Iyo Psychology yeThai, Values ​​uye Behavioral Pateni

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Murume weThai anomira achizvikudza pakati penzanga maanoda kuyanana nevamwe seakaenzana uye murusununguko. Ane hanya nekuguma kwenyika, asi pfungwa dzake dzinowanzova pamusoro pechimiro chake uye kubudirira muupenyu, kwaanowana kuzviremekedza kwake. Anotarisa kunze zvakanyanya. Anofanira kudzorwa, kukanganwira uye kugadzira, asi dzimwe nguva zvakare kuteerera.

Mukadzi wechiThai anonyanyobatanidzwa nemhuri yake, kubva kwaanowana kuzviremekedza kwake uye pfungwa yekugutsikana. Izvo, uye ushamwari, zvinosarudza mufaro wake uye rugare rwemukati. Anoda zvinhu zvakanaka. Anoona zvakanyanya rutivi rwemukati mehupenyu. Anotenda kuti kutarisirwa, mutoro, rudo uye kunzwisisa zvinodiwa, kuwedzera kune dzidzo.

Nhanganyaya

Pakati pa1978 na1981, Sunaree Komin akaita chidzidzo chikuru muhunhu uye maitiro eThais. Akaendesa mapepa emibvunzo ku2469 Thais kubva kumativi ese enzanga. Vakapindura vaifanirwa kuverengera makumi maviri ekupedzisira kukosha (aya ndiwo makoshero atinovavarira muhupenyu hwedu, asi hatingambowana mukukwana) mukukosha kwavari.

Pamusoro pezvo, vakabvunzwa kana vachida kuita zvimwechetezvo neanosvika makumi maviri ezviridzwa zvakakosha (kureva, hunhu hwatinoshandisa kuona hunhu hwekupedzisira). Mhedzisiro dzekupedzisira, semuenzaniso, Uchenjeri-Zivo, Hushamwari Hwechokwadi uye Runako. Aya anotevera echishandiso maitiro anooneka: Kuonga, Kugona uye Hushingi.

Akawana nenzira dzinoverengeka kuti mhedzisiro yacho yaive yakagadzikana kumunhu mumwe chete uye kuti pakanga pasina pesvedzero yekudiwa kwevanhu pamhinduro. Hunhu hahuna kumbonyatso kugadzikana muhupenyu hwemunhu kana munguva yeimwe tsika, tsika dzinochinjirwa kune imwe nhanho kune shanduko yemamiriro ezvinhu, asi pane kuenderana kwakakwana nekufamba kwenguva kuti ukwanise kuita mhedziso.

Nehurombo, handina kukwanisa kuwana tsvagiridzo yazvino pachiyero ichi uye nemhando iyi.

Isu tiri kutaura nezve mavhareji, kupararira kwehuwandu hweThai kwakakura. Avhareji yeThai, 'the' Thai haiko. Kana isu takamira pamberi pemunhu weThai, hazvina musoro kuti tipe kwaari tsika kana maitiro ayo anotsanangurwa pano seavhareji, anogona kusiyana zvakanyanya. Mune mamwe mazwi: maererano nemaitiro avo uye maitiro, mazhinji Thais akafanana nevanhu vazhinji vechiDutch uye zvinopesana, uye chikamu chidiki chete chakasiyana zvakanyanya kubva kune mumwe nemumwe. Pamusoro pazvo, tose tiri vanhu.

Mhinduro dzechidzidzo

Iwo ekupedzisira kukosha kweThai varume nevakadzi.

Nhamba yacho inoratidza chinzvimbo uye chiratidzo chekuwedzera chinoratidza kuti pane musiyano wakajeka wenhamba.

(Kuchengetedzwa kwenyika kwakakosha zvakadaro nekuti tsvakiridzo yakaitika panguva yekunetsana kukuru kwemumba nekune dzimwe nyika).

Pfupiso pfupi

Kugumisa kukosha kwakanyanya kuvakadzi vechiThai: Mhuri mufaro; Kuzviremekedza; Kubudirira muhupenyu; Ushamwari hwechokwadi; Runako.

Kugumisa kukosha kwakakosha kune varume veThai: Kuchengetedzeka kwenyika; Kuenzana, Rusununguko-Kuzvimirira; Hupenyu hwechitendero; Kuzivikanwa kwevanhu; Chimiro-Pfuma.

Zvishandiso zvakakosha zvakanyanya kuvakadzi vechiThai: Kuzvimirira; Basa; Kupindura mumamiriro ezvinhu uye zviitiko; Caring-Attentive; Educated; Funny-Humorous; Clean-Tidy.

Zviridzwa zvakakosha zvakanyanya kuvarume veThai: Inodzorwa-Kushivirira; Kuregerera; Kudyidzana- Kunobatsira; Kuteerera-Kuremekedza; Imaginative-creative.

Suntaree inoedzawo kutsvaga kuti aya ese eThai tsika anotangira papi. Iye anotenda kuti haisi yakanyanya kuBuddhism asi hunhu hwezvekurima hwenzanga yeThai, nekusimbisa kwayo hukama hwevanhu, ndiyo inonyanya kukonzera izvi.

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Mapoka akasiyana mukati meThai nzanga

Mhedzisiro yeongororo yakaputswa zvakare nemapoka akatsanangurwa maererano nezera, mari, dzidzo, uye kupatsanurwa kwemadhorobha-kumaruwa (Suntaree yakaputswawo nevanochengetedza-vakasununguka, vechitendero nevasiri vechitendero, Buddhist neMuslim, uye mabasa, ipapo ini. haizoendi mune izvozvo mberi). Kunyangwe ini ndiri fetishist yenhamba, ndichatsanangura muchidimbu misiyano, dzimwe nguva idiki asi kazhinji yakakura.

Age. Zvakanyanya kufanotaurwa: 15-19 makore ekuberekwa zvibodzwa zvakakwirira: Kuzviremekedza, Kuzvimirira, Ushamwari hwechokwadi.
Pamakore 22-29: Kubudirira muhupenyu, Rudo Rukuru, Ambitious-Hardworking, Open-Pfungwa uye Akashinga, asi National Security, Kuteerera uye Hupenyu Hwechitendero zvakaiswa pasi.
Mumakore e30-39 tinoona kuti Kuenzana, Kudzora uye Kudzikama kwakakosha, pazera rakatevera Kuteerera, Kuchengetedzwa Kwenyika, Rugare Rwenyika, Upenyu Hwechitendero uye Uchenjeri-Zivo zviri mberi.

Income.  Heino zvimwe misiyano mikuru. Nepo boka rakapfuma richivavarira Budiriro, Uchenjeri-Zivo, Mutoro, Kutendeseka uye Kugona, varombo, uye kunyanya varombo, vanosarudza Upenyu Hwechitendero, Kukanganwira, Kubatsira, Kuchengeta-Kuteerera, Kuda-Munyoro uye Kuteerera-Kuremekedza.

Dzidzo. Panewo kusiyana kukuru pano. Vashoma vakadzidza vanosarudza Hupenyu hweChitendero, Huhama uye Runyararo Rwenyika nepo vakadzidza vanosarudza Kubudirira muhupenyu, Kuzviremekedza, Kuenzana uye Uchenjeri-Zivo. Izvo zvakakosha zvevasina kudzidza zvakafanana neizvo zvevarombo: Kuchengeta, Mutsa-Kubatsira, Kuregerera, Kutsamira Pamwechete uye vakadzidza zvakanyanya vanoteedzera hunhu hwavo hwekupedzisira kuburikidza neDzidzo, Kugona, Hushingi uye Kuvhurika pfungwa.

Urban-maruwa. Izvi zvine chekuita nemari yakawanda uye dzidzo. Vagari vemuguta vanovavarira Mufaro uye kuchengeteka, Kubudirira, Kuzviremekedza, Hupenyu hunofadza, Kuenzana, Runako, Rudo Rwakakura uye Hupenyu hunofadza asi vanhu vekumaruwa vanotora zvishoma nezvishoma uye vanonzwa zvakanyanya kuchengetedzwa kwenyika, hupenyu hwechitendero, Hama. uye Chengetedzo yeMhuri.

Nezviridzwa, vagari vemuguta, vanodaro Bangkok, vanoita izvi kuburikidza neKuzvimirira, Mutoro, Kugona, Hushingi, Kuvhura pfungwa, Kusika uye kushanda nesimba.
Vanhu vekumaruwa vanoita zvakawanda nehunhu hwevanhu hwakadai seKutenda, Kuteerera uye Kuregerera.
Nekudaro, uko vagari vemuguta vaisasiyana nevagari vekumaruwa vaive tsika dzeRusununguko uye Kuenzana. Uyezve, mapoka maviri aya akanga akafanana maererano nemagariro e "lubricant" maitiro ekuzvibata: Kupindura kune Mamiriro ezvinhu, Mutsa-Unobatsira, Kuchengeta, Kudzikama-Kungwarira, uye Kugutsikana.

Kunakidzwa, 'sanoek' inouya yekupedzisira mumapoka ese. Zvichida 'sanoek' yakafanana 'nekurarama' kwedu, kunofadza uye kwakakosha asi kwete kukosha kwekunyatso kuvhima.

Kubva pane zvese izvi ruzivo iwe unogona zvakare kuona kuti ndeipi Thais yaunofanirwa kubata kana iwe uchitsvaga imwe kukosha. Kana iwe uchida Hushamwari Hwechokwadi, unohuwana zvakanyanya nemusikana wechidiki mudzidzi wezvechiremba (kana mukoti). Kana uchifarira zvekunamata, tandara nemumwe murimi akura ari murombo, asina kudzidza. Murume anoda chinzvimbo, anoshanda nesimba anofanira kutsvaka utiziro kune akadzidza zvikuru, anogara muguta akapfuma. Asi kana iwe uri munhu ane hunhu hwakanaka hwemagariro uye hunhu, unogona kuenda chero kupi.

Kuenzanisa kweThai neAmerica tsika

Hunhu hwekupedzisira hwakanyanya pakati pevaAmerica ndeiyi: Runyararo Rwenyika, Rusununguko, Kuenzana, Uchenjeri-Ruzivo, uye zvese izvi zvakakosha zviri pakati pebhuraketi pakati peThais. VaThais vane National Security, Religious Life and Brotherhood sehukoshero hwekupedzisira hwakakosha, maviri ekupedzisira haatombooneki pakati pevaAmerica kunze kwekunge tichifanira kutaura 'Ruponeso', 'ruponeso', rwuri kumwe pakati.

Kana zviri zvekushandisa zvakakosha: maAmerican anokoshesa zvikuru Ambitious, Open-pfungwa uye Brave, nepo Thais achikoshesa hunhu hwakadai seKuzvimiririra, Kuonga, Kuchengeta, Hushamwari, Kudzorwa uye Kugamuchira mumamiriro ezvinhu. Pakati pevaAmerica, Kuonga uye Kudzora hazviratidzike mumakumi maviri ekutanga. Mamwe ma values ​​anenge akafanana. Yakazvimirira inogara iri pamusoro pakati pemapoka ese evagari veThai uye yakaderera pakati pevaAmerica.

Mhedziso

1 Tsika dzeThai nemafambiro anoita seakakamukana uye akakamukana pakati pemapoka akasiyana ehuwandu (vapfumi-varombo, vekumadhorobha-kumaruwa, nezvimwewo), kunyanya zvine chekuita nemagumo. Izvo zvakakosha uye zvekudyidzana zvakakosha seKutenda, Kuchengeta, Mutsa, Kubatsira uye Kudzora zvinoratidzwa mumapoka ese uye pamwe ndiwo musimboti wetsika yeThai. Thailand haina nzanga ine homogeneous, nepo ini ndichifungidzira kuti tsika dzekuMadokero dzakanyanya kunyangwe paine misiyano mishoma pakati pemapoka akasiyana. Zvichida ndosaka Thailand iine hukama hushoma uye kunetsana kwakawanda.

2 Thailand iri kukura yakanangana nenzanga yekuMadokero. Iyo mbiri yemadhorobha, vakadzidza zvakanyanya uye vakapfuma muThailand iri padyo neavhareji yenyika dzekuMadokero.

3 Kunyanya nekuti kune misiyano yakawanda yakajeka, mukuwedzera kune kufanana, muhunhu uye maitiro pakati pemapoka akasiyana ehuwandu muThailand, mubvunzo ndewekuti unogona kutaura nezve 'tsika yeThai'; iwe unofanirwa kungwarira zvakanyanya. nepfungwa iyoyo. Ndinofunga kuti kune akasiyana 'tsika dzeThai'. Nenzira, hapana tsika yakafanana, asi inogona kufananidzwa zviri nani nedhaimani rine mavara akawanda, rinopenya.

Kwakabva: Suntaree Komin, Ph.D., Psychology yeThai People, Values ​​uye Behavioral Patterns, Bangkok, 1990.

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