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Home » Kugara muThailand » Nyaya nhatu pfupi kubva kuna Isan: Mwanasikana wemurimi ane rudo (2)
Nyaya nhatu pfupi kubva kuna Isan: Mwanasikana wemurimi ane rudo (2)
Mufananidzo kubva mudura
Handina kumbobvira - sekurangarira kwandinogona - ndakaverenga paThailandblog kuti vakadzi vechiThai vane rudo. Mukadzi wangu haasiwo. Asi vakadzi ivavo vane rudo variko!
Ini ndichazviisa kune mumwe muenzaniso:
Nooann, mukadzi wechidiki aigara achiratidza kudanana, akambonyora chimwe chinhu paFacebook muchiThai neshanduro yeChirungu:
“Edza kusarudza munhu waanokuda kupfuura kumuda kwaunoita. Uchagara uri pfuma yemwoyo inokosha kwaari”. ChiRungu hachiratidzike sechakarurama kwandiri, saka anogona kunge akachishandura pachake, asi shoko rakajeka: Ari kutsvaga mumwe munhu anomuda kupfuura kumuda kwaanoita. Ndakambonyora kuti vakadzi vazhinji veThai vanoisa zviyero zvepamusoro kune vavakaroorana navo, asi izvi zvinowedzera humwe hunhu. Saka haasati ava nemukomana akatsiga.
Ari kutsvaga murume anomuda kupfuura kumuda kwaanoita.
Hazviite serudo kwandiri.
Anomuda zvaari, anomuda zvishoma nezvaari asi nekuda ... mari yake?
Ndiyo rudo rweThai here?
Zvichida hutachiona hwevakadzi hwakatobuda muThailand? Zvino zvichida varume vari kutsvaga zverudo vanofanira kuzviedza mu (kumaodzanyemba) kuEurope. 55
Zvino ngativei vakarevesa: Zvakanaka kumisa mwero wepamusoro, kunyangwe pasina chinhu chakadai semudiwa asina chaanopomerwa. Kana iwe uchida kuti mumwe wako akuise iwe pekutanga - kana kunyange pachigadziko? - ipapo panofanirwa kuve nekuwirirana uye munhu anofanirawo kuisa mumwe munhu pamberi. Zvikasadaro hukama huchave husina chiyero kubva pazuva rekutanga.
Hukama hwese hauna kuenzana. Iko hakuna chikonzero chekutsvaga NAWALT (Kwete Vakadzi Vese Vakafanana Ndizvo) muSouthern Europe. Nekuti vakadzi vane hypergamous kwese pasirese. Izvi zvinoreva kuti vanogara vachiroora zvichikwira (padanho resocio-economic). Kupinda murudo semurume chaiko kunenge kusiri murume, nekuti zvinoita kuti urasikirwe nenjere. Izvi zvinoita kuti zvinhu zvive nyore kuvakadzi, nekuti ikozvino wave nyore kushandura. Chaizvoizvo, izwi rekupedzisira iro rinofanira kunzi femipulation. Kunyange zvakadaro, tinofanirawo kutarisa mugirazi uye tizvibvunze kuti 'Ndiri kutonhorera here sezvandinotaura ego yangu?'.
Vakadzi vanogara vachiroorwa zvichikwira here? Mumapepanhau mumwedzi ichangopfuura mave nezvinyorwa pamusoro pekuti vakadzi vechidiki iye zvino vanowanzodzidza zviri nani kupfuura varume (vanoita zviri nani kuchikoro kusvika kuyunivhesiti). Tinogona kuverenga zvakare kuti maererano neongororo yeAmerica pane matambudziko kana mukadzi achiunza kumba mari yakawanda kupfuura murume. Vezvenhau vakataura kuti dambudziko riri pamurume ane dambudziko nenyaya yekuti haasisiri mutungamiri wemba. Zvisinei, dzimwe nhau dzakazivisa chimwe chinhu chinokosha: “Apo mukadzi wacho akawana mari yakawanda kufambidzana kusati kwatanga, pakanga pasina kunetseka pakati pavarume.” saka zvinoita sedambudziko (kuvarume) kunyanya kana mudzimai wavo aimbove akazvimiririra kubva kwavari, asi nekuda, semuenzaniso, kudzingwa kwake kana kukwidziridzwa kwake, anomupfuura. Kudada kwakakanganiswa? Kunyangwe panogona kunge paine varume vanoda mukadzi akapfava… (uye wozoenda kuThailand kunotarisa 5555).
Mhedziso yangu: mukadzi anoda kanenge denga pamusoro wake, hapana kunetseka nezvechikafu, mari yemba, kana pane mari yevana, etc. Pakarepo izvo zvikumbaridzo zvinogona kusangana, iwe semukadzi unogona kuona kana angangove murume wekufambidzana naye anewo munhu waunogona kudanana naye. Zvinoita senge zvine musoro kwandiri kuti iwe unofanirwa kutanga uine izvo zvekutanga kuitira kuti urege kunetseka zuva nezuva, asi kana iyo yekutanga / yekuchengetedza mambure yavapo unogona kutanga kutarisa izvo zvinoita hupenyu hwako/ hukama hunofadza. Kuti murume iyeye anewo chimiro chakanaka, chinosekesa, mutauri akanaka uye zvichingodaro.
Huwandu hwemagariro nehupfumi hweThailand hausati hwave hweNetherlands (Thailand inotova imwe yenyika dzisina kuenzana pasirese), uye haisati yave nemambure anodiwa ekuchengetedza. Asi muEurope neAsia tinoona nzvimbo yevakadzi ichivandudza. Kuwana dzidzo, vakadzi vakawanda (kupfuura varume) vanopedza kudzidza. Izvozvo zvicharamba zvichienderera mberi. Uye kana tsvakurudzo yacho yakarurama, hazvizove dambudziko kuhukama kana mukadzi achiziva kare kuti ane mapepa / basa riri nani kupfuura murume.
Saka mwanasikana wemurimi uyu kutanga uye kunyanya anoda kugadzikana, kuchengeteka, kusununguka kubva kune zvinonetsa. Kuwira murudo kunongouya gare gare. Kwandiri pachangu, kwete mukwikwidzi wepamusoro, ndinosarudza kutsvaga mukadzi akazvimiririra zvakanyanya kana kuti akazvimiririra, ipapo anogona kundisarudza nekuti anofunga kuti ndiri murume akanaka, akanaka waanodanana naye. Handinetswa necowardly knight complex ichabatsira mukadzi murombo kubva mudambudziko...
Kana kuti ndichadzoka semukadzi muhupenyu hunotevera. Pane mukana wakanaka wekuti ndiwane dhigirii re masters, basa rakanaka uye murume akanaka. Win-win-win. 🙂 Zvinoenderana nedzidziso dzechiBuddha, ndinofanira kutanga kuita misikanzwa nekuti kana wakanyanya kunaka, unozodzoka semurume muhupenyu hunotevera. 🙂
Sources:
- https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs13524-017-0601-3
- https://www.rtlz.nl/life/personal-finance/artikel/4937506/als-zij-meer-verdient-lijdt-hij-mannen-willen-kostwinner-zijn
- https://www.demorgen.be/nieuws/man-gestrest-als-vrouw-meer-verdient~b97e0c76/
- https://www.intermediair.nl/collega-s-en-bazen/vrouwen-op-de-arbeidsmarkt/moeten-mannen-wel-echt-wennen-aan-een-vrouw-die-meer-verdient?utm_referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F
- https://www.dub.uu.nl/nl/plussen-en-minnen/2016/12/19/vrouwen-halen-vaker-en-sneller-hun-diploma.html
Wadiwa Rob, mwanasikana wemurimi ari kutaurwa nezvake mudzidzisi, saka hapana matambudziko emari aripo kana atarisika. Ndinofunga kuti anoda kuratidza kuti rudo chinhu chakakosha uye zvichida chinonyanya kukosha chehukama. Asi kuti hazvina kukwana kuti ari murudo chete, asi kuti mumwe munhu anofanirawo kuva murudo. Ndizvo zvandinounganidza. Nenzira, ini ndinokahadzika kana iwe uchigona kudanana nemumwe munhu kana mumwe munhu asiri; panofanirwa kuve nekudyidzana kwerudo chairwo, twumoto twunofanira kubhururuka, sekutaura.
Hongu mudiwa Hans, rudo runofanira kuwirirana. Mhepo dzinofanira kubhururuka, asi nedenga pamusoro payo kuitira kuti moto werudo urege kubviswa kana kunaya panguva yekutanga inorema mamiriro ekunze.
Chii chinotyisa nonsense John Lyndon.
Ndinoshamisika kuti "huchenjeri" uhwu wakahuwanepi?
Vakadzi pasi rose vari kuroorwa?
Wakambonzwa nezve "generalizing"?
"Vanhu vese vanotevera maitiro avo.."
"Vese maMorocan matsotsi"
"Vakadzi vese veThai ipfambi"
Kana iwe usingadi kuita benzi rakakwana iwe pachako, zviri nani kusanyora chero chinhu.
Romance iripo nenyasha dzekuwandisa. Mune mamwe mazwi: Nezvemari uye chengetedzo yemagariro, semukadzi iwe unogona nyore kuwana rudo. Zvakadaro mukadzi wekuMadokero - anosundwa nechido chakafanana chechengeteko - achiri kuda kusarudza murume ane hukama uye mune zvemari akasimba kupfuura iye, nemamwe mazwi anosarudza chiremba kwete muchenesi. Asi mune yakanaka yerudo nyaya mamiriro, hongu.
Kune vakadzi vazhinji veThai, mutemo wesango uchiri kushanda: hapana mari ndinofa.
Kunyangwe paine chokwadi kazhinji mhuri yekudzokera shure, chinodiwa chehupfumi chiri padyo nesu kupfuura kwatiri muNetherlands nemambure ayo ekuchengetedza nzanga.
Kana sekutaura kwaaiita mukadzi wangu: Mari kutanga, uye rudo zvinouya zvishoma nezvishoma.