Uta haugone kugara wakazorora (Chikamu 25)

John Wittenberg anopa akati wandei fungidziro yake parwendo rwake kuburikidza neThailand uye nyika dziri mudunhu dzakamboburitswa muunganidzwa wenyaya 'The Bow haigone kugara yakasununguka' (2007). Chakatanga kuna John sekutiza marwadzo nekusuwa chakura kuita kutsvaga zvinoreva. Buddhism yakazova nzira inoshanda. Nyaya dzake dzinogara dzichionekwa paThailandblog.

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Mushure mekurara zvakadzika zvisati zvamboitika, ndinomuka mangwanani ndonanga kuWat Umong, nekuti shamwari yangu yekuCanada Bill iri kugadzwa semongi nhasi. Murungu wechitatu mumakore makumi maviri nemashanu. Anonditambira nenyemwerero huru Vichai (mumongi wandainge ndagadzwa naye panguva imwe cheteyo) anondimbundira achipikisana neprotocol.

Gore rakapera Bill akanga ari pakugadzwa kwangu uye zvino matafura apinduka. Ndine ruremekedzo rukuru kune uyu mushandi wezvemagariro evanhu anomiririra vana vanoshungurudzwa muVancouver. Ndinonzwa mufaro wake pakusvika kwangu uchipinda mukati memoyo wangu, ndinodzosera simba rimwe chete, naVichai senzvimbo inopenya.

Ini ndinomhanyira muSongserm, anondibata ruoko nenzira inodziya yekuMadokero. Mudzidzisi wangu ndiye akarembedza tsika yake yemamongi achichinjana nemukadzi akanaka. Ndinosanganawo naye uye Buddha anotaura zvine hungwaru paanotaura kuti hapana chinhu munyika chinogona kubata pfungwa dzemunhu senhapwa semukadzi, izvo ndinotora rusununguko rwekuwedzera kuti anogona panguva imwe chete kukuunza kumufaro wekudenga.

Songserm ava kuita bhizimisi, mudzimai wake ari mutengesi wedzimba, uye kusvika kwake hakusati kuchindishamisa sezvo ndava kuziva kuti Bill akatenga imba kwaari. Mudzimai waBill wokuThailand anondikwazisa noushamwari uye anondiudza kuti kusvika kwangu kunoreva zvakawanda kuna Bill. Zvinoita kuti ndinyare, hunhu husingawanzo buda. Inguva yekutanga kwandiri kuti ndinzwe chiitiko chekugadzwa uye zvimedu zvekuzivikanwa zvinomuka.

Mupfungwa dzangu ndinokukurwa ndakananga pakugadzwa kwangu, zvinondizadza nekudziya uye kubva ipapo zvakanditsigira muzviito zvangu zuva nezuva. Mushure memhemberero, chete pikicha yeboka inosara uyezve netsika munhu wese anobva mutembere, achisiya mumongi mutsva kune rake oga. Asi ndinoda kuva naBill kwekanguva.

Ndinomudzidzisa kupfeka nguwo. Mafungiro angu akasimukira ekuita kuti hupenyu hunakidze sezvinobvira haandidzikisire pasi - kunyangwe pandakanga ndiri monk - ndichiri kuziva nzira yangu yekutenderera temberi, kuti ndigone kushongedza imba yaBill zvinofadza.

Ndinoronga mamwe mattresses mashoma, ndinotokwanisa kuwana chigaro chakanaka uye ndinoverevedza, nemumakwenzi, ndisingaonekwe naAbbot, nezvinhu zvangu zvakakangwa pazvigunwe zvangu, kuenda kumba kwaBill.

Yakaiswa zvakakwana, tinotarisa kumashure pakugadzwa. Rinoita kuti mwoyo wangu upenye. Sarudzo yangu yekuve monk ndeimwe yesarudzo dzakanakisa muhupenyu hwangu. Kuve muBhudha nguva dzose kunonditungamira negwara rakanatswa muhupenyu. Hupenyu umo tsitsi dzinofanirwa kupihwa nzvimbo yepakati. Shamwari yangu inokosha Harry Poerbo akazvitaura zvakajeka: "Pane nguva muhupenyu dzaunofanira kushandisa sechinongedzo munzira kwayo."

Mwoyo unozogara hupenyu hurefu kwazvo

Mushure mekuonekana naBill naVichai, ndinoshanyira Wat Umong Juw, iye zvino mumongi ane magirazi emazuva ano. Anogara pachigaro pamberi pemba yake mukunyarara kusingafambi, achitarisa pasina chinhu uye panguva imwe chete achitora zvakanyanya sezvinobvira. Tinowanzo tarisa zvakanyanya uye panguva imwe chete hapana chatiri kuona.

Mafambiro aJuw ane moyo murefu uye anononoka, sezvakaita mazwi nemafungiro ake. Achiri kuyeuka udzame hwekurukurirano yedu yokupedzisira. Ndiri kukurumidza-njere, ndizere nekufamba uye kusashivirira, uye ndinokanganwa zvakanyanya.

Ndinogara naye ndichiyemura, ndine chido chakadzama chekutsiva kukanganisa kwangu nekutevedzera hunhu hwake. Asi gare gare vavariro dzakanaka idzodzo dzakakundikana zvakare. Sei vatambi vachiwanzova nesimba kupfuura kuda? Kana kuti ndinokwenenzvera dombo rangu rakakasharara zvishoma kuburikidza nekuzviongorora? Pasinei nemafungiro ose anoshamisa uye zvinangwa, mushure mokunge ndaonekana naJuw, ndinokurumidza kubhururuka kuenda kuBangkok.

Mushure mekukurumidza, kumhara kwakaoma nemutyairi wemudzidzi, ndinotenga zvipo nemazvo, nekuti ndave kuziva nzira uye mutengo wakaderera. Nguva yave kupera zvino uye mukubwaira kweziso ndiri kuHolland. Ndege dzave mabhazi kwandiri. Ndinotenga tikiti uye ndinopinda nyore nyore sezvandinobuda.

Asika jet lag is a different matter, pekutanga handina kuita hanya nazvo ikava wreck for a week, manje ndinorara for an hour every now and then and within two days ndapedza Jan and back to normal. Ndinosimudzwa noushamwari nehama yangu Pamela nemukomana wake, Adonis Lex, uye takabva tangotyaira takananga kuna amai vangu kuBronovo.

Ndinoona mbeva yakachenuruka yakarara pamubhedha ipapo ini naamai takambundirana tichichema. “Ndakusuwa zvikuru” uye ndakabata mumaoko angu akasimba muviri wakaneta womukadzi wandinoda zvikuru. Kuburikidza nerudo rwake ndakadzidza kupa. Ndiye akandipa hupenyu nekupukuta marutsi angu pandakabva kumuchato ndakadhakwa nechampagne ndine 12.

Kwasara zuva rimwe chete kuti ndirambane naMaria ndini ndaive murume mukuru ndakamira kumberi ndichipanana mufaro kana misodzi yegarwe nevakuwasha uye zuva rakatevera ndakaraswa mumarara ndisina kana kukokwa kunopisa. Asi amai vangu vanogara varipo. Ndirwo rudo rusingaverengeki rwaamai kumwana wavo. Pandinokura, ndipo pandinonyanya kuona kukosha kwayo.

Mumazuva anotevera ini nehanzvadzi yangu, muzukuru wangu uye tinogara takatenderedza mubhedha waamai vangu uye zvinoshamisa kuti kupora kunoitika nekukurumidza sei. Nekufara kwake uye chimiro cheDutch chakatwasuka, pamwe nemitsara inosekesa, anoyemurwa nevakoti. Anoita kupora zvinooneka uye pasina vhiki anenge arara pamubhedha wake, hana yake ichipomba nemufaro zvakare.

Aya mazuva akanaka. Zvakanaka chaizvo nevakadzi vatatu ava. Isu tiri vana tinoumba chisungo chisingadamburwe. Imwe neimwe ine hunhu hwayo. Uye nokudaro kugamuchirana zvizere. Kupa munhu wese hupenyu hwake nerudo runopenya kune mumwe nemumwe. Vakadzi vatatu ava vanokwiza vanga riri pamoyo pangu uye zvinoita kuti kurwadziwa kunombomuka kuve nyore kutakura.

Asi chinonyanya kukosha iye zvino mwoyo waamai vangu, uyo unorova senguva dzose uye zvino uchararama upenyu hurefu zvikuru.

Nyemwerero yekusingaperi yandinoda kuratidza mumweya wangu

Ini naamai vangu, tichinwa tii isingagumi pamwe chete muimba yavo yekutandarira inotonhorera, tinotarisa kunze, uko makore matema ari kupinda mukati uye kudonhedza kwemvura kunoshatisa hunhu hwangu hwezuva. “Ndiri kunzwa zviri nani iye zvino, farira Asia kwekanguva kana uchida; oparesheni yakafamba zvakanaka chose.” Mashoko akanaka aya akataurwa naamai haana kuwira munzeve dzamazvirokwazvo, uye aitodzika seshoko raMwari kumukuru. Uye zvakatowanda, mutongo wacho usati wapera ndakamhanyira kubazi rekufambisa kunotenga tikiti rendege.

Mukati memazuva maviri ndichaenda kuThailand zvakare, ndichienderera mberi nekutsvaga kwangu kunyemwerera kusingaperi kwandinoda kupenya mumweya wangu.

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