Bonde nekushaya kuwirirana

Thailand zvakare hainyari kubva pamisoro yakaita sekubata chibharo uye kubata chibharo. Sezvineiwo, kazhinji zvinongogumira pakutumidza munhu anenge abatwa nezita uye surname uye aine kana asina mufananidzo.

Pamusoro pezvo, chibharo chiitiko chinodzokororwa muLakorns, dhirama inotevedzana umo murume akabata chibharo mukadzi wechidiki, nyakubatwa chibharo obva auya osunga pfundo nemubati wake chibharo. Kusiyana nemutemo wekubatwa chibharo -khòm khǔun (ข่มขืน)-, maitiro aya anozivikanwa se'plâm' (ปล้ำ), 'kurwa'. Panotaurwa nezve 'kurwa' kana murume akarara nemukadzi pasina kubvumirana asi zvozotora moyo wake kana kubvuma. Ndiwo maonero evarume vanoona vakadzi sematoyi ezvepabonde: zvinotumira shoko rokuti zvakanaka kuvabata chibharo, kuti vakadzi vanozvishuvira pachivande, kuti vanzwe zviri nani nezvazvo pashure penguva yakati.

Asi nyaya dzevanyajambwa chaivo dzinowanzogara dziri kunze kwemufananidzo. Aya ndiwo mafambiro aMe-zvakare akatenderera pasirese, asi muThailand pakanga pasina kana mukurumbira wakagovana nyaya yake, uye huwandu hwekupomerwa kwevanhu kune vakakurumbira hwakaramba hushoma. Nyaya dzekubatwa chibharo nekubatwa chibharo dzaiwanzoramba dziri muboka ravo vamene.

Sei vanhu vakanyarara? Kazhinji, vanobatwa vanobatwa (chikamu) vane mhosva yezvakaitika kwavari. Nharo dzinonyatsozivikanwa dzokuti vakanyengedza varume vacho, vakanga vasina kupfeka zvine mwero zvakakwana, kuti havana kuramba zvakakwana kana kuti kushevedzera kuti vabatsirwe kana kuti vakanonoka kuuya nenyaya yavo. Izvi zvinoita kuti vanhukadzi vasataure nyaya dzavo.

Sekureva kwa purofesa uye muratidziri Chanettee Tinnam, pfungwa ye 'kubvumirana' haizivikanwe kune vazhinji Thais. "Varume vanofunga kuti kubvumirana kana mukadzi asingatauri chinhu, uye vakadzi vachiri kudziviswa kubva kune zvakananga kana zvasvika kune zvepabonde." Hunhu hwedzidzo yebonde muzvikoro zveThai haina mwero nekuda kwekusagadzikana kwevanhu. Pfungwa yemvumo yakatonyanya kutaurwa nezvayo, kunyanya kuhafu yevanhu vanogara vachiodzwa mwoyo kutaura pachena nezvebonde. Vakadzi vanodzidziswa kunyarara uye kusataura nezvebonde, uye varume havadzidziswe kubvunza mibvunzo.

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Asi mumwe muratidziri akawana chikuva pamhepo kugadzirisa kukosha kwemvumo. Kubva paFacebook peji Thaiconsent yakauya online munaJune 15, 2017, yakatowana vanopfuura zviuru makumi mana nevaviri vateveri. "Ndakagadzira peji ino nekuti ndakatsamwa," anodaro muimbi ane makore makumi maviri nematanhatu uye muratidziri Wipaphan Wongsawang. 'Ndinoda kuparadza honzeri yedambudziko iri. Isu tinonangana nekutsanangura kuti kubvumidza chii kuti vasashungurudza vamwe. Uye tinoita kuti vanhu vakashungurudzwa vazive kuti haisi mhosva yavo. "

Anotaura nezvezvaakasangana nazvo, kudhakwa kwaakanga aita uye mumwe mudzidzi akamudzosera mumba make asi akamubvisa mbatya ndokuedza kurara naye. 'Patakamuka mangwanani akaita sepasina chaitika. Zvaivhiringidza. Handina kutsamwa, asi ndaida kuziva kana aigona kutaura nezvazvo neni, asi zvakanga zvisina kudaro. Mumakore ake ekukoreji, akabatsirawo mumwe waaidzidza naye aiva neshamwari yake yepamwoyo yakanga yaedza kumubata chibharo ndokumutora mifananidzo muchivande ari mushower. Waaidzidza naye haana kuwana tsigiro kubva kumhuri yake kana kuti kuyunivhesiti, uye mapurisa haanawo chaaigona kuvaitira. Pasina humbowo hwepanyama, pakanga pasina kubatwa chibharo kana kuyedza kubatwa chibharo uye mifananidzo yaive pafoni yake yakanga yadzimwa.

Zvakashamisa Wipaphan kuziva kuti vangani vakadzi vakanga vasangana nezvinhu zvakadai. Nyaya dzaisanyanya kushambadzwa. Asi nerubatsiro rwepeji ye Facebook, nyaya dzakawanda dzakapinda, mazana maviri kusvika mazana matatu pamwedzi. Inzvimbo iyo vanowirwa nenjodzi vanotaura nyaya dzavo vasingazivikanwe uye uko vanhu vanogona kugovana ruzivo kune mumwe nemumwe. Chimwe chinhu chisingawanzo kukurukurwa muThailand.

Kusandura mhepo nenyaya dzinorwadza moyo

Chimwe chakadaro ndeichi: 'Akakumbira kusangana neni pahotera. Ndinonzwisisa kuti vamwe vanhu vari kutonditonga panguva ino, kuti hakuna mukadzi ane tsika anoshanyira mumwe munhu mukamuri. Kungoti ndiri mukamuri naye hazvirevi kuti ndine “mufaro” kana kuti “zvakanaka” pazvinhu zvose. Mhinduro yangu kuchikumbiro chake chokurara naye yakaramba iri “kwete,” uye ndaivimba naye. Ndakadavira vimbiso yaakandipa, asi ndakaona kuti ndakanga ndisina kururama, ndisina kururama kumuvimba.” Anoenderera mberi achiti: 'Unogona kuti ndaiva benzi, asi zvakanga zvisiri nyore, kuti kana zvaitika ndingadai ndakangozviramba. Asi pfungwa dzangu dzakavharika, hapana chandaigona kufunga. Pandakaona zvaiitika it was already far too late. Zvakasiya buri pamoyo pangu. Gomba dema rakakura zvishoma nezvishoma ndokundidya nechomukati, richindisiya ndiri mhango kana zvichienzaniswa nekare.

Nyaya dzinoshungurudza idzi dzine shoko rinoda kutaurwa naWipapan: kuti mafungiro evanhu panguva yebonde haafanire kufuratirwa. Anotenda kuti kana vanhu vakakwana vakadzidza nezveizvi, mhepo inogona kuchinjwa. "Vanhu veThai vanotaura zvakawanda nezvepabonde, asi nguva dzose ndezvekuita, havambotauri pamusoro pezvazvinoreva kwavari, manzwiro api anovapa kana kuti zviyeuchidzo zvinosiya shure."

Wipapan inosimbisa kuti chibvumirano chinoshanda kumunhu wese, zvisinei kuti murume kana mukadzi kana kuti maitiro. Paakabvunzwa kuti anotarisira kuramba achirwa kwenguva yakareba sei, anoti, “Ndakatoona kuti iri ibasa roupenyu hwose. Tarisa kumadokero uko hondo yave ichienderera kwemakore zana uye havasati vapera. Ini handina kugadzira peji rino kuti rihwine kana kubatsira munhu wese, nekuti ndinoziva kuti handigone kubatsira munhu wese chero musimboti wedambudziko uripo. Iniwo handidi kuona munhu achienda kujeri, hazvindibatsire kuona vanhu vachirangwa. Izvi zvinodaro nekuti ndinoziva kuti vazhinji havasati vatambura nedambudziko iri uye ndosaka ndichida kuona dambudziko iri richiparadzwa pamidzi yaro.'

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• www.khaosodenglish.com/featured/2018/12/03/thaiconsent-breaks-the-silence-with-untold-stories
• www.khaosodenglish.com/featured/2017/10/18/fewer-thai-women-saying-metoo/
• www.khaosodenglish.com/news/crimecourtscalamity/2017/09/08/history-sexual-predators-goes-back-years/
• www.khaosodenglish.com/news/crimecourtscalamity/2017/09/08/sexual-violence-stalks-thailands-activist-community/