Musika wewanano wevakadzi vakadzidza veThai
Shamwari yepaFacebook – 25 yemakore, mudzidzisi wepachikoro, mwanasikana wemurimi, ari pamusoro peavhareji anoyevedza, asina mwana, asina kuroora kana kuroorwa uye asiri mukomana anotsiga — akanyunyuta paaccount yake nezvekushaikwa kwevanogona kudanana navo.
Kwaisava kuitirwa kuti kuve serious, but the undertone was. Kuverenga kwakaratidza kuti kune murume mumwe chete akakodzera aripo pavakadzi makumi manomwe nevatatu veThai. Muchiverengero ichocho, varume vose vakura kupfuura 73 vakasiya (zvinosuruvarisa, zvinosuruvarisa), asiwo, semuenzaniso, kuita zvepabonde kwe1% yevarume vaizomira munzira yehukama:
ผู้หญิงทย มีทั้งสิ้น 33.3
-ผู้ชายไทย มีทั้งสิ้้น 32.1 p.
-เป็นตุ๊ดและเกย์ 1 ล้านคน
-kupa 50 ปี 7.5 ล้านคน
-อายุต่ำกว่า 20 ปี 6.5 ล้านคน
-พิการ 1 ล้านคน
-ติดยาเสพตด+ติดคุก+มีคดี 1.2
-คงเหลือชายไทย ปี 21 ล้านคน
ผลวิจัย ผู้ชายดีๆ ( พอมีฐานะ นิสัยดี ไม่มมมขม ้าชู้ )
มีอยู่ประมาณ 1 p. 20 ของชายแท้
0.265 ล้านคน
-หญิงทย อายุ 21-49 ปี มีทั้งสิ้น 19.3
เป็ 1 : 73
หมายความว่า ผู้หญิง 73 p.
Rwiyo: Ona zvimwe
The Bangkok Post yakashumawo kuti vakadzi vokuThailand vari kuroorwa pazera rinowedzera rinowedzera uye kuti nhamba yevana iri kuderera kuva pasi pevana vaviri pamukadzi mumwe nomumwe. Iyo yekupedzisira inofanirwa kuguma nehuwandu hwevanhu hushoma munguva pfupi iri kure.
The Bangkok Post, chokwadika, yakanga ichitaura pamusoro pemamiriro ezvinhu muThailand yose zvayo; kumaruwa kuchine vasikana vakawanda vane mwana vachiri vadiki uye vanowanzoroorwa pazera iroro. Ini handifunge kuti maIsaan achabvisa vanhu nekuda kwevana vashoma, asi pamwe nekuda kwekutamira kuBangkok nedzimwe nzvimbo dzeThailand uko basa riri nani.
Kuva nevana vachiri vaduku kunowanzova nenjodzi kukuwedzera dzidzo. Somuenzaniso, ndinoziva mumwe musikana akaita pamuviri akaroorwa aine makore 16-17. Sezvineiwo, murume wake aive nebasa achibva atanga kudyira kuroad naamwene vake kuti achengete mwana wavo abva kuchikoro. Mari yaanotambira zvimwe ishoma pane yaanotambira, asi pamwe chete nemuhoro womurume wake, anogona kuita zvakanaka. Iye zvino, papera makore 6, ava kutarisira mwana wechipiri nokuti imba yake iri kufamba zvakanaka.
Murombo aive musikana akabata pamuviri aine makore 14-15. Akaroorwawo, asi murume wacho haana kukwanisa kuwana basa rechigarire pano saka akaenda kuBangkok paaigara muUbon kuti apedze dzidzo yake. Zvisinei, nemhaka yokuparadzana ikoko kwapamutemo, roorano yake yakakurumidza kuparara. Nguva pfupi yapfuura akabva aendawo kuBangkok - ane makore gumi nematanhatu - kunotsvaga basa, achisiya mwanakomana wake naamai vake. Zvinosuwisa hongu, kunyanya sezvo ine chekuita nemusikana akangwara zvakanyanya.
Asi kune vasikana vasina kubata pamuviri vachiri kuyaruka uye saka vanogona kutanga chidzidzo, matambudziko ari munzvimbo yakasiyana: kazhinji havagoni kuwana mudiwa akakodzera. Zvichida imhaka yekuti vanonyanya kutsoropodza: havadi murume anongoremedza kwavari, kunyanya mune zvemari. Asi chokwadi kune kwete chete kufunga zvemari. Semuenzaniso, varume vazhinji veThai vanosvuta nekunwa zvakanyanyisa mumaziso evakadzi. Uyezve, dzimwe nguva vanoshandisa zvinodhaka uye havasi nguva dzose vanovimbika muhukama.
Asi kusakwanisa kwemajaya akawanda kuwana mari yakanaka zvichida ndiko kunoita basa guru. Uye izvo zvine chekuita nekushaya kwavo kufarira kuenderera mberi nezvidzidzo zvavo kana vatarisana nesarudzo iyoyo. Vasikana - zvisinei nekuti dzimwe nguva vanobata pamuviri uye vachiri kuwanda nevakomana - vanoenda kuyunivhesiti kakawanda kupfuura vakomana, zvirinani ndiwo mufananidzo weThailand yese. KuIsaan - uko kunodiwa kushingirira kutanga chidzidzo - ndinofunga kuti reshiyo yacho yakatonyanya kutsveyama. Chinogonawo kuita basa ibasa rinokurudzira revabereki, nokuti kumaruwa mwanasikana akadzidza anobereka sinsod yakakwirira kudarika mwanasikana asina kudzidza.
Kushaikwa kwemari pakati pevanasikana vemurimi vanodzidza muguta vanogonawo kuita basa mukusawana mudiwa akakodzera: havana mari yekubuda kunze uye kushanyira kuMcDonald's neshamwari, somuenzaniso, kazhinji haisi sarudzo. Saka vanonyanya kusangana nevakomana vekumapurazi vavasina appetite. Zvimwe kwete semudiwa wehupenyu.
Asi mamiriro acho ezvinhu akaipa chaizvo kuvakadzi vakadzidza here? Ndichapa mimwe mienzaniso kubva munzvimbo yangu. Pamusoro peshamwari yangu yambotaurwa paFacebook, ndinoziva vanasikana vaviri vevarimi vava vadzidzisi. Mumwe wemakore makumi maviri nemanomwe akaroora mudiwa wehudiki gore rapfuura, asi mushure mekunge awana basa rakadzikama. Vava nemwanakomana. Zvisinei, mumwe mudzidzisi ane makore 27 okukura haasati ava nemukomana akatsiga. Mufananidzo wacho haunawo kunyanya kusiyana nevazukuru vaviri vemudzimai wangu, avo vose vakadzidza mushonga: mumwe ane mukomana wechigarire, asi mumwe achiri kutarisa. Mumwe muenzaniso ndewemukadzi tsvarakadenga ane makore 25 (ane basa rekugara) uyo mushure mekudanana nemurume ane mari yakawanda kwemakore matatu, akamuisa padivi, izvo zvaita kuti amai vake vaore mwoyo nekuti vakanga vatoparadzira shoko mumusha kuti mwanasikana akanga ava mupfumi akapindwa muropa. Muenzaniso unoratidza kuti mari - zvakare muThailand - handizvo zvese.
Ndinozivawo vanasikana vaviri veshamwari dzomudzimai wangu vasati vava nemukomana, nepo vose vari kusvitsa makore 40 uye vane mabasa akanaka. Asi dzimwe nguva murume ndiye asingadi kuroora. Semuenzaniso, mwanakomana weshamwari yemukadzi wangu ave achifambidzana kwemakore masere. Mwanakomana nemusikana vangangoita makore makumi mana uye vane mabasa akanaka anobhadhara, asi kunyangwe kutyisidzira kwake kuwana mumwe munhu hakusati kwamupfavisa; achiri kuda kunamatira kuhupenyu hwebhachura.
Pane mikana yemafarang here? Hongu, asi pane kufarira kushoma pakati pevakadzi kuti vabve kuThailand zvachose. Uye ini chokwadi handisi kuwana fungidziro yekuti vari kutsvaga murume neshungu, vanoramba vachitsvaga zvakanyanya kune wavanozofambidzana naye. Saka maFarang ane mukana chete kana akatengeswa zvakanaka, kunyangwe angave nemukana pane varume veThai. Sezvineiwo, michato miviri yekupedzisira gore rino yandakanzwa nezvayo iri pakati pevakadzi vaviri vechiThai nevarume vaviri vechiDutch. Vese vana vaive mumakore avo makumi matatu, saka izvo zvinoenderana nemuganho wepamusoro we50 makore akataurwa neshamwari yangu yefacebook. Uyezve, muzviitiko zvose zviri zviviri vakanga vari varume vakanaka zvikuru. Uye vakadzi? Kunyanya kukwezva.
Sezvineiwo, mamiriro ezvinhu muUSA, semuenzaniso, haana kunyatso siyana. The Jyedu yeMuchato uye Mhuri: “TChikonzero chikuru nei huwandu hwewanano hweUS hwave kudzikira imhaka yekuti pane kushomeka kwevarume vane hupfumi".
uye: "Murongwa ibasa rezvemari”.
uye: "Ymwero yedzidzo yevakadzi vechidiki paavhareji yava kupfuura vakwiri vavo vechirume”.
HuffPost: “75% yevakadzi vese muUnited States vangave nedambudziko rekufambidzana nemurume asingashande".
Chinhu chakakosha hachina kutaurwa uye kazhinji zvakare chikonzero chekuti hapana muchato uye murume anofarira kuramba asina kuroora, iyo iyo sinsod, roora. Ini dzimwe nguva ndinoona huwandu husina musoro, semuenzaniso munhu ane basa rakajairwa (20.000 kusvika 30.000 baht pamwedzi mari) anogona kukosora mazana mashanu ezviuru kusvika miriyoni kuti atenderwe zviri pamutemo kuenda. Ndinoziva vanhu vasingaverengeki vanofanira kubata nemhando idzi dzemari uye vobva vakwereta kubva kumhuri kana kubhangi kana mushandirwi kuti vazadzise upenzi uhu apo murume anotora zvisungo zvekudzosera kwemakore makumi maviri; uyezve ndinovimba kuti mukadzi wangu haasi kubiridzira nekuti hunhu hwakafumuka uye zvinoshandawo kuvakadzi. Saka tanga pakutanga uye udzivise nemutemo the
sinsod rusarura chiyero uye ipapo hausi kuremedza iyo, kazhinji jaya, negomo rechikwereti. And ditto nonsense dzeimwe sinsod kana mukadzi aroorwazve kusvika nambuya ava kuma 40s voita zvivindi zvekubvunza sinsod.
Unofanira kunge uchipenga kupinda mune izvo zvisina maturo zvechivi.
Ndave nemusikana wangu wekuThai kwegore nehafu zvino uye tiri kuchata gore rinouya.
Pane imwe nguva sinsod iyoyo yakauya kuzokurukurwa, ipapo ndakatsanangura zvakasimba kuti handisi kutora rutivi mairi uye ndakapokanawo kuti sei ndisiri kudaro.
Shoko iroro rabuda pachena uye nyaya yacho yagadziriswa.
Ndiri 'kupenga'. Makore makumi maviri apfuura sinsod inobhadhara, ndinofunga $700. Asi mutambo wemuchato waidhura zvakanyanya. Musha wose wakanga wasvika. Gare gare muNetherlands zvakare pamberi pemutemo. Vakadzi vechiThai vakakosha zvikuru.
Tino,
Ndinoda kunzwa kutaura kwenyu: Vakadzi vechiThai vakakosha zvikuru.Makore makumi mana nemaviri apfuura. :=)
Asi zvechokwadi zvese mune zvese zvinodhura mari, uko mari yaigona kunge yakashandiswa zvirinani pane kuiona ichinyangarika mumatope eThai.
Ndinovimba vazhinji vafamba zviri nani, asi ndine kupokana kwangu.
Ndichiri kufara muwanano mushure memakore makumi mana nemaviri.
Ndakaroora musikana anobva kwaIsaan 41 years ago. Pakasvika sinsod ndakavatora
akajekesa kuti izvi handizvo. Hazvina kuzombotaurwa nezvazvo zvakare mushure mazvo. Ini nemudzimai wangu tichiri kufara pamwe chete.
Ini ndinofunga wataura kukosha kwekukura kwakamisikidzwa, mukubatana nekudzidza kuri nani.
Shamwari yangu ine makore makumi mana nematanhatu, uyo pane imwe nzvimbo atova nemwanakomana ane makore gumi nemanomwe, akatangawo kutaura nezve sinsood, yandakamuratidza, nezera rake, nemwanakomana wake, uye kuti sinsood haichashandi. Ndakabvunza mukadzi wangu wekare wekuThai (uyo akamboroora kare), uye zvakare aimbova musikana, uye vese vakati panogona kunge paine sinsood, inokwana zviuru makumi maviri THB ...
Ndakaratidza musikana wangu kuti sinsood yakafanana nemhando yeuranda, uye kana iwe uchibhadhara mhuri, unova muridzi, mushure mokunge hurukuro (ikozvino ???) yakamira.
Vhiki rino ini nemukadzi wangu takanga tichidya nevazivikanwi kubva kuNetherlands vaive pazororo muresitorendi padyo neAlcazar kana Tiffany theatre muPattaya. Mumwe mukadzi akwegura wokuThailand akazova nemakore 65 akatikumbanira. Aive maneja weiyi showater uye akati aitambira zviuru zana zvebhaht pamwedzi. Akafamba zvakawanda uye aiva nezvakawanda zvokutaura. Akanga ari ega uye aigara achiendeswa nokudzoswa mumba make nomutyairi. Akasarudza kuva ega nekuti aisakwanisa kugamuchira varume seshamwari nekuda kwetsika dzavo dzakaipa. Kubva pane zvose zvaigona kugumiswa kuti mukadzi uyu akabva kuboka repamusoro uye akanga awana dzidzo yakanaka. Kumisa basa kwaisava sarudzo kwaari. Mararamiro ake nemashandisirwo aaiita zvinhu zvaizobva zvaita zvekuti paive pasina chekufara nazvo. Penjeni yake yaizosvika 100.000 baht pamwedzi, izvo zvakasiyana chaizvo nezvaaive ave nazvo. Zvisinei, mudzimai uyu aitoda doro nefodya kuti arambe akabatikana, sekutaura kwake. Akasarudza kurarama seizvi uye ndakafunga kuti zvaive nani pane kupinda muhukama, sezvaaimboita kare, uye kusafara. Sekuona kwangu, zvakakosha kuti vanhu vagone kuchengeta mabhurugwa avo uye nekusima mari mavari kuburikidza nedzidzo nebasa. Mukuwedzera, zvakanaka kuwana mudiwa akanaka, asi izvozvo hazvishande kumunhu wose. Ziva iwe uye umire kumashure kwesarudzo dzako uye uite chimwe chinhu pazviri. Pane zvakawanda zvinogona kuunza mufaro uye mufaro, kana iwe wakazaruka kwazviri.
1 muvatatu varume veThai ingochani ??? maererano nechinyorwa
Inoti hunhu hwepabonde; ipfungwa yakati wandei.
ผู้ชายไทย มีทั้งสิ้้น 32.1 32.2 miriyoni varume veThai
-เป็นตุ๊ดและเกย์(1ใน3) 10.6 ล้านคน ตุ๊ด toot (high pitched) is a transvestite, bhiก, 10.6 mumwe muvarume vatatu. Zvinoita kunge kakuwedzeredza kwandiri.
Mazuva mashoma apfuura, mumwe mukomana ane makore 13 okuberekwa akapfura mumwe mukomana waanodzidza naye uyo aigara achimushungurudza ne‘zino’, transvestite. Zviri nyore.
https://www.bangkokpost.com/thailand/general/1818919/%E0%B8%BAboy-13-shoots-dead-classmate-who-repeatedly-bullied-him
Pari zvino pava nemutemo mudare reparamende pamusoro pekuroorana kwevanhukadzi. Varume vaviri vakatsvodana ipapo pazere vanhu. Mutauriri weParamende Chuan anotanga 'kuferefeta'.
Muna 1990 (hongu, makore 20 apfuura), vaipinda muNorth vakabvunzwa nezvemaitiro avo ezvepabonde. Mune rimwe boka 8% vakanga vaita zvepabonde nevarume, mune rimwe dunhu 26%. Chokwadi chinofanira kunge chiri pakati nepakati, chinenge 10-15%, ndinofungidzira, uye chakawedzera pane kuderera (nekuda kwehutsika hwakasununguka hwepabonde) mumakore makumi maviri.
Izvi zvinoreva kuti 15% yevarume havasi kutsvaga kuroora mukadzi. Uye saka reshiyo mumusika wewanano iri kure kubva pa1 kusvika ku1.
https://www.ilo.org/wcmsp5/groups/public/—asia/—ro-bangkok/—sro-bangkok/documents/publication/wcms_356950.pdf
Uku ndiko kuverenga kwakanaka kwekugadzira kusvika pahuwandu husipo hwevakadzi kana kushomeka kwevarume.
Kune varume vechidiki vakawanda kupfuura vakadzi muThailand. Chete kubva kune vakwegura (pane imwe nzvimbo mumakore 30-40) pane kuchinja apo pane vakadzi vakawanda kupfuura varume. Saka zvakanaka kuti mutorwa awane mukadzi mukuru, mukuru ari nani. 50+ kana zvakadaro. Izvi zvichabatsira chaizvo Thai nzanga.
Vakadzi vadiki ivavo vane, hongu, zviri nani murume asiri kure zvakanyanya kubva kwavari: asiri mukuru zvakanyanya kana mudiki. Vamwe varume vanoonda nekuti ingochani, asi nhamba yevakadzi vanoonda nekuti ingochani haizonyanyosiyana here? Chinosara ndicho chitsama chakaenzana chevarume nevakadzi. 1 murume kusvika 1 mukadzi.
Asi zvino panouya runyoro rwechishuwo: zvakanaka kana akataura mutauro, haufanirwe kutama uye anogona kupa zvake zvemukati. Haafanire kunge akashata kana benzi, uye haafanire kuratidza hunhu husingafadzi munharaunda (zvinodhaka, nezvimwewo). Ndoda murume pauri pasame level pakufunga nekuita. Izvo zvinotodzikamisa nhamba yevanogona kufambidzana zvakanyanya. Izvi zvinoshandawo kuvarume, kana mukandibvunza. Ndinoona madzimai akawanda achipfuura apa neapo, asi mumwe wandinoti 'gee, ndiye angangove mumiriri', zvichiri zvakaoma.
Tsvagiridzo yave kuratidza kuti varume vane nguva yakaoma kana mukadzi wavo akadzidza zvirinani kana kuunza mari yakawanda. Murume wacho haakwanisi kutora chinzvimbo chake chehutungamiriri kana chimwe chinhu. Ini handitendi mazviri ini, asi ndiani anoziva, izvi zvinogona kukanganisa ndima. Pane chivharo chechirongo chega chega, asi izvo zvinotoda kutsvaga. Zvakatoomera varume, asi zvingatonyanya kuomera vakadzi kuwana wavanorota.
Zvinyorwa: Thai Ministry uye CIA Factbook:
- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_Thailand
- http://web.nso.go.th/en/survey/pop_character/pop_character.htm
Handifunge kuti maverengero acho ndeechokwadi:
- kune ngochani dzakawanda pakati pevarume uye mune ruzivo rwangu nemakore gumi nematatu edzidzo yekuyunivhesiti (13-18 makore ekuzvarwa) vashoma vakadzi ngochani;
- Gore rega rega varume vechidiki 20.000 (pakati pemakore gumi nematanhatu ne16) vanofa mutsaona dzemotokari.
- ipapo kune vakomana vanova mamongi kwehupenyu hwose.
Ini ndinofunga chiyero HACHISI 1 kusvika 1 kana iwe uchifungidzira vanokwikwidza pamusika wewanano.
Point 1, unogona here kusimbisa iyo % ngochani dzine masosi anodiwa Chris? Zvikasadaro umboo hwechinyakare uhwu hahuna chahukoshi kupfuura 'zvakanaka kana ndikatarisa nepahwindo rangu…, munzira yangu…' . Ini ndinongowana nhamba dzekuti 8 muzana ndeye LGBT. https://www.nationthailand.com/national/30359180
Dzimwe nhamba dzaizoratidza kuti vakadzi vakawanda vokuThai vakagovera machira nevakadzi kupfuura varume vokuThai nevarume.” Muongororo imwe cheteyo 12 muzana yevarume uye 16 muzana yevakadzi vakati vakamborara nomunhurume mumwe chete. ”
http://factsanddetails.com/southeast-asia/Thailand/sub5_8d/entry-3248.html
Pasina humbowo huripo, ini handikwanise kutora mutsauko unoshamisa/wakakosha pakati pe LGBT varume nevakadzi muThailand.
Point 2, hongu kufa kwakawanda pakati pevarume vechidiki, asi kuchine varume vakasara pakati pevechidiki.
Nhamba 2016 CIA factbook (izvo zvinobva kune mamwe masosi / zviyero hazvina kumbosiyana)
Kuberekwa: 1,05 varume kune 1 mukadzi
<15 makore: 1,05 varume kusvika 1 vakadzi
15-24 y: 1,04 varume kusvika 1 munhukadzi
25-54 y: 0,98 varume kusvika 1 munhukadzi
55-64 y: 0,89 varume kusvika 1 munhukadzi
65+: 0,78 varume pamukadzi 1
Zvose: 0,97 varume kusvika ku1 mukadzi.
Saka zviri pachena kuti varume vanofa kare nekuda kwemaitiro avo, njodzi, nezvimwe. Saka isu tinoona shanduko muchiyero chebonde muzera repakati (taura makore makumi mana).
Pfungwa 3. Nhamba? Imarii iyo kurongedza pamusika wese wewanano? Izvozvo zvinei chokuita nevarume nevakadzi vasingapindi noune muukama nokuda kwezvimwe zvikonzero?
Pano tinoenda zvakare neiyo resource fetishism. Wakambonzwa nezve OBSERVATION senzira (yesainzi) yekutsvaga? (Ndinobvuma kuti zvakaoma kuona vanhu veThai vanogara muNetherlands asi pamwe unofanirwa kuvimba nevamwe vanogara pano zvishoma kana kuvapa mukana wekupokana)
Ndinoona 100 vadzidzi vatsva gore rega rega: 65-70% varume, 30% vakadzi. Kwemakore gumi nematatu zvino. Pamusoro pezvo, ndinoona mazana evadzidzi gore rega rega pamapati uye nezvimwe zviitiko zvevadzidzi. Mumakirasi angu (pavadzidzi vanenge 13 mune vakadzi vangangosvika gumi nevanomwe nevarume 25, uye pavarume ivavo pane kanenge 17, dzimwe nguva 8 ngochani, pavakadzi vanenge 1. Vakadzi ivavo vanoita zveungochani vanobudawo pachena nokuda kwezvimwe zvinobata-bata. vakadzi mukirasi uye kunze, izvo varume vasingatomboiti.
Kana iwe uchingotenda masosi, iwe unogona zvakare kufunga kuti isingasviki 1% yevaThai vanhu havana mabasa. Huya utarise, ndingadaro. Nenzira, handina kutaura chikamu chengochani mumhinduro yangu ………
Zvitubu (zvizhinji) zvinogona kuva chero chinhu: bepanhau, sangano renhamba, tsvakiridzo yesainzi, kana huwandu hwakasiyana hwakasiyana hwekutarisa. 1 tsime hapana kwakabva. Ini ndinoona zvakaonekwa mukirasi 1 hazvina kukwana, chete nenhamba huru yezvakaonekwa muzvikoro zvakasiyana ndingashinga kuisa kukosha kwairi. Semudzidzisi, handifanire kukutsanangurira kuti humbowo humwechete hweanecdotal huri kure nekugutsa. Ini ndinofungidzira kuti iwe unotarisirawo mareferenzi kubva kuvadzidzi vako. Pasina humbowo hwakakura, handigone kungofungidzira kuti huwandu hwevarume vane ngochani muThailand hunokanganisa zvakanyanya padziva rekupfimbana revakadzi vechiThai.
1 kirasi? Makore gumi nematatu gore rega rega vadzidzi ve13 vatsva uye mazana akati wandei pagore kunze kwemakirasi angu. Iri 100 vechidiki, muenzaniso unonzwisisika wandingati. Uye kutaura nekukurukura nevadzidzi ava nezvenyaya dzinosanganisira musika wekuroora senge rimwe zuva pavakaronga chiitiko chebofu. Ruzhinji rwevakadzi vemukirasi mangu vakanetseka kuwana mukomana kwemakore gumi nematatu. Vamwe vanotoita ngochani.
Hongu, vadzidzi vangu vanofanirawo kutaura zvinyorwa zvakawanda sezvinobvira, asi ndinokumbirawo kuti vatsoropodze kwavanobva: pepanhau ripi, webhusaiti; uye kunetsana kwevanobva vanoti sezviri pachena vanotaura zvakasiyana pasina rusaruro. Uye funga zvakadzama pamusoro pezviri kuitika uye nei. Ndasuwa izvozvo newe. Mamwe masosi sezviri pachena anofungirwa netsanangudzo, mamwe netsanangudzo anopa chokwadi. Chinhu chinoshamisa pauri ndechekuti masosi anobva kunze kweThailand (aine zvimwe zvaunofarira) sezviri pachena anotaura chokwadi kupfuura masosi ari munyika. Iwe wakasindimara zvakanyanya uye haugone kuchinjika. Pamwe murume akaoma kugara naye. Rega ndikuudze izvi:
1. hapana chinhu muThailand chinoratidzika;
2. Zvishoma kana kuti hapana chinodudzwa mumanyuko pamusoro pezvinhu zvakawanda uye vanhu vakawanda kupfuura mhuri inokosha zvikurusa;
3. kune zviuru zvezvivharo zuva rega rega
4. Kutapa nhau dzehutsotsi hakuna kusimba.
Uye saka, mukuwedzera kune 'manyuko', ini ndaizosanganisira zvakaonekwa uye 'zvisina rekodhi' chokwadi mukuongorora kweThailand.
'Ndinoona 100 vadzidzi vatsva gore negore: 65-70% varume, 30% vakadzi ... Mumakirasi angu (pavadzidzi vanenge 25 pane vanenge 17 vakadzi nevarume 8 uye ...' Saka ...
KUONA inzira yesainzi chete kana ukazviita nenzira yakananga uye yakazara. Maonero ako akanyanya 'kufunga kwangu ndekwekuti..' Somuenzaniso, handitendi kuti unogona kuudza 100 muzana kana mumwe munhu ari ngochani kana kuti kwete nokuti haubvunze, handiti? Observation chete. Mwero wekukanganisa pabvunzo yega yega uri pakati pegumi nemakumi maviri muzana. Kana iwe ukangocherechedza, i10-20 muzana.
Zviwanikwa zvehuroyi. Ndinonzwira tsitsi vadzidzi venyu.
Ndine chokwadi chekuti kana maziso ako nenzeve zvakanaka, unogona kutaura uine 99% chokwadi kuti mukomana weThai ingochani nekufamba kwaanoita, kutaura, kutakura bhegi rake (remukadzi) uye nekupfeka make-up ( zvipikiri zvechiso).
ok…muganho wekukanganisa 1%.
Bhuku rakanaka kwauri pasi pemuti weKisimusi:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Lie_with_Statistics.
ongororo iyi uye maverengero enhamba nezvei?
Kazhinji chimiro cheDutch chekuisa zvese mumabhokisi.
Kunyangwe mumwe munhu ari gay, ladyboy, bisexual kana chero maitiro, hazviunzi chimwe chinhu chakawedzerwa.
Iwe unogona zvakare kuverenga kuti vangani vakazoona mushure memakore gumi kuti havasi ngochani, asi bisexual, nezvimwe.
Nenzira, nyaya yacho ndeiyi: Musika wewanano wevakadzi vakadzidza veThai.
Ndinofunga kuti kune vakadzi vazhinji vakajaira kuvaka imwe chimiro muhupenyu hwavo hwekushanda uye hwepachivande.
Nokufamba kwenguva, imwe tsika inoitika iyo inogona kukanganiswa nekupinda muhukama.
Ndinogona kufungidzira kuti vazhinji vanoshandisa kuperekedza kana kuita shamwari yepabonde inowanikwa pakufona.
Izvo zvinobatsira uye hazvipe chero zvisungo, kunze kweiyo mamiriro emari.
Semuyenzaniso, Khun Tak ari kukachidzwa naTommy's uye bachelors-akadzidza 'zobenik-non-vakadzi' pakati peMuvhuro mangwanani neChishanu masikati.
Chitatu manheru kunogara kwakaoma, asi yoga uye ndizvo zvakare chitandadzo, handizvo.
Havasi vose 'vakadaro' hongu.
Pachave nemudiwa wemunhu wega wega, 1 pa1? Kwete, asi mutsauko iwoyo hauzove unotyisa kubva pachiyero uye mutsauko uripo pamusika wewanano (kusvika makore makumi matatu nemakumi mana) haungazove nekuda kwehuwandu hwengochani, ngochani, bisexuals, vanhu vakazvarwa mune zvisiri izvo. muviri, vakadzi kana varume vanosarudza neumwari kutenda kwavo uye zvichingodaro.
Ini ndinofunga izvo zviripo mukusawirirana zvinogona kuwanikwa zvakanyanya mumagariro zvikonzero. Funga nezvekusiyana kwezviito nemafungiro, kudzidzira unhu, basa, boka revanhu, nezvimwewo. Nenhamba iri kukura yevakadzi vakadzidza nevarume vakasarira shure, wakatarisana nevakadzi vane basa rakanaka uye varume vane basa rakaderera. Kana mukadzi asingadi murume asinganyanyi kugwinya, kana kuti murume asingadi mukadzi akakwirira pasocial ladder (muhoro wakawanda, mapepa ari nani, basa rine mukurumbira, zvichingodaro), zvinhu zvinoshata. Asi pabeermat yangu kusawirirana kwangu hakusi kure zvinokatyamadza kubva pa1 kusvika ku1.
Kutsvaga nekutsvaga, ndipo pane dambudziko. Ndinoziva kuti kune varume nevakadzi vakawanda vakanaka muNetherlands kana Thailand. Asi kuwana mumwe munhu anosangana nerondedzero yezvishuwo kwakaoma kana iwe ukatanga kuita (zvimwe) zvinoda. Anofanira kukwanisa kuseka newe, kufunga zvakada kufanana newe, kusapindwa muropa kana hunhu hunogumbura, kuwana nguva yako, kusatsamira pauri, kuzvimiririra asi kukudawo mune dzimwe nzvimbo nezvimwe zvakadaro zvichingodaro. , zadza rondedzero yekuravira. Uye ipapo iwe unofanirwa kudhumhana nemunhu akadaro zvakare uye kuyedza kubata. Kuwana mudiwa akanaka zvinobva zvanyanya kuoma.
Ndinofunga kuti uri kuyedza uye nekuyedza kushandisa pfungwa yekuMadokero kumamiriro ekuMabvazuva. Uye izvozvo hazvishande zvachose ....
Munharaunda isina kuenzana zvakanyanya uye umo Thais anongoshamwaridzana nevanhu verudzi rwavo, boka uye mhuri, uye zvakare kuwana wekugara naye ipapo, kukwira pasocial manera kuburikidza newanano ndeye chete yevakadzi vanoyevedza veThai vane mudiki. murume wekushamwaridzana nemabviro akapfuma uye uko mhuri yakapfuma inobvumira. Kanganwa nyaya dzese pamusoro pekusiyana kwemaitiro nekufunga, kusiyana kwedzidzo, basa, mapepa ari nani, nezvimwe.
Tsvaga uye uwane: zvichiri michato yakati wandei yakarongwa, saka mhuri (kana baba naamai) inotsvakwa kwete mukadzi wechidiki/murume. Kunyanya kuwanda kupfuura zvaunofunga (zvakare mumatunhu akakwirira). Ndinosiya mutongo wekuti zvakanaka here kana zvakaipa kune vamwe. Kurambana kwakakwirira munyika dzakawanda umo vechiduku vanozvisarudzira.
Dambudziko harisi kutsvaga nekuwana.
Dambudziko, ndinofunga, rakanyanyisa kutarisira hukama (kana kugadzirwa nevezvenhau uye firimu renyika: vazhinji vechidiki vechiJapan havachadi hukama nekuti bonde rinogara riri shoma pane mumabhaisikopo) uye kushoma kudisa. kubvumirana kuti uwane kuita uye kuchengetedza vamwe kufara.
Kazhinji, dambudziko iri rinoitika kwese kwese uko vakadzi vakawanda vari kudzidza uye vane dzidzo yepamusoro mumakore achangopfuura. Zvakare semuenzaniso muNetherlands kana Sweden uye zvakare Japan.
Izvo rob.V inowedzera pamagumo inoitawo basa guru: vazhinji vevarume vanozogona kukwira mumaziso evakadzi ava havadi vakadzi ivavo! Kwete nekuti vese ingochani, asi nekuti vanoda mukadzi anozviisa pasi uye ane hanya. Uye saka hapana zvakawanda zvingasarudzwa zvevakadzi.
Uye hongu-yatove yatotaurwa, iyo yose yakarebesa tsika dzeIsanse dzinoti vazhinji unofanira kuremekedza kuitira kuti uenderane nehuchenjeri hwezvikepe: iyo roora, nezvimwewo. Shamwari dzangu dzeBKK dzinotaura zvakafanana nezvazvo. Chiratidzo chekusarira shure kukuru. Vanasikana vanoonekwa semombe - kukora nekudaro kubvunza mutengo wepamusoro pamusika.
Dzimwe nguva ndinonzwa kusachengeteka nedhipuroma rangu reHAVO nebasa remuhofisi. Ndinogona kunge ndisiri nyore, asi handina mapepa kana basa rine chimiro, hapana Benz pamberi pemukova. Ipapo ini ndicharasikirwa nehuremu kune vamwe vakadzi, asi murume wangu anofanira kuunza kanenge hafu yetani pamwedzi kana chimwe chinhu kune vamwe vakadzi. Ini pachangu, handingatarise kuti mumwe wangu ane basa repakati kana rakanaka. Ini ndinoda kuva pasame page pakufunga, asi kuti ane bachelor's degree here kana master's ane chinzvimbo chakanaka, handinei nazvo. Handizorasikirwe nehope kana imwe hafu yangu ikaisa zvakawanda muhari yemba kupfuura zvandinoita. Kuzviisa pasi? brrr
Ingondipawo mukadzi akanaka, akangwara, ane simba, akazvimiririra.Anogona kubva kuThailand, Netherlands zvakare zvakanaka. Asi chingotarisai kusangana nevakadzi vakanaka, vakangwara. Ndave ndichitarisa-tarisa kweinenge gore ikozvino, nokuti kuva ndoga hakusi kwanguwo, asi handisati ndasangana nevakadzi chero zvakadaro vakaita kuti ndifunge 'wow, mukadzi akanaka!' . Ndinoziva vakadzi vakawanda vakanaka uye vanotapira (Thai) vakakomberedza zera rangu (vakakomberedza 30), asi pasina kubatana ikoko. Dzinongova shamwari. Pandinovabvunza kuti sei vachiri kuroora, mhinduro ndeyokuti havasati vasangana nemurume chaiye (pasina 'varume veThai hapana chakanaka' ngano).
Ndichiri kutarisa-tarisa, kana kuti ndinofanira kugadzira T-shirt? 'anopenga, akangwara, murume ari kutsvaga mukadzi anotapira, akanaka, akanaka, akangwara, akazvimiririra. Tenzi hapana kupikisa. Handina Benz, asi ndine moyo wakakura.' kana chimwe chinhu. 555
Sinsod iri zvakare muIsaan yakawanda uye yakawanda yekuratidzira. Patakazochata nerudo rwangu hazvina kumbotaurwa. Iye akati: iwe wakabhadhara zvakanyanya bato muNetherlands (yaive bhajeti rine musoro, handisi kuzoshandisa zviuru zveeuro), saka ndichabhadhara muno muThailand (zvizhinji zvacho), asi iwe unofanirwa fambisa imwe mari yeSinsod show, asi isu tichaidzosera mushure mepati. Hapana kupera nguva. Uye kubva pane zvandinonzwa, handisi musiyano.
Ndakaverenga zvakawanda pano pamusoro pekuchema kwevakadzi ivavo. Vasikana vemumabhawa vanozivawo kuita kuti varume vanyanye kushata. Ini dzimwe nguva ndinombozvibvunza kana paine mumwe murume kana akajairika anofamba muThailand?
Chinosetsa ndechekuti tichiri kumirira nyaya dzevarume ivavo nekuti hapana anoita seanoziva maversion iwaya??
Zvikasadaro ndinoona varume vakanaka uye vakashinga muIsaan vane chekuita nekunwa fodya uye mukadzi asina kutendeka …….
Kutaura chokwadi, ndaneta nenyaya idzo dzakabatwa nevakadzi ivavo……anonwa shavishavi uye akarova……Chokwadi vese ingirozi.
Kuroora inongova chiratidzo mumatunhu ari nani. Mutambo wechinyakare saka hausisina basa.
Iko kutumira kune 'musika wewanano wevakadzi vakadzidza kukoreji'. Ikozvino handina chokwadi chekuti munyori anorevei nekudzidza: chikoro chesekondari, koreji (bba, mba, ph.d). Uye kupedzwa kana kwete?
Rega nditange ndataura kuti kuyunivhesiti uye kumba ndinongotarisana nevakadzi vakapedza kanenge dhigirii reBBA (dzimwe nguva muThailand chete, dzimwe nguva zvakare MBA nePh.D kunze kwenyika). Munzvimbo yangu yekugara - ndinofungidzira - vangangoita gumi muzana vakapedza dzidzo yekuyunivhesiti (kazhinji mayunivhesiti eRajabaht). Ngatitii uye tinyore mumwe wevandinoshanda navo vechikadzi vekuThai (vese vari pakati pemakumi maviri nemashanu nemakumi mana) akaroora uyezve kwete zviri pamutemo pamberi pemutemo. Vashoma ingochani uye ruzhinji harwuna kuroora kana kuti kwete, mushure mekukundikana kwewanano. Nzira imwe cheteyo inoshanda kuvakadzi vemunharaunda yangu.
Pane zviitiko zvitatu zvandinotenda zviri kukanganisa musika wekuroora wevakadzi vemakoreji ekukoreji:
1. kuwedzera kudisa pfuma kana kuti kutenga: roorano inofanira kupa vimbiso dzoupenyu hunotsiga nezvimiro zvokudisa zvenyika zvakada kufanana neizvo munhu anofarikanya zvino. Iwe unogona kuenda kunorara nemurume chero upi zvake uye mikana yacho haina muganho kubva pakaunzwa internet uye kufambidzana masaiti uye maapplication.
2. Kuwedzera kuzvivimba kwevakadzi. Kunyangwe vamwe vangu vechikadzi vandinoshanda navo kubasa vachinyatso kuzviisa pasi kune manejimendi uye nepamusoro (uye vasingamboshoropodze) ivo vanonyanya kutsoropodza pamusoro pezvinhu muhurukuro yega. Izvi zvinoshandawo kune avo vatinoshanda navo vakadzidza uye vakatogara kunze kwenyika kwemakore. Ini ndinofungidzira kuti ivo vanotsoropodzawo kana zvasvika kune vanogona kufambidzana navo.
3. Kuparadzana (zvichida kupatsanurwa kuri kukura) pakati pezvimiro zvenguva refu munzanga yeThai (vabereki vanotsvaga wekuroorana naye, vanoziva zvakakunakira, usaroore nekuda kwerudo asi nekunetseka/kugombedzera vana, kusatenderwa kunobvira kwevadiwa vakazvisarudzira, maitiro echirume/echikadzi akajairika mubasa uye mumba) uye mafungiro erudo ekuMadokero ewanano. Zvinondishamisa kuti michato yekutanga yevakadzi vakarambwa (kusanganisira mukadzi wangu) inorongwa nevabereki. Vanhu havadi kuita chikanganiso ichocho zvakare uye vari kutsvaga neshungu dzerudo uye kuenzana kunoratidzika kunge kushomeka muThai varume. Ipapo hapana muchato. Zvirinani hapana hukama pane hukama hwakaipa. Zvepabonde (dzimwe nguva zvichiperekedzwa nemhando dzemubairo senge mari, mota, kubhadhara mabhiri uye zvikwereti) uye hukama huri kuramba huchibviswa, sezvakangoita kwese kwese pasirese.
Kana Western 60+ vachikwanisa kuwana shamwari 10-20 makore vadiki uye vakapedza kudzidza havana, saka izvo zvinoreva chimwe chinhu nezvekuzviremekedza kwavo.
Kana vachinyatsoda hukama, mvura ichawedzerwa kuwaini uye kana vasingadi, vanopinda mungozi yehurombo nokukurumidza kana vasisina basa.
Naizvozvo hukama hausi hako rudo, asi kuyera sarudzo dzinoshanda kune ese ari maviri mukufamba kwenguva.
MuNL uye BE une humbozha hwekusarudza nekuti pakupedzisira nzanga inova nechokwadi chekuti unogona kuwana chokurarama nacho munguva dzakaipa. Munyika isiri yerubatsiro zviri nani kuti iwe uzvisarudzire nezvezvakanakira ramangwana.
Mhuri dzinoita zvakanaka dzinoita, sezvakaita muNL (kunyanya munguva yakapfuura), michato yakarongeka uye murongo kana murongo anogona kuva mhedzisiro yeizvi.
Muvakidzani wangu mhiri kwemugwagwa ari pakadai….sezvo akagamuchira 24 miriyoni baht pamwe chete nomudzimai wake uye seimwe imba itsva kubva kuvabereki vake.
Kutanga kwakakwana kweramangwana idzva.