiswa zvisina hanya pabhandi nemagirosari ezuva nezuva.
Mhoro Sir Charles,
Ndakafunga kwenguva refu uye zvakaoma pamusoro pekuti ndaida kupindura kune yako mhinduro.
Vechidiki vane Asperger's syndrome vanowanzononoka mukukura kwavo mumagariro / manzwiro. Hushamwari hwavo hwakavakirwa (kana zvachose) pane zvinofarirwa uye hukama hwehungwaru kwete pakubudirana pachena, kudanana uye kuongorora manzwiro epabonde.
Zvakanyanya kumuomera kududzira “zviratidzo” kubva kune mumwe.
Anogona kupengeswa mukuda mumwe munhu otadza kuona kuti mumwe wacho ari kunyatsoedza kutaura kuti haatombofariri.
Asiwo, haaoniwo kana vamwe vaine vavariro dzokudanana kana kuti dzine ushamwari. Anogona nyore nyore kuva nyajambwa wevatano isingadiwi. Martijn achangobva kubatwa nekatsi. Mumwe mukadzi wechidiki kubva kuU.SA aive "akanaka" kwaari, Martijn akafunga kuti aida "kuroora" ndokutumira mari kwaari paakati akanga asina mari yekutarisira yaidiwa zvikuru.
Ndakaedza kutsanangurira mwanakomana wangu kuti musikana aitaurwa nezvake aiva tsotsi. Haana kugona uye aisazvinzwisisa. Kunyange pashure pokunge afonera chipatara chenhema ndokuudzwa kuti akanga asina kupinzwa, aida kufonera zvimwe zvipatara zviri munharaunda imwe cheteyo!
Kuna Martijn, kuzvipira, kuvimbika uye kutendeseka, asiwo kuvimbika, zvakakosha zvikuru.
Inogona kuuya seyakakanganiswa muDutch press.
Munhu wese anoda kudziirwa. Mwana wangu futi. Haatombozivi kuti sei.
Paanofunga nezvemukadzi uye iwe uchimubvunza nekutendeka kwese kuti hukama hunofanira kutaridzika sei, ndinoshamisika kumunzwa achiti: "Ndinofungidzira kuti ndinogona kugara naye pamubhedha uye kudya fries ... "
Martijn haana kumbogara pedyo nemusikana pamubhedha, akatsvoda musikana ... Kunyange zvazvo zvishuvo zvake zvave zvichitaurirwa zvakanyanya mupepanhau, chaizvoizvo zvakachena uye vanhu.
Haakwanisi "kushongedza" ...
Pakave pasina pendulum muhupenyu hwake kwemakore matanhatu apfuura.
Sei Russia kana Thailand? Zvimwe itarisiro yake kuti vakadzi vadiki havazove nekutonga pamusoro peizvi. Usamunyengedze.
Uye pamwe tikiti rechitima kuenda kuBangkok kubva kuWarsaw raive rakachipa pane tikiti rekuenda kuAustralia. Uye kunze kwezvose izvi, Sir Charles, chero hukama, chero kupi zvako munyika, hunoda rudo rukuru, kushivirira uye kunzwisisa kumativi ose.
Ndinovimba izvi zvinogona kuisa maitiro ako mumaonero.
Amai vaMartijn.
@Anita, ndinofara kuti wapindura uye wakatsanangura nenzira yakanakisa matambudziko uye nezveMartijn.
Ndinovimba nekuda kwako kuti vanoverengeka vanopindura zvino vachatonga maitiro ake uye kuyedza kwako kubata naye zvishoma zvine hutsinye.
Munotizivisa here mumhinduro kana kutaurirana kwangotangwa zvakare?
Anodiwa Angeline gumi Iva,
Chokutanga pane zvose, ini zviri pachena kuti ndinotarisira kuti mwanakomana wako ari kuita zvakanaka uye kuti achawanikwa nokukurumidza uye akachengeteka, asi ndinoda uye ndicharamba ndichitaura pfungwa yangu yokuti varume vakawanda vekuMadokero, pasinei nokuti mamiriro emwanakomana wako here kana kuti kwete. mafungiro ekuti mune dzimwe nyika umo Thailand inogona 'kungowana mukadzi'.
Mhinduro yangu, sekutaura, yaive yakanyanya kuitirwa kuramba rusaruro uye hunhu husina kunaka pamusoro pevakadzi veThai kazhinji.
Pachokwadi,
SirCharles
Nice answer madam, ndinovimba muchamuwanawo mwana wenyu uyu, ndikamuona ndichaedza kukuzivisai.
Zvakanaka, ndiri kuNetherlands, asi dai ndakamuona ndaizozvimhan'arira kumapurisa kuno, uye kumumiriri muBangkok, uye ivo vachazofanira kusarudza zvekuita kana kusaita neruzivo irworwo.
https://www.npo.nl/zembla/20-04-2016/VARA_101377868.
Pano unogona kuona firimu pamusoro paMartijn.
Ini pachangu ndine manzwiro asinganzwisisiki pamusoro pazvo uye nei? Kumuona paTV uye kuona jaya rakagadzikana, gare gare akatanga kushandisa zvinodhaka nemishonga zvakanyanya uye naizvozvo dzimwe nguva asina kuvimbika, nenzira, iye (zvisinei kuti zvinonzwika sei) ) munyika chaiyo nekuti chikamu chikuru chevechidiki muno chine dambudziko redoro kana zvinodhaka.
Zvadaro zvinotevera:
Pakutanga zvinonzi haana credit card raainaro asi mari inoita 550 euros chete, kuti asvike kuBangkok via Russia akakwanisa kuwana matikiti akachipa, saka mukomana anopenya.Zvinonziwo anotaura. mitauro yakawanda. Saka mumwe mukomana anopenya anotaura. Anoziva kuti kune vakadzi vakanaka uye vakanaka vanofamba-famba muRussia neThailand, zvichida kuburikidza neInternet, saka mumwe mukomana anopenya. Akabuda asina bhegi uye magirazi, asi unogona kumuona pikicha iri panhandare yendege nemagirazi.Uyezve Gore rakapfuura, Martijn paakanga achiri kugara mushedhi yebindu, ndakaona amai vakangwara kwazvo (mudzidzisi) uye zvino ndiri kuona mapikicha munhau dzemukadzi akanga apera simba uye akaora mwoyo apo Martijn angove nemazuva matatu asipo (kumbofuridza zvinhu zvishoma? ) Ndirikuda kuziva. kusvika kumagumo..
Hi Henk,
Zvinonyadzisa kuti iwe unozadza zvakanyanya uye kuita fungidziro (semuenzaniso Martijn haana kadhi rechikwereti ...)
Dzimwe nguva panongova nedambudziko rakakura. Autism inodzikamisa vanhu vazhinji neimwe nzira muhupenyu hwavo, uye ndinodawo kutaura kuti kune gumi nemadhigirii.
Munhu wose anoda kuva anofara uye ane utano hwakanaka. Rusununguko rwekufunga rwakanaka… Munhu wese anoruda pane hutapwa…
Vabereki, netsanangudzo, vanoda vana vavo. Uye vabereki vakawanda vanowirirana nazvowo. Asi dzimwe nguva, kunze kwebasa renguva yakazara, iwe wakangonetawo. Vana vari kunhuwa zvinogumbura (ivo vadiwa kuchikoro) uye ungada kuvanamatira kuseri kwemadziro.
Kana iwe uri amai vemwana ane Asperger's syndrome wawanga uchitsvaga kutarisira kwemakore uye vatarisi vanotarisisa vakatarisa neimwe nzira chero chikonzero, saka hauna nguva yekuzvivharira muchimbuzi. .
Zuva nezuva, gore negore kunze, unogona kumhanyisa chirongwa chese wega mukuwedzera kubasa rako, saka dzimwe nguva matipi anopera uye nzira yekupona inondiregedza kwechinguva uye hongu, kana usati warara husiku kwemakore Martijn anowanzo ridza bhero nekuti anotonhora kana kuti anofanirwa kuita weti, asi panguva ino mapurisa anoridza bhero pakati pehusiku kuti Martijn akabatwa kumuganhu neBelarus neMP, zvakanaka mudiwa Henk, saka kutambanudza kwapera kwechinguva!
Ipapo kunogomera kwakadzama, kusina mavambo nekusingaperi...
Pasina kuputika nyaya ... Uye ndiri kunetseka kutamba chiedza chezuva ...
Uye sevamwe vese, ndiri kuda kuziva zvakanyanya nezvemhedzisiro ...
Ndinokukwazisai amai vaMartijn
Anodiwa Angeline / amai vane hanya zvikuru,
Ini handizivi zvakawanda kupfuura zvakakomba zvinoburitswa nenhau, asi kana ndikakwanisa kukubatsira, ndinoda kuzvinzwa. Ini ndinogara muChachoengsao padhuze nenhandare yendege pachayo uye ndine mabiko emukati kuSuvarnabhumi airport Immigration uye inodaidzwa kuti ICE timu yenyika dzinoshanda dzakamira pakutenderera kuSuvarnabhumi. Nemifananidzo yekamera uye neruzivo rwakakwana rwekumashure tinofanira kukwanisa kufambira mberi mukutsvaga.
Shingai,
Johan
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Uyu munhu akashaika nyaya naMartijn ndeyechokwadi mutambo kune avo vanobatanidzwa, semubereki (s). Nhasi ndaverenga mhinduro kubva kwamuri izere nefungidziro uye fungidziro. Ndagara pano kwemakore gumi nemaviri uye ndinoziva kuti vatorwa dzimwe nguva vanoshanduka kuva varwi ve keyboard. Ngatitangei tatsvaga Martijn tozoongorora kuti zvese zvamataura ndezvechokwadi here. Ndine shamwari dze autistic munharaunda yangu uye zvechokwadi: yakajeka. Mazana mashoma emaeuro anogona kuenda kure: hongu, zvinogoneka.
Hameno kuti sei mukomana akadai ane passport, zvaigona kunge zvaive nenjere kusamusiya aine international travel document muhomwe.
Asi nekukasira kopi yegwaro iri, saka angadai asina kubva muEU uyezve zvinhu zvinogara zviri nyore...
Zuva T,
Ndinobvumirana newe chose. Martijn haana kumbove negwaro rekufambisa kune dzimwe nyika munguva yose iyoyo (akanga ane gwaro rekufambisa kwevhiki nokuti aida kuita rwendo rwakatungamirirwa). Zvingadai zvakachengetedza "kunetseka" kwakawanda. Ndakanga ndisati ndambofunga kuti mukomana, uyo kwemakore asina kuenda kure zvakanyanya kupfuura "makuki" epaShell kana "hamburgers" paJumbo, aizotanga rwendo rwakadaro. Akandishamisa zvachose ne "chiito" chake.
Ndinokukwazisai amai vaMartijn
Akadzidza kufamba nekukurumidza, kubva kuJumbo kuenda kuBangkok. Usareve nenzira yakaipa, asi kadhi rekubhangi, raibvisirwa kupi? MuThailand. Kana kuti ane kadhi rechikwereti rinotova nyore kuronda here? Mahotera akarongerwa neinternet, ane Facebook here? Kuvhara chete kunoitika sezvizvi.
Rega mukomana iyeye azviite...
Sezvinei iye anodhonza chirimwa ane hunhu hwake. Haana kodzero yekuvanzika kwake?
Vadikani mose.
Ndave ndakambobatanidzwa munyaya iyi kubva pakashaika Martijn. Ndiri kuedza kubatsira mhuri. Kunyange zvazvo zvichida nevavariro yakanaka, tsinhiro dzakawanda pano napamamwe mapeji hadzina mufungo. Kune zvakare yakawanda yeruzivo rwusina kururama rwakapihwa, iyo yandisingazopinde mairi.
Kunyange "nyanzvi" nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzakakanganisa zvachose Martijn.
Handigone kupa vanhu mhosva pano nekuzviwana "zvinoshamisa". Uye "zvinoshamisa" ndizvo. Kuvanhu vazhinji Martijn “anoshamisa” Kuna Martijn nyika yose “inoshamisa.” Martijn haatombozivi kutaura nemashoko. Anenge asina zvachose kutaurirana kusiri kwekutaura. Ndinogona kufungidzira kuti vanhu vazhinji havagone kubata nazvo. Hapana dambudziko, ingogara kure naye uye edza kutora zvishoma mhedziso dzakakasharara. Ini ndinoshamisika kana chirevo chakaita sekuti: "Chokwadi ndicharamba ndine hushamwari, asi nekuchimbidza muzivise izvo" zvinorehwa zvakakomba. Iwe unogona zvakare kuedza kutsanangura Phythagoras' theorem kune nhunzi yemba.
Kana vanhu vaona Martijn, vanogona kubata nhamba yakambopihwa yemumiriri weDutch, 24 maawa/7 mazuva, amai vaMartijn vanobatika kana ini.
Ndiri nyore kuwana kuburikidza neGoogle.
Ndinokutendai nekushandira pamwe kwenyu, uye nerutsigiro rwemutsa, Arjen Schroevers.
Ane makore makumi maviri nemana, uye kunyangwe aine chirwere cheasparagus, anogona kuita rwendo pano, kupfuura netsika, kuzadza kadhi rake reThai IMMIGRATION, dambudziko nderei, kuti anogona kuita hasha, anogona kupedzisira apinda mudambudziko? Ini zvechokwadi ndinoziva mhomho yevaDutch kana vekuEurope vanouya pano, vakarasika zvachose, uye nekudhakwa vanorova munhu wese kana kutora kurwa vopedzisira vava mutirongo. Haana chaaita chitsotsi. Chimbosiya mukomana uyu aone zvichaitika, hazvizonyanyoshata. Inonzwika semutambo wekuvhima.
Willy, asparagus? Uye doma vanhu vatatu vechiDutch nevatatu vasiri maDutch vekuEurope vaunoziva vava mujeri reThai.