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Home » Reader question » Reader question: Looking for a Thai woman for a permanent loving relationship
Dear readers,
After long hesitation. For some time I read the Thailand blog with great pleasure. I read a lot of messages from men with a Thai wife. I have been to Thailand many times, but I never dared to take the step, literally looking for a Thai woman.
Meanwhile, also by reading all your messages, the desire is getting stronger, to actually look for a Thai woman. But how? Does anyone know honest reliable sites? Does anyone know of any special agencies? Also in Thailand? Or are there special contact options in the Netherlands?
For the record: I would like a steady loving relationship. When everything has calmed down a bit I will go to Asia again, like every winter.
Greetings and thanks,
Sander
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I think the best through a friend who lives in Thailand, will know quite a single woman who is looking for farang.
Don't look too desperate, let it come to you.
Good luck !!
It's not about reliable sites.
What it's mainly about is someone who really cares about your person, on every site there were money wolves or sweet ladies looking for a sugar daddy, be alert to that.
Well-intentioned advice, I have some experience.
Anyway, good luck!
PS.
A free site: date in Asia
Difficult to find a right lady through online dating, but certainly not impossible. Be prepared to put in a lot of time and be critical. With my first lady there were very conflicting signals. Ultimately having to give up the relationship after 17 months due to its unstable character and full of lies. I should have responded to those conflicting signals much sooner. Second lady gave up after two months because she had strange thoughts. Three and four: it quickly became clear that they were scammers. The fifth was a success: she became my wife. How did this success come about: very long chats and video chats. So you have to find someone who really means it. Lady with immature children almost always poses problems or concerns. You need to find a lady who wants to leave everything with peace of mind. This does not mean that she should break off her family and friend relationships. I specifically looked for a lady without children. My wife was a childless widow.
My tips :
Make it quickly clear that the lady should not count on financial support. Golddiggers lose weight immediately.
As the relationship progresses, everything should be negotiable, with respect.
Make it clear that you want honesty, but also give of yourself.
Provide many conversations.
Be strict with yourself. In case of bad feeling, lies or inappropriate demands: end the relationship.
Quote: “You have to find a lady who wants to leave everything with peace of mind.”
That lady may also desire this from you.
My girlfriend at the time, now a woman, had a daughter and the second question I asked her when our relationship took on serious forms: Your daughter also wants to come to the Netherlands. Wouldn't want for the world a woman who leaves her own children behind, but rest assured that's my opinion and you can feel free to have a different opinion.
That one sentence is indeed expressed too one-sidedly. But actually we agree. That's why I tried to find a childless woman. But she still could have become a woman with children. For a woman, the children always come first. And that's how it should be.
For 2 years my Thai wife and I have been looking for a reliable foreign friend for my wife's attractive 50 year old Thai girlfriend.
My wife and I would like to play a mediating role in this if the questioner Sander can give me his email address so that I can contact him.
If the editors do not post this comment because TB is not a dating site, then all understanding.
Khaki
Good afternoon,
Here's my email address: [email protected]
Who knows.
Kind regards, Sander.
Sander, there are enough honest Thai women, not gold diggers but honest women. You don't meet them in the bar or other alcoholic business. Just in the supermarket or on the beach. And as Stefan wrote it, talk a lot and demand honesty. Open conversations, if she starts like, can you give me some money for food or something else it's already wrong. This kind of women gives a wrong image of the average Thai woman. I myself have had a sweet and caring wife for years who has never asked me for money. I always have to ask if she needs anything else. Yes, if you take a Thai woman, there is also a family attached to it and they are very close to the family. But that doesn't mean you have to bear the costs for everyone at the same time.
A woman with small children is more difficult than one with grown children because they are on their own and are happy that their mother has found someone and give a lot of respect. I think the women are only out for money through the sites, better on your next visit is to walk around and you will find one.
Good luck, Jan
Dear Sander,
As said above,
While calling each other, write down what she says, rather record it.
Compare your conversation with the previous one, if there are other answers, then ask her.
After 5 conversations, the bad ones fall through the basket.
Go on a date with several ladies, the bad ones will fall off naturally.
Each time, make a list of questions you ask her.
It is quite normal that she asks about your income and also asks about her work and income.
Just for comparison;
A girl behind the cash register earns 9.000 Baht
a starting teacher 12.000 baht with projects (maximum 2) 6.000 baht extra.
A higher educated manager 25.000 to 50.000 Baht
a director of a large company as much as 240.000 Baht.
Funny of all is that Thai ladies are advised the same on Thai dating sites.
Distrust is a bad start to a long-term relationship. Honesty is the best policy.
If you met a nice lady don't immediately assume the worst, just assume your feeling.
I met my current wife 7 years ago on the ThaiLoveLinks (TLL) site, now ThaiCupid. But on that site, like everywhere else, you also come across many less good ladies. Read Stefan's message very carefully, it contains many good tips!!! Provide a good and clear profile, where perhaps one of the most important questions is “where are you willing to live?” Be surprised by the many responses after registration, but definitely don't believe everything. Scammers can sometimes be found by the response time of an answer - that answer is then given by a good English-speaking person... But take the time to get to know someone well online first. Then first visit Thailand without obligation, with an alternative plan in your back pocket... If you are lucky, like me, something very beautiful can arise!!! Good luck !!!
thaifriendly look there you have good and bad people everywhere
if you are not sure https://thethaidetective.com/en/
they can do background research on your possible partner speaking Dutch
My good friend Jos passed away a few months ago.
He had a very sweet and helpful wife of 49 years old.
However, he left her nothing. The greatest need is now being emptied by his family, but she also understands that this cannot continue for long.
She has had to get rid of the car and does sewing for 3000 baht a month and is desperately looking for a man who can support her.
Are you that man and do you want more info, mail me at: [email protected]
Dear Sandra,
My name is johnny and I have a small relationship agency so I keep costs low
If you want to know more, you can email me and I can provide you with more information
Kind regards johnny from Nakhon Sawan Thailand
my email is:[email protected]
To be honest, I'm now wondering why you want to get to know a Thai woman. Yes, of course, there are very nice women here and I myself married a Thai woman and am happy with it.
But when I got to know her, it wasn't that I really wanted a Thai girl. I found and find Asian looking women the most attractive. It could also have become a Japanese-Brazilian or Chinese…. I do not know. If only that woman was nice enough and could put up with me.
Coincidentally, it became a Thai.
Don't be blinded by nationality. The world is full of nice, kind women.
I think thaiflirting is a good site
Sorry to put it that way, but with a woman you have to be lucky, just like with a car.
Nothing is guaranteed and over time everything can change.
My experiences have already made it clear to me that it doesn't matter how good you think you are and how you do it.
Honest conversations don't matter either, at least it can matter to you, if you are critical enough and act from that, also negatively through termination.
You must be. Anything you say can and will be used against you at times.
You can create a profile in tagged (free) and start looking, as said dateinaisa is also one of those.
I tagged out my current relationship, a Thai officer. She is 53, I am 61. Already 5.5 years, but there are also changes in time. I've been surprised a few times in that time.
But the same in other relationships. It seems normal these days that changes take place in relationships and they end. Keep that in mind, especially financially.
Not just your own experiences, but countless experiences of others. Nice, those rose colored glasses, but keep your wits about you. Watch your heart, because when it gets cracked it's no fun. It's life, but sucks.
In a relationship, it's not perfect living but living with imperfections.
However, that limit will have to set yourself in the whole.
Wish you luck and love, but watch those rose colored glasses.