Thailand: 'Mass tourism uye mail order varoora'
MuSide note - imwe k(r) ant, unogona kuverenga zvinyorwa zviviri nezveThailand. Yekutanga ndeyekushanya kwevanhu vakawanda muThailand ine zita rinonakidza: 'Full-fed monster kana yekupedzisira paradhiso?' uye chinyorwa chechipiri chiri pamusoro pe 'mail order varoora' muNetherlands. Ndinofunga inyaya yechinyakare, asi zvakanaka.
Iyo chokwadi chekuti Thailand yakakurirwa nevashanyi inoonekwa kubva pahuwandu, kubva pamamiriyoni mapfumbamwe muna 2008 kusvika pamamiriyoni makumi matatu nematanhatu gore rino. Kunyangwe iyo reji yemari yeThailand iri kurira zvakanyanya, zvingangoita makumi maviri muzana zvechigadzirwa chenyika chinobva mukushanya, sekureva kwemunyori wechinyorwa ichi, mari inozivikanwa ine rimwe divi: mahombekombe akazara, kusvibiswa, kukuvadzwa kwechisikigo, kuparwa kwemhosva uye. hurombo hwetsika yechitsuwa cheThai.
Chinyorwa zvakare chine, chii chimwe chaungatarisira, kunyunyuta expats. Uye iwe wakazvifungidzira: Thailand inodhura zvakanyanya uye mitemo yevhiza yakanyanyisa. Kune vamwe, ichi ndicho chikonzero chekuenda kunyika dzakavakidzana. Burma, Cambodia neVietnam vane mukana wakanaka wekutora mureza weThailand, maererano neIrish expat Barry (66). Unogona kuverenga chinyorwa chizere pano: dekantteken.nl/wereld/volgevreten-monster-of-ultiem-paradijs/
Mail order varoora
"Vanhu vakandipoteredza vaiva nemashoko ekundinyevera." Saka chinotanga chinyorwa icho zvakare chinoisa clichés dzinozivikanwa muchiedza. Eef Peerdeman, ane makore 52 okukura kubva kuAssendelft, aigara achifarira vakadzi vekunze, saka akaroora Thai Atsada. Peerdeman iye zvino ave akaroora kwemakore mapfumbamwe, asi maererano naye inonyanya kukanganisa kuroorana: "Matambudziko ekukurukurirana uye (tsika) kusiyana kunokonzera kukakavara."
Ndinogara ndichiita zvekunyomba kuverenga nyaya dzerudzi urwu. Bvunza vakaroorana vechiDutch nezvematambudziko muwanano uye iwe unonzwa chaizvo chinhu chimwe chete: kusanzwisisana uye matambudziko ekukurukurirana. Iwe haufanirwe kuroora mukadzi akasarudzika nekuda kweizvozvo, mudiwa Eef.
Kunyangwe iwe waizotarisira rimwe divi kubva kuSide Note (mushure mezvose, vanozvitutumadza nazvo), mukadzi Atsada haagone kutaura ...
Ungada here kuverenga chinyorwa chakazara? Unogona kuita izvozvo pano: dekantteken.nl/samenleving/ik-koos-een-vrouw-uit-thailand/
Mhungu yakadyiswa ……………kunyange musikana wangu wekuThai anobvuma!
Zvakanaka chaizvo kuti muhukama hwakavhengana unogona kukurumidza kupomera kusiyana kwetsika sechikonzero chezvinetso zvehukama. Asi iwe une zvakare izvo nevaroora veDutch.
Kukanganisa kukuru kweukama hwakavhengana, kunyanya kana mumwe wako akatamira kuNetherlands uye achigara maawa akawanda kure nendege, ndeye nharo yokuti akasiya mhuri yake yose shure kwako uye akasiya zvose. Zvakanaka, haugone kupokana kupokana ikoko mumaziso emumwe wako.
Hongu. Akanda mapfumo pasi, asi awanawo zvakawanda.
Hupenyu husina kunetsekana, kure nekupisa kusingagumi, mikana yebudiriro, AOW accrual, penjeni, inishuwarenzi yehutano yepamusoro munyika... uye ndaigona kuenderera seizvi kwechinguva.
Kana mudzimai wangu achida kuva nemhuri yake, ndinongoti: Do ist das Bahnhof, liebchen.
Hameno kuti mukadzi wangu haamboshandisi nharo idzodzo.
Usambonyunyuta pamusoro pekuva kure nemhuri yake.
Isu tiri kuwedzerawo kunzwisisa chiDutch muchiRungu.
Pamwe inotaura chimwe chinhu nezvehukama hwenyu, kunyanya kana ikanzi nekukurumidza, pane bahnhof.
Nekuda kuziva kuti bepa reMarginal Note raimiririrei, ndakaverenga zvinotevera
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Iyo yakazvimiririra yekusunungurwa yemharadzano-midhiya chikuva (weekly magazine + pamwedzi magazini + webhusaiti) inoisa kukosha kukuru kune yakakosha kukosha kwehutori venhau. Isu tinopa zvakadzama zvinyorwa zvemashure uye maonero uye tinotarisa zvakanyanya kurudzi rwechiDutch, kunyanya pazvinhu zvine chekuita nekubatanidzwa, kuyambuka-tsika, kunyanyisa, kodzero dzevanhu uye rusununguko. Isu tinoita izvi kubva kune inofambira mberi-yakasununguka chiono chehupenyu, ine chinhambwe chakaenzana kumapoka ese munharaunda. Yedu yakakosha tsika ndeiyi: yemahara, ushingi, inosanganisirwa.
Kunyanya izvo zvakadzama zvinyorwa uye maonero zvakabata pfungwa dzangu uye ndakashamisika kuti mutori wenhau Tieme Hermans akawana kupi hungwaru hwake hwese nezveThailand. Kana zvisina kudaro anofanira kuita basa rake rechikoro zvakare!
"kusanzwisisa uye matambudziko ekutaurirana". Kubva 1977 bhizinesi uye kubvira 1994 zvakare yakawanda yakavanzika ruzivo neThais. Ndinotya kutaura kuti kana tsika nemagariro zvakasiyana, uye kana mutauro wakanakisisa pfungwa dziri kushayikwa kukurukura kusiyana maonero, pane zvikuru mukana wokusanzwisisana uye saka kuputika pane kana neNLe kubva anenge chete kumashure.
Wangu wekuThai bhizinesi wandinofambidzana naye uye Uni akadzidza, achinyatso Chirungu, akawana kunzwisisa kwakawanda kwemhando idzi dzekusanzwisisana uye nekudaro kupesana panguva yekushanya kwakasiyana kuNetherlands nenzvimbo dzakatenderedza.
Zvinhu zvinotevera zvakakosha pakukurukurirana kwakanaka uye hukama, kubva kune zvakanyanya kusvika kune zvishoma:
1 hunhu: tsitsi, kuteerera kwakanaka, kuregerera, nezvimwe.
2 inenge yakaenzana kumashure maererano nehunyanzvi, zera uye dzidzo
3 mutauro (mutauro wemasaini unobvumidzwawo)
4 isinganyanyi kukosha: tsika nemagariro
Kana 1, 2 uye 3 ichokwadi, 4 haina basa. Kana 1,2, 3 na 4 vasina kururama saka mhosva XNUMX, ndizvo zviri nyore..
Zvinhu 1, 2 uye 3 zvakakosha kukunda misiyano yetsika iripo (kufunga nekuita munzvimbo dzakawanda, kubva pakubata nemari, kukosha kwemhuri, kurera vana, kubvuma masimba kubva kuvabereki, maboss, vezvematongerwo enyika, basa revarume nevakadzi) kusvika zviyero zvaunogona kuvaka hukama hunofadza nemudiwa wako.
Nei vemarudzi akawanda vachizonyatso shandisa mabhiriyoni pakudzidziswa kwetsika-tsika kune mamaneja avo ekunze (vasati vaendeswa) kana kuri kungonzwira tsitsi. Iwo makambani akapusa kudaro?
Ehe, iwo makambani akapusa, Chris. Vaigona kushandisa mari iyoyo pane zvimwe zvinhu. Sei? Nekuti zvirevo zvetsika kazhinji hazvishande kune mamwe mamiriro. Izvo nyika dzakawanda dzinofanira kudzidzisa vashandi vavo hutsika hwevanhu uye hunhu hwakadai sekunzwira tsitsi, kukwanisa kuteerera, kushivirira, kuratidza kufarira, kudzidza mutauro, nezvimwewo. Izvi zvinoshanda mukati metsika uye pakati petsika. Zvakajairwa: Misiyano yemunhu mukati metsika yakakura kupfuura iyo iri pakati petsika. Maneja ane unhu hwakanaka hwomunhu pachake achaitawo zvakanaka mune imwe tsika, kunyange kana achiziva zvishoma nezvazvo, uye akaipa achaitawo zvakaipa mutsika yake pachake. Zvechokwadi zvinobatsira kana iwe uchiziva chimwe chinhu pamusoro peimwe nyika uye vanhu, asi hazvidiwi uye kwete kusarudza.
Ndisati ndatanga kushanda sachiremba kuTanzania kwemakore matatu, baba vaitidzidzisa chiSwahili vakati tikanganwe zvose zvatakanga tadzidza nezveAfrica neAfrica. Zvingatitadzisa kudzidza zviri kuitika chaizvo, akadaro. Uye ari right.
Aiwa, Tino, makambani iwayo HAASI mapenzi. Uye zvechokwadi vanodzidzisa avo vanobuda mamaneja iwo hunhu hwaunotaura. Uye unoziva chikonzero nei? Nokuti hunhu ihwohwo hahuna basa kana kuti husina kunaka munyika mavachashanda. Uye unoziva zvavanodaidza izvozvo: kusiyana kwetsika.
Moderator: Tino naChris chimbomirai kutaura. Kana kuenderera ne email.
Kungowedzera, Chris.
Zvandakanyora ndezvehukama pakati pevanhu. Geert Hofstede, uyo sekuziva kwamunoita akadzidza zvakanyanya uye akatsanangura hukuru hwetsika nemisiyano, anotiwo HAUFANELE kushandisa tsananguro yake yemusiyano iwoyo kuvanhu asi kumapoka makuru chete. Saka wakarurama kuti vanhu vanobata nemapoka makuru mumakambani nezvikoro, somuenzaniso, vanobetserwa zvikuru noruzivo rwokusiyana kwetsika. Asi ndinochengeta kuti unhu hwakanaka hwomunhu oga (kuteerera, kudzidza, kuteerera, kusakurumidza kutonga, zvichingodaro) hunokosha zvikuru.
"Tsvakurudzo yakaratidza kuti pachine misiyano mikuru pakati pevashandi veDutch neChinese maererano netsika dzetsika: kureba kwesimba, kusarudzika uye hurume. Mhedzisiro iyi inoenderana nezvaHofstede zvawanikwa. Musiyano mukuru unowanikwawo pakusavimbika kudzivirira, asi mhedzisiro yacho inopesana neyaHofstede. Pamusoro pezvo, maChinese nemaDutch ose anoita seanotarisa kure kwazvo mune ramangwana. "
https://thesis.eur.nl/pub/5993/Den%20Yeh.doc
uye kana uchida ndinogona kukutsvagira zvimwe zvidzidzo.
Wadiwa Tina,
Papoint 2 ndaifanira kusekerera. Sezviri pachena ndiri kufamba muJomtien naPattaya munzvimbo isiriyo panguva isiriyo.
Kutoti sekuru vari kuendesa muzukuru wavo kuchikoro!
555 Wataura chokwadi, Louis. Pamwe zera harina kukosha kudaro. Kune hukama hwakanakisa pakati pavanasekuru nevazukuru, kunyangwe vanobva kutsika dzakasiyana.
Wadiwa Harry, ndakawana zvakawanda zvakavanzika muThailand kubvira 2008 nenzira yemuchato. Zvechokwadi pakutanga, zvakanaka zvemutauro, sezvaunodzidana, zvakanga zvisipo, asi izvozvo hazvina kumbomisa mudzimai wangu neni kuratidza chaizvo zvakanga zvakaipa kana kuti zvinovafadza. Sezvinoita chero kusangana kwevanhu, 3/4 inotsinhaniswa kuburikidza nechitarisiko, maitiro, uye izvo zvisina kutaurwa.
Kana iwe ukaita imwe nhamburiko yekunyudza iwe mutsika yeumwe munhu (munyaya yangu murwi wehondo yePol Pot) iwe uchanyatso, zvirokwazvo, kuwana zvakaringana sezvandakaita muhukama hwekare nevakadzi vechiDutch. . Kana kuti zvimwe zvirinani, nekuti kupokana kwacho kwakajeka zvakanyanya.
Saka ini handioni zvachose mukana mukuru wekurambana kana kusanzwisisana kupfuura nemukadzi wekuMadokero. Kutaura idi, handina kumbova nezvinetso zvakawanda nomudzimai wangu wazvino sezvazvakaita nevakamboroorana navo vekare vanobva kuNetherlands, England, America, Spain, Germany neCanada.
Ndizvo chaizvo izvo zvinodikanwa zvekutanga zvekudzivisa kusawirirana izvo vanhu vekuAsia vakafanana izvo zvinopa nzvimbo yakakura yekuberekera umo makakatanwa anogona kukwizwa pasina kupera mukuputika.
Handibvumirani zvachose nenharo yako!
MuNetherlands, inenge 40% yemichato inopera mukurambana. Handina kutaura "kusanzwisisa uye matambudziko ekutaurirana" se 100% vimbiso yekukundikana, asi "kune mukana mukuru wekusanzwisisana uye saka kuparara kupfuura neNLe kubva kune imwe nzvimbo yakafanana".
Ndichiri kuyeuka zvakataurwa nemumwe mukadzi wechiThai, apo murume wake wechiDutch akanga abuda mumotokari, mushure memashoko asina ushamwari: "Handina sarudzo".
Uchiri kurangarira here uya akafona pamusangano? "1/3 vakarambana, 1/3 vanogara vachifara uye 1/3 havana ushingi." Ndinovimba kwamuri mese kuti muri pakati nepakati 1/3.
Vangani kurambana kuri pakati pevanhu vechiDutch neThais vanogara muNetherlands neThailand zvakateerana? Kana uine mhinduro yeIYO, sununguka kutaura zvisina kunaka pane yangu.
https://www.siam-legal.com/legal_services/thailand-divorce.php Kurambana – Thai & Foreigner
Kukurumidza kuratidzwa kweThailand kupasirese maererano nekutengeserana uye kushanya kwakakonzera michato yakawanda pakati pezvizvarwa zveThai nevatorwa. Nehurombo, mutsauko pakati petsika nemutauro wakanganisa humwe hukama uye kurambana kweThailand kwave kusingadzivisike muzviitiko izvi.
Kurambana kweThai kusvika pa39%
https://www.bangkokpost.com/news/general/1376855/thai-divorce-rate-up-to-39-.
zvakare: https://www.stickmanbangkok.com/weekly-column/2014/11/the-challenges-of-thai-foreign-relationships/
Kufungidzira kwangu kwakanyanya ndekwekuti ingangoita 20% chete yeThai mukadzi / wekune dzimwe nyika hukama hwevarume vandinoziva vakabudirira zvechokwadi, apo mumwe nemumwe ari kunyatsofara. Pane zvishoma zvakajairika:
Kazhinji zvinotarisirwa zvakasiyana. Murume wechiDutch anoda muchato wakanaka unowirirana, rudo, zvepabonde. Mari ndeyechipiri. Mudzimai wekuThai ane zvimwe zvinangwa: 1 Kupa mhuri rutsigiro rwemari uye ramangwana kune chero vana vewanano yekare. 2 Kurova vaimbova vamwe vemumusha vane imba hombe mumusha une hurombo. “Ndagona,” anoita seanodaro! Kunyangwe hazvo Piet asiri iye murume akanaka kwazvo, ane mari! Nyika mbiri dzakasiyana! Zvinopesana here? Nguva zhinji! Dzimwe nguva zvinhu zvinofamba zvakanaka. Semuyenzaniso, kana Piet asingaratidzi kushata uye vanatezvara vanogona kuzviriritira zvishoma......