Muverengi Kuzviisa pasi: Remekedzo
Dzimwe nguva pfungwa dzinomuka mandiri pamusoro pezvimwe zvidzidzo. Tora nyaya yeruremekedzo uye ungaiwanepi ichi zvakare, chinhu chinogara chichindinetsa.
Chii chinonzi kuremekedza uye nei zvakakosha muhupenyu kuratidza uye kupa. Inyaya yemajini uye unozviwana here mumunhu wese? Iro romuzvarirwo here kana kuti rakadzidzwa, rakavakirwa parudzidziso kana kuti rinodzidziswa mukurerwa? Sei mumwe munhu aine izvi uye mumwe asina? Van Dalen anotaura izvi pamusoro pazvo: kuratidza ruremekedzo kuburikidza nemafambiro ake (...) se (kureva) kunzwa kwekukoshesa kana kuonga. Zvinoreva zvakare: kubata zvine hunhu kana kuchengetedza, kuchengetedza. Ruremekedzo runoreva: kunzwa kwokuyemura voruzhinji, zvikurukuru mumudzimu kana kuti mutsika.
Mibvunzo mizhinji pamusoro peizvi, yandisina mhinduro kwayo uye iyo munhu wese anofanira kuzvibvunza kuti anazvo here uye anoona zvakakosha uye anozviparadzirawo. Kwandiri ichi chikamu chakakosha chehupenyu hwangu. Ini ndinopa ruremekedzo kune vakawanda uye ndinotarisira izvi mukudzoka. Mukuita, ndinoona kusaremekedza pakati pechiverengero chevanhu kune vamwe vanhu uye sezviri pachena hazvivanetse.
Kusaremekedza uye tinozviwana kupi izvi kazhinji. Kusanganisira mumigwagwa, mukudyidzana zvakananga kune mumwe nemumwe, senge muhukama. Kana iwe ukachera zvishoma, isu tose tinogona kufunga nezvemienzaniso.
Tora indasitiri yebonde semuenzaniso, nekuti iyi inyaya yakajairika pane ino blog uye vanhu vari kutora mukana nazvo. Zvinoitwa nevakawanda zvinoratidza kuti vanhu vanofunga kuti ichi chinhu chinoshamisa. Vanhu vanoremekedzana sei ikoko. Kusangana pabonde kunoitwa nevanhu vakuru here, kutenderana here, rudo here, uye hapana nzira dzekumanikidza kana pesvedzero yepfungwa iripo here? Chiito chacho chinorangwa here kana kuti kwete? Zvinoitirwa mari here kana kunze kwechido chebonde kana kuti zvinogoneka pathological abnormality? Rimwe boka riri pane ino blog rinotenda kuti hapana chakaipa nemafambiro ari kuita zvinhu, nekuti ivo pachavo vakaita saizvozvo uye vanobata mahure neruremekedzo, maererano nemashoko avo. Zvekare, mibvunzo mizhinji iyo munhu wese anogona kana zvimwe anofanira kuumba maonero avo.
Handivazivi vanhu ava uye pamwe vakarurama. Ndinofunga kuti izvi hazvifanirwe kutorwa zvishoma, nekuda kwezvikonzero zvakawanda. Unoziva here kuti vakadzi, varume nevana vachiri kushandiswa pabonde uye/kana kubatwa chibharo, kunyange munzvimbo dzisingatarisirwi nevanhu uye nevanhu vanozviti havana chavanoziva. Iyi inzira yechipfambi yakajairika here? Kwete maererano neruzivo rwangu. Pachine zvakawanda zvakaipa neindasitiri yezvepabonde ndosaka ichifanira kurwiwa pane kukudzwa nevamwe. Chero zvazvingava, mutemo wepfambi zvishoma wakakodzera. Sekuona kwangu, hupenyu husina mahure hunogonekawo. Ukama hunogona kupinzwa munzira dzakawanda, kubhadharwa kwepabonde hazvidiwi, mumaonero angu uye mukuona kwevose avo vanozivikanwa kushungurudzwa zvakanyanya kusingadiwi kana kune dzimwe nharo dzinoita kuti dziwedzere kunzwisisa. Ndinoda kuvanzwa. Handina kana zuva rimwe randakapotsa pane chero chinhu maererano nehukama uye kana ndikakwanisa kuzviita, mumwe munhu anogona kuzviitawo.
Kutyaira nemuPattaya beach area, ine mabhawa akawanda uye Walking Street sechinhu chinoshamisira, tinowanzoona mhomho yevanhu. Pamusoro pacho zvinoita sekunge munhu wese ari kuva nenguva yakanaka uye mufaro unopenya kubva muzviso zvakawanda. Kunze kwevamwe hongu, vakadhakwa zvakanyanya, vasingafari uye vasina hutano kana vasina mari. Kutadza kugara pachituru. Chingondiudza kuti chikonzero chii. Kana kuti pane zvimwe zvinangwa here? Vanhu varipo nehunyanzvi here kana kuti imhando yemaitiro emagariro anoitika ipapo? Chii chinonyatsoitika uye munhu anogona kuita pasina rudzi urwu rwemaitiro nenzvimbo uye kazhinji akawandisa? Pane upenyu hunobvira here panzvimbo pechipfambi kana kuti pasina?
Hongu, doro rakawanda rinopedzwa, kunyanya mumabhawa. Sezviri pachena, kuvanhu vakawanda, mufaro usina doro wakaoma kuwana. Vanoda izvi kuti vapinde mune imwe mamiriro epfungwa, ini ndinonzwisisa kubva muhurukuro pamusoro peizvi. Nzira isinganzwisisike kwandiri, nokuti izvi zvinongowanikwa nyore nyore newaini isina doro. Ndinonzwa kunge zviri mumusoro mangu. Munhu noutera hwake. Vanoratidzwa ipapo uye vanoonekwa nevakawanda sezvo mafaro atopera. Vanhu vanoziva kuti doro muchetura wemuviri uye kuti vanhu havana kuvakirwa. Kuwandisa kunokuvadza, asi hakugoni kunetsa vanhu vakawanda. Matumbu edoro ndiwo mhedzisiro. Kunze kwevamwe vanorwara, saka ini handivasanganisire, zvakaipa zvakakwana. Unongorarama kamwe chete zvakadaro. Kuremekedza muviri wako pachako kwakaoma kuwana. Izvi zvingatova chiratidzo chechimwezve chinhu, chakadai semwero wakati wokusaremekedza vamwe kana usingazvikwanisi iwe pachako? Ndichachisiya sechikafu chevanodzidza nezvepfungwa, asi semunhu asina basa ndinozviona sechangu.
Pamusoro pekufara kwese ikoko, kune zvakare dambudziko rakawanda ririkuitika. Kunze kwezvinoitwa nevanhu kumiviri yavo nekunwa doro zvakanyanya uye kuputa fodya, (tarisa huwandu hwevanhu vane high blood pressure uye high cholesterol level, kazhinji inokonzerwa neizvi), kunewo bonde risingatenderwe, mu chimiro chechipfambi. Saka mari yebonde. Zvichiri kurambidzwa nemutemo muThailand, asi isu tese tinoziva kuti izvi zvinobatwa sei. Chokwadi nyonga nyonga kana ukandibvunza. Vanhu vazhinji vanoita mari yakawanda kubva mairi, kusanganisira nevakuru vehurumende yeThai vane huori. Izvo hazvitadzise mushanyi wepabonde kubva pakugara kure. Kusaremekedza vagari veThai, izvo zvinotsigira mutemo uyu zvakanyanya. Hongu vanhu varikowo.
Nguva pfupi yadarika ndakaverenga mashoko emumwe munhu okuti, “Zvausingazivi hazvikuvadzi pakudanana nomumwe munhu,” pakataurwa kuti unofanira kuudza mumwe wako here kana uri kunyenga. Kana iyi isiri nzira yekusaremekedza saka handizivi kuti chii. Zvinonzi zviri mugene remunhu kubiridzira uye zvave zvakadai kubva kare. Kubva kare, vakadzi vakashandiswa uye vamwe vakazvibvumira kushandiswa. Toramba tichizvida here muna 2018.Hatisati tave takachenjera here? Ipapo ungafunga kuti isu tese tinofanira kutora chikamu mairi, handiti? Hunhu husina kunaka hwakadii uye ndinozvitaura zvine mwero, ndizvo zvandinoda kutaura nezvazvo.
Miedzo uye kusakwanisa kuidzivisa chinhu chinokoshawo. Vanozviti mashamwari avo vakarara nemukadzi (akadhakwawo) weshamwari yavo vozoti vakazofunga kuti musikana kana mukadzi wavo. Tiri kusaremekedza zvakare here kana kuti ichiwo chiitiko chemunhu. Ndine chokwadi kuti unogona kupa mienzaniso yeizvi zvakare. Kazhinji kusaremekedza nevashandisi vakananga uye vasina kunanga. Pane imwe pfungwa here pakati pevashandisi vepabonde kuti vangani vakadzi nevarume vanoshungurudzwa zuva rega rega? Mishumo inogara ichibudiswa mumapepanhau nezvenyaya iyi, asi izvi zvinokanganisawo vanhuwo zvavo here? Boka rinotarisirwa rinoda here kuteerera izvi uye vanofungei nezvazvo? Vanomboverenga here mabhuku pamusoro penyaya iyi, kana kuti izvi zvose zvinowira munzeve dzisinganzwe?
Pane mari inofanira kuitwa uye vanhu vari kutsvaga kugutsikana kwepabonde, saka zvakawanda zvinofanirwa kubayirwa uye zvinhu zvinofuratirwa maziso kana kududzirwa zvakasiyana. Iwe unofanirwa kuramba uchinzwa zvakanaka nezvazvo, handiti? Kunyanya nekuti bonde rakachipa muThailand, rinowanikwa (nekuti rinogona kuwanikwa munzvimbo dzakawanda uye mahure akawanda) uye urombo hunoramba huripo, zvinowanzoitika muThailand kushandira vakadzi nevarume vanobatanidzwa mune zvavanoda. Ndiyo El Dorado pano mune izvozvo. Akanaka ese iwo mabhawa uye icho chiedza chakanaka uye iwo mimhanzi inoshamisa uye iyo inonakidza mitambo yaunogona kutamba ipapo. Zvinonakidza kuona uye kuita zvakadaro. Hazvidi kuti nditaure, handidi zvese izvi. Isu tinoona boka rakakosha revashanyi vanopedza zororo ravo rese mumabhawa uye vanongonetsekana nekunyaradza kwavo. Chii chimwe chaungashandise mari yako (yezororo), ndinonzwa vachitaura kana kufunga. Uye vanotora imwe.
Kunze kwechokwadi chekuti kune vakawanda vanoita zvebonde vakatanga basa iri nekuda kwehurombo uye/kana pesvedzero yemhuri, kureva kumanikidzwa kwepfungwa, kune mahure akati wandei anomanikidzwa zvakaipisisa kushanda ipapo. Gare gare muupenyu, semugumisiro wemakore ekuita sekuti ibasa remazuva ose, kune chiverengero che (ex) mahure anosara achinetseka uye anoda rubatsiro kuti aite. Kune vekunze kunorambirwa kuti vakaita basa iri nekuda kwenyadzi. Zvimiro zvakasiyana-siyana zvekushandisa zvinogona kuonekwa kune avo vakazaruka kwavari. Zvifeve zvekune dzimwe nyika kunyanya zvinowanzopiwa shamwari dzepimp. Mhuri dzavo dziri kunyika dzavo, dzakabatwa sechibatiso vachityisidzirwa. Kutya kushama muromo nekupikisa.
Tichiri kuziva mienzaniso yepfambi dzekuRussia dzakawanikwa dzakapondwa pamhenderekedzo yePattaya makore apfuura. Asi madzimai aya anoshandiswa nevatengi vakati wandei. Ivo varipo nechikonzero, shure kwezvose. Bhizimisi riri kufamba, chiRungu chinodaro. Ko vashandisi havambozvione here kana kuti havazvione sekukosha, asi ivo pachavo vanouya pekutanga. Tenda zvavanoda kutenda asi uri bofu kwazvo kuti usaone chokwadi. Ndinoziva kuti kunewo mahure mazhinji, kunyanya muThailand, anga achiita basa iri kwekanguva uye vakanaka pakunyengerera uye unogona kutenda kuti zvese ndezvemahara uye ndosaka vanhu vasinganzwe kutaurirwa uye. vanhu vazhinji vanoita saizvozvo. Izvi zvinoita kuti kukurukura nyaya iyi kuve nehuviri mukuita nekududzira. Zvakadaro, ndinofunga ruzhinji rweboka iri zvakare vanotamba theatre uye vakanaka pairi.
Wese munhu angave achiziva kuti kune akawanda venereal zvirwere mubasa iri, saka hazvina kunaka kuti hutano hwako hubatanidzwe mairi. Kunyanya kana iwe uchiri nemumwe wako asingazivi nezvezororo repabonde uye hukama hwekunze. Icho chokwadi chekuti hunhu uhu hunokwezvawo kana kuunza mamwe marudzi ehutsotsi zvakare hachisi chinhu chakawedzera.
Uyezve kune boka repfambi avo, kunze kwekuita zvepabonde zvinobhadharwa, vanorarama humwe hupenyu, hunova nemudiwa (weThai) anofanirwa kuvada uye uyo vanowana naye mimwe yemifaro yavo nekusuwa. Munhu wese anoda rudo nekutarisirwa, hatina kusiyana nazvo. Kunze. MuThailand ndinoziva vanhu vakati wandei vanorega vakadzi vavo vachiita zvebonde nekuti ivo vanobatsirikanawo nemari nazvo. Muchokwadi, pamhando yepimp yakavanzika, asi pasina kumanikidzwa kwakanyanya, nezvimwewo. Vanogonawo kutyaira mota yakanaka, kutaura zvishoma. Mafungiro akadii, haanzwisisike kwandiri. Zvisinei, kune mahure ane mukomana kana musikana asingazive kuti anoita basa iri. Kana vakaziva kuti izvi zviri kuitika, zvinhu zvinogona kuchinja. Nzira dzinowanzo kupatsanurwa, asi dzimwe nguva mhosva dzerudo dzinoitika uye zvese zviri pakati, izvo zvinogona kukonzera matambudziko mazhinji. Dzimwe nguva inoyerwa mupepanhau uye inowanikwa kuti munhu wese averenge. Kazhinji hatinzwe nezvazvo, asi ichokwadi chekuti zvinoitika nguva nenguva. Mukuona kwangu, kuremekedzwa kwakaomawo kuwana mumhando idzi dzehukama. Vanhu vanongoita chero chipi uye sezviri pachena ivo havana hanya nemhedzisiro.
Iwe unoziva here vanhu vanoisa hunhu hwevanhu pamusoro pezvavanoda mafaro uye vanorarama zvinoenderana? Ndino. Vangori vashoma vashoma vevanhu vanokoshesa ruremekedzo urwu uye vane vanhu vakatodonha kusvika pari zvino zvekuti kubvunza mubvunzo kunorambwa sezvisina maturo. Nei tichiri kushanda pane izvozvo? Ungafunga kudaro kana ukafamba famba ipapo wonotandara pamabhawa mazhinji uchiona hunhu huripo. Chimiro chekuparara kwevanhu uye pfungwa shoma yetsika mumaonero angu. Kana kuti ndini chete, ndakawedzeredza mumaonero angu panyaya iyi, zvichida yechinyakare uye ndinofanira kuchinjira kuboka guru iroro. Iva nekunzwisisa kwakawanda nekuti havasi vese vakafanana. Munguva yehupenyu hwangu hwekushanda ndakapedza chikamu chikuru chehupenyu hwangu hwekushanda ndichibata nemhando dzakasiyana-siyana dzekuderera uku uye zvino sezvo ndakwegura uye ndine nguva yekusununguka, ndinoona zvakanyanya zvakajeka zviri kuitika uye zviri kuitika uye izvo hazvisi kundibatsira. Mabhuku akazara nekushungurudzwa munyika dzepabonde akanyorwa. Munhu haagoni kutaura nemaziso akaoma kuti haazive zvakaipa zvakawanda zvinoitika zuva nezuva. Hazvina pasina chikonzero kuti iwe unofanirwa kungwarira inodiwa kana uchishanyira mabrothels nemabhawa mukati, semuenzaniso, Soi Cowboy muBangkok. Zvechokwadi iri ndiro dambudziko rangu, vazhinji vachati, nokuti basa repabonde rinofanira kuenderera mberi uye rinonyanya kukosha. Izvi hazvifaniri kukanganiswa kana kutaurwa kana kunyorwa nenzira yakaipa. Isu tese tinoziva kuti nei izvi zvichinyanya kutariswa neboka rinotarirwa revashandisi uye ini handibvumirani navo.
Saka, vanhu vanodikanwa, avo vane hanya neizvi, mumaonero angu, ratidzai ruremekedzo uye fungai musati matanga. Kurudziro yangu ingave yekutsvaga chimwe chitandadzo chisinganyanyi kukanganisa nzanga. Pane zvakawanda zvingasarudzwa zveizvi. Zvakare zviitiko zvine hutano uye zvinhu zvaunogona kukura kubva muhuwandu hwakazara. Munhu haasati anyanyokura zvokusagona kudzidza. Dzvanya iyi inotenderera uye ubatsire kune iri nani Thailand.
Uye zvakare, huzivi hwangu hahufuridzirwe nekutenda. Handiti kuna Mwari uye ndinovenga chitendero. Saka kune avo vanotaura pfungwa iyi uye vanofunga kuti ndiri kuzivisa kutenda segwara, saka izvi zvakatojekeswa. Sekuona kwangu, pane chokwadi chakawanda mumirairo yegumi. Uyewo musoro unonakidza, asi zvichida kune imwe nguva.
Ndinovimba kuchave nenhaurirano ine upenyu ichaita kuti vanhu vafunge uye ini ndingafara kuchinjanisa maonero angu kune ari nani kana iwe uchikwanisa kundinyengetedza nezvezvakanakira maringe nekuipa kwandakanyora muchidimbu changu.
Zvishuwo zvakanaka uye njere zhinji.
Yakatumirwa naJacques
nyaya yakanaka, yakanaka uye pfupi
Rukudzo rune mativi akasiyana
Chekutanga pane zvese, iwe unofanirwa kuona mutsauko mutsika uye mararamiro enyika yakaita seThailand.
The Netherlands inyika yerubatsiro uko vanhu vakura vanowana penjeni yenyika11.
Kana mukarambana uye muine vana, mari yekubhadhara mari inobhadharwa
Kubatsirwa kwemwana, kuchengetwa kwezuva uye mabhenefiti kana usiri pabasa)
Thailand ine mudyandigere wehurumende kubva pa600 baht = 15 euros pamwedzi, ichikwira kusvika pa90 euros pamwedzi kune vane makore makumi mapfumbamwe.
Vana, kunyanya vasikana, vanochengeta vabereki vavo navanasekuru uye vana vanokura navanasekuru vavo.
Sei vasikana veThai/Asia vaine vana vadiki nekuda kwetsika yekuti vana vanozokuchengetai gare gare? Disguised age provisioning nekuti ukasaita vana unozoita dambudziko kana wakura
Sei vanhu vasingashande kubhangi, kuchipatara, nezvimwewo nekuti unoda kudzidziswa izvi uye izvo kazhinji hazviwanikwe.
Pamusoro pezvo, muhoro, Tesco Bigc Homepro, Makro, Kuvaka, Mugwagwa uye Hydraulic Engineering etc. max 15000 kusvika 20.000 baht pamwedzi.
Mumafekitori mazhinji emota/magungano kubva kuBKK kuenda kuRayong, muhoro unogona kusvika zviuru makumi matatu pamwedzi uye bhonasi yekupera kwegore zviuru zana baht.
Bargirl ane makore gumi nemasere kusvika makumi matatu nemashanu anowana avhareji yegumi nemashanu kusvika makumi matatu emakumi matatu baht pamwedzi.
Mukadzi mune akawanda nuru masaja uye spa nezvimwe muBangkok,
Massage ine yekugezesa etc mari inogona kusvika nyore 150.000 baht uye nezvimwe.
90% yevakadzi varombo vekuAsia vari kutsvagawo wekuMadokero wekugara naye anogona kumutsigira nemhuri yake.
Izvi zvinojekesa kuti Thailand nenyika dzese dzakatenderedza RESPECT yakavakirwa pamari yaunayo mubhangi uye kunyanya izvo zvaunogona kuratidza mumusha / guta kwaunobva, semuenzaniso imba hombe kwauri uye nerombo rakanaka kwauri. vabereki hombe motokari Toyota Fortuner, kana Mitsubitsi Pajero uye inodiwa goridhe hongu.
Iyi ingori tsananguro pfupi yerumwe rutivi rwenyaya yako Jaques, iyi chete nyaya yakavakirwa pachokwadi kubva kwandiri nemukadzi wake wechiThai ane makore makumi matatu eruzivo uye anogara munharaunda yeThai pakati pevaThai vamwe vanhu vanobva Songkla, Phuket, Huahin, pakati pevamwe. ,bangkok,chonburi,pattaya.,nonkhai,chiangmai,etc
Sei kukakavara uku, kubva ndichimhanya. Ndiri kunzwa kuneta nevanonzi vanhu vanofunga muWestern view uye maonero
Nenzira yomuzvarirwo, kumanikidzirwa uye kubata zvisina kufanira hakugoni kururamiswa uye kunofanira kubatwa noutsinye.
Ini pachangu ndakaedza kakawanda kubatsira bhawa uye madzimai ekumassage kuti vawane basa rakanaka rakajairika nefurati remahara kana kamuri ye15000 XNUMX baht. Mukamuri yekugezera, chimbuzi uye yekubikira, kwaigara kuchifarira, asi mushure memwedzi ivo. vanga vadzokera mubhawa, masaja etc. nekuda kwekushaikwa kwekunakidzwa nevasikana/kushaya rusununguko, hapana kufambira mberi pakutsigira kana kuroora anochengeta mhuri uyezve mari shoma.
Parizvino nharo yangu, ndiri kugara kuChonburi. Kana iwe uchida kutibata, unogamuchirwa chaizvo kune kapu yekofi.
Iyi itsamba yechipostora kubva kuna Pope here?
Ndatenda Jacques nenyaya iyi yakanyatsonyorwa uye yakajeka, ndinovimba ichawana mhinduro dzakawanda uye kuti vanhu vachatanga kufunga. Chakandishamisa panyaya yako ndechekuti, “Hupenyu husina pfambi, semaonero angu, hunogonekawo.” Iwe unogona kunge uine kusahadzika nezvazvo, nekuti hazvisi pasina chikonzero kuti ibasa rekare kwazvo pasi rose. Munzvimbo dzakawanda ndinofunga zvakafanana nezvaunonyora pamusoro. Nemusiyano wandinodudzira izwi rekuti rukudzo zvakasiyana, kwete maererano netsanangudzo asi maererano nemashandisirwo. Ndinotenda kuti unofanira kuratidza ruremekedzo kuvamwe vanhu vose, vavakidzani, mubiki wechingwa ari pakona, pfambi, nezvimwewo. Wese munhu anokodzera ruremekedzo irworwo, zvisinei nesarudzo yebasa rake, chinzvimbo kana nhanho yebasa. Asi pamusoro pazvo, kwandiri, kudzivisa kunzwa kwomumwe munhuwo chimiro cheruremekedzo. Kana hure riri kunetsa kubasa kwaro handichaendi ikoko. Kana munhu ane dambudziko rekushanya hure handimuudze. Kuvimbika hakuiti nguva dzose kunobhadhara kana kuchisvika pakukanganisa manzwiro emumwe munhu. Mukuwedzera, kune zvakawanda zvakavanzwa zviitiko zvechipfambi. Bonde rinogara richida chimwe chinhu, ingave mari, manzwiro kana imwe mari. Sekuti iwe unofanirwa kuisa mari muhukama kuti urambe uchifamba zvakanaka. Hukama huzhinji hunovanza kana kwete, zvichibva pane zvinouya pekutanga. Saka neimwe nzira mumwe anozviitira chipfambi nemari kana kuti kubatsira mumwe anenge awana chimwe chinhu. Munyika yedu yekuMadokero tinogona kazhinji kunzwisisa manzwiro aya pakati pedu. Mune imwe nyika seThailand hatizvinzwisise. Asi kana iwe ukataura naThais, vakadzi vazhinji havagutsikane nevavanonamata navo veThai uye saka vanoedza kuvaka chengetedzo neimwe nzira. Pamwe pajecha rine mvura.
Pakupedzisira, ndinotenda kuedza kwako kuita kuti vanhu vafunge nekuvandudza nyika. Mufaro!
Jacques? Jacques! Unoziva kuti chipfambi ndiro basa rekare pasi rose, handiti? Uye vasikana ivavo vose vanozviita nokuzvidira kwavo kuti vatsigire mhuri yavo. Uye vatengi vanorara navo nekuda kwekunzwira tsitsi. Chihure ndinoti imhando yerudo.
Zvinobatsirawo kuvandudza mihoro mishoma yemapurisa nemauto. Zvakanaka kune wese anobatanidzwa!
Chokwadi kune mamwe ma abuse here and there. Asi unawo kwese.
Zvechokwadi, asi zvakanyorwa zvishoma zvishoma!
Nenzira, kwaiva pamusoro pekuremekedza!
Chinyorwa chinoshamisa.
Maonero angu: kuremekedzwa kunofanira kuwanikwa (kuendeswa). Ini ndaida kuremekedza munhu wese kunze kwetsika, asi kazhinji hapana chikonzero cheizvozvo (zvinosuruvarisa).
Hapana ruremekedzo mune zvepabonde (chiito), kunyanya kana zvinhu zvinoshandiswa kupinda mumamiriro ekudhakwa (doro uye zvinhu zvinorema). Izvo zvinongodiwa pakufambiswa kwehupenyu…. ndiko (ngatitaurei chokwadi) kunyanya kuzvigutsa uye hapana chandinoona chinoratidza kuzviremekedza kana vamwe. Saka iyo haisi nyaya.
Ndinotya kuti vashoma vanoziva manzwiro anouya nekuremekedza vamwe. Nemhaka yokuti munhuwo zvake anonyanya kutsvaka udyire uye hachisi chinhu chakakodzera kuremekedzwa.
Asi unogona kufunga zvakasiyana nekuti une rusununguko rwokufunga zvaunofunga kuti ndizvo zvakanaka.
Kana ndikazvinzwisisa zvose nemazvo, imhosva yevanhu vanowana mufaro mumafaro ehupenyu?
Vamwe vanhu vanoona hupenyu hwehupenyu hwakakosha kupfuura huwandu uye sarudzo yakadaro inogonawo kuremekedza.
Muna 2018, vechidiki vachiri kufara panguva yezororo ravo rezhizha muSpain, kwavanobhadhara zvisina kunanga zvepabonde kuburikidza nezvinwiwa. Vakwegura vachafamba zvishoma kuti vaise maruva panze. Vese muri kuzviona sevasingaremekedzi, asi ndizvo zvazviri here?
Chokwadi, chipfambi chinomanikidzirwa chimwe chinhu chinofanira kurambidzwa. Zvinogona kuzivikanwa zvakare kuti muThailand, semuenzaniso, kune zvakare indasitiri yepabonde yeThais nenzira yekugezera kana monkey-ob-nuat ine gumi nemaviri evasikana mugirazi rehove.
Kufarira kushanda ikoko kusati kwamboitwa kunokurudzirwa nemari pane kumanikidzwa, izvo zvinomutsawo mubvunzo wekuti vasikana pachavo vanoona basa racho richiremekedzwa uye kana zvakadaro, ndiani mumwe angatonga izvozvo?
Ndinoona kusvibiswa kwemvura nemhepo, kushandiswa kwemishonga inouraya zvipembenene ine ngozi, shuga yakawandisa nemunyu muzvikafu zvakaputirwa kuve kushaikwa kweruremekedzo kuvanhu vese.
Uye Jacques akanakidzwa zvishoma muPattaya
Mapikicha akanaka nenzira
Kuita zvepabonde kwekumanikidzwa hakuna kunaka mumamiriro ezvinhu chero api zvawo, mumabhizimisi ezvepabonde uye mukati mewanano.
Usambofa wakarara nevadiki mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu, kunyangwe nemvumo.
Uyezve, hapana chakaipa pakusangana pabonde nekubvumirana.
"Ukama hunogona kupinzwa munzira dzakawanda, bonde rekubhadhara harifanirwe, mukuona kwangu uye nekuona kwese kushungurudzwa kunozivikanwa hazvidiwi kana kune dzimwe nharo dzine musoro. Ndinoda kuvanzwa. Hapana kana zuva rimwe randakapotsa panyaya yehukama uye kana ndikakwanisa kuzviita, mumwe munhu anogona kuzviitawo. "
Chokwadi chekuti hauna kumboshaya chero chinhu chingave chiri chekuti iwe:
- iwe uri murume akanaka kwazvo anoita kuti munhu wese ade
_ wakapfuma kana pachimiro nemota, imba kana mbatya dzinodhura. (Handisati ndamboona mukadzi akashata akagara mumotokari yemitambo yakavhurika inodhura. Rungava rudo chairwo here?)
- iwe hauna zvido zvepabonde, unogona kuenda nyore kune imwe monastery (zvakanaka, nenzira, ivo vaigona kuzviitawo, uye vasina kana kubhadharwa)
- Sezvineiwo, bonde rinobhadharwa zvakare, zvikasadaro ndinofunga kubatwa chibharo uye kushungurudzwa pabonde kwaizoitika kakawanda kupfuura zvazvino.
Uyezve mhinduro
Mushure mendima shoma ndakafungidzira kuti Jacques anogona kunge ari munyori. Zvakanaka kuti mamita angu achiri kushanda. Wadiwa Jacques, zvinoita sekunge wakanyora chidimbu kubva pamwoyo uye ndinogona kuenda kure kure newe. Ndinoramba ndichiona zvichishamisa - uye dzimwe nguva zvakare zvinosuwisa zvikuru - kuti vanhu vakawanda havana chido kana kukwanisa kuzviisa mumamiriro evamwe. Mafungiro asina hanya nezvinoreva zvaunoita kune vamwe. Nepo mubvunzo uri nyore: dai ndaiva mutsoka dzake, chii chandingangosangana nacho? Zvechokwadi, mhinduro dzakasiyana-siyana dzinogoneka, izvo zvinongoreva kuti usatonge nekukurumidza uye kugara wakagadzirira kugadzirisa mhedziso, maonero uye fungidziro.
Ndinobvuma chokwadi kuti mumakore angu makumi maviri ndakashandisawo mabasa akabhadharwa muThailand. Asi nokuda kwezvikonzero zvakati kuti nokukurumidza ndakanga ndisisakwanisi kuita izvozvo zvakare. Vakataura nevakadzi vashoma nezvehupenyu hwavo uye pazvakange zvisina kunaka: kusiya chikoro, kuita mwana nekukurumidza, mukomana akatiza. Zvaive pachena kuti hazvisi zvekunakidzwa kuti vanhu vakaita basa iri (kunyangwe vakadzi nevarume ivavo varipowo uye kana ukashandura chido chako kuita basa: zvakanaka). Pandakavabvunza kuti zvakaita sei kurara nevakomana vachembera zvikuru, mhinduro yaibva pakuti 'zvakanaka' kana kuti 'ibasa'. Kunyange zvazvo pakanga pasina kuita kwokusema, kwakanga kusiri kuita kwairatidza kufara 'kwainakidza kurara nevarume vakuru! Zvinonaka'. Nguva shoma dzandakatora mukadzi neni kwehusiku, bonde racho rakanga risiri rakanaka zvakare, pakanga paine kushomeka kwechido semutambo wakanaka webonde unofanirwa kuve. Tekinoroji inogona kunge yakanaka, asi ichiri yakawandisa nzira imwe chete isina maspark. Vakadzi vacho vakanga vakanaka, asi vainyanya kuedza kundifadza. Ndakaedza kuvafadzawo asi ndakazoona kuti vainge vasina kuzvijaira. Uye kuvhiringika nemishonga yekudzivirira kubata pamuviri zvakare kunokanganisa, newagara uchiita bonde munogona kunakidzwa nemhando dzese pasina kunetsekana. Hongu, ndakakurumidza kusvika pakugumisa: madzimai akanaka, asi ibasa uye kwete chinhu chinoitwa nemunhu nekuda kwechido. Saka hazvina kundipa kunzwa kugutsikana, asi kunzwa 'musikana, ndinovimba newe kune hupenyu huri nani'.
Ndinobvumawo kuti kana ndikanzwa zvikamu zvemabhawa (pfambi), chinhu chekutanga chandinofunga ndechekuti 'kwete, kwete zvakare'. Kunyangwe ndinoverenga zvese. Kunyangwe kuri kungoyedza maonero angu kana kuedza kunzwisisa vamwe vane maonero akasiyana, uye pamwe nekunhonga chimwe chinhu kubva pachangu. Nyaya dzevamwe vanyori hadzisi chinhu changu, kunyangwe ndinofarira kudziverenga. Somuenzaniso, zvidimbu zveFrans Amsterdam. Handifungi kuti ingave pfungwa yakanaka kufamba mamita 100 pakati peimba yekurara nechituru chemubhawa uye apo neapo mubhedha nepfambi. Dai waizondiisa pabhawa stool muPattaya, ndaizosuwa. Asi ndinocherechedzawo kuti mumwe munhu akaita saFrans anoreva zvakanaka, anoratidza ruremekedzo kunyange zvazvo mararamiro akadaro/zororo risiri rangu. Saka ndinotenda vanyori nevapepeti nekugovana zviitiko. Nenzira iyi ndakawana ruzivo rwakawanda ndisingaone vese Pattaya nePatpong vanoenda sevatsvina, vanonzwisa tsitsi, vanongozvifunga vabatsiri (zadza isina chinhu).
Saka hauzondiwana mumigwagwa ndine neon lighting kana mahotera ane machira anotsvedza nemagirazi. Ndizvo zvinondipa kurwadziwa mudumbu mangu. Kuvaraidzo yangu ndinoenda kumamyuziyamu, zvitoro zvemabhuku, nzvimbo dzine hunhu hwakanaka, tsika kana zvivakwa uye ndizvo zvandinoda kutaura nezvazvo. Kana zvichibvira, pamwe nechokwadi uye manhamba. Asi vamwe vanozoona kuti zvinosuruvarisa: ndeipi idiot ichadzidza zvinyorwa uye kuzadza musoro wayo nechokwadi kana makiromita mashoma kubva iwe unogona kuzvizadza iwe pasi pemuti wekokonati? Kune mumwe nemumwe wake.
Ndinoshuvira munhu wese rudo rwakawanda, kunzwisisa uye ruremekedzo. Uye zviri nani zvakare ruzivo. Uye usina chivi ndiye anokanda ibwe.
Ndakatofungidzira kuti chinyorwa ichi chakanyorwa naJacques mundima yekutanga. Asi izvozvo hazvichina kukosha. Izwi rokuti rukudzo rinoshandiswa zvisina kufanira mazuvano, kunyanya. Vazhinji vanoda ruremekedzo nokuda kwavo vamene nepo vasingagoni kuzviraira nokuda kwavamwe kana kuti kunyange kusvika pedyo nokuziva zvinorehwa noruremekedzo. Muhupenyu hwangu hwekushanda ndakasangana nevanhu vazhinji vanobva kwakasiyana siyana, kubva kune varombo kusvika kune vane zvinzvimbo zvepamusoro, vakaita semushumiri nevatungamiriri vemakambani makuru akanyorwa. Nenguva dzose ndave ndakapotsa ndasemburwa nehunhu, kazhinji pasi pesimba redoro kana kuti zvinodhaka, zveichi chikamu chokupedzisira. Uye nekufamba kwemakore, ndinoona kuti zvinosuruvarisa kuti handichakwanisa kuva neruremekedzo kuvanhu vakawanda. Semuenzaniso, ndine manzwiro iwayo kune vashandi vekununura, avo vanowanzoshanda zvachose vasina udyire uye pangozi yehupenyu hwavo, sezvazvakaita iye zvino neboka rebhola muThailand, kubatsira vamwe. Kana kune vamwe vatambi, uye kwete avo vakapambadzwa uye vakabhadhara zvakanyanya nyanzvi dzenhabvu, vangaita chero chinhu kuti vabudirire mumutambo wavo. Uye zvakare kune vakawirwa netsaona, vanoenda kune hurefu hukuru kuti vapora. Asi, kunyangwe zvisingamboenzaniswi nemienzaniso iri pamusoro, semuenzaniso zvakare kune vazhinji vanoita zvepabonde muThailand kana chero kupi zvako pasi rose, avo vanowanzoshorwa uye kazhinji vanobatwa zvisina rukudzo.
Kunyora kwakanakisa, chimwe chinhu chekufunga nezvacho. Asi vanhu vazhinji vanongouya pano nechinhu chimwe chete. Uye haufanirwe kuuya pano kuzokurukura zvakanaka. Hunhu hweiyi nyaya: bata vanhu neruremekedzo, uye kwete muThailand chete.
Unobva kune imwe nyika here?
Akaunti yako inoita semharidzo yemuparidzi. Kunyanya kusimudza chigunwe. Handikuzive, asi unoita seusiri hupenyu hweparty. Kushora zvese zvisingaenderane nemararamiro eCalvinist, doro uye bonde rakabhadharwa…. Hapana chimwe chinhu chakashata uye chinoshoreka, handiti? Pamusoro pazvo, zvinosuruvarisa kuti ndaiverenga zvinosetsa uye kuzvinyomba.
Ini pachangu ndinobvumirana newe kuti kumanikidza uye kushungurudzwa kunofanirwa kurwisa. Asi kunze kwekunyevera nezvegehena uye nekutongwa, ndinosuwa mhinduro munyaya yako. Kana muchipokana nechipfambi kudaro, totuma here madzimai arikuda kubuda aende kumba kwenyu? Ipapo unogona kuvapa zvokudya nepokugara uyewo mhuri dzinovatsigira. Kana kuti waizoda kuti vakadzi ivavo vashande mukuvaka uye vatakure matombo? Kana kushanda maawa akawanda mufekitari pasi pemamiriro ekushanda asina kunaka.
Uyezve, ndinofunga, uye vazhinji vanonzi 'vanhu vemagariro' vanotambura neizvi, kuti vanosarudza kudana munhu wese seakabatwa. Kushungurudza munhu asiri iye nekuti asarudza kushanda mubhawa kwakangofanana nekumushungurudza. Unonyima vamabhawa chero rudzi rwekuzviremekedza. Iwe unoti: unonzwisa tsitsi uye unoda rubatsiro. Ndiani anoda kunzwa chinhu chakadaro? Madzimai haatorerwe shuwa nevanozviti vabatsiri nevanochengeta.
Vazhinji vemabhawa vanhu vane simba vanonyatsoziva zvavanoda nezvavasingadi. Vamwe vanochengeta mari kubva mukushanda mumabhawa kuti vatange bhizinesi ravo.
Muchidimbu, kupomera chipfambi pasina kuunza mhinduro dzechokwadi dzakafanana nekuchema pamusoro pemamiriro ekunze.
Kubva pane zvakaitika kwandiri ndozivawo kuti vakadzi vakati wandei (vasikana) vanofinhwa mumusha mavo kuI-saan uye vanofarira kuenda kubhawa kunofadza kunotaura neshamwari. Iye zvino vanogonawo kusangana nemumwe munhu kana zvichivakodzera. Vamwe vanhu vanotarisa nharembozha yavo zvakanyanya uye varipo kuti vawane mari yepekugara.
Musikana wangu zvechokwadi haafanire kushanda ipapo uye hapana kumanikidzwa, asi dzimwe nguva anondibvunza kana ndingaenda kuPattaya kwemazuva mashoma kuti ndinonwa neshamwari dzangu.
MuNetherlands zvakare, vanhu vazhinji vanotsvaga swingers kirabhu kana mapati epabonde, vanozviita nekuda kwemafaro, asi kana iwe ukaguma munyika iyoyo, nei iwe usingadiwo kufadza murume uyu akasununguka. Zvingave kana kwete zvekubatsira kune lingerie set kana zororo. Basa rinobhadharwa here?
Masikati akanaka Peter,
'Kare Khun' inosetsa nekuti izwi rechiThai khun rinoreva 'kukodzera, kunaka, kukosha, kunaka', kuwedzera kuna 'changamire, madam'.
Nyaya yako yakangofanana nemharidzo, yekune rimwe divi chete.
Jacques anonyora nyaya yechokwadi, kubva pamwoyo wake. Hapana kwaanotaura achizvidza mahure, pane kudaro anonzwira tsitsi uye anonzwisisa. I have feeling yekuti arikumira nehure chairo. Chii chakaipa ipapo?
Pane zvakati wandei zvekutaura nekuda kwemhinduro dzako. Asi izvi zvinonyanya kushanda kumabhawa. Ini ndinopokana zvakanyanya kuti unonzwisisa kusuwa, kutya, kusachengeteka uye kusemburwa kunowanikwa mumahure mazhinji.
Vanogona kuzvimiririra, handifungi kuti Jacques anofanira kudaro. Asi zvakare kana akapa pekugara nechikafu kuvakadzi vanoda kubuda (pamwe nemhuri inovimba nemadzimai) ipapo ndichaisa chifananidzo chaJacques pavheranda yangu.
Ndine urombo, Peter, izvo hazvina maturo. Zvakanaka here kupesana neuranda pasina kutora nhapwa dzese?
Kugona. Mubvunzo. Ngatiti wasangana nemusikana akanaka, akanaka wekubhawa uye unoda kugara naye. Anodawo izvozvo, asi mukadzi anozvimiririra uye anoda kuramba achishanda semubhawa nekuti ibasa rechokwadi uye rinonakidza uye rinobhadhara. Hapana chakaipa zvachose. Uri kuitei?
Wadiwa Tino, handipindiri munhaurirano dzinozivikanwa dzehongu/kwete. Nzvimbo yangu yakajeka.
Nonsense? Kubhadhara muromo kunogona kushanda pano Tino.
Mupfungwa yakafaranuka, munhu wese anofarira chokwadi chekuti Thailand yakachipa (huranda hwecapitalist) uye izvi zviri kubhadharisa vanhu vasina kugadzikana zvakadaro, asi izvo zvinokurukurwa zviri nani mune imwe nyaya.
Kushaikwa kworuremekedzo nokuda kwavamwe kazhinji kazhinji kunofambidzana nokushayikwa kwokuzviziva uye kuzviremekedza
Jacques: Kana ndaizotsamwiswa nepfambi dzeThai uye vamwe vanhu vemunyika vane dumbu rakapfuma, saka handisi kunyatsonzwisisa kuti sei uchida kugara muThailand uye kwete muguta guru revatorwa Pattaya.
Handikuzivi iwe pachako, asi ndichine manzwiro ekuti ndakakuona kamwe, pazuva rangu rekuzorora reSvondo pawakandidaidza kubva pamubhedha uye uchida kundiudza kuti ndiende kunharirire.
Iwe unonyora chidimbu chakareba uye chisingabatsiri mumaonero angu kune vanhu vane maonero akasiyana zvachose ehupenyu kupfuura iwe.
Munyori uyu anodzokorora duramanzwi, asi anozviita zvisina kukwana.
MuVan Dale, 'kuremekedza' kunoreva kuratidza ruremekedzo kuburikidza nemaitiro, muhukama hwesimba kana sechiratidzo chekutenda pahwaro hwekuita kana hunhu hwehunhu. Nemamwe mashoko, hunhu hwekuremekedza hunobva pakutya kana kuyemura. Zvechokwadi, pane kashoma chikonzero cheizvi.
Zvinorehwa ne'respect' nhasi zvaingonzi 'maitiro akarurama'.
Uyezve, uyu ndiwo mumwe muenzaniso wemaitiro echiDutch ekupatsanura vanhu vese kuva vatadzi nevanobatwa uye sezviri pachena marudzi ese evanhu anoda kuponeswa avo vasingatarisiri izvozvo zvachose.
Zvakare, huhure hunoonekwa zvakanyanya hunenge 15% chete yehuwandu muThailand. Iyo chaiyo inorema nhamo uye uranda hwepabonde hunogona kuwanikwa pamusika weko
Wadiwa Jacques,
Zvechokwadi, vanhu vazhinji vanopindura vanoshaya tsika yenyaya: "kuremekedza".
Unowana rukudzo kubva kuvabereki vako pakurerwa kwako.
Hazvinei nedoro kana kuputa fodya kana kufara.
Ndinoda kunwa doro, asi nguva dzose neruremekedzo kune vanhu vakandipoteredza.
Ndinowanzoona chimwe chinhu chakasiyana muPattaya, varume vakadhakwa vane muromo mukuru vasina ruremekedzo kune vamwe vavo.
Ndakagara ndichidzidza kuti chaunopa ndicho chaunodzosera.
Nditendei, matumbu ese edoro asingaremekedze achadzoserwa zvakafanira.
Izvo zvinotenderera zvinouya zvichitenderera
Ini ndinowanzo geza muno muThailand, dzimwe nguva ndisingazvisarudziri mushower yemvura inopisa. Ndichiri kuverenga tsamba yenyu refu, mvura isingadiwi yetsika dzakachena yakadururwa pamusoro pangu. Ndinogona kunyatsoravira kuda kwako kwehupenyu mune zvese zvaunogovana nesu. uchava nehupenyu hwezuva.
Kuramba uchiudza vanhu kuti vanogona kana kuti vanofanira kurarama zvine ruremekedzo, semaonero angu, rinenge ibasa remufundisi, mufundisi kana vashandi vePieter Baan Center. Ini pachangu, ini ndinoona ako akawanda generalizations kwete kusaremekedza. Handifunge kuti munhu wese anongori izvi kana kuti anoita izvo nekuti iwe unoronga izvo panyika.
Pane zvakawanda munyika yedu zvinogona uye zvinofanirwa kuvandudzwa, ini handisi kupokana newe zvachose. Asi kusvika pari zvino tara nyika yese, nevashanyi vayo vese, nebhurashi rimwe chete nekupomerwa kubva kune dzimwe nharaunda muPattaya, dhizaini yenyika ino, inoratidzwa nemifananidzo yenzvimbo dzaunganwira kapu yako yetii ... zvine mubvunzo. kuti I. Uye zvinosuwisa. Sezvaunodaidza chinyorwa chako chakareba zvisina kujairika 'chidimbu changu', unoita kunge usina pfungwa yekuzviongorora wega. Zvekuti unozondishuvira huchenjeri zvinoitawo kuzvikudza kwandiri kubva pachinyoreso chako.
Mangwanani ano, ndisina kurongeka zvachose, ndanakidzwa nekukwizwa 'special' nemumwe mukadzi wechiThai akati kurei, akanaka, anoyevedza wandakasangana naye kekutanga. Akataura neni nekwaziso yehushamwari, akaita jee nezvehurefu hwangu uye nezvekushanda kwemazuva mana nemutengi mumwe chete semhedzisiro. Uye ndakazvirega ndichinyengerwa. Ndakasara ndiine awa imwe chete kana maviri. Mudzimai wacho airatidzika kuva akanaka uye akasurukirwa kwandiri. Pamusoro pekutanga kwakanaka kwemassage, kwaakataura achifara, pane imwe nguva akanyara kundikumbira hug, nekuti ndaive ndakanaka uye akange ave nenguva achisurukirwa. Hug iya yakapihwa nemufaro, akatora nguva yake ndokupihwa tumisodzi. Ini handina makore mashanu ndisina kuita boom boom, iye anobva ati, nekuti ichi chinhu chakanaka. Asi ini ndinosuwa dzimwe nguva, bonde nemurume akanaka uye anotapira. Murume wangu akafa makore mashanu apfuura, munoziva. Ndapedza kudaro ndakanzvenga varume nekuda kwekuchema. Zvaifamba uye zvaisekesawo kuti aiti hutsanana hune basa. Sezvineiwo, ndinogeza svondo rega rega! Akaenderera; Ndanga ndichirarama nekofi imwe uye 4 Amai Noodle pazuva kwemazuva matatu, Hapana vatengi ikozvino mumugwagwa uyu wakanyarara. Kana ndikatadza kudzoka mangwana, shefu vake vanenge vasipo, saka vangada kungombundirwa neni chete. Haufanire kundibhadharira zvekuwedzera pane izvozvo, anodaro, asi unogona! Uye dai ndaigonawo kutora chikamu chePad kubva kumusika. Ipapo aigona kudya! Ndakaita rupo, ndikataura naye nekukurumidza pamusoro pekapu yetii uye maminetsi gumi nemashanu gare gare ndakamuendesa zvikamu zviviri zveToad uye bhaa rechokoreti kwaari. Ura hwangu huchandiudza mangwana kuti ndodzokera here mangwana kunotarisa kuti boss vaenda zvechokwadi here.
Ndakanyatsofunga kuti ndaona vanhu vaviri mangwanani ano vakabatana neruremekedzo zvikuru uye nokungwarira mukati meiro raunofunga kuti ibhizimisi rinomutsa mubvunzo.
Ndinoshuva iwe simba!
Nhau refu kwazvo, umo pasina chinhu chakanyatsojekeswa. Hongu, munyori anoona bonde 'rakasviba'.
Asi vabereki vako vakaitawo ‘tsvina’ iyoyo ndokubva wazvarwa.
Munyori anotaura nezve ruremekedzo, asi sezviri pachena haakwanise kuremekedza sarudzo dzinoitwa nemumwe munhu.
Kana munhu achida kumhanyisa mota, isarudzo yake. Kana mumwe munhu akanwa madoro mana zuva rega rega (uye anozvirega achityairwa), ndiyo sarudzo yavo.
Mumwe anofarira kufamba mumuseum, mumwe anofarira kutaura nevakadzi.
Hapana achakakavara nokuda kwekumanikidzirwa kana kushungurudzwa, asi kudzinga boka rose revanhu sevasingaremekedzi ... kusaremekedza zvachose.
Une chokwadi here kuti hausi kuna Mwari?
Zvakanakisisa,
Dai ini zvino ndingatya kuti izvi hazvisi zvakanyanya pamusoro pekuremekedza asi nezvechiono chenyu chekuti nyika inofanira kuva sei.
Uye ini ndinogona kunzwira tsitsi nazvo, munyika yakanaka inonaya baht mangwanani uye munhu wese anogona kubuda panze kuti abate zvavanoda uye kana muvakidzani netsaona akabata chimwe chinhu chinopfuura chimwe, saka zvechokwadi pane kugovaniswa kwakanaka kuitira kuti munhu wese ave. mari yakafanana kuti upedze zuva.
Asi handizvo zvakadaro uye saka munhu wese, kusanganisira vakadzi muThailand, vachafanira kutsvaga nzira dzekuwana chimwe chinhu ivo pachavo.
Unogona kuita izvi nokushanda kwemaawa akawanda muzuva rakazara muminda yemupunga nokuda kwomuhoro muduku zvikuru kana kuti mune imwe fekitari kana kuti muindasitiri yokubika zvokudya uye handizivi kuti chii.
Iri ibasa rakaoma remari shoma, saka vamwe vakadzi vanosarudza kushanda muindasitiri yevaraidzo, iyo inobhadhara zvakanyanya.
Kumanikidzwa iwe unoti? Zvakanaka, ndinogona kukuudza kuti kazhinji kwete zvachose, asi nekuda kwekuti zvakakosha uye usarege chero chinhu chipi zvacho chichikunyengedza, vakadzi vanonyatsoziva mubhawa Amai San vanovachengeta zvakanaka uye mubhawa risiri all;
uye wobva watora kwandiri kuti muzviitiko zvakawanda vakadzi vanozvisarudzira vega kwavanoda kushanda uye kwavasingade kushanda, zviri nani kuzvisiira kune mukadzi wechiThai.
Kufamba nevarume vakuru (netsanangudzo, varume vakuru vane tsvina sezvinowanzowanwa kuMadokero) haisi dambudziko zvachose, ndagara ndichinzwa ndinoda harahwa, kwete majaya, anongoda kupedza husiku hwese .. ....zvemahara uye kana zvaita shamwari ichauya imwe futi zvese pasina.
Hongu, handisi kuzviita, asi ndizvo zvandakanzwa kakawanda.
Unotozvinzwisisa iniwo ndati kurei , ndine kadumbu kandinoda doro , asi handimbodhakwe , nguva zhinji ndinoshamwaridzana uye ndinombozviwana ndiri pacompany yemukadzi akanaka aripo. hongu uchawana muripo weizvi, hongu, mhoro, panofanira kunge paine chekudya, hongu ……….
Bonde munoti? zvakanaka, pazera rangu iro riri pazasi pechinyorwa changu, murume akanaka, chikafu chakanaka pamwe chete, chinwiwa chidiki, seka zvakanyanya uye utarise chimiro chechiso chake uye unakirwe nekuvapo kwake, sezvandinowanzo kutaura mumakore angu ekupedzisira iva" kana iwe uchinzwisisa zvandiri kureva.
Kushamwaridzana uku? Zvakanaka, kwete, kwete, asi ichokwadi kuti dai izvi zvisisagoneke, kuyerera kwemari kunzvimbo dzisina rombo rakanaka dzeThailand kwaizodzikira zvakanyanya, zvinova zvinonyadzisa ...
Nyika iri nani, basa rakakwana, asi muThailand, zvakanaka kune vanhu vakangwara zvakakwana kugadzirisa matambudziko ivo pachavo, chero rubatsiro rwekuMadokero neizvozvo, kunze kwekunge zvakumbirwa, hazvisi izvo zvakakosha uye hazvidiwi chaizvo, ndinofunga.
Manyoro mazhinji, pasina chero chinhu chiri kutaurwa. Pamwe uri wezvematongerwo enyika??. Uye uri kukanganwa chimiro chinokosha chechipfambi. Kureva mukadzi kana murume anoroora nekuda kwemari kana chimiro chemudiwa. Or maybe that is NOT chipfambi!.
Kutarisa chipfambi nemaonero etsika, akanaka kana akaipa, haatifambisi mberi. Zviri pachena kuti tinofanira kuremekedzana.
Tinofanira kuziva kuti chipfambi chinopa matambudziko akawanda, zvikuru nemhaka yokuti chinorangwa kune vose vari mutengi nepfambi. Chimwe chinhu chinofanira kuitwa pamusoro pazvo. Ndinozviona sechinhu chinoshanda kwete senyaya yetsika. Chandinoona chichisvota ipfungwa yekuti hapana chakaipa, chingosiya zvakadaro. Izvo hazvigoneke..
Mhoro Jacques,
Unoziva mhomho iya yevarume vanoungana zuva nezuva nomufaro uye nokusaremekedza, vachiwanzodhakwa kana kuti kudhakwa, nokuda kwevakadzi vanofara vari mumafafitera avo ezvitoro ane chiedza chakajeka. Vanobva kumatunhu ose kuenda kunyika duku iri kuNorth Sea. MaBritish, maScandinavians, maAsia neAmerica vanozviziva, "Holland the red light district". Kanganwa matulips nemawindmill, inyaya dzepadivi, dzinouya kuvasikana, sehove dzemunzvimbo dzinopisa dziri munzvimbo dzavo dzemvura, kutengeswa kwezvinodhaka zvine tsvina uye kudongorera.
Batavus Droogstoppel haazvione, anotarisa bhuku remari neruremekedzo ndokusimudza mhino yake kuvasikana veThai vakareruka nevakomana vavo vasingaremekedzi. Anonyatso kunongedzera splinter muziso reThai pasina chipingamupinyi kubva padanda pakati peeyelashes yake.
Uye zvakare chimwe chinhu chemanheru akareba echando gare gare, Jacques; "Die Liebe das wandern, Gott hat Sie so gemacht".
Pandaiverenga Epistle yaJacques ndakanzwa zvakaipa. Ndakafunga kuti: hezvo zvawazvo zvakare, murume ane munwe anozivisa dzidziso dzake noupofu. Ndakazvibvunza kuti: Jaques anodei nazvo? Hapana kana munhu achachinja nekuda kwenyaya iyi. Izvo zvinoramba zvakadaro kuti chinangwa chingangove chekunyora kunze kwekushungurudzika kwake kubva mukusagutsikana nenyika yakamupoteredza; kusagutsikana nokuti nyika ino haizadzisi mipimo yayo. Rukudzo ipfungwa ine tsananguro yakasiyana-siyana, zvichienderana netsika, nguva uye nharaunda inogara vanhu. Naizvozvo ini ndinoona maonero aJaques ekupa ruremekedzo munharaunda yeThai, kunyanya indasitiri yezvepabonde, kuve asina kururama uye akarasika.
Zvakagara zvichitaurwa pane ino saiti: usarege iyo yeDutch yadhi yakasununguka pane Thai nzanga.
Ndinoda kuwedzera: shoropodza yadhi yako paunenge uchiyera vamwe.
Ko iyi mharidzo yakareba inei nechekuita ne'rukudzo'? HAPANA, pamwe zita risiri iro rakasarudzwa?
Quote:
'Sekuona kwangu, hupenyu husina pfambi hunogonekawo. Ukama hunogona kupinzwa munzira dzakawanda, zvepabonde zvakabhadharwa hazvidikanwi, mumaonero angu uye mukuona kwevose avo vanozivikanwa kushungurudzwa zvakanyanya kusingadiwi kana kuti kune dzimwe nharo dzinonzwisisika.'
Zvichida munyori inyanzvi yetsika kana kuti haana zvachose. Zvichida, mukutenda kwake kuti bonde rakabhadharwa rinorambwa, haana kumbofunga nezvenyika isina mukana wekuita bonde rakabhadharwa? Ndinogona kukuvimbisa kuti zvisingagoni 'kutengwa' 'zvichabiwa'. Ndinonzwira tsitsi vakadzi vanofanira kurarama munyika yakaita seino inokudzwa nemunyori. Vaisazokwanisa kubuda mumugwagwa vaine rugare rwepfungwa….
Doro, kuputa fodya, kupenga…. zvese zvisina basa, kungogara pamberi peTV kumba, takabata maoko zuva rese... ndizvozvo... teerera rwiyo: 'the bachelor', inodzidzisa kwazvo...
Nakidzwa muhupenyu uye tanga kuremekedza chiono chemumwe munhu. Funga zvakadzama nezvenyaya iyi iwe pachako, asi kwete kubva kune rimwe divi rekuona kana maonero.
Chekutanga, ndinoda kutenda vapepeti nekutsikisa chidimbu changu. Iwo mapikicha haasi kubva kwandiri, asi akatumirwa nevapepeti, asi anopa chimiro chakanaka uye anoenzanisira nyaya yangu nenzira inonakidza. Ndine mhepo yakareba, ndinobvuma izvi uye zvakanyorwa kubva pamoyo wangu uye ndinoda kuona vanhu vachifara. Kune nhamo zhinji munyika uye zvechokwadi muindasitiri yebonde. Ndinoziva kuti zvishoma kana kuti hapana chiri kuitwa pamusoro pehurombo muThailand uye kuti, pamwe nekuda kweizvi, kuwanikwa kwepfambi itsva hakuzomira. Mhinduro yacho ichatofanira kuwanikwa ipapo. Vabereki vevechidiki avo vanonzwa vachimanikidzwa kupinda muchiitiko ichi kuti vatsigire mhuri vanofanirawo kudzidziswa uye zvichida kurangwa panyaya yekutengesa vana kune vatengesi vanowanzoenda kunotamiswa kunze kwenyika. Iwe hausi kuda kuziva zviri kuitika ikoko. Vana ava vanoshandiswawo nevanoona nezvepabonde nevamwe. Zviri pachena kuti vashanyi vepabonde vacharamba vachiuya. Zviripachena kuti mapurisa anofanirwa kudzidziswazve muThailand. Zvave nani, asi pachine nzira refu yekuenda. Chipfambi imhosva uye inofanira kurwiswa. Ndiro basa ravo. Vashanyi vepabonde vanofanirwa kurambidzwa. Usaomerera kumitemo yepamutemo. Mari yavanoshandisa senharo yezviito zvavo zvemutemo haina kukosha kwandiri. Vanhu vanouya pekutanga. Thailand inofanirwa kubata yayo uye kutarisira hama dzavo. Vekune dzimwe nyika havafaniri kubatanidzwa mune izvi nenzira isiri iyo. Ndinoziva kuti zvose izvi hazvifi zvakawanwa. Asi zvakawanda zvinogona kuitwa. Mwana wese anovimbiswa hupenyu huri nani uye haafanire kutevera nzira yakafanana nepfambi zhinji dzisingazvisarudzire uye dzisingaite basa nekuda kwerudo ndiye tinogona kukunda. Pane chido, pane nzira. Ndinonzwisisa kuti kune kududzira kwakasiyana-siyana kwezwi rokuti rukudzo. Izvi ndizvo zvazvinoreva kwandiri. Zvinoitwa nevamwe nazvo zviri kwavari. Ndakauya kuThailand nokuti mudzimai wangu muThai nechiDutch uye aida kugara kuThailand zvakare mukukwegura kwake. Nyika yangu iNetherlands uye sezvandinofunga, hapana nyika inogona kukwikwidzana nazvo, kunyange zvazvo pane zvakawanda zvakashata ipapo, kusanganisira mumhizha yepabonde. Ndashanda kumapurisa kwemakore anopfuura makumi mana uye ndakasangana nemacheki akawanda, kusanganisira munyaya yetsika. (Kudzora chipfambi). Ndakashanda mumapoka ekuferefeta kurwisa (zvepabonde) kushandiswa, kutaura zvishoma. Ikoko unodzidza zvakawanda pamusoro pevanhu uye zvavanoita kune mumwe nemumwe. Paive uye pachine zvakawanda zvisingabvumirwe. Kupokana kwevanhu vazhinji uye kuzvidzora kukuru kwakaoma kubvisa. Ndinofunga kuti mukuwedzera kumushumiri kana kuti mufundisi, kunewo marudzi akaita seni ane kambasi yavo yetsika inonangidzirwa kune rimwe divi, sezvandakaritsanangura, rakasununguka pakutenda. Usazvinetse, ndine hupenyu hwakanaka uye handifi ndakafinhwa. Ndinofunga zvinonyadzisa kuti vamwe vanhu vanonyora kuti handiuye nemhinduro, asi ini ndakabvunza vamwe mhinduro. Makavaona here? Ini handidaro, saka maonero angu anoramba asina kushanduka. Iwe unonzwisisa kuti handisi kuzopa maonero angu pane chidimbu chega chega. Ini ndinonzwisisa vamwe vanhu uye maonero avo uye nyaya. Hupenyu hausi mutema nemuchena uye ini ndinozviziva izvi. Neniwo ndinogona kudzidza uye ndichiri kuita izvi mazuva ese. Zvishuwo zvakanakisa uye hungwaru hwakawanda uye izvo zvinoshandawo kwandiri. Munhu haasati anyanya kuchembera kuti adzidze uye ndinovimba ndapa chimwe chinhu uye ndaita kuti vamwe vanhu vafunge.
Ndatenda nemhinduro yako uye nekunzwisisa kushushikana kwako nekuda kwekushungurudzwa kwawakasangana nako.
Ini ndinombundira chirevo chekuti "vandudza nyika uye tanga newe" uye ndichaverenga 2-chikamu Don Quixote novel masikati ano.
https://nl.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Don_Quichot_(boek)
@Jacques Murume, murume, murume. Une dambudziko here? Tsvaga shrink ASAP, pamwe unogona kubatsirwa. Handigoni kuzvitenda.
Mhoro Jacques,
Ndinotarisira kuona zvidimbu nenyaya dzako.
Nyaya dziri pamusoro pezvawakaita nezvazvo uye zvauri kuita zvakanaka muhupenyu hwako.
Kwete nyaya dzaunotaura maonero ako pane zviri kukanganiswa nevamwe
Moderator: hazvibvumidzwe kukopa machunks ese ezvinyorwa uye woatumira pano, referensi yekubatanidza inokwana.
@Jacques
"Ndinovimba kuchave nenhaurirano ine upenyu ichaita kuti vanhu vafunge uye ini ndingafara kuchinjana maonero angu kune ari nani kana mukakwanisa kundinyengetedza zvakanakira nekuipira kwandanyora muchikamu changu."
Tariro yako yekurukurirano yakaitika uye zvingava zvine ruremekedzo kupa mhinduro huru kune mifungo yeavo vakatora nguva yokupindura.
Ndine pfungwa dzakavhengana pamusoro pechiitiko chebhawa muThailand, asi chandisinganzwisise ndechekuti sei munyori aizogara muPattaya kwese kwese kana akazvidza nyika ino zvakanyanya. Izvozvo zvakafanana nekugara nemaune muSaudi Arabia somuvengi wechiMuslim kana kuti somugari womumusha muBangkok. Hazvina musoro.
Pamwe zvakati hasha, asi ndinofunga Jacques akasangana nerudo rwake muPattaya, saka zvine musoro kuti mukadzi uyu anoda kudzokera kumusha wake unotonhorera.
Ini kazhinji ndinoverenga zvinyorwa zveThailandblog mazuva ese, ini zvakare ndinoverenga chinyorwa chiri pamusoro uye ini ndinowanzo kuverenga zvinyorwa zvakarebesa, asi chikamu zvakare chinyorwa chiri pamusoro. Ini ndinodonha pakati nekuti kufarira kwangu kunobva kwadzikira nekuda kwehurefu. Zvakadaro, bonde nechipfambi zvinogara zvichiburitsa maitiro akawanda, asi chinyorwa ichi chiri pamusoro pekumanikidza. Ndinogona kufunga kuti vasikana vazhinji muPattaya vanozviita nekuda kwemari, ingave yekumanikidza kana kwete, asi sarudzo ndeyehupfambi kana kusawana mari uye iyo inoshanda kune chero basa. Ndinofungidzira kuti vanhu vakawanda vakaita chisarudzo ichocho chokuti vanoda mari uye saka vakasarudza kushanda.
Ndakaziva pachine nguva mberi kuti vanhu vaidikanwa vaizotaura mirangariro yavo uye kazhinji kazhinji chakanga chisiri chinhu chakaipa. Matauriro mazhinji eupenzi andisingaregi. Munyika mune vanhuwo mapenzi. Saka chimwe chinhu chakanga chichiri kuitwa. Ndakafunga kuti chiono changu nedivi renyaya zvinofanirawo kunzwika. Ndine chokwadi kuti kune vakawanda vandiinavo vanonzwa saizvozvo. Pane rimwe boka revanhu pane ino blog vakasiyana zvachose neni. Ini ndinokoshesa vanhu zvakanyanya uye vanhu vazhinji havadaro, kunyanya tichifunga nezvemashoko ayo dzimwe nguva asina kunaka. Ndinoda kuonana tichibatwa nerudo uye mhinduro kwandiri inoti zvakwana. Zviri pachena kuti ndakatsika zvigunwe zvikuru uye vanhu vanonzwa vakagumburwa vanofanira kunyatsozvitarisa ivo pachavo uye maitiro avo. Handisati ndaverenga nharo imwe chete yekupikisa iyo inoshanda, asi ndakanyora zvakawanda zvakashata zvisingagone kurambwa. Vadikanwi huyai nezvibodzwa izvozvo munditendese. Handifungi kuti unogona kuita izvi. Kutaura pamusoro pemaitiro aya uye pfungwa iyi haina kuitwa uye zvakadaro ndinozviita. Mumwe munhu anofanira kumirira varombo. Ndinogona kurova, kuti usasvike kwandiri nemashoko eupenzi. Ndinobvumirana nemushumiri weThailand anoda kuita chipfambi, kunyange zvazvo izvi zvichizodhura mari uye zvichikonzera matambudziko akawanda, nokuti isu tose tinoziva kuti vanhu vanoita sei, kusanganisira pane ino blog, paunotaura zvisina kunaka pamusoro pechipfambi. Hazvisi nezve maonero angu ekuMadokero, asi nezvechokwadi. Saka ndinovimba kunzwa kubva kune mumwe munhu zvakare kuti sei chiri chinhu chakadaro kuThailand kuti chipfambi mukusiyana-siyana chiripo pano muhuwandu hwakakura kudaro. Kune vamwe, ndinonyatso kurudzira chiremba wepfungwa akapiwa zvavanotaura. Izvi hazvina kunaka kunhaurirano. Ndakaverenga kuti dai pasina chipfambi, vakadzi vazhinji vaizoshungurudzwa kana kubatwa chibharo, nekuti vanhu vachiri kunakidzwa. Mhinduro yangu kune izvi ndeyekuvharirwa kweupenyu hwese kana kusunungurwa mushure mekunge munhu apfidza kuburikidza nekurapwa. Ndinogona kukuudza kuti vanhu ivavo vari kurwara uye haugone kuvaratidza sechiratidzo. Zvakakosha kuti munhu agone kugara ega nekuita zvakanaka uye zvekupedzisira ndakazviona kakawanda kuti kune vanhu vazhinji vasingaiti zvakanaka uye zvisingarambike. Zvinosiririsa kuti nhaurirano iyi pano haigoneki zvichibva panharo huru kunze kwekubva pamanzwiro nezvigunwe zvikuru.
Chokwadi wadenha vamwe vanhu, ukaisa vamwe pa…. Zvichida iwe unogona kugovera mamwe akanaka uye asina kunaka (hongu, zvakare anosuwa) anecdotes kubva panguva yako paVP?
Iwe unotaura 'vanhu mapenzi' mumhinduro yako. Eya, kana iwe wakangwara kudaro iwe, unoziva kuti kurambidza kana kurwisa chipfambi hazvibatsiri. Inomanikidza mahure kuti aende pasi pevhu nemhedzisiro yese inosanganisirwa. Zviri nani kudzora uye kutonga. Izvi zvinoonekwa kubva muzvidzidzo munyika dzakasiyana siyana. Maonero ako ane huruva uye ekare. Wakamira mumaonero ako pakati pechakanaka nechakaipa. Ndinofunga kuti izvi zvinokunetsa kupfuura avhareji pfambi kana mutengi wake.
Sorry, enderera.
Chokwadi, Peter. Asi chinokosha ndechokuti inzwi remhombwe pacharo rinonzwika uye izvozvo zvinoitika zvishoma.
Ndakambobvunza imwe pfambi yekuThai kuti 'Wakambobatwa chibharo here?' (ข่มยืน khomkhuun low, toni inokwira muchiThai). Uye akati, 'Ndinobatwa chibharo mazuva ose.'
Hungu, kunyange mukati meroorano, vakadzi vanobatwa chibharo. Saka gadzirisa zvinoshungurudza. Ndinofunga kuti munhu wose anobvumirana nazvo.
Heino rumwe ruzivo kune avo vanoda kuverenga izvi, hazvizove zvemunhu wese, asi ndinovimba kuti vanhu vachaverenga izvi uye vadzidze kubva mazviri.
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Chimwe chikonzero chinoita kuti vakadzi vechidiki nevasikana vawedzere kunyoreswa kuita chipfambi kudiwa kwevatengi veindasitiri yezvepabonde. Zvipikirwa zvakaziviswa zvoupwere, umhandara, uye kusava nemhaka zvakaparira kudikanwa kwakawedzerwa kwavana mukutengeserana kwevatano pasi pose.[7] Tsvagiridzo yakawana kuti maitiro anowanikwa nevarume achikwezva muvakadzi vechiThai “kureruka, kuvimbika, rudo, uye kusava nemhosva.”[7]
Kune mhando mbiri dzevarume vanoshandisa vana vanotengeswa. Rudzi rwekutanga nderwevanoshungurudza vamwe vanoshingairira kutsvaga zvepabonde nevana vezera rakati.[7] Rudzi rwechipiri nderwevanoshungurudza mamiriro ezvinhu vanogona kurara nevana kana vapihwa. Zvavanoda kuita zvepabonde hazvisi zvevana. Varume ava vanowanzo shanyira bonde, kana avo vanoenda kune dzimwe nyika vachitsvaga bonde.
Kuwedzera kwenhamba yevanhu vane AIDS ndicho chimwe chikonzero chokuwedzera kwevasikana vaduku. Indasitiri yezvepabonde inoshandisa AIDS sepembedzo “nekunyepedzera kwenhema kwokuti vasikana vaduku havazotapurwi nehosha yacho”.[6]
Zvakare munhu wose anobvuma kuti kunyanyisa muchipfambi kunofanira kupedzwa. Asi zvamunoda zvakangofanana ne: kurambidza nhabvu nekuti kune mahure arikufamba.