Kusiyana kwetsika pakati Tairendi uye Madokero akakura zvikuru. Saka zvakakosha kuti unyure mutsika yeThai. Zvinhu izvo zvinoita sezvisina kukosha kwatiri zvinogona kuve nemhedzisiro yakawanda muThailand. Muenzaniso uri kupa farang kuvabereki vemukadzi wechiThai.
MuMadokero, kuunza mukomana kana kuti musikana kumba kunoreva zvinopfuura tsika yokuita. Chokwadi vabereki vari kuda kuziva kuti mukadzi, mwanakomana Kees ari kusarudzira ani, asi havabve vatora mhedziso. Uyewo havatarisiri kuti mudzimai ari kutaurwa anenge atova amai venguva yemberi vevana vake. Mushure mezvose, Kees achapedza vasikana vashoma asati atora danho iroro.
Danho rakakosha
Zvinhu zvakasiyana muThailand. Kusuma shamwari kuvabereki inhanho yakakosha muhupenyu hwemukadzi wechiThai. Kutaura zvazviri, vari kutaura kuti vane vavariro dzakakomba newe uye zvichida vanoda kukuroora. Usatya pakarepo (varume vazhinji vanowana mild panic attack pavanoverenga shoko rokuti 'kuroorana').
Mukadzi wechiThai haazombofi 'akangokuendesa' kumhuri. Anokuzivisa nokuti anoda kuti, "Uyu ndiye murume wandinoda kupedza hupenyu hwangu hwose naye."
Zvekuti ari kuunza farang kumusha zvinozivikanwa mavhiki pamberi. Vese vagari vemumusha, shamwari nehama vanotarisira kusvika kwefarang. Icho chiitiko chakakosha chekushamwaridzana munharaunda diki uye yakabatana yekumaruwa.
Kubvumirwa uye kuyerwa
Mukadzi wechiThai pachake ane moyo wakareruka nezvekuzvizivisa kuvabereki vake. Dzimwe nguva anongoti anoda kukuendesa kwaIsaan nekumusha kwake. Haakuudze kuti uri 'kuongororwa nekuyerwa'. Zvakaomawo kufanotaura kuti achakubvunza rinhi izvi. Vamwe Vakadzi vechiThai ita izvi mushure memazuva mashoma, vamwe vanoda nguva yakawanda. Kana akasakukumbira kuti uuye kuna Isaan, iwowo ishoko rinokosha.
Ukatandara nemukadzi wechiThai kwekanguva iye otokubvunza kwete kushanyira mhuri yake zvinogona kureva zvinhu zvitatu:
- Haadi/anoda/kupfuma zvakakwana kuti asangane nevabereki vake nevanin'ina vake.
- Akatouya nefarang kumusha kwake kakawanda uye asvika nhamba yepamusoro.
- Ane chikomba chinozikanwawo mumusha umu.
Ndichatsanangura muchidimbu chikonzero chechipiri. Kana mukadzi wechiThai akaunza 'mukomana', fani yemumusha inoita basa rayo. Munhu wose anoziva. Asi pane muganho kune huwandu hwevakomana mukadzi weThai anogona kusuma kumhuri yake. Semuenzaniso, kana anopfuura maviri kana matatu mafarang akatorwa mukati menguva inoti makore maviri, anozonyorwa semukadzi 'akachipa'. Vose vari vaviri iye nemhuri yake ipapo vanotambura kurasikirwa kukuru kwechiso.
Pamwe pacho anombonyepa kuti sei akaunza shamwari dzakawanda mumusha. Anogona kutaura kuti wekutanga akaita rombo rakanaka ndokufa nehurwere kana kuti akafa mutsaona yemumugwagwa. Wechipiri akanga asisina mari uye akanga asiri murume akanaka kwaari kana kuti akazoona kuti akanga atoroora. Asi kuuya nenyaya dzerudzi urwu zvinewo painogumira uye vavakidzani vanozoona kuti ari kuita tuzvikonzero.
Saka kana akambouya neshamwari nhatu dzechinhambwe kumusha kwake, mukuru wemhuri haazodi zvechina. Achaudzwa kuti asauye nefarang zvakare.
Pedzisa hukama
Kana akasakukumbira kuti ubatane nemhuri yake, zvingava nani kugumisa kufambidzana. Sei? Nokuti chimwe chinhu hachina kunaka. Ungashamisika kuti sei mafarang matatu asina kukuitira zvakanaka. Pamwe imari chete kana kuti mukadzi ane vhudzi guru pamazino.
Panogona kunge paine chimwe chikonzero nei achizeza kukubvunza. Vasikana vazhinji kunze Iripo varombo uye vanorarama zvechinyakare. Anogona kunge achinyara nekugara kwakashata kunogara mhuri yake. Kana zviri izvo uye ane vavariro dzakakomba kwauri, anokuudza. Ipapo musimbise uye muzivise kuti hauna hanya uye kuti munhu wose, mupfumi kana murombo, akaenzana.
Chimwe chikonzero chisingafadzi ndechekuti anotova nemukomana uye akauya nazvo kumhuri yake. Bva, ipapo handifaniri kukuudza kuti ukama hwenguva refu naye haisi chisarudzo chokuchenjera.
Ndapota remekedza vabereki vake
Imwe muromo. Vabereki vemukadzi wechiThai vakakosha zvikuru. Gara uine ruremekedzo uye nemusoro mamwe mazwi echiThai akadai sekukwazisa uye "maita basa" muchiThai. Chokwadi pachava nezvokudya paunosvika. Ichi zvakare chiitiko chakakosha chekushamwaridzana. Saka gara uchidya nemhuri, nyangwe usingazvide. Wobva watarisa. Iva nechokwadi chokuti wakapfeka zvakatsvinda uye zvakatsvinda. Gara uchibvisa shangu dzako paunopinda mumba memhuri yake. Remekedza vabereki vake uye chero vanasekuru.
Iva munyoro
Mukadzi wechiThai anotora njodzi kana akuzivisa iwe kumhuri. Kana ukagumisa hukama munguva pfupi yapfuura, zvichava nemigumisiro isingafadzi kwaari. Makuhwa omumusha anotanga. Vanozoti haasi mukadzi akanaka kwauri ndosaka usingadi kumuchengeta. Naizvozvo zvicharamba zvichimuomera kuwana wokuroorana naye akakodzera. Muchidimbu, kurasikirwa nechiso kwaari nemhuri yake.
Kana akakubvunza nezvaIsaan, asi iwe usina serious vavariro naye, iva munyoro. Pasina kumurwadzisa, edza kujekesa kuti unoda kuva nenguva yakanaka naye. Asi kuti hapana hukama hunogona kubuda mazviri. Izvi zvichamudzivirira kuti asapinda mudambudziko nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare. Kana iwe wakatendeseka pamusoro pazvo, nokuti iwe unogona kumuremekedza uye usingadi kukuvadza manzwiro ake, saka iwe uri mukomana akachekwa kubva mumucheka wakarurama.
UNOGONA kuisa sei mumashoko.
Zvikuru.
Iva neruzivo rwakakwana rwemhando yakanaka uye nekugutsikana kuzere kwemunhu wese.
KhunBram.
Anenge makore gumi ekufara kukuru nevadikani vangu muIsaan.
16 years ago musikana wangu akaenda kunondizivisa kuvabereki vake nekuti tinoda kuroorana.
Pandakasvika muKalasin vakafunga kuti ndaibva kune imwe nyika, kunyanya mushure mekushanyira mutambo wemimhanzi mumusha manheru iwayo.
Pasina nguva vakauya vese kuzondimhoresa doro nevana 20 yekugeza.
Nguva yakanaka, ndinofara kuti ndakazviona zvese uye ndakagara muThailand kwemakore gumi.
Vakarambana panguva ino, uye vakapa mapeni akanaka…. (Imba, bhizinesi, mota uye mamwe motobikes.)
Asi zvino nakidzwa nemwedzi miviri muparadhiso gore rega rega.
Kunakirwa kuchiri kuda iwe pachako.
iyi pfupiso ndiyo sezvairi, hapana chekuwedzera!
Yakanyorwa zvakanaka uye kwete kuwedzeredza!
Chidimbu chakanaka. Zvakaitika kwandiri zvakafanana. Dzimwe nyaya dzakadai seizvi, ndapota, kuitira kuti vanogadzira mitemo muNetherlands vawane mufananidzo uri nani wezviyero muThailand uye pamwe ita kuti zvive nyore kupa mukadzi wako mavhiki mashoma pasina chisungo che (kwedu) chinenge chisingagoneke kuwana. Kuti ukwanise kutora vhiza reSchengen kuenda kuNetherlands kunosangana nemhuri yako muNetherlands.
Wadiwa Korat, zvinenge zvisingaiti? mamwe 95-98% yeSchengen visa inotenderwa. KuEmbassy nekuMinistry of Foreign Affairs, vanonyatsozivawo maitirwo ezvinhu kune dzimwe nzvimbo maererano nemirairo, tsika, tsika nezvimwe zvakadaro.
Chinyorwa pachacho chine hunhu kana chiri chekurerutsa. Haisi mhuri dzese dzakafanana uye hongu nguva dzinochinja muThailand. Vangani veThai vanongouya mushure mekupedza zvidzidzo zvavo zvese nemudiwa wekutanga (murume, mukadzi, Thai kana mutorwa)? Izvo ndezvechokwadi nezvekuti iwe hausvike nemudiwa wegumi nenguva pfupi. MuNetherlands, tsiye dzinosimudzawo kana ukauya nemumwe munhu, ndinofunga. MuThailand, iyo bar iri kumwe kumwe, asi haisi imwe nyika. Kungonzwisisa chete, ruremekedzo uye kuziva kuti zvinhu dzimwe nguva zvakati siyanei kune imwe nzvimbo zvichaenda kure.
- https://www.thailandblog.nl/visum-kort-verblijf/afgifte-van-schengenvisums-in-thailand-onder-de-loep-2017/
Iwe unogona zvakare kuverenga izvi nezvimwe zvakawanda mubhuku "Thai Fever", inova shanduro ye "Thai Fever":
https://thailandfever.com/boek_intro.html
Ipfungwa yakanaka kwazvo kuunza pfungwa kune iyi nyaya. Vazhinji pasina mubvunzo vachadzidza zvinhu zvakawanda zvinobatsira kubva pane izvi uye vadzivise kusanzwisisana.
Ini ndine bhuku racho uye ndakatoriverenga nomudzimai wangu.
Ndinoikurudzira kune wese!
Kwaziwai,
Daniel M.
Ndatenda nezano! Ndakabva ndaodha bhuku racho.
Ini nemusikana wangu – tose ane makore 40 okuberekwa – hatisati taroorana mushure mekudanana kwemakore anoda kusvika maviri. Izvozvo zvinoratidzika zvinopesana negumbo rinorwadza rababa vake vanochengeta tsika, avo vangada kutiona tichiroorana. Ndine zvikonzero zvinoverengeka zvekusada kuroora, kusanganisira iyo sinsod, iyo maererano nemumwe wangu inofanira kugamuchidzwa, kanenge nenzira yekufananidzira. Mukuona kwangu kushandiswa kwechinyakare, asi ndini ani.
Parizvino, isu tichangogara "faen" kubva kune mumwe nemumwe. Nemagirazi angu echiDutch handisi kuona kuti nei zvichinetsa.
Zvimwe unofanira kunangana natezvara vako vanochengeta. Kune zvakare basa remusikana wako mune izvi, kana kuti basa rake.
Baba vake vanoda kuti aroorwe (pamberi petemberi) uye kuti iwe umuchengete (mune ruzivo rwake) uye kana kusunda kwauya kuzosunda, unofanirwa kuwana rutsigiro rwemusikana wako.
Zvakare, kana vanatezvara vachida kuona mari zvinobatsirawo kuziva kuti (kana akambova nehukama kare) ndiye wechipiri kana wechitatu ruoko zvakare. Sinsod mutambo uye usazvirega zvichikupengesa nekuti iwe unewo imwe mari yakakosha 😉
Vazhinji vanhu veThai havaroore, hapana mhemberero uye hapana sinsod inobatanidzwa. Ngano dzemuchato hadzina musoro, ona maitiro muThailand. Uye kana mumwe munhu akaroora, mushure mechinguva vazhinji vakawedzera poea kana mia noi. Zvakawanda kune chikamu chakanaka. Usataure nezvewanano dzivisa chero kutaura nezvazvo. Mukuwedzera, Danzig nemumwe wako vatova 40, saka hazvina kukosha kuroora. Ngatitarisei zvakare kukosha kwemusika wemurume akura nekuti anopfuura makumi mana nemukadzi uye wobva watanga hukama muThailand nepo dziva rizere nehove diki. Huya, iwe semurume mukuru haufanirwe kunyorerwa chero chinhu muThailand, kusiyana nemakumi maviri-chimwe chinhu, chimiro uye mukurumbira zvinotaridzawo pesvedzero yako mune izvi uye semudzidzisi mukuru haufanirwe kunyorerwa chero chinhu mune izvi. respect.
Pane chikonzero chimwe chete chekuroora uye kana mumwe wako ari mushandi wehurumende saka mukwanyina ane kodzero yeinishuwarenzi yehutano kubva kumhuri yevashandi vehurumende.
Pachezvayo chidimbu chakanaka, asi nei Isaan ichigara ichitaurwa murugwaro? Iye munyori anofungidzira kuti unosangana nemusikana wako muPattaya? Thailand yakakura!
Pane imwe nguva.
Musikana wangu anobva kuYala uye tese tinoshanda kuNarathiwat. Kumaodzanyemba kweMuslim kune dambudziko hongu, asi kugutsikana kuzere uye kure kure neIsaan.
Kornerio,
Isaan anowanzo kuoneka munyaya nekuti ruzhinji rwevaFarang vanoroora vakadzi vekuIsaan kana kupinda muhukama nemumwe munhu anobva kwaIsaan.
Zvakare, Isaan inzvimbo yakakura.
Mukana wekuti unosangana neThai kubva kuIslam kumaodzanyemba kweThailand mudiki kwazvo.
Iwe zvakare uchaona zvakaoma kuwana vanhu veThai vanobva kuchamhembe kweThailand muNetherlands.
Ini handisati ndasangana navo mumakore makumi mana apfuura uye takave nevazhinji vanozivana, vakashanyira misangano yakawanda yeThai kumba nekune dzimwe nyika.
Ndinofungidzira muNetherlands kuti inenge 70% inobvawo kuIsaan.
Chikonzero nei chinofanira kuve pachena.
Asi havasi vese vanobva kwaIsaan vanoshanda muPattaya zvakare
Verenga Thai Fever, nhoroondo yakasarudzika yezvakavanzika zvetsika dzakasiyana, inova kiyi yehukama hwakanaka.
Ndaifunga kuti bhuku iroro rakanga risingakoshi. Zvakanaka kuziva kuti kune mutsauko pakati penyika, vanhu, mhuri uye zvichingodaro. Uye ndosaka zvichikosha kuti utaure zvaunonzwa nezvaunofunga uye zvinonzwa mumwe wako nezvaanofunga. Kukurukurirana - uye ruremekedzo - ndiyo kiyi yehukama hwakanaka. Kana iwe uchida bhuku rekushandisa kuti utsanangure kuti stereotypical Dutch vanhu vanoita zvishoma nenzira iyi uye stereotypical Thai vanoita zvishoma nenzira iyo (tisingarevi kuti mutsauko pakati pevanhu veDutch neThai unogona kusiyanisa zvakanyanya) zvino zvichave zvakanyanya. basa rakaoma hukama hwakadai.
Wepakati weDutch munhu haatore yake nyowani yekutenga naye mushure memazuva mashoma kuti aizivise kuna amai nababa, asi iyo nguva iripi chaizvo… zvinoenderana nemhando dzese dzezvinhu. Izvo, pane zvese, izvi zvese zvakasiyana zvishoma muThailand, asi nyika yakasiyana zvachose ine imwe nzira yezviitiko? Nah. Kunze kwekunge mhuri yemumwe iri primal conservative uye mumwe wacho anobva kumhuri yakasununguka, yakavhurika kana chimwe chinhu.
Izvi zvichave zvakarurama muchidimbu, asi kana ndikaenzanisa zviitiko zvangu zvakasiyana neizvi, saka hazvina kunyatsojeka.
Chiitiko changu chekutanga. Ndiri kufamba nemukadzi weThai wandinoziva, vese vaigara muNetherlands panguva iyoyo, kuenda kuThailand kuzororo remavhiki maviri. Ini ndaiziva kuti aive muhukama, kwete huru, asi achiri hukama / kugara pamwe chete. Ndakaita semwana wekutamba. Hapana dambudziko kwandiri panguva ino. Ndaive mukomana akasununguka. Pakutanga kwezororo kuvabereki vake. Vakarara vese ikoko ndokuenderera mberi neholiday vese kwemazuva mashoma munzvimbo dzakasiyana siyana. Ini kudzokera kuNetherlands, iye akadzokera kumba (pedyo neUdon Thani so Isaan) kweimwe vhiki. Mhuri iyi yainyatsoziva kuti handisini waaigara naye kuNetherlands. Asi hapana chandakaona chisina kutsanangurwa pano. Ndangova nemazuva akanaka. Kwapera gore rapfuura ndakaona paFacebook kuti aishanyira mhuri nehukama hwake / wechiDutch. Mumashoko ari paFB mapikicha hapana chekunyara kana kutaura zvinorehwa zvinogona kuonekwa. Kwete kubva kwaari, kwete kubva kushamwari dzake dzeFB.
Chiitiko chechipiri. Ndinosangana nomumwe mukadzi muNetherlands (panguva iyoyo chirikadzi uye ane makore 50 okuberekwa). Mushure memisangano ye3 muNetherlands aifanira kudzokera shure nekuda kwekuti mwedzi ye3 yakanga yapfuura (Schengen visa). Pakushanya kwangu kwakatevera kuThailand, vhiki shomanene gare gare, akakokwa kumba kwavabereki vake. Yes with the promise on my part that I meant it seriously and I had the intention to marry her. Uye ndizvo zvakaita. Ndiri kutaura nezvaAugust manje. Ndakabva ndaona sekuti akanyatsosiyana se… .. hongu saani kana chii chaizvo?? Vanhu vakapfava, hupenyu hwenguva dzose, kwete mupfumi asi kwete murombo zvakare. Pakupedzisira ndakanga ndine tariro uye ndakagutsikana. uye takaronga kuchata muThailand pakupera kwegore iroro pamberi paBuddha. Takadaro. (mukuona kumashure chaiko nekukurumidza) Musha mudiki pakati peLampang neChang Rai. Mabiko makuru zvakakomba. Nhamba huru yemamongi (inenge 9 kana ndikarangarira zvakanaka!) Vaenzi vazhinji, kubva kure nekure. Wakabhadhara sinsod yakanaka (funga iwe chirikadzi yemakore makumi mashanu!) uye imwe goridhe. Muchidimbu. Haana kunyara uye kunyara mumaonero angu. Sezvo ndakanga ndiri, uye ndichiri, ndichigara muGermany sechiDutch ....... hapana kana problem yekuti abve atora visa rekugara neni. Tisati taroorana akanga agara neni kuGermany kwe50 weeks kuti tijaire hupenyu hwepano uye zvedi kuti tizivane zviri nani. Gore rekutanga rakafamba zvakanaka asi rechipiri zvese zvaive zvasiyana. Kuti iite pfupi. Muchato wakabva waparara. Zvakatora makore maviri ese. Uye fungidzira kuti dambudziko guru raiva rei? Correct ! Mari. Ndaifanira kuruma bara apa uye maburi aifanira kuvharwa muThailand. Sinsod yakanga yashanduka kuita chikwereti chemakumi maviri neshanu emaeuro nevabereki vake. Dambudziko rinozivikanwa. Kubhejera. Mhosva dzevabereki vake dzairevawo kuti ane mhosva. Handina kufambirana nazvo, ndatenda. PaFacebook ndakaona kuti mushure megore anga atotora mumwe munhu (muGerman ndinofunga nekuti achiri kugara kuGermany) kumusha kwevabereki. Kwete mufananidzo mumwe ……. kwete, zvakare akati wandei emhuri mapikicha naye paFacebook. Saka handifunge kuti pachange pave nekunyara!!
Chiitiko chechitatu. Hongu vamwe havambodzidzi 🙂 ……. Vhiki pamberi pezororo pfupi rakarongwa, akasangana nemukadzi kuburikidza neDate muAsia saiti. Pasina kumbosangana naye, akakokwa kumba kwake. Nzvimbo iri padyo neUthai Thani / Western Thailand, kashoma kuona vashanyi ipapo nekuti hapana chekuona. Pamusoro pe; amai vevanasikana 2 vachiri kuyaruka, baba vevana vavakanga vagara navo kwemakore anoverengeka, vakangotiza rimwe zuva nerimwe. Akandiudza kuti zvakanga zvakaoma pakutanga, asi iye zvino akanga ava kukwanisa kuzvitarisira iye nevana zvakanaka kwazvo. Aiva nebasa risina kutora nguva yakawanda kudaro, motokari yakanaka, imba yakajairika (kwaigarawo amai nehanzvadzi) uye aitaura chirungu chakanaka kwazvo. Ndakagara ikoko kwevhiki. Wakafamba zvakanaka, ... nezvose. Ndakanzwa ndakasununguka zvikuru uye pakave nekudzvanya kwakanaka kwazvo. Pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, pamwe chete naye nevamwe vose vemhuri kuenda kumagungano echechi. Kwete chinhu changu, asi chinonakidza kuona kuti kune zvakare maKristu muThailand uye maitiro avanoita kutenda kwavo. Mhuri huru ine magungano. Nokukurumidza akaratidza kuti ndakanga ndiri kurevesa naye, asi kuti aifanira kuva nechido chokugara muEurope. Ini ndinotaura izvi nekuti aibvunza nguva nenguva kana ndaida kugara zvachose muThailand. Mushure mevhiki iyi yakanaka chaizvo kudzokera kubasa kuGermany. Mushure memwedzi mitanhatu adzokera kumba kwake / zvakare kubva kuna amai vake (baba havachisiri vapenyu) ndokugara ikoko. Anenge masvondo maviri. Nzendo dzemazuva akati wandei pakati. Zvese zvakangofamba zvakanaka uye zvinofadza. Kare muGermany akaedza kumuita kuti auye kuGermany kwenguva yakati aine Visa yeSchengen. Apa ndakashaya shungu paari uye kuda chaiko nguva dzese. Ndosaka ndakaparadzana. Hongu paive nekuchema asi haana kumbopomerwa mhosva yekumupinza munyarikani nemhuri. Uye vadikani vangu veThailand connoisseurs, usauye nenyaya yekuti muThai anochengeta izvozvo kwaari. Ave nemafungiro akajeka uye akatendeseka kwandiri. Akanga akazaruka pamusoro pekusava nechokwadi kwake nezvekutamira kuEurope. Aive zvakare akavhurika mukushoropodza kwake nzanga muThailand uye zvechokwadi nezve Buddhism netembere yese yaiitika kwairi.
Vadiwa vaverengi, ndapota ndinzwisisei zvakanaka.Zvandiri kuda kuratidza neizvi ndezvizvi zvinotevera. Ndinofunga kuti zvandinotsanangura pano zvinogona kunge zvakaitika muNetherlands, Belgium, Germany kana chero imwe nyika muEurope kana kupfuura. Zvese zvakangoitika muThailand. Mukati memakore angangoita 8 apfuura. Saka ndosaka ndichida kuisa chirevo chinopesana nenyaya inotsanangurwa pamusoro apa. Kusangana nevabereki vemusikana wako weThai kazhinji, asi kazhinji kwete, zvinoenda zvinoenderana nehurongwa hwakatsanangurwa pamusoro. Zvese zvinogoneka, chero kupi muThailand. Inotaridzika seyakajairika nyika pamusoro apa 🙂
Yakanaka uye yakatendeseka nyaya, Sjeng, ndatenda nekugovana ruzivo rwako. Saka unoona: Thais haasisina njiva kupfuura isu veEurope.
Kornerio,
Hachisi chokwadi here kuti vagari veThai vanoziva zvigaro nezvinzvimbo uye kuti vanhu pachavo vanoisa huwandu hwevanhu mumabhokisi.
Zvimiro zvehierarchical mukati memhuri uye nhengo dzekambani zvakare dzakasimba kwazvo.
Kunyange kero yezita inoratidza chimiro chebhokisi.
Kunyange Mutauro wacho unosiyana pakati pevanhu vepamusoro nevepasi.
Ndatenda nenyaya yakanaka, sjeng. Ndinogara ndichifara kunzwa zviitiko zvinotsauka kubva kune yakajairwa 'Thai' tsika.
Tino,
Ndinofunga wakasangana nemukadzi wako nekuda kwebasa rako muThailand padanho redzidzo.
Ndakashandawo muBangkok pakati uye nevanodzidza.
Ikokowo, vamwe vedu vechikadzi vechiThai vaifarira Farang somurume.
Mukuita, vazhinji veFarang havasangane nemusikana wavo kubasa muThailand, asi semushanyi kune imwe nyika yezororo panguva yezororo.
Maonero evamwe vanhu vechiDutch nezve "yakajairwa" tsika yeThai anogona saka akasiyana kubva pane zvaunoona se "yakajairwa" tsika yeThai.
Ini ndinofunga zvinoenderana zvakanyanya nemamiriro aunowana maratidziro uye zviitiko.
Ndakasangana nomudzimai wangu wechiThai muNetherlands, pane imwe nzvimbo pakati pemakore ekuma1999. Takaroorana kuNetherlands ndokutamira kuThailand muna 2012 kwakaberekerwa mwanakomana wedu gore iroro. Aibva kumhuri yakareruka, baba vake vaiva sabhuku wemusha. Takarambana muna XNUMX mune zvese pachena uye netsitsi. Ndakawana kodzero yokuchengeta mwanakomana wedu, takatamira pamwe chete kuChiang Mai kwaakapinda chikoro chenyika dzakawanda. Anotaura zvakanaka Thai, Dutch uye Chirungu. Ndichiri nehukama hwakanaka neaimbova wangu nemhuri yake.
Ndakapinda dzidzo yekunze muThailand uye ndine diploma rechikoro cheThai chepuraimari nesekondari. Zvakanaka kuva mukirasi neaya akasiyana Thais, kubva kuvadiki kusvika vakuru. Basa rangu rekuzvipira rakandiendesa kuzvikoro, matemberi nezvipatara. Ini ndakaunzwa kuna Thais kubva kumakirasi ese uye hunyanzvi.
Taigara kuChamhembe kweThailand, Chiang Kham, Phayao. Ndakafamba zvikuru munzvimbo dzamakomo imomo ndokushanyira misha yamamwe marudzi ose iwayo.
Ehe, kune 'yakajairwa Thai tsika' inodzidziswa mumabhuku, zvikoro, temberi uye midhiya. Chokwadi chakasiyana uye chakasiyana zvakanyanya. Iva akazaruka kune marudzi ese emaitiro, iva neushamwari uye neruremekedzo. Ipa maonero ako pachako kana zvakakodzera. Hapana (zvakanaka, hapana) akandipomera izvozvo. Ndaiwanzotaura maonero aipesana kumamongi, nezvevakadzi semuenzaniso. Kana chimwe chinhu chandaishora, ndaitaurawo saizvozvo, asi nenzira younyoro. Ndaisawanzopiwa mhosva nokuda kwaizvozvo, kazhinji vaimboseka nezvazvo. chimwe chinhu chakadai sekuti 'mave nacho zvakare!' Ndakafunga kuti zvaisetsa.
Kuziva mutauro wechiThai zvine mwero kwakandibatsira kakawanda. Ini ndinoona sezvinenge zvakakodzera kuti ndizive Thailand zviri nani. Nehurombo, ruzivo irworwo rwuri kuderera, zvino zvandanga ndichigara muNetherlands kwemakore mana, ndisisaverenge mapepanhau eThai, usatarise terevhizheni yeThai uye kashoma kutaura nemunhu weThai. Mwanakomana wangu anoramba kutaura Thai kwandiri :). Zvinoshamisa, avo Thais. Mirira, iye muDutch zvakare.
Yakasimba uye yakatendeseka nyaya, Sjeng… uye zvirokwazvo hausiwe wega….
'Misiyano yetsika pakati peThailand neMadokero yakakura zvikuru.'
Pandinoverenga nyaya iyi handifungi kuti yakasiyana kubva kuMadokero zvachose. Chii chaizova chakasiana kuMadokero? Vaenzi vangu vanofanirawo kubvisa shangu dzavo. Vana vangu havanawo kuuya neshamwari dzavo dzakawanda kuti vazivise kuna amai nababa.
Zvakanaka, uye ndezve 'vagari vemuIsaan' zvakare. Unoitei nemwanasikana waprofessor?
Handifungi kuti unoda chidzidzo chetsika zvachose munyaya idzi. Tauriranai, zvakwana. Kana ukaita blunder, munhu wese anofanira kuseka uye iwe unokumbira ruregerero. Kutaurwa kwese uku kwe "makuru tsika" misiyano inongoita kuti iwe uome uye uome. Ingogara wakadzikama.
Kekutanga pandakashanyira vatezvara vangu vekuThai zvese zvakafamba mushe. Ndakabva ndangogamuchirwa zvakanaka uye takava nenguva yakanaka zvikuru pamwe chete. Hapana matambudziko akasangana. Ndakafara zvikuru uyezve ndakasununguka. Ndakanga ndaita zvose nemazvo. Asi pandakaonekana, ndakaita chikanganiso chikuru mukufarira kwangu uye kuratidza mutsa kuvabereki vake. Vabereki vake vese ndakavambundira. Ndakafunga ndega, vachanyatsokoshesa izvi. Vabereki vake vega hapana chavakataura ndofunga rwendo rwakafamba zvakanaka. Mukati merwendo rwokudzokera kuBangkok, mudzimai wangu aida kutaura neni pamusoro pechimwe chinhu. Iye akati, pakuonekana kwako waita chimwe chinhu chisingaitwe mutsika yeThai. Haufanire kubata vanhu vakuru, ichi chiratidzo chekusaremekedza kwavari. Ndakarohwa nehana ndikabva ndakumbira ruregerero. Asi rombo rakanaka mudzimai wangu aigona kuseka nazvo uye vatezvara vangu vakanzwisisawo kuti izvi zvinogona kuitika nefarang. Iye zvino ndinopa wai yakanaka nekuonekana kwese. Munhu anodzidza nekuita. Ndinowanzo funga nezvazvo nemufaro.
Neni zvaive neimwe nzira kutenderera, kutanga kusangana naamai uye pandakaedza kuita chimwe chinhu ndinombundirwa. Nyangwe pakuonekana. Kusvika nhasi ndinoita ka short wai ndozombundirana zvakanaka. Ndinofungawo zvakare pamusoro pazvo nemufaro uye ndiyowo nguva yandakaona kuti 'mabhuku ezvetsika aya akanaka, asi mashandire anoita zvinhu mukuita ndechimwewo chinhu, mabhuku iwayo anowedzeredza stereotype yakanaka'.
Mushure mekurasikirwa nerudo rwangu ivo vana mai 'Handisisina mwanasikana asi ini ndiwe uchiri mwana wangu'. Ndichiri kumuona uye tinoramba tichigumbatirana.
yakanaka… kunyanya mutsara wekupedzisira, unobatanidza zvese zvazvino
Nyaya yako inondiyeuchidza kushanyirwa kwevanamuzvinabhizimisi vechiDutch vakaenda kuJapan kunoita bhizimisi.
Vese vaJapan nevaDutch vaiziva nezvemaitiro emumwe nemumwe.
Pakupa zvipo, maJapan akaburitsa zvipo nekuti iyi ndiyo tsika muNetherlands.
VaDutch vakasiya zvipo mukuputirwa, sezvo iyi ndiyo tsika muJapan.
Yakatsanangurwa zvakanaka, asi nekumwe kusachengeteka.
Isaan inongova .NO chikamu cheThailand. Idd ndiyo chikamu chenyika chinobva madzimai mazhinji anopinda nawo muhukama. Asi nditende, zvakafanana uye kunyange dzimwe tsika netsika zvinoshandawo mune mamwe matunhu eThailand. Chero ani anofunga kuti zviri nyore kune vakapfuma zvakanyanya kana mhuri dzine chinzvimbo chepamusoro munzanga zvechokwadi anotofanira kufunga zvakare pfungwa iyi. Kune kwakawanda kufunga uye kufunga ikoko: kunyanya kana zvasvika kune farang.
Chimwe chicherechedzo ndechekuti nguva iri kufambawo ipapo uye, kunyanya mumaguta, vanhu vari kutotarisa kusangana kwakadai neimwe nzira 'yakazorora'. Saka dzvinyiriro inogona kudzikira zvishoma kune wese munhu. Izvo hazvireve kuti vanhu vanokoshesa kushoma kwairi uye havatarise kuti ndeipi nyama / chimiro / mari iri mubhabhu". Asi mazuva mashoma anotevera vanodzokera kune kurongeka kwezuva nzira yeThai….
Hongu izvi zvakare nezvehukama hwepabonde, zvimwe zvese zvinogoneka hazvitariswe asi zvine tsika dzakafanana.