Mubvunzo wemuverengi: mwana ari munzira, kurerwa uye mutsauko pakati petsika dzekuMadokero neThai
Vadiwa vaverengi,
Mushure mekuchata nemudiwa wangu mukuru wekuThai Kanyada kwemakore 2,5, tiri kutarisira mwana wedu wekutanga. Kuberekwa kunofanira kuitwa musi waDecember 19, uye tave kutobvunza mibvunzo pamusoro pekurerwa uye kubata nekusiyana kwetsika dzedu dzekuMadokero neThai. Zvirinani mangwanani pane kunonoka.
Iyo apuro yeziso redu ichakura muBelgium, asi izvo hazvibvisi chokwadi chekuti isu - hongu, mukomana 🙂 - zvakare tinoda kumudzidzisa tsika nemaitiro eThai tsika. Kana akadzidza kubata maoko muno muBelgium, anodzidza wai muThailand, kungotanga nemuenzaniso wekutanga. Mumwe muenzaniso, muno munharaunda yedu yekumadokero, vechidiki vanogona kutarisa vabereki vavo neruremekedzo rushoma pane zvavanoita muThailand.
Mubvunzo wedu zvino ndeuyu unotevera: pane here imi vaverengi vari kubatwawo nazvo? Saka tiri kutsvaga vakaroorana vekuMadokero-Thai vane mwana mumwe chete kana kupfuura vanokura muno muBelgium kana Netherlands, asi vanouyawo kuThailand, uye zvechokwadi vanoguma mune imwe tsika yakasiyana zvachose. Unodzidzisa sei mwana muduku kuti kune imwe "seti yemitemo" muBelgium / Netherlands kana ini ndikatsanangura nenzira iyo, uye mitemo yakasiyana zvachose muThailand (nedzimwe nyika)?
Mubvunzo wekuwedzera: une ruzivo nembiri (Belgian neThai) nyika?
Macomments ese anogamuchirwa.
Ndinokutendai mberi,
Kanyada and Bruno
Chinhu chimwe chete chinokosha ndechokuti mwana wako akure munzvimbo ine rudo uye inokurudzira. Mukusangana newe nevamwe, anodzidza otomatiki 'maitiro nemaitiro' enharaunda yeBelgian neThai. Handifungi kuti unofanira kunyatsoteerera izvozvo. Sezvineiwo, iwo 'tsika uye tsika' pakati peBelgium neThailand hazvina kunyatsosiyana. Ndiwo hunhu hwevanhu hwakanyanya serudo, kunzwisisa, kuvhurika, kuzvimirira, nezvimwe.
Zviri pamusoro pekuti achakurumidza kunzwa akasununguka munharaunda yeBelgian neThai. Nokuda kweizvi zvakakosha kuti adzidze Thai kuwedzera kune Flemish. Rega baba vagare vachitaura chiFlemish uye amai nguva dzose Thai uye regai amai vamupe awa yezvidzidzo zveThai zuva rega rega kubva pazera remakore manomwe. Mwana anotodzidza mitauro mudumbu!
Mwanakomana wangu Anoerak, akasvitsa makore gumi nemanomwe zuva rakapfuura nezuro, anotaura zvakanaka chiThai nechiDutch. Kuverenga nekunyora muchiDutch kuri padanho repuraimari: Ndakamudzidzisa kuburikidza neWereldschool. Anofamba akasununguka chaizvo muThailand uye muNetherlands. MuNetherlands anogara pasi nemunhu wose patafura uye anosimuka pamwe chete uye anoti usiku hwakanaka, uye muThailand anogara pasi uye anomuka paanonzwa achida uye anongoti usiku hwakanaka kwandiri. Kana mwanakomana wako achiziva Thai, zvichave zvakanaka. Zvinenge zvakaoma pasina izvozvo.
Ndakambosangana nemusikana weBelgian-Thai ane makore gumi nemasere, akakurira muBelgium, aida kuziva 'midzi' yake kuno uye kuenderera mberi nedzidzo yake. Akaona kuti bhawa rake reThai rakanga rakashata uye akavenga amai vake zvikuru.
Kuda kurera mwana nemhando dzese dze 'tsika nemaitiro' kumashure kwepfungwa dzako zvinouya zvakamanikana. Semuenzaniso, ndinoziva vana veThai vakakwana vasina hanya nevabereki vavo. Rudo noruremekedzo hazvigoni kumanikidzirwa kana kudzidziswa. Iwe unogona chete kutungamirira nemuenzaniso uye zvakakwana. Rombo rakanaka!
Zvakanakisisa,
Kana ndikanzwisisa nemazvo, unoda kurera mwana wako nenzira yekuti achajaira/kujairana netsika dzeBelgian neThai.
Ramba uchifunga kuti achatora muBelgian zvakanyanya, mushure mezvose, achagara muBelgium.
Semuenzaniso, zvingave zvakaoma * kubatanidza 'kukwazisana ruoko' kwaachazodzidza kuchikoro ne'wai'. Apa kudzidza kuti izvi zvakajairika muThailand (uye hazvingoreve mhoro)
* panguva imwe chete yekudzidza
Kwete kuti hazvigoneki, asi iwe nemukadzi wako muchafanirwa kutora / kuve nenguva yeizvi uye sarudza kana zvakakosha panguva iyoyo, kana mwana akadzidza tsika dzeBelgian uye zviyero, kumudzidzisa tsika dzeThai uye. values panguva imwe chete kudzidza.
Semuenzaniso, munyaya yekubata maoko uye kupa wai, isarudzo yekudzidzisa izvi kana achinzwisisa zvizere zvinoreva kubata maoko.
Semuyenzaniso, kudzidzira kugezesa sarudzo (yekugeza sezvatinoiziva kana nepoto kubva mubheseni remvura) inogona kudzidziswa panguva imwe chete (munguva pfupi).
Uye usakanganwe kuti mukadzi wako anochengetawo tsika dzake dzinozongopfuudzwa kuvana. Funga, somuenzaniso, nzira yekubika.
Iwe unogona zvakare kurega mukadzi wako achitaura zvese Belgian neThai kumwana wako, kuitira kuti chimedu cheThailand chirambe chiripo.
Iwe unozopotawo uchikwanisa kushanyira temberi muBelgium / Netherlands kuti udzidze maitiro netsika uye kuchengetedza chidimbu cheThai tsika.
Saka zvinogoneka kudzidzisa mwana wako Thai zviyero / tsika / tsika / tsika, asi ndapota cherechedza kuti izvi hazvigone kuitwa nekukurumidza.
Pfungwa yangu (ndakamirira MVV vhiza) apo mhuri yangu ichange iri muNetherlands iri reshiyo ye80/20. 80% Dutch tsika / tsika / tsika uye 20% Thai.
Isu parizvino tinochengetedza aya hunhu kuThailand.
Vana vedu vanorerwa 80% nenzira yeThai uye 20% nenzira yeDutch.
Kuti usakanganwa / kuchengetedza mamiriro avo, asi vachiri kukwanisa kutarisa tsika dzenyika dzavanogara.
Kwaziwai, Hendrik S.
Kukura muBelgium zvinoreva kuti pesvedzero yako yakakura, uye mukana wekukonana kwemhuri idiki. Haufanire kurega izvozvo zvichipfuurawo. Nzvimbo yacho inosarudza zvakawanda, saka mudzimai wako ari parumananzombe muBelgium, ramba uchifunga izvozvo. Kusawirirana kunomuka mukurera vana muThailand muroorano yakavhengana kazhinji kazhinji kune chokuita nemhuri. Iwe hausi kungobata chete nemudzimai wako, amai vemwana wako, asi nemhuri yose yave ichirera vana kwemazana emakore uye haigamuchiri "dzimwe nzira" dzekufunga nokukurumidza, kana zvachose. Mukadzi wako anenge ari pakati uye kazhinji anofanira kusarudza. Rombo rakanaka gare gare.
Tinewo inonzi mixed marriage. Mushure mekushanda kwemakore akawanda mukambani yangu yeThai uye kusvika pakuziva mudzimai wangu zviri nani muhofisi yangu. Akaroora, mwana uye kudzokera kuBelgium kune bhizinesi.
Mwana ava nemakore matanhatu uye akakurira mutsika dzakasiyana. Buddhism, Katorike (asi kwete kunyanyisa), chikoro cheBelgian, mitauro miviri + Chirungu. Muchidimbu, zvinhu zvose zviri kufamba zvakanaka. Dzimwe nguva matambudziko madiki, asi anofanirwa kutariswa zvine hungwaru uye zvakare kusvikwa neimwe nzira yekudzidzisa: e.g. mwanakomana dzimwe nguva anosekwa zvishoma nevamwe vana se "Chinese" saka iwe unofanirwa kutaura uchitenderedza izvozvo zvishoma uye kugadzirisa iko kukakavara kwemukati kwechirebvu. Asi izvo zvinoshanda zvakanaka uye kana vadzidzi vadiki ivavo vajaira, zvinonyatso mhanya. Usatya kudaidza katsi katsi, kunyangwe kumwana wako. Zvakare kumukadzi wako uyo dzimwe nguva anoita zvishoma zvinodzivirira.
Isu tinosangana nevamwe vanhu vakasanganiswa mudunhu reMechelen uye tinonzwa zvakanaka nezvazvo. Mudzimai ane denderedzwa rakawanda revanozivana navo muBelgium uyezve zvakare muThai vanozivana.
Zvakanaka kutaura ne "zvakajairika" mumamiriro ezvinhu akafanana uye kuungana. Isu tine rombo rakanaka kuti zviitiko zvakawanda zveThai - zvakarongwa neMechelen tembere - zvinoitika munharaunda yedu uye kuwana shamwari zhinji ipapo.
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