Tsamba dzinobva kumurume akafirwa (2)
Mukurangarira mudzimai wangu wandinoda ndinonyora pasi mamwe anecdotes akanaka, anokosha kana anonakidza. Mali aive mukadzi akanaka uye tese takasangana nezvinhu zvakawanda zvinonakidza kana zvinoshamisa. Pazasi pane zvimwe zvezviitiko izvo zvandinogona kutarisa kumashure ndichinyemwerera.
Unogona kuverenga chikamu 1 pano: www.thailandblog.nl/column/letters-van-een-weduwnaar/
Zizi reusiku
Yakanga iri 2011, Mali ichiri kugara muThailand uye isu taigara tichitaura ne Skype. Dzimwe nguva tinoita kuti nharembozha yemumwe wedu ichirira kwenguva pfupi kuti mumwe azive kuti wanga uri online. Humwe husiku ndakazopeputswa nerunhare. Pasinei nenguva isingaite ndakabatidza komputa yangu kuSkype, chii chingave chiri kuitika kundimutsa pakati pehusiku? Ndakavhura Skype, kune rimwe divi kwaiva naMali uyo airatidza kuti akanga atokanganwa nezvekusiyana kwenguva. Vakakumbira ruregerero vakanditi ndidzokere kunorara. Izvozvo zvaiita sezvisinganzwisisike kwandiri, nokuti ndakanga ndatomutswa uye takataura kweimwe awa.
Hudei vamwene
Mali akandiudza mwedzi mishoma yapfuura mawaniro aakaita amai vangu apo Mali akanga achangosvika kuNetherlands. Amai vangu vakauya kuzotiona vakatanga kudeedzera kuti 'Mhungu, beche'. Irwo rudzi rwemutauro wakashata, izvo hazvigoneke, Mali akafunga. Pave paya ndipo pakazodonha kamari kaive kayedza kuti katsi yedu ionekwe.
Dhiraivha kunge Thai
Mumwedzi mitanhatu yekutanga, mutorwa angave achiri kutyaira motokari muNetherlands. Zvaiva zvakanakisa nekuti ipapo ndaisafanira kutyaira nguva dzese. Kutyaira muchiDutch traffic kwakafamba zvakanaka muMali. Kusvika rimwe zuva kwakanyarara takaenda kwababa vangu. Migwagwa yakanga yoda kusara isina vanhu, kwete motokari yaionekwa pamharadzano huru yekupedzisira. Isu takanga tasarudzwa kuti titendeuke kuruboshwe, mwenje wakashanduka girini uye kamwe kamwe Mali yakatyaira yakapotsa yasara ichitenderedza traffic chitsuwa. "RUDHO, KWA, KWA!" Ndakadanidzira. Neraki, hapana traffic yaiuya, kunyangwe icho chiri chaicho chikonzero chaaive ari pa autopilot. Zvakanaka, zvinogona kuitika kana iwe wakajaira kutyaira kune rimwe divi remugwagwa.
Thai khi nok
Sezvineiwo, Mali yakanga isina buri muruoko rwake, asi kazhinji aikwanisa kutenga (zvinodhura) kutenga ega. Dzimwe nguva airatidza zvaaida kuzvitengera, ini kana isu tose. Dzimwe nguva ndaitaura kuti ndaisafunga kuti kwaiva kutenga kwokuchenjera uye kuti chigadzirwa chacho chaisazotibatsira zvishoma. Kazhinji ndaitaura chokwadi, uye nokukurumidza chigadzirwa chacho chakaguma kuseri kwekabhati. Hongu ndakasiya Mali achiita zvaaida uye aisafanira kupembedza kutenga kwake, asi aiwanzoratidza kuti aida kutenga.
Rimwe zuva yakanga iri nguva iyoyo zvakare, Mali akanga aona chimwe chinhu chakanaka, chidimbu chezvishongo zvandinofunga, ndokundiratidza. Ndakamubvunza kana aiida uye aizoishandisa chaizvoizvo. Mali akambofunga ndokuzondiudza kuti haaizotenga. Ndakamuudza kuti 'kana uchiifarira, tenga'. Ndakaudzwa zvakasimba kuti 'kwete'. Ndakatizve kana chishongo ichi chaimufadza ngaachitenge. Mali akaita kakutsamwa akati haachadi kuitenga. 'Kuregererei?' ndakabvunza. Nekunyemwerera kukuru akapindura 'Thai khi nok*, kuchengetedza mari kuri nani. Ndakangwara'. Zvemari handina kumbozvidya moyo kuti Mali aizoita mashura nemari yedu. Ini ndinoverenga nyaya dzakadai sehomwe yemari yemumwe wako wekuThai kana kuchengetedza account yako yekubhangi sezvinowanzoita vamwe vekuDutch vachishamisika.
* Khi nok > madonhwe eshiri, anonyima(zvakasikwa). Inowanzoshandiswa kureva farang (mhino chena): 'Farang khi nok'.
Kutamba mukicheni
Dzimwe nguva zvakaitika kuti zvakasara zvakasiiwa kana zvigadzirwa zvakakanganwika. Dzimwe nguva ndaivhura mufiriji ndokumbira Mali kuti tisatombopedza chimwe chinhu. 'Hungu, mangwana' yaiwanzova mhinduro. Asi kunyange ipapo zvinhu dzimwe nguva zvaikanganwika kana kuti hatina kunzwa tichida kudya chigadzirwa ichocho. Kana taizorasa chikafu, dzimwe nguva ndaiti ndanyeverwa nazvo uye zvaitonyadzisa. Dzimwe nguva ndaiseka kuti Mali anofanira kunge aida kurasa zvinhu. Mali aisada kuzvinzwa zvekuti chero aiburitsa chinhu mufiriji aingonditi ndinyarare nekaso kasingade. Ndakabva ndabudisa chigadzirwa mufiriji, ndichinyemwerera zvikuru uye ndikaita kakutamba. Mali akabva adzokorodza nenzwi riripamusoro kuti ndisataure chinhu. Ndakati 'handina chandinotaura' ndokubva ndatamba ndichifara uye ndikafamba zvine mutsindo ndakananga kugaba ndichiimba 'handitauri chinhu, ndinoda… jajaja… hapana chandinotaura, ndinoda, hongu, lalala'. Zveshuwa Mali airatidza kuti mumusoro mangu makanga ndisiri right, takabva taseka tose.
Anofanira kunge aiva musikana akanaka chaizvo.
Zvinogara zvisiri izvo zvinotanga kuenda.
Zvekare, manyaradzo angu akadzama paunenge uchigadzirisa kurasikirwa kunotyisa uku.
Aingova mukadzi akanaka akazara nemufaro, mufaro uye positivity. Chimwe chinhu chakandivhenekawo uye chakaita kuti ndive munhu ari nani.
Nekuda kwekukwana, chinongedzo kune chikamu 1 (iyo plugin inogadzira otomatiki hukama yakundikana kana ikozvino yakaremara):
https://www.thailandblog.nl/column/brieven-van-een-weduwnaar/
Wadiwa Rob,
Rombo rakanaka, edza kubatirira kundangariro dzakanaka dzawaive nadzo neMali!
Havambogoni kukutorera izvozvo!
Bart.
Zviitiko izvi zvakanaka, zvinozivikanwa, zvine zizi rousiku, kutyaira kunge Dutchman muThailand, ndinopota ndichibata bendekete rangu rekuruboshwe mumotokari, dzimwe nguva ndinobatidza wiper pawindscreen pandinoda kupa gwara, pane imwe nguva isina kuchengetedzwa anenge achida kutora roundabout nenzira isiri iyo, mudzimai wangu anofarira kutenga hembe dzangu nguva nenguva kuti atenge zvipfeko zvake pamusika, pamusika anodhura zvakanyanya pamusika. , zvakachipa ipapo, kana iwe mukadzi uchifunga, iwe wakanaka, hapana mari inorova, ini handichatambi ndichikunda mukicheni zvakare, ndinosiya zvese mufiriji hombe yandisingashandise ini, zvimwe zvese zviri mumaoko emukadzi wangu, asi chinyararire, zvishoma zvinoenda. Ndiko kuita kwaunoita, kutamba kwakanaka, kwakanaka peuhuh, wobva waseka, idzo ndangariro dzakanaka.
Zvikuru, batirira kwavari, ndinovimba zvinoisa kunyemwerera zvishoma pachiso chako kare.
Huya nemaanecdotes iwayo, akanaka kunzwa.
NicoB
Ndinoona zvichisetsa kuti mamiriro akafanana anogona kungoitikawo nevanhu vaviri vanobva kumusha mumwechete muNetherlands. Ehe, izwi rekuti 'kuenzaniswa' rinofanira kutorwa zvakanyanya nenhau ye "pussy, pussy", asi pamwe ruzhinji rwemafiriji echiDutch azere ne "inedible inosara". Kunyangwe kukanganwa musiyano wenguva kunoitika kune vazhinji vari parwendo rurefu rwebhizinesi uye vanoda kunzwa nhau dzichangoburwa kubva kumba.
Parizvino, maDutch dzimwe nguva, asi kazhinji zvisina kufanira, vanoda kusimbisa 'zvakasiyana sei' uye 'zvakasiyana sei' tsika yavo yekuzvarwa. Idzi nyaya naRob V. dzinoita kuti iwe uone kuti hazvina kunyanyoshata neiyo 'kusiyana uye yakasarudzika'. Mushure mezvose, nyaya dzake ndedzevanhu vaviri vanobva kumarudzi maviri akasiyana zvachose uye kunyangwe iwo musiyano mukuru wetsika, pane kuzivikanwa ikoko. Ndinofunga kuti zvakanaka kukwanisa kuona izvi uye ndinotenda Rob V. nekuita kuti izvi zviitike nekunyora nezvehupenyu hwake neMali. Ndatenda!
bvuma chose Taitai. Tsika ingori muto mutete pamusoro pechidimbu chehunhu hwemunhu. Tingave takabva kunyika netsika zvakasiyana zvachose, asi izvozvo hazvina kumbova chipingamupinyi kana kuti manyuko enyongano kana kuti kusanzwisisana. Sevanhu taingove machisi makuru, vanhu vaviri vaiwirirana zvakanyanya nerudo nekuremekedzana. Ndinofunga kuti "ndiyo tsika yavo" yakawedzeredzwa. Ini handisi kuona chero chinhu chinobatsira mubhuku rekuita nevanhu veThai, nekuti kuzivikanwa muhunhu hweumwe neumwe ndiko kwakanyanya kukosha. Ikozvino ndine nzvimbo yakapfava yevakadzi vekuAsia neAsia, asi Mali yaigona kunge iri munhu anobva kumusha kwangu. Taingove vanhu vaviri vaidanana chaizvo uye taingoita chero chinhu kuti tive pamwe chete.