Rutivi rwakasviba rwevamwe Thai
MuchiThai tsika, zvinhu zvinoshamisa zvakavharirwa isu. Zvakaoma kunzwisisa uye kunzwisisa. Dzimwe nguva chitarisiko chekunze chinopesana nekuti maThai akaiswa pamwechete. Pandinosangana nazvo, ndinofunga zvakare: 'hapana chinhu chazvinoita Tairendi'.
Vanhu veThai vane hunyoro uye vane hushamwari. Kuti usarega chero munhu achirasikirwa nechiso paruzhinji, hapana kutsoropodza kunoratidzwa.
Nekutsauka kwakawanda, muThai anojekesa kuti dambudziko nderei. Iyi tsika inoda kushivirira kukuru uye kuzvidzora. MuThai anofunga kuti zvakakosha. Kutadza kugumbuka uye kupopota kutuka kwakanyanya kumuThai.
Manzwiro
Iwe unogona kutaura kuti Thai anogara achifanira kuzvidzora muhupenyu hwezuva nezuva. Kuratidza manzwiro haisi tsika yakajairika. Kuti ubvise chiutsi paketero, vanhu veThai vanonyanya kushandisa kuseka kune izvi. Mushure mezvose, kuseka zvakanyanya kunovimbisa kuzorora.
Chimwe chinotengeswa doro nezvinodhaka. Dambudziko rekukura kukuru muThailand. Kuburikidza nenzira idzi, zvidziviriro zvinobviswa uye manzwiro akadzikama anouya pamusoro. Thais anoshanduka kuita zvechisimba zvakanyanya. Hazvina kusiyana nekumadokero, nenzira, apo zviito zvakawanda zvechisimba zvinoitwawo pasi pesimba rezvinodhaka (doro nezvimwe zvinhu).
Mhirizhonga
Kwete doro chete kana zvinodhaka zvinokonzera hutsinye, kunyange kana muganhu ukayambuka, ushamwari uye kuzvidzora zvinogona kushanduka kuita mhirizhonga. Zvinozivikanwa kurwa neThai pakati pavo kana kurwisa farang. Kana iwe ukazorwa neThai mubhawa kana mumugwagwa, chenjera uye usazvirega zvichikwira. Unogara uchirasikirwa pakupedzisira.
Pamusoro pezvo, Thai anorwa zvine utsinye, pamwe nekuti ivo vakaderera panyama. Kana munhu wokune imwe nyika achibatanidzwa, nguva dzose vanonamatirana. Iwe uchakurumidza kutarisana nechisimba majeure weThai uyo asingazezi kukuisa muchipatara. Kurova munhu akarara pasi nemurume kana mashanu ndiwo mutemo pane kusarudzika. Usatarisira tsitsi kubva kune mumwe ane hushamwari Thai.
Mukuwedzera, ivo vanotsiva zvakanyanya. Kana iwe ukabuda uchikunda, usafunge kuti Thai anobvuma kurasikirwa. Kurasikirwa zvakare kurasikirwa kwechiso uye ndiko kunyadziswa uko vazhinji Thais vasingadi kutakura. Ita shuwa kuti warongedza mabhegi ako nekukurumidza uye woenda kune imwe nzvimbo. Muchiitiko chakaipisisa iwe uchasangana pane imwe nzvimbo neboka reThai kana anorasikirwa achadzoka nebanga kana pfuti.
Muchidimbu, dzivisa matambudziko. Dzivisa nhaurirano uye kunetsana nevanhu veThai, kunyanya kana vakadhakwa. Iva akanaka uye uende kure. Mushure mezvose, munhu akayambirwa anoverengera vaviri.
Pamwe ndiri Thai! Ndinofungawo kuti zvakakosha zvikuru kuratidza kutsoropodza nenzira ine hushamwari uye inodzorwa. Iniwo handifarire kupopota nekutuka.
VaThais vanotaura kushoropodza mumwe nemumwe, asi zvechokwadi zvakafukidzwa. Isu vatorwa tinowanzo kuwana mafungiro asina kunaka eizvi, kutanga nokuti hatinzwisisi mutauro (zvakakwana) uye chechipiri nokuti munhu wose (kusanganisira isu) anozvibata zvakasiyana kune vatorwa, zvakanyanya kure uye zvishoma kuvhurika.
Kuratidza manzwiro kwaisazove tsika yakajairika pakati peThais? Unouya sei nazvo! Kunze kwekuti mutauro wemuviri unoratidza 50% yemanzwiro ose, ndakanzwa zvakawanda zvisingabvumirwi, kubvumirwa, kufara, kusuruvara, rudo, kutya, kusemesa uye nezvimwe zvakawanda mukukurukurirana, kunyange pasina doro kana zvinodhaka. Kutsoropodza kwakajeka uye kwakananga zvechokwadi kushoma nekuda kwezvikonzero zvandataura pamusoro.
Kutsoropodza kunounzwa kuThai nenzira ine hushamwari uye yakaunganidzwa, nenyemwerero, haimbofa yakatungamira kumatambudziko. Saka: 'Ndine urombo, handifarire zvawabva kuita', I-message, inenge ichishanda. Bhokisi rako rekuti 'Uri akasviba, mukomana asina kunaka' harina kugara neni zvakanaka.
Ndakashoropodza Thais, vatyairi vemataxi, plumbers uye vanachiremba zvishoma uye hazvina kumbove dambudziko.
Iniwo ndinobuda mukudzika kwangu dzimwe nguva. Makore mashoma apfuura takamira panzvimbo yakanaka yekuzororera pamusoro pemakomo ari pedyo nePhayao pakati peChiang Mai neChiang Kham. Ndakatanga kukurukura nevarume vaviri vainwa mubhodhoro redoro. Mushure mekudzvova kwekupedzisira vakakanda mabhodhoro muuswa paive nebhini hombe remarara kure nemamita matatu! Ndakati, 'Mambo vaizoti kudii kana vakuona uchirasa mabhodhoro iwayo!' Haaa zvakanditiza. Uyai namambo! Izvozvo hazvigoni kudaro! Asi varume vacho vakanonga mabhodhoro, vakaakanda mumarara uye nenzira yokunyangadza vakaenda vasina kuvakwazisa. Ndichiri mupenyu.
Zvizhinji zveTV zvinopa mufananidzo wakafanana.
Zvinhu zvinoshamisa zvinogona kuonekwa.
Pakusvuta kuri kuitika, chifananidzo chakatenderedza mudzanga hachina kujeka, nepo pfuti inoramba ichinyatsooneka.
Handcuffs muchokwadi dzimwe nguva yakavharwa nemucheka kuitira kuti irege kuonekwa, asi kwete mumutambo.
Dzimwe nguva munhu anofungidzira akapfeka ngowani anoitwa kuti asazivikanwe; pane dzimwe nguva anofanira kuratidza zvakajeka kuti chimwe chinhu chakaitika sei.
Kuvhiringika kusina musoro kwezviitiko.
Kuratidza kuodzwa mwoyo kwako muI-fomu nenzira inodzorwa kunoratidzika kwandiri seyakanakisa nzira kwese kwese. "Ini ndinofunga kuti bhiri harina kunaka" vs "Iwe scammer, iyo bhiri haina kururama!". Ingave muNetherlands kana Thailand. Ini ndinoda kutenda kuti maDutch akanyanya kunanga kupfuura Thai. Zvichienderana nemamiriro ezvinhu uye mazwi, dzimwe nguva imwe dzimwe nguva ndiyo imwe nzira 'iri nani'. Kuti maThai anogara achisarudza Thai hazvina musoro. Mune zvidimbu zveboka revanhu veThai vanorova mumwe munhu, kazhinji zvine chekuita nevanhu vari pasi pesimba, zvapupu zvetsaona zvinowanzogara kure (muThailand neNetherlands zvakare) saka ndine zano. Uyezve verenga kakawanda zvakakwana kuti 'muThai' akatsigira mutorwa mukukonana kana kusati kwapera mukurwa. Kana zvikasvika pakurwa, saka ndinofunga kuti muNetherlands varwi vakadhakwa vakadhakwa vanosarudzawo vanhu vavo 'vavo' panzvimbo pemutorwa. Muchidimbu, ndine pfungwa yekuti haisi nyika yemusiyano, asi yakajairika, zvirokwazvo misiyano yekutaura.
Note to self: never make a big deal naTino, otherwise achauya kuzondibhowa negroup remachembere. 😉
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Handizive kana iwe uchiziva Thai, asi Thai anowanzo sarudzana uye haarwe zvakanaka. kurova munhu 5 nevarume vashanu.
Zvakataurwa murwiyo rwenyika: “Pamwechete takasimba!”
'The Thai' haipo. Uye ini ndinotenda kuti muhupenyu hwehusiku zvidhakwa zveThai (boka revarume) kana vamwe vanhu vane mbeu vanotsvaka kurwisana vanosarudza mativi evanhu 'vavo'. Sezvandinofunga kuti kana iri matting muAmsterdam, Dutchman uyo achabatana nekubatana achasarudza 'zvake' pasina kubvunza chero mibvunzo. Asi mukukakavadzana mune yakajairika mamiriro (nharo pamusoro pebhiri kana kudhumhana)? Ko avo vakangomira netsaona muThailand vanosarudza zvakanyanya kurova mutorwa neboka? Ura hwangu hunoti chiThai chaisazoshanda zvine hukasha hutsinye husina musoro kupfuura murume wechiDutch. Asi ndiani anoziva, mumwe munhu angave aine chidzidzo chiripo saka isu hatifanirwe kuomerera kune fungidziro. Ndobva ndafara kugadzirisa chiono changu, ndinoda ma hard figures saka ndodawo kuvaona munyaya iyi. Mushure mezvose, yedu (yangu) ura inogona kunge isiriyo. Pane munhu here mumba umu ane nhamba?
Wadiwa Rob,
Ini pachangu ndinodzivirirwa nevemumusha biyangu uye nevanhu vazhinji
Ndinoziva.
Zvaunotaura ndizvozvo uye handizvo here kuti hauwane rubatsiro kubva kune vamwe vanhu veThai.
Kana uri mutorwa uye vanhu vasingakuzivi, zvinonetsa.
Pachokwadi,
Erwin
Sezviri pachena vanhu vanogara munyika umo kwakaoma kunzwisisa vakaberekerwamo. Mabhuku anoraviwa sokunge kuti aiva manyoro pamusoro penzira yokubata nayo naava vanhu vechienzi, vane mufambiro usingagoni kufanotaurwa. Asi isu tinoroora muThai. tinoinzwisisa chaizvoizvo here, nemirayiridzo kana kuti isina?
Kana iwe uchida bhuku rekupinda muhukama (rudo, shamwari, ...) , saka une hupenyu hwakaoma kana hunonetsa. MaThai haasi kubva kune imwe nyika. Chechipiri chekuzorora, nhanho yekudzokera kuti ucherechedze chimwe chinhu kana kungoziva kuti vanhu vese vane zvakafanana zvakakosha zvinodiwa uye manzwiro uye ipapo iwe unofanirwa kukwanisa kupfuura nemamiriro ezvinhu. Muchidimbu, shandisa pfungwa dzakasimba dzevanhu/varimi uye dzinofanira kushanda.
Zvinowanzoitika ndezvekuti isu tinobva tangoona chimwe chiitiko nevanhu veThai semumiriri wehuwandu hwese. Ndakamboyeuka chimwe chiitiko mujimu. Sezviri pachena mumwe murume weThai akafunga kuti ndakanga ndarebesa neimwe mudziyo. Pandakasimuka, akabva atora nzvimbo yangu kuseri kwemudziyo wacho, nehasha uye pasina chaakataura. MuNetherlands munhu akadaro angabvunza kuti: Wave nenguva yakareba sei uchishanda nemudziyo uyu? Kuda kwangu kwekutanga, ndinobvuma, kwaive kutora mhedziso nezve tsika yeThai yakazara. Mhedziso yangu: Pano maitiro uye hunhu hwakasiyana neyedu. Kunyangwe ichi chingangove chiitiko chemunhu uye vamwe Thais vanogonawo kusatendera izvi. Munhu anokurumidza kuita mhedziso zvichibva pane zvakaitika kamwe chete. “Thai are vengeful” Ndinoziva vakawanda vasingadaro. Izvo hazvina kana zvakadaro kuti munhu wese weThai anogara ane hunhu uye ane hushamwari. All generalizations. Nenzira iyi munhu anoedza kubata pane zvaasinganzwisisi. Mazita anonamirwa.
Zvisinei, pasina mavara munhu haagoni kurarama. Zvisinei, hatitombozivi nezvakawanda zvacho. Kana tikachengeta sarudzo dzese dzakavhurika kune ese mamiriro atinosangana nawo mazuva ese taipenga tese. Saka platitudes uye generalizations zvinodiwa kuti hupenyu hwedu hwezuva nezuva hutsungirike. Izvozvo hazvirevi kuti haufaniri kuziva kuti nyika yemazuva ose haigoni kuvakwa zvakasiyana. Uye kuti unofanira kuita zvakasiyana.
Zvidzidzo zvakanaka uye nhamba dzakanaka dzinotsigira izvi generalizations. Uye dzimwe nguva nyika inoshanduka kuva yakasiyana. Muenzaniso: vazhinji vekunze vanofunga kuti kunaya zvakanyanya muNetherlands neBelgium kupfuura muThailand. Icho hachisi chokwadi. Kunonaya mazuva mashoma pagore muThailand, asi kune mvura yakawanda pagore pane yekumba. Uye saka kuchine misoro mishoma yekufunga nezvayo….
Semutyairi wechikepe wekare wandakafamba naye, zvinoita sekunge, marudzi ese. 13 marudzi ari muchikepe asingasviki zana mamita kureba. Maifanira kushanda pamwe chete, kudya uye kutaurirana. Kutove nengarava dzine 3 dzakasiyana nyika dzairara mu1 cabin. Ini ndiri murume wechiDutch, ipapo muCabo Verde uye muJapan. Munhu wose ane matambudziko akafanana uye pfungwa dzamunotaurirana pamusoro padzo. Chete tsika dzinosiyana harisi dambudziko. Saka ini handisi kuwira nekuda kwekuti Thais akasiyana. Ivo vanhuwo zvavo semi neni vane pfungwa dzakafanana nezvinetso. Ndati.
Amen!
สาธุ saฟthu (matoni: kukwira, kumusoro) vanodaro maBhudha