Zvakanyanya kunaka kutaura chokwadi…. Aihwa!
Mukupindura kuBlog zvinyorwa "Kutama Kwewanano", Paul Schiphol anotiudza nenyaya yake kuti akasangana sei nemurume wake, uye kuti muchato wakauya sei muNetherlands mushure memakore mazhinji. Neizvi anoda kuita mutsauko uye wakanaka ruzha rwakanzwika, pane nyaya dzinogara dzichitaurirwa kuburikidza neBlog ino pamusoro pekusangana kushoma.
NdiNdira 2001, sezvazvinowanzoitika, paJomtien Beach pakanga paine flyer, bepa reA5 rairatidza muchiRungu chakamonyoroka kuti bato "chena" raipihwa manheru iwayo. Yakazove hotera/resitorendi isisipo padivi pemugwagwa unobatanidza pakati peJomtien nePattaya. Nekuda kuziva uye kudawo kudya kumwe kwakasiyana, ndakaenda kuresitorendi yaitaurwa nezvayo manheru iwayo.
Bhendi rairidza kumucheto kwedziva uye chakandishamisa ndechekuti pakanga pasina buffet, asi sevhisi yela carte. Yaive nzvimbo yakabatikana uye yainakidza, pasina nguva ndakaona mumwe wevaimirira mhiri kwedziva, asina kunetsa nekuti aive akamira nekuti aive murume akareba zvisingaite maererano ne Thai standard. Chiso chakashata chine vhudzi pfupi, muchidimbu, mhando yandinoda. Asi hongu, zvisingasviki maziso angu ne "muvakidzani" wake kune rumwe rutivi rwedziva. Bato rakanga risiri iro randinofungidzira kuti ringave pati, saka mushure mekudya chikafu chakanakisa, ndaida kugadzikana kutizira muPattaya Boys-dhorobha. Zvisinei, zvino zvisingafungidziriki zvakaitika.
Waiter akandiunzira bhiri akauyawo nemubvunzo; “shamwari yangu inoda kutaura newe, ingadaro?” Achindibvunza kudaro, akanongedza kwaiva naweta murefu, uyo akabva atarisa kwataiva achiratidza kufarira. Maiwe, chii chiri kuitika pano? Ndakati hangu ndokubhadhara mari yangu, waiter wangu akabva aita zvekuratidza ruoko ndichibva ndafamba ndichienda kunobuda, mudhara murefu aiva kune rimwe divi redziva akabva aenda nedivi rimwe chete. Takakurukura kwenguva pfupi uye takabvumirana kusangana zvakanaka mushure memaawa ake ekushanda na02: 00 mangwanani, mubhawa risisavepo.
Pasina zvakawanda zvandaitarisira padivi pangu, zvechokwadi akapinda mubhawa panguva yavakanga vabvumirana, achangobva kugeza ndokuchinja. Kwakaedza tisati tafunga kuenda kuhotera kwangu tose. Zvinosuruvarisa, ndakanga ndangosara nemazuva mashomanana ezororo rangu, iro taigara tichipedza pamwe chete mushure memaawa ake ekushanda.
Aiwa, kubhadhara "barfine" kuti mupedze nguva yakawanda muri pamwe chete, zvinoshamisa, kwete pamenyu yeresitorendi iyi.
Takakwanisa kuramba tichionana neposvo uye pazororo rangu rakatevera akakwanisa kuwana svondo rekuzorora, iro ratakapedza muna 2002 paKoh Samui, iyo yakanga yakanyarara zvakanyanya. Kunyange zvakadaro, nokuda kwenyaya yakareba, nezvimwewo. Takaonana gore negore uye akauya kuNetherlands kane kwemwedzi ye3. Maitiro ekubatanidza akabva atanga uye akagara neni muNetherlands kubvira 2008 uye takachata muna 2010. Iye zvino ave nebasa rakanaka muindasitiri yemaruva yeAalsmeer kwemakore.
Imba yekareSei nyaya iyi? Ndinogara ndichinzwa nyaya dzevarume vanodzoka kubva kuThailand vachiratidza rudo rwakadzama.Vanowanzodzoka mukati megore vobva vaita zvibvumirano zvine mibairo inosvika kure. Kazhinji mugumisiro wacho kurambana kunoodza mwoyo uye kunodhura pashure penguva pfupi.
Tisingambotauri kuti isu tine toga pachokwadi nerwendo rwedu rurefu, asi kuburikidza nekuzivana kwangu, uye kushanya kunoverengeka, kumhuri yake muIsaan uye iye aine yangu muNetherlands, mufananidzo wezvinobvira uyewo zvisingabviri unokura zvakadzikama.
Tarisiro dzisiri dzechokwadi dzinodziviswa zvikuru neiyi nzira yakadzikama. Tarisiro dzake dzemari uye yangu (zvino yedu) sarudzo dzokutsigira mhuri dzakakurukurwawo zvakakwana.
Thailand haina mutemo wemagariro sezvatinawo kuNetherlands, uko mhuri ichiri mambure ekuchengetedza. Kunyanya kuIsaan, uko varimi vemupunga vasinganyatso kuwana mukana wekuchengeta mari yekuchengeta vachembera, ndiko kune vana vari penjeni yavo. Naizvozvo isu tinopa mhuri mari yakatarwa yemwedzi wega wega uye hatimbofa takasangana nenyati dzinorwara, matirakita akatyoka, kana hama dzakapinzwa nekukurumidza nehosha dzinotyisa. Shamwari yangu inodana iyi "muhoro" wavo, kungofanana nemuhoro chaiwo, iyi imari yakatarwa isingawedzere kana njodzi dzikaitika.
Imba itsvaVamwene vangu vanotoita zve accountant, vanobata poto vachiisa mareserve padivi. Mukuwedzera, imba yacho inogadziridzwa zvakare gore negore. Kutanga, matanda emapuranga ayo anomira pairi akatsiviwa nekongiri mbiru, iyo yakasimudzawo pakarepo imba. Gore rakatevera racho denga idzva rakaiswa paimba yacho.
Rimwe gore gare gare, uriri hwejecha pauriri hwepasi hwakatsiviwa nouriri hwakatsvinda, hwakati chechetere hwekongiri uye mawedzero akaitwa. Kwapera gore, iyo yekare hafu-yakaora madziro emapuranga e1e pasi rakatsiviwa nemhando yemapuranga ekugadzira asingachinji mamiriro ekunze (Trespa?) ane mafuremu emahwindo. Magetsi akagadziridzwa zvakare uye njodzi ine njodzi yekuregedzera, looped tambo dzekuwedzera yakatsiviwa neiyo yakasimba uye yakaiswa nehunyanzvi yekumisikidza imba.
Muchidimbu, gore negore ndinotarisa nokushamiswa uye noruremekedzo pakuvandudzwa kwakaitwa imba.
Pane nyaya dzakawanda pabhurogi dzine zviitiko zvisingafadzi, saka ndaida kupa mamwe maonero. Muchidimbu, haisi nguva dzose yakashata uye yakasvibira nemumwe wekuThai kana mhuri yavo.
PAUL nemurume wake weThai (haana kuwana zita)
Nyaya inondifadza zvikuru! Ndatenda nazvo!
Ndiri kufunga kuunza OBADE kune vamwe vakawanda, vanhu vanofarawo, varume nevakadzi vane hukama hwenguva refu, kuburikidza neblog rino.
Nokuvapa mukana wokuita kuti vamwe vaverenge kuti kune divi rakanaka kumari yacho! Nokuti ukama hwevose varume nevakadzi hunowanzoonekwa nenzira isiri iyo. Ndava kuziva zviri nani iye zvino uye handisi ndega!
Ini ndinongo "kutya" kuti marudzi ese ehure, uye ingwe dzemabhawa dzakanyengerwa muhukama uye dzimwe nguva dzakabirwa, vanoedza kuwana nzira yavo nekupopota uye kupopota, kazhinji vachiuya kuThailand kwenguva pfupi kuti vanwe zvinwiwa, zvinodhaka uye. sex. Ah zvakanaka, vachiri nemifananidzo.
So;
Iwe uri murume wechiDutch uye unofarira varume veThai uye une hukama hurefu, pindura!
Iwe uri mukadzi wechiDutch uye unofarira vakadzi vechiThai uye une hukama hurefu, pindura!
Iwe uri murume wechiDutch uye unofarira vakadzi vechiThai uye une hukama hurefu, pindura!
Iwe uri mukadzi wechiDutch uye unofarira varume veThai uye uri muhukama hurefu, pindura!
Ndiri kungotya kuti marudzi ese e "mhombwe" anogara achibhururuka kubva kuNetherlands, asiwo avo vanobiridzirwa muhukama uye dzimwe nguva vanobirwa "pub uye bar tiger" vanowanzouya kuThailand kuzonwa DRINK, DRUGS nezvimwe zvakawanda. KUSVIRA, kuchaita zvakaipa, asi oh zvakanaka, varume ivavo vane rombo rakanaka kwavari mapikicha achiripo.X1
Ngationei kana chimwe chinhu chichigona kurongwa nevapepeti kuti vabvise maitiro andakataura nezvawo, uye zvechokwadi maitiro emangwana kubva kune akataurwa pasi peX1!
Chinyorwa changu chichanzi, “Haiwa, vachine mapikicha, asi tichiri kufara norudo rwedu!
Ndinovimba kunyora kuti svondo rino, ndakabatikana chaizvo nekufamba kwedu!
Kwaziwai YUUNDAI
Kutarisira chinyorwa chako Yuundai!
Uye ndinokutendai Pauro, nekuda kwenhoroondo yako yechokwadi yekuti zvinhu zvinogona sei kufamba zvakanaka muhukama hweThai-farang!
Kungofanana newe, aive nehukama nemukomana wechiThai kubva kuIsaan kwemakore gumi nemashanu. Huya kuzogara muBelgium, etc. Uyezve, zviitiko zvakada kufanana. Chokwadi imba yedu yaivewo nemuchinjikwa wayo uye Buddha! Nyora 'zvaive':
September anotevera achange ari 2 makore kuti murume wangu akafa, kutendeuka 39 (kenza).
Uye magumo anogona kuve asina tsitsi, ndanga ndichirwa nechirwere chimwe chete kubva pakutanga kwegore rino.
Saka kudzikiswa kwemari yangu pablog, pasi pepseudonym se siginicha...
Eya, Paul naYuundai, uye rambai muchinyora nokutumira!
David Diamond
David, ndatenda. Runyararo rwangu rwechokwadi uye simba rakawanda kwamuri mukurwisa kwenyu chirwere ichi chisina tsitsi. Zvechokwadi, ndicharamba ndichipa nguva nenguva. Ndinoshuva kuti iwe uchiri kukwanisa kuita nzendo shoma kuenda kuThailand.
Kwaziwai, Pauro
Nezuro ndakaroorwa naPui for exactly 17 years. Asi zuva redu rekurangarira ndiMay 19 nekuti tanga tiri pamwe chete kubva May 19, 1992, zuva rakasvika Pui muNetherlands. Makore 23 anowira muchikamu chenguva refu, handiti? Tichifunga nezvemazera edu (ini 49, Pui 52) tinovimba tine nguva imwechete pamberi pedu. Uye nerombo rakanaka isu tichine mafoto ...
Yuunda, ndinokutendai zvikuru nemhinduro yako yekutendera. Asi kuisa zvinhu mugwara, hapana chakashata nenyaya yekuti kune vagadziri vezororo vanoenda kuThailand nedzimwe nyika dzeAsia kune Zvinwiwa uye / kana Bonde. Inounza mari muhupfumi, inogutsa zvavanoda uye inopa mikana kune avo, chero chikonzero, vanoshuva kuwana raramo muindasitiri iyi.
Chinhu chimwe chete chavanogona kupomerwa ndechekuti zvibvumirano zvinogadzirwa nekusaziva. Muchikamu chakataurwa, zvakawanda zvinovimbiswa uye zvishoma zvinounzwa, vese farang neThai vanowanzonyengedzwa pano kana zvasvika pakutendeseka kwemanzwiro.
Ndokusaka, tora nguva yekunyatsozivana, iva akatendeseka, kwete kune mumwe munhu chete asi kutanga uye zvakanyanya kwauri. Unodei, unotarisirei, izvi zvinoenda pasina kutaura. Kana iwe uri butterfly uyo anofarira kugara achidya pane imwe ruva, USAITA kupinda muhukama husingagumi, mukana wekuti izvi zvicharamba zvichigutsa kwemakore ndeye utopia.
Kwaziwai, Paul Schiphol
Hapana muchato wengochani wakanyoreswa muNetherlands.
Kuroorana kwehurumende nguva dzose kunozarurirwa kune 2 vanhu vepabonde rimwe chete.
Pasina shanduko, kodzero dzakafanana uye zvinosungirwa.
Ndakaroora murume wangu weThai kwemakore akati wandei.
kune mubatanidzwa wakanyoreswa kunze kweroorano; kune vese vakananga nengochani.
Paul, ndakasangana nemukomana anobva kuIsarn anopfuura makore gumi apfuura. Aiita 10 small restaurants kwandaidya nguva dzose. Takabva tatanga kutaura zvakawanda tichizivana. Ndokuzama kutanga hukama. Kutaura chokwadi, izvi zvakaitika kuburikidza nekuedza uye kukanganisa. Kunyanya nekuti ivo havanzwisise mumwe nemumwe (ini handigone kugona Thai nemutauro uye anotaura Chirungu chakaganhurwa). Tairemekedzana uye ndizvo zvakaita kuti zvinhu zvifambe zvakanaka. Takachata kuNetherlands muna 2. Kunyange zvazvo akanga asingadi kuenda kuNetherlands, ndakanga ndichiri kumumanikidza kuti auye kuno nokuti akaonekwa kuti ane dementia makore mashanu apfuura (iye zvino ava nemakore 2007 uye sezvatinoziva, patova nevana vemakore anenge 5. vakura vanoita izvi). kuva) . Ndakanzwa kuti ndaifanira kutora mutoro mune izvi uye kwete - chaizvo - kutiza kubva pazviri. Kutanga kwakanga kwakaoma zvikuru nemhaka yokuti maKristu anonyanyisa muHoogeveen akamupfigira ndokumutambudza kakawanda (uchatakwa namabwe kusvikira kufa; Revhitiko). Kuburikidza nekuyananisa tave neimwe imba mune imwe nzvimbo. Uye zvino zvinhu zviri kufamba zvakanaka zvakare (ndizvo zvakanga zvakadaro asati auya kuNetherlands, asi handina kukwanisa kugara ikoko naye nguva dzose). Isu zvino tinofamba tichidzoka nekudzoka pazvinokodzera isu uye anofara zvikuru (zvakare muNetherlands). Anowirirana zvikuru nevavakidzani uye akura 36 kg pachake. Zvakanyanya mumaonero angu akazvininipisa, asi haana basa nazvo; saizvozvowo. Ehe, hakusi kuparara uye kusuruvara kwese kwese. Kunze kwekushandisa mari yakawanda kuchengetedza amai vake vaida kamuri yedialysis isina utachiona, iye kana mhuri yake havana kumbondikumbira mari. Izvozvo zvakasiyanawo nezvandinoverenga kakawanda. Nehurombo, amai vake vakafa - mushure menguva inopfuura gore - uye iye nehanzvadzi yake vava nemba ipapo. Kusvika pakuti .
!8 Aug. Tave nemakore mapfumbamwe takaroorana, kuNetherlands hongu uye kunyanya gore rapfuura 9/1 ndakatarisa murume wangu wandinoda, wekuIsaan, neruremekedzo uye nerudo. kudonha kunotyisa pakupera kwaKurume.
Sezvineiwo, ndichiri kufanira kutsamira pawiricheya, asi nokuda kwetarisiro yorudo, handigoni kuzvipfekedza ndimene, uye handigoni kugeza, asi murume wangu ari kufambira mberi zvishomanene.
Kuti ndive neni maawa makumi maviri nemana pazuva, akavhara massage yake yakabudirira uye runako salon, ndinovimba kuti ndapora kusvika padanho rekuti ndinogona kuita zvese ndakazvimirira zvakare uye murume wangu anogona zvakare kudzokera kubhizinesi rake akazvimirira.
Zvakanga zvakanaka kwatiri tose kuti kune varume vakawanda vakaroorana vanoenda uye vanoratidza rudo rwavo kune mumwe nemumwe mukuita.
Ndichakuzivisa iwe kuburikidza neblog kana zvese zvanaka zvakare.
Gerard
Ndatenda nekugovera nyaya yako yakanaka Paul! Handioni zvichishamisa zvachose kuti kana vanhu vaviri vakapinda muukama nemoyo nepfungwa, kazhinji inokura zvakanaka, uye kuti hukama nevatezvara hwakanaka uye hunofadza. Uye zvakanaka kuti munhu wese anogona kuroora muno muNetherlands. Ini nemukadzi wangu tinovimba kuti Thailand icharongawo izvi. Pakupedzisira, ndinoshuvira vaverengi vese rudo uye mufaro.