Nyaya iri pazasi yakanyatsoitika, asi kuti ndideredze kuzivikanwa ndiri kunyora nyaya iyi pasi pezita remanyepo uye ese mazita, misi uye huwandu hwakashandurwa, asi pasina kukanganisa chiyero chenyaya yangu.
Hama yangu isina njere
Mukoma wangu, uyo ane gore nehafu mudiki, akasarudza vakadzi vasina kunaka anenge hupenyu hwake hwese pasina kukundikana. Akawanawo muenzaniso wakafanana muThailand uye, nokuda kwokutiitira nyore, ngatiudaidze kuti Ngu (nyoka). Pakupera kwemakore gumi apfuura vakasangana muchitoro chaaishanda uye pasina vhiki akabva agara naye uye mukati memwedzi mitanhatu vakanga varoorana. Ngu ane makore anenge 20 ari muduku, ane pwere ina uye anobva mumhuri ine urombo uye ane vanun’una nehanzvadzi dzinenge gumi kubva pakutendeseka chose kusvika pakusatendeseka zvikuru.
Mukoma wangu akanga aine utano husina kunaka uye airumbidza mazuva ose kuti akanga ari mupenyu, asi aigara achifunga kuti zvinogona kupera munguva pfupi. Aigara achiroja bungalow, asi mushure mekuroora zvakakurumidza kusarudzwa kuti imba ivakwe panzvimbo yakapihwa Ngu nevabereki vake. Imba inobhadharwa kubva pakachengeterwa munin'ina wangu, kubva muchikwereti cheBaht 300k uye kubva ku'chikwereti chako pachako' che10.000 € kubva kubhangi rake rechiDutch. Nekuti ivhu riri muzita raNgu uye hapana chibvumirano chekurenda ivhu chakapedzwa, Ngu ndiye muridzi wemutemo uye wehupfumi wenzvimbo neimba. Mushure mekuvaka matura emukoma wangu apera uye zvinozomuparadza gare gare.
Kutenga kwevhu
Pandakasangana nemuramu wangu kekutanga, hazvina kunaka kwandiri. Musikana wangu wekuThai, wandadanana naye kubvira 2007, akafunga kuti hapana chinoshamisa pamukadzi uyu. Kufanana nevese con artists (Maddoff, Heer Olivier) ane hunhu hunodiwa uye anouya seane hunhu uye akanaka. Zvino ndakanga ndave ndichironga kugara muThailand pashure pokunge ndarega basa kwenguva yakati uye ndakakumbira mukoma wangu kutsvaka munda wakakodzera. Muna 2011, mukoma wangu anouya achiti nzvimbo ye1200 m2 kubva kuhanzvadzi yaNgu iri kutengeswa neBaht 500k. Pane izvi, mazana matatu ezviuru aizoiswa pabepa uye mamwe aifanira kupihwa pasi petafura.
Nekuti ini ndinogara muNetherlands ini, ndinobvunza mukoma wangu kana ichi chiri kutenga kwakanaka maererano nemutengo unonzwisisika, nzvimbo yakanaka uye chimiro / mamiriro epasi. Munin'ina wangu anotsinhira nyaya iyi handizivi kuti ndodii, asi ndinomubvunza katatu kuti ndeye hanzvadzi yaNgu zvechokwadi here uye kuti Ngu ari kuita mari here nekutengesa uku. Hama yangu inosimbisa yekutanga uye inoramba zvakasimba (ungabvunza sei izvozvo?) wechipiri. Anokurudzira gweta rakawanikwa naNgu iro richaronga kutengeserana kwemunda nemusikana wangu semutengi uye ini ndiri muridzi wemunda. Paive nekutsinhana kwemaemail kwakakura negweta nezve zvibvumirano uye zvinoonekwa kuti zita rebato rinotengesa rinoramba rakavhurika, asi izvo zvinogona kuwedzerwa gare gare.
Mushure mekunge zvibvumirano zvekunyorwa zvatenderwa, ndinoenda kuThailand kunosaina uye kuronga kubhadhara. Musi wekushainira ndinoona zita raNgu ririmo muchibvumirano, asi munhu wese anonditi ndisatarise nekuti rinobva kuhanzvadzi yaNgu uye ndiko kunoenda mari. Kugadzirira nzvimbo yekuvaka, miti yemango inofanira kucheneswa uye marori zana negumi evhu anofanirwa kuunzwa ne110 baht parori kuti ikwidze ivhu zvakakwana pamusoro pemugwagwa uye Ngu anofarawo kundirongera izvi.
Ndakatenga imwe imba pane kuti ndivake ini
Mukutanga kwa2013 ndichaenda pamudyandigere, kusiya nzvimbo yangu yekuroja ndotamira kuThailand. Uye zvino panofanirwa kuve nekugara muThailand uye kuvaka imba panzvimbo yangu ndega ndiyo sarudzo iri pachena. Ehe, Ngu anoziva shamwari yekuvaka, asi ini ndinofunga quote yemamiriyoni mana Baht ye100 m2 bungalow ine dziva rekushambira yakawandisa. Ndakaongorora musika kuburikidza neinternet uye ndakawana yakanaka bungalow - yakagadzirwa uye yakavakwa zvakanaka nemugadziri weAmerica - pa800 m2 yevhu pasi pemamirioni matatu eBaht uye imba iri zvakare chikamu chekambani.
Musikana wangu nehanzvadzi yake vanogona kunge vaine 51% yemashares, asi ne49% yangu yemashares ndine dzinenge 90% kodzero dzekuvhota uye ini ndiri maneja wekambani. Imba iyi yakavakwa muna 2006 uye yaigara mumwe mudzidzisi wechirungu wechikuru pamwe chete nembwa yake iyo yaikwanisa kumhanyidzana nemufaro mubindu rakanga risina nzvimbo. Kuti uende muimba ino, basa repende rakakwana raifanira kuitwa, kana chete kubvisa kuravira kunotyisa kweChirungu, uye bindu raifanira kunyatsove rakagadzirwa. Zviri pachena kuti ini nemusikana wangu tinobva tafunga kutenga imba iyi pane kuti tivake isu.
Mukoma wangu anofa kamwe kamwe
Pashure pokunge ndatenga kambani, ndichadzokera kuNetherlands kwemazuva gumi kuti ndinoronga zvinhu zvokupedzisira zvine chokuita nokutama kwangu. Manheru ndisati ndaenda, ini nemusikana wangu takadya kudya kwemanheru nemukoma wangu nemukadzi wake Ngu. Mazuva matatu pashure pokunge ndasvika muNetherlands, ndinogamuchira shoko rokuti mukoma wangu akapinzwa muchipatara muBangkok nemhaka yokusashanda zvakanaka kwetsvo. Munun’una wangu akanga akanzura inishuwarenzi yake youtano yechiDutch gore rakanga rapfuura nokuda kwezvikonzero zvomutengo uye naizvozvo akanga aripo nemari yake amene. Musikana wangu akagara kuThailand anoshanyira mukoma wangu uye Ngu anochema anoti haana mari yekubhadhara mari yechipatara.
Gore rakanga rapfuura, ndakanga ndatokweretesa mukoma wangu €8.000 nokuda kwokuvhiyiwa, asi zvino ndakasarudza kupa €2.000 uye ndakatengawo mudhudhudhu wake unorema uye ndakatamisa 50.000 Baht nokuda kwawo. Asi maoparesheni uye mubhadharo wepamusoro wekutengesa zvinoita kuti mari iparare sechando muzuva rinopisa uye mushure mevhiki nekuda kwekushaikwa kwemari, Ngu - pasina kubvunzana - anosarudza kubvisa itsvo yekugadzira uye zuva rimwe ndisati ndadzokera kuThailand mukoma wangu atove. akafa. Iye zvino achine chikwereti chisina kubhadharwa chinosvika zviuru zvina zveeuro.
Kuwanikwa kwechitsotsi
Sezvingatarisirwa, vhiki yandichadzoka ichanangidzira ngwariro pakupiswa kwomukoma wangu. Nguva pfupi yapfuura tichagamuchira makiyi eimba yedu nyowani uye tinogona kutanga pendi uye kugadzirisa gadheni. Zvino zvinobatsira kuti Ngu ave nevanun’una nehanzvadzi dzinenge gumi, avo zvikurukuru vanofamba-famba pasuo, vanogona kuita iri basa uye tinohaya vakoma vatatu nehanzvadzi mbiri kuti vaite iri basa, rinotora mwedzi mumwe. Shamwari yangu yeThai inokwanisa kuvaka hukama hwakanaka nehama nehanzvadzi idzi uye saka tinoona kuti mumwe wehanzvadzi mbiri idzi ndiye aimbove muridzi wenzvimbo yatakatenga uye takaona kuti sisi vacho havana kuwana zviuru mazana mashanu baht asi mazana matatu emadhora uye. kuti Ngu saka yakaisa muhomwe mazana maviri e500.000 baht. Panguva yatinokurukura naye izvi, kugona kwake kutaura Chirungu kunopera zvachose uye hapana mubvunzo wekudzosera.
Ndoita sei kuti ndidzoserwe mari yangu?
Munun’una wangu akanga ave achifunga nezvokufa kwake kamwe kamwe kwenguva yakati uye akanga andipa faira rebhangi rake rose, inishuwarenzi, mari yaanowana uye mashoko emutero. Nemhaka yokuti Ngu sezviri pachena haakwanisi kutaura kana kuverenga chiDutch, ndakamurongera nyaya dzose dzemitero, dzokubhengi neinishuwarenzi, nokuti ndakanga ndavimbisa izvozvo kumunun’una wangu. Munin'ina wangu aive neDutch annuity uye life insurance policy yaikosha kusvika €50.000, iyo Ngu ndiye aiwana mari inosvika 90%. Ndakakarakadza kuna Ngu kuti mukoma wangu aigara muNetherlands aifanira kubata iyi nhau yeinishuwarenzi, asi kuita kuti kubvire aizoda simba regweta. Ngu akapa simba regweta remutauro weChirungu rakagadzirwa neni uye mukoma wangu akarayira kambani yeinishuwarenzi kubhadhara kuakaundi yangu.
Kambani yeinishuwarenzi inoona izvi sekubhadhara kwekutanga uye inoshuma kuti 52% mutero wekubhadhara unofanirwa kuvharirwa. Ndinoudza Ngu kuti mutero weDutch unodawo 20% yekudzokorora mubereko pamubhadharo uyu kana achinge anyora mutero wemutero pakubhadhara uku. Inishuwarenzi inobhadhara kuaccount yangu uye mushure mekubvisa chikwereti chasara uye iyo 200.000 Baht kubva kune scam, ndinoendesa yasara kwaari. Hongu anondipopotera uye anototaura kuti munin'ina wangu aizviziva, asi haachakwanisa kuzvidzivirira uye handina basa nazvo nekuti mari yangu ndadzoka. Zvinogumbura kuti Ngu anotaura zvakaipa nezvemusikana wangu neni kumunhu wese, asi vanhu vazhinji vanoziva Ngu uye vanoziva kuti haawanzotaura chokwadi.
Ngu anogamuchira zviuru makumi matatu zveBaht pamwedzi kubva kuhomwe yepenjeni yemukoma wangu (ndakamunyorera), ane imba yake isingabhadharwi uye haagovani chero nhaka nevanasikana vemunin'ina wangu uye parizvino atopinda muEurope kune imwe mutambo mutsva. Akaronga, pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, kuvakwa kwe30.000 x 8 metres dziva rekushambira kwake kwe4 miriyoni Baht. Bhangi reDutch riri kuenda kuchikepe kune € 1,1, nokuti Ngu zvirokwazvo haasi kuzobhadhara chikwereti chemukoma wangu kubva pakubhadhara inishuwarenzi.
Pakupedzisira, chidzidzo
- Kana intuition yako ichikuudza mumusangano wekutanga kuti mumwe munhu haavimbike, ingoisa parutivi kana paine humbowo hunogutsa hunopesana.
- Usabvume zvibvumirano zvisina kukwana usati watora chiito.
- Kubhadhara chikamu chemutengo wekutenga pasi petafura haisi pfungwa yakanaka. Muchiitiko ichi, mutero unofanirwa kubhadharwa pamubhadharo muThailand kana nyika yatengeswa.
- Usaise mazai ako ose mubhasiketi rimwe: muchiitiko ichi, Ngu akaita zvose uye akakwidza kwese kwese: pasi, pagweta uye pamarori ane ivhu.
- Uye kunyanya kuna Ngu: dai wanga wakatendeseka, mukuwasha wako angadai akakubatsira - pasinei nekugadzirisa mubereko unobhadharwa - kuti uwane mari yakawanda yemutero weDutch. Handimuudze uye ndinokumbira imi mose kana masangana naNgu kuti muite zvimwe chetezvo.
Yakatumirwa naAntoine
- Yakatumirwa meseji -
Hapana chakaipa kutenga kana kuroora chero bedzi wazviita noungwaru. Nechibvumirano chisina kukwana uye chikamu chiri pasi petafura, mabhero ose ealarm anofanirwa kunge ari kurira, iwe unoda zvinhu zvakadai zvakajeka pamapepa kuburikidza nemunhu akazvimiririra. Kuroora kwakanaka, pamwe pasi peHV. Iwe unoda kuve nechokwadi chekuti kana mumwe wenyu akadonha, mumwe wacho haapinde mudambudziko (nemari kana neimba). Unopa homwe mari kuvana, ingoenda mavhiki maviri kana usati waenda pamudyandigere. Kana mumwe wako anewo basa, pocket money haidiwi. And in a really good relationship you have also insight or access to each other zvemari.Kana uchitya kuti mumwe wako arikukubira, hameno kuti unoita sei pakudanana kwakadai pane kukurumidza kusiya.
Zvakanaka, chii chaungati pamusoro pazvo? Zvinovaraidza. Ngu akazvitamba zvakachenjera: akaita mari yakawanda kubva muukama hwake hupfupi, uye pamusoro pazvo zvose, munyori wenyaya Antoine, pasinei nekusagutsikana kwake pamusoro pake, anorongawo rubatsiro rwepenjeni yeNL kwaari. Ichiri yemahara uye inofara 30 ThB pamwedzi, yakakwira-avhareji mari neTH zviyero.
Asi chii chiripo chokudzidza? Chete kuti vanhu vanoda hama yavo yakafa sezviri pachena, nekuti vanowira zvisina kukanganisa nekuda kwevakadzi vasina kunaka, vanozvipira kurudzi rwakadai rwemukadzi.
Naive? Kunyengedzwa? Hupenzi uye hupenzi rondedzero dziri nani. Sei achifanira kuroora nekukurumidza, uye nei akaisa mari yake yekupedzisira?
Zvakanaka, mukadzi wechiThai acharohwa zvakare.
Ls,
Inyaya inokosha. Neraki, zvinhu kazhinji [zvakare] zvinopera zvakanaka muThailand, asi zvakare kazhinji kwete, ona nyaya iri pamusoro. Ndinombotaura kuti hakuna zvidzidzo zviri nani kupfuura zvidzidzo zvehupenyu. Kuti uzvidzivirire, ndichaenda naFrans kubva kuAmsterdam kunongorenda ikoko. Pane zvakawanda zvekurenda nemitengo inonzwisisika, saka hauise mazai ako ese mudengu rimwe.
Uye chekupedzisira asi chisiri chidiki:
Idzi mhando dzevanhu dzinofambawo muNetherlands uye zvinhu zvinogona kuipa ikoko zvakare. Iyo yese 'mamiriro ekunze' muThailand zvinoreva kuti vanhu vanogona 'kupinzwa muchikepe'. Robert
Iwe haungakwanise kudana ichi chitsotsi; akatengesa chikamu chemunda wehanzvadzi yake ne500.000 baht uye akati hapana chaakawana. Hanzvadzi 300.00 uye iye 200.000 purofiti; chaizvoizvo hapana chakakosha. Vaviri vasina njere vachikumbira kusarudzwa; kukuvara kuchiri kudiki.
Pamwe mukoma mushakabvu vaivewo munyaya iyi.
Vadikani mose.
Zvekuti profit yaitwa naMai imwe mhosva inyaya yekuti vakadhonzwa plug vachinzi havana mari.Vaive nemari hameno kuti chipatara kana madoctor vaive nebasa rei panyaya iyi. ndipeiwo nyaradzo nekurasikirwa kwenyu.kubva kuhama yenyu,asi nyaya iyi yaisazopera neni,ndaizotaura nemadhokotera.
Gara wakasimba uye kwaziso, Henk Stompeboom
Chinonyanya kushamisa ndechekudzimwa kweinishuwarenzi yehutano yeDutch kunyangwe pakanga paine hutano husina kunaka. Inogona kupera chero nguva, inodaro. Kutaura zvazviri, mhuri yake inofanira kubhadhara mari yacho. Chokwadi paigara paine mari yevaThai. Kunyangwe mushure mekufa kwake. Inoshamisa nyaya.
Yakanaka uye ine nuances mhinduro pamusoro. Zvakanaka kuverenga.
Pamusoro pe:
Kupengereka kwevarume falanga kunotangira papi. Anogumira kupi?
Ndakanga ndine hukama gore rakapera, pakati peIsaan, pedyo neYasothon.
Iye zvino inoputika pamoto muduku. Izvozvo zvinoitika sei?
Aive munharaunda yepakati nepakati Thai vanhu, vakadzi vazhinji. Vakuru vehurumende, vakuru vemapurisa, vakuru vezvikoro uye vaongorori, manejimendi emabhangi kana vashandi, makambani einishuwarenzi, kunyangwe mutungamiriri wechikadzi kubva kuThai Army.
Musikana wangu, mudzidzisi, akanga andiisa zvachose mudenderedzwa rake.
Kuwedzera kwakanaka uye nzwisiso yakanaka munharaunda yeThai. Mukana. Ndanga ndiri 'munhu wedzidzo' ini, iye zvino ndaenda pamudyandigere.
Vanosvika gumi nevasere vevakadzi ivavo (mudenderedzwa revanhu vangangosvika makumi masere), vese vanopfuura makumi mashanu, vaive vakaroora falang. Ndidzo hasha dzese ipapo. Zvisinei, ndinoita zvakafanana...
Asi nguva nenguva muromo wangu unovhurika nekushamisika ne falang !!!
Pashure pemwedzi miviri yekuzivana, takaroorana zviri pamutemo, takabhadharwa, mabiko makuru, honeymoon kunzvimbo inodhura kumaodzanyemba.
Zvino inoenderera mberi.
Avo farang varikutengera mukadzi wavo Civic-ske vari kutotenga nzvimbo yekuvaka gare gare, vava kutovaka imba, vavaka annex kangaroo imba yatezvara, vari kutenga goridhe kuna amai- mukuwasha, vanongoita nzendo dzemuguta nendege ( bhazi harina kuitwa), maairconditioner anoiswa kwese kwese, hanzvadzi yemurume anogamuchira chikwereti che800 eu kuti atange kuvaka imba, nezvimwe.
Saka iwo mafarang anofanirawo kuyananiswa nawo. Vatengesa imba yavo muSidney kana Montreal kana Stuttgart? Mubvunzo wemubvunzo. Zvirahwe! Uye zvakare.
Sinterklaas iripo here? nguva dzose inopenya pamberi pameso angu.
Ndinoshamisika: Chii chinokurudzira zvese izvo falang?
Kuita nekuita sarudzo dzakasimba (dzemari) mushure menguva pfupi yakadai? Iwe unopa zvese zvaunazvo uye mweya wako kumukadzi wawangoziva nemwedzi mitanhatu chete. Varume ava vanogara vari pakati pemakore 56 ne69, marudzi ese ekuMadokero.
Ngwarira, ndine ruremekedzo rwakakwana kuvakadzi vose veThai, vose vanoshamisa nenzira yavo. Uye godo.
Ini pachangu handisi kutora chikamu mumujaho wemakonzo uyu! Musikana wangu arikukonzeresa chigumbu nekunetsana.Kugarisana kwacho kwanyanya.
Chii chiri kuitika pano? Chii chiri kuitika neiyo falang yese?
Ndinonzwisisa vakadzi vechiThai: pasina miganhu; uye kumwe kukwidziridzwa kukirasi yepamusoro yepakati.
Chiseko chiri pamusoro apa chakati siyanei.Pangaite chitsotsi nemuroora. Maitiro ake haagone kunzi akanaka kwazvo. Kune vamwe vose, ndinobvumirana zvachose nezviri pamusoro apa. Zvinoshamisa kuti imarii iwaya ma50s uye makumi matanhatu anowanzo kuve nawo, kana kuti anga ave nayo mushure mekupinda muhukama nemunhu weThai. Kwete vanorasikirwa shure kwezvose! Vanofanira kunge vaive varume vakangwara munyika yavo kamwe! Vangazvibvumira sei kubviswa hembe kudaro? Munyori Celine aitoziva: Guta remukadzi riri pakati pemakumbo ake.
Ndinowedzera: Zvino pfungwa dzemurume mukuru dzinoenda kugoko rake kana mukadzi wechidiki akamutarisa zvinonaka.
Nhau yakanaka pamusoro, inonakidza kwazvo
Ndinewo mukadzi wechiThai uye ndakamutengera nzvimbo
Uye isu tiri kuvaka izvo zvishoma nezvishoma pane chero chinhu kubva kwandiri
Kana zuva rasvika rekuti haachada kuenderera mberi neni, zvakanaka
Ndobva ndarongedza bhegi rangu ndoenda, nharaunda yese inogona kuzoti zvinonyadzisa
Uye ini ndichamuchengeta uye ndinwe doro pasi pezuva uye kwete kuchema kuchema paKlaagboek
Ndozvinoita hupenyu, vakadzi vanodya mari
akachenjera kwazvo wemunyori wekare, kana zvikasashanda, zvisiye zvese, tora mari yako uende, usanetseka nezvaunosiya, ndanga ndichiuya kuThailand kubva 1998 uye handina kumbobvira ndave neFarang. pane anoonekwa kumashure nemba yake ndokumhara mundege
Kuti FARANG haana imba kana ivhu. ANGAGONA kugarako achishuma mazuva makumi mapfumbamwe oga oga. Anongobvumirwa kushandisa mari yake yekupedzisira. Ndinoziva vanhu vaviri vekuAmerica pano vasina kupfeka zvachose pano. Mumwe akatonomhan’ara kuembassy asina passport kana mari akadzoserwa kuGuam nekuti ainge asisina passport. Hupenyu hwaidhura zvisingaite ipapo pachigadziko. Mushure memwedzi mina vakamuunza kumba (?). Iye zvino anofanira kubhadhara zvose nepenjeni yaanogona kurarama nayo.
Yakanga isiri mungano yeparadhiso here kuti kwenguva yokutanga murume akarashikirwa nembabvu yake nokuda kwomukadzi uye kuti mukadzi uyu pakupedzisira akavapa paradhiso?
Ndave ndiri panyika ino kwemakore akati kuti zvino uye zvinosuruvarisa kuti ndakasangana, kunzwa uye kuverenga (kubva kune vamwe varume) kuti semurume unofanira kungwarira pasinei nokuti chii.
Iwe unofanirwa kukanganwa magirazi ane ruvara rwerose. Ramba uine pfungwa dzakajeka! Ronga zvinhu wega pamberi pese kurambana kwaitika uye unorasikirwa.
Muchato hachisi chimwe chinhu kunze kwekutengeserana kwemari kwakavharwa muizwi rerudo. 50% kurambana muNetherlands! Rudo rwako rwakadzika zvakadii?
Kana iri nyaya yemari, kana iri yevakadzi, chii chaungavimbe nacho?
Varume, kunyanya vakuru vakaita seni, rambai muchizvidzivirira.