Makore gumi nemashanu eThailand: nyaya, asi kwete ngano
Hans Bosch
Pandakasvika paDon Muang Airport yekare yeBangkok musi waDecember 15, 2005, ndakanga ndisingazivi kuti chii chakanga chandimirira. Makore 15 omunzvimbo dzinopisa dzepasi akabhururuka pashure paikoko. Ndinotarisa-tarisa ndichishamisika.
Kusangana kwangu kwekutanga neThailand kwaive mugore ra2000, parwendo rwekuChina Airlines ndichienda kuSydney, Australia. Bangkok yaive yekutanga kumira nekugara kwehusiku muAmari Atrium uye nevamwe vatinoshanda navo takaenda kuPatpong. Rwendo irworwo ndakafunga kuti Thailand ingave nzvimbo yakanaka yekurarama hupenyu mune ramangwana (kure), mushure mekurega kwangu.
Nguva iyoyo yakasvika makore mashanu gare gare. Ne'kukwazisana maoko' kwakanaka muhomwe yangu, pakanga paine zvishoma zvakandisunga kuNetherlands. Ndainge ndazviona mujournalism pamwe chete nemushandirwi wangu. Panguva iyi ndakanga ndasangana neThai wechipiri muBangkok, ndakatengesa imba nemotokari ndokuisa zvimwe paMarktplaats uye nemarara akawanda. Zvandainge ndasiya zvaikwana musuitcase.
VaThai vaigara mukondomu diki paUdomsuk muBangkok uye izvo zvaisaita sekutanga kwakanaka. Saka takarenda imba yemutaundi kuSukhumvit 101/1. Aine mari muhomwe yake (Euro yaikosha bhaht yakawanda panguva iyoyo), imba yacho yakapiwa uye hupenyu hweThai hwakatanga. Nekuedza uye kukanganisa, izvo zvakawanda zvakajeka kutarisa kumashure. Zvishoma nezvishoma asi zvirokwazvo pink yakanyangarika kubva mumagirazi angu ...
Imba yakavharirwa (14.000 baht pamwedzi) yaive nezvimwe zvinonetsa. Somuenzaniso, muvakidzani wokuChina akanga achiita zvokupopota panze panguva yangu yemangwanani mangwanani, imba yokutandarira yakanga yakanamirwa mataira kubva pauriri kuenda kusirin'i (ndakaidana kuti 'imba yokuurayira') uye payakanaya zvakanyanya, mvura yaisuka pasi pegonhi repamberi. Dzimba mbiri gare gare takagara mupaka yakaisvonaka nechokunze kweBangkok, takarendwa kubva kune aimboshanda naye paBangkok Post. Gore rega rega ndakaita rwendo kuenda kuNetherlands kaviri uye magirazi eruvara-ruvara aivhara zvakanyanya kusagadzikana.
Kuruboshwe: Lizzy
Zvino mazai emunhu wandaimboda akatanga kuita maungira. Ndakafunga kuti zvakanga zvisina kunaka kugara nomukadzi muduku kwemakore uye kufuratira chido chokuva nevana. Muna 2010 Lizzy akaberekwa, gore remwana. Mushure memwedzi mishoma, amai vake vakakwanisa kuwana basa pane (isiri pamutemo) kasino muMinburi, iyo yaigona kugara yakavhurika nekubhadhara pamwedzi we300.000 baht kumapurisa. Ndakanyatsotarisisa shefu vakandiudza kuti vashandi havabvumidzwe kubheja. Akakanganwa kutaura kuti izvi zvakashanda maawa ekushanda asati apera uye kwete pashure. J. zvino akakweretesa mari kune vaanozivana navo, asi akabhejera nemari yaiwanikwa. Mhedziso yerwiyo yaive yekuti ndakashaya mari yakawanda, asiwo kasino. Zvaiva zvekuti mota yaiva muzita rangu, dai pasina izvozvo ndairasa.
Mafia (mapurisa nevakuru vemauto, vakweretesi vemari) vakatitevera. Ndakatozotiza kubva humwe husiku kuenda kune hunotevera, Lizzy ari mubeche rake kubackseat. Pashure pemakore mashanu okubatikana muBangkok, ndakanga ndatofunga zano rokutamira kuHua Hin. Takaroja imwe imba yataive tasiya. Fenicha uye zvinhu zvemumba zvakasara muBangkok panguva iyoyo.
Mushure memavhiki mashoma kwakapisa zvakanyanya pasi petsoka dzaJ. Iye naLizzy vakaenda kwaamai vake kuUdon Thani kusvika naivowo vasisanzwe zvakanaka. Ndakanga ndisina kero, saka ndaisaziva kuti mwanasikana wangu aigara kupi. Kutongwa kwaiitwa paDare reVaduku muBangkok kwakaguma nokutorerwa pamwe chete, zvishoma pane zvandaitarisira. Panguva iyi J. akanga atanga nhangemutange kuburikidza neLaos neCambodia kuenda kuHong Kong. Ikoko akadhumana nakaputeni weDenmark weimwe ndege yokuJapan. Zvichakadaro, kuonana kwakambodzoreredzwa uye ndakakwanisa kudzosa Lizzy pakubhadharwa kwe200.000 baht.
Lizzy
Lizzy anga achigara neni nemusikana wangu muHua Hin kwemakore mapfumbamwe izvozvi. Ari kukura nekukurumidza uye ari kuita zvakanaka pachikoro chepasi rose. Iye musikana akangwara, ane tariro akanyatsogadzirirwa ramangwana rake. Chisungo nemhuri yake yechiDutch chakasimba zvinoshamisa. Muna 2010 ndakava baba nasekuru mugore rimwe chete izvo zvakasimudza tsiye kumusha.
Kaputeni weDenmark akaita kuti banga ribaye munguruve nguva inodarika gore rapfuura. Mushure mekubhadhara imba, motokari uye kuwedzera mazamu, akafunga kuti zvakakwana. Mai Lizzy vave negore vari kuKorea zvisiri pamutemo kuti vawane mari yeramangwana ravo. Anogara achisangana naLizzy kuburikidza neWhatapp uye anoti achagara kuKorea kwemamwe makore mana. Ndozvazviri.
Makore gumi nemashanu apfuura. Ndinovimba makore gumi nemashanu anotevera achati fambei zvishoma. Mushure memakore ekutanga emusango muThailand, ndinovimba nguva yakareba yakadzikama ichauya. Ndinozvidemba here kuenda kuThailand muna 15? Nguva nenguva. Ndinosuwa hama neshamwari dzandaifanira kusiya. Thailand yaive yekubhururuka kuenda mberi uye ichiri nyika yakanaka yekugara semuenzi. Haisi paradhiso yepasi, asi handisati ndawana kuti iri kupi…
Nyaya yakanaka uye inozivikanwa pane dzimwe pfungwa.
Kana toreva nezve‘paradhiso yapasi’, ikoko kuchabvumikisa kuva nyengedzo nguva dzose, ndinotya.
Asi pari zvino, Thailand icharamba iri imba yangu yechipiri, kunyangwe ndichiri 'kukakamira' muNetherlands inotonhora uye inotonhora…
Nhau yakanaka Hans, yakatsanangura nekutendeka chiitiko chako uye ndine chokwadi chekuti iyi haisi nyaya yega.
Yakanaka nyaya ine muyedzo uye kukanganisa. Nehurombo, zvingave zviri nani dai vakadzi vazhinji veThai vasina makaro.
Anodiwa Hans,
Tinokutendai nekugoverana chikamu chehupenyu hwenyu nesu.
Nyaya yako yakafanana neyakawanda pakati peFarang nemukadzi weThai.
Zvakanaka kuti waisa simba rakawanda uye mari mukuchengeta mwanasikana wako, ruremekedzo. !!
Iniwo ndiri muenzi 'wenguva dzose' kunyika iyi yakanaka, kwemakore anopfuura 30, ayo makore gumi nemashanu apfuura anga aripo kwemwedzi mina kusvika ku15.
Uye hongu, maererano ne "paradhiso yepasi" inobata, hapana chinoshanduka kuti chii, uye zvechokwadi iwe unowana zvinhu zvakasiyana pachingwa chako kupfuura muvhareji wevashanyi anoenda mavhiki matatu pagore.
Saka, edza kuzviita paradhiso yako.
Ndinokushuvirawo kufara kwakawanda nevanhu vaunoda vakakukomberedza.
Kwaziwai, Joseph
Zvinonzwisa tsitsi Hans kuti hupenyu muThailand hauna kukufambira zvakanaka. Lucky kwandiri kuchiri kurota kugara pano nemusikana wangu weThai nevana.
Ndanga ndichigara muno muThailand kweanopfuura makore gumi nekugutsikana kwakakwana. Pakutanga zvakada gadziridzo dzakati parutivi rwangu kumurangariro wangu wechiDutch, asi ipapo upenyu hwakafamba sezvandakanga ndafungidzira.
Ini handingazvitengese nechero chinhu chiri munyika nehupenyu muNetherlands.
Zvakanaka, handina kuita zvishoma pano. Iwe unofanirwa kuitora sezvainouya uye ugare wakatarira mberi.
Anodiwa Hans,
Bvuma zvachose kuti Thailand haisi paradhiso, asi inyika ine vanhu vanogona kukanganisa hupenyu hwako chero nguva yezuva. Hapana chinhu chazvinoita uye tsaona yemumugwagwa ine zvinoshamisa uye inodhura mhedzisiro inogona kuitika nyore.
Zvichida kusava nechokwadi pamwe chete nokutarisira mwana nomudzimai ndicho chikonzero chokuramba uri munyika iyi yakashata uye kuramba uchiona zvakanaka.
Rotterdammer mudiki anonzwisisa zvandiri kureva 🙂
Quote: Haisi paradhiso pasi pano, asi handisati ndaziva kuti iri kupi…
Paradhiso yepasi iri mukati mako, kungofanana nehero iri paPasi.
Anodiwa Hans,
Inyaya yakadii
zvakanaka iwe unogona kusangana nechimwe chinhu muhupenyu..
Zvichida nyaradzo yandakashanda mucasino muNetherlands kwemakore makumi maviri nemaviri uye nditende kuti haisi dambudziko re 'Thai' kuti kubhejera uye zvose zvinouya nazvo kana iwe uchirasikirwa zvikuru ndakaona izvi zvichiitika kakawanda uye zvichagara nguva dzose. garai makadaro.
Ingori tsitsi kuti unongosangana nazvo pese pauri, uye kunyanya kana vana vatarisana nazvo, vanotozotambura kuti zvinoshanduka kana kutendeuka.
Ndafara kunzwa kuti zvagadziriswa iwe uye kuti unogona kutarisa mberi mune ramangwana pamwe nemwanasikana wako.
Rombo rakanaka.
Nehurombo, vanhu vanodikanwa, asi ini ndichiri kutenda kuti Thailand ndiyo "paradhiso yepasi". Ndava nemakore makumi maviri ndichiuya kuno. Mushure me 'rwendo rwenyika' rwemazuva 20 (kubva nekumba) ndakatengeswa uye ndakagara mavhiki mashomanana kwenguva refu, izvo zvakaguma: hafu yegore muThailand uye hafu yegore muEurope.
Ndakasangana nemudiwa wangu makore gumi apfuura uye ndakava neimba inotapira yakavakwa kwemakore mashanu.
Ndakataura naye nezve 'maovha ake anoputika' nezvikonzero: vazukuru vangu vaigona kuchengeta vana. Mukutarisa kumashure anofunga kuti chaive chikonzero chakanaka, uye ikozvino tinonakidzwa nenguva yedu yemahara: gorofu, kuchovha bhasikoro uye kuenda nzendo dzezororo.
Ndichiri kuenda ikoko nekunakidzwa uye kushuva, pakutanga kwaNdira.
Gore rino chete, kugara kwehafu yegore kuchangogara mwedzi mitatu chete.
Ndanga ndichiuya kuThailand kubvira 1978 uye ndine zano rakafanana kune wese munhu. Ramba usina kuroorwa…..nakigwa nekambani yechikadzi….pamwe uchiwana musikana waunogara naye asi gara wakasununguka uye usava nezvinosungirwa uye usanyanya kunyura. Usazeza kuita zvibvumirano zvakagadziriswa kubva pazuva rekutanga pamwe nekupedza hukama kana chimwe chinhu chisina kunaka.
Muzviitiko zvipfumbamwe kubva mugumi, mukadzi ari mubvunzo anoona zvishoma pane zvatinofunga. MuThai anoshandura bhatani uye zuva rinotevera iwe haugone kuona kuti abuda muukama hwenguva refu. Manzwiro uye kunyanya ayo akatenderedza rudo akasiyana zvakanyanya pano pane nesu. Usambofa wakagara nemumwe munhu nekuda kwetsitsi, nekuti tsitsi idzodzo idivi rimwe chete uye mupi wemazano akaipa kwazvo.
Kusuwa kwese kwandakanzwa muThailand kwaigara kuri nyaya imwe chete ... mhedzisiro yehukama hwakatsiga uye mhedzisiro yemari.
Zvechokwadi kunewo vanhu vane hukama hunofadza uye hunogutsa huripo uye huzhinji.
Ndine muchato wakanaka ini pachangu, asi kana yaizotanga zvakare, ndaizoramba ndakasununguka. Zvingadai zvakandiponesa manzwiro akawanda uye kugumbuka apo ini zvechokwadi handina kurova zvakanyanya.
Thailand inyika yausingafanire kubatanidzwa. Kusiyana nesu, hausi wega pano…..Kutsvaga mumwe mudiwa i100 X nekukurumidza uye nyore pane isu….Hukama hunogona kunyatsonaka pasina chikonzero chakadzama.
Unoda kupenengura switch yakadaro? Ndinofunga zvakasiyana pamusoro pazvo, madzimai haasi kubva kune imwe nyika. Mwoyo yavo inogonawo kuputsika. Ndinoziva zvakawanda zvakandikomberedza nekusuwa kwemoyo, kushuvira mudiwa akanaka uye zvichingodaro. Asi ndiani anoziva, traffic mumasangano asingamiriri munharaunda ... Saka ngatitarisei kuti zvinyorwa zveThai, mimhanzi, firimu nezvimwe zvakadaro ndezvei. Dingindira rerudo, shuwa, kusuwa nezvimwe zvakadaro rinokurukurwa zvizere imomo. Ko ivo vakadzi havazove vakasiyana zvakadaro here?
Chandingashinga kutaura ndechekuti nekuda kwemamiriro ehupfumi nemagariro iwe uchakurumidza / kazhinji kazhinji kuona sarudzo yemumwe wako anobatsira iwe kuve nedenga pamusoro wako uye anosimuka pasherufu. Nekuti chinotokosha kupfuura moyo uri pamoto idumbu rakazara. Isa zvakawanda sezvaunogona kupa muhukama, ziva miganhu yako, uye ipapo hauzofaniri kunzwa uchimanikidzwa kana kubiridzirwa.
Kukwana hakupo, shandura zvishuvo uye zvishuvo kuita chimwe chinhu chinoita kuti hupenyu hufadze iwe pachako uye nevanhu vakakupoteredza. Hans, saka nakidzwa nazvo, kunyanya pasina pink kana grey magirazi emavara. 🙂
Chishuwo chemudiwa akanaka uye kushungurudza moyo hazvina kunyatsofanana. Iwe unofanirwa kunyanya kutarisa sipo dzeThai kana iwe uchida fake.
Hukama hucharatidzwa ipapo kashoma huve nezvinangwa zvakafanana nehukama hunopinda mu90% yeFarang muThailand.
Mumitambo ine sipo iwawo hauwanzoona mushandi wekuvaka achihura nemusikana anobva kumhuri yakapfuma yeThai…Handifunge kuti uchawana hukama hwakadaro muThailand umo mari inotanga uye rudo ruchitevera.
Hans Bos anotaura nyaya yega, nyaya yandinokoshesa chaizvo nekutendeseka kwayo.
Uye iwe, fred, uchataura zvimwe zvinhu pamusoro pevakadzi vechiThai nezvimwe. Ndinokuudzai izvi. Sipo dzakawanda dzinoridza ndedzemanyepo. Asi pane zvakawanda.
Mune zvinyorwa zveThai, mabhaisikopo nemimhanzi uye zvakare muhupenyu hwemazuva ese ndinoona rudo rumwe chete nematambudziko akafanana neaya eNetherlands kana chero imwe nyika. Kuti muThailand mari inouya pekutanga uye rudo rwunotevera hazvina musoro. Ehe kune hukama uko mari inoita basa rakakosha, asi rudo, unyoro, kunzwisisa uye ushamwari hwechokwadi zvakare ndizvo zvinonyanya kukosha munhau dzerudo muThailand.
Ndinokukumbira kuti urege kutaura zvisina maturo. Tarisa munhu wacho. Teerera kune mumwe nemumwe wedu nyaya yake. Rega kutonga nerusaruro. Ndapota.
Kashoma kuverenga akawanda clichés uye zvisina maturo mune maitiro aFred.
Ipapo pakanga pachine chimwe chinhu chokunakidzwa nacho.
Asi izvozvo zvaivawo nemutengo wazvo.
Kana iwe usingade kuodzwa mwoyo, iwe zviri nani
usatange hukama hwakadaro
Nyaya yakatendeseka uye inozivikanwa kwazvo. Ndinogarawo ndichinzwa vamwe vakadzi vechiThai, vakadai semusikana wangu wekuThai (wechipiri), vachishora kukara mari kwevakadzi vazhinji vechiThai. Hunhu uhwu hahuna kungochengeterwa vakadzi veThai chete, asi huripo chaizvo munyika yekunyemwerera!
Ndaive nemusikana kare. Akabvunza after 2 weeks mari yandaive nayo. Ndakatora mufananidzo wemota yemba yangu nenzvimbo dzakatenderedza. luck ndakaibata in time.
Ndinokutendai nokuda kwenyaya yako yakatendeseka uye yakanaka! Ndakaverenga: imwe yenhema murombo, asi chiitiko uye mwanasikana akapfuma. Zvichida kwete paradhiso, asi kuwedzera kukuru!
Nyaya yeupenyu yakatendeseka uye yakanyorwa zvakanaka.
Hans, pasina kukakavara kwakanyanya iwe unongoudza zvishoma izvo zvakaitika muhukama hwako, ndinogona kufungidzira kuti rudzii rwenyika rwakavanzwa kuseri kwaro, kwakanyanya.
Shingai kugovana izvo nesu mablogger, ikozvino magirazi ako epingi achinja kujeka muchiedza chezuva cheThai, zvinogoneka kuti makore anouya aite akati zii, ndinoshuvira iwe izvozvo.
Fara nevaunoda, kusanganisira gore remwanasikana.
Utopia iripo, izvo zvakawanda ndezvechokwadi, asi ndeipi nhamba yefoni yemutyairi wetekisi zvakare? kana kuti ndiwe?
Ndinokushuvira rombo rakanaka uye kubudirira muhupenyu hwako hweThai.
Nekuremekedza kubuda pachena kwako.
Nhau yakanaka uye yakatendeseka, Hans.