Ni da budurwata mun yanke shawarar yin aure a wannan shekara. A cikin Netherlands ko Thailand, ba kome ba. A kowane hali, inda takarda ta kasance mafi ƙasƙanci kuma mafi mahimmanci - tare da mafi ƙarancin jira / lokacin juyawa, inda dole ne mu kasance a cikin ƙasar aure don hanyoyin daban-daban.
A ranar 4 ga Fabrairu, 2020, na je ofishin jakadanci na Belgium tare da matata ta Thai (an yi aure kafin Buddha) don yin aure a ƙarƙashin dokar Thai tare da neman neman takardar visa D "saɓawar iyali". An hana mu aure a Thailand bisa dalilin cewa mun hadu ne kawai a Thailand tsawon makonni 7.
Matata ta tafi hutu a Belgium da fasfo a watan Yuli, kafin nan, mun yi aure bisa doka a watan Oktoba a ofishin jakadanci na Belgium da ke Bangkok, wanda ofishin jakadanci ya amince da shi. A ranar 20 ga Oktoba, na so yin rijistar wannan aure a zauren taro na gari, sai aka sanar da ni cewa za a fara gudanar da bincike saboda auren jin dadi kuma zan jira watanni.
Na san budurwata Thai tun Fabrairu 2016. Mun nemi Visa ta ɗan gajeren lokaci a watan Maris da niyyar yin aure (an riga an tsara shi a ƙaramar hukuma ta). Yanzu haka mun samu sako daga ofishin mai shigar da kara na tarayya cewa an ki karbar takardar ne saboda rashin isassun shaidar alaka.
A lokacin, a cikin Maris 2011, na yi aure a Tailandia bisa ga doka a Bangkok, daga baya kuma na yi aure bisa ga tsarin addinin Buddah. Da a ce komai ya halalta, an fassara shi yadda ya kamata, kuma da isar Beljiyam aka ba da takardar shaidar aure a zauren gari na don yin rajistar aurena. Sai aka ce min zai dauki kimanin watanni 6 zuwa 7 kafin in samu amsa.
Ofishin Shige da Fice na zargin cewa masu aikata laifuka daga kasashen waje sun shiga auren jin dadi domin su zauna a Thailand bisa doka. A kwanakin baya ne hukumar ta PACC ta sanar da hukumar zuwa wata gunduma a yankin arewa maso gabas, inda mata 150 a kasar Thailand suka auri wata bako a watannin baya. Wannan adadin yana da yawa ba a saba gani ba. Akwai zargin cewa wadannan aure ne na jin dadi,' in ji shugaban ofishin Nathathorn.
Tambayar mai karatu: Karamar hukumata ta Belgium ta ce aurena da ɗan Thai aure ne na jin daɗi
Ni dan Belgium ne kuma na yi aure bisa doka a watan Afrilu a Thailand (Bangrak) ga wata macen Thai. Yi duk abin da ya halatta a Harkokin Waje, sannan a fassara shi zuwa Yaren mutanen Holland kuma a halatta shi a ofishin jakadancin.
'Netherland tana da tsananin tsauri ga 'yan gudun hijira tare da abokin tarayya na waje'
Dokokin da Sakataren Gwamnati Fred Teeven na Shari'a ya taɓa tsarawa don yaƙar auren jin daɗi suna da tsauri da tsauri. 'Yan kasar Holland da ke da abokan huldar kasashen waje ne wannan abin ya shafa, in ji dan majalisar D66 Gerard Schouw.