Kutumira muverengi: Vakadzi veThai vakavimbika kuNetherlands, vakazvipira kune mumwe nemumwe uye kuThailand
Iyo yegore negore (kubvira 2014) Thailand Grand Mutambo wakaitwa muThe Hague pakati paChikunguru. Ona YouTube yemavhidhiyo akasiyana. Mudzimai wangu wechiThai akanga aronga kusangana nedzimwe shamwari dzeThai nevazivikanwi, uye nokuti akanga ari makore mashoma apfuura, ndakaenda naye. Mukushanya kwangu kwezvipo zvakasiyana-siyana zvemitambo, ndakasangana nevakawanda veNL-TH vakaroorana. Vamwe vavo ndakavaziva kwenguva yakati kubva kare kana zvimwe zviitiko, vamwe seshamwari dzevasikana vemumwe wangu uye vandinozivana navo.
Chinondibaya mumisangano iyi ndechekuti imwe nyaya yekurukurirano inogara ichitaurwa. Uye ndiyo yakanyanyisa chauvinism pakati pevamwe vakadzi vechiThai. A chauvinism iyo inoshungurudzawo vavakaroorana navo, asi pazvinenge zvichiita sokuti havana simba pamusoro pazvo. (Disclaimer) Ndokumbira utarise, kuti unzwisise zvakanaka: handisi kutaura nezve vakadzi vese veThai, kana nezvavo zvakazara, kana nezveNL-TH nharaunda, asi izvo zvandinofunga nezve vamwe vavo pano nepapo. uye izvo zvakagovaniswa nevavanofambidzana navo.
Vakadzi vechiThai vanotsvagana. Vanosangana muzvitoro zveAsia, mumaresitorendi mu 'Chinatown' yemuno, kana kuonana pavanenge vachipfuura mumugwagwa, vanotaurirana vobva vasangana kuburikidza nesocial media, vobva vasumana kune varipo vevanozivana. .
Zvinoita sekuti vane shamwari dzakawanda dzeTH uye vanozivana kupfuura zvavanofamba muNL madenderedzwa. Kunyange zvazvo vose vakapfuura nzira yavo yekubatanidza, havatauri chiDutch zvakanaka kwazvo, izvo zvisingavapi kukurudzira kuti vazviratidze munzvimbo yavo yekugara / nharaunda, semuenzaniso. Vakadzi veTH vanogona kusimudza zvine mwero maererano nehunyanzvi hwemutauro wechiDutch. Kwete zvose, zvimwe.
Vakadzi vechiThai muNL vanoita mapoka, (akasiyana neNL farang muTH.)
Sezviri pachena uku kuumbwa kweboka kunopa dziviriro, kujeka uye kuzivikanwa. Chinhu chakanaka kana uchibva kuTH kuNetherlands uchiuya kumhuri ye "mhino chena" nemumwe wausingazive. Iyo Danish documentary "Heartbound" inopa nzwisiso yakanaka yekuti maitiro ekubatanidza akadai anoshanda sei. Ona: https://www.thailandblog.nl/?s=Heartbound&x=0&y=0
Kana wangoziva vamwe vakadzi veTH, munobatsirana, ndechimwe chezvinodiwa, iyo yeboka tsika kana muchida. Kunyanya mumamiriro ezvinhu akasiyana. Mimwe mienzaniso: makore mashoma apfuura panguva yerwendo rwebhizinesi, murume wechiDutch wemukadzi weThai akazviuraya muhotera kumwe kuSwitzerland. Akava akabatanidzwa mumarudzi ose oushati aiitirwa mushandirwi wake. Mudzimai uyu akapihwa rutsigiro nerubatsiro kwenguva yakati rebei, shamwari dzakagara naye, vanhu vaaiziva vakabatsira nekuchengeta mwana wake, vamwe vakamubatsirawo kuburikidza nemudiwa wavo weNL nekugadziriswa kwemba, imba yemba uye imwe mari yekugara.
Chinhu chimwe chetecho chakaonekwa gore rakapera muH. apo mudiwa womumwe mukadzi wechiThai akafa kamwe kamwe apo vakanga vari pakati pokugadziridza musha wavo. Pano zvakare, rutsigiro nekutungamira, pekugara uye rubatsiro nemhando dzese dzekutengeserana.
Muenzaniso wekupedzisira: mukadzi mumwechete weTh akazove nekutadza kweitsvo kwakanyanya. Mamiriro aakange afa kubva kare kuTH, akadaro. Mukati mokugara muchipatara, shanyo dzakarongwa pahwaro hunotenderera, uye ipapo mukati mevhiki refu dzokurapwa kwokutevera varwere kwakanga kune ngwariro yenguva dzose. Kunyangwe amai vake pavakauya kubva kuThailand kwemavhiki mashoma.
Asi kune rumwe rutivi, zvinoita kuti vatarisire kune mumwe nemumwe. Kuti urege kusiyiwa kunze, kwete kungotsamira kune wawakaroorana naye uye mukuwasha, asi kunyanya kuva, izvo zvinoonekwa sezvakanaka uye zvakajairika neboka zvinongogamuchirwa sechokwadi uye zvakasimba. Kana boka richitenda kuti pati inofanira kupembererwa mushure mokunge basa raitwa, saka anenge munhu wose achatora chikamu. Neiyi nzira, mari yakawanda inopedzerwa pakusvuta nedoro, vanhu zvikurukuru vanodya nokunwa mukati mekupera kwevhiki, mabiko mazhinji anochinjana kudzimba dzemumwe nomumwe, kutenga kuzhinji kunogadzirwa nezvinhu zvoumbozha, hembe dzechiratidzo neshangu, uye zvakawanda. mari kubva pamari yakawanikwa inonyangarika.mihoro yepamwedzi kumakasino. Kubhejera idambudziko, asi hazvirangarirwe zvakadaro. Nekuti kunyangwe iye zvino boka rinopa mhinduro: kana iwe uri murima, hapana kutariswa kunobhadharwa kune chokwadi chekuti haugone kupa mabhiri eresitorendi, semuenzaniso. Asi iwe unogona zvakare kubata vamwe vakadzi vane zvishoma zvekugaya uye kuita sechikwereti shark.
Parizvino, 7% pamwedzi kufarira kwakajairika. Izvozvo zvinoshanda sei? Semuenzaniso, unokwereta € 1.000. Unobhadhara €70 mwedzi wega wega (!). Uye unobvuma kubhadhara mari yacho mukupera kwaMay gore rinouya kana mari yezororo yapera. Hauna chikwereti chemari yemwedzi iwoyo. Kana iwe ukahwina mari hombe mukhasino, kuregererwa kwekutanga kunobvumidzwawo! Kana uine €10.000 yakasara, unogamuchira € 700 mwedzi wega wega. €8.400 pagore. Verenga purofiti yako!
Vamwe veDutch vanobatana vanogonawo kuita chimwe chinhu nezvazvo. Vane chibvumirano chekuti chikamu che50% chemari yekubhejera ichabhadharwa kwavari. Kunze kwaizvozvo, muromo wakavharwa uye maziso akavharwa. Nyaya yemukadzi wechiThai uyo akakunda € 80K jackpot kuHolland Casino muBreda inozivikanwa mumakwikwi avo. Akaisa hafu yacho muakaundi yake yebhangi (!). Mugove wake wakatopera mushure memwedzi.
Nekuti vakadzi veThai vanofarira kutaurirana, vanova nechokwadi chekuti vanhu vanoziva kuti basa rinowanikwa kupi uye sei. Kupfurikidza nebasa rechinguvana, pahwaro hwemihoro, kazhinji kazhinji nokuda kweisingapfuuri muripo wakaderera, unyanzvi hwakaderera, basa rokuchengetera zvinhu uye rokurongedzera, kazhinji kazhinji maawa 40 pavhiki, neawavhatiri kana zvichibvira.
Kuve nebasa kwakakosha, nekuti mari yakawanda inodiwa muTH. Avo vanosiiwa ikoko vanomirira mwedzi woga woga nokuda kwemari yavo inobva kuNetherlands: vabereki, vana, imwe mhuri, bhadharai chikwereti chiduku pano napapo, chengetai chinosara nokuda gare gare.
Mari yakanaka inogadzirwa kubva ku "group transport". Vakadzi vanobva kunzvimbo imwe chete vanokwira pamwe chete kuenda, semuenzaniso, mushandirwi wavo. Izvi zvinodhura € 2 parwendo, saka € 4 pazuva. Kana iwe uine 3 vafambi, iwe uchagamuchira inokwana € 250 yekuwedzera pamwedzi. Nharo iripo ndeyekuti munhu wese ane yake mileage allowance, uye kana achifanira kushandisa public transport, mari iyoyo inofanirwa kushandiswawo.
Iyo KM mihoro pamwe neyako yeKM mvumo inozoshandiswa, semuenzaniso, mota diki yekurenda. Akangwara? Ingenious? Pragmatic? Chokwadi ndechekuti kune vakawanda (ndiregerereiwo: vamwe) Mari yeThai inoita basa. Pfungwa yekuti kugovana mari yepeturu inogona kukwana haishande, kana zvisingaite. Uyezve kune avo vanomhanyisa chitoro kubva kumba kana mota inotengesa chikafu chakapetwa, miriwo, michero, hupfu, shampoo, nezvimwe, zvinounzwa zvakananga kubva kuTH.
Vakadzi vanobva kuThailand vanhu chete, saka ivo vanofanirwawo kuve veboka, sezvatotaurwa. Zvichida Thais ane ichi chidikanwi chakanyanya kusimba kupfuura isu muNetherlands. Saka vakadzi vanotya kusabatanidzwa uye maitiro ekudheerera. Zvose zviri zviviri zvinoitika. Kana iwe ukatora chikamu uye neboka, iwe unogovana mune zvinobatsira uye zvinopihwa. Zvinoreva kuti vakadzi veThai vanogona kuwana dziviriro, kutariswa, hushamwari, rudo uye hama asi imwe nhanho yeumbozha. Zvese izvi zvinogoneka kana ukatevedzera, uye kana ukasadaro, unozviona. Rutivi rwakaipa kwazvo runoratidzwa pano, kazhinji runoparira kukakavara kukuru kwakadzvinyirirwa. Mudzimai wangu anowanzo onekwa pano semurevereri uye akapfava. Kupindirana uye kutsetseka: zvakare izvo zviitiko zveThai. Inguva ino. Kashoma kune zvigadziriso zvechimiro chakanyanya kurongeka.
Zvakadaro: Vakadzi veThai vari kuita zvakanaka muNetherlands. Vanotarisira zvavanoda uye zveumwe neumwe, uye vanoziva nzira yekuzvitarisira zvakanaka. Ivo vane zvematongerwo enyika zvachose, uye havateve zvakanyanya maitiro ePrayuth naPrawit, asi kuti Royalties yavo iri kuita sei, chii chiri kuitika nemhuri uye neshamwari muTH, uye vane ruzivo rwakanyanya neYouTube, Whatsapp, Line uye Instagram. Asi usavabvunza kuti chii chiri kuitika naMwari nenyika, rega gasi neGroningen. Mafungiro ekuumbwa, zviri kuitika, budiriro: kure nepfungwa dzavo, uye kune vazhinji vavo ichiri kumwe kuThailand. Izvo hazviitike kune vese vakadzi veThai, asi zvinoitika kune vazhinji vavo. Nokuti rimwe zuva vanoda kudzokera! Vanotenda zvikuru kuNetherlands, havazokonzeri dambudziko kune vavakaroorana navo uye NL, kupa NL kukwanisa kwavo kushanda, asi mwoyo yavo nemweya hazvina kuvimbiswa kuNL. Izvo zvinoramba zvakangochengeterwa Thailand.
Vakadzi vese vekuThai vanoita sezvatsanangurwa pamusoro apa? Kwete, kwete. Mudzimai wangu, somuenzaniso, haafariri muitiro iwoyo wokuungana. Anoziva vakawanda vevakadzi vataurwa pamusoro apa uye ane ushamwari hwakanaka nevakawanda vavo. Asi iyo yekutamba pabhawa mune cafe nevaya vanopopota nekupopotera varume vakaitenderedza: zvinomuyeuchidza nezvePattaya. Haafanire kuve nazvo, nekuti zvinongo wedzera mufananidzo weThai. Anodemba zvakare kushanya kwese kwekasino. Izvi zvinoshandawo pakushandisa nguva yakawanda neshamwari pane kuva nevadiwa. Anofungawo zvinonyadzisa kuti kune zvakawanda zvepamusoro, nepo Netherlands ichipa zvakawanda maererano nekusimudzira uye dzidzo. Asi vakadzi vechiThai vanowanzotanga kushanda mushure mekusvika. Shamwari yake yeThai yakaroorwa nachiremba wemazino, mumwe waanoziva anogara nemumwe muzvinabhizimisi wechiPutukezi, uye kune vamwe vakapinda munzanga yeDutch neimwe nzira. Izvozvo zvingaita mutsauko here mumafambiro anoita vakadzi muNetherlands? Mamiriro ezvinhu aunozviwana uri mauri here? Izvo zvichave zvakadaro, sezvo zvine basa muTH pachayo: ungave ukasangana nemumwe munhu ane basa remufekitori muNetherlands kana ari kutsvaga mudiwa mutsva muTH ane mudyandigere mukuru. Asi mumwe munhu anofanira kutsanangura nezvazvo. Ndagadzirira!
Muchidimbu:
- Vakadzi vechiThai vanotsvagana nyore nyore uye vanowanzotsvaga kuonana kwakananga.
- Vakadzi vechiThai vanowanzoita mapoka kupfuura varume vechiDutch muThailand nechinangwa chekubatsira nekubatsirana.
- Vakadzi vechiThai vanofarira kubata mari, havagare vanayo, asi vanoishandisa. Vanokurumidza kuwana basa uye / kana kukwereta mari kubva kune mumwe nemumwe.
- Vakadzi veThai vanoona varaidzo seyakakosha kupfuura dzidzo.
- Vakadzi vechiThai vakavimbika kuNL, havasi chikamu chakasimba cheNL nzanga uye vakazvipira kuTH nemoyo nemweya.
Disclaimer - Nyaya iri pamusoro haisi yevakadzi vese veThai muNetherlands, asi ndeyevamwe vavo.
Yakatumirwa naRuudB
Mudzimai wangu weThai anotaura zvakanaka chiDutch uye haasangani neveThai vekwake.
Mumiriri weThai anoti hapana Thai kirabhu / mubatanidzwa muNetherlands.
Zvingafadza izvozvo. kune Thai association here????
Ini ndinoenda kuFair pa (kazhinji) Square gore rega rega. Gara uchinakidzwa uye gara uchisangana nevanhu vaunoziva. Ndakaendako naTino gore rino, asi handina kumbosvika pakutaura nevamwe. Vazhinji veThais nevamwe vavo havanyatso kufarira nhaurirano nezveThai (kana Dutch) zvematongerwo enyika uye nzanga. Izvi zvinondinyadzisa nokuti ndaitaura zvishoma chiDutch nechiThai kupfuura zvandaitarisira.
Nezve Thais muNetherlands, kuungana pamwechete chikamu chayo. Ini zvakare ndine vakawanda vandinoziva veThai uye hongu, vanova nenguva yakanaka pamwe chete uye zvakare kubatsirana. Makona aunotaura anotozivikanwawo, ndosaka rudo rwangu rwaisada kunyura mukati mevanhu vekuThai, asi zvakare kugara vachishamwaridzana nevaunodzidza navo kubva mukubatanidzwa (Indonesia, Vietnam, Latin America). Zvaive nani kumutauro wake uye saka akanzvenga zvinokatyamadza zveThai network.
Nenzira, hazviratidzike kwandiri kuti semhuri munogovana mari uye mari nemazvo. Saka kana munhu weThai akawana mari kuburikidza nebasa kana rombo rakanaka, zvine musoro kuti imwe yacho inopinda muhari. At least ndozvatakaita. Taigona kuchengeta mari yezvimwe zvinhu uye hapana aizova nechekunyunyuta pamusoro pacho. Asi ini ndozivawo mienzaniso kubva kunetiweki yeThais vanowana mari yakawedzerwa muchivande uye vanoshandisa mari iyi kutenga zvinhu zveumbozha kana varaidzo, semuenzaniso.
Ndinobvumirana newe kuti vakadzi vari padyo netiweki vanongova chikamu chenzanga (uye nekudaro kune vanhu vane mhino chena muThailand, vanosangana munzvimbo, asi vashoma kwazvo vanogara, vanoshanda uye vanogara pamwe uye pakati peThais) .. Kunewo avo vanofunga kuti chikamu chiDutch, ndakabvunza mumwe muThai akawana Dutch nyika mwedzi wapfuura kuti aive Thai kana Dutch. 50-5- akadaro. Hongu, nepasipoti mbiri, asi mumoyo mako, uri Thai, handiti?' ndakabvunza. Kwaakati 'Ini ndiri half Thai, half Dutch. Uye uri hafu yechiDutch, hafu yeThai' (anoziva kuti ndine hanya zvikuru nenzanga yeThai).
Sezvineiwo, ndakakanda mapfumo pasi mushure mekuverenga ndima yekutanga.
Mariri iwe unotaura kuti vakadzi veThai vanotsvagana uye vanobatana (kuburikidza nesocial media).
Mudzimai wangu (uyo ave kugara muNetherlands kwemakore gumi nemashanu) anonzvenga izvi. Kunze kwevashoma vaanozivana navo, haadi kubata nevakadzi vechiThai muNetherlands. Iyewo haadi kuenda kune idzi mhando dzezviitiko. Chikonzero cheizvi ndechokuti haakwanisi kushivirira godo negodo pakati peumwe neumwe. Anofarira kuva nemhuri uye neshamwari shoma.
Kuno muBelgium isu hatimbofa takaenda kune kukakavara kwakadaro, nezvikonzero zvakafanana.
Handifunge kuti vanhu veThai pano, kunyanya vanobva kuIsaan, vanoratidza chokwadi chenzanga yeThai.
Inenge nguva dzose rudzi rumwe chete rwevanhu vaunosangana navo pano.
Kana ndichida kuona iyo chaiyo Thailand ndinongotora ndege ikoko, mushure mezvose, Thailand haingori vasikana varombo vanobva kuIsaan nePattaya vanoenda vari voga.
Sezvizvi! Kuongorora kwakadini! Ndatenda netsananguro. Ini handina chimwezve chekuwedzera, kana zvishoma ... huwandu hwetsika hunozivikanwa.
Ruud, dzimwe tsananguro dzinonyatsozivikanwa kwandiri.” Mudzimai wangu akanga asingafaririwo maitiro iwayo evanhu vose pataigara kuNetherlands. Akazivawo kuwedzeredza kwakashata apa. Akanga ane ruzivo rwakawanda rwehupenyu uye akanga akwegura kupfuura vakadzi vakawanda veThai muNetherlands. Tagara muThailand kweanopfuura makore gumi nemanomwe
Mudzimai wangu akagara muNetherlands kwamakore 20 uye anoramba ari kure nechinhu ichocho cheboka, zvimwe nokuda kwechikonzero chakadudzwa naFrans de Beer.
anototi, vakadzi vechiThai muNetherlands makonzo pakati pavo. Ane 1 shamwari yakanaka yeThai, uye neimwe nzira anoda kuva nemhuri yangu.
mukadzi wangu tagara tese kuBelgium for about 4 years, akaenda kumusangano weThai kaviri zvikazomuperera, akange asisade kuonana nevanhu vekunyika yake, vachihura nekuzivisana kuti vangawana sei mari yakawanda kubva. mutorwa, zvaive zvakamukwanira, chete nemukadzi 2 wechiThai aive pedyo, aive afunga zvakafanana
Ndinobvumirana zvikuru nezvinotsanangurwa pamusoro apa. Ini ndave ndichishanda kuHolland Casino kwemakore anopfuura makumi matatu uye kune zvakawanda zvekuvimbisa (goridhe) uye kukwereta kumativi ose, kazhinji zvinhu zvinofamba zvakanaka asi dzimwe nguva zvinhu zvinotadza uye dzimwe nguva zvinobuda uye ndinofanira pindirai zvakare pandinenge ndiri pabasa. Mudzimai wangu agara muNetherlands kwemakore anopfuura 30 uye, sezvineiwo, haafariri kubhejera. Ane shamwari dzechiThai dzaanosangana naye
Temberi yeThai muMusselkanaal kwandinowanzoenda naye ndomutora uye kwaanenge ari muchikwata chekicheni. Kana paine misangano, iye nechikwata vanogadzirira mamongi nevashanyi chikafu uye anotengesawo zvigadzirwa zveThai zvaanozvigadzira. Haafarire zvishoma pane zvinoitika muNetherlands, asi anotarisa zvakawanda zveThai nhau uye zvechokwadi Thai sipo dzakatevedzana pahwendefa rake. Akanga atenga satellite receiver kuitira kuti aone Thai5, yakafanana neBVN. Ini zvino ndine anopfuura 2000 chiteshi aripo uye ndakashandura bhokisi kuti ndigone kuona Ziggo mitambo nemabhaisikopo chiteshi. Muchidimbu, inozivikanwa zvikuru
RuudB, ndinofara kuti mumutsara wekupedzisira unoti nyaya iyi inoshanda kune vashoma vakadzi vechiThai muNetherlands uye kwete vose.
Ini ndinonzwa kupokana pano, nekuti unotanga nekutaura kwakasimba: "Vakadzi veThai vanotsvagana", izvo zvinopa fungidziro yekuti zvine basa kune vazhinji vevakadzi.
Chero zvazvingava, hazvishande kumudzimai wangu, kana vamwe vakadzi vatatu vechiThai vaakasangana navo kuburikidza nechikoro uye nekubatanidzwa: vanotaura nemuromo MUMWE kuti vanoda kugara kure nemapoka akadaro eshamwari chaizvo nekuda kwekuchera, godo, nezvimwe zvakadaro. .Saka zvinoramba zvichizivikanwa. Mudzimai wangu anofarira kubata nevanhu vechiDutch, kwete chete mutauro asiwo nekunangana kwakavhurika.
Jasper, verenga zvakanyatsonaka: mundima yechipiri ini ndatotaura kuti handisi kutaura nezvevakadzi vese veThai muNetherlands. Panguva imwecheteyo, handifunge kuti nyaya yacho inongoshanda kune vashoma Thais. Zvandakaedza, uye sezviri pachena ndakabudirira, kugadzira mufananidzo wemuchadenga wemamiriro ehupenyu ehuwandu hwevakadzi vechiThai muNetherlands. Mamiriro ezvinhu avanozvisarudzira nekunamatira pamwechete mumapoka uye kurarama hupenyu hunobatana nezvavakajaira muTH. Ini handitongi izvozvo, ndinongo fungisisa ndotaura kuti zvinonetsa vadyidzani vavo, kuti vadyidzani ava havana simba pamusoro pazvo, uyezve: kuti mune dzimwe nguva vadyidzani ava vanobatsirwa (zvakanyanya) kubva pazviri. Izvo zvinotaura zvakawanda nezvavo sezvazvinoita nezvevashamwari vavo.
Chinondirwadza mune dzimwe mhinduro ndechekuti zvinonyatsotaurwa kuti “vanhu” vari kuzvibvisa kumadzimai aya. Izvo zvisingazivikanwe nevanhu ndezvekuti izvi zvinowanzoitika muThai: kuzvitarisa nekuzvishora, kutenderedza mhino, uye kufuratira. "Vakaipa, saka ini ndiri nani."
Izvo zvakare zvine chekuita nerudzi rwechimiro chiri kufamba pedyo nacho. Paunoona izvo hafu hafu dzimwe nguva inofamba padivi pake, zvine musoro kuti anogadzira boka rake reshamwari.