Kunyoresa nesangano rehukama reThai kunokupa kupenya munyika yakavanzika.
Mudzimai ane hushamwari wesangano rekuyananisa akanga atsanangura Pim nemazwi akanaka. Chakaramba chiri chirevo: Pim, mukadzi wechiThai ari pakati pemakore makumi mana ari kutsvaga "murume akakura".
Zvakanaka, ndakanzwisisa zvinorehwa nemuchinda, asi "kukura" kwainetsa. Muduramazwi rinoturikirwa nenzira dzakasiyana uye kwete nguva dzose zvinobata kumeso. Shoko iri rinogona kureva munhu akura, asiwo akura kana kutokura.
Kusangana kwangu kwekutanga naPim kwaive kuBangkok, mune imwe resitorendi diki inotonhorera yainyanya kugadzira chikafu cheMoroccan. Kunyangwe iwe uchinzi wakura kana kuti wakura, iwe uchiri kuda kuita chimiro chakanaka uye kunyangwe kupisa kwekunze ndinopfeka tirauzi rakanaka uye shati yakanaka ine maoko marefu. Pim akauya achida Thai mamiriro okunze kuenzanisa chipfeko chakakura.
Kuti ndakanga nda“kura” here kana kuti ndisingachaiti basa, nokuti Pim akanga asingatsvaki wokuroorana naye zvachose. Akashandira makwikwi, nemamwe mazwi kune rimwe sangano rekuyananisa. "Dambudziko guru muindasitiri yedu," akadaro nekubvisa zvombo pachena, "rakapusa: pavakadzi vapfumbamwe voga voga vanonyoresa nesangano rekuyananisa, murume mumwe chete ndiye anouya.
Izvo zvese zvakatanga rinenge gore rapfuura, apo shamwari yangu yakandidzinga zvakare, yakavhiringidzika nemararamiro angu mazhinji ane ngozi. kufamba uye maawa ekushanda asina kujairika semutori wenhau. Shamwari yangu yakandikurudzira kuti, kuti ndirwise kusurukirwa, ndinofanira kuedza mhanza yangu pane imwe kambani ichangotanga kufambidzana. Kutevera mienzaniso yeEurope neAmerica, masevhisi avo anopihwa muripo unonzwisisika kuvanhu vane mabasa akabatikana. Mushure mekubvunzurudzwa kwakadzama, umo zvese kubva pakutenda kuenda kune zvekutandara uye zvakadzama zvaunofarira zvemunhu zvinokurukurwa, vanoronga kugadzwa nevanokodzera vanokodzera mumaresitorendi akanaka.
Sezviri pachena, gaka mumusika rakawanikwa muThailand, zvirinani muBangkok. Kunyangwe Bangkok ichinzi "guta rengirozi" rine varaidzo inokwana munzvimbo dzevaraidzo nemabhawa asingaverengeki, asi - semumaguta makuru ekuMadokero - zvakare zvakaoma kumisa hukama hunogara pano.
Nezvandaudzwa naPim manje ndaifanira kuita sejongwe riri muchikwere chehuku. Kune rimwe divi. Ukuwo zvakatondibudirawo pachena kuti ndainge ndobatwa nemhuno. Mushure mezvose, ndakafunga, kana paine kushomeka kwevarume, ndaifanira kuwana mari pachinzvimbo chekubhadhara 800 euros kune makumi maviri nemana akabvumiranwa.
Uye zvakadaro handizvidembi nemari yakabhadharwa. Nokuti pashure pokugara muThailand kwemakore mapfumbamwe, nyika yakazaruka kwandiri yandakanga ndisingazivi nezvayo kare. Bangkok musha wevakadzi vasingaverengeki vane makore ari pakati pe30 ne50, vamwe vacho vanenge vachida wekuroorana naye wehupenyu akatsunga kusvika pakupererwa. “Varume veThai vezera renyu,” Pim akatsanangura kwandiri zvakajeka. “funga zvakasiyana nevaEurope kana vekuAmerica. Vanofunga kuti pamari inofanira kubhadharwa kusangano rokuyananisa, vanogonawo kuwana mukadzi wechiduku ari pakati pemakore 20 ne30.”
Vakadzi vakura vanotambura neizvi, vakadai saJum, ane makore 45 okukura, chiremba wemaziso, akarambana, wandakasangana naye gare gare. “Tine vakadzi vakawanda muThailand,” akandiudza kudaro, “uye hafu yevarume ingochani.” Mumwe haadi fungidziro yakawanda kuti anzwisise kuti nemashoko akadai ndakakurumidza kuzviona ndiri pa cloud nine. Murume wekune dzimwe nyika semuraramiro uye mudiwa wevakadzi, handina kumbozvifungidzira muhope dzangu dzesango.
Susan, mwanasikana wababa vokuIndia uye amai vokuChina, akasimbisazve kuzvivimba kwangu kwakawedzera. “Varume veThai havakodzeri vakadzi vakaita seni, vanobudirira mubasa ravo,” iye akanyunyuta kudaro, “vanoda mudzimai wemba anonaka anobvuma chinyararire uye nokusava nehanya zviito zvose zvomurume.” Ini naSusan takasangana pane imwe resitorendi inozivikanwa zvikuru yokuItaly, ine mitengo yakanga iri nani pane zvokudya. Ndiyo imwe yenguva idzo dzaunofanirwa kuratidza chiso chako nguva nenguva kana iwe uchida kuita mutsauko mumatunhu epamusoro eBangkok. The wine was good, mood yakakurumidza kurerukirwa, but then kureurura kwakandivhundutsa kwakatevera. Susan, mukadzi anoyevedza ari mumavambo ema40, haana kana hukama humwe hupenyu hwake hwese. “Ndini mwanasikana mukuru,” akadaro mutungamiriri weimwe femu yokutengesa, “ndagara ndichitarisira vabereki vangu, sezvaitarisirwa kwandiri. Vanun’una nehanzvadzi dzangu vose vakaroora.”
Ndakaerekana ndafunga kutaura kwechiThai kune dzimwe nguva kunokandwa kune vanonzi vanasikana vakaipa: “Unofunga kuti murume wako anokosha kupfuura mhuri yako.” Rusununguko rwemunhu uye kuvanzika kunofanirwa kugara kuchisiiwa muThailand kana zvasvika pahukama hwemhuri. Ndiyo imwe yemakomba akawanda echiThai tsika anogona kukanganisa michato pakati pevatorwa neThais. The American Chris Pizarro nemunyori weThai Vitida Vasant vakanyora bhuku pamusoro peizvi, rine musoro unoti "Thai fever”. Sechimwe chezvigumbuso zvikuru zvavanotaura nezvaNam Jai, iro rinogona kushandurwa se'muto wemoyo' uye izvo zvinoreva kuti rupo.
"Kukosha kwerupo muThailand kwakakura zvekuti inopfuura kure pfungwa dzese dzekuvanzika, kuzvimiririra uye kuvimbika, vanyori vanodaro. Nam Jai ndeimwe yeakakosha hunhu hunhu hunofanirwa kuve nemurume. Rupo runofanira kusanganisirwa kwete kune waunoda chete, asi kuboka remhuri yese. Kune vakawanda vokune dzimwe nyika vokuMadokero, tsika iyi yakaoma kugamuchira. Vakasimudzwa nepfungwa yokuti hukama hunobatanidza mari inyaya yebhizimisi pane rudo.
Uku kusanzwisisa kwaNam Jai kazhinji ndicho chikonzero nei vatorwa vachionekwa saKee Nieow - anonyima - vanyori vanotsanangura. Bhuku racho zvino rava rudzi rwebasa remazuva ose, rakatonditadzisa kuita pfungwa yakaipa panguva yemisangano iyoyo. Sezvinongoita murume, ndaigara ndichiedza kubhadhara mari yacho manheru, izvo zvaitoita kuti ndishatirwe. Madzimai ese ekuThai andakasangana nawo aida kuzvibhadharira mari.
Muyero wekuedza kwangu kuwana hukama hauna kunyatsoenderana. Hukama hutsva hahugoneki chaizvo mushure memazuva makumi maviri nemana, asi ndakaita hushamwari hwakati wandei, kunyanya naPim. Akandiudza kuti vakadzi vana pagumi nomumwe vomukirasi yake yekare havana kumboroorwa. Kuna Pim zviri pachena kuti nei vana vacho vakaramba vari voga: “Mhuri yavo haina kubvuma izvozvo, kana kuti vakwiri vakanga vasina kupfuma zvakakwana kana kuti vakakurira mumhuri dzakapfuma.”
Willi Germund (Berliner Zeitung) - yakashandurwa naGringo
- meseji yakatumirwa -
Nyaya iyi inongorova magonhi akazaruka. Kune makumi ezviuru zvevakadzi ava muBangkok chete. Vakadzi ava vakadzidza zvakanyanya, vane basa rakakura, kana vakadzi vakabudirira vebhizinesi, uye vanowanzoona zvakati wandei zvenyika. madzimai aya ane njere dzakavhurika uye ari kutsvaga wekufambidzana naye ari mudanho rimwe chete. Saka Pattayangers vane hunhu hwakabatana havasirivo rudzi rwemurume rwavari kutsvaga. Ruzhinji rwevakadzi ava vane dzinza rekuChina. Vese vane hupenyu hwekushamwaridzana hwakabatikana, uye izvo hazviitike mubhawa renzvimbo ine tafura yemabhiridhi. asi mumadyiro ari nani. Saka chero mudiwa haafanire kutarisa kunze uko. Uye anofanirwa kugamuchira kuti hupenyu hwakabatikana hwakadaro hwakakosha kuhupenyu hwake hwehunyanzvi uye network yake, iyo mukati
Thailand yakakosha, nekuti pasina network yakanaka haungave chero muThailand.
Ndakamboita hukama nemadzimai akadai ndikaroorawo mumwe wavo. Aiva nemakore 45 pandakasangana naye, akanga asati ambodanana, saka akanga asina vana uye akabva kumhuri yepakati uye aiva nechinzvimbo chepamusoro. Kufanana navazhinji vezera rake, kariro yokukwegura ndoga yakanga isiri kariro inofadza. Asi aida murume aienderana naye uye aiziva tsika dzechiThai (Chinese). Saka mufananidzo wacho unokodzera zvakakwana. Zvaivawo muukama hwekare nemumwe muzvinabhizimisi wechikadzi akabudirira. Hukama uhwu hwakatadza, asi takaparadzana murunyararo uye tichiramba tichionana kuburikidza neFB.
Mudzimai wangu ane kubatanidzwazve kwekirasi inenge mwedzi woga woga nevaanodzidza navo kuchikoro chesekondari, uye pavaanodzidza navo 15, gumi havana kumbova noukama. Izvi kuti ndikupe pfungwa.
Pakupedzisira, ndinoda kutaura kuti bhuku "Thai Fever" ndiro huru isina maturo yandati ndamboverenga. Kana iwe ukatevedzera zano (rakanyorwa neThai co-munyori) kubva mubhuku, uri kunanga kune debacle. Nekuti izvo zvimedu zvezano ndizvo zvekupedzisira zvishuvo zveIsan goridhe digger. Ndinoda kusimbisa zvakasimba kuti havasi vese vakadzi veIsan vanochera goridhe.
Pandinoverenga zvese izvi, handisi kunyatsonzwa kuda kutamira mumatunhu akakwirira, asi pamwe ndichadaro, handingatarise kunze kwenzvimbo ipapo, ndinofunga......
Asi kana kuchipisa handipfeki bhurugwa rangu remakumbo marefu uye hembe ine maoko marefu, saka pamwe hazvizoshande pakupedzisira.
Willi aive asina kujaira tsika iyi? Ini pachangu, handina basa nemabhuku ezvehukama zano. Iro bhuku rataurwa raibhowa uye risinganyanyobatsira*). Mushure mezvose, ndezve vanhu vaviri uye mabatiro avanoita nekutaurirana. Thai / maAsia haasi kubva kune imwe nyika yakasiyana neWesterners / Europeans. Pamusoro pekuti vanhu vaviri ava vanodyidzana sei, zvinhu zvakaita senharaunda/kirasi dzinotaura zvakawanda kupfuura pasipoti yaunayo.
Kana ukaita bhizimisi nomumwe munhu uyo, pamwe chete nemhuri yose, ari munhamo huru yezvemari, unogona zvirokwazvo kutarisira kuti munhu ane mhanza yakawanda achabetsera nguva dzose. Uye Thailand haina kana nyika yerubatsiro, saka zvakajairika kubatsira vabereki vakarega basa zvakadaro. Taizozviita uye taizozviita pano kana vanhu vakuru vepano pachezvavo vakanga vasina mari inokwana pakuchembera kwavo.
Kana zuva rako riri nani uye richibva kune (yepamusoro) yepakati kirasi, vanogona kuzvitarisira ivo zvakanaka. Ipapo hautarisirwe kungobhadhara bhiri seyakajairwa. Izvi zvinobva zvanyanya pakuti munopindurana sei sevanhu vari kufambidzana. 50/50 nebhiri hazvishamisi.
Nhasi vechidiki vakura vanofara kutora chinwiwa kana resitorendi yezuva rekutanga vobva vapatsanura bhiri. Uye ipapo mhuri haizogogodzi pasuo rako pakarepo kana kukupa chitsama chemari chakanaka. Asi zvinongoenderana nekuti ndiani anorova. Uye kana mese muchifara, zvakanaka.
* Ini ndinorangarira zvakanyanya kuti vanyori vanonyora kuti Thais anonyanya kuchengetedza uye saka anogona kunge asina kujairana nemuromo zvepabonde uye anogona kuwana iyi pfungwa inoshamisa kana kutosemesa. 555 Sekunge maThai anhasi, ane makore makumi maviri kusvika makumi mana, haawanzo shandisa internet... internet. Hapana chakakanganisika nazvo, asi idiki spectrum.
Mutori wedu wenhau wekuGermany akawana vakadzi vane kuseka, nekuti kuwanda kwevakadzi hakuna kushata. 51,9% yevanhukadzi, 49,1% varume. Kana hafu yevarume vari ngochani, ndiri kuda kuziva kuti chii chiri mumvura yepombi (uye nei Prayuth asati amboita chero chinhu nezvazvo). 555
Kwakabva: Census 2010 & Google Translate:
http://popcensus.nso.go.th/home.php
Nice link!
Sezvineiwo link yafa. Zvakadaro, tinokwanisa kudzika nhamba zvakare kuti tione kuti vangani vakadzi vari mukuwedzera kune rimwe boka rezera rakapihwa. Kune varume vakawanda pakuberekwa, uye nekuda kwemaitiro avo uye njodzi, varume vanofa kare. Funga nezvetsaona dzemotokari, kurwa, tsaona munzvimbo dzebasa, nezvimwewo. Kubva pazera reimwe nzvimbo mu30s, kune varume vakawanda sevakadzi, mushure mezvo vakadzi vakawanda kupfuura varume. Pazasi, kune vakadzi vashoma zvishoma kupfuura varume muThailand.
Ndicho chikonzero ndinoramba ndichitaura, kana iwe uchifunga kuti kune vakadzi vashoma kudarika varume chikonzero chakanaka chekutora mukadzi weThai semudiwa, tsvaga mukadzi mukuru wechiThai. Pane zvakasara izvozvo. Mukuru ari nani. 🙂
Ungade here mudiwa wechidiki kusvika pazera re30-35? Zvakanaka, saka sarudza murume wekufambidzana naye. Zvinoita senge kune ngochani dzakati wandei, saka enda kuThailand, unonwa mvura (kana kuti mwero wakakwira zvinoshamisa wengochani dzinofungidzirwa kuti dzinoitwa nevanhu vakasiyana), iva ngochani kana bi uye uroore murume akanaka wekuThai. Kana kudzoka muhupenyu hunotevera semukadzi uye uwane murume akanaka wechiThai.
Nhamba 2020 CIA factbook (izvo zvinobva kune mamwe masosi / zviyero hazvina kumbosiyana)
Kuberekwa: 1,05 varume kune 1 mukadzi
<15 makore: 1,04 varume kusvika 1 vakadzi
15-24 y: 1,04 varume kusvika 1 munhukadzi
25-54 y: 0,98 varume kusvika 1 munhukadzi
55-64 y: 0,88 varume kusvika 1 munhukadzi
65+: 0,77 varume pamukadzi 1
Zvose: 0,96 varume kusvika ku1 mukadzi.
Muzvikamu:
0-14 makore: 16.45% (murume 5,812,803 / mukadzi 5,533,772)
15-24 makore: 13.02% (murume 4,581,622 / mukadzi 4,400,997)
25-54 makore: 45.69% (murume 15,643,583 / mukadzi 15,875,353)
55-64 makore: 13.01% (murume 4,200,077 / mukadzi 4,774,801)
Makore 65 zvichikwira: 11.82% (murume 3,553,273/mukadzi 4,601,119)
Mufananidzo: https://www.cia.gov/library/publications/the-world-factbook/attachments/images/large/TH_popgraph2020.JPG?1584365524
Kunobva:
- https://www.cia.gov/library/publications/the-world-factbook/geos/th.html