Chiitiko cheMia Noi muThailand

Ichi chiitiko cheMia Noi (mubatanidzwa, mukadzi wechipiri, tenzikadzi) chakapararira kumatanho ese enzanga yeThai. Nhau dzevarume vakakosha munharaunda vane vakadzi vakati wandei dzinogona kuwanikwa munhau dzakasiyana siyana.

Zvisinei, chiitiko ichi chakakonzera kutsoropodza kwakawanda (kwakaruramiswa) munyika dzekuMadokero. Pahwaro uhwu, Muchinda Svasti Sobhon akatumira memorandamu muna 1913 kuti ibatanidze murume mumwe chete mumutemo, kuti asangane nekutsoropodzwa kubva kunze kwenyika. Kunyange zvazvo Rama VI yakanga ine maonero akasiyana, hapana mutemo mutsva wakapiwa. Zvakare, Rama VI ainyanya kuzvikomberedza nemajaya uye chaive chirevo chehumambo!

Thailand haina kuchinja mitemo yayo kusvika 1932 uye kuva nevakadzi vanopfuura mumwe chete zvakava zvisiri pamutemo semugumisiro. Pakarepo izvi zvichava "zvisiri pamutemo", asi mukuita zvinonyanya kusateerera. Zvisinei, iye zvino haisisiri ropafadzo yevapfumi kana kuti vepamusoro. Chero bedzi murume achitarisira mudzimai wake (mia luang) nevana, anobvuma, dzimwe nguva achizengurira. Zvirinani pane kusiiwa nevana. Mia noi anogona kuzochengeta murume wacho. Zvisinei, kana mia noi ikagamuchira mari yakawanda kupfuura iye, moto unoputika! Mune akawanda Thai sipo operas uye nzanga, zvisinei, zvinhu hazvisi nyore sezvakatsanangurwa pano. Naizvozvo kutaura kunozivikanwa zvikuru ndeichi: “Izvi zvinowanzoitwa ‘pakarepo’, kunyange zvazvo muzambiringa weThai uchiwanzoziva nezvezvinhu izvi kare vasati vadhinda.”

Kare, kuva nevakadzi vanopfuura mumwe kwakanga kwakasiyana nokuda kwezvikonzero zvakawanda. Iyi inyaya yakataurwa nemukomana.

Pandaiva muduku, ndakasvika pakuziva mirangariro yenzanga yechiChina pamusoro pokuva navakadzi vanopfuura mumwe. Chakazarurwa ichi hachina kubva kumurume, asi kubva kuna landlady vedu vekuChina.

Ndichigara kuBangkok, ndakaona kuti mai noi walandlord wedu ndiye akandiudza. Panguva iyoyo aiva nemakore makumi mana nemashanu uye murume wake aiva nemakore makumi mashanu. Vakanga vava nemakore 21 vari pamwe chete. Zvakanga zvisingaratidzike sechishamiso kubva kuna saimba wedu, pakurasikirwa nomudzimai wake wokutanga.

Vachiseka, Madame Chao vakandiudza kuti murume wavo, uyo akanga ari mwanakomana akanaka wokuChina, akamanikidzwa netsika kuti aenderane nechisarudzo chevabereki vake chomudzimai. Baba vemukadzi wake wekutanga nababa vake vaive shamwari dzekare. Vakanga vatenderana kuti kana mumwe aine mwanakomana mumwe aine mwanasikana vaizoroorana nechinangwa chekubatanidza mhuri dzavo nemabhizimisi anoremekedzwa.

Mumigariro yakadaro, majaya navakadzi havabvunzwe pamusoro peiyi nhau uye tsika dzechiConfucius hadzipi vana maruramiro okuramba. Mudzimai wangu akataura nyaya iyi achiratidza kuseka.

“Saka murume wangu akaziva kubva pazera ramakore masere kuti aizoroora mwanasikana wemutengesi weparera, aigara mumugwagwa mumwe chete. Baba vake vaiva mutengesi wedhaimani. Saka unoona kuti yaive yakanakira mhuri dzese dziri mbiri." "Asi vaidanana here?" ndakabvunza

Sangano reChinese rakasiyana. Icho hachisi chinhu chinonyanya kukosha pakati pemurume nemudzimai. Basa rekutanga remurume wangu raive kuna baba namai vake. Vakamupa zvokudya nedzidzo. Rakanga riri basa rake kuti aenderane nezvishuvo zvavo kuti mhuri ifare.”

"Asi mufaro wake?"

“Sei anga asina kufara? Aiva nezvinhu zvose zvaaida uye aiva nezvakawanda kupfuura vamwe vanhu vakawanda. Dzimwe nguva ndinoshamisika nezve tsika dzinofunga "rudo" rudo rwega mufaro wechokwadi. Kudai murume wangu akanga asina zvokudya zvakanaka uye dzidzo yakanaka, rudo rworudo rwaizomuita kuti afare here?”

“Mhuri yangu yaingova nemari yaikwana kutirera. Taiva vasona. Hapana kumwe kwakapfuma kana kukosha semhuri yemurume wangu.

“Ndakaendeswa kuchikoro chekuChina kwemakore masere uye ndakaita rombo rakanaka kuti kwaive nedzidzo yakawanda. Baba vangu vaive vajekerwa. Aidavira kuti vanasikana vakadzidza vaikosha zvikuru kupfuura kungova vakadzi vakanaka. Asi ndinogutsikana nemamiriro angu ezvinhu sezvazvakangoitawo vamwe vanhu vandinogara navo.

Kunobva: Pattaya Mail